Learn what makes you lonely. I would get distracted on a phone call or movie and my house would get dark in the evening. The dark made me super sad and lonely. I got in the habit of turn my lamps on really early so my house never gets dark. The warm lamp light is so cozy and safe. Sometimes you can’t fight the lonely feel but sometimes you can.
@NolanKurtz Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, and I can relate. Nighttime is really hard for me for this reason. Thanks for sharing.
@dianadickson679110 ай бұрын
I put my lamps on a timer. So they are switched on before dusk, then turn them selves off, say about 1am. Welcoming, cosy, secure
@user-ef1sl4yl9e10 ай бұрын
I can relate to above comment: I love this big flickering candle I have with a timer that comes on at the same time every night and indicates to me, "Ok, now it's time to mellow out and wind down for bedtime."🌛
@patriciavandevelde546910 ай бұрын
Take a dog! Help the homeless 🙏!
@HitoguraChanJapan8 ай бұрын
💯 relatable
@gretchenbond78410 ай бұрын
I have a calendar on my fridge that only has fun things on it. I don't put anything related to work, paying bills, etc. That's for my online calendar. I love to look at my Fun Calendar. It keeps me focused on that area of my life so I don't just work...ha
@gypsybelle475710 ай бұрын
Love this idea!
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Um. I love this. So much. Wow what a great idea!! Thank you love!!!
@ankitagrawal1107Ай бұрын
Hey! That's a great idea. :) Having a Fun Calendar with a list of things that I really look forward to do :)
@shortgirl3469 ай бұрын
I've been divorced for 26 years after being married for 18 years. I truly love living on my own and sharing my house with 2 cats. I tell people, "The best part of being on my own is that everything's up to me. The worst part of being on my own is that everything's up to me." I have become so independent and capable and have learned to do so many things, mostly out of necessity. Big tip: don't be aftaid to eat out on your own or go to the movies on your own. Sure, it'll feel awkward the first few times, but it's so freeing.
@Jennifr19669 ай бұрын
What do you do when you're sick and having a difficult time caring for yourself? (I'm asking this more for my sake.)
@user-vy4kh6jk1t8 ай бұрын
You can’t just live with anyone for future care 😮.
@annfung74027 ай бұрын
I totally agree with you.
@hellogoodbyeandallinbetween3 ай бұрын
I wouldn't consider living with cats living alone
@mariaibarra4815Ай бұрын
I go to local concerts and movies or restaurants alone. Sit and watch people. Love it.
@TaraMistsword3 ай бұрын
I started crying within 3 minutes of watching this video. I thought I was doing a bad job. I thought I was failing. I thought because I am hungry that I'm not doing this right. But you helped me understand how big of a deal the first few months of moving out alone will be, you helped me feel so much better and cleared the guilt about being lonely or a little rocky with priorities. I cannot say thank you enough. Thank you for saying it's okay to feel the way I'm feeling. I don't feel alone anymore.. I feel like I'm doing just fine..
@susantam568110 ай бұрын
My husband passed away 5 months ago & now I’m by myself. I call my family & friends. They come to visit me. I feel better now.
@ashmurr25456 ай бұрын
very happy and proud of you
@Ladyrosethewitch Жыл бұрын
I'm going through a divorce currently and soon I'll be living on my own. I got married right out of highschool so I've never been on my own. As much as I'm excited,I'm also nervous cause it's gonna be a whole new experience. I really appreciate the tips, they're very helpful 💚
@user-hq3dy9vp6y Жыл бұрын
As a highschool student who's gonna graduate this year I kinda feel u cos I really wanna experience bunch of stuff but I didn't had the chance so all I wanna say to you is you gotta be so happy on your own and appreciate your time with yourself, no matter what try to experience all the things you wanted to do but you didn't have the chance to, you still young so you don't have to feel nervous I know it's a whole new experience for you but remember you're gonna live your best life forget the past and think about NOW, good luck and I'm so happy for you
@vanessagarcia-dw2cb Жыл бұрын
Yes ladies!!! Lets do this! Im also separating from my partner!
@kamrankamran886311 ай бұрын
I am already alone and single life wait a woman save me my life as a life partner? My life is alone and single 33?My education is graduate? My life is need a woman accepted me my life as a life partner? My life is need a woman as a wife? My feature life is dark to save me
@rayrayndiema10 ай бұрын
How are you doing?
@temi41169 ай бұрын
You will get the hang of it Rose. Make it work, and you will be so empowered.
@tuijawilkening10 ай бұрын
Just stumbled upon your channel and thought these tips were for young people and almost moved on to another channel but quickly realized that as a 69 year old widow, these tips still apply. In fact, I practice most of them and love living alone Thank you.
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh. Wow this comment has warmed my heart so so much!! Thank you for giving my channel a chance!! I am so glad it Can be helpful to people at any age and stage in life!! I’m cheering you on!🤎🫶🏼 I hope you’ll stick around and subscribe 😊
@lindathornton362610 ай бұрын
Im.67 and enjoyed her video. She is a really adorable young woman. I'm sure her patents r proud of her.
@sharonbeers462110 ай бұрын
I am 65 and got some great tips from you. thanks! I do think it is ok to allow ourselves to feel lonely for short periods knowing it is ok and it is not something we need to judge or change as bad or scary, this is what makes us all human and it will pass❤
@Jennifr19669 ай бұрын
@@sharonbeers4621thank you for saying that. I'm not looking forward to being alone, but my husband sleeps more and more these days, and my parents are both gone now. I had to spend all my time caring for family, and soon it will just be me, with no friends or family. So I need to find a way to change that sooner than later. I'm pretty scared, but this video helped!
@divyadeepawasthy8976 Жыл бұрын
Respected ladies and gentlemen; Born in 1973....All my childhood, teenage yrs. I've seen my parents 💥argue, 💥squabble, 💥fight over the pettiest of things. Now they're dead. But the aftermath of their marriage is such that I chose to live alone ; in peace { with my books, my hobbies, my thoughts and above all with my dear Ol'God almighty}. God sent me on Earth; alone, I choose to stay; alone, I'll die & travel to other dimensions ; alone.
@nadiragangapersaud3 ай бұрын
I am living alone with my mom and a brother. I have a challenging job and don't want to put my life in a stranger hands. With God's help I will make it 🙏
@divyadeepawasthy89763 ай бұрын
@@nadiragangapersaud of course you will. With good intentions & a strong belief in yourself. {That's exactly what † God † intends U 2 do }.....☝🏽Remember; "Less Emotions = More life; More Emotions = Less life"
@susandhays164010 ай бұрын
I have been widowed for 19 years and I love living alone... It has made me strong as an independent..💕
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear that but I’m really glad to hear you have triumphed through it all!!! Thank you for sharing this 🤍
@decolo983223 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for the tips, I (34 M)got dumped by my gf 2 months ago from a 6 year relationship. I had to live with my ex for those 2 months because I was struggling to find a place for myself. Today, I was finally able to move out. I moved everything, and after everything was done, I just bawled my eyes out, like ugly crying, I probably didn't cry like that since I was a child, also a day before moving out I found out that she started dating with others about half a month ago. It hit me pretty bad and since I was living with her and other roomies for the good part of a decade and I'm suddenly living alone and the fact that she's seeing other people just joined forces and danced the polka on my psyche. Now I'm in my new bed that I built in 4 hours and watching your videos, and they really help. So thank you again I will follow your advice.
@williamjameslehy13417 ай бұрын
Took some getting used to, but now I love it. I love being able to eat whatever I want every single day, and I *LOVE* being able to clean my house and it just...stays that way. I'm just now starting to adjust to the fact that I can decorate my house however I want now.
@LaurenJuarez7 ай бұрын
Wooo I’m so glad to hear this!
@priyankayadav-en4rh11 ай бұрын
im introverted so i think it would be very peaceful for me to live alone
@SandraT2694 ай бұрын
I'm an ambivert. I like to be with people when I can choose where, when and with who.
@AvecPoesie3 ай бұрын
Living Alone as an introvert is indeed exceptionally PEACEFUL. 🖤
@shawshank13153 ай бұрын
Oh it is! As an introvert it's amaaaaazing.
@joycegonzales499410 ай бұрын
I could be wrong, but to me, being out with your headphones could keep you unaware of danger.
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
You’re right!! It’s most likely a lot safer to be out with out headphones. I like to keep my left one off so I can still be aware of my surroundings 😊
@Lunaishtar Жыл бұрын
Going through a divorce, and honestly this gave me so much hope on one of the hard days. Thank you!
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Im so so thankful this video was able to help! All the Glory to God!!! I am praying over you and asking for peace to cover you right now!
@alexanderfarrell89575 ай бұрын
I am almost 63 and have lived in a special care home for 6 years, and am preparing to move out into assisted living, so these tips are very useful, Tanh You!
@sunshinero92894 ай бұрын
What I did for me was to reach out to a therapist to help me through my emotions and being alone for the first time. Thank you for this beautiful video, it made me very positive and hopeful ❤
@LaurenJuarez4 ай бұрын
That helped me too so much! I’m so very glad you enjoyed this video 🫶🏼
@parusudi110 ай бұрын
I can't believe this video!!! I have had the EXACT SAME experience for the past 14 months 😊😊😊. Thank you for this truckload of positivity ❤
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Wow. I’m so so thankful to Jesus this video found you!!! You got this love 🤍🥺
@its4fourty8489 ай бұрын
This video is so helpful and comforting. I am currently going through a breakup with my live-in partner. I have so much anxiety about moving into my own place, but I am also excited to really make it my own without having to run everything by my partner and get approvals to make the space the way I want it. I know this season of anxiety will pass with time, looking forward to finding peace with living alone. Will be using these tips! Especially the preparation. So thank you thank you!
@goodenoughgirl810210 ай бұрын
Ha ha. I talk to myself all the time. Well also the cats as well. I’m kind of a “living alone” veteran (and a former latch key kid lol) but lately I’ve just been feeling like interesting and intelligent convo is hard to find. And sometimes you can just feel like I should have more friends. People might say you need to be more “social” but also solitude can become one of the best friends you’ve ever had. But my background was fleeing toxic relationships tho and it’s truly better to be “alone” than with bad people…for the sake of just not being alone.
@darcygoodboe3457Ай бұрын
Hallelujah! I hear y’all sister! TY!
@Kat-ko4hj3 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤ I love living along , most of my life I’ve been alone and I have no regrets . I’m in my middle 70 and just moved into my last home in a small community. Great tips ,
@CatherineTalley Жыл бұрын
we need more people like you on youtube !!!
@LaurenJuarez Жыл бұрын
I love you Catherine!🫶🏼
@LaurenJuarez6 ай бұрын
@sarahale2575 wow you are so so sweet!!!
@user-ef1sl4yl9e10 ай бұрын
Dear Lauren, I have been living on my own for years and these tips you gave are just excellent, most I hadn't known! So even after years, these tips are great!!! Thank you for your warm, heart-felt video. You are special. May everyone who listens to you and yourself have peaceful, cozy, safe-feeling goodnights.🌛⭐
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness. This comment means SO SO Much to me 🥺✨🫶🏼 thank you for taking the time to watch this video and leave such a sweet comment. I hope you will stick around and subscribe!
@darcygoodboe3457Ай бұрын
Yes! So, Yes!
@aliciab42369 ай бұрын
Excellent tips. I'm not sure I could have come up with half of those at your age. I'm decades older than you, and many of those tips still apply. I didn't hear you mention books, but those have been a lifesaver for me. Not only do I learn (I read non-fiction), but I can get into a discussion with the authors through journaling.
@jeabennett91087 ай бұрын
This video is confirming because I am the only one I know that do this. I have lived alone for many years and I have meticulously scheduled everything. This is something I have been doing since middle school. Even though I only follow through with half of what I write down, having a schedule keeps me productive. I even schedule little things like washing my hair or picking out my clothes for the next five days. I've sometimes been late to work because I had to make a decision before work on what clothes to wear that I did not pre set. I also agree with the content creator about chores. I only do chores for one hour.. Then I recontinue cleaning the nexy day. Like the content creator I'm least likely to get overwhelmed when I break down things I don't like into small segments one at a time.When I was in school I hated studying so I would only study each subject for one hour then come back to that subject later. If I didn't do that I would day dream and not focus intently on my subject of study. I didn't have Focus Mate in the 1990's but I did have the Library for studying. If people around me were studying then it was easy for me to study. Same thing for working out: If I saw other people at the gym working out then it was easy for me to work out. The gym was better then working out at home. This is a good video weather you live alone or with roommates or live with your family. Some parts of this video is good advice for having order and structure in your day to day life.
@SteveMyer10 ай бұрын
I was on my own for about 18 years before being married for a good stretch and am back on my own again . Your advice is good and your have such a friendly manner that anyone would be happy to be your neighbor 👍 (cookies or not)
@saracameron670128 күн бұрын
I moved out for the first time in February and never really settled in and have been lost. But then my dog passed suddenly last week and now I have to make my apartment my own even more so I can feel at home grieving if that makes sense? So this video is very helpful. I think I’ll start celebrating my on-my-own-iversary as well!!!
@aladdin658015 күн бұрын
I just wanted to say I hope you’re doing okay, grieving right now and living alone is heavy in many ways, as someone in the same boat. So to hopefully cheer you up I just want to say this for you, Nobody prepared you for what you’re going through. There wasn’t any way to be ready for any of this, but yet you’re handling this with grace, and yet you’re doing the best that you can, and with that, that is more than enough. So I send you much love and a big hug from me and my cat, it’s gonna be okay🫂
@davestock8 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. I’m recently separated and getting a divorce. M41 years old and I’ve been living with her for 15 years. We have a seven year old in the mix and they have all left the family home last Friday, including the dog. So far, we are very amicable that I am finding it very difficult to adjust to the big empty house. I really appreciate this video and your outlook on life, I really needed that today.
@ChiPyon25 күн бұрын
Thanks, i feel validated now especially on the bored part. Every night, i get so bored i just walk around my apt
@LaurenJuarez25 күн бұрын
Find a craft or a hobby to look forward to❤️
@t.k.0006 ай бұрын
Thank you. from the bottom of my heart. I am a nearly 20 yo student moving this summer to be closer to the Uni i wanna go to and my girlfriend, I have been TERRIFIED, but how much i know I'll be shouldering on my own for the first time and this advice truly was helpful. Even just seeing you so openly talk about the struggles of it. I'm glad there are people out there like you with a platform, letting people know there's somewhere to go and feel safe, even if its just a channel on the internet
@LaurenJuarez6 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness Terri I am so so glad this video was helpful for you!! You are right and your feelings are SO valid. It is scary and I was also terrified but the crazy thing is I LOVE spending time in my own company now. Day by day, little step by little step I know you will feel that too!💜 I hope you stick around!!!
@patrickferdinand190111 ай бұрын
I just loooooooved so much this video. I¿m 22 and thinking of living alone, but my family isn't really accepting it (I have already graduated, have a job, etc) but I think they just see mee as a really young person hahaha which makes me scared of it sometimes, listening to this advices was really helpful and make me feel calm,
@LaurenJuarez11 ай бұрын
Hey love! I’m sorry to hear you don’t have your family’s support. That can be really hard. Do you have a friend or councilor who can encourage and support you in your decision? Remember, your life is YOUR LIFE!!! We only have one!
@abeagleslife9 ай бұрын
Have been walking this journey and it's taken a little longer for me getting through the uncomfortable zone, but I'm starting to see the light. This is a very funny and inspirational video. Wishing you all the best!
@torisworld42810 ай бұрын
Going through the first rough breakup of my life i have a few months to live with my ex partner before i have to for the first time in my life as a 24 year old living on my own and someone who also struggles with abandonment issues, chronic loneliness, and severe anxiety. This process is really hard already and im trying to make this transition as easy and comfortable as possible.
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this Tori. It’s truly heartbreaking to go through but I know you are going to come out stronger 🤎
@user-ef1sl4yl9e10 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so brave and sharing!!!❤️🩹🩷There are so many people dealing with similar issues. You are not alone!!!💌
@bettyboop773810 ай бұрын
Seek a relationship with Jesus! All else will improve ❤️ love you all ! 👍👍👍👍👍👍
@sqinisekomajolq5547 Жыл бұрын
Well done. 🎉 You are adjusting well to being on your own this is good. Make sure you go for medical checkups with your doctor occassionally. ❤.
@Randomest_Stories9 ай бұрын
I enjoy living alone for the most part. As a social introvert, I realise I only get scared when I feel helpless and feel, if I can't be self sufficient then life is hell. One, become lonely because one can't make many social friends so it is a habit. But also, one starts enjoying the independence of alone space, but what gets to you is when u feel helpless. That's the scary part. And then the problem is u just cannot become social and when u try u feel uncomfortable or bored. Then u come back home and are happy....but suddenly a bug or pest is in the house, or a life situation that involves getting out and dealing with people and situations u don't know how to tackle and suddenly you feel HELPLESS AND LONELY and invisible with no support group. So now my conclusion is...if living alone was without fear or stress....most people will enjoy living alone. But fear and helplessness drives a lot of people to be around people. It's just a safety in numbers. Being with someone who doesn't really pay attention to u can also be very lonely and worst... isolating.
@masterculturedunkerque79187 ай бұрын
No matter how we're used to live alone or being introvert, humans are social creatures and it's not ok to be all time alone or even possible
@francescakray2338 ай бұрын
Monday 25th December 2023. 17.42pm. "Dear Madam. Good-evening. How are you? I trust you are well." "I, have lived on my OWN for many years 14yrs+. The thing is .. I do better on my own. I am MORE successful. I get less headaches. Less arguments etc. I am Afro-carribean and England, is not my Country so therefore, I struggle day-to-day, with RACISM etc. Living alone is fine. I encourage MORE PEOPLE to do it. Do not be afraid. Life Is unfair. Life favours the rich and well to do." Yours Respectfully. Sir Francesca Kray.
@amyg.859210 ай бұрын
Excellent advice--very practical. One variation on giving a key to a neighbor is to get a padlock-type key box (where you have to line up a dial or type a code to open it). Give that to the neighbor and if there's an emergency, you can give them the code. I'm sure the boxes can be broken into, but it's just a little more secure if you're unsure who comes and goes from their apartment, or if the neighbor might be a little too eager to check on you. :)
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
I love this thank you so so much!!
@stacyjaye635010 ай бұрын
In this day and age, there's no way I'm giving a key to a neighbor, that's crazy talk. And don't tell me you know the person, none of us know anyone.
@stephanie757210 ай бұрын
@@stacyjaye6350 My question would be, even if the neighbor is nice, who visits them? Does the super-cool gal next door whom you think you can rely on have a sketchy boyfriend? What about her cousin Joe who just got out of jail, does he drop by?
@barbarakelly191610 ай бұрын
Some cities have a professional private security service that can keep a copy of your key and go in to do what's needed. These firms are bonded and insured, often staffed by retired police officers or veterans. My security service provides a record of visits, which can be useful if an insurance claim or police report is needed. Worth considering!
@marybethbasu88587 ай бұрын
This is a great video; so many good suggestions. I think it's a really helpful thing for seniors who fear ending up alone later in life, like a widow. But even though I am scared of being lonely, I think there are a lot of good things about being on your own.
@LaurenJuarez7 ай бұрын
That’s so true!! Hopefully it helps them too! You got this 💕
@darcygoodboe3457Ай бұрын
Hella Yea!
@laurelflorio7292 Жыл бұрын
this is such an excellent and uplifting video about treating yoursekf well and self care
@LaurenJuarez Жыл бұрын
Wow thank you Laurel!♥️
@saptarshirchoudhury8597Ай бұрын
You are doing great :) I am so proud of you. Made a lot of mistakes in life but I am trying to be a better person.
@scottstarnes846110 ай бұрын
Amazing- I was just eating and flipping through KZfaq suggestions and this video was one - my former spouse divorced me in 2015 and announced her engagement via Fakebook right after divorce court. It was a very hard transition - my guy friends from church ⛪️ supported me with prayer 🙏 and understanding. I’m 59 now and still living alone with anxiety, some depression and trust issues (especially concerning women). After scrolling, I see that there are three other guys that have commented - wonder how many others would if they weren’t afraid of what others would think about them. Thanks for ideas - I came home thinking about how can I make life more than just work, food, shower and sleep- repeat every day… like the main character in the movie “Nobody” 😕
@barbarakelly191610 ай бұрын
Here's a few things that work for me: 1. Picking up a hobby or interest (maybe something you used to do and would like to get back to doing). Also gives you something to connect about with others. 2. Doing volunteer work, (I do a few short-term things, like box office shift at local comedy festival, helping out at co-op shop's summer fair. I don't get tied down into a regular or long term commitment with this, and have the enjoyment of meeting new people, having fun, and helping). 3. Inviting a friend/family member for a meal/snack in my home on the regular (for me, it's once every 2 weeks or so. ) This ensures that you maintain pride in your home by keeping it up nicely for visitors, and you keep up the experience of hosting. It is easy to get into a rut of going out to meet friends or always going to their places. Best wishes for livening up your life! You are a "Somebody"!
@scottstarnes846110 ай бұрын
@@barbarakelly1916 Thank you Barbara for taking the time to reply to my musings this evening (8:17pm EST now) No. 1 is the one I’ve been thinking about since I commented… I used to draw for fun and it’s something I want to return to. Bless for caring enough to write me. 😊
@aliciab42369 ай бұрын
It seems to me being single is harder for men as discussing feelings isn't encouraged. Here are a few things that keep me sane: 1. Having a pet. 2. Focusing on things that bring me joy like sailing. 3. Learning new skills. I'm studying Swedish. 4. Reaching out to friends via text and phone. 5. Making myself special foods. 6. Having a cozy place to read complete with a throw, a variety of tea and scented candles. 7. Scheduling workout time. 8. Practice gratitude journaling before bed. There are many options. I hope you find some things which bring you joy. 🙏🕉
@scottstarnes84619 ай бұрын
@@aliciab4236 Thank you for caring enough to reply to my comments with really good ideas. I agree that some men don’t share what’s going on with them because a lot of men think doing so makes them appear weak. I was a part of men’s integrity group two years ago where this wasn’t a problem- all of us need to share on our path to healing ❤️🩹 it was the most accepting and honest group I have ever been in. Guys that are married won’t share about their struggles because their wives will lose confidence in them and their security will be compromised - I know because I’ve been there. Thank you aliciab4236 and bless you.
@annfung74027 ай бұрын
My ex-husband got married shortly after the divorce, causing me heartache.
@alicjaz27713 ай бұрын
I'm really happy that I found your channel. My experience is a little different, I used to live independently but not alone (with flatmates), now I am getting a divorce and so far the living alone part is absolutely amazing. I feel so fresh, energized and free. And I hope everyone in this comment section experiences this in such a way. My advice on learning to cook for one is to print out some info on how long can certain foods stay in a freezer, put it on your fridge and freeze any leftover food you have before it goes bad. This way you can learn how much food you need without wasting it and you have backup meals for busy or lazy days.
@littleawkwardb95622 ай бұрын
I just got out of a relationship a month ago and I’m finally on my own after 27 years of living… I’ve always wanted this but for some reason the empty feeling inside became to eat at me more recently and I’m trying to shake it! This video and the comments really help 💕
@LaurenJuarez2 ай бұрын
Im cheering you on in your new chapter 💕
@debbiedormand149910 ай бұрын
that candle burning 🔥 next to dried flowers
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Hahaha yeah probably not the best idea from me🤪😂
@Jennifr19669 ай бұрын
I'm probably your oldest viewer in distress! I'm 57 and have never been alone but heading there QUICKLY. My mom is gone now. We lived with her for 6 years after our special needs daughter moved out of state. My husband is mostly bedridden. We moved into a small apartment complex (4 units) and have nothing to do with any of them. (After thinking about what you said, holidays are coming. So I think I'll make some Italian treats and use the opportunity to hand them out. Hopefully it will help.) I don't know how much longer I'll have my husband, but after that I'm on my own, so I'm trying to figure out how to navigate my life. So, thank you for sharing your thoughts, experiences and encouragement to all of us. Praying you have a lovely rest of your life!
@LaurenJuarez9 ай бұрын
All are welcome here no matter what age and your feelings are just as valid. I am so sorry to hear you’re having to face this but I know you are incredibly strong and resilient and you will get through this just like everything else you have overcome before 🤎 I’m praying over you as well, lean on the Lord!
@floridadreams263 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lauren, another great video. I appreciate you putting out so much great content. Some of these things I would have never thought of on my own. Thanks for sharing.
@myshavikes6263 Жыл бұрын
Im moving out on my own this month. I am so excited! I am defintely already a very introverted person and i think itll be a good transition. I found yoir tips around to reach out/ be more social treat. I think the ones about knowing your neighbors and your "get good at knowing less".
@LaurenJuarez Жыл бұрын
I know you Can do this and I’m so so glad this could be supportive on your new adventures ✨
@joyh222411 ай бұрын
Hey, finally, you have an actual Dresser! And choosing a Girly things. On my own anniversary day( like it ). And cooking for one, instead of my family. Enjoy my own company... Thanks for the tips.
@gailrobey431610 ай бұрын
I'm new here, just found this video, so helpful. I have been on my own since my son moved out a couple years ago. I wish I had seen this video then! Great tips! ❤
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Hello!!! Thank you so much for watching, I’m so glad it was helpful 🫶🏼 do you have any tips you can add that you have learned?:)
@Lanasilveiraah2 ай бұрын
hi there! I've stumbled across your video, and i found it really touching :) I'm usually the quiet viewer, but this video made me think for a while I'm scared for whatever is going to happen in the future, I'll move abroad when i finish high school and I'll be on my own. although i really love to be alone, I'm afraid of what is going to happen, because my family or friends will not be there with me, so I'm feeling a little bit lost thank you so much for your advices, I'll do my best to apply them in the future
@LaurenJuarez2 ай бұрын
Hi there!! You are so sweet, I know it’s so scary, it is and you’re already doing a great job acknowledging that! But guess what! You are going to do such a great job in this new chapter, you might even love it!!!!💙
@Lanasilveiraah2 ай бұрын
@@LaurenJuarez you are very lovely 🧚 thank you for everything! I am rooting for you as well ❤️🩹
@tatianacotofan307410 ай бұрын
I've been living on my own since my divorce in April 2022. With this video I felt seen and definitely less lonely. Thank you for that ❤️
@bdfm12209 ай бұрын
I hope you’re well ❤
@emrvlogs66467 ай бұрын
Congratulations! Freedom is powerful….😊
@kate_rae_porteous8 ай бұрын
Just what I needed
@LaurenJuarez8 ай бұрын
Aw I’m so so glad!
@ryans4138 ай бұрын
As an introvert being a lone wasn’t really my problem what did scare me at first was bill payments so I’d recommend to budget. I had to cut back on buying stuff and only buy things I need. The neighbour tip is good thing because it shows your respectful and in an emergency they can help you.
@jubiterr Жыл бұрын
meal prepping is my way to go about food, i don't particularly enjoy cooking so that works for me. i loved your video and learning from your perspective after a divorce. i moved out of my parents in need of peace and quiet so it's interesting learning from your seeking of community. i just subscribed :)
@darcygoodboe3457Ай бұрын
Meal prepping is the way to go. It’s kept me being healthy, not anemic. Because who wants to “cook” for one, do it anyways!
@user-mf7ll4nm4n7 ай бұрын
This is you tube is exceptionally good.I am a 56 year old male .One thing I can do is to eat well ,don't have to be expensive,avoid too much anger if you can and yes plan for today,tomorrow but keep it to yourself just think maybe tomorrow might be better.
@angelenapulis908322 күн бұрын
I just recently started pursuing a divorce, which means I’ll be moving across the country to be closer to family. I’m excited for it but also feel so clueless. Glad I found your channel!
@sarahrandall22543 ай бұрын
I love this video, and will return to it frequently. I went from living with a big family to living with a smaller family to living with multiple roommates to being a mother figure to someone's kids for a short while. Now I'm preparing for my first time alone at 27 years old. I'm excited, and a little nervous. I've got my emotional support animal, my home defense tool, and some trusted local friends and siblings so I think I'm all set. One bit of advice I want to talk about though. When dealing with cars, please don't let your mechanic or dealership know you don't know about cars. They may charge you more for not knowing what you're supposed to pay for. Ex: I had a mechanic try to charge me for 3 visits on a transmission issue but I was able to watch them do literally nothing. I started putting marks on all my bolts and anything that moved so I could prove they hadn't been touched. Got a full workup for free after that.
@lotusflowerlilyyАй бұрын
your vibes are SO comfy omg ♥
@LaurenJuarezАй бұрын
Ahh thank you!!!❤️
@0x2c_ Жыл бұрын
I will be on my own so scared of The budget and the loneliness, especially since I grew up in a big family, and my biggest fear is that the apartment is not beautiful. I hope i can read my comment after while and laugh on my self that it was much easier then i have imagined
@barbarakelly191610 ай бұрын
There are library books and KZfaq resources on budgeting and home decorating, plus other topics. An apartment can be made beautiful with art and photography on the walls, plants, comfy pillows, and other personal touches. Thrift stores , yard sales, IKEA , keepsakes from family and friends are good sources. To counteract feeling alone, I play FM radio background music, featuring jazz, classical, and world music. You will come up with ideas that suit you. You've got this!
@elizabethwherawati873410 ай бұрын
Hi, Lauren. Welcome!
@954giggles10 ай бұрын
I leave the TV on so I dont feel alone
@barbarakelly191610 ай бұрын
radio helps also...music, or other people talking
@hereskrista11612 ай бұрын
My husband left 2 years ago. I'm now trying to come up for air. This was helpful. I don't have any friends or family near. I do know one neighbor. I'm struggling. I will say for the ladies don't garden at night last summer I was watering my plants and got bit by a snake at midnight.... Had to call an ambulance go to the hospital alone stayed alone had the Uber home because I don't know anyone. I don't know how to make friends... I'm 49 and was married for 20 years. My kids are in a different state. I can't just go home and be a burden on them.
@darcygoodboe3457Ай бұрын
Be a burden, communicate with them! Let them know what y’all are going through!
@crod12327 ай бұрын
I’m about to be living on my own in a few weeks and I feel so many things. Financial stress aside, I’m excited to get out of my parents house and finally have my space and independence, but I worry so much about loneliness. I don’t have a significant other, I don’t even have friends to be honest. I want to be more excited for this next chapter, but I fear that I will be overcome with painful lonely. I have been there before even while not living on my own.
@LaurenJuarez7 ай бұрын
It might feel lonely at first, these things often do. But these tips actually got me through it!! Now I love living alone!! I hope you will too eventually!
@marjoriewilkinson781410 ай бұрын
I was the oldest of 9 children...never alone! I had 3 Daughters and once my oldest was 11 and the other 2 followed our house was always filled with girls!! I'm alone now and don't think I'll ever get used to being lonely! 😢
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Im so sorry to hear this. I know how that feels, we are not meant to be isolated. Humans crave and need connection. I encourage you to get involved in your community or church! Lean on friends around you and try new things!! You can do this! Also there is a community for you here! My videos are for people who need an internet bestie to hang with + we have a fb support group!
@marjoriewilkinson781410 ай бұрын
@@LaurenJuarez ThankU!♡
@lesleymaner28514 ай бұрын
I think if you have something that gives your life purpose and meaning and makes you glad to get up in the morning, living alone is fine. But if you’re lost in the world or have a mental illness without a strong support system, god it’s brutal
@tashamanning624 Жыл бұрын
So grateful you make and share these videos 💛
@LaurenJuarez Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so so much
@user-hu5gz3vm7r10 ай бұрын
I really appreciate we have something in common I can relate thanks for an inspiring story,God bless.
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Wow I’m so grateful to Jesus this video found you!! We can do this!!
@paulavukonich76799 ай бұрын
Develop your hobby: book reading, painting, drawing, writing, photography, outdoor walking, day trips to nearby towns , fun shopping ( no spending required), baking classes, pottery, learn a new language online, plan a short vacation to a national or state park. Invite a friend.
@LaurenJuarez9 ай бұрын
I love this so much thank you!!
@NoSpringChickadeeАй бұрын
That little song at the end was so encouraging! Thank you for the great tips on solo life! Glad I’m not alone!
@rachelgarrison992Ай бұрын
So helpful, thank you!!
@user-mf7ll4nm4n7 ай бұрын
I have decided to live alone because I have tried to join various groups ie volunteer,recovery etc.Frankly I got very hurt.Never the less I will join others.I think the list is a very good idea.Take care of your health etc more than anything else.This you tube is v v good.
@Usernamegoeshere93 Жыл бұрын
I’m here for the very end of this video ❤❤❤ my fav. Thanks for this I definitely needed to hear it before the big move
@LaurenJuarez Жыл бұрын
I’m really really proud of you!! You can do this. ❤️❤️
@acajudi100 Жыл бұрын
I was an only child, so living alone, never bothered me. I always kept written, audio and video journals. I love the KZfaq, and I made videos for free from age 70 to age 75. Help others, who are not beggars, Use wired notebooks and both sides of the legal pads.
@HitoguraChanJapan8 ай бұрын
These tips will really come in handy! Thank you for sharing these. 😊
@LaurenJuarez8 ай бұрын
I’m so so glad this was helpful ☺️
@anastacianelson82085 ай бұрын
Thanks for this I am a DVD and sa survivor and am living alone for the first time so embarrassing but I am scared all the time but I will make it happen for me this time ❤😊
@LaurenJuarez5 ай бұрын
You are so strong. You are brave and courageous. I know you are going to make a beautiful life for yourself on you own 💕
@MiguelGarcia-rv3nj3 ай бұрын
Being alone is a process. First you go through the steps of misery. I also believe that everyone has a different perspective and it depends how bad your situation is I am Enjoying my current solitude state, never better than this. Blessings
@aadyaaggarwal363711 ай бұрын
this video was very wholesome it made me smile a lot
@LaurenJuarez11 ай бұрын
Aw I’m so so glad to hear this! Thanks for watching 🤍
@debbiestott36519 ай бұрын
You are so lovely. Thank you for this content and your honesty. X
@LaurenJuarez9 ай бұрын
Aww wow thank you so much for watching 🤍
@linabmjb10 ай бұрын
Hi, I'm 23 and started living on my own. I feel quite lonely, especially at night. And for some reason, talking to friends or family over the phone makes me even more lonely ?? Anyway, thank you for this video it was quite helpful ! And you're beautiful
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh. I relate so so much to the night time and talking to friends and family sometimes making that feeling worse. You’re not alone in feeling that. And you’re not alone, period. I hope you know how incredibly brave you are!🤍
@dm-jf5uu9 ай бұрын
Night is the worst I get so scared alone ugh
@linabmjb9 ай бұрын
@@dm-jf5uu I completely feel you, it will get better with time
@bluebuffy5 Жыл бұрын
Great tips 💯 I especially like #2
@kacistushtv2 ай бұрын
I thought I had living single down pat until I heard tip #4. I am running to Walmart right now to stock up on essentials. Thank you so much!!!❤❤❤
@Sona77.11 ай бұрын
You’re so young! This was great advice. I want to move out, but I’m not so sure if I can do it for some reason. Thank you again.
@LaurenJuarez11 ай бұрын
Ah thank you so much for watching!! What do you think is your biggest roadblock right now?🤍
@Ang3ldust20243 ай бұрын
I'm 24 going to be on my own soon ill be having my hamster I'm glad I picked this video I'm currently having some fears about being on my own especially with my ADHD I've always all my life I've had someone with me I'm scared that on my own ill screw everything up and land myself on the streets again
@tonyrobinson3629 ай бұрын
Hi ive just found your vlog still watching infact, I lost my wife who was also my best friend and its seriously lonely at the moment after 53 yrs together, Hardest part there's no one to even ask if they want a coffee or tea just simple things like that, Dont know how am going to cope being single its awful at moment i crack up at a moments notice.
@rosalindstarks87448 ай бұрын
Some great tips, I'm divorced at age 70's different feeling than when you're younger but enjoying the freedom learning how to adjust in a older don't be afraid of being your own friend
@annfung74027 ай бұрын
It's not easy to go through a divorce at your age.👍
@writer8910 ай бұрын
And don't forget to put God in the middle of your life. With God in your life you will never truly be alone and your life will have real meaning and you will make a difference in the world.
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
YES AMEN!! I love this!
@annfung74027 ай бұрын
100% right ❤
@haasmmai92073 ай бұрын
Hi, I can't find the support group link, the link is redirecting somewhere else. Appreciate ur answer
@paulwhent13703 ай бұрын
I love this I’m about to be on my own as been with someone for long time and it’s been abusive but now I’m going to end up in a house share in a single room excited and nervous. A little lost and not sure how to put my life into a single room ? Would be great to see a video on must have essentials ie bed clothing space etc or game changing things you’ve found
@andreaaguilar12957 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! ❤ this was so helpful. And so many things that feel painful are super normal from the way you’re saying them. This is an adventure! 🎉
@stephanieharries774610 ай бұрын
❤ Love it!
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
ahh thank you so much!
@princessleaiАй бұрын
im about to move out for the first time, so im happy I found your video on my feed^^
@akarka553014 күн бұрын
l just found your channel. you are inspiring. keep going girl
@maryabreu963410 ай бұрын
This video has been so helpful! 😊 I have not come across one which helps people who live alone! Some very useful tips too! I actually feel less alone now! Thank you so much about the positives about living alone. Reassuring about how to connect with neighbours as well 👍 😂
@LaurenJuarez10 ай бұрын
Ahh hi love!! I’m so so glad this video was helpful!! I try my best to make videos for people to feel less alone so I’m really glad this kept ya company! I have a playlist called “living alone diaries ( these will keep ya compay” if you want more 🤍🫶🏼
@sadiatasnuva4227 Жыл бұрын
I've always been lived with my parents. But now I'm planning to live alone. I'm scared. But hope it will turn good.
@LaurenJuarez Жыл бұрын
I absolutely know for certain you are going to LOVE it!! It may feel big and scary at first but you are going to learn so much and grow ❤️
@jahnvikamde194411 ай бұрын
@@LaurenJuarezI am 18 and moving out for college for the first time and it is 178 km far from my home town... I am so afraid and nervous and tense....idk how to explain this thing
@lorihackett74589 ай бұрын
Just found you and hate to say this however I got married the year after I graduated married in 1987 and currently his caregiver. I no longer have me time. But when I am alone I will probably be lost ya know I'm 55 now with my own mental and emotional and medical issues and now I don't matter ok I'm fine love your attitude ❤️
@lamontejones94983 ай бұрын
Your story is so relatable wtf Was engaged in an almost 4-year relationship and she broke up with me a few days ago and even crazier: I’m 21!!!
@foggycraw675811 ай бұрын
Why does everyone make living alone out to be this complicated thing. It's pretty straight forward really...
@LaurenJuarez11 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching :) I think everyone’s experience is a little different especially if they are coming from emotionally hard situations.
@yeroccАй бұрын
I love your energy! Thank you for the great advice 💚
@kabean098 ай бұрын
hi Lauren, I just want to say that this video came at the perfect time for me. Thank you so much! Also, I do the same out-loud check before I leave the house :)
@LaurenJuarez8 ай бұрын
Hello beautiful! Aw I am so so happy to hear this!! You’ve got this 💕🤍
@HokutoAnsatsuken17 күн бұрын
Thanks for this!
@englishwithsarah7565 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I really needed this
@LaurenJuarez Жыл бұрын
I’m so so glad this helped 🥺✨
@tonetteraber3787 ай бұрын
Wonderful suggestions. Thank you for sharing this. You are blessed to learn these tips at such a young age. Go you & thanks for being an inspiration!