SIR let me tell you very frankly and mujhe yh bolne mein koi hichkichahat nahi hai that I am a proud mother of a 3 year old daughter. My husband and my in laws are very supportive. I used to come to library at 9 AM and used to Go at 10 PM. Ghar jaane ke baad I dont have a single sec even to go to washroom because meri daughter mujhe pakad leti hai . I very well understand ki pure din mujhe vo nahi dekhti hai that's y she holds me up till the time she gets into sleep in my lap. I am working really hard from last 12 months for this exam. Sabkuch cover kiya hai , phir bhi self doubt, frustration har 2 din pe hota rhta hai and ofcourse the exam pressure. But dil se humesha ek awaz aati hai ki cant give up in the last. Aapka video dekh kar bhut acha laga Sir.. Thankyou for understanding the fear of every serious aspirants. Love from the bottom of my heart Sir

Ghar pr shadi ka pressure h , exam clear nhi hone ki vjh se now my parents dont trust me ..very toxic Environment not able to study ..all the time i m just crying

Thank you for making this video. I would revisit this many times I guess and would overcome my self doubt.

I will make it happen will give my best …3 august 2024….no preparation due to self doubt and stress…

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Thank you sir

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होके मायूस ना यूँ शाम की तरह ढलते रहिये ज़िंदगी एक भोर है सूरज की तरह निकलते रहिये ठहरोगे एक पाँव पर तो थक जाओगे धीरे धीरे ही सही मगर राह चलते रहिये...❤

Thankyou so much. It was so helpful and supportive 🥲

My self doubt: Im working as delivery boy works 9 to 4 then study for only 4 hours , bahut backlog ho gya h pta hi nhi chalta kaise hoga

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tnx sir for your words

Yes I trapped in a loop of bad days and backlogs ... And feeling self doubt ...

Good morning Sir.Turned 30 this year. Left a permanent job at Air Force School as a teacher. Always wanted to do UPSC & be an IAS, however I lacked the courage to do so. Last year I mustered up all my courage and took the decision to quit my job & started preparing religiously. For the past 1 year I am been studying, revising, giving tests & identifying the loopholes. Even after doing so,I still haven't been able to score the way I wanted. I was always a poor student in quant, so CSAT will always be a major hurdle for me. As of now, I can only do number syste, average, RC, reasoning and few other topics properly, rest I can't even understand, no matter koi bhi mujhe Kitna lucid tarike se samjhaye. For the last 1 month, I have been understand extreme stress & anxiety. Many factors contributing to it- backlogs just like Shivin Sir said, tests & revision, fear of failure. But since last week- I have reversed the narrative and I say this to myself every moment and everyday because I have risked my years of education, my confidence, my permanent job & a good stable carrier. So there's no option of going back, I say this - "Ankita bs ek aur hour, bs ek aur din padhle, tu kar payegi, tujhse hoga, tune life me bohot failures face kiye h, to ab kisi baat se darrna nhi." Now I believe that I am giving all that I have & if I still do not qualify, atleast I will have no regrets. I will give next one last attempt and call it off. If things will be in my favor, then well & good and if not atleast I will not have any regrets for the rest of my life. I will know that I did everything that was under my control. I think, right now whatever Shivin Sir had said resonates absolutely with each one of us who are struggling hard to have self belief. Thank you Sir for all that you been doing for us. Take care.

2020 me i passed out from school. I was a topper during my school time. It was during college that i stopped studying seriously and 3 years went blank. Now when i have started preparing all that goes on in my mind is that maybe i am not good enough for this exam because i have already wasted good three years of my college life in not studying. Self doubt kills me every day. I hope to rise above from it and get back on track someday.

Watched till end...

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You belong to those categories, where your parents are too supportive,.. How could we fight,where yours parents always says that, "tujse na ho payega, tu ladki hai shaadi karni hai, shaadi karle" and alongwith backlogs, hospital duty, self doubts, wrong pyq attempt... You are going to loosen in front of yourselves. But I am doing my best... Set Your Heart Ablaze...

Let's play again the gamble of UPSC @ our own risk,,,,😅 2023 ki Tarah UPSC isss baar CSAT mein fail kr diya to kabhi 🖊️ 📚 touch ni krunga 😅 I'm ready for 2024 😅 common UPSC hit me hard 😅 All the best to everyone!!!

Thank you so much sir! ❤Much needed talk.

Thank you shivin. You have been a back bone for me. You are becoming a part of life. Can't thank you enough.❤

Yes I am having self doubt!! But it will be okay . Thanks Shivin sir

Self doubts are normal

sir i was very cosistent for my studies till january. then after jan for one month i was just infront of my table in my room and i was not able to study well..and then i went to sleep..this continued for almost 50 days..i was really sad that i had missed those days..and this thought haunted me worsely....then after i again came on track and now ..only 11 days left for prelims iam disturbed with many thoughts and for that rson even today i was not able to study well..i planned my today for 15 hr and i only complete 3.. i dont know y it is like this...iam getting doubted preparation...i dont know..may everything end good..and iam trying to be more focused..

I feel like I 've lost my efficiency of studying and this leads me towards demotivation

I will clear UPSC PRELIMS 2024 ❤

daily targets pure nahi hote isliye self doubt aa jata hai

Much needed sir. Thank you so much

hume 3 saal hoge the relation mai hu aaj tak nhi mile par ya phone par bhi baat ki bus chat karte the or milne ka exam nikal ke socha tha par vo aaj bich ami hi 3 saal baad chod ke chali gyi or kisi or ladke se 4 mahine se chat kar rhi thi meri uspc ki preparation shi chal rhi thi optional bhi cover ho gya hai or mera first attempt 2025 mai hai par merse ab padhne ki himmat chali gyi bohot manya use maine bohot samjhaya use maine par ab vo kuch sun hi nhii ri or police station mai legal action lene ki dhamki deri mujhe kuch samjh nhi aaara kasie padhu mai vapas ,bohot guilt hora ki kisne use karke time pass karke chod diya,plss help me anyone who is reading that i m hopeless now ,and earlier i m confident that i will clear it in my first attempt

Im overthinker and Im elder daughter so much of pressure

I do feel a alot of times that maybe I'm not working that hard or maybe others are doing better, a constant question always comes to mind that if I'll be able to clear this exam or not.

Need of the hour . Thank you sir.

Thank you for the kind words❤. Can't say more than this

Self doubt hei mujhe ❤

dhanyavaad sir dil se... Radhe-Radhe❣❣

Kitna mehnat krti thi 10 hrs 12 hrs Lekin ab jb exam pass aa rhi pdhai v nhi ho rhi pehle k trah And self doubt to itna h ki lgta h kuch pdha hi nhi ......😢😢

Thank your for this video, it was really needed!

Sir, please conduct environment revision sessions..

Thank uhhhh so much Shivin Da...... for understanding & that much support 😊

Sir🙏

Wrote Vajiram FLT9 today. Had serious self doubt when I scored merely 35%ile. Comming to terms with it and trying my best not to judge my prep from it.

I get a feeling sometimes that I am forgetting a lot of things, sometimes I feel that exam me kahi silly mistake na jaaye, and the fear of being defeated by CSAT ..... These are things which come a wind . But in that moment I'll to my self "Just keep walking, help will arrive.....". And that is what I do.

Thank you so much for this video.

Shivin sir, thanks a lot for all your efforts ❤😊

May not complete 100 percent Target daily.but your guidance teach soo much consistency . Thank you Shrivin sir.. we are soo blessed to find a mentor. like you

Thank you so much sir!!✨❣️

But sir i know i couldn't given my best efforts 😅 and now im feeling so guilty about myself.

Yes sir I am also self doubt 😢

Backlog hai kuch subject abhi padha nhi hai revision kam hai csat ka phobia hai aur daily mind se aata hai ki is bar mai prelims nhi nikal paunga lakin maine padhai nhi chhodi hai mai daily padh raha hu but daily targets pura nhi ho pa raha hai ex geography Mai abhi Padhi raha hu aur economy start ho chuki😢

Thnku So Much Sir 🙏😇

sir november monthly magazine ka video aur notes ka pdf upload krdo please

I dont feel like studying. I dont know why. I am preparing from home and I feel kahi baahar chale jaata to achhe se padh paata. Samajh nahi aa rha. Yahi soch rha kese bhi prelims pass ho jaaye fir felhi chala jaunga

What a timing shivin sir... Most needed

Thankyou sir for your kind efforts, I am 23 have given 3 unsuccessful prelims till 2023 I was very clear that I want IFS only, now I have lot more priorities than just qualifying one exam especially after qualifying NET AP in Pol. Sci, CDS this year don't know whether to be excited for SSB or not, but I feel like let it go ultimately whatever I deserve, mujhe mil jyga by not stopping whatever I am doing....

I have a self doubt that no matter how hard I work it will never be good enough so I don't give my 100% and I always underperform I feel like I m wasting my potential

Thankyou Sir for the worldly advice...

I'm stucked in the cycle of getting self doubt and skipping exam, I have wasted two years of my life & now I regret !!!

Thank you Shivin Sir..✨🙏

I am doubting myself….why i have chosen

I just feel that i study very slow.. I mean everyday i sit for 10-12 hrs and still cant complete target and now all the backlogs have piled up and when i sit to study i get so much anxiety thinking what to study now... Everyday i plan my day and at the end of day i am never satisfied with myself...

Hello my name is Anil Kumar samay Hindi medium ka student hun sar mujhe 2025 mein first time dena hai day 1 se lekar 2025 Tak ka pura schedule and strategy main hamari help kijiye sir please 🥺

Exams make me extremely anxious! I prepare well most of the time but my self doubt and anxiety makes me mark the wrong things subconsciously almost. This spirals into my hands shaking and sweating which kicks in the self doubt more. I am trying to work on it and hopefully I will be better soon

Yes feeling very useless that Years of study and still Not able to clear pre Even after apperaing mains

Thank you so much Sir... ❤️

you are saviour for us sir. thankyou so much.

You are a saviour... Thankyouu ❣️

A much needed video !! 🙌

Yes, I am having self -doubt. But I will get through this phase! Thank you for this video sir. You are our guiding light!!!

Thank you so much Sir for your support 💯

Thnq so much bhaiya ❤

Love the way ❤

Sir 10th main mere 92.6 percent the but aaj 12th ka result aaya mere 81.8 hi bne😢ab na hi to kisi University main admission hoga or na hi maine cuet ki tyari ki agar usse hi college mil jaye feeling really depressed right now i don't know ab aage ki life kaisi hogi main drop bhi nhi lena chahti my goal is National defence academy,in which i failed in the past two attempts written bhi nhi hua now having a lot of self doubts pta nhi zindagi mein kabhi ku h aacha kr bhi paungi ya nhi😔,sir really need your guidance at this point of time, I hope you will reply

I am not able to sleep properly a lot of anxiety issues not able to concentrate got even worst with passing every day

Thanku shivin sir❤

Thank You So Much Sir 🥺🙏🙏

Really needed ❤❤this

Thank you so much sir for your support at this time😊

Thank you big brother and a true mentor❤

Much needed video , i am very thankful to you for this video

All the times i try my best to solve test ...even after that i got low marks. Constant low marks get me in the zone of self doubt again and again.

i acknowledge i have self doubt and i get into this never-ending vicious cycle of thoughts that make me want to skip the attempt. but i promise myself, from today i.e 11th may, 2023 i am going to work through it. not just for the sake of this exam but to learn to have a sense of control over how i feel and how i act upon it, to learn to control my Id which always has an easy alternate to escape problems. it wont happen in a day or two, but i am going to work to overcome it. i have worked hard for this exam, i am not going to let my anxiety and self doubt take it away from me. as much as it if impossible, i wish and pray we all get through because everyone working hard deserves to get what they did work for. thankyou sir, sometimes all one needs is the same conventional thing to be just reminded of. thankyou for being there.

Kabhi lgta h is bar mains ka exam denge definitely Kabhi lgta h ki prelims exam me blank Betha hu Try my best

muje bhi lag rha ki next year bahut aache se tayari kreugi and lagta hei ki mains k liye mei aache se tayar nhi hu to agar pre ho bhi jata hei to exam to clear nhi hogi....

Thankyou Bhaiya🦋❤

Thank you Sir 🙏

Thank u 🖤 always there….

Thankyouuu so much sir❤

Dear sir, Thank you ❤

I procrastinate

Thank you so much sir 🎉

Thank you so much Sir 🙏🙏🙏

Thank You Very Much Sir..... for this Support...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❣❣❣❣

i am facing self doubt

Thanks once again 🙏

I don't know whether it is self doubt or something else......pdhne ka Mann bilkul nhi kr rha....3-4 days ho gye h with zero studies....so confused and frustrated

Thankyou sir ❤

Thankyou so much sir🙏🏾🥹🙌

I have been sick for the past couple of days and the stress of not being able to finish my daily targets was making it so much worse. It definitely feels less lonely to know that I am not the only one filled with worry and self-doubt...Taking the day off from studies today to simply relax and calm down. Shall be restarting tomorrow with the motto to enjoy the remaining process. UPSC is a journey that tests all of ours perseverance and patience. Let's conquer it 💪

Thank you so much sir 🙏😊😊