Im so sick of them saying its insecurities. It has nothing to do with that. Its called respect

How does someone who has accomplished nothing have so much self-confidence?

Women want to be in a relationship but still wanna do wtf they wanna do. 😂

A couch full of bird brains😁😂🤣

“If you have a problem with what I’m wearing you need to check yourself” followed by “as a woman in a relationship I know my place” is WILD.

So a woman who wears certain types of revealing clothes to attract attention from others so she can feel better about herself is calling the man insecure?

If you choose this woman you deserve it

Your ability to Walk Away gives You Power in the Relationship Gentlemen!

Accountability is kriptonite!!!

It's funny how they'll say I'm not listening to a low value man, but he can still bust it down

There are ZERO analogies you can use in the eyes of a modern woman. A car is not like clothes! 😡😡😡These young ladies are lost... Blind leading the blind... Until some other man gets out of line.

If your man isn’t putting boundaries on you then he doesn’t care about you. We only care about where you go, what you wear and who you hang out with when we care about you and want to protect you.

Never obtain money, work on your body and obtain status just to gain the attention of women. That's just flat out shallow. Do it firstly to develop discipline and for your own mental and physical health. Period!

Not a single wedding ring 💍 on sight 🤷🏾

watch how quick that changes when their man starts wearing sweatpants everywhere

My guy be having some top tier airheads on his podcast. Salute for exposing them though.

So respect for your man is economically based. Got it!!!

These women are lost smh. This is some scary stuff...

If your parent's, a company, school or even your job lets you know you can't wear something too revealing do you call them insecure? But if the man who is supposed to protect you, love you, provide for you... if he even say's it in a nice way, he's insecure.. lol

Why can't she just admit she still wants to draw the attention of as many guys as she can.

Shorty got a problem with her man showing his hoochie daddy print but she applauded Keke palmer whole ass out😂😂😂😂😂 U can't make this shit up bruh

When I'm getting too smart, I come to these types of podcasts to kill some braincells.

This generation is doomed. Completely doomed.

Even if we Guys get our money up, go to the gym and put on muscle and tone up, dress good and smell nice..... There is still no way we are coming these type of women. No way.

When you have the urge to seek attention from other guys while you're in a relationship, you're the one who is insecure.

I had a woman like this... once... she got all dressed up wanted to go "out with the girls".. I straight told her.. "if you go out... without me... looking like that.. you better find you some dude to take you home and keep you because you ain't coming back here..." she thought I was talking shit and went anyway.. when she came home, all her shit was in the yard and she was locked out. she called my phone asking what's up.. I told her "I told you don't bother coming back here. if you can't respect me enough to abide my wishes, you don't respect me at all and I don't need you, bye" and that was the last time I spoke with her...

a simple "yes or no" question is a complex answer for them. holy smokes......

"No" Followed by "I feel" + Attitude is the most illogical combo ever.

As the man I dictate what my women wear at all times. I’m the protector.

“He should care but he shouldn’t”

Something I don’t agree with that Cooley said was that men will get more respect from women if they build themselves up more… but it’s still not the man that those type of women respect… it’s the things and status the has that they respect… meaning that if for any reason the man was to lose the lifestyle he worked so hard for the respect from the women is lost too… he should tell men to deal with women that just respect men period…

6:48 - The funniest thing that those banshees didn't understand is that you low-key told men to focus on building up themselves, but respect from banshees like them is worthless.

Shoutout fresh and fit

Glasses is the type to wonder why she cant find a man for the rest of her life 😂😂😂

How do you contradict yourself by saying “You knew how I dressed before you got with me and know I will do what I want to do.”, and in the same breath you say “If he’s my man and is taking care of me, I will submit to him and won’t wear what he says I should not wear.”?

My wife, raised by a wife, who was raised by a wife etc, has never had to be checked on her outfit. having respect for your man, has nothing to do with his money or status. His money doesn't determine what he cares about. If you call him your man and he calls you his lady, He should care what you look like, your health and safety when out of his presence as you are a reflection of each other. Why would you submit(sleep with) or be in a monogamous relationship with someone you don't respect. Respect the boundaries in the relationship otherwise don't engage. in your parents home, work and in a relationship there's a dress code even at home.

there use to be Asylums for people who suffered with delusions this bad.

This whole conversation is wack af 😂😂😂

It's called modesty, respect, and it's loyalty. Sadly this mindset is not just in relationships. It's in jobs that people who think their bennth this but still can't do better.

Ngl, my woman beautiful and listens to me all the time. But Im also very respectful of how she feels as well. I think these women think they he’s trying to say that they should let the man dictate what they wear. IF these women have any respect for their man back home, this conversation would of been so complicated because they would of understood from the jump

sooo. LVM don't deserve to have boundaries for their women WHY ARE U PICKING LVM?!?!??

The fact that they don't comprehend the logic and analogy is really funny.😅

So im not a man unless I have millions

It's transactional if you have money you will get decency , respect and cooperation. But if you're not paying for the relationship then the disrespect should be okay. ❌👎🏽 In order to get access to my money you would definitely have to show me those traits before. 💯

Little fact, if you present yourself in a wifely manner both in appearance, character and how you conduct yourself, men are less likely to approach you because they can tell when you're taken and have a high level of respect for yourself, enough respect that they know it would be a waste of time approaching you. If men feel comfortable approaching you in droves, it means that you present yourself as a single woman that men can try and have a shot/chance with.

Complete projection to call men insecure for wanting a woman to dress modestly. Women dress a certain way because they are in competition with other women to receive male attention. If she is wanting attention from anyone other than her man, she doesn’t respect you and needs to be shown the door.

All their answers being “yes and no” shows you how far they’re willing to go to deny and fight against what men want. lol

See how the opinions keep switching, that why you must lead fellas!

Fresh and Fit's influence is strong i swear

Thats bs, a man shoudn't have to have $, or greek gods body for them to respect themselves or him. They don't dress like that at work.

Great analogy with the car in the hood vs clothes.

Once they say “yes & no”, they don’t know what to choose. They indecisive, don’t waste your time.

The fact that your with a dude u don’t respect enough to question your outfit just shows you shouldn’t be dealing with that type of fella in the first place, here in lies the problem.

Simply put the act of asking a woman to dress moderately isnt insecure it just depends on how much money you have. Same thing goes for men being labeled as "creepy". What the man does isnt actually creepy it just depends on how attractive he is.

If a man has to think twice about what shes wearing and what shes doing ..... you will not be with him ..... and theres no argument .... or discussion.... we dont negotiate with terrorists

These conversations are draining 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ The answer is YES ORRRRR NO. NOT YES AND NO. It’s a complete contradiction out the gate. These girl want to do what they want to do regardless of how or what their man thinks about it and still wants that same man to do all of the things she expects from him. It’s always he’s insecure when he doesn’t like something she is doing. And the chic that said oh you should know what type of women she was and she ain’t about to tone it down for you still expects a man to turn it UP for her in every way possible. More money, better lifestyle, expensive gifts, trips, dinners etc and over time she will expect to see that evolve into an expensive 💍 but yea she won’t turn it down for you. 🤣🤣🤣 Fellas pay attention.

When you hear them speak their voice and words tells you 60 percent of what you need to know, in my opinion. These females just proved that to me.

It is in these conversations more than any other that I see that overwhelmingly, young women don't know what an analogy is, or how to use or apply one.

You should interview women with fathers.

I feel like... MERCH

My mom always said that only those who have something to sell advertise

I care that my man cares about what I wear because I understand that when I step out that I am a representation of HIM. But don't mind me.... I've only been happily married for 16 years 😏.

Stay away from low hanging fruit, leave women like this alone

What these women failed to understand about a man wanting his woman to dress modestly, is that it's an indirect way of protecting them from predatory men that would approach them with the intention of using them.

His car analogy was stupid

Who comes up with these captions bro I'm tryna go to a vid that I know I want to watch

whenyou build yourself up these wo,an call you insecure for your standards lmaooo

These women are pure courage.

Y’all are really asking 20 year old immature women about relationships?

*Dave Chappelle voice* "gotcha bitch!" 😂😂😂

Their logic makes no sense. If a man is high value and cares about what you where, then it’s fine, but if a low value man cares about the exact same thing it’s insecurity. No. You just feel differently about the man.

My incentive for accomplishment and improvement is not driven by pride in my reflection. Its driven by what becomes more obtainable when you put in such an effort. The whole " do it for you" mentality creates narcissists.

As soon as they opened their mouth, they proved they are NOT wife material.

So they wouldn’t want their man showing his print but have the nerve to say the man is insecure because he don’t want his lady to dress like a street walker?

Yes, high value in terms of money and what if the economic crisis visits tomorrow and he has nothing, should she leave? Having a woman that will stay only when things are smooth, is dangerous

don't worry they're going to be single mother but nothing.

Any real man would look at his relationship to anything as an investment. With our woman even more so because now the man and woman become an extension of each other. If this can't be understood or request met, then you're destined to fail. Definitely not an insecurity wanting your woman not to look like a slut or available.

They'd be soo quick to call you when intoxicated men start messing them...trouble making women lol

Notice how she responded to the car analogy you see how she was trying to be right You see that

You should have called them out on their shaming tactics

That woman who first started speaking saying she should wear what she wants deserves NO relationship from a dude, no matter low or high value of a man. Young, arrogant and self centered. Bun B just went to trial because he had to shoot at a home invader for breaking into his home and sticking up his wife. I'll BE DAMN if any chick I'm with says she won't change her outfit that i don't like. All these women cussing just brings the quality of the show completely DOWN.

The "Yes and No" is so stupid. If yall are dealing with these typrs of women, you get the prize. You'll know what that is when you open her up. Lol

The thing I like most about these convos…it shows who’s a virtuous woman, and who’s under Jezebels influence. I rebuke you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. 👍🏿👍🏿

😒 I’m really trying my best to keep a sane mind that not all women are like this and the ones who are is a small % 😞🙏🏿🙏🏿

Homie never speak on what another man business.

Fellas he told you a half truth dont build up your money and body for a 304 do all that for a real lady not girls like these 304s on the panel

So why are they getting with men they see as low value just to disrespect them? And they brought up something he should have said instead of the car. They didn’t buy the car. They brought up that they wouldn’t want their man dressed in a revealing way that women would keep hitting on him. They went through all of that “he’s insecure” only to say they’d get upset at the reverse scenario.

question 🙋🏾‍♂️ when a female cheats and calls it “Hypersexuality” due to trauma what would be the appropriate response to that?

so she wears everything that she has on for herself yet she doesn't go to sleep with the stuff on. she straight up lying

If i cant tell her how to dress to protect her? cool...i dont have to protect her when she gets attacked...she did it to her self.

Like my brother-in-law said to my sister. Do you want my attention, or do you want theirs?

Cooley acting like these are the women that men should be looking for..

These conversations just shows women and men are not on the same page at all lol, we need more conversations like this. Communication is offfffff

They kno wassup my bm used to tell me stop wearing gray sweat pants. Double standard

You can’t garner respect by building up a bank account and working out! Either she RESPECTS YOU OR SHE DOES NOT! Who YOU ARE AS A MAN WILL DETERMINE THE WOMEN YOU GET! Leave the pigeons like this in the pigeon coop!

The first one was deflecting the question 🤦🏾‍♂️😒

It's like modern woman have no sense at all

See 👀 how a woman will fight the truth then promote the lie

No such thing as being insecure in today’s society. If you have respect for your significant other then you know what’s acceptable and what’s not acceptable in a relationship. You should NOT be advertising yourself for other men while you’re in a relationship. Yes, the clothes you wear matters.

Shoutout to the dudes who run these podcasts….future generations need to study their level of patience….Cuz wtf bro!?