FEAR OF FAILURE - 3 Ways to get over the fear that holds you back.

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FEAR OF FAILURE - 3 Ways to get over the fear that holds you back.

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Is your fear of failure keeping you stuck and stagnant?
Many people have an irrational and persistent fear of failure- Fun fact, it’s actually called Atychiphobia, and it’s often the result of life experiences that cause a deep-rooted thought that the worst thing you can do is fail.
In this video I’ll share with you some of the most common reasons why you might fear failure, why that fear is is trying to protect you and keep you safe, and essential strategies to work through it so it doesn’t hold you back.
Because, if you don’t address it, it will sabotage your your relationship, your career progression & your happiness.
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@jdmohan51 2 жыл бұрын

"Failure is an inevitable part of success". Beautifully said.

@yovanyramos4416 3 жыл бұрын

I am an English language student. I am barely beginning to understand you because yours espeeches, are very fluent to me because I am an english apprentice. Thank you very much, understand you in a completely way is my purpose.

@rubencaballero8226 Жыл бұрын

I carry the attitude of gratitude with me every day. It’s almost impossible to go through life without experiencing some kind of failure. We can choose to see failure as “the end of the world,” or we can look at failure as the incredible learning experience that it often is. Failure stop us only if we left them. Strategies to help you get over the hump. Start redefining what failure means to you. Shade, people like you make the world a better place. You deserve a million thanks and all the hugs I can give, I’ll never be able to repay you for your kindness. We, your followers love ❤.

@sudipsaha2964 3 жыл бұрын

I have recently started watching your talks . I found you highly informative and inspiring . thank you for your hard work and your intent .

@cprogramming1 3 жыл бұрын

Hey you back again with fresh energy , you're always inspiring👍👍👍👍👍

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! It’s good to be back - with energy! 😛

@wasimthewilloffire9972 3 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai yeah.. After all your life your rules 😅😅

@powerfulsoul3964 3 жыл бұрын

Shade zahrai, dear please tell where are you? Where do you live?

@learningearningskillsvlogs7877 3 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai please make more video on this topic

@subramanyamraju1473 3 жыл бұрын

More energy is required to speak continously and to dance.

@avinashanilnair3537 3 жыл бұрын

This is a wonderful video , just faced a bad rejection from a journal. I'm going back again , NEVER STOP 😊

@macoydiaz7747 3 жыл бұрын

Wow this is true and enlightening. As a designer who experienced a lot of rejection it made me fear failure, which led me to be a perfectionist and so I procrastinate in every given project. You can also connect this as a result of being a man pleaser.

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

Ah you make a good point - being a people pleasure and having a strong desire (or need) for social validation can absolutely lead to fear of failure due to the ‘social rejection’ that you associate with failure. Have you found any effective ways to work through your fear of failure?

@prunes794 3 жыл бұрын

I do the same...you have put it so well..beginning every single project is associated with fear and then procrastination, I do agree...it results from people lashing back on us and we end up reciprocating that by punishing ourselves by procrastination and mental dilemma..but how do u avoid that..i mean how do u face that fear..can u share?

@macoydiaz7747 3 жыл бұрын

@@prunes794 @Shadé Zahrai Every time I’m in this state I just accept the reality that I’m stuck but there is also this reality where you really have to move forward and make progress. While I procrastinate, I do research regarding my project, because for me enough knowledge about my project boosts my confidence that I can do a good job. It’s a learning process and sometimes I still stumble on this part. Don’t be too hard on ourselves too. This helps

@fatimaawalhe4677 2 жыл бұрын

persistence pays. life lessons come from failure. we have go through certain situation to grow, and discover our untapped potential. great content love your video. 🙂💯

@kedarpuranik2350 3 жыл бұрын

What a powerful video this is, full of knowledge and facts . Beautifully compressed in 9 mins. Great 👍

@arunp5987 2 жыл бұрын

I learnt after 50 years of age that no matter what any relationship is, it is basically just a type of transaction between two persons. It can be physical, emotional or social but it is just a transaction between two persons. This was an eye opener for me and I am now living in totally different world and my expectations towards myself and my near or dear ones are totally different. Second thing I learnt was everything I do (Even when I get married or have kids) I do it for myself and to make me happy or make me feel better. My wife or my kids or my house.... everything is to make me feel better.

@arifahmed1202 Жыл бұрын

I have been noticed that I am afraid of fear of failure, i didn't work on atychiphobia over the time, thanks for sharing this wonderful information with us.

@vinceknowseverything 3 жыл бұрын

I gave a talk about this topic a few years ago and most of the people in the audience did admit that they had a Fear of Failure. But after giving them solutions to overcome that fear, they were able to turn their lives around and for the better. Sometimes people just need to listen and actually apply what they have learned from people who are trying to help them. And I hope that more people will take your advice because it can totally transform the way they live. Amazing Video Shadé! PS. Outstanding Editing👍🏻

@Nialee-wp3oi 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. Time to jump. I agree, Stephany Meyers was rejected 21 times for Twilight and even encouraged to see a psychiatrist... I imagine their reactions when they saw the success of the books and the movies.... BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!

@boreycheng9260 Жыл бұрын

As I'm watching, I feel a lot better about myself. I hope to actually take actions. Thank you!

@tariqzohair4624 3 жыл бұрын

You are conveying things with extreme clarity. Impressive. Also, contents are well arranged.

@Betterworldforyou. 14 күн бұрын

You bring positivity to many people’s life . Failure or success depends on how you think if we always think we move forward whether we get whatever we needed sometimes what we thought at that time wasn’t not the best for you .. thank you shade you make my many days better..

@rashid510 3 жыл бұрын

I have all these problems, fear of failure, perfectionist mind and a procrastinator. Since i have failed so many times and usually it back fires when i have shared my plans with friends and then they start to criticize. So i made 2 changes, first of all i never share my plans until i achieve it. And second, if i do share it, i tell them that i am trying something new to fail in. This way they will have an answer and i also get passed the fear of failure.

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

This is great! I’m so happy you were able to find a strategy that works for you - and I especially love how you’re embracing the possibility of failing and seeing it as a growth opportunity - more power to you! 💪

@rashid510 3 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai thank you for all the great and helpful content you always provide 😊

@bharathic4977 3 жыл бұрын

Found the channel via Instagram, really motivating.. please keep us motivated. I use to hold back from things, this open up my mind, will implement this. Thanks for the video.

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Thank you for making time to watch and so glad that this content is empowering you. 😊

@sadhariyavishal 2 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai Hi! I am learning a lot from your videos, please do make this kind of contents.

@sumanthparakala2005 3 жыл бұрын

Inspiring We suffer a lot more in our thoughts than we do for real..

@indikajayasekara9780 Жыл бұрын

Really worthy points for us to avoid fear in communications.

@jinsvj2387 Жыл бұрын

All of your videos are highly relatable to my conditions. They really help to understand the issue clearly and solve it. Thank you!

@shafrazbop1 2 жыл бұрын

Trust me you are the best.. I love the way you present things. It really helped me. Thank you and God bless

@armaghansarmad8382 2 жыл бұрын

You are one of a kind...çok guzel🧿

@AwesomeIam 3 жыл бұрын

You are so charismatic and your voice has quite an affect. 🥳

@robertohernandez5596 3 жыл бұрын

thanks you so much for this powerful video,receive my regreet from mexico, hasta luego baby !!!!!

@ganeshd.londhe2999 3 жыл бұрын

I think people follow rules but legends follow principles. There is no such thing as FAILURE.

@vaidyanathanrs6109 2 ай бұрын

So Many had Failures Rejections Dejections but came up So Successful. From Rajnikant called Thalaivar was driven out of home. Now A Millennium Super Duper Star known All over the World. Those who listen to you can come up Turning the Tables. ❤

@tanvirkhan6687 3 жыл бұрын

It is amazing to see your videos and informations are backed by research findings instead of just " so called facts"

@pitambaragarwal 3 жыл бұрын

Very well researched inspiring content delivered with finesse. Good Work Ms. Shade. Mindfulness is the key to make the shift.

@pradeepchethan3167 Жыл бұрын

Thoughts are not facts, yet we treat them as though they are!!!!! Impact full

@olisehanineh Жыл бұрын

Thank you Shadé. Fear is something I have suffered as a forex trader. I will put this tips to use, expose myself to risk so i can get more comfortable. Thanks again

Жыл бұрын

I learning to be used to it. Since I’m looking for a job now, and went to hiring events, and interviews, and I don’t hear back. I feel bad that I am not able to get a job as fast as some people I know, but I got another one today, and I hope I get it.

@rzem 3 жыл бұрын

Just discovered your channel .thank you so much for this great video .with love . New follower from Morocco

@shreedharkulkarni2346 3 жыл бұрын

One of the Bestest channel..She is really helping me a lot.. Thank you so much for all of your work...❤️

@DeenHidayah 2 жыл бұрын

if we think about it we learned a lot from failure

@TheCaodangquang 2 жыл бұрын

Failures is the mother of success!

@nasrullahmugheri3791 3 жыл бұрын

Hi shade Now i seen your vedios i am impressed great way of explanation

@mrsvoice7292 Ай бұрын

Im so happy that i found you❤

@aysun1427 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this wonderful video, it was all I needed not to feel disenchanted with my own performance which led to a failure I didn't want to face.😢

@historicalvideos3198 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing source of information Liked ur videos..

@AbdulGhafoor-wq7jg 3 жыл бұрын

I love your lecture too much.

@abinashsahoo3239 3 жыл бұрын

Your accent is so clear that I am in literally in love with it. I had an Australian coach in my engineering training program... I could not believe that you are Australian... I thought you are Indian😄😄

@bhimpokhrel4059 3 жыл бұрын

You are inspirational speaker. I really notice about your presentation and way you speak. Great. I want to be in such position where I can speak up clearly with confidence.

@luxushauseragency 3 жыл бұрын

Nice and simple explanations. 10 points.

@FaheemRazaAnsari 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate to this and thankfully overcome, great ideas and explanations, @shadé zahrai you are helping people a lot for which we should be thankful!😊

@sandhyasonu4468 3 жыл бұрын

Wow such a fab accent you have. I love to pronounce the way you do❤️

@jaydeepsinhdodiya3134 3 жыл бұрын

Just like an enlightened woman! Thanks a lot ♥️🙏🏻

@stoogey1 2 жыл бұрын

For me may 23, 1989 at 2:37pm gave me my worst taste of failure that still haunts me to this day. I was 9 yrs old trying to keep my mom from dying. I failed her, my family and myself. And my mind won't let me forget either. Every night in my dreams I watch her die. I've watched her die over 12,000 times.

@anishani1118 3 жыл бұрын

This video was really enlightening. I-am still a victim of this. This kind of fear is holding me back. Always rejections and cant even reach my goals. How can i overcome these fears and be a successful person

@jeanjuniorjacques9772 Жыл бұрын

Hi Hrai. Thank's alot.This content is the true value of a Femme leadership of our time.!🎉❤

@as.if_0077 3 жыл бұрын

You are going to be famous very soon!

@bhargavmaheshwari3657 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your all the video it's really helpful developed myself thanks 💝

@abdulrazzak3976 3 жыл бұрын

@Shadezahrai Thanks for sharing this amazing video related to overcome fear within ourselves... Much needed motivation on My Birthday... Thank You Very Much @Shadezahrai May God Bless You With Abundance of Happiness 🤲👍🙂

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

Oh it’s your birthday! 🎉 Happiest of birthdays to you! Faysal and I wish you a wonderful birthday week 🥳

@abdulrazzak3976 3 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai Thank You So Much For Your Best Wishes... 👍👍🙂

@1jeremias 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing !

@Rahul-ug9xq 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot Shade...loved the video 🤘🏼

@ABHIGYANDIXIT Жыл бұрын

Our intuition guides in one direction only, it's okay to be flamboyant I do, but I take my work first....

@wRecHeDD 3 жыл бұрын

This is so well explained!!!!! 🌟

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you think so!

@ManishSharma-sk2zh 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Shade, An interesting and informative video. I appreciate your efforts. Thank you,

@g1kluang 3 жыл бұрын

I wish i was as confident as you when speaking....

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This sentence which you said is incorrect bcz this is conditional sentence so was replaced by were

@tovidominic3154 3 жыл бұрын

Great content. I needed it. Thank you

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The subs growing up so fast! 😉 She deserves that !

@Abubakar-Sadiq 2 жыл бұрын

I am amazed with your psychological tricks in videos. Just "woooow"

@samuelsowunmi605 2 жыл бұрын

Am thinking of getting smart drugs because of fear of failing my second semester because I know I did not do well last semester, but I read but I do forget and sometimes when I read it doesn't go well because I find it difficult to process somethings.i still trying to save up some money before exam, because I doubt myself, even d person I have interest in is much smarter than me academically,we have no connection,am a recluse, introvert, secluse and I prefer being a taciturn,I wish I could not love 💕, like,nor crush nor even lust anyone, my wish is to be like Bruce Wayne and painkiller and be successful and alone and wealthy.loving someone makes me weak not strong.it doesn't fit me I mean love.solitude is seen as my best friend.

@suryanarayanan5158 3 жыл бұрын

Can you make a video on working with ADHD? And does CBT help get reduce of ADD completely?

@vanshtyagi5888 Жыл бұрын

thanks mam this side vansh oneof your biggest fan watching you since a long time i have become a more and more motivated now you charismatic look energies me the most ☺😊😇❤❤

@zetajester 3 жыл бұрын

Great video!! This couples in really nicely with a growth mindset!

@amejafar996 Ай бұрын

🎉 U are my best instructor ever ; I admire ur tireless effort with patience, " continuous dripping of H2O undeniably can brake a rocky hard emotional behaviour, would u keep it up ? It's not only work; but , it's kind of u , indeed!❤

@amartyakumarsingh3366 3 жыл бұрын

Just discovered this channel, brilliant videos, really helpful, thnx a lot for such gr8 content ❤️🙏

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them! 🙏🏽😊

@alex474590864 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Amartya for introducing me to her channel. Exquisite content, Shadé! 😊

@ammy457 Жыл бұрын

Hi Shade Zahrai mam you are furnishing really fabulous content to solve the problems of people

@wisdomliving99 3 жыл бұрын

New sub here, really you're the one I was looking for i am at start and want same guidence tysm for bringing this out.. ✨💫

@adamab8546 3 жыл бұрын

wow.... you have the Power of influencing, Acceptance... this is the first time i feel im learning new skills without feeling bored..

@patravs2 2 жыл бұрын

Am a psychiatrist and recommend ur channel to my patients

@ShadeZahrai 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ravi! We're glad that this content can be of service to your patients in some small way. 🙏🏽😊

@alexrinconp 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful and powerful

@Amy-mo9ki Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Very helpful advice. I am going to take action!

@ellappanm3289 2 жыл бұрын

Your each video inspiring me and it's very useful in regular life suitvation.. and you look a like actress Gal Gadot..keep rocking

@naveenmorapitiya577 Жыл бұрын

I think mindfulness is the key for this♥️

@praveenm3808 3 жыл бұрын

You always inspiring me with your great ideas and refreshing thoughts👌👌👌👌👍👍 Keep going💪💪💪💪💪

@felixserrao9384 2 жыл бұрын

Your talks are well researched.. well organised and focused... so many benefit from your hard work... Thank you

@ShadeZahrai 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Felix. My husband and I produce these videos together and it means so much when we receive positive feedback. We hope that you continue to get value from them. 😊

@abdulhameedmjalil299 3 жыл бұрын

Insightful piece.

@nematsache97 3 жыл бұрын

Much needed 👍🏻👍🏻 thank u !

@barcataz 3 жыл бұрын

Very beneficial. Thanks

@prunes794 3 жыл бұрын

I just hope I can change the narrative playing in my mind..this was really informative..thanks

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

Little by little. Day by day. Just plan daily action that help you and be deliberately consistent. 💪🏼

@rishikeshp941 2 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai 💯👏👏

@vickygolap9672 2 жыл бұрын

Hey your words are making me to stay positive... Thank you and continue the same❤

@faisal-ca 3 жыл бұрын

You bring good energy !! Thanks.

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@galangkhairaneharh.883 3 ай бұрын

thankyouuu so much for this 🥰

@Xavier-it8sq Жыл бұрын

This is a really beautiful episode.

@bhalla_rishav Жыл бұрын

Thanks shade for sharing such wonderful tips

@techsocial7458 2 жыл бұрын

That helped me motivate myself👍👍👍 Thnxs

@rezarafiie 5 ай бұрын

Loved it, thank you

@laughingsnowbetterplay 11 ай бұрын

Also, can u make a video on how to make up to our mistakes cause that's where the correct and rational teaching lack and that's where people got left out by others and the hardest to fight out of it

@sameerahmed13 Жыл бұрын

Your videos helps a lot

@3mariusx 2 жыл бұрын

You have such an amazing voice 😍

@horstbachmann6344 2 жыл бұрын

Vielen Dank für gute Info 👍❤️❤️❤️

@NK-qd7xk 3 жыл бұрын

U deserve more subscribers.. u r awesome ❤

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😀

@NK-qd7xk 3 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai 😊❤

@msees-2002 3 жыл бұрын

i liked your content 👍🏼❤️

@SatishKumar-qb3gm 2 жыл бұрын

As always, your topics are very useful

@mohamedhessien5341 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing As usual ♥️♥️

@ronwinny8345 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for all your videos it's really useful to develop myself. Keep going madam

@ShadeZahrai 3 жыл бұрын

So nice of you.

@ronwinny8345 3 жыл бұрын

@@ShadeZahrai pleasure is all mine

@SridharVasireddy 2 жыл бұрын

You nailed it. You the best!

@Aquamarin257samt 2 ай бұрын

But some people like my 37 year old husband have difficulties overcoming the fear of failure. I tried studying with him he was not able to concentrate or he wants to go to his friends - or he starts making excuses - so I have given the hope up that he will overcome his fears.I can not force him.He has wasted many oppurtunities and chances in his life due to his fear - he had rejected twice Job coaching ,and a 3 year long job training with exams and keeps making excuses he is not capable.His attitude is regretable but I have realized after 3 years of staying with him that I can not change him and if he does not want to understand,what can I do?