For a man even, I’m that guy in the chair… I miss Connexion with the other sekse, I’m married and happy, but sometimes I wil my self just feeling sexy just like a women wil… I’m incomplete and that stil works, I need a little bit more stimulation but til now I’m blessed. Maybe over 5 year I’m complete spine injury, til now it’s go very slow, operation is not possible (it’s possible) but that after the surgery complete spine is very big 90% and 10 % that it wil be like know forever, I choose for not a surgery and maybe a have 5/10 or maybe 15 years, and walking I can’t anymore, I sit every day almost a year in my wheelchair, so I learn by the day to live in a wheelchair, I can stil pee on my own, nr 2 not anymore but every day on the same time and hope that it wil be better by the day … can have normal sex til now, so no surgery, and they give me right in hospital 🙏🏻…