Sex After Pregnancy - The Raw Truth

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3 жыл бұрын

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In this video Shan Boodram and Jared Brady, a married couple with a newborn baby discuss how their sex life has been since having their first child, including:
pain during sex
change in sex drive
the importance of foreplay
the vagina feeling looser
watching a woman give birth
desire
the a-spot
best positions
and more
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@shanboody 3 жыл бұрын

Re-upload ALERT (as many of you have noticed) - Irony is amazing isn't it? This video is sponsored by privacy.com and during our explanation of Privacy's service we displayed a screenshot that included a private address! I tried to fix it using KZfaq's in-edit service but it just wasn't working out so because it was only up for a day, I decided to just bit the bullet and take it down. If you noticed that means you showed up for me twice and I appreciate you double oxo

@gomolemophohole8514 3 жыл бұрын

Its

@gomolemophohole8514 3 жыл бұрын

So good we can watch it again🤗

@loritragerbee 3 жыл бұрын

Oh okay! I would love it if you did a video on how you readjusted your open relationship to being parents parents. If something changed or if everything stayed the same. I love your content and I am curious about open relationships in the context of a marriage/parenthood. Thanks!

@morgan.a.mcneill 3 жыл бұрын

I was super confused for a moment + came to the comment section to see if anyone said anything lol. I'm going to re-watch 🧡.

@ActivateLankz 3 жыл бұрын

I love u seriously I got 4 kids n my last one I struggled threw pregnancy and listing to you has made my life and partner make so much more sense.cant even put it in to words.really hope u see this 💕

@Pretty_privileged_ 3 жыл бұрын

I love how he is honest with her. He doesn’t seem like he’s intentionally trying to hurt her feelings but he isn’t afraid to hurt her feelings to express his truth

@bridgeidiot262 3 жыл бұрын

= a MAN. 💯

@dcjohnson2490 3 жыл бұрын

She respects him for it too.

@oshinofalakoju5749 3 жыл бұрын

Right! What a beautiful balance.

@morganmae8396 3 жыл бұрын

The openness, honesty, and trust you show in these videos is exactly what I want from a long term relationship. Role models.

@jesshill3844 3 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly

@Chiqsan 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@Chiqsan 3 жыл бұрын

Let's normalize talking to each other this way. I was uncomfortable but in a good way because I have never had a relationship this open and honest. I truly long for it. Man oh man!

@wakiwama6348 3 жыл бұрын

You literally said what I was thinking, but better!! 😍😍

@blackrockergurl09 3 жыл бұрын

When he apologized and she said you don’t have to apologize for that and he corrected her and said “why not” just shows how vulnerable they are with us as their viewers.

@solvemaria9163 3 жыл бұрын

I love how much Jared has grown as a speaker! We love to see it.

@jedidahkariuki5591 3 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking about that too!!

@shashavengesayi6055 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy KZfaq doesn't red flag such real and helpful content like this. Talking about sex is considered taboo to most ppl so it's really cool to see such a scintillating and honest discussion between lovers.

@thiscrazymind 3 жыл бұрын

I would like to see an episode about self pleasure in a relationship and on how to overcome the jealousy or insecurity that it brings to the partner inspired by the fragment at 5:03

@LaImagined 3 жыл бұрын

YES! I 100% agree.

@jayaitch88 3 жыл бұрын

Good lord you two are THE MOST REFRESHING couple on the damn internet! So so good and healthy. Your conversations are always incredibly mature and conducive to you both learning more about yourselves and each other. THANK YOU. Seriously.

@mariyap7689 3 жыл бұрын

Omg Shan the way you described what foreplay is for you, that’s a spot on for me, it’s way before sex, and almost not always sex related, it’s a conversation, it’s how my partner shows me he cares during the day.

@missmo2371 3 жыл бұрын

SAME!! I feel like alot of people dont understand this! 💕

@gina333 3 жыл бұрын

Shan needs to do a video on what she does to look so good in her mid 30s!! I always thought she was 27. *shook*

@uberfrozenglow 3 жыл бұрын

This conversation started so raw and opened that I’m not gonna lie, it scared me a bit. I’ll try to watch again tomorrow

@ryleereynolds5710 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@chicagogirl14 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate! I get emotional sometimes seeing people communicate well.

@aseasyas4cfro643 3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@nontobekokhuzwayo7269 3 жыл бұрын

Right!? I was shocked too😂😂😂

@cecybermudez3791 3 жыл бұрын

I’m 2 months pregnant & my body is going through some stuff & “sexy time” is last on my list. All these videos help me talk to my fiancé & understand his needs because pregnancy changes things a lot. I love how open y’all are with each other, it helps to sit, listen & understand so that the relationship/family is healthy & open.

@happyngulube633 3 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed that classic conversation

@muskanhira763 3 жыл бұрын

Fiance or husband?

@JohnsonKayla12 3 жыл бұрын

Hmm, wasn’t aware a woman’s wetness doesn’t coincide with their desire for sex. For me, it’s definitely an indication that I’m more mentally turned on the wetter I am. I will dry up like the Sahara desert the minute I mentally am not turned on. The opposite is true when I’m turned on mentally. Anywho, love this raw conversation.

@JohnsonKayla12 3 жыл бұрын

@Kaleen Cunningham (student) understood, so maybe they meant it the opposite way: just because you’re not wet doesn’t mean you’re not turned on. That makes sense to me now.

@NigeriaSimone 3 жыл бұрын

Yea it’s def not like that for everyone. Mine depends on the time of the month

@JobyJay 3 жыл бұрын

You can be very aroused and your body is stressed or tired and that can cause you to be dry... or not as wet

@Khalooloo 3 жыл бұрын

@@NigeriaSimone yes same for me

@AC-iw5mv 3 жыл бұрын

Trust me hormones can cause dryness

@minkiemonkey9 3 жыл бұрын

Shan, I love when you guys talk about you flirting out in the real world with other people. Can you talk more about this? Can you define what this looks like? Can you talk about the conversations you have/have had in order to set this boundary together? I'm just so intrigued by the beautiful liberty of this-- it seems like epitome of trust, confidence, and communication in a relationship. ❤️

@astridpro_ 3 жыл бұрын

I want this convo toooo please!!

@lexigrn1022 3 жыл бұрын

Commenting again to boost the algorithm

@vivianmorenikeji6981 3 жыл бұрын

This level of honesty and communication is just amazing to see

@jadegreen7612 3 жыл бұрын

you guys have some of the healthiest communication I have ever seen, I would love to model my future relationships off of these conversations. I think the honesty is so helpful

@yasminea6588 3 жыл бұрын

The authenticity even at the expense of sometimes hurt feelings is what I love about your channel. My man and I are so open others find it a struggle to relate, his own friends have stated some of the stuff he is comfortable telling me - they would never tell their girl. But I believe thats why we've lasted so long. Because we are blatantly honest within our own truths, and it oozes out with one anothers encouragement even more so.

@SophiaAnnaTheSickSexy 3 жыл бұрын

I love these conversations. They normalise so many life experiences that we as women don't necessarily talk about day to day! I'd love to just see the natural progression of marriage. For example: How has your sexual desire (if at all) changed from when you first met to now as new parents? Tips on keeping sexual desire alive during long term marriage etc

@MrsDMoore 3 жыл бұрын

“Weird extraordinary gift to hold two truths”- this really resonated with me 🤔

@emilyrawding6680 3 жыл бұрын

There are no words, still, for how much I appreciate and love seeing these open conversations between you. They are so healthy, set such a great example of communication, and are educational too. Thank you guuuuuys!! ❤️

@samikaysays 3 жыл бұрын

TWO THINGS CAN BE TRUE. I feel like this applies to so many things and more people could benefit from understanding this point.

@livingmillennialproduction1340 3 жыл бұрын

LOVE that you all had this conversation on air for folks to see the ease & comfortability that’s possible when discussing your needs and wants!

@kaleymae4063 3 жыл бұрын

LOVED the quality of this video!!! Jared, you’re getting so great at filming and editing. I love watching each video get better and better.

@gravyall0va 3 жыл бұрын

I love how you two really take the time to listen and hear each other without interrupting. I love this support and understanding and validating each other’s truth

@iloveanesthesia 3 жыл бұрын

I’m always so impressed at how much Jared has evolved as a speaker. You both are perfect at fostering each other’s growth. Much love, and great video!

@chanelsimone6072 3 жыл бұрын

This has been my fear of growing a family. I don’t ever, ever want to not desire my partner or have them not desire me.

@thatexcalifornian6124 3 жыл бұрын

You’re very fortunate Shan. Many men don’t see it the way he does. Some men after their wives have kids don’t think of them as sexual beings anymore. But it’s like they forget how their women became mothers in the first place.

@joyfulrealtor 2 жыл бұрын

That’s some. Majority do not.

@nyahsbeauty 3 жыл бұрын

Yess so happy you were able to re-upload to ensure your safety! Love and appreciate the content as always Shan! Congratulations on everything !

@elena3513 3 жыл бұрын

For the algorithm let's get this video trending this time - thx for your openness, so interesting and always a pleasure to watch your conversations

@jjones565 3 жыл бұрын

Jared said “when WE were pregnant” 😍✨🙌🏽 WHATTA MAN

@michelleheegaard 3 жыл бұрын

Gonna watch it again and have it on in the background! You guys deserve all the watch time in the world

@Godsgift2mankind09 3 жыл бұрын

This was the most refreshing and raw conversation about sex. I just discovered Shan and I will be a follower.

@sevendagod777 3 жыл бұрын

That "ok, good!" From Shan when they talked about lubrication made me laugh hard lmfao

@ayyo84 3 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate the open dialogue and honesty in this video. You and your lovely family are a gem.

@gravyall0va 3 жыл бұрын

LOVE the raw honesty of this whole video. On another note I could not stop staring at her dress. It was stunning! Those coin hammered buttons looked beautiful. I wish she would link this dress in the description 😍

@ShikaApathetic 3 жыл бұрын

Watching you two makes me smile all the time. I really like when you have these candid talks and how you communicate with each other.

@classical421 3 жыл бұрын

Love how open and honest you both are!

@brittbrattsmilesalot 3 жыл бұрын

I am sorry but I have to say this his bun is immaculate ...Like I just keep looking at it . ...like perfection

@shanboody 3 жыл бұрын

Ha! I’m gonna make sure he sees this comment

@rhiannon_pearl 3 жыл бұрын

Just had to pause the vid 3 mins in to say I love the editing on this! Your production quality just keeps improvin

@shanboody 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you I’m so so happy you noticed

@wedum4444 3 жыл бұрын

This conversation was so healing to me. thank you

@mamigetsreal4503 3 жыл бұрын

Love the open conversations!👏🏽 it’s also important to note that some mothers (myself included) due to postpartum anxiety/depression may have to take medications, which can also unfortunately decrease sex drive. 😒

@WhatabouttJo 3 жыл бұрын

I’m sure this has been said many times, but I just love you guys and your transparency.

@Yahisgood175 3 жыл бұрын

Dress details please, the chemistry and compatibility is amazing which is displayed throught this open and honest conversation.

@ivettegonzalez7232 3 жыл бұрын

y’all better comment, like and watch again

@KiwiCanadian11 3 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this video! I appreciate the open honesty, raw and unfiltered sharing of feelings whilst educating your viewers! I could relate to so many areas of your video which is a common thing with the topics you guys cover! Thank you, can't wait for the next one!

@B0mbflower 3 жыл бұрын

I really love these types of discussions between you two. It opens the conversation up between two people in such a healthy and consensual way that it just makes it seem so casual and not uncomfortable at all. I also appreciate the little things I learn along the videos I watch in regards to the biology of humans in regards to sex. Again I appreciate you two and your complete transparency and keep up the awesome work!!! I will definitely keep watching.

@tgirl8955 3 жыл бұрын

Still worth rewatching lol, glad you caught that sooner rather than later! Have a great weekend.

@rivkathegreat 3 жыл бұрын

I love watching you guys talk together and talk so openly about your relationship and intimacy

@dharadattani5992 3 жыл бұрын

Enlightening, thank you for allowing us to have a peek at your authentic conversations 🥰

@ShakirahHill 3 жыл бұрын

This was excellent! Thank you for sharing your journey. It's encouraging to see how you and Jared are honestly and healthily navigating the beautiful shifts in your family. Maybe you and Jared could do a monthly IG live about sex, marriage and parenting and answer questions as a couple in real time?

@fernandacapaceta 3 жыл бұрын

Can we just talk about how GREAT she looks!!

@alllelujah. 3 жыл бұрын

I like the way you guys talk. It’s not triggering, it just feels good.

@Mscursed2 3 жыл бұрын

Jared has such a baby face

@StephJ0seph 3 жыл бұрын

Fucking hell I strive to be as a great of a communicator of my emotions and as amazing of a listener as these two people are right here 💛😍

@thenadwork 3 жыл бұрын

So true! I’d actually love to see a video about how to hold this kind of space for your partner - especially during such vulnerable talks that could lead to some hurt feelings... Shan and Jared, you are amazing together - please keep on doing what you are doing, but of course also take enough time for your young family and enjoy this new chapter of your lives 🥰

@princessaleiah 3 жыл бұрын

Their relationship is soo beautiful to watch. Jared could also explore the topic more on Enjoy the podcast if he wants to. Thank you for allowing us to be able to watch this. 🦋🖤

@MagdaRybak2009 3 жыл бұрын

What a great discussion!!! Thank you the openness and the amazing info!

@Addysen2015 3 жыл бұрын

Awh ive been with my man for 8 years and we've had 2 healthy, easy babies and ive always wondered how he feels about tht I know he loves me now more than ever, and weve got stronger. But its an uncomfortable question and its nice to see someone stand up and discuss these questions. Thank you! Y'all are a beautiful family girl!

@MiVidaBellisima 3 жыл бұрын

I hope this wasn’t a reupload for safety reasons. Love you guys! ❤️👑✨

@jenniferlundquist9735 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for all of your content! You help so many women -- & couples -- in numerous ways with the information you discuss & share, by yourself, & as a couple. The two of you are also a fantastic example of a healthy relationship, with obvious love, desire for your partner, as well as to make things work successfully; open, honest, respectful discussions about any topic, support & encouragement for one another, especially about being your authentic selves, just to note a few key observations. Thank you both for your courage to share with so many of us, for being a lovely, loving, healthy example, & again, for all the content. Congratulations, again, on your beautiful daughter! 🙂🙏💝

@mariahrock3335 3 жыл бұрын

Love your conversations, so authentic, useful and educational. Thank you 🙏

@sincera2468 3 жыл бұрын

I like how they always tell their truth. The honesty is great, keep it up guys.

@MissMareexo 3 жыл бұрын

I loved this episode so much - so honest and informatiave! PLEASE do more :D

@psicosomatica8180 3 жыл бұрын

You're the best couple I've ever seen. Mature, open and loving. Keep it up

@zoef6186 3 жыл бұрын

So happy you share these conversations

@shaniqueedwards2899 3 жыл бұрын

I got to say ... I love you too ... you guys are so open and honest it’s crazy. How are you so comfortable discussing these topics

@GoodVibes-mi4ew 3 жыл бұрын

I love watching you guys talk it’s so relaxing (:

@sinenhlanhla9339 3 жыл бұрын

Shan: My sex face looks like? Jared: Concerned. Hahaha hahaha.

@dianalovesuxoxo 3 жыл бұрын

Commenting again Bcus y’all are my fav and I’m here to support ✨

@Iamsaraii 3 жыл бұрын

I love this series! I love these videos! I love you two! So authentic and natural!

@mscmullins1 3 жыл бұрын

I am praying for a husband who is vulnerable and comfortable enough to always talk so openly and honestly with me. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@mariyap7689 3 жыл бұрын

How amazing life would be if both partners were so open and honest about what they need from each other, like Shan and Jared! 💕

@iamwhole8910 3 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful conversation. This conversation could save marriages and relationships all around the world.

@kk-cr4db 3 жыл бұрын

OMG! The end of this conversation was so surprising to me because I knew that I greatly enjoy hitting that point next to the cervix but I didn't know there's a name to it! A-spot! Thank you for this new information and your amazingly honest conversation!

@sarahmichelle2640 3 жыл бұрын

I found this conversation so beneficial! I want to play it to my husband to get the point across re: foreplay being an all day thing. Also, you both look bangin!

@fundssum331 3 жыл бұрын

I just watched y’all’s previous conversation and I loved it so much

@ashl6427 3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same as you Shan when it comes to feeling undesired by a partner when they're not on you all the time (or at least wanting to be). It's difficult to get out of that mindset!

@Inaytirecnis 3 жыл бұрын

Such a great content thank you so much for this amazing and profound conversation really appreciate you guys 😍🙌🏼💕❤

@immortal131 2 жыл бұрын

A lot of ppl don’t talk about these ! Thank you for telling us , for those who hasn’t experienced, and want to know what to expect

@femafull 3 жыл бұрын

Shaaaaan, I loved your look on the clips in which you talked about your sponsor!! SOOO beautiful

@TheRealMae 3 жыл бұрын

Here to watch again 🙌🏾 loved this video 😍🙌🏾

@ijeamaechi3073 3 жыл бұрын

These discussions are soo good!!

@toomuchEva 3 жыл бұрын

Jared saying he has an ability to "hold both truths"... I don't want to be disrespectful but that's big d*** energy for me.

@chandaoton 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao 😜

@SoraiaMesquita 3 жыл бұрын

Hi shan, great video! I think it would be very interesting for you to do a video or talk abou attachment theory in adults, specially for couples where one has an avoidant attachment and the other has an anxious attachment style :)

@hvnonearth3066 3 жыл бұрын

Watching and commenting again for optimal support. Glad you caught the error and kept your privacy!!!

@UniqueTattianna 3 жыл бұрын

I love SHAN 👑 the openness is amazing on this channel

@sam-tp6rd 3 жыл бұрын

more about foreplay!! even leading into the physical stuff. My boyfriend has a hard time understanding foreplay, he thinks it’s all about oral sex

@dumfriesspearhead7398 3 жыл бұрын

What is there to understand? Seriously?

@missmo2371 3 жыл бұрын

I think alot of people think like that..we need to start being more open and honest with eachother out here!

@perlaalmonte9414 3 жыл бұрын

I love how open you guys are and it def helps for later on in life when I experience this as well!!! also Shan you're so beautiful!!!!

@arlo247 3 жыл бұрын

This is brilliant! 💯💗💗💗💗💗💗 y’all are gems. Inspiring me!!! Good, meaningful, engaging and loving content.

@GeorgeMitchellLWB 3 жыл бұрын

I love y'all. Please keep up the educational content

@MikoDion 3 жыл бұрын

I have to say it, even though normally I never write comments: thank you for your work and everything you do.

@AAIVE 2 жыл бұрын

okay wait this sponsor’s actually kind of fire 👀 like often it’s kind of a chore to sit through/skip through YT sponsors (depending on how much love you have for that creator) but liiiike you really DID that! this is so cool, who doesn’t love a lil’ extra privacy honestly