As long as Benny isn't treating Selena like shit, their relationship is none of my business.

Trying to tell a grown woman how to live her life is hilarious like I’m no Selena fan but the way her fans try to tell her what to do is hilarious like I hope she marries this mf so her fans will learn their place

I love how everyone can “tell” how he’s a “bad guy” or a “horrible person” but y’all can’t identify the red flags in your own relationships? 😂

Nah I’m on Selena’s side. Literally leave her alone. She’s the only who’s with him not you. Let it go

"Fighting your fans for a man is embarrassing"? Lmao naw What is embarrassing?Is these people being so obsessed with a celebritg who doesn't even know them 💀 You are so obsessed with this person that you expect her to listen to your words and dump somebody that she loves? For you? THATS weird. People are mad because of how Benny looks. Period. Who cares if he shades pop stars who have a make up brand. If that is the worst thing I could experience with a partner, I'd be incredibly grateful. Her "fans" are being gross and judgmental

I don't understand the people telling her he's not a great guy. She's a grown woman, she can make her own decisions, if he turns out to be a bad guy, so be it??? But those are her choices, people need to stop babying her tbh.

The guy interviewing Benny WAS BRUTAL LMAO. He kept backtracking but also kept going 😂😂😂

the amount of bodyshaming i've seen regarding this relationship is insane, so sad thought we were better than that

Who else found Spill Sesh one day and just cant stop watching her videos?

I feel kinda hurt for Benny in that interview . To be spoken about how you look everyday I can never imagine the emotional damage and self insecurity’s that are building up because of other people . We need to do better as a society .

I feel really bad for Benny. I think its way too low to comment on someones appearances

Lmao wait, he does look like the guy from Ice Age 😂

Why did people think that she was going to go after a guy that is like socially attractive? She’s happy he’s happy. He cares about her. She cares about him like leave it alone. I feel bad for the guy.

If she’s getting treated amazingly.. Looks ?? Do they matter that much?

I think it's absolutely ridiculous that strangers legitimately believe they know Selena's insecurities and what's best for her. Like STOP! And bringing up how someone's appearance is less than standard... that's in your eyes, not anyone else's. People are SO WEIRD.

I'm just shocked she actually replies to trolls. With as many followers/fans she has and how big she is in the industry, she actually replies which means she also reads that many comments too.

Honestly I went down a rabbit hole of this guy and honestly he's so chill. I think people just HATE ethnic looking people

Idk why people think they know whats best Selena... Let the girl live. And so fucking what if he made a silly comment 3 years ago. Just because he mentioned Justin doesnt mean hes referring to Selena either..

I’m not Selena’s biggest fan, but if they are happy that’s what matters! She loves who he is for WHO HE IS and he seems to love her for being her.

You can't be a unicef world ambassador and not speak out against genocide...

She needs to go back to not running her socials 💀 I feel like she's been wreaking havoc in her own reputation for the past 2 years

the same fans that talk sh!t about Benny's looks are the same ones that want Selena and Justin back together. That man literally treated her like trash.

Not that I care about any of these celebs but people telling her Benny isn't good for her are kids still hoping for a reunion with Bieber. The same kids who keep fighting Hailey for "snatching JB away."😂😂 Get off your diapers!

I think it’s great to spread more awareness about how toxic social media can be. And how taking breaks once in a while is healthy. Also I can respect standing up for your relationship when you’re legitimately happy. No matter what people say about shallow things like looks. If she forgives him for those past comments, then it could have the potential to be the real thing. Who knows.

I guess i’m part of the percentage of people who actually love their relationship!! I find them so adorable! And I also find Benny attractive.

Y'all worried abt the wrong things.. the real problem is him posting his child naked on the internet full of creeps

Relationships are not for public consumption. He seems like a great guy tbh. People who talk about his looks are immature. There is much more to a person other than what they look like.

This is so disgusting. Imagine if the world was dissing a woman in that way, the world would be in an upoar. But just because benny is a man it's ok to go after his looks??

This is why celebrities hate their fans. You can support someone’s art/music without being so invested in their personal lives.

Selena Gomez is in the top 5 most people followed on IG. And now she's telling people it was just her marketing team running the page for her and she didn't even check what they were putting out for 4 years?

Benny just needs to hire a stylist or something to give him that non surgical glow up on par to Jack Harlow.

I don’t understand why she keeps replying to everyone on ig

She has enabled and used her fans for years. Especially when they go after people she does not like. Obviously now the fans think they get a say because they've been doing her dirty work for so long. The celebrities that weaponized parasocial relationships haven't really seen the negative sides of them yet.

He actually looks like a nice guy. I wish them the best

What do Selena fans expect from someone who’s built a career off a victim complex? Like that’s her whole aesthetic 😂 respectfully she’s always going to “clap back” because her fans enable her behavior just stop talking about her and she’ll be fine

All drama aside. How is it normal to bully someone for their looks ? In this self-confidence, body-positive society ? Let the man be, he's more successful than any of us.

Selenas fans telling her how to live her life yet they go back to an ex who cheats on em is WILD 😂

I've never cared for her. Selena. Also, imo selena received all thise followers the wrong way aka other ladies getting bullied while her numbers grew. Her speaking voice is 😖

I really wish happiness to Selena, but her man gives me bad vibes

Her fans actually dont have to think he is attractiv. Only she has to think that

Idk why people knock her make up line. I’m not even a fan of her music, but her make up is amazing. The only celeb line that’s good imo. Idk about the new lotions she’s come out with, but the rest is so good

At first I was neutral about Benny because I don’t know who he is outside of these videos about him. But he was shiiiiiiitty about Jollibee. Super disrespectful. Not so neutral now.

Was it just a rumor or did Benny post really gross videos of his child a while ago?? When ppl do stuff like that, I never have respect for them again. Everyone in the comments are saying he's a good guy, so maybe it wasn't true.. I'm just confused lol

Selena Gomez fan base is rabbit, they don't know who he is. He was making fun of her years ago, yeah because he was Justin's friend and you talked bad about the ex. Until, he actually knows who she is and was like I want to tap that. Allegiance changes when you start dating a person.

She looks happier than ever and he seems like the sweetest guy !! Not to mention incredibly talented. I’m happy for them and would love to see them make music together

Selena’s fans can be so toxic. They feel entitled to say hurtful words and dictate how she behaves under the guise of care. Even to a family member, maybe I would give them warnings but never act condescending like that. Edit: the word “toxic friend/family member” comes to my mind.

Lmao she never took a 4yr break

I just feel like since she was young she had this persona of being the ‘girl next door’ that she doesnt even realise she can fo wrong and her behaviour on so many different issues had made me lose more and more respect for her each time.

Benny reminds me of Abel funny enough. Maybe shes trying to relive her weeknd days.

I find him endearing and adorable and you can tell that he speaks with loads of sarcasm and I’m happy that she’s happy. Outward appearances aren’t shit they really aren’t and I think he’s handsome as all hell, I really do, then after finding him on TikTok his personality makes him even more so. No one is perfect and if you are, you spent a hell of a lot of money to get that way.

Salina needs to totally ignore those from the peanut gallery who denounce her current relationship😺

Leave Benny alone !!! He has lupusssssssssss

They should totally dress up as beauty and the beast for halloween as a response

Love when you post, I can finally eat in peace 💞💞

I'M NOT SHOCKED! He gives her everything she needs! Looks mean NOTHING! When will people understand that? Quit judging!

I've said it once and I'll say it again Selena's 'fans' are her biggest enemies-

She’s been in so much drama that I refuse to believe she’s the victim EVERY single time.

At last she came to know how toxic her fandom is I'm living for the drama but the way thy treating Benny is disgusting

Parasocial relationships are so weird. People feel entitled to their opinions because they think they know the person from social media. 😂

People need to worry about their own lives

He looks like the kind of guy who could truly make Selena happy

I am literally watching this channel EVERY DAY😂

*_Those jerky fans are miserably bizarre! Thinking they have a right to someone else’s intimate relationship?! What they would do & what she should do?! They ALL need to find a real life productive hobby._* 😳

So what if he isn't attractive to y'all he clearly treating her better than Justin ever did 🤦🏽‍♀️ like y'all needa worry about y'alls relationship

It's interesting she doesn't have the same attitude towards speaking up against genocide when her fans tell her how important it is only if it's about her

it's kinda ironic tho because when justin was dating sofia richie she was lashing out on him because he was defending her from fans lol

The fans who hate Benny and tell her he’s bad are some of the same fans who still wanna see “Jelena” back together 🙄

Selena is chronically online..which is a shame because she doesn't use it well. Just 3 months ago she was interacting with old non-viral hate tiktoks online and it fuels her fans against other women and that has been going on for a long time, over a decade easily. She has sicked her fans on several women such as Miley Cyrus, Barbara Palvin, Cailin Russo, Sophia Richie, Bella Hadid, the Jenner sisters and of course her favorite Hailey Bieber. I DO genuinely hope Benny is end game for her, I get what she meant when she said "so off" to that fan. She is ready to settle down and she chooses Benny. He seems to treat her very well, that's what matters. She wanted to be married by 25..she is in her 30's now. She snapped at her own fans over him so let her be with him. I hope he gets her to a place where she can step away from social media again !! A lot of her fans have turned away from her because of her encouraging fans to drag other women, so she needs to take a step back for the sake of her image.

Fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE whats going on, and they have no right to order her around. Shes a grown woman who can make her own decisions.

Spill Sesh and Sloan are my tea updates ❤

The reality is, you’re not a real fan if you don’t support your girl in a healthy relationship but try to bully her back into a relationship with Bieber. You don’t care about her, you care about your sick fantasy. I’m so happy Selena finally found someone who treats her like the absolute Queen she is.

I don’t like her anymore but why do people think they have a right to comment on her relationship. Or think she owes them anything. Keep your opinion to yourself and let her date whoever she wants it’s no one’s business.

People need to mind their own business lol parasocial relationships are getting out of control especially when everyone dogpiles on someone (like they did with Selena and Hailey) and then one person will be like the bullying (that everyone started for no reason because of control parasocial relationships) is too much now guys and then everyone loves the person they were bullying and by doing that they bully someone else and it’s a really bizarre online cycle that never stops it’s so weird

they go well together, end of discussion.

I like Benny, he seems like a nice guy, people are way too harsh on him and Selena deserves all the love, people should leave them alone

people blame her for how she reacts to shit online but then try and control who she dates. like if i had that many people coming at me i'd probably get frustrated too.

She's a public figure, not public property her toxic fans should stop trying to control her love life and fix themselves for being so involved in a celebrity who doesn't know their existence

She should just block the comments 😂

I think it’s one thing for Benny of saying something off and then it’s another thing when he gets to know her and then he’s dating her. I just hope they’re having the best relationship with each other.. but that dude that was interviewing Benny like he really doesn’t like him or things he doesn’t deserve her. That’s kind of scary.

I always thought benny seemed like a very relatable and down to earth person. I saw him in a tv show called "dave" where he played himself and it was so funny. So when i heard he was with selena gomez now, i was genuinely happy for them ❤ and lets be real folks at the end of the day a person's character is so much more important than any looks...

It’s no one’s business who she’s fallen in love with and it just shows how superficial these people are. The most important thing is how a person is from the inside out before the outward appearance which if anyone knows someone who is funny, kind and a decent person would know how easy it is to fall in love with a man when he’s not ideally who you go for or would loo at…… but when there someone with substance, personality & funny it like a wow, ahhha moment. Couldn’t be more happier for her she deserve someone who loves her and treats her properly.

The people who bully him are the same one who get offended from literally anything.

Didn’t he post his child not clothed and just gross conversations that should be private

3:52 so is being worried about a celebrity’s, or anyone for that matter, love life.

The red headed guy is disgustingly mean

She, as well as many other celebrities, need to put up stronger boundaries earlier on with these fans. I think it's great she's holding her own. Honestly, if the key argument is based on looks then truly that's despicable. If he treats her like gold and she's attracted to him, that's what matters. Why do these "fans" feel like they should get to dictate such personal things? Seriously superficial horseshit

Can we agree this society pays too much attention to looks? Nobody has to be the hottest man or the hottest woman for you to date them, I dont understand why people pay only attention to that, and I get he's problematic but that's on selena

why does she talk like that in that first clip😭

I think aside from his looks…I just didn’t appreciate him talking that smack about her previously and him disrespecting Filipino culture. I’m happy if Selena is happy, but I can’t I find him to be a decent guy.

I love how everyone watched Justin treat Selena like literal SHIT, FOR YEARS... and still some are hardcore "Jelena" fans.... but Benny says ONE fucking barely shady comment years ago, not even known for sure if it was toward Selena.... and suddenly she's not doing what's best for her, she's with a loser, she deserves better, etc. What the fuck.

As long as he makes her happy that’s what matters and the most important thing she needs at the moment

This is why many people who criticize the Kardashians are hypocritical. The same people who slam them for promoting "unrealistic" beauty standards will turn around and criticize Benny Blanco for his looks.

I know how she feels. So many people called my husband so many names. Cause he was overweight and told me that he was a woman beater and that he was gonna hurt me and why not? Well, those she poured no longer in my life and my husband has been there for 28 years. Marriage 29 years together. Don't listen to the hate.

When you spend your limited lifetime telling celebrities who they should or shouldn't have relationships with, YOU are the embarrassing one. She likes him the way he is. He gives her something she loves and that's between them. She is finally happy and not lonely. No person who supports her will do that to her. Those are not fans those are trolls, pathetic trolls.

You didnt even mention him posting his naked child on tiktok thats the beef I have with him

if they're happy and the relationship is healthy, their relationship is no ones business. also a break can last anywhere to a few hours to a few days to a few weeks.

Why does it sound like she's holding her nose when she talks? She didn't always sound like that

“you’re so red…. you’re SO red.” 😂😂😂

Girl needs to protect her peace and stop replying to comments or all together not read them 🫠 shes a grown women who can date whoever she wants. Replying to those comments does nothing but make her look bad and its not helping AT ALL bc its feeding the fire

Does anyone else hate her speaking voice? 😖