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What kind of interviewer is she? Asking the lady why she told her husband the truth & saying that she would’ve never …

Sorry the interviewer just isn’t it.I don’t know if it’s just her tone but she comes across as mad fake, kind of a mean girl and judgy. She doesn’t seem to have much life experience or have interacted with a wide variety of people.

Can we just cancel this interviewer since shes not fixing her faults 🥲🙄

The lady being interviewed should be the interviewer 🫣 she is way more empathetic and articulate

Takes a lot of humility to be vulnerable. I wish healing for both parties

The lady being interviewed is so stunning 🤍

I can just imagine the energy level in that interview. The energy from the interviewer seems so undeniably off. She doesn't seem genuine. Just what im picking up.

Entertaining things like a “work wife” or “work husband” is essentially keeping the door ajar for infidelity down the road. It’s starts a slippery slope.

The lady conducting the interview seems to have no empathy.

The interviewer can’t even pretend to have empathy for her. How is she speaking about her deceased father and her response is “mmm, mmm”

There’s actually A LOT to learn from this interview- thank you sis for sharing your story ❤

The interviewer is weird. Ugandan Sis was baring her soul and the interview is staring at her like she is more interested in watching paint dry. No wonder that other girl (Think its Tomello or something) dragged her to hell

She hasn’t learned at all. Now, it makes sense why that Tumelo interview went the way it did. 🤦🏾‍♀️

For me personally I want to first commend this woman for her bravery and courage to do this interview despite the interviewers lack of empathy and compassion but this also is a eye opener for men who are in ministry and are young and want to get married about the things that’s could cause your wife to cheat this is very powerful ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 ✨Cheating isn’t allowed but domestic violence is also a no I just think if the man knew he couldn’t handle it he should’ve just left the marriage you know but easier said than done

Has she brushed up on her interview skills so she doesn't get dragged by her nostrils again 😂

I am starting to see what men say. When a woman cheats its the man's fault and if a man cheats its the mans fault .We as women never take accountability

Loved this interview, she was so open and honest it’s refreshing! Host could have been friendlier though

What ppl don’t talk about is the way they both felt is actually normal in a marriage especially when the children come along. If you haven’t lived with someone before it’s difficult adjusting to someone being in ur space and having to manage each other’s emotions on a daily basis. All they had to do was stick it out and talk through everything

Why is the interviewer rude?????

I love her honesty and standing in her truth

Next subject should be how Black People have helped each other in the workplace especially know how challenging it can be getting the job and maintained it with all the workplace politics

And the fact that she said she would never tell her husband she cheated like??? What in the hell are you tryna say?? I wanna show her grace but I've watched several interviews right from the girl from Omah lay concert, the girl she last interviewed before this. It's just terrible. But the lady did well to speak her truth. Owned her wrongdoing and she will be able to grow from there

So vulnerable and so honest. Thanks for sharing. Wishing all parties healing and blessings❤

The interviewer is so bad that's why this show is so good idc idc 😂😂😂

Side note. Body is TEAAAA 😍

Mide please learn how to show empathy. Even if you don’t agree with someone’s life choice. This is your job. You chose to enter a field where you’d be exposed to things that don’t align with your morals. But hey that’s life. So please reflect on how you could conduct an interview more better.

By being so vulnerable online regarding her journey, how does this affect her work, and being in education, I know that you are told to be careful about what you post online once it's on the Internet its permanent. I commend her honesty and being raw and open about her journey. I wish only the best for her going forward.❤

Loyce is a person, with immense confidence, she articulates her vocabulary very well in her🧠 conversation. The poor interviewer is lite-years away with her in her grammar...she was trying to CATCH up mentally, but for ME it was like putting a DONKEY & LION in a cage. Loyce❤ & still you RISE... you've done your emotional marathon of a PAST life, & bared it all on social media. Most of all you're still standing STRONG with GRACE.👑

When she said leg work I just knew he was a Nigerian😂

Wheeew no offence to the interviewer but maybe do some introspection about the energy given off because the snarkiness is really… off putting. It feels like you bring flawed people on just to belittle and judge them in order to feel superior. I know criticism is hard to hear so I hope this is received in good faith and not as an attempt to be malicious. Also glad this woman decided to tell the truth, do not hide affairs, your partners deserve better and God requires confession, repentance and accountability in order to absolve you of your sin. All truth IS good truth because it’s God who requires the truth before anyone else. Anyone who tells you otherwise is leading you away from Him and that’s a dangerous path.

What i notice is that when these women cheat with the fun guy, 9 times out of 10 they want to be with him, but he doesn't want to be with her. i think that when women say they weren't getting at home they really are, but they block it out because it ruins their fantasy of this other person, that's what give it a rush.

Cheating is an active decision. If you love God you’d fear to hurt him by disobeying his commandments towards adultery. However, the bible also says husbands should cherish and love their wives. He neglected her and created an environment for her to feel the need to even crave someone else’s love and affection. The real question is - was there a conversation between the two to understand where the marriage was going wrong/communication ? I do think the interviewer would excel if she demonstrated more empathy and really dug deep into marriage,love and infidelity. Asking her questions and then also simultaneously judging her through tone of voice, body language was really off putting. Domestic abuse was also going on which is a valid reason for divorce and separation under Gods eyes. She went through a lot and growing up in an Ugandan community probably meant she was fed negative and sexist ideologies that a woman shouldn’t leave if she’s abused.. I really do feel sorry for her and I think this interview did a massive disservice to this lady. This interview just felt pointless. “Take your time” instead of giving comforting her was kind of disgusting to watch. Domestic abuse turned into domestic violence ☹️.

The lady being interviewed, Lois, is BEAUTIFUL❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

She needs to find a different job interviewer has really issues with herself her attitude is a no no 😊

I remember hearing about this happening at our church and she received a lot of judgment. I’m happy she was able to share her story.

Thanks for being so open with your story

Loyce is beautiful

The interviewer actually asked the right questions thus far. She's getting everything from her actual thoughts. Even the part that everyone hates in the comments on "why did you tell him" 95% wouldn't even had told they own spouse but quick to discredit someone for being open about how they handle something know if they ever got in those shoes then they would change their thought process

I don’t like the interviewer but this guest is incredible thanks for sharing your story ❤

Such a beautiful woman ❤ Loyce provides an example of self reflection and vulnerability that I pray to reach one day as a woman. Great interview !

She’s playing the victim like mad, get off the interviewers back you nerd, expecting her to just have all the empathy in the world for a cheater

If you don't know the value of loyalty, you'll never understand the damage of betrayal 💯

Whats up with the interviewer!?

You admitted? Why? Is wild 😂😂😂😂

I liked the interviewer most ppl hate the truth,the reason society failed nowadays coz of lack of accountability,ppl looking for sympathy then continue the same mistakes over and over.

She was "married at the tender age of 22." She had to qualify that it to make the woman who cheated less responsible. If At 22 you don't know that wrong is wrong, and that you pay a price for certain decisions, then you should see a psychiatrist. All through the interviews I have watched on this channel, this interviewer is always minimizing issues, making people appear stupid for being honest and straightforward, like telling this woman who said she confessed to the husband that she wouldn't have done it. Who cares about what you think? The interview is about the woman who cheated and had nothing to do with you. I have read commenters call her fake and I have come to agree with that.

I like this is woman from backchat London s6 and I can’t be a hypocrite but this isn’t a flex I hope she is doing this for closure, healing , self awareness and real-ness. I hope she’s learned and gone through what God was teaching her in the suffering 💛 sending you healing sis.

Worst interviewer ever!! Her facial expressions are SCARY!!!

I don't understand why y'all are coming for the interviewer, she asked the hard hitting questions instead of soft ball questions. She did nothing wrong in my opinion.

So nobody has Shame anymore? I’m sick of these negative topics in the black community. We need positive topics on relationships, marriage and careers

This is how you know cheating sucks and is painful for both parties with no good outcome. You can tell she's hurting knowing what she has done has not only caused her marriage and family to break down but she gets stigmatised errrday by it and it hurts her. Let alone knowing how much pain she caused her husband and child. In a nutshell she's hurt herself by her own actions cheating on her husband. Any new guy that goes there knowing this woman is capable of stepping out easily is asking for unnecessary trouble. She had no respect for herself her husband or her child or marriage values or youth pastor duties. She Wrecked her relationship and marriage for what exactly?! It's mad yo. Hats off for being honest and speaking about it tho. The pain still sits deep inside her

Why is everyone complaining about the interviewer, I don’t see anything… she’s just asking questions and being direct

Big up the young lady for being truthful to your husband. You are never wrong for doing the right thing.

I can appreciate the transparency and the honesty

They cut out so much of this

Interviewer: I give you your flowers for leading on these conversations🎉 Some constructive feedback; Please lean into the interviewees vulnerability, your tone, posture and body language can be vastly improved. You have the ability to sit with the greats study them plz 🙏🏾

She does give off that mean girl vibe especially since she's wearing pink😂. But her eyes do seem empathetic towards the interviewee's situation especially when she talks about the DV.

We see why tumelo dragged her😂😂

Lol why’s this interview so fast. It’s like it’s been sped up

A self respecting men will never accept infedelity from a woman. If he says yes then he just want get a piece and dip

I feel like everyone here are saint and never have made mistakes. Leave that girl alone, it’s clear she regrets doing it.

I love the guest, what a beautiful woman! 😍 She seems humble, honest and genuine.

cheating is wrong in a marriage 100%. Not condoning it at all but to then be violently abused for four months continuously is very cold. Anger can kill, we all need to learn how to use words.

Please, let's re-do this interview with a different interviewer. She is so beautiful, and her story is incredibly relatable to many women, especially those who marry young. Kudos to her for gracefully answering and sharing her side of the story despite the unsympathetic and odd follow-up questions. She deserves to be on a podcast that will do her justice. This interview just isn't it.

I don’t think this interviewer is bad she’s just using a presenter persona instead of interview. For example how you’ll introduce love island is not the same as an 1-2-1 interview. You lot be easy on her she defo has potential to be great. Zeze millz wasn’t better than her when she started

The interviewer needs to get a journalism diploma.

The lady being interviewed is beautiful. Just the way she conducts herself and her honesty.

Mide is a great interviewer who asks the right and difficult questions. Those who know her can tell she's very sympathetic but she tried her best to keep her cool for professional reasons

He was the first for everything. Including the first person to cheat on 😂😂😂

This interview is so wild solely because Loyce is so articulate, smart and seems really nice (despite the situation), but Mide seems cold and uneducated. Complete opposites

The interviewer is not obliged to feel empathy. She remained neutral so what’s the problem here? 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Modern relationships won't last without old school values as people are easily distracted and have no real values ,longterm is an idea of the past

Came back to say that I feel for her and appreciate her honesty. She’s brave for coming out and being honest. She also has a lot of accountability and maturity.

Emotions is worst foundation for a marriage... For a principled man he can control his emotions for the greater good but for women.. Most can't they'll almost always yeild to emotions and that union will not work... Do your best to find one not ruled by emotions and you'd have found a rare gem

I’m confused about what the issue with the interviewer is…are y’all that soft??

Hold this woman accountable for her actions

I remember a guy at my job started flirting with me, I said listen I'm a cool chick but I don't play that flirting stuff, I'm married! The coworker said to me, I can be your work husband, I said no you can't that's playing a dangerous game, and I don't do nothing behind my husband's back that i wouldn't do in his face. I said look let's just be coworkers and leave it like that, later on I found out, some of the men at my job had a bet who could sleep with me first🤯

I think this was a good interview dunno why peoole are angry at the interviewer, i didnt watch her first interview so i'm looking at it from a non biased view. She asked all the right questions & imo if we compare her to when zeze first started, shes waaay better. Zeze was always stuttering & you could see her thinking on the spot for questions to ask. In terms of loyce i genuinely dont know what to make of her & i really hate to say this but i question if everything she says is true. In the first podcast she did she put emphasis on the fact that her husband had let himself go and she was no longer attracted to him but there was no mention of that here apart from the church bit.

11:57 Guest: "I may have taken my own life... 😢" Interviewer: "Okay... That's deep, I wasn't expecting you to go there." (Moves on to the next question like nothing deep and concerning was mentioned prior...). We aren't asking her to be a therapist, but what we know as human beings is that you don't need to be a therapist to know how to be empathetic to your neighbour especially after rhey mention something so sensitive.

See the power of legwork! 🤣

First of all, you have or had an actual husband… there’s no such thing as a “work husband”. All these silly titles and narratives being pushed forward are ridiculous

To make the matter worse is that, shes a youth pastor. Damn! Jesus come end this world!

I wonder what her daughter will think when she watches this back in 10/20 years. I also wonder what her ex husband who was defo imperfect but loyal.

I think the interviewer is JUST SO focused on her questions or popping her questions out to keep the flow , that she fails TERRIBLY in the empathy and relatability category

I dont like her questioning style and tone, sound low key judgemental to me

Why is everyone mad the interviewer ? She is asking direct questions that needs to be answered that no one else would dare to ask. I liked this interview

It's good that you tell all the guys that you cheated on your husband, but they will never trust you enough to marry you. ut they will get a piece and move on.

Always the man's fault ain't it... My HUSBAND wasn't doing enuff, the work husband was doing too much... accountability is these women's kryptonite... smdh...

Respectfully, this interviewer should find another line of work.

I can’t lie, as wrong as what she did, she has a high level of accountability, which can be respected on the basis that she isn’t a bad person but just found herself making a foolish mistake… Hats off to her, because 95% of women have no accountability in these things!!

I think this is the worse interviewer i have even seen. 1. She is not real, very fake 2. She lacks empathy that should come with this interview 3. Her coordination was 0/10

Lois is such a beautiful, intelligent woman, deeply sensitive and self aware

Cheating is just ugly!. When you're cheated on, it is one of the most painful emotions ever!!

Thanks for this great interview...🙏🙏🙏 I learn ALOT ❤❤❤❤

Loyce, im proud of you for sharing your story. People who are judging the most, do not know you. We know who you are! Who you really are. Love you x

Ngl this was a brilliantly conducted interview. The host has a unique style - very direct but it allows for us to get a full picture of the guest's experiences.

Interviewers aren’t supposed to sway the viewers emotions or perceptions. You ask straightforward questions and the person being interviewed will react naturally.

Really enjoyed this. Thank you for sharing your experience. I wish you, your ex and the little one all the best and I hope yous all heal and have peace.

Respect you for your honesty beloved...