Can God Heal a Narcissist? What Does the Bible Say about Narcissism?
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A lot of people say there's no remedy for healing narcissism or for narcissistic personality disorder. If you go on most KZfaq channels on narcissism, read books about it, surf on the net, study it further, that is the consistent story you will get. The verdict everywhere is that you cannot heal a narcissist or it's extremely difficult. At best, you can do some behavior modification and that might take a very long period of time. What does the Bible Say about Narcissism? If all things are possible with God, is it possible for a narcissist to be healed? If God is all-powerful and able to heal, why don't we see more narcissists healed today? In this video, I will be tackling this question!
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Hi! I’m Shaneen Megji. It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church. God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.
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@tammylawley4626 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus CAN heal a narcissist, because he's doing it with me. I saw the problem with me... finally. And realized I didn't want to be that kind of a person. I am counseling with my Pastor. I'd love and be very thankful for prayers for this journey : ) HE IS ABLE.
@simonadobre7100 Жыл бұрын
My husband doesn't want to talk with anyone because he is consider perfect
@aaronschade488 Жыл бұрын
@@simonadobre7100 I’m sorry for what you’re going through. Im going through the same thing with my Dad, I’ll pray for your situation.
@simonadobre7100 Жыл бұрын
@@aaronschade488 thank you
@simonadobre7100 Жыл бұрын
@@dittehompoth1469 so bad..I need to go.from this marriage. Separate or divorce? He doesn't want nothing..we have a child
@anonymousforcommentslol6075 Жыл бұрын
hey, can i ask how the change feels out of pure curiosity?
@davidsigman324 3 жыл бұрын
God can heal and change anyone WHO wants to change. And you are correct, it has to be a heart change.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
David, yes indeed.
@ThomasVancil39 3 жыл бұрын
A mind change is the beginning, repentance does mean to change your mind.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
@@ThomasVancil39 yes agreed.
@GMpiece 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree.... I prayed about it and got the same revelation... they have to come to Christ themselves to ask from their own free will.... so ! The choice is theirs.... Glory to God! 🙏🏿 Thank you Shaneen🌹💕
@firstname713 3 жыл бұрын
@@GMpiece Is it not the grace of God that we come to Christ and ask? In the same manner that we come to the cross to repent when we were blind to the beauty of Him moments ago? In my understanding God is in control over even the free will of man. The crucifixion did not depend on God waiting for Judas to decide if he will betray Yeshua. God hands people over to their sin, hardens their heart or softens it. I believe yes, we must will to change and turn from all our sins but its God who sanctifies and leads us to arrive at that desire by His grace. Satan who is the most evil, can't do anything apart from the will of God and needs permission. Jesus has full authority both on Earth and in Heaven. In the same way God can be the Father Holy Spirit and Son while there is only one God without contradiction, i believe man can have free will and our free will is subjective to Gods will entirely without contradiction.
@rose-annwoodsley1252 2 жыл бұрын
"You CANNOT love the narcissism out of a Narcissist" You have to step aside and let God do his work. Focus on yourself and healing. Love won't change them. Only God can humble them to make them want to change.
@ladyelijah3224 2 жыл бұрын
You are completely accurate in your statement.
@malindawilliams5605 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! Leave them in God's hands...
@onehandgamer1377 2 жыл бұрын
Brother God love will melt away every evil
@Camille_111_44 2 жыл бұрын
Learning to let go and let God! 🤷🏽♀️ So tired!! I know I deserve better! ❤️
@myrleakolajo5184 2 жыл бұрын
THIS IS IT!!!!! You are absolutely correct. I have been hearing this in my spirit and from a close relative.
@JohnSmith-bm6zg 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent analysis. My mother was an unreachable narcissist when I was growing up, but she was humbled, and now she is the most considerate person ever. Clinically it doesn’t seem possible, but with God all things are.
@zakithiganyaza5525 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@debratorres46 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. So encouraging..
@MeCynthiaAnn 11 ай бұрын
Ooooh wow…PRAISE THE LORD..THANK YOU for sharing and God bless you. From JANESVILLE, WI
@TommytheEmpath. 11 ай бұрын
My mother finally came to terms with what she put me and my brother through and family members through. About eight years before she died, she found God. She died on her birthday this year April 9th. The letter she wrote me and my brother. Showed us that she had changed she begged forgiveness for both of us and she even thought that she didn't deserve it. I forgave her a long time before that letter came. with God anything is possible. Amen. I prayed that my wife, who is a covert narcissist, walks the path of my mother and finds healing. not for me, but for our kids.
@Christimony222 10 ай бұрын
This is so encouraging. Thank you.
@msprettykawaii950 3 жыл бұрын
Lord, please make my husband a redeemed Christian. Let our marriage be a testimony of your power!
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! 🙏🏽
@formalhault5820 3 жыл бұрын
I was hoping for that with my ex gf but when I kept praying for her deliverance she continued to choose darkness.
@josefinabacang 3 жыл бұрын
Same prayer i always ask God..
@aaronhartas9823 3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@lonewolf3828 3 жыл бұрын
I hope so it will happen!!!
@darrenbatesnashville6923 3 жыл бұрын
This confirms what the Lord spoke to me. I was praying that He would heal her heart and her mind. I asked if she would ever come to a place where we could be happy together. The immediate impression that came back was an emphatic “No!” He said, “I want to heal her, but her free will prevents it.” He also said, “The reason you’re having such a hard time getting over her is that you don’t trust me. You believe the enemy’s lie that you will never find love again.” That was the turning point for me when I began to really heal. Thank you, Lord, for your faithfulness and for sharing your wisdom with me to bring me comfort.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! God is so faithful! 😊
@cross-eyedmary6619 3 жыл бұрын
Not biblical. If her will prevents God from doing something than God isn’t God or her will isn’t free.
@darrenbatesnashville6923 3 жыл бұрын
Cross-Eyed Mary could not disagree more. You couldn’t be more wrong.
@darrenbatesnashville6923 3 жыл бұрын
Cross-Eyed Mary God struck Paul blind. That definitely got his attention; but it was still Paul’s free will, his choice, to change and serve God. God didn’t make us to be robots.
@darrenbatesnashville6923 3 жыл бұрын
Rachel Davidson “Whosoever believeth in me shall not perish, but have everlasting life.” It’s our free will to choose whether or not we believe. Jesus has NEVER forced anyone to accept His free gift. Show me a scripture that says otherwise.
@lindag1372 2 жыл бұрын
God resists the proud. A narcissist truly must humble themselves and ask for God's Grace to heal them. It will take great humility and self reflection.
@jakepureblood7571 2 жыл бұрын
Yes God can heal a narcissist, I grew up with a narcissist parent even at 57 years old I still am treated the same way as a child. I by God's grace finally recognized what my dad really is. I became the same way as him. I have been struggling with this behavior wanting to change but before change I finally seen what was in myself, and yes all the years relationships I was wrong. I blamed other people and I was the sane one while they were crazy for not seeing things my way. Oh my goodness how awful I was to people, spouses. I feel so clean delivered from a huge lifelong sin. MY change of heart took years, only by His grace I am healed. I know continued prayer is an answer since the old man can come back in an instant. MY prayer is to stay close to the Lord. thank you Shaneen for these videos as I discovered them at the exact time I was supposed to. God Bless.
@steeldove4333 2 жыл бұрын
That is wonderful. Thanks for sharing and showing that there is hope.
@r011ing_thunder6 2 жыл бұрын
I was looking for this
@yahkemaj7818 2 жыл бұрын
You were never a Narcissists you were influenced by a Narcissists and trained as a Narcissists but Narcissism is of the heart it was never in your heart just brainwashed into your mind most people don't believe that Narcissists are born as Narcissists not made if you look at some mental illnesses most of those people are born with it or with the trait or the propensity to become mentally ill they don't learn it but Narcissists don't have a mental illness it's a question of the soul that gives birth to the Narcissistic personality in other words the lack of a conscious without a conscious you are not human God don't create humans without a conscious but satan created his children thereby they have no conscious.
@teresanum278 2 жыл бұрын
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all lies of the enemy in Jesus name. Pray lord baptize me with your fire in Jesus name. kzfaq.info/sun/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
@JKBelle 2 жыл бұрын
@@yahkemaj7818 so if you believe you cannot be healed of narcissism then you believe Jesus died in vain and his sacrifice is worthless. That’s a pretty bad place to be!
@tanyamongeau524 3 жыл бұрын
The bible says stay away from these people and don't take justice.. Justice is mine says the Lord!
@suchaleelim 2 жыл бұрын
This is very true.
@godsstarchild4547 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@partlysimpson5154 2 жыл бұрын
Basicly u say they cant say?
@user-bt9by6kx6j 2 жыл бұрын
100%
@partlysimpson5154 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-bt9by6kx6j U mean it can heal?
@shaun8253 3 жыл бұрын
Until society stops rewarding manipulative abusive behavior at the expense of others - it's no wonder they don't think they have a problem.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Shaun Lee, great point.
@traweler155 3 жыл бұрын
Big point
@SherryONeill 3 жыл бұрын
@Anon Girl AMEN Sister!!
@jessicatorz5150 2 жыл бұрын
Well,we should forgive , married people should stay married but never evil should be' called good
@tariqahmed7244 2 жыл бұрын
😅😅lol ministers of our time . Can u stop paying taxes in order to jolt the government or wont u fear doing so for u will be kept out . Everyone is forced to follow wht the minister says . For ex he says xyz is invalid abc is valid document . Can u and yr society do away with it . Lol superficially yes in reality no . Close your eyes and try to remember .
@kimk3821 2 жыл бұрын
Please don't ever stop teaching us about Narcissism in relation to God.
@ivonkwAn6443 4 ай бұрын
Yes,I agree ❤
@FirstnameLastname77777 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are so good 🥺🥺 giving a narcissist like me hope , yes lord i have a problem and yes lord i need to heal and yes lord i accept your healing please heal me jesus and free me
@blancal.padilla2123 2 жыл бұрын
🙏
@bellag2864 2 жыл бұрын
Go to therapy and submit to accontability and wise counsel
@autumn_o-222 Жыл бұрын
In Jesus name Amen!
@christamacnaughton8223 Жыл бұрын
Not just any therapy . Some therapists actually encourage narcissism
@FirstnameLastname77777 Жыл бұрын
@@christamacnaughton8223 you guys actually won’t believe it, but God did end up healing me from my narcissism and not only that he also saved me. Praise be to Jesus Christ
@adrianascholtz3500 3 жыл бұрын
My husband grew up in an Narcissistic family system. All the members have a streak of narcissism and the whole system operates on denial, manipulation and all the vises of narcissism. My husband was emerged in the system and yes he was also a narcissist. In adulthood he became the scapegoat of the family after challenging the status quo and not complying with the group on everything. A severe faultfinding campaign with blame and accusations was lunched against him and myself. At first we were in total shock and fog for awhile. Then God lead me to an article on scapegoating and narcissistic abuse. I started studying everything on the topic. I explained to my husband what was going on in the family system and about narcissism. He first acknowledge the narcissistic traits in his family members and then slowly but surely he started to see how he was also formed by the system as a narcissist. Over time of studying the material on how to cope within this kind of bulling/abusive situation, he grow such an aversion to the abuse and sickness of narcissism. He does not want any of his families narcissist traits in himself. Now he is working on a daily basis to heal and transform these patterns. Praise God his rock fell on my husband and my husband fell on the Rock!
@kevinjohnson7418 2 жыл бұрын
No offense but a narcissist family system won’t shape someone into having npd. Narcissist personality disorder is a fixed personality that doesn’t change. He could have narcissistic/ selfish traits like me and you and everyone but npd is a whole different animal that some are born with and some may get in childhood. But they usually aren’t the scapegoat. The scapegoat role I know ,it’s someone like me who is strong , independent, and wants justice , truth , which it sounds like he also wanted by challenging. Sounds like an empath / co dependent. Hopefully you aren’t the one.
@nancinew8288 2 жыл бұрын
@@kevinjohnson7418 I always learned that NPD and codependency both come out of dysfunctional family systems. We are born into messed up families that stunt our development because our needs aren’t met as children so we have to heal from that. We are all created in the imagine of God but we need to be healed❤️
@cynthiathabethe8962 2 жыл бұрын
Glory to God
@Lauren-vd4qe 2 жыл бұрын
i hope you dont have much contact with his family oh my.
@autumn_o-222 Жыл бұрын
Amazing story! Thanks for sharing Adriana
@gerhardgroenewald 3 жыл бұрын
I think its more a case of getting DELIVERANCE from a Jezebel spirit.
@imperfectillustration6261 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! This is what is missed in most discussions surrounding narcissism and narcissists. There are several deliverance ministries with ministers who are experienced in getting the demonic entity to manifest and then cast it out by the power of God.
@JoseChavez-dl8ec 3 жыл бұрын
And in the Bible say that jezebel Don’t want to change
@zealheals 3 жыл бұрын
BOOM! 💥 👌🏾
@ad6417 3 жыл бұрын
No this is incorrect. The Jezebel spirit is not the spirit of narcissism. It's the spirit of false masculinity in a woman. Please listen to exorcist Fr Ripperger talk about this.
@gerhardgroenewald 3 жыл бұрын
@@ad6417 - Sorry I Disagree and have done my studies and research in this - you can compare characteristics of both Jezebel in Bible and NPD and the profiles match 💯 %
@shereengiovanni5009 2 жыл бұрын
They are under possession. That’s why they smirk when they rattle you so hard and that you are out of your peaceful state and out if your character. This is pure satisfaction for them. Evil.
@theanonymoushelpline7248 5 ай бұрын
So darn trus
@user-cz5bx5pq5v 4 ай бұрын
YES POSSESSION..
@triplekids3 2 жыл бұрын
I believe in miracles God removed me from a 33 year marriage I’m finally finding peace and freedom and healing
@louisaisthankful6455 3 жыл бұрын
God can heal a narcissist but does a narcissist think he needs to be healed?
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@rodturner6759 3 жыл бұрын
"When the Devil cannot reach You, He sends a Narcissist"
@debbiewilder4738 3 жыл бұрын
@@rodturner6759 ouch
@kingdomdaughters3149 3 жыл бұрын
Yes... they do think that because I’ve been struggling with this demon since I’ve come to Christ. So yes. There are narcissists who can actually see this demon in themselves and when it flares up. I am an example of this, and I’ve been desperately trying to be delivered from it for months
@ordinarylelevibes 3 жыл бұрын
I just learned that I’m a covert narcissist a few days ago. I went to therapy for depression and anxiety, but narcissism never came up. It’s troubling to know that I have to rethink the feelings I had towards people I “believed” I loved. I want to change, and it’s a matter of trying to overlook my ego and be willing to rebuild those relationships. Right now it's awkward because I'm learning to choose my words wisely, analyze my motives, and manage my emotions. Being Narcissistic is damaging and unacceptable, and I’ve been allowing it for too long.
@Azure_Zahab_Truth_Zealot 3 жыл бұрын
I have personally watched as a man very close to me was touched, by the Truth, in a way that is very rare, so now he's a truth zealot, and those bad narcissistic characteristics have been turned to good qualities. "all things are possible!"
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Wow thanks for sharing this testimony Christopher! I love it!
@joolspools777 3 жыл бұрын
That's amazing. Must be wonderful to see!
@pamchermak7572 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@99kakaman 3 жыл бұрын
That is amazing! Praise the Lord for he is able to touch the hearts of the heartless.
@MarinaPier77 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this with us, it's really hopeful. Because usually what I hear from various sources is a negative ending for the narcissist.
@kimothy1377 2 жыл бұрын
I’m grateful for this video. God has truly made me hit rock bottom. The only way to heal my broken heart and stepping out of narcissism. As a man suffering narc abuse from my mother, I’ve become a narc my self. God is healing me and setting me free. Thank you sister for speaking truth, healing and hope into my soul, spirit and body. Love from a broken but healing brother. 🇩🇰🙏🏻❤️
@teresanum278 2 жыл бұрын
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma from my heart in Jesus name. Pray lord send angels to free me from all lies of the enemy in Jesus name. Pray lord baptize me with your fire in Jesus name. kzfaq.info/sun/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
@suchaleelim 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@talawoods25 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing that. Gives me hope for my situation 🙏🏾
@eveelsbury8341 Жыл бұрын
Kimothy... God doesn’t make anyone hit rock bottom. Causing or allowing his children to hit rock bottom is totally against His nature. His plan for you was never to hit rock bottom. If God did as you say, he would be a monster. God is not a monster. you have an enemy who wants to destroy you and he can do a good job by Christian magical thinking and attributing God for the the “allowance” of hitting rick bottom. We really need to know who the enemy is. We can worship the true God when we know who His nature is God. All else is from the wicked one.We don’t wrestle against God but against the powers of darkness.
@laurasainz4836 Жыл бұрын
What would you say to a woman who’s separated from her narcissistic, alcoholic, unfaithful husband? He said he would go to therapy even by himself before we would finally get divorce. What do you recommend? What prayers do you feel helped you? And God bless you for your courage to post this message.
@honeybeetherose3334 4 ай бұрын
Finally a video on healing for Narcissism...they need prayer..they need to have the demons cast out if them...IN THE NAME OF JESUS
@LissettePons-nt8uv 2 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@marciafredericks7333 Ай бұрын
I truly behave this.
@thecalmingspace7242 3 жыл бұрын
My ex is a covert narcissist. His mother enabled it and believed the sunshine shone out of an area the sun doesn't normally shine out of. I pray he is set free, because he seems to be a serial dater and seems to go through women and the women have to heal and pick up the pieces once the relationship ends. I kinda hope he hits rock bottom so that God is the only one he cries out for.
@ScottRachelson777 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissists also have no problem sleeping well. My father can be abusive and blame everybody, but he sleeps wonderfully.
@isidoravojinovic7362 2 жыл бұрын
Its because they dont feel guilty
@aaronwarner5492 2 жыл бұрын
My wife sleeps like a champ. May be an odd NPD/BPD/PTSD combo. Super Christian - admirable even - but coldly quiet, two tone voice, gruff at home but bubbly for others, pouts when upset,silent treatment, emotional dysregulation, etc. My struggle to deal with her is 12 years in and I’m wondering what I need to do differently.
@budzieC 2 жыл бұрын
my grandma will cause chaos from the time she wakes up until she goes to bed and she sleeps like a baby. no conscience whatever
@ellanola6284 2 жыл бұрын
@@aaronwarner5492 You need to leave and take your children with you.
@rayray7906 2 жыл бұрын
@@aaronwarner5492 leave!!!
@bereal2900 2 жыл бұрын
Finally I listened to God and stopped praying for the marriage and started to pray for his soul. I missed him, but my migraines, aches and pains, emotional baggage, and spiritual life is being restored (CPTSD due to living with a Narcissist for 18 years)
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
Bless you. 💕 I pray for your complete healing from CPTSD in Jesus' name! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🕊
@spectranaut2464 2 жыл бұрын
It would probably be a good idea to stop being manipulated by the big man in the sky too. (Or more realistically, the people who want you to believe and fear not believing in him so they can have power and money they dont deserve)
@MarilynashleyPerry 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you and your husband 🙏 May God deliver, heal and set you both free.
@susievelasquez5553 2 жыл бұрын
@@spectranaut2464 this is all true , but God is real . I prayed and asked for him to come into my life when i was 17 , i was just a kid , so , the holy spirit is real . Or God . Just ask with an open heart . But difinitely don't trust religion and everyone that is running around saying they believe in God.
@spectranaut2464 2 жыл бұрын
@@susievelasquez5553 that doesn't necessarily prove God enough for me to believe but it sounds like you have a more deistic stance on god
@Justadudeman22 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing the bible into it. This whole fight is spiritual !
@christhomas5641 2 жыл бұрын
Yes.. 👍
@MikeKollin 3 жыл бұрын
Either way, "Walk Away and Block the Narcissist! And Let God do the Work!" PERIOD!!! 🐹
@JAHzJaJa 2 жыл бұрын
💖
@ms.annthrope415 2 жыл бұрын
I think letting a Louisville slugger do the work. It works much better. Out black tape around the sweet spot so when yiu swing it across his skull, it goes WHACK with a responding thud and his head will split like a coconut. Cures all his marcasite in .25 seconds.
@bettyparker3476 2 жыл бұрын
Some people cannot not bc they don't want to. Some are very disabled or the beloved narcissist is an ailing elderly parent etc.
@jmy9304 2 жыл бұрын
Wat work exactly will God do after i walk away?
@latasha3472 Жыл бұрын
This! Don’t even engage with them just block and move along
@susanclifford1094 3 жыл бұрын
The problem with someone who can't be wrong. No most can't be healed ! The Church sometimes gives bad advice to women .Stay with him God will change him .Get out when you can !God will make a way .
@Newsomebt6 3 жыл бұрын
Get out while/if you can! Believing the narc will change is a waste of your life. The church does not know enough about personality disorders to give any helpful advice. That leads to encouraging women to “be a better wife” as a solution. Grrr!
@happydillpickle 2 жыл бұрын
And the church sometimes gives bad advice to men too..."stay with her, pray with her, 'the family that prays together stays together', it's your role as provider/spiritual head of the household" etc... I think it's often difficult for people to admit there's a problem if the wife is a narcissist, especially the vulnerable/covert type, because those gender role stereotypes are very much alive in churches (and very open to abuse by narcissists), so people more often than not see that vulnerable, sweet, female public persona and believe that SHE is the target of her husband's "abuse", because the stereotype is very much of the "violent male" and his "female victim". Same in cases where there's a very dominant male narcissist: his dominance can often end up being justified or downplayed or explained away with those traditional gender role stereotypes. Again, people can see that narcissistic male as a strong provider, an excellent spiritual role model and mentor and see his wife as a covert narcissist, when in fact, she's actually in genuine pain due to his abuse. Because narcissists are experts on blame shifting, it can be very hard for people who are inexperienced in narcissism behaviour to know who is the narcissist abuser and who is the abused. Or indeed, to even acknowledge that there's a problem, especially when the narcissist does a lot of work in the church, so people don't want to believe that helpful, kind person is actually not all they claim to be.
@happydillpickle 2 жыл бұрын
@@Newsomebt6 Ouch to the encouraging women to be a better wife! That really sucks. I think the church in general would benefit greatly from having education on narcissistic abuse: that's why I appreciate this channel so much.
@beatrixbrennan1545 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I remember when I went to church counseling with my crazy ex narcopath husband and they made me out to be the one who had issues. There is nothing worse than staying with a complete psychopath because of a scripture in the Bible. They're abusive and sick and God does not want us wasting our lives in submission to them!! Get out!!
@marciafredericks7333 Ай бұрын
With God all.things are possible. There is nothing too hard for God. Can these dry bones lives. The church is not saying stay stay into abusive relationship. The message of the good book is healing is in his will. It is not his desire that any shall.perish but all have eternal life including a narcissist. He can deliver all.narcissust. the battle is the lord.
@brendatrapp607 Жыл бұрын
Confrontation has never worked for me. It increases the abuse as you indicated. I can't do this anymore. Its up to the Lord. I tried being a blessing but when I finally said"no" it unleashed hell.over my head.. Thank you for your insight.
@bilingualeducation7333 10 ай бұрын
To be BORN AGAIN is exactly that: to be "BORN AGAIN".
@LissettePons-nt8uv 2 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@eperon 3 жыл бұрын
You bring the most important perspective of all I’ve heard on KZfaq... you bring God into the equation, and that changes the dynamic entirely. I so appreciate this, for I cannot imagine tackling life’s difficulties without Jesus in my life. Thank you.
@alicearchuleta6536 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, incorporating Christ, makes it so much better.... thanks for doing these videos.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
D.J. Konrad, me neither! Jesus is the most important ingredient!
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
@@alicearchuleta6536 It is my pleasure!
@eperon 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShaneenMegji Oh, AMEN!!! 💝💝💝
@spectranaut2464 2 жыл бұрын
You dont need god to escape a narcissists grasp, you need other humans.
@janesmith1862 3 жыл бұрын
God is the only one that can change a narcissist. Period. I believe ppl just can't heal a narcissist bc it will break any and every person that tries.
@bluediamond353 3 жыл бұрын
😔 pieces just fell in my lap and I think I know why
@sharonscott3662 3 жыл бұрын
Cause if they want to but some narcissist people don't even accept that they have A ploblem.
@MrDogonjon 3 жыл бұрын
god is a narcissist and all the fake religions of the world are led by narcissists. You are stupidly asking them the heal your narcissist? Doubt your own convictions! Please understand we created the whole system to promote narcissists to their lofty levels of narcissism. They are not empathetic and they will not help you they will blame you and they are right if you continue the cycle of stupidity your are sold into..
@tonyamartin1425 3 жыл бұрын
Yea God hasnt decided to fix one yet so dont be an idiot
@wendyswaby7311 3 жыл бұрын
I tried to heal someone who's a friend to me and I suffered a nervous breakdown instead
@nancinew8288 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you said Jesus healed people on the sabbath day just to trigger the narcissists. OMG I was laughing so hard. Jesus is so amazing and so awesome❤️ He even called them white washed tombs and broods of vipers. He told them their father is the devil and basically told them they would split hell wide open. He told the people (in front of them) to go ahead and listen to their speeches in the synagogues if they want but do not live like they do for they are hypocrites. Yep Jesus did all that and more. He calls a spade a spade that’s for sure❤️
@KatherineJetton 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! That made me so happy too! Jesus was doing good and it just revealed their evil hearts
@marciafredericks7333 Ай бұрын
I do not know if our saviour healed to trigger a narcissist. Not sure if that is scriptural. I more want to believe he healed to set the captives free and to let the world know he was the true messiah.
@KassmillS 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this, I am in the process of separating from narcissist husband. Knowing your loved one is a narcissist doesn't stop how much you love them. This gave me the perspective I needed. The best thing you can do for a narcissist you love is completely let them go and leave them in God's hands ❤
@sabrinarenataditaranto4960 3 жыл бұрын
This is the most uplifting message on you tube about people who are seen as narcissists. I had to remove myself from him because he couldn’t help it hating me for the Holy Spirit that dwells in me. It’s so sad because we as Christians we love deeply. To turn away from people we love so deep is painful but needed for them to consider their behavior. I pray for him daily, prayer is our strongest weapon. Take heart for those who suffer on losing the ones they love but watching them get lost. Keep praying if you are guided to 💛🙏🏼
@lauraleemoderndaysamaritan4137 2 жыл бұрын
I had to leave my husband ,I went to a domestic abuse shelter for women. Abba took care of me. We cannot help them, they have to want to get help, but first they must admit they need help and get the right kind of help...
@spectranaut2464 2 жыл бұрын
If you are loving stop believing in a power hungry psycho who will kill you or your family at any second for not affirming him. Read your holy book it is not loving.
@sabrinarenataditaranto4960 2 жыл бұрын
@@lauraleemoderndaysamaritan4137 i Hope you are ok 💛
@lauraleemoderndaysamaritan4137 2 жыл бұрын
@@sabrinarenataditaranto4960 I am well, thank you so much for your kind concern! I turned to the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob and He has been faithful in His provisions of help and healing!
@lauraleemoderndaysamaritan4137 2 жыл бұрын
@@sabrinarenataditaranto4960 I am well, thank you so much!
@MTRX2011 2 жыл бұрын
it's a matter of freewill. they have to choose healing.
@ilovedogs938 Жыл бұрын
Hands down the most relaxing and assuring video on God and narcissism. I feel relaxed finally, after being so nervous, anxious and stressed about my narcissistic parents. Knowing that I can lean on Jesus for help and wait for God to deal with them makes me feel like a huge rock has been lifted. Jesus, I trust in you!
@Postulatedstate 7 сағат бұрын
Amen ❤
@James-mc5hc 11 ай бұрын
God has to heal the victim of the narcissist who has been destroyed mentally and physically. In Jesus name.Amen.
@reesejordan907 10 ай бұрын
Yes
@brendatroth3860 Ай бұрын
The victim of the narcissist can heal themselves by getting away from the Narcissist, praying to God for his help and guidance and following God's words and the scriptures.
@Curiostygotthecat Ай бұрын
AMEN
@martyortiz3762 3 жыл бұрын
You don’t know how much this impacted me! I’ve been married to my narcissist husband for 29 years and I am going crazy makes me feel like I am crazy and even my children think that I’m dumb and crazy. Only my youngest daughter sees what is happening exactly what he does. She even used the word disgusted and went to sleep crying one night. I really needed this thanks
@maatbastet5517 2 жыл бұрын
i’m sorry for what your going through. I’m glad you found this.
@christhomas5641 2 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened in my life. We can put our trust in the LORD. Until then stay away from him 💜💜💛🙏🙏
@wildsiempre3716 2 жыл бұрын
Leave might have to live in a homeless shelter but you now making your daughter cry and suffer with you because misery loves company.
@minoozolala 2 жыл бұрын
You need to get out of your marriage. Narcissists only get worse with age. You are hurting yourself and your children by staying.
@teresanum278 2 жыл бұрын
Teaching to help and do not give. kzfaq.info/sun/PLPNQdAefzkSMKMcCCZAROMCxCJF0VkaKs
@lovearttherapyalways 3 жыл бұрын
This is the wisest video I have heard so far on narcissism. It really is at the core.. the heart, a hardened heart is very dangerous and the sad thing is if they do not want to hear you . they will NOT... . hmmm.. proverbs 29:1 applies perfectly... their pride, stiff necks cause them to be sick... narcisssitic... Whoever remains stiff-necked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed--without remedy.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! That is such an apt verse you shared for a narcissist.
@jesuswilljudge7296 Жыл бұрын
Reprobate
@jambo731 2 жыл бұрын
I thank you for your word and encouragement. I left my narcissistic fiancée over 5 months ago (I've been real No Contact) Changed phone number and live in another city. I still pray for her.. we were together for 4 years (lived together the last 2 years when I walked out and left) I pray for her to have a radical encounter with God and He Save her. I am not looking for reconciliation but I don't want her in Hell. Thank you for the eye opening revelation to their real need and how difficult it will be for her. I love the song from Anne Wilson "let me tell you about my Jesus" Ain't No Sinner that He can't save!! My sincere prayer is that she gets Saved. She is and always has been in His hands
@mea24palustre3 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same! I don't want him in hell. I keep praying for him that God encounters him and heal him.
@zach_blackburn Жыл бұрын
And the sick part is, she'll make up some story and say "He left me!" and turn the bad light on you.
@jambo731 Жыл бұрын
@@zach_blackburn I did leave her. More than 19 months ago. Prayed for her last night at my church prayer meeting 🙏🏽. I haven’t seen nor spoken to her since I walked out. I’ve been blessed in a new relationship with someone who has experienced the same treatment. Zach I pray all is well with you. 🙏🏽✝️❤️
@drea4195 2 жыл бұрын
Before I knew what narcissism was, I fantasized about the narcissistic people in my life -- particularly the ex -- having a sudden change of heart when they saw how humble and gracious I was. I was taught by my church that if a wife was faithful enough, prayed enough, and showed enough love, submission, and attention to her unbelieving husband, he would be won over to God and repent. I tried this approach for literally decades. It was like a spiritual and emotional torture for me, and apparently, I was never good enough to win him over. When he finally discarded me, I believe it was God allowing me to escape this bondage of a marriage, just as He allowed the Israelites to escape Pharoah. The bible verse that says that God hates divorce, was repeated frequently in my church. I believe that He does hate divorce, but He hates for His children to be in bondage even more. There is more scriptural evidence that He truly hates all of the evil that leads to divorce, making divorce (often) the only way a suffering spouse can be free. I wish my church had focused a bit on that! Mercy triumphs over judgement, it says so in James 2:13. He will have mercy on us rather than judging us for leaving any abusive relationship. Please remember this, dear sisters and brothers. 🙏
@anneliese2773 Жыл бұрын
I struggle with the same topic. I don't want a divorce and I cannot even afford one. Jesus helps me staying sane. My husband is away, most of the time working. I learn to trust my Jesus and to listen to him. He is my true husband and I am his bride. I have found a treasure in him, that is worth everything. I would love to see my husband fall on the Rock "Jesus" and I pray for him, but in the meantime I am trying to do my best. When I go to Jesus in my devotional time, he gives me strength to build up me healthy boundaries and still be a spouse. When I'm dressed down, He builds me up again. I depend on God, not on my husband. God will be my judge, and my saviour!
@marciafredericks7333 Ай бұрын
Please don't be mad at the church. Years ago churches nor the world diagnosed NPD. This is 2024 it's only in the last 2 months I have become aware of what narcissism is and understand it a little better. These diagnosis were not there 10 20 30 years ago. Much was not known on it. It's now through social media so many people are able to get information on this. Had their been social media like this e0 years ago your husband would have been exposed for who He is. Education was lacking all around on mental illness and disorders back.then.
@deniluhoffman 3 жыл бұрын
I waited for this. It never happened. That is when God told me, he will never change. Go free yourself. Have the life I have written for you.
@greenqueen2673 2 жыл бұрын
I waited for 25 years in my marriage until God said to me, "He's not going to change; what are you going to do?" I divorced my husband and he is still the same controlling, abusive individual. I praise God for getting me out of that situation.
@greedfgc1830 2 жыл бұрын
why do women marry a man and expect him to change rather than pursue things with a genuine good man? just curious cuz i see that alot. seems like the bad boy appeal.
@EloraSelah Жыл бұрын
@@greenqueen2673 why do you Divorce? What purpose will. It serve? Your children will suffer live separately, be at a distance but after years of marriage divorce ?? In middle age you guys go out to seek new husbands ??
@greenqueen2673 Жыл бұрын
@@EloraSelah I prayed and fasted for my husband to change, but he would not. I knew if we didn't divorce that one of us was going to die and the other one was going to jail. I didn't want to do either. God has called us to peace, and we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (Read I Cor. 7 and others). I was a Christian at the time, and I did not think it was possible for God to approve a divorce without adultery. But surprisingly, He helped me make that decision. Moreover, after the divorce, my ex-husband revealed to one of our sons that he had been a serial cheater throughout the marriage even while accusing me of the same. Nice, huh? As far as remarriage, if it is God's will, He will bring a proper mate; in the meantime, I am retired and enjoying my peace in His service. Shalom.
@kazeeevaughan3380 3 жыл бұрын
Trust should never be interpreted as a "given". When someone continually lies & deceives you intentionally, Trust needs to be " Earnt" not a "Given". Boundaries must be set in stone & adhered to. If not, then let those toxic beings go.
@Merkava56 2 жыл бұрын
You can't get deliverance until you want it more than anything. Even demon processed people can cry out for deliverance. Psalm 107:19-22 King James Version 19 Then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and he saveth them out of their distresses. 20 He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions.
@sneha.capri_46789 2 ай бұрын
Yes it is absolutely true
@kaseycorliss7282 2 жыл бұрын
I've watched tons of videos on narcissism and this advice is better than any "therapist" videos I've watched.
@giuseppezabatta1424 3 жыл бұрын
God is a good God he will never reject anyone who goes to him ..he is waiting for you with open arm ..the choice is yours.asking for healing
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@danettelindsay9606 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@ladyelijah3224 2 жыл бұрын
You can’t just ask for healing. You must absolutely of your own free will come to the conclusion that the way your living according to GodsWord is unrighteousness and then beg for forgiveness. When he sees your heart is truly repentant than and only then shall the person be delivered.
@angel772921 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this perspective and teaching...I needed to walk away from my entire dysfunctional family and went no contact over 3 years..my actions and silence speaks volumes...no confrontation was needed as you said it was too dangerous...Our Lord has healed a very broken soul into wholeness and empowerment. .forgotten wellness and peace reign in my world...my family are always in my prayers every day...I hope they find their way...but now I let go and let God. ..blessings and much love to you!💜
@zealheals 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Your comment just helped me make a life-changing decision...for the better😄
@angel772921 3 жыл бұрын
@@zealheals bless you...you will be protected...strength and love to you!💜
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Angel, I love that, "let go and let God." It is amazing how you have walked that out. Bless you! ❤️
@angel772921 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShaneenMegji 💜💜💜
@rosemarykeddie9398 Жыл бұрын
I had a very close friend who had 8 of the narcissistic personality traits. Thankfully healing is happening now. There is hope.🙏🥰🤗 Truly the love of God will bring them repentance.
@Trasea 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining this so well! My takeaway nuggets of truth... "It takes an intervention from God to humble them.... to break thru their barrier of pride to get to the real issue, which is shame... but God will never intrude on the free will of a person... though He may influence circumstances in a narcissist's life to expose their heart and motivate him/her to ask for healing... they need to be called out on their behavior, confronted and exposed, as Jesus did with the Pharisees... but this can be dangerous for us to do; it may be best to step back, pray for them, and trust God to work miracles... nothing is impossible with God!"
@daniellesedrak6162 3 жыл бұрын
Knowing Shaneen personally as a friend makes this video all the more powerful. Shaneen is a friend who is genuine & real and full of compassion to help anyone navigate through life difficulties esp this tender subject with her own real life experience. This video is well done
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Danielle!
@ChristinaFromYoutube 2 жыл бұрын
It is very well done! You are blessed to have her as a friend!!
@nannymcphee222 2 жыл бұрын
Danielle ~ I truly believe it when you say she is a genuine & real friend. 💖
@jessicawilliams7898 2 жыл бұрын
I am actually a child and family therapist, a Christian wife and mother 1st. This video resonated with me so much, thank you so much for your for your obedience. Super helpful, especially since most of what the world has to say about narcissistic healing does not lineup with God's word. Thank you again 🙏💪
@AdonaiForMe 2 жыл бұрын
I just came across your channel and so glad I did. You show such spiritual wisdom, gentleness and encouragement for those suffering in narcissistic relationships. Thank you for your videos, so helpful! My daughter has suffered at the hands of a narcissistic husband for over twenty years. She loves the Lord and has stayed so faithful in the midst of great emotional suffering and it has nearly destroyed her physical health. I’m believe she has chronic PTSD. After watching her husband go through a number of counselors without great improvement and his behavior seemingly changed for a brief time only, I am convinced only a true complete heart change rooted in Christ will save a narcissist. I pray for all who suffer in narcissistic relationships, the damage is real.
@hjkseygnewns 9 ай бұрын
Tell her to get out. They don't change, her health will continue to deteriorate from CPTSD. I was with a covert narcissist for 19 years before finally leaving. Best decision I've ever made. God was the one who got me out 🙏
@tairad1 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything she said , having. Dealt with a narcissist wife it has been one of the most terrific experience I have to deal with being Christian and being save it really showed me things that I thought were gone ,but it still was in me . To be married to the enemy , and they claim To be Christian is on another level . I pray for all who is in narcissistic relationship, that they have the peace of God that surpasses all understanding , cause if you don’t know what you dealing with like I didn’t know you will be left confused and hurt !
@maxtaylor7105 3 жыл бұрын
Dear friend thank you so much for this video. You have already helped me immensely! I am 40 years into my marriage. I have had numerous mental breakdowns, I have been on medications. I'm currently for the first time in my life feeling Deliverance. I am seeking God to forgive my spouse. I am doing this because I finally believe that I am ready to bring healing into my own life. I have no idea what the future looks like however I am going to trust God one day at a time.
@jeanniecannon4612 3 жыл бұрын
Yes several mental breakdowns from neglect, gaslighting, etc. they are not willing to communicate or work out and resolve serious issues. The covert narcissist is most dangerous.
@sparky2390 2 жыл бұрын
Great insights! I absolutely agree that only God can heal narcissists if they ask Him for it.
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Bless you. 🙏🏽🕊
@jsfoyer5769 13 күн бұрын
Sister, only God can heal anyone, no matter the sin is. Self-centerness is what psychology has called narcissism. The blood of Jesus is all powerful to clean the sinner and to purify the heart( 1John1:9) Some sins are more despicable than others BUT there is only one unique way to be cleanse, and It’s The Blood of The Lamb. Stay hopeful and blessed
@JJMills-yl1zj 2 жыл бұрын
THANKS so much for sharing this message. I felt my heart being hardened because I began to believe that there was absolutely no hope for change in my marriage covenant with my wife who displays Narcissistic behavior. Now, I'm challenged to always remember that with God ALL things are possible and that He alone can heal, deliver, and set free whoever Humbly desires change in His time. THANKS again and much Love to you and your family. 💯💞 God Bless!😁🙏🏽
@jacquelinefroehle5868 Жыл бұрын
I have too much empathy for others, and I made the big mistake of deciding that showing them more love, being very giving, trying to help them when they asked, and even being available incase they needed me....which was enabling them. Now, I've completely stopped doing anything for them. I no longer want contact with them. I was entirely too optimistic about me giving them love. They see it as agreeing to be abused more by them. Now, I am almost afraid to be around them again.
@addyrule1520 3 жыл бұрын
God can heal anyone if they are willing.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@alfonsobejarano4531 3 жыл бұрын
In my experience 23 years trying with my exwife, they pretend to change, they said that they feel a change, the issue is not what they said is what they do, God will change you of course if you let him, they so wicked that I think God doesn't want to deal with this malevolent creatures.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Alfonso, you are right that change is not about what someone says, but about what they do. And after a while, if people refuse to cooperate with what God wants to do in their hearts, God just gives them over to their evil desires.
@zealheals 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, verrry cunning. That network if spirits know when you're about to leave. Then, treat you worse than before once you give in... reward/punishment cycles 🙏🏾4U
@Dastardly_X 3 жыл бұрын
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@cross-eyedmary6619 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. They just get better at faking.
@SherryONeill 3 жыл бұрын
@@cross-eyedmary6619 Seven More Wicked Come In
@antheasauls692 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much dearest. I looked for you as I struggled with divorcing a narcissist. I prayed to the Lord to change my husband and he didn't, he actually got worst. You said it right, he has a free will. Today as I am grieving for being separated and soon divorce. I understand now that my husband has a free will and especially being a Christian. I love and forgave him, and trust that he will surrender to Christ. For now I have to take care of my sanity and my health. X
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear you are taking care of yourself, Anthea. I pray God bring much healing, comfort and peace to your heart. He loves you so much! Bless you. 🙏🏽💕🕊🌺
@lunminthangkipgen7967 Жыл бұрын
I was so hopeless but this video gives me so much hope and new direction. Prayers are for all who are struggling to overcome their narcissism or who are fighting their loved narcissit to heavenly journey. Yes the journey is painful and long but sure there is hope
@Azure_Zahab_Truth_Zealot 3 жыл бұрын
the key... stop lying, to others and especially self, which means they must love Truth and shun all lies... put that narcissism to work by testing and proving all things, leaving no room for any lies at all. Trusting in the written word of Scripture. No lies equals no confusion.
@michellemendozapagan5808 2 жыл бұрын
the trues is you can pray for this person with this narcissism but they need to have a humble hart and willing to change they will have to look themself to know they are wrong and change but they don't see nothing wrong with them for them
@sharonscott3662 3 жыл бұрын
Through GOD all things are possible!
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@christinereilly8829 Жыл бұрын
This is the first time I have read about prayer being used to overcome the influence of a narcissistic person. I have been praying for God's help in dealing with my narcissistic husband, and you have affirmed that what I am doing is the right thing. I will be praying even harder now because you have given me hope. Thank you.
@thebrains4029 Жыл бұрын
Dear Almighty God, I am struggling with my wife. I left her because of her hateful, hostile ,belligerent and inconsiderate ways and behavior. Please God, open her eyes to the extreme damage she's doing to herself and our family! Help her to understand what love is! Show her the things she needs to see to help her get well. Let not the demonic forces destroy her and our family. Give me the patience to wait on you. Guide and protect all those left behind in that house with her, my kids and grandkids. Bless me with the continued ability to provide for my family and myself. Please Almighty God, let not evil win! My family and I need your divine intervention! I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over my family as well as myself!
@karlawenger5033 7 ай бұрын
My prayer for my husband as well!! I keep crying out to God to change my husband with a miracle. Like He did with making Saul into Paul! A complete turn around! Oh please Jesus! Help my husband to see the pain & hurt hes causing my children, grandchildren and me, his wife! I want our family whole and healed! In Jesus nane, Amen
@ellenyoungblood4711 3 жыл бұрын
By far, one of the best videos I have ever seen for this disease! Thank you!
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@shattayutemun 3 жыл бұрын
I really resonate with what you're saying coming out of a narcissistic relationship; God delivered me from anxiety and depression by letting my partner go, submitting myself to him and trusting in his truth.
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you for sharing. I'm so happy to hear that. Our God is so good. 🙏🏽
@shattayutemun 3 жыл бұрын
@Michael Kennedy just go earnestly and with great desperation in submission to God. Admit to him that he showed you what was right in front of you from the very start but you choose to live in your own delusions. Repent for going against him by trusting your heart and emotions which are deceitful and pray for salvation from your situation; God will deliver. Thank him that you now acknowledge the truth and In Jesus name you shall be free! Philippians 4:6 spoke to me, may it bless you as well brother
@flyprincess69 2 жыл бұрын
I often say, If you dropped a Narcissist on a deserted island and allowed them to sit alone with themselves. They would heal themselves.
@marciafredericks7333 Ай бұрын
Too funny. Maybe that's what they need. Nothing to manipulate but rocks and trees.
@perry74mac Жыл бұрын
thank you so very much. This information was very helpful. Probably the most helpful information that I have encountered thus far in my journey. I was able to break away from my narcissist and create a healthy and safe space between us. Having gone no contact, my life has returned to normal, my health been restored and my sanity returned. I know that judgement has been carried out and pray that she be humbled. I pray to see her healed more than anything in the world. I want to share this with her but like you said that we need to get out of God's way and let him get involved. I did everything that I could and that was more than enough. Again thank you for your insight and explanation, you may have helped save another soul. God bless
@marywelch6832 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent!! So grateful! Confirmation for years of prayer. I needed a true believer to speak regarding this subject. Although I appreciate all the podcasts of others, and I have learned from each. Still, I needed a biblical response. Thank You so much! I am greatly encouraged that God is in control, and I am hearing His voice.😍🙏🏻✝️🌷
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Praise God! 🤗🌺☀️🙏🏽
@denniscraven8438 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your channel. My wife and I suffer from narcissistic abuse from a daughter-in-law. But as Christians we want to have biblical response and solutions. Thank you so much for the balance that you offer for Christ's followers....
@julieschaefer9964 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Shaneen for this wonderful video. It reassured me that my decision to stay away from the narcissist and put him in God's hands was a wise one. I pray for his healing and salvation.
@4JosheyD2005 Жыл бұрын
Incredible message. Thank you for being a vessel for our Lord Jesus
@ShaneenMegji Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@julieheine1647 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This video was so informative and helpful My son is in a relationship with a Narcissist and he has suffered much emotional abuse I loved the two examples of Narcissism from the bible and how God dealt with them
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Julie!
@maleafriedley1861 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! He is the prince of peace!!!!
@matselisoxoliswasmakade4069 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jesus Thank you Lord 🤲I really needed this message. Being led by someone who is a narcissist in my workplace has been so difficult and draining. Help us Lord. We need You. We need You. Intervene Father 🤲
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad the message was helpful. God bless you Matseliso! 🙏🏽🕊
@jim9119 2 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful you posted this. I lived with a narcissist boyfriend for 2 hrs and confronted him about once a month and he would just absolutely lose it and revolt. I have been reprimanding myself for speaking out against him, but your video has helped me see it was justified. Thank you so much ❤️
@katceeee 3 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY what I've been struggling with and asking God about!
@kathleenross4820 2 жыл бұрын
Distance yourself from the narcissist. You are not his Savior. Jesus is King. God does not need you to save this person.
@magdalenolivetngo133 2 жыл бұрын
Well said and so encouraging for people who's gone through manipulation and trying to build their life back. I love the part where you mentioned the space is important and just pray for them that Jesus will intervene and they will allow the Lord to work on them.
@proudmoon3 Жыл бұрын
From my personal experience with a narcissistic (now-ex-) husband, this video contains SO, SO MUCH TRUTH!
@letthecreativityout7521 3 жыл бұрын
Thank God I found this channel!! This video is EXACTLY what I’ve been wondering about and I couldn’t find any biblical resources explaining this anywhere! Thank you for this channel!
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you!🙏🏽. I’m so glad it was helpful.
@ad6417 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissists are not possessed. They have chosen to serve themselves rather than Christ.
@cindyann4474 3 жыл бұрын
Did you ever seen a Narcissist with their eyes turn black looking at you?
@cross-eyedmary6619 3 жыл бұрын
James Eslick I agree. It’s surprising to me how many people won’t call it what it is.
@cindyann4474 3 жыл бұрын
@@cross-eyedmary6619 There is a battle between good and evil" ....
@cindyann4474 3 жыл бұрын
@James Eslick Yes, it is true we all humanity can have bad and good in us all, and in reality we are either a child of God or a child of satan the devil" ... For real real Thou" ...🙏🙏🙏
@lisajackson6950 3 жыл бұрын
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@citigirlie211 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect explanation of narcissism from the Christian point of view. Your examples in the Bible characters were very good. Thank you. Clear and concise and easy to understand. Thank you, Shaneen.
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Lisa. God bless you! 🙏🏽😊
@JesusBothLordandChrist Жыл бұрын
This is the BEST video I've seen on this topic. Very sound advice and very biblical. Thank you.
@ShaneenMegji Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@annieb8521 3 жыл бұрын
My narcissistic husband admits he has a problem and we do couples therapy, i think it depends how far there narcissism is on the spectrum. Sometimes miracles happen! Thank God!
@ShaneenMegji 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, narcissism indeed falls on a spectrum and is not a black and white thing. I'm so glad to hear that your husband is doing couples therapy with you. Thank you God!! 🙏🏽😊🤗
@annieb8521 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShaneenMegji Saddly my husband showed his true colors once again, i had so much hope, i am so sad, i've been praying for him for a long time, brought him to healing masses(catholic Christian) went to therapy with him, but at night when i was sleeping he would wonder in the streets and smoke pot, not sharing that with me and got into rages infront of the kids and myself. My husband was diagnosed 10 yrs ago as a narcissist but i think he might also be bipolar. Now im seperated from him and im leaving him to God, praying for him is all i can do. I have unexplained health problems that sometimes get severe, and i've been a stay at home mom for 10 yrs with 4 kids, i know im doing the right thing even though i have no income, first in life we need to take out the toxic people., i put all my trust in God and God is my refuge and my only Savior, i know he will help me. Thankyou so much Shaneen for your video's the one with the branch and tree metaphor is the one that gave me the strenght to release him out of our lives, may God bless you.😊
@glenbot548 2 жыл бұрын
My husband repented Like 3 times, and last Dec I told him to leave, he is not changed at all, had a double life and I found it out. God told me clearly, get out of the way, so I told him go leave, now he is in God's hands
@latosha4603 11 ай бұрын
It was unmistakably God that led me to this video. My husband is a narcissist. It's been 8 years of a crazy roller coaster and I've been near giving up. I prayed and fasted three days to get a clear answer from God on what to do. Two messages I know God clearly spoke to me in those days. Don't quit. And continue to pray. To be honest I kinda rolled my eyes in frustration and exasperation. But I repented and have been doing as instructed. This video gave me so much hope. Because of an ongoing legal situation we have to live apart. I've been spending more time than I ever have in my word and praying. I chose to focus on God's promise to keep me in perfecf peace if my mind is stayed on Him. I've been forcing myself to focus on God and not my husband. The legal issues finally forced me to get out of God's way. To stop trying to fix my husband. God doesnt need my help! I've been feeling like I'm weak and a pushover for not walking away. For even entertaining the idea of coming back together. But I genuinely love my husband. Ive known him over 30 years. He was my high-school swewtheart. And I know the person he is today is not him. There is a compassionate person in there. He's frightened. Broken. Insecure. I want to see him free and healed! I'm so thankful for what you shared. I feel free and like I am on the right track. To God be the glory! Thank you for being obedient on His call to your life!!!
@dreamwavemermaid 10 ай бұрын
I will be praying for you and your husband. Your faith is inspiring may God bless you!!
@latosha4603 10 ай бұрын
@@dreamwavemermaid how very kind! God bless you as well.
@glaizachristlevalencia3754 9 ай бұрын
Very well explained. I pray that the person I used to love be healed against his narcissm.
@soon7-then8forever 2 жыл бұрын
Hmmm, I appreciate your perspective. You're right ... most you tubers ... including clinical psychologists, just say there is no hope for change in the narcissist, advising we RUN from the narcissist in our lives. I have struggled with this b/c the narcissist in my life is my aging father for whom I have returned home to care for, as well as my mother who has been abused by him for almost 70 years. And I must say .. she has largely stayed in the relationship b/c of "church teaching" I will listen to more of your videos as your perspective is intriguing.
@Rubester-cl6op 2 жыл бұрын
The short answer yes. The longer answer still yes but they would have to admit they have a problem and they likely won’t, also even if they do heal we deserve to move forward with out them heal and find healthy love.
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
Well said. God bless you. 🙏🏽🕊
@annamaegold 2 жыл бұрын
I love your notion of God's "tough love" to humble the narcissist. Tough, but love nevertheless. The same love honors the free will of the narcissist. Perhaps the biggest lesson for spiritual recipients of narcissistic abuse is to be HUMBLE enough to realize that it is not "our" love that heals, but that we need to step aside and let the Holy Spirit do the work. Interestingly enough, as we realize and embrace that humility, we mirror that possibility back to the narcist. Of course humility and narcissism are like fire and ice. It's hard to set a frozen heart on fire.
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
I love what you said about being humble enough to accept that our love cannot heal a narcissist, but to step aside and let the Holy Spirit do the work. So true. God bless you. 🙏🏽🕊
@IreneBento33 6 ай бұрын
Both me and my husband were narcissists or at least had traits of a narcissist and that destroyed our marriage…💔😔 I believe that you reap what you sow…but I’m am at a peace now. I went through severe post partum depression and had anxiety however I got closer to God during my self isolation. I confronted my husband and said during his self isolation has it not helped you see some of your narcissistic traits? He got defensive, called me names and said the destruction of our marriage was me 😢. He’s moved on to someone else, I wish him nothing but the best and pray that God can reach his soul like he did for me. When I say this to him…he says oh now you’re the perfect angel?! I say no, no one said I was perfect… I’m no angel. This is just my healing of getting closer to God…. I really hope he sees what I see and what others see about him… 🙏🏼
@angelinag4116 Ай бұрын
Having narcissistic traits is still as far away from pathological NPD as it is to the moon.
@browndolluk 2 жыл бұрын
You have so much joy in your spirit, and the humour underneath talking about narcissists gives some real insisght into how you've overcome your own experiences and is so admirable. Your strength and courage is beautiful and just shows how resilient you've become. Inspiring. Encouraging. Amazing.
@mimin4084 3 жыл бұрын
Duh God can heal anything or anyone.. With God everything is possible 👍🌈❤️
@sergioflores3156 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your spiritual approach, some of us have been in an abusive relationship for years. I once left her and did not talk to her and see her for 3 months. She would call and cry and promised me the world and as a christian person i felt sorry and decided to give her a chance. She actually did change for awhile and it started all over again and then things would be great, it has been a long time and unfortunately I am 70years old she is 65 and a little too late for a new start. I am now emotionally attached to our three girls and now the grandkids.I have been educating myself by watching so many videos on behavior and have learned so much and now actually using a lot of preservation information based on the videos on how to deal with the Narcissist. Thank you and God bless you.
@ShaneenMegji 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome. God bless you too!
@RealLadi228 2 жыл бұрын
You can protect the future generations with your presence ✨️ ❤️ 💕
@christamacnaughton8223 Жыл бұрын
‘I am now emotionally attached to our three girls ‘? This statement really worries me. Have you evaluated your own ability to have a healthy relationship? Have you ever considered that you may also be part of the problem? (We all have a part to play)
@msladydi123 Жыл бұрын
Thank you...finally someone that addresses narcissism from a biblical stand point.. You use scripture accurately to form your teaching. You back up what you say with scripture! The truth shall set you free!
@miamoxam 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect! I’m a pastor dealing with a person with NPD. I needed to hear this. It’s hard to let go and trust God, but that’s the answer here.
@keithstewart7514 2 жыл бұрын
My mother found an evil Pastor in Bakersfield CA @ Mill Creek Christian Church on a st. Pastor Bass Turd Micheal John Sutherland from Canada!
@belunu4980 2 жыл бұрын
Please get deliverance. NPD is a demonic spirit.
@msprettykawaii950 3 жыл бұрын
I believe, they need a therapy similar to a child with CPTSD because where the trauma starts, the emotional maturity will be stucked there
@WhereTheyLay 2 жыл бұрын
Check out Sam Vaknin's channel. He seems to be leading psychology in the most recent understanding of it
@leonenel8781 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. God has given you the keys we need as He wants us not only to identify but to Pray. In so doing we can TRUST HIM and break free from being the victim.
@jeffreyzeiss1326 Жыл бұрын
The subject of narcissists and narcissism is the gift that keeps on giving! It never gets tired and always amazes me. I am delighted to study the subject matter from a Christian point of view. Thank you for all you do.
@SoozTalkWorthTelling 3 ай бұрын
You are the FIRST to address the hurting and not just those who get hurt. Finally someone mentioning, not just describing the symptoms incessantly of the narcissist. Yes, God loves all the afflicted. Do we only ever talk protection for the caregiver of a cancer patient, ignoring the hurting, hopeless person with cancer? Are we warning caregivers to practice self-care to the point of separating the relationship they had with the one suffering horribly by the symptoms and effects of a fatal cancer. The needy person with cancer also affects relationships around them. Is your advice for the caregiver to walk away for their own protection too?
@cindyreeves5048 2 жыл бұрын
This is what I’ve been trying to deal with. I had to leave 21 days ago due to my own physical mental health. Thank you.
@happykatt8967 2 жыл бұрын
I wish it hadn't taken me 20+years to bail on my narcissist husband. It ruined our children's lives. If I had to do all over again I would have gotten out after after a couple of years
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