Im going through the same struggle as you bro im 23 virgin and have been flaked on been rejected been cheated on never truly given a chance with a woman so I gave up on it and semen retention for me is something im glad I found because once I relapsed it made me realize I need this in order for not just people to treat me right but my life as a whole and I will go 2 years on it

I’m what some women consider a “fuckboy” atleast at first glance because I’m tall and attractive and I’m a minute in, my first time on the channel. Your issue with this is something I had and I get womens attention with just my mere presence. However, I’m a lover, I don’t cheat, I don’t have as many bodies as people think I do and I’ve never been the guy as to what I look like, which is MUCH worse than a guy who is what he looks like because women have an idea of you before you speak. I say all that to say, DONT EVER fuck with ONE woman UNLESS she’s yours. I cared about flakes and even fuck ups UNTIL I started dealing with multiple women. There is courting and there is dating. When courting, who you talk to and deal with and who she deals with is up to you individually, once y’all are secured as bf and gf THEN you question . You will be mentally on her and she’s doing whatever she wants not thinking about you, the flake reason could be a date with another guy and she could fuck him on the first date. If reading that even made you twitch a little, YOU CARE TOO MUCH BRO, and you ONLY care because you’re devoting your time and mental capacity to her and she doesn’t care… but she’s not supposed to, you aren’t official at all. The nonchalance you have is great and healthy if it’s green we on go, if she on bullshit whatever… but YOU need more women in your rotation and to pick from who fuck with you, so if one girl flakes, ahh I’ll hit up the other shawty… Also, don’t count days if it’s a lifestyle for you. Many guys count and get discouraged after breaking a streak, no matter how long you go days to decades, you’re GOING TO BREAK IT. The important part is not making the same mistake twice, two days in a row. Doing it once even 9 days will not affect your body biologically, only your mental state because you hold the streak to such a high regard, when you don’t think about it and move like it’s just you, it BECOMES you. Streaks are for guys who are doing this from one set period to another, like no rap November, you count the days only in such an instance. TLDR: it is a long read isn’t it. But bros gotta bro bih

Keep it up bro, I am 24 too and have not figured it out. We got this.

keep it up bro :)

I hope you'll find some good girlfriend :) Hang in there bro

do you go to the gym?

Advise: Dont chase anyone, you ask for their number if they are interested and text after a couple of days. Show little interest, keeps texts short and dont push for meet ups. When someone says they want to be just a friend say you have enough friends and tell them your not interested in that and forget about them quickly. Dont be too nice, make them feel emotions, tell them what makes you happy or angry in a joking way. Dont show any weekness or sadness show strength and positivity. Show and tell them why you are a fun person to be around that you do sports or something. Be direct when they get flirty ask them if they wanna come over to your house for a few drinks. Dont talk about anything that might be a turnoff, shit like star wars or youtube or gaming. Keep it all about them by constantly asking questions but reply an hour or two later. Dont look for love let it find you by being focused on yourself and let it attract to you by people seeing you have value and are productive. Smile and laugh more when around women and make sure they look at you like a provider and a confident strong man. In summary act old school and tell women what you expect, tell them you dont want them going to clubs or being friends with other men, if you allow that they will look at you like you are weak. Remember women will always test you to see what they can get away with, stay strong and "put your foot down" set clear boundaries and dont ever chase a woman. If shes interested she will text you and ask you about your day and show interest. Above all, be mysterious about what you do for work, if they ask tell them you are a man of many talents, try to make yourself as interesting and mysterious as possible. Tell them you read books and go for walks and stuff like that. Women will never admit it but they like a man who is strong and mysterios over a funny guy, these are the guys who get friend zoned and cheated on. Tell her shit like," dont let my boys see me being nice to you or tell them im saying this but you look great today, i have a reputation" you can laugh or wink by saying this, be half serious in how you say it. Above all dont appear desperate or needy for anything, ask chicks out for ice cream or coffee if you want long term relationship, it will be expensive, find a nice restaurant that needs reservation if you wanna go for drinks rather than a club or bar. Joke in a flirty way, you have to be whitty in a clever way to get a woman not funny. Tell them they are stupid if they are being stupid, dont be a simp or put them on a pedastal telling them how beautiful they are, instead compliment their style or nails or teeth, the more specific the better otherwise they will feel embarrased, pressured or that you are deperate. Never appear desperate this is the worst place to be, women can smell it. Dont buy her a drink jokeingly ask her to buy you one. Women love holidays, if you dont travel, start travelling or get driving if you are not already so you can talk about all the places you have been, it can be cheap to go to spain, portugal or travel in most places in europe or eastern europe. Women love men with stories and who are well traveled. Dont ever tell them you have had no serious relationship or dont get many women or are a virgin, these women want what they cant have and want to appear to be competing with other females, dont tell them you are on no fap what is of value to men is not the same as what women value. To be a high value male, you need to appear to be good at many things, fixing things, investing, cooking, sports or whatever. If you appear to be focused on these things you will be more interesting. You have to sell yourself on why you are better than other men than be too nice. You know what they say about nice guys. Dont be a dick but be borderline arrogant about your abilities, masculine energy will attract female energy. Women look at everything, what you drink, how you speak, how you dress, they need manly interesting shit to talk to their friends about so play it as cool as possible. Find a girl with small tits and tease her over it or tease any woman by saying she has big feet for a female and that you feel bad for her so wanted to ask her out. If she says no, you can say okay bigfoot best of luck and move on. It sounds funny but am deadly serious that this is the game nowadays unfortunately there are no meet cutes, you gotta be forward and a bit of a dick/ tease to get a woman. If you are not then you are boring to her. You have to have some drama or some intersting, mysterious shit going on or great stories to tell to keep women entertained. This is the game you need to play to stand out from the simps and friendzone guy. I am trying to be as helpful as possible my guy, all the best in finding the right person.