How to Be Comfortable Being Alone

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How to Be Comfortable Being Alone | Robin Sharma

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Robin Sharma

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@AuthenticSelfGrowth 5 жыл бұрын

Being alone contains a power that very few can handle 💥

@Lott0Jay 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@FleurDeLysPTV 4 жыл бұрын

Indeed.

@user2004k 4 жыл бұрын

It's painful

@nosaizekor8389 4 жыл бұрын

Authentic Self Guide I need some tips on how to learn to live a good life on being alone

@realadityaarjun 4 жыл бұрын

I can't handle it now i Just want to do sucide.

@Insightful_Locs 5 жыл бұрын

“The way to heal a wound, is to feel a wound.” Hardest thing to do

@bubblescooper1216 4 жыл бұрын

💜🥺

@EzequielMartin55vf 4 жыл бұрын

Yes lt's so hard I try to avoid it it's hell if I try to feel it cause of C-PTSD it's like I go back to the same fear anxiety doubts and terror

@indianhrmanager3012 4 жыл бұрын

stylesby skiing

@23dec1979 4 жыл бұрын

11qq111111111111111111

@beautifulsunshine352 3 жыл бұрын

Actually, pray for courage. Once we acknowledge our feelings, we can become free.

@AwneetKour 5 жыл бұрын

I stay alone most of the days . Best person to be with, is your self.

@Rahul_Lata_ 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Living alone is just awesome 😊

@TSlille 5 жыл бұрын

yes

@MCOAjayKumarKS 5 жыл бұрын

Of course

@abovethelaw4417 5 жыл бұрын

Same

@Zshan1089 5 жыл бұрын

Agree

@cristinaferreira2230 4 жыл бұрын

There's nothing like inner peace.

@crypticcoding9680 3 жыл бұрын

this is how you see the world :)

@priyanshimehta1162 4 жыл бұрын

The best line "You are the only person who's gonna be with you as long as you live" Amazing video... Love your books sir.. Huge fan

@km4hr 3 жыл бұрын

Stupid statement, if you have family and friends many of them will outlive you.

@riptide7999 3 жыл бұрын

@@km4hr but not everyone will be there for you. You can only trust yourself

@mrpierce9591 2 жыл бұрын

Right? My Ma would tell this to me, (word for word) as a child. Although a devastating reality to us hopeless romantics... it's as true as the Earth rotates.

@justinamusyoka4986 2 жыл бұрын

@@km4hr That statement applies to ones persona not others.

@tarunpreetkaur1115 5 жыл бұрын

He speaks so warmly and with so much simplicity.... listening to him....feels like meditation ⚛️

@prajwalsolanki1049 5 жыл бұрын

Tarunpreet Kaur damn true✨ mediation would be the best word to describe his sessions 😊

@hanuneahmed807 4 жыл бұрын

I feel the same thing

@diegoenrique4510 4 жыл бұрын

Smoke weed while listening to this

@amangadpale9284 4 жыл бұрын

Or he have mic with high sensitivity!!!

@sandeepelechil2499 3 жыл бұрын

Same

@maimohamed3590 5 жыл бұрын

"I mighty be alone but never lonely" ✨

@kodedbadguy1903 4 жыл бұрын

how do you do it

@lonerhappy 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel sorry for myself and feel lonely. Then it goes away and I'm okay.

@chathuanushki6331 4 жыл бұрын

@@lonerhappy I have gone through the same feeling many times.I dont knw how to handle with it

@j8jatse4jat90 4 жыл бұрын

@@kodedbadguy1903 phone social media does that count alone.

@azathoththe3rd 4 жыл бұрын

One man can sit in a crowded room and feel alone. Another man can sit in an empty room and never feel alone.

@amyanderson4123 5 жыл бұрын

Being able to be okay being alone is the most powerful. I need for nothing. I want for nothing.

@awakenthegreatnesswithin 5 жыл бұрын

Amy 75206 You have everything

@dashneelkaur5171 4 жыл бұрын

I am always alone. I really like to be alone and quiet. While I'm alone I like to day dream and think about the things I love to do every single day. Being alone is the most best thing to do when your sad or happy because some alone time could make you figure out things that your confused with or things your trying to understand. Sometimes you need to be alone and have time for your self. It is sometimes healthy to be alone and quiet rather than being loud and with your friends all the time.Thats all I have to say. I hope y'all understand what I'm trying to say because I'm not really good at explaining :).

@alexdonnelly2787 3 жыл бұрын

i agree my friend thank you

@trueblackhope9655 3 жыл бұрын

Not easy for me and the tfl community

@daviedood2503 2 жыл бұрын

U hit the wall. Nothing u can do about any wants now 😂

@dreama. 3 жыл бұрын

*Believe it or not* , being alone is better than feeling alone.

@samanthaperez7859 3 жыл бұрын

I get depressed when I’m by myself. I’m trying so hard to feel sufficient with my own company

@tonitorodriguez4545 3 жыл бұрын

You have to be strong 🙏

@bec1465 3 жыл бұрын

I relate to this so much :(

@user-yw4lo1bq1k 3 жыл бұрын

samee

@aranzazutapia7172 3 жыл бұрын

I get anxious in my own thoughts, just know you’re not alone in your battle ❤️

@everydayfun9531 3 жыл бұрын

Man ik its Hard but you have to get Used to it its a tough World out there u cant Trust Everyone cause there are some People that Are Willing to Use you For their Own benifits etc so u have to be Strong.

@tugcekaraman5830 4 жыл бұрын

My ex boyfriend changed, my best friend changed, my friends changed and now I should try to live alone and focus on my success because I know people now :)

@leshonnpack4482 4 жыл бұрын

You go

@leshonnpack4482 4 жыл бұрын

Same with me

@djpatt81 4 жыл бұрын

Tuğçe Karaman everyone and everything is subjective to changing the space changes the world changes the life changes people changes the animals changes the trees changes the weather changes unless we complete standstill like Groundhog Day everything do same things and nothing different. Changes is experience new challenges new skills and growth like a seed changes to a plant then changes to a budding plant then to a flowed plant environment also cause of effect but the plant chooses to correspond to environment or not

@tugcekaraman5830 4 жыл бұрын

@@djpatt81 I don't know, I am afraid of changes tbh

@djpatt81 4 жыл бұрын

Tuğçe Karaman I do to it’s not knowing what it is I am autistic so difficult although I study well but sometimes fear can take you right at edge the unfamiliar the unknown the alien changes being outside comfort zone even pandemic is dramatically change to life style and mind set changes because experience and not knowing were go next or what worse might come

@azizahfebriyanti6008 4 жыл бұрын

I've tried a lot of things to get some friends but that didn't work, so here i am.. watching this video😂

@laxmi4614 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly dude...same here.. still can't figure out what's wrong!

@clairetienne8324 4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@mightyobserver12 4 жыл бұрын

Same! It is hard to fit in or even chase so i dont want to force myself into

@hetrickracing1249 4 жыл бұрын

Azizah Febriyanti I feel that

@abrakadabruhman4002 4 жыл бұрын

Same, but we could be friends ;)

@beaumonroe8520 2 жыл бұрын

I was actually feeling fearful being alone due to Covid and unemployment for over a year and being single I do feel however that I have gotten to know myself better Well I just want to send love ❤️ to everyone who feels alone and I know this feeling will pass 🤟

@dorinaespano77 2 жыл бұрын

You be fine

@paulcooper5748 4 жыл бұрын

Its easy for me because i find most people exhausting to deal with.

@simonshura9144 3 жыл бұрын

Yes and they will let you down eventually at some point so why even bother that much w other external factors and people haha

@McRemmyBaby 3 жыл бұрын

18ys

@user-es9fs9jo6j Жыл бұрын

I'm alone and I've been alone for 20 years now. And I love it. I've been married and divorced for five years. No more drama or arguing over stupid little stuff. I'm more happy now.. People need to try it sometimes. You're love it 🙂

@FayTara 7 ай бұрын

Did you learn anything from your experience and did you grow as a person.

@BooyusJikes 5 жыл бұрын

Being alone is free and priceless at the same time.

@harleyehuffinejr8456 5 жыл бұрын

Day 4 up @ 4am I love it!

@maformeveline9407 2 жыл бұрын

U can say that again.

@jenniferhawkins2908 5 жыл бұрын

I never have lived alone even on my own for years. It is my first two years, alone and awkward I thought I hated it so much and I always was in a relationship many times but I never found love. Men play games. I am not a dog anymore. I don't want to deal with dating chaos or relationship chaos anymore. I found this and I want to learn how to be alone again. I was a child, I knew how to be alone and happy. I have forgotten about it for many years and I want to bring comfortable again.

@sammerkhan4753 5 жыл бұрын

Gudddd

@rajeevranjan7644 4 жыл бұрын

Same here Let's see how it goes Don't know why, but sounds scary. Scary because, most of the time you talk to yourself, reason with yourself,you are in a loop, What if it never stops ? You know the very damn thing, but your heart pulls you to some other direction, and mind stretches you to some other domains and you are in a constant fight with yourself. How can you be happy living that way ? I guess, one can point that even if you are struggling, one day you gonna learn it and be happy with your new self but that doesn't sound logical to me. Bcz if it were something to happen to you the way you imagine, then it should not be a struggle at the very first place. Of course it gonna be a new experience, but it has to be a smooth transition. One is struggling bcz its against their nature, against what they really are at the core. Those who are happy alone( if they are not fooling themselves) would be miserable with the crowd. I mean, he can't be made to be happy with people around. Its like we as individual, are different from one another and can't fool ourselves of being happy when we are wearing only a mask of happiness. I am not saying one can't change themselves. All I am saying is that being disciplined and having a strong will is not enough. There are several factors which brings the lasting change and it takes time. So the idea of changing at will no matter what your intention is something I don't think gonna work ever. If you follow it religiously, after sometime, you gonna feel like you are living someone else's life, residing in someone else's body, or in other words, feeling like your emotions, your thoughts has been hijacked. How long can you brainwash yourself ???? If someone is not a loner by his/her very nature, then he/she still gonna need someone trust worthy atleast to talk his/her heart out and the best one can do to accelerate the change is increase the time with himself/herself but still it gonna take a long time or may be very long time to slowly change into a new yourself. How are you doing these days ? Can you share your life experience ? How did you handle all these ? Any suggestions ?

@ianseymour4066 2 жыл бұрын

Girlfriend of 4 Years left me recently. We talked about our future all the time even up until the end, when she decided to she wanted to live the party life. I tried talking to other women and all that and it only made me miss her more. This is the true path to growth and recovery from anything. As sad as it sounds, you are the only person you can 100% trust in life, but that should be something were okay with. Stay strong everyone.

@PhoebeJaneway 4 жыл бұрын

I love being alone. I only need books, films, nature, my dog....I lile my soul and my thoughts...I enjoy revelling in them

@Meowmeow89299 3 жыл бұрын

Wholesome 💓

@alronmartir6918 3 жыл бұрын

As an extrovert, its my weakness. I dont have a best best friend where they could be available for me 24/7. And im having a hard time being alone. But now i realize i cant please everyone and that i have to master this.

@preetman7829 3 жыл бұрын

So so true . Same happening with me . Instead of making others happy I learnt to make myself happy .its been 2 months leaving all alone in this Corona situation. I call everyone and talk but no one calls me and talks to me . But its okay I am learning to live alone .

@alronmartir6918 3 жыл бұрын

@@preetman7829 you can do it bro!! i believe in you 😍

@user-bb8vf3tq6l 3 жыл бұрын

I am just the same. We can't change our nature.

@Anna-qp1fi 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Brother. Amen.

@remkim8530 2 жыл бұрын

same,I've always gone through this..i don't have friends to talk to.I need to deal my breakup(that I've been so hurt ) myself. It was hard,but I've gone through till now,hope i can overcome again for the days to come..This World is so hard..stay strong everyone❤

@newbiepetrohead 5 жыл бұрын

I used to be okay to be alone when I was in high school, but no longer in university, your video helps, thank you

@laurensturdivant1781 4 жыл бұрын

Agnes Leung I feel the same way! I loved just being home alone in high school but now i feel so pressured to make friends and network that i can’t enjoy being alone anymore. It’s been really hard. I hope things get better

@newbiepetrohead 4 жыл бұрын

Lauren Sturdivant Thanks, I feel better than I was a month ago. Maybe it’s because I finally found something that I want to do while I’m alone :)

@muradmahi9815 3 жыл бұрын

@@newbiepetrohead what do you find ??

@austinalder1478 5 жыл бұрын

I have never thought there was someone that that like me. In essence this make me feel not alone. I was once a man with so many friends and popularity. I had to ditch all that because I felt lost. After being alone for so long I started to miss what I once had. Now it gives me strength spiritually. Modern society has so much pressure towards success it easy to get lost. I just want to say thank you for making me understand that being alone doesn't mean you have to feel alone

@luciarutz6985 4 жыл бұрын

Austin Alder u are never alone in this world. U don’t have to fit into society. I myself have always had the pressure to be something to have something to want something. But the question is, do you need that something?

@mariaoregon5344 2 жыл бұрын

@@luciarutz6985 truth

@coachbahman 5 жыл бұрын

INTROVERTS UNITE

@MH-cv5ye 4 жыл бұрын

With themselves.

@collegedropout2004 4 жыл бұрын

In small groups for a short amount of time!

@cameronsanchez2204 4 жыл бұрын

@@MH-cv5ye XD

@Lott0Jay 4 жыл бұрын

We in the building

@progressivewholesomeness4937 4 жыл бұрын

Paradox

@sarahmarie_e 4 жыл бұрын

"Ego is just the voice of your fear" had to stop at that

@dougporter2356 3 жыл бұрын

Yes... a good way to think about it ...ego

@marquisepayton2475 2 жыл бұрын

“Tranquility is the new luxury” i felt that statement💯

@frederikteisen 3 жыл бұрын

Such extremely powerful advice. I’m 18 years old and grateful knowing I can use this advice for the rest of my life.

@elhadjdiallo633 2 жыл бұрын

Yes yes you are so fortunate you hear this advice ...just make sure don't engage and anything sexually ...becareful out there ...please don't get married until you finish college ok ....good luck I wish you well ...I people don't believe in you I do !!! You're enough , and worthy!!!!

@licksnkicks1166 2 жыл бұрын

I love being by myself alone with my guitar playing! I want to be the best guitar player I can be. I don’t need ppl in my life. I have my family and my coworkers. Music is my life my dream and my goal! I always make time everyday for my guitar. I believe in me! It’s really weird in that as I get older I don’t want to be around others. Just too much damned work! I love me! And not in an egotistical sense!

@SEVEN-bh7qq 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful people make this world beautiful!

@nahidmussani411 4 жыл бұрын

Being alone is being yourself. No judgement no matter how crazy it sounds. You can wear, eat, watch or just seat idle without justifying to anyone. Be alone, be creative, be crazy as normal world is not my cup of tea :)

@roncipriano8352 2 жыл бұрын

How true

@erinndanielle5211 5 жыл бұрын

This is me, afraid to be alone with my own thoughts. However, it seems like you're saying that I will be free of this if I get that time alone. I am willing to do it, I have got to change the fear!

@chhayadivyam 2 жыл бұрын

I hit like without listening to this man. I know he nails it all the time. Been a follower for years. Listen to him, you're fuelled.

@wardelliaenoch8936 Жыл бұрын

I'm never alone. There's always me myself and I Am.😊

@Ladyle4ever 8 ай бұрын

And God ❤

@emmanuelwolf6568 4 жыл бұрын

When I get alone,I tend to think of all the bad things that could go wrong,ie,death,loss,melancholic feelings.i spend too much time like this,I’m getting better but the advice your giving is brilliant,thankyou.

@lorianne4608 2 жыл бұрын

I know that my being alone can give me an anxiety attack. I’m trying to learn about myself. You are probably much younger than me + I’d hate to see you go through life like I did. Don’t do it, Emmanuel! You enjoy every moment you can in life - whether you are alone or not. The trick is that if you learn to really like yourself, opportunity will knock!! Enjoy this time for now + take care of yourself!!

@dessiemalone8315 Жыл бұрын

"So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom." Psalm 90:12

@sbsman4998 2 жыл бұрын

Half a century spent in the crafts making fixing stuff, taking the work home is essential, when alone things get done repaired created visualized and prepared for the next day's work, bringing to material reality what the night before was insights dreams and emptiness ~ great human process of creativity ~

@freddietan3156 5 жыл бұрын

Tranquility is the new luxury 👍👍 Being alone … Being Clarity … is breeds “Mastery” Thank you ‘Sir 🙏🏻

@manishajoshi27 5 жыл бұрын

Living alone is solitude of sublime joy

@ykoidayrit839 5 жыл бұрын

The way you speak, so warm and polite gave me relaxation at the moment that i am alone and sad.

@drunkmexican814 3 жыл бұрын

Im in the same boat right now. I feel so alone and unwanted. Sometimes i feel like an entity just walking by strangers day in and day out. I have many issues apart from being and feeling alone. Ive thought about seeing a therapist but shits expensive so books is my best bet. This video really immensely helped calm my nerves. Thank god for youtube otherwise idk what id do.

@ladyrose83 4 жыл бұрын

Always was seeking love my whole life, trying to makeup for love I didn't get as a child but spent 37 years married to wife beating husband, I finally woke up and realized I would eventually be dead, I looked around and didn't see any support, I decided to be my own best friend, I spend most of my time alone when I'm not working, lm learning to appreciate it and appreciate me as a person, self love is the best love you can truly give yourself, you can be your own best friend, by doing so, you will never ever settle for less than you deserve.

@Summerrose400 Жыл бұрын

I’m hoping you are now safe and happy.

@1shshah 5 жыл бұрын

I do enjoy my own company, I always say when I started spending time alone that's when I met myself - reintroduced myself to myself!

@angeliescobido2037 4 жыл бұрын

And people around me doesn't understand my idea of "I maybe alone but I'm happy." but I still keep myself up the way I want it to be.

@Madhra2k24 5 жыл бұрын

If you are happy alone then you are admiring who you are and how nice you are !

@obonetsemogwe7831 Жыл бұрын

Seriously being alone itself has a strong personality.

@shirleyjones4041 4 жыл бұрын

So true . I'm doing this now. People that bring me down. I'm leaving them behind . I use to need them. Then I saw a picture of myself in my 40. I ddint rely on people . I came in did what I had to and left them to it.

@latifa7904 4 жыл бұрын

I have come to the level where I’m listening to this because I wanna find some inner peace with myself. I was a truly, truly loud and proud extrovert until life said I’ve had enough of it. I fell so so deep into darkness and I have picked myself up so many times. I tell myself that life does this every time. I tried to gain strength and continue living as an extrovert because I felt the happiest being loud and socialising. And again I was proven wrong. This time I have had enough and want to actually take a break and isolate myself from everyone and actually finding who I truly am. I wanna figure out if this is really a better way of living. I wanna find peace and happiness being with myself and no one else.

@elhadjdiallo633 2 жыл бұрын

I did it you can too!!! Life will be much better when you stop dealing with toxic people and delusional!!!! .

@jillwhiting919 2 жыл бұрын

It is very important we find That inner being who God's plan is for us

@jillwhiting919 2 жыл бұрын

Getting to know our inner self is a journey

@chinedunjoku9391 4 жыл бұрын

I love being alone but I never feel lonely 💖💖

@lorenadawa3784 4 жыл бұрын

Just broke our friendship but this Video Just made my school life easier

@americathamizhan6576 5 жыл бұрын

Wow he is a good human being i respect to you sir

@pawansuthar2626 5 жыл бұрын

You will become the way to behave with yourself when you are alone.... Great says. 😊 🇮🇳 🇮 🇳 🇮🇳 Wish 🌷 🌷 🌷 🇮🇳

@laisa. 4 жыл бұрын

I used to LOVE and CRAVE alonetime (introvert) although I have the best husband and kids 💞 Then one day I developed panic disorder. It's been 6 months and right now is the first time I'm home alone (ok, my son is in his teenage cave) and here I am googling how to be comfortable home alone 🤣 I just want to be independent again. I will get there, I am in therapy and have started meditating but it will take time... 🥀

@schmolywar 2 жыл бұрын

Im like you. Introvert that just had panic disorder.

@thelonelywolf88 2 жыл бұрын

This guy's voice is so soothing

@metanoia6033 Жыл бұрын

As I reflected after this talk, I realized I've been feeling alone because I left myself alone. I did all these self improvement all these years but for thought and want of having others fill my cup. I hated my own company because I saw myself as uninteresting, and so I sought affirmations, adventure, and intimacy from others. But after listening to this talk, everything felt different. I see myself now. I am no longer afraid of staying up alone during late nights. Actually, the perspective shifted. I am not and will never be alone.

@FleurDeLysPTV 4 жыл бұрын

Yes..I am alone all the time.Alone is power.Yes.More time to think and grow!

@maliknicki 3 жыл бұрын

Why would you be alone?

@chethanct5156 3 жыл бұрын

It's better

@maliknicki 3 жыл бұрын

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@austins.2495 3 жыл бұрын

Finding out that no one will ever truly love me has got me feeling extremely alone.

@mdg767 4 жыл бұрын

Very few ppl can handle it.. Be proud of it 😊😊😊😊

@R.A.PMusic 15 күн бұрын

"You're the only person who will be with you your entire lifetime"❣️💯🎯 ... now that line is absolutely golden 🪙🥇🎉 🥳 🥂

@trishna_6815 2 жыл бұрын

there's a limit to this. i am alone pretty much all day every day - I work from home, fairly limited hours. i have absolutely no problem being alone and quiet and with my own thoughts. I've been single most of my life. I've travelled a lot (on my own) and done quite a few different things, probs more than most. but eventually it gets old. going to dinner by yourself, hiking by yourself, travelling by yourself, gardening by yourself, going to the beach by yourself, doing yoga by yourself, cooking by yourself, learning to scuba dive by yourself, seeing a play by yourself, etc etc. it gets old eventually. and it's expensive.

@stefaniakonstantinidou981 2 жыл бұрын

Why don t you join some clubs of interest to get to know people???

@trishna_6815 2 жыл бұрын

@@stefaniakonstantinidou981 I do. I run a meetup group, currently doing belly dancing and horse-riding classes, sometimes spanish classes (as well as teaching myself piano). But most people my age have busy jobs, partners, and children. So it doesn't really change that much.

@litaswatd6049 Жыл бұрын

Get a dog!

@AiroLivin 3 жыл бұрын

I thought i was having a rough day with loneliness so i sought out this video to get a grip. This insight actually helped me realize how far I've come into my personal growth & validates how comfortable im becoming alone. Still got patches to smooth out but im working on my relationship with myself. Thanks!

@realonebusinessschool 13 күн бұрын

You're the only person that will always be with you. Get used to spending time with yourself. Thanks for sharing 🙏

@sharkdzung 2 жыл бұрын

I'm alone for the most part of my life and I'm truly happy. Love you Robin.

@romikino8611 3 жыл бұрын

Pretty much I have spent the whole year by myself .lot of thoughts pours in ..not necessarily all positive thoughts.and in those time I had to deal with myself.accepted my flaws,my fears and those poor decisions. Admitting is hard.slowly letting go of regrets and guilta. I realised only way to sustain is to fall in love with yourself first.

@jogalraja 5 жыл бұрын

Hey robin yh our one book changed my life

@anak_kucing101 2 жыл бұрын

Who are you and why do you have so many subscribers?! 🧐 ¿¡Quién sos y por qué tenés tantos suscriptores!?

@MariaRibeiro-vr7rc Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much! When people ask if I live alone, I usually reply, "not alone, no, I live with myself". It is something you learn to do.

@karenhargis9824 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💖.. this video has validated me for how I lived for many years. I always tell myself: " If you look to people for value, acceptance and happiness; I will be disappointed 99% everytime." I mentioned this in AA, and pissed people off

@margaretbatson83 5 жыл бұрын

I feel like I'm alone although I'm married and it's not a good feeling. You get married to not be alone not the other way around. I wish my hubby did stuff with my son and I, but he doesn't , we hybranate at home like old people when I'm not at all old I'm in my early 30's. You get married to have a partner who wants to enjoy life with you. I feel like I have wasted alot of years by doing nothing, no family vacation and doing things togather, 12 and a half yrs is alot of years wasted. This is true and a sad reality.

@susanroberts6573 4 жыл бұрын

Margaret B Go girl ,I spent 50 years with a husband that very much had his own life , left when I was 65 . Now live on my own but have a life with new friends. Thought is was my Karma to stay .Now I know my lesson was NOT to allow myself to be used and abused . Have a happy life , don’t leave it too late .😘👍🌈💐

@lizsebastian2870 4 жыл бұрын

How do you manage life now?

@lindarobinson4068 3 жыл бұрын

Thats not good could you and your son do things you like together with your son? Like vacations and days out hobbies etc? Idf your husband won't join in and wants to sit on the couch watching tv in his spare free time then at least you and your son can give yourselves some kind of a life and may lead to making friends with others.

@margaretbatson83 2 жыл бұрын

Well no need to worry about this anymore because I'm not married anymore. Time does fly by !

@BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama 5 жыл бұрын

Sharma, thank you for sharing your wisdom. I love you! ♥️

@rogergardner7740 4 жыл бұрын

Yes Life is hard. But do remember however it is sprinkled with bits and pieces Of happiness here and there. It can't always rain

@quietgiant474 2 жыл бұрын

Loneliness is different to some. Some people have days where they can take a break from being social and can go back to it at any time when it gets too much. Some people are lonely because they don't have any other choice. I just happen to fall in the latter category. They always say "reach out to someone" like they assume everybody has someone - but they don't understand some of us have no one to reach out to.

@yaseminislek7609 4 жыл бұрын

Wow absolutely. I’m going to start meditating more and have time alone to understand who I truly am so I can attract what I am wanting in my life.

@zayden4309 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. This is the most life changing and valuable video I have ever seen in KZfaq. Thank you Robin. Sincerely appreciate your video. I feel my life will never be the same again and I will strive for improvement.

@nehemilia5033 2 жыл бұрын

Its m'y Time to bé alone.. Tranquility IS thé New luxury. This is m'y Season to bé Alone. 21days to bé alone.

@JMGENTERPRISES 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video. I am a social guy, have been my entire life. 10 years ago I became self employed and work from home selling products online. It has always been my life's goal to work for myself, have lots of free time and be financially set in life. I have reached all three of these goals. However, working for myself and being alone the majority of the day has had it's own challenges. I have noticed more thoughts and anxiety over the last decade being alone. Many times, it can get so lonely and out of hand that I need to pick up the phone and call someone to talk to. Or take a walk around the neighborhood. I envy some of my friends and family members who can be by themselves for DAYS maybe even WEEKS without interacting with other humans and feel perfectly content and at peace. For 2022, my resolution is to learn how to be alone and be more comfortable, happy and content.

@SiirMiguel 2 жыл бұрын

How has it been for you? Whats the progress been like so far?

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

#Believe :)

@anthonyogini5249 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Evan!

@rigorousproject4466 3 жыл бұрын

Evan hey!

@GOD-pc4pn 3 жыл бұрын

Are bhaiya ji aap

@pujagoyal2862 5 жыл бұрын

I listen you each day morning. .... Thankyou so much for your contribution ... I read all your books...Love reading your books Thankyou for being so amazing

@samanthaharper2306 3 жыл бұрын

I wasn't expecting this video to make me cry. Hit all the right buttons on a more emotional level than a how-to-level

@LifeCoachRahulGarg 5 жыл бұрын

I think, its the best videos ever I've ever seen by Robin Sharma. Its the 'Next Level stuff! Good Luck!!

@dino_grinds7903 3 жыл бұрын

I cant socialize but i also cant be alone i keep on trying and failing

@samanthawhitehead4642 3 жыл бұрын

All i youtubed was "how to spend time by yourself" and its resulted in learning several life lessons! thanks for this message

@chirovandenbos2339 Жыл бұрын

I choose to be alone and i am now 42. Before i was like others with a lot of people but no deep connection.... Now i have power, rest, peace and my happyness is not with extern factors but start inside you. My happyness is not with extern factors like status, money, material things that is empty for me and all relativ. Blessed and be the light in this dark world

@joshuanun8192 5 жыл бұрын

Your work is a legacy. I am so glad that I am living in the same era.

@Bayizy 3 жыл бұрын

Tranquility is the new luxury...love this❤️

@kimbrown6307 2 жыл бұрын

Im 60 now and have always loved my own company ,.I never feel lonely at all and love the feeling of freedome and doing as I please .If I don't want to do something I don't have to and as I get older I just need my peace .

@donjadepouvoir5627 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve begun to wake up at 5 o’clock since 2015 . Everything had changed in my life . The other decisions which I have taken ist to get away from friends, dinners und week ends … I’m for hours und hours ! Days und days alone … I changed my work , I do all the things I want to do .. I’ve never bin so beautiful, fit , strong like now . Everything he says is true . Not to forget ! I have more much money . But that’s not the most important thing . The important ist to have the money und to think about it too much . Through this kind of behavior, you will discover that all the people like you , und in the same time it’s not important for you that they like you … when you understand this video , you will feel big und strong . It’s like you are new born . This man has everything! He is blessed… I have never met such a man in my real life .did he ever been in Germany?

@stefaniakonstantinidou981 2 жыл бұрын

What work do you do? Howdid you change?

@theoldschool_post 5 жыл бұрын

your powerful package of thaughts like this video is the best finishing shot of my everyday life which i hit everyday before going to bed THANKYOU SO MUCH MY GURU ROBIN👍👍

@prudveevantaramu8461 4 жыл бұрын

My bestee blocked me,my ex blocked me,my mother died,my father hurts me which makes me enjoy my self.Now I spent time with myself only.

@leslieoconnor1902 3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes Being Alone Is The Only Awnser

@michellebrown8495 2 жыл бұрын

I've learned now how to be alone now. It's not easy but I try to do my best to cope by having a good spiritual well-being.

@TrevonGreen 4 жыл бұрын

This really just changed my life 😳 it confirmed every inner vibration I’ve had for a while now!

@urgyengarwa102 4 жыл бұрын

Being alone bring negative thought if you think about it

@MarWan-hp6lx 3 жыл бұрын

A lot

@simonshura9144 3 жыл бұрын

If your alot on social media, then of course since u will have FOMO and all that other garbo that comes w being dependent on other people lol

@nicolepalomino2725 3 жыл бұрын

It really does im like that most of the time

@MrsYolandicook 3 жыл бұрын

It’s because you are not comfortable being alone. It’s because you are scared of getting to know yourself.

@NoName19984 3 жыл бұрын

I’m the only person who is going to be with me as long as I live. Very powerful and good thing to keep in mind always :)

@berryytuturu5590 4 жыл бұрын

This is literally being happening to me ,when he said when u are alone,ur deepest feeling which u have been trying to resist comes up. So thank u ,i have finally accepted myself after sooo long .thank u soo much

@milankumar5601 4 жыл бұрын

Quarantine brought me here 🦊

@ernestosalazar6386 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome

@antaradey25 3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@Rawyalty220 3 жыл бұрын

A year later and I’m still here🙃

@RozaUniverse 3 жыл бұрын

This was so beautiful! Thank you so much. Most searches lead you to "learning social skills". This has really helped me embrace the beauty that is solitude. It really is about your ability to change your own mindset.

@jordansthoughts54 2 жыл бұрын

Accepting being alone.

@JDevin-gn3lr 4 жыл бұрын

He is true to learn how to be OK alone you need to be alone and learn who you are

@0erocake157 4 жыл бұрын

the most time i get creative in , is when im walking alone

@Lott0Jay 4 жыл бұрын

I love being alone.

@ninapogorzelska6237 3 жыл бұрын

You are an angel on Earth, God bless you

@mva6213 2 жыл бұрын

I am always alone..................... not clingy, no frills.................. being alone develops independence, strength of character............... there are times I long for company, like going to events, parties, special occassions........... but most of the time I prefer to be myself................nice to know there are people like me...................