She Has Guy Friends, Debt or is Violent - 3 More Red Flags To Avoid in Women

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@StainlessSteelPolish 4 жыл бұрын

Music. Music is an interest men and women can have in common. I could see how a person such as yourself with such rigid definitions of success and adulthood could see this as an invalid grounds for people of the opposite sex to spend time together, but I've seen vagina-positive specimens at music venues all over the place. Venues with names like "bar" and "tavern". These are no One-D concerts. I'm probably a child because I'm a musician, but money isn't everything to these gen-z, vagina-positive smartphone addicts who are persuaded of the moral imperative, nay, prerogative of infanticide and of the fluid, non-polar, fully subjective, anti-biological nature of gender.

@dustinmatthews387 4 жыл бұрын

You just described the insanely beautiful girl I very recently tried getting into a relationship with! And I saw her with her making out with her ex at a pool tournament this last Saturday. Then I saw her at a different bar on a tinder date with a new poor sap (her extroverted personality kinda scared him away from hanging out with her and another guy friend of hers who spent the whole evening with her and her tinder date!) She also told me on our first date (in November) she has a knife throwing totem back in her home state of Minnesota) so she might have the propensity for violence. Her ex cheated on her multiple times, and she did admit (on our second and last date) she kept taking him back because she wanted to be the one to dump him and break his heart, however, he's a popular local tattoo artist and she and I know, he can hook up with any girl he wants whenever. She's spontaneous and impulsive, so I'm thinking she's trying some sort of revenge scheme. Or she likes the emotional abuse. Can't really tell with her. She reminds me of everyone's favorite adorable beloved blue Tang, voiced by Ellen DeGeneres, Dory. Her aloof personality is fun, but she seems to forget small things on a daily basis. She's also receptive & responsive to assertiveness (which is good) and aggression, as I've noticed with a few texts I've sent her when we were dating. Plus, she does have A LOT of guy friends. I'd like to theorize she's intimidated by me, knowing I'm not the type to put up with her bs. Which I've called her out on, and I'm intellectually her equal. I'm quite confident, Most of her guy friends, just want to get in her panties. Either way, she hit every red flag you mentioned!

@dustinmatthews387 4 жыл бұрын

Ginger Jabber, I tried building a common rapaport with her through dining and music. When we first started dating Id send her texted her multiple pieces of my favorite songs, some she agreed with (classical) some she didn't respond to as we're 10 yrs apart in age. I even suggested she come up with a list of her lifetime favorite songs, adding that our preferred music throughout our lifetimes could be a movie soundtrack of our lives, and she thought that was an awesome idea....and we'll, needless to say, those were never completed.

@nl3712 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Richard, FYI, your vids aren’t coming up in my KZfaq feed even though I’m subscribed. Not entirely certain why this is happening. On the upside, there are still ads. Best wishes for 2020.

@SandcastleDreams 4 жыл бұрын

Why is it that men always "assume" that a "backup plan" is about a man! IF a woman has ever been in an abusive relationship, that BACKUP is a way out so they aren't stuck in the abuse if it happens again! There's a lot of mental illness out there and men aren't immune to it.

@Son-of-Krypton 4 жыл бұрын

biggest red flag is 'no respect'....if she do not respect you and your opinions as a man.....cut her out of life asap !

@RedPillTruth2023 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Spends all her time talking about herself and her issues and her whatever. After three weeks or so, you realize she has never asked about you, your family, your kids or shown any interest in you at all. You have pictures of family and hobbies around the house. She never asks who they are or anything. You realize you are dealing with a narcissist and self centered person. When you finally bring this up, she says “ oh, it’s all about you I guess.” Classic gaslighting!,

@becoolstayfrosty 4 жыл бұрын

@@RedPillTruth2023 spot on, Tim!

@schallrd1 4 жыл бұрын

This is so true take heed.

@RedPillTruth2023 4 жыл бұрын

becool workerbee happened to me several times.

@MiamiHeat305 4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@realRichHunting 4 жыл бұрын

The last Woman I chose to be committed to had a lot of guy "friends" who'd take her out to lunches and dinners, so I decided to have female "friends" and she didn't like that at all. Funny how that works.

@spaztor7723 4 жыл бұрын

I really wonder y she would not like it 🤔

@samuraisaint2360 4 жыл бұрын

Funny how that works right

@julesofsouthafrica9994 4 жыл бұрын

I have encountered double standards in my marriage too. I will not jump through hoops to keep anyone around. I will not entertain a shit test or give it any credance by getting jealous. If she wants to leave or threatens to leave or implies it by trying to make you jealous, be a gentleman and open the door for her to let her out. Who said chivalry is dead?

@infinitedurr 4 жыл бұрын

This is the way

@Edgeofdavid 4 жыл бұрын

I've done the same thing when I was younger 😂 live and learn.

@Cybernetic800 4 жыл бұрын

Biggest mistake I made in my last relationship of 8 years was thinking she would stick around when I was going through a bad period of depression when my Father died. In her words she said "your holding me back". But I learned loyalty is very uncommon.

@richhadfield3836 4 жыл бұрын

Yup...women do not give a shit about your struggles.

@marcusp905 4 жыл бұрын

Bravo get ya head down, work hard and get fit ,things get better bro

@Cybernetic800 4 жыл бұрын

@Heinrich Himmler The conditions being it suits them

@Cybernetic800 4 жыл бұрын

@@marcusp905 The exercise part is vital I find.

@bodazaphfa 4 жыл бұрын

These bitches ain’t loyal.

@healthguy79 4 жыл бұрын

"We're JUST friends. Don't be so insecure!!!"

@doesntmatter2505 4 жыл бұрын

That’s huge red flag!!!!!

@EduardoSanchez-vw3pq 4 жыл бұрын

Another one I see often is: how inmature you are, we ended in good terms and are now best friends.

@Lateralus46x2 4 жыл бұрын

Yup

@healthguy79 4 жыл бұрын

@rvhron08 It's called gaslighting - the act of passing blame onto someone else, making that person feel like it's his fault, denying your own accountability, and wiping your own hands free from responsibility whilst you're guilty as fuck!

@Gintoki7 4 жыл бұрын

Translation "why are you against being cucked"

@doesntmatter2505 4 жыл бұрын

When a women starts chatting with their ex! You need to bounce ASAP!!!!

@ramahosseini8523 4 жыл бұрын

yep, out as soon as you can. there always be sexual conversation. and we all know what happen after that. find a place to cheat

@kirilmihaylov1934 4 жыл бұрын

@@ramahosseini8523 some women are hopeless....you can't do anything..

@ramahosseini8523 4 жыл бұрын

@@kirilmihaylov1934 i personally have nothing against women. i think they pretty entertaining if they want to. they should be free to make decisions and live their life the way they wanna live without being judged. i totally support them and if i can i help them too. there are some childish game they play which i personally dont like it. i understand why they do that and i dont blame them. as long as their decision has no effect on me and i have my own freedom i dont care about what they do. they just need to learn how to become better negotiator.

@KingLouisDaSaint 4 жыл бұрын

That goes for women who claim to be “cool” w their child’s dad. That’s essentially an ex boyfriend who’s ALWAYS in the picture. I can’t deal w single moms

@ramahosseini8523 4 жыл бұрын

@@KingLouisDaSaint my ex told dont worry i got this. i said girl im not worry about your exes or your guy friends. im worry about my money, as long as they pay for your bills i could careless about what you all do or say. that way i start spending money on other girls without being worry about you. as i predicted it in the end i became financially broke for guys she told me dont worry about. i told my ex can i stay in friendzone and we just a friend zone. somehow she wasnt okay with that. once i got blame for telling a woman that i care about my money and not your friends. next time i got blamed for telling a woman that i dont wanna be your friend. both ways i end up losing money. none of them was my decision. no matter how life goes i always end up being blamed for other people friendship. for people that i dont even know. LOOOOL

@webbie1891 4 жыл бұрын

My number one red flag I always look out for before even going on a first date with a woman is, I ask them what went wrong in their previous relationship and if they give me a laundry list and no accountability, I bounce ✌🏾🏃🏿‍♂️

@zero1188 4 жыл бұрын

lmao nah wont work. i do this my self. . every female i ask give these same exact reasons 1. he controlling 2. hes a narcissist 3. he cheated 4. he manipulator 5. hes abusive . the question you should ask is what did they do wrong themselves in that relationship. though the answer will always be nothing

@MrJimmy3459 4 жыл бұрын

That's the worst thing you can ask them, you are only going to get one side of the story. Why even bother asking them that?

@infinitedurr 4 жыл бұрын

Jay Bee haha 😆

@infinitedurr 4 жыл бұрын

zero thing about this is that most of these girls have no idea what these words actually mean, and take no accountability for their part in that dance, which is itself highly solipsistic. Ever ask one of these girls “how did you contribute to the failure of your last relationship?”? If so, you’ll watch them either squirm or get mad real quick 😄 At very least, a girl who responds this way is someone with a weak filter and a bad sense of character. And if that’s the case, that is yet another red flag 🚩 to pay attention to.

@emilkadd 4 жыл бұрын

That’s a good one

@konradmichalski758 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve had a wife that was a reckless spender. When we met, we were teenagers and we stayed together into my early 30’s her late 20’s. When we’ve started dating we had nothing so it was easy, but when I’ve started making good money she couldn’t stop spending. No matter how much I made, I couldn’t save a cent. Yesterday the paperwork got finalised and we’re divorced with no severe damage to my finances. I’m a re-cycled single guy and I’ll make sure it stays that way. Edit: We didn’t have kids and that’s what saved me.

@chriskelly509 4 жыл бұрын

Childfree is the way to be.

@Netlogic. 4 жыл бұрын

Stop using present perfect (I've/I have) when you speak, you're not using it correctly.

@konradmichalski758 4 жыл бұрын

TechNoirTV So? This is not the subject of the discussion. I’m not a native speaker. I work in the UK since 2012 and not once anyone has paid attention to it and I did ask people to correct me when I’m wrong. Hardly anyone did. This is what I found on google about present perfect. „Present perfect is a grammatical combination of the present tense and perfect aspect that is used to express a past event that has present consequences.” What I was describing is a past activity that had a consequence now. So I deem my use of this tense ok. Especially that when I speak to people in the UK that don’t know me, they always think I’m from North America due to my accent (I’m from Poland) I take that as the best validation of my knowledge of this language. In the future please keep your comments to the subject discussed.

@Netlogic. 4 жыл бұрын

@@konradmichalski758 I teach English for a living and instead of being offended you'd be better off using this opportunity to learn something. What the "big book" says is only a guideline sometimes, and people never correct other people's grammar for fear of offending them, which you've just done, so that's not the best indicator of how good you are in a language . Present perfect is one of the harder pieces of grammar for students to grasp because of what you just said, things happen in the past with results in the future. It can be very subjective how much of an effect something has, so much so that I don't even teach that part, and tell my students to focus instead on the objective parts of that tense, ie. Everything EXCEPT for that point. But hey, if you don't want to take any advice go ahead and stay ignorant, no one's going to correct you irl, so you'll never really know if what you're saying sounds ridiculous.

@konradmichalski758 4 жыл бұрын

TechNoirTV to know if someone feels ofended you need to actually see the person (see their body laguage, tone of voice, etc). I just disagreed with you. Learning those small bits really isn’t going to change anything for me. I’m still going to have the same friends, same habits and make the same amount of money. I do go out for drinks with locals and in gereral I do socialise with the English and everyone undestands me. Heck, even you understood my writing. Furthermore, everyone in my social group knows that it’s a mamooth task to offend me so, take what you want out of that. Just because you teach English doesn’t mean you’re right. You’ve said yourself that the „big book” is a guideline sometimes, so what makes you think that your way of seeing it is the right way? Just please anwser that to yourself, I don’t need any more of your wisdom that no one here asked for.

@thebrowithnoname1703 4 жыл бұрын

I love videos like these but I love the user comments as well. You can gain a lot of insight from these.

@carm7518 4 жыл бұрын

Like what? A bunch of salty men hating on women...

@thebrowithnoname1703 4 жыл бұрын

Carola - Says the woman.

@sushrutdongargaonkar2073 3 жыл бұрын

@Galen Joyce Yes. It's a valuable collection of experiences.

@dermotosullivan3065 2 жыл бұрын

@@carm7518 a triggered feminist has entered the conversation.

@markkuuss 4 жыл бұрын

My ex used to always say "I am bored". I've never gave it a thought but now I consider that a Red Flag. Woman do not have real hobbies. Sorry ladies, Netflix and restaurants are not real hobbies. If you hear a girl talk about something, 9 out of 10, it was her ex-boyfriend hobby that he introduced it to her. Also, they love invading male-only spaces and male dominated hobbies..not because they have an interest on a subject, but to seek attention and be in a social setting where they can get the top males.

@infinitedurr 4 жыл бұрын

Mehdi this is what I’ve noticed too. There’s a great video from Karen Straughan, something like “The Tyranny of Female Hypoagency” that goes into why this happens.

@20920474 4 жыл бұрын

This is so damn true. I was living and working abroad for a year. I come back to a gym here in my home city that was a total male dominated, all business weightlifting and powerlifting gym. What am I met with? Dime a dozen thots in nearly naked sports bras and spandex floating around getting in the fucking way. As if the price of pussy couldnt be driven any lower by Instagram and Gymshark

@madsaltyskills 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my God 💯 my ex, all her hobbies was all her past exs hobbies 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

@spartangreg1 4 жыл бұрын

Brooooo, I went through the same thing with my last girl. She said I was boring when I would be the main one to carry the conversation and wanna go out to bars, restaurants and wanna take trips, like the beach, snowboarding etc....she really was only on board if I was paying. I called her out one day and asked if she atleast offered to split things I'd at least feel more at ease, she got mad and offended....

@20920474 4 жыл бұрын

@@spartangreg1 Glad you got out of that situation man. Shoot ropes on these entitled hoes backs. Nothing more. No refund for riding the cawk carousel. They dont deserve anything more

@benj1236 4 жыл бұрын

*The funny thing about "Friends" is that women dont tolerate their Boyfriends to have girl "friends". She'll quickly tell you, Why do you need friends? You have me! End that now or we are over!*

@redbull19733 4 жыл бұрын

Double standards are real with the crazy ones.

@studhammer 3 жыл бұрын

I'm an older guy (almost 51) and it amazes me how many women have nothing for a retirement plan. I've talked to women from 45-55 and NONE has a 401k, substantial savings, nothing. It just screams to me their retirement plan is to mooch off a guy that actually planned ahead and has a retirement plan. For me, that's a red flag at my age because I don't want a woman sponging off me and the money I saved and most probably bringing nothing but a headache to the equation.

@lau77771hh 2 жыл бұрын

Always thinking about money.

@andydetweiler766 3 жыл бұрын

Didn't see my kid for 18 months due to her attacking me in my truck, the cop arrested me, gave her the kid, and even though I was found not guilty at the trial, and eventually got custody, it was a very tough patch of life.

@RagnarLothbrok2222 4 жыл бұрын

Red flags for me: 1. Tats 2. Short hair 3. No dad or fucked up relationship with dad 4 on any types of antipsychotics/antidepressants 5. High n count 6. Doesn’t want kids 7. Posts a plethora of selfies on IG 8. Has kids 9. Over 28 y/o

@gatamatagata 3 жыл бұрын

why tats ?

@leezaw 3 жыл бұрын

she has all of them

@a.child_eater1095 3 жыл бұрын

None of these things suggest that the girl would be a bad person?

@LJContent 3 жыл бұрын

@@a.child_eater1095 researchers has claimed that females who has terrible relationships with their fathers are more inclined to cheat.

@ashutoshkumarxc 2 жыл бұрын

Can you please explain the “Short hair” and “No dad” to me ?

@zero1188 4 жыл бұрын

dave ramsey is training men to pay off women's debts

@wordsintowins 4 жыл бұрын

So is dr phil

@inshape1872 4 жыл бұрын

zero ask him how much debts he paid off for woman??? He don’t do a lot of stuff he is preaching...

@MrJimmy3459 4 жыл бұрын

Ehh, he says both of you should be on the same page as to how you're going to pay off debt. Both of you need to make sacrifices to pay off any debt

@blackonblack...9244 4 жыл бұрын

@Galen Joyce He's a radio host for helping people get rid of debt. He's on KZfaq. However, he is more biased against men when couples get a divorce. And when the divorce happens, it's the women that call is show as the damsel in distress wondering what to do. There are guys that have called his show, but it's very few of them. And the women that call in use Dave Ramsey to destroy the men they were married to.

@salvatoreluciano864 4 жыл бұрын

See, many of you become jaded by the realities of the red pill and see anyone who isn't part of the 'red pill community' as blue pill or beta. What you wrote is 💯 a lie. Ramsey : 1. Teaches married couples to tackle debt TOGETHER. Also tells stay at home mother's to take on a part time job or side hustle to bring in income. 2. He warns men TO NOT MARRY women who hide debt or are not 💯 on board with conquering the debt. You dummies need to understand there is a difference between a girlfriend and wife. Not as far as maintaining their attraction or gaming them, but in the responsibilities you have to one another.

@nobodyhere402 4 жыл бұрын

I am a woman and I agreed that there are women out there like that mentioned in this video. Men should avoid those types. I am in my early 30s and dating my first boyfriend. Most of my female friends my age are either divorced or single moms and looking for a man or dating someone who's not going to commit. They blamed everyone but themselves. I hear their complaints all the time when they want to vent to their circle of friends via brunch, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or live chats.

@audiomaker1 4 жыл бұрын

On the friends flag, I think most women who do this, don't actually keep their male friends as backups consciously. When everything is clicking in her primary relationship, having male friends likely seems completely harmless to them. Even those men who she would truly never leave you for (her hairdresser for instance), are giving her a safety net and a place to "vent" about you in the best case. In the worst case, the guy who she had honestly had no interest in during good times, suddenly becomes magically attractive when the primary relationship is struggling (and all relationships struggle at times). A safety net or "soft landing" as I like to call it, demonstrates a woman's honest level of confidence in your relationship and commitment. With no safety net, she is at a higher risk of a "hard drop". This even applies to her friends of the same sex, so be observant of how stout her nets are, and how they are maintained, and reference that to how stout the primary relationship is, and to what ratio she is maintaining that.

@jameswaterhouse-brown6646 2 жыл бұрын

Insightful bro.

@rredhawk 4 жыл бұрын

First "red flag" that came to my mind was do not pursue a woman who has a lot of debt because if you marry her you will assume that debt as well has have to continue to deal with the bad habits that got her in trouble in the first place.

@minciNashu 3 жыл бұрын

That debt flag.. Let's just say, I've learned my lesson. Went against my principle: don't save anyone if they're not willing to save themselves. Never again.

@bw975 4 жыл бұрын

My first wife was all three. Then would play the victim to appeal to my former cap'n save a ho mentality. Put me through 10 years of hell.

@bos_outsider 4 жыл бұрын

Manage money separately if you’re in a serious relationship. Money changes everyone no matter who they are. For me, honesty is a huge thing, and loyalty, when it comes to relationships.

@chriskelly509 4 жыл бұрын

Even if you get married always have separate checking accounts and split the bills 50/50

@lau77771hh 2 жыл бұрын

@@chriskelly509 WTH? Then why would a woman want a man?

@chriskelly509 2 жыл бұрын

@@lau77771hh because she still wants half your stuff

@bdburlingame 4 жыл бұрын

These quick videos are great: can’t wait for the book!

@ianwatson194 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Richard. A great Red flag to cover would be "love bombing". It's a well known tactic of a woman with borderline personality disorder. In early stage she will give the guy everything he has ever wanted in the bedroom but after dating for a while its normal for her to turn on him

@joecee6862 2 жыл бұрын

Dude, yes. Dated a girl with this and she went from burning passionate desire to freezing me out and one word replies. Attacked my competence as a man and was undermining me on every decision I made, even how to move a heavy couch... As someone who is 6'4, 280lbs, went to school for engineering and physics, is into weightlifting, and has moved on average every 1.5 years, I DON'T need her advice on physics and what my body is capable of. Her decisions were always 100% correct, no way to argue them without getting guilt tripped or starting an argument. BPD girls are great for sex but other than that, run FAR away, as fast as you can and never look back.

@benfranklin9156 Жыл бұрын

@@joecee6862 you recounted my story. Exactly the same. She tore me apart but I learned. Now I am a beast with giant walls around me. Only the best get past the walls.

@JDoe-hb7pc 10 ай бұрын

Let me guess she was 5'2".

@peopleunite78 4 жыл бұрын

If she berates you with a knee jerk reflex and you can't even pray a compliment out of her...run away with New York speed.

@Colyers 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos have really come together in focus, marketing, delivery, just clean, no fluff. Love it. Here's to 2020!

@an_easy_name_to_remember4749 4 жыл бұрын

Truth bombs be dropping here. Well done Rich 👍

@stevenmacintyre5912 4 жыл бұрын

I've experienced every red flag you mentioned and sadly, it's all too common for women to have "guy friends".

@QUguy 4 жыл бұрын

All women are bi. Guys, it’s NOT your job to figure out if it’s sexual or polar.

@DavidLLambertmobile 4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@nweeezy 4 жыл бұрын

this is some real shit

@destinypratt7761 3 жыл бұрын

That is disgusting. Not all women are bi. 😝

@destinypratt7761 3 жыл бұрын

Or homosexual.

@santiagoperez2094 3 жыл бұрын

@@destinypratt7761 allmost all women like breast.

@audiomaker1 4 жыл бұрын

As usual, all of Mr. Cooper's advice mirrors my own experiences. Thanks Man.

@TheFox808 4 жыл бұрын

Can confirm that her guy friends (and ex's) are used as backup plans, and she will act on it as soon as you have a big argument. And violent behaviour can go hand in hand with BPD / daddy issues... experienced that one too, and yes she was amazing in the sack

@PoyTroy Жыл бұрын

This man ain't lying, my ex who I was with for 4 years, bpd. Daddy issues, when I broke up with her durning that time, a ex who she hated hated, well she ended up going back to him for a month. Then begged me back. Man told no lies.

@angelicaangel2624 4 жыл бұрын

As a female I agree with you on this. I would never tolerate my husband/boyfriend entertaining female friends so it works both ways. In fact I made it quite clear to my husband when we began dating officially that the only female contact details he should have in his phone is me and his female blood relatives. Period.

@danielvelkovski3156 4 жыл бұрын

Angelica Angel It doesn’t matter if you have 0 male contacts on your phone. What about your instagram/snapchat? I’ve seen how sneaky girls are especially the married ones.

@travis6694 3 жыл бұрын

@@danielvelkovski3156 dude. If you have Snapchat as a married person.. you need to evaluate your stuff man. Absolutely zerooooo need for social media if you are married.

@HaydenDavidson6 2 жыл бұрын

So, he gets no more variety of female sex, but you get your expenses paid for the rest of your life. That deal massively works in your favor, not his. Men want sex variety. Women want security. He should renegotiate the deal.

@ace50cal1 2 жыл бұрын

@@travis6694 married man here. with a snap and tiktok pursuing a art hobby. it really depends on the use. so I find social media very useful for me as I sell my art to people of all kinds. my wife doesn't have a problem with it. she has social media too as she is also an artist! just putting social media in the context of being useful for other cheating.

@Raven-zi6du Жыл бұрын

@@HaydenDavidson6 don't get married if you want sex variety

@BattlesuitExcalibur 4 жыл бұрын

LOL my dude takes off his glasses when talking about "violent women". THAT'S how serious that shit is. I grew up around plenty of violent, egotistical women... 25 and still single.

@JuanTorres-ny9ff 4 жыл бұрын

It depends on the kind of woman you are dealing with, if you look for a $100 woman, a $100 woman is what you will get.

@nospoontobend2656 3 жыл бұрын

I almost went to jail because of this

@chrisd9961 4 жыл бұрын

They're all red flags

@kb9658 4 жыл бұрын

As a woman, does the opposite also apply to men? Men shouldn’t be in contact with their exes and they shouldn’t have a lot of female friends?

@mohamedadan6678 Жыл бұрын

men in general dont have "female friends" cos in general they have nothing in common and if they're friends hes only hanging out with her in hopes he'll get to smash

@vimesagainsthumanity 3 жыл бұрын

Naming every reason behind my failed relationships 😂 Why did I not discover you and your knowledge until my early 30's?! Thank you sensei

@michaelcummings6178 3 жыл бұрын

Rich - because of you I made my own red flag list a year a go - almost 50 red flags I could not believe it It just keeps getting bigger & bigger !

@broloaf1209 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the free chapter. Looking forward to getting the book in 2020.

@maxwillson 4 жыл бұрын

The last woman I dated was divorced. She invited me to her New Years Eve party and told me her ex was there ahahaha! I didn't go to that lame party, I haven't texted her back since then. What a joke. Now I just laugh at her social media posts about dating the right men and bla bla bla.

@HaydenDavidson6 2 жыл бұрын

She thought she was going to stick it to her ex husband by walking in with you. Good decision. You would have been a rebound anyway.

@villyvassel6295 4 жыл бұрын

Better be sad and single than be in a sad relationship,

@MaGaTOW69 4 жыл бұрын

Almost every western woman breaks one of your key rules.

@mdtapilatu 4 жыл бұрын

Come to asia, they are dying for white fever

@davidekback3963 3 жыл бұрын

@@mdtapilatu be vary by the gold diggers...

@hurtadoaviles 4 жыл бұрын

Rich. Again. Spot on. All guys should memorize these red flags and live by them. Thanks brother.

@akin25kuye 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos are awesome. I have a violent woman, we are currently under seperation,as I had to take a job away from home.

@mrhowardmb 4 жыл бұрын

"Married an older single mother with TWO special needs kids that weren't his"....... AND paid (her) student loan debt...? OMG...........smh....

@elrickpenn 3 жыл бұрын

@Angry Santa ... lmmfao ... It Always is !!! ...

@bigbb416-5 3 жыл бұрын

She gave him good brain 🧠😂😂😂..

@johnnymartinez478 3 жыл бұрын

Lmfaooo what a loser

@prestonrobert2625 4 жыл бұрын

Real truth gentleman.

@dpstrial 4 жыл бұрын

The bit about not having much socially in common with women is very true. I know a few intelligent women but they are just not stimulating company at all.

@davidvanbalinghem2991 4 жыл бұрын

Oh yes! Thank you, great video with true and real information, again. Been there, done that! Lived it and learned from it! 👍❤️

@nightowl3582 3 жыл бұрын

I've gotten involved with a woman who was bad with money before. That was a huge mistake, and I left that relationship thousands poorer. Never again.

@the_city_gent2856 2 жыл бұрын

Seriously I needed this advice in my late teens - early 20s . Im Embarrassed at how I was treat and how I reacted . I didn't know how to handle these women and my actions were weak and embarrassing. Parents , take note and make sure your sons know how to handle them

@dermotosullivan3065 2 жыл бұрын

If it's any consolation mate you were not the only one. Once you start applying the lessons learnt your embarrassment at your past will fade.

@bellefeu4933 4 жыл бұрын

Being honest here. If women are so awful to date, why even take the risk?

@babaairi1274 4 жыл бұрын

Because the other options are gay.

@bellefeu4933 4 жыл бұрын

@@babaairi1274 Hah!

@santoparfano1910 4 жыл бұрын

Dude just go into it with the thinking that theres no commitment. Just spin plates and let her know shes not the only one.

@VinnyTheory 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Rick, keep going you’re helping so many people. Very clear concise video

@kevinlutz5994 4 жыл бұрын

More pearls of wisdom from Mr. Cooper. I wish I saw these videos 8 years ago.

@chrisb4660 4 жыл бұрын

Rich I wish you happy new year! Your video 'Be Better' changed my life forever. Keep getting better brother! Happy 2020.

@gregabrams5792 2 жыл бұрын

This video helped so much. I told the girl i was with to get rid of her guy fiends. She fought so hard for them so I left her.

@davem6210 4 жыл бұрын

Great comments! Lots of bright men on here! Keep it up fellas!

@ThePhinista 3 жыл бұрын

These videos are so valuable. I am only 22 and holy shit I'm going to avoid a lot of bullshit because of these videos.

@chevrierc 4 жыл бұрын

Happy new years big guy, love your videos, keep up the awesome work 2020,

@johnpuckett1880 4 жыл бұрын

Great video where were you 10 years ago my ex was violent in the beginning I was hoping it would change but it just got worse run for your lives men

@gearheadrumbum 3 жыл бұрын

My last girlfriend turned out to be a narcissist/psychopath/sociopath hybrid of some sort.... pretty much all those red flags

@MrJartved 4 жыл бұрын

Good advice,, thanks for being a good person

@Marvinflores 4 жыл бұрын

There is another youtuber, Dave Ramsey who helps with financial advice. He's good, but many times I see women on his channel with astronomical debt and the "Husband" is on the hook. Very insightful. Thanks for this vid Rich you Rock.

@josegrullon024 4 жыл бұрын

Rich, great video. Straight facts💪

@derekvazquezz3067 4 жыл бұрын

Deep down inside women despise men. We don’t menstruate, are not slaves to our emotions, are not psychologically damaged the more sexual partners we have, and the envy us most for not having a wall.

@thebrowithnoname1703 4 жыл бұрын

Derek Vazquezz - Could you shed some more light on the more sexual partners/psychologically damaged part? I agree with you, I just like to hear other people’s take on it.

@derekvazquezz3067 4 жыл бұрын

Women are emotional creatures. The more sexual partners she has the more emotional cycles she goes through. Eventually she’s unable to pair bond because she’s become emotionally and physically desensitized to men due to all the that she’s been with.

@thebrowithnoname1703 4 жыл бұрын

Derek Vazquezz - Well put. I couldn’t agree more.

@nolanbespalko7826 4 жыл бұрын

With women who you are not committing to, id rather be their back-up because they come to you and do all the work and you get the "extra-special" treatment when things with her number 1 go south, and you do not have to deal with the headaches that come with being her "main choice".

@andydetweiler766 3 жыл бұрын

I've got a phrase for that. " I'd rather have them cheating AT my house, than FROM my house.

@grandmastertymmx 4 жыл бұрын

You do a good service to young men, sir!

@thebrowithnoname1703 4 жыл бұрын

Trent Sammigrad - Not just young men. A lot of us older men didn’t have this material to turn to when we were young!

@keltonderkach9601 4 жыл бұрын

The title of this video answered my unanswered comment on your last red flags video.....debt there was a lot more to my comment but No worried I’ll struggle myself

@osnappoetwoods 4 жыл бұрын

Dope brother well done.

@MiamiHeat305 4 жыл бұрын

Love this channel man. Happy New Year man

@Crypt0Crossf1re 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks dude! Facts Ive seen it and experienced the same! great content!!

@123tonyking 3 жыл бұрын

So true ..Tony 51 years old..wish I had this information when I was 18 . PEACE ✌

@nellynuz42069 4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what is happening in my life right now..wow

@manuelkiatoko 4 жыл бұрын

*RUN!*

@guacaquio 4 жыл бұрын

Run you'll get better. I'm in the same

@bigbb416-5 3 жыл бұрын

The comments tho!!! Ayyyeee We need more of this.. Appreciation! 👊✊🇨🇦

@j.erickson8571 4 жыл бұрын

This guy KNOWS what he is talking about. 100% true everything, every word.

@face-in-the-crowd 4 жыл бұрын

Why do men stay friends with their ex's is this the same reason?

@garagers6667 4 жыл бұрын

Someone Somewhere I think that’s a safe assumption. But this channel is about men in that regard.

@spartangreg1 4 жыл бұрын

Isn't it obvious? Cause they wanna get back in obviously...

@_Siptah 4 жыл бұрын

SpartanG exactly

@angel-rc8zj 3 жыл бұрын

Man .. Thank you so much , i have been watching your videos and it changed my life not going to lie some of them are really hard to take in but you have to be mentally prepare to listen to the cold truth , again thank you so much God bless you

@ths-nyc3324 Жыл бұрын

Wholly f$&#!! Just your intro is insanely dope!! Love your videos - keep up the phenomenal work!

@billygreen3515 3 жыл бұрын

Great video. Thank you.

@michealcorbin5438 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the content! Boy oh boy where to begin. I wish I looked into Red Pill before I got married in 2012, was separated in 2013, then divorced in 2014. She had a childhood trauma from her stepfather, had three kids all from different men, was violent, controlling, insecure, bad with money, she had bpd signs (not a pro and she was never diagnosed so I can't really say), however the sex was amazing! I'm grateful we didn't have any children and never owned anything together. She got sick and we made a verbal agreement to divorce without any complications. I was very reluctant that she kept her word. In addition, I think she married me so I can take of her. Be careful!

@michealcorbin5438 4 жыл бұрын

She also had mostly guy friends.

@tempestangelslayer2295 3 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORK!!! Gave me clarification of my resent ex!

@chrisklest1238 2 жыл бұрын

I know a girl that I consider a friend that is into a lot of the same things I am in. Cycling, dancing, drumming, rock climbing, running, swimming, meditation, rollerblading... She is probably the exception to the rule and one in a million. We have a similar childhood and are both working hard on mental health. I love her, but I don't have what it takes to attract her romantically. I still appreciate our time together as "friends".

@Raven-zi6du Жыл бұрын

Why don't you have what it takes if u have all the that other stuff

@talon86blake59 2 жыл бұрын

Learned my lesson soon as red flags pop up bounce!. Don't settle for bs just because you might die alone.

@n.s.1496 4 жыл бұрын

Its amazing listening to your videos from three years ago and noticing the difference in your vocal tonality. Gives me hope for my own voice. John Sonmez also had the same change. Guess living your best life and hitting the gym is the cure-all for man-related issues.

@shilohthagod4241 2 жыл бұрын

Man this was exactly what I needed

@richardanderson6874 3 жыл бұрын

My late ex tried to strangle me and knock my head through a concrete cinder wall after being asleep and under the covers, as she straddled me. Then after getting her off and demanding to know what was going on, she stated she was going for the hatchet, so I fractured her clavicle to prevent her handling it and had her hospitalized. Divorce ensued.

@jamiecote7313 4 жыл бұрын

Some of the flags i could definitely question considering not every quality male would be deemed a 100% alpha and therefore different requirements with different types of women. With that said i couldn't agree more about the violent women rule. I had an experience with this, and come to realize it was all on me, i picked that type because i grew up with that type. Freudian slip aside, this ruined my financial and social status and even though i now am with a much better match still feel the residual headaches from time to time of the damage done by the previous woman. Great video man, keep up the good work.

@Pacothedutch Жыл бұрын

Great Video again

@DJ-nomadlife 4 жыл бұрын

GOLD.

@lars1296 4 жыл бұрын

But when a guy is best friends with a girl he used to date, women are called insecure for not being ok with it? I don’t want a guy who is some chick’s “girlfriend” or “bestie.”

@whankerNJ 4 жыл бұрын

Thank You Rich.

@Onemancanonlydosomuch 4 жыл бұрын

Violent woman often have some of the highest notch counts.

@RobertFalconer1967 4 жыл бұрын

Agree with everything in this video, with one caveat: I disagree that men and women can never have anything in common (and I do know quite a few women who are into cars and other traditional male strongholds). Remember, you can only have sex so many hours in a day, then you've got to have something to talk about. Otherwise you'll never have an LTR.

@guacaquio 4 жыл бұрын

Women into those hobbies aren't usually hot

@captrodgers4273 3 жыл бұрын

i disagree.....if a woman is into a male dominated sport or interest..... thats a huge red flag........at some point in the past fmr mate introduced her into it and she discovered unlimited attention all the men give her when she the lone lady shows up

@DayTraderCut 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for teaching me so much.

@global2765 4 жыл бұрын

Never take anything for granted. What this gentleman mentioned and sais are serious stuff. I had one who threatened me because I genuinley joked with her and she went, "becareful because I dumped men for much less than that" I quickly looked at the door, and she asked "what are you looking at?" I said, the door. She said "why?" I said you are free to leave, if for a second you think my life its going to end because you leave you are illuding yourself... another time she blackmailed me over a text because I did not text her when I came home after work so I called her back and said we are done. Another girl she told me that once she threw an electrical iron at her ex when they where together, I know he used to physically abuse her (her words) but that really put me off and after that I moved on. Even if a girl decides to call you names even if you think they are petty names you should not tolerate it. Just because she calls you a name and you react by doing the same that does not make it ok. Because it will just get worse.

@HaydenDavidson6 2 жыл бұрын

This story needs to be made into a motion picture.

@daviddick804 4 жыл бұрын

Rich Thanks for helping men of all ages have 20/20 Vision in dealing with female nature for 2020!!!

@kaitlynmilligan8144 3 жыл бұрын

I can agree with some of these things you mention. I like to listen to you because I want to understand men’s mind. I have been dating since I had to break up with my boyfriend of seven years because he became mentally ill. He was diagnosed with schizophrenia/bipolar disorder and I had to leave. I’m glad that I have had these experiences because now I feel that I can go into a new relationship with more knowledge. You can’t just judge everyone because they are single later on in life. Not always their fault. Men and women like to be picky later on in life. Can’t blame anyone. Not every chick is obsessed with getting married.

@italiancapo7 4 жыл бұрын

Can’t wait for the book. When is it coming out?

@user-mo4wc7yw5p 3 жыл бұрын

Great information! I walked away from a women two weeks ago. She kept talking to her ex who dumped her. I gave the best gift I could offer...my silence. By Felicia ✌️

@slasher298 4 жыл бұрын

I've been the one arrested doing nothing when my ex called the cops. Will record in the future for sure..

@asp5993 3 жыл бұрын

This video has almost been a religious experience for me..... I once was blind but now I can see. You sir are a gentleman and a scholar.

@chivasceltics 4 жыл бұрын

One of the very first things I ask a girl when getting to know her is about her family, parents, siblings. What kind of house hold she grew up in. If she tells me she grew up with her parents divorced. Her having bad relationships with her parents and siblings etc. Those are huge red flags for me because I believe in the saying “The apples don’t fall far from the tree”