She Was Really Into Me For 3 Weeks. Then Went Cold. Why?
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Күн бұрынSome reasons why a girl will seem really into you for several weeks and then go totally cold and distant.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who read 3% Man, 15 times. Recently he was seeing a girl he really liked and things were going really good and hot and passionate for 3 weeks. Then she went on a trip with a bunch of other people and she went from doing 95% of the calling, texting and pursuing, to becoming cold, distant and aloof. He told her to call him when she got back and she didn’t. Then he messaged her a few days later and she was cold and distant instead of being enthusiastic and responding right away. He got perturbed by this and never asked her out and responded with a robotic text a few days later. He was so upset he didn’t try to set the date but it’s clear from her behavior something is up. Probably the ex or another guy she maybe got together with on the trip.
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@Champ1988 6 ай бұрын
A woman's feelings can shift at any moment, especially in today's accessible age. The only aspect you can control is how you present yourself. If her behavior seems random, it often isn't; it unequivocally suggests that she may not be the right match. View it as incompatibility rather than inadequacy, but strive for continuous improvement. Maintaining detachment is crucial, as women typically remain uncommitted until they are certain they see you as a viable option. The first three months pose an extreme danger zone for potential ghosting, especially if she recently ended a relationship. Personally, I avoid pursuing women fresh out of relationships to steer clear of becoming a rebound - these situations tend to start passionately and end unfavorably.
@erudite1987 6 ай бұрын
If women are emotional and fickle then why commit to them?
@Champ1988 6 ай бұрын
@@erudite1987 take your time and make sure it's a conscious choice. Look up "agape love."
@Mr_Banker222 3 ай бұрын
Someone caught her interest
@sebastianrodriguez8692 6 ай бұрын
This is why, even if I like a girl a lot, I will still date other women. It instinctively mades me more relaxed and act from a non-scarcity perspective. Then, once I know she really is looking for a relationship and asks me straight up for one.
@lidiagizaw3828 6 ай бұрын
u shouldnt mind that she does the same thing too then
@martinmayfield1932 6 ай бұрын
That’s the best way with everything in life. Keep an abundance mindset
@sebastianrodriguez8692 6 ай бұрын
@@lidiagizaw3828 Who cares?
@bodyemcal 6 ай бұрын
They do it anyway. They are good at hiding it@@lidiagizaw3828
@mahdman3 6 ай бұрын
@@sebastianrodriguez8692 she's basically doing the "us girls can do it too!" manuever
@btraina85 6 ай бұрын
She obviously ran back to an ex
@lidiagizaw3828 6 ай бұрын
or she knew more about u and didnt like u anymore
@timnelcin8717 6 ай бұрын
Found a guy with a bigger one
@Bassoarno 6 ай бұрын
100% an ex or a new guy that is more interesting than you.
@Bassoarno 6 ай бұрын
@@lidiagizaw3828 In depends of the context, but usually if she goes from " eager to see you" to " cold ", it's not because she stops liking you out of the blue.
@lidiagizaw3828 6 ай бұрын
@@Bassoarno i can tell u from experience the moment im bored or i aint feeling the dude anymore it's over. it's the getting to know u stage that's how it works u dont like him anymore u bounce
@dewabulan6570 6 ай бұрын
Never care too much to a girl...stay focus on career,etc...Girls will follow
@elkhaddariachraf6772 6 ай бұрын
Had the same thing with a girl. We were talking for a month, we met 2 times, everything was great... Then one day, I've never heard from her. I couldn't care less, I didn't reach out either
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
What do you mean you never heard from her? As in after your last date, she never reached out? Or you messaged her to set a date, but she never replied?
@elkhaddariachraf6772 6 ай бұрын
@@craig8304 she never replied. Usually she used to ask about my day every day and stuff like that. Then, boom 😂
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
@elkhaddariachraf6772 - She never replied? So you messaged her to set a date, and she never replied? Anything other than that, then you fumbled the football, which is probably why she lost interest. From your original comment, it sounds like you talked too much on the phone and talked her out of liking you.
@elkhaddariachraf6772 6 ай бұрын
@@craig8304 bro, I don't care to know what I did wrong... I did what I had to. Remember, genuine relationships are effortless 👌
@gevans5446 6 ай бұрын
Good on you.
@ralfj.1740 6 ай бұрын
Just happened to me. Several dates with a woman, indoor olympics included, she cooked for me, seemed promising.. suddenly she goes cold and pulls away. I'll read your book again right away ;) Hope you had a wonderful Christmas Corey 🎄🎅 Greetings from Bavaria
@CherryCokeNixon 6 ай бұрын
Cannot count how many times this scenario has happened to me. Life ain’t fair, and neither is this game. But you gotta keep forging ahead anyway.
@kevinschneider1707 3 ай бұрын
yea same here, drives me insane.
@KUFanFromNJ 6 ай бұрын
I was recently in a situation like this. Found out the girl had just come out of a 5 year relationship a few months ago. It stings because she admitted how great of a time she was having with me. You can play your cards perfectly and her interest can be incredibly high, but if there's an ex in the background, you can get dropped like a rock even after many weeks/months. In most cases the feelings for the ex are going to lead her in the other direction. Just leave the door open for her to come back and do thorough social media research as best as you can beforehand, even if it takes some serious digging
@darkforcekiller 6 ай бұрын
Exact same story here. Girl came out of a 4 year relationship and hit me up via text a 3-4 months after her breakup (we knew each a few years prior). Then we had a 3-4 month situationship mostly consisting of having sex and enjoying life. The sexual chemistry was insane but i knew that it would only be a matter of time until she will lose interest. We texted less and less and on our last date she eventually wanted to call it quits and i just let her go, no afterwards-texts or anything. Haven't heard from her since. Its important to know that, just like you said, sometimes you can play your cards really well but destiny will drift you apart. Doesnt necessarily mean that her ex came back into her life, maybe she is just dating other men whom she feels more attracted to, who knows. Its a painful but necessary lecture in a mans life. It teaches you to always enjoy your time with the woman and being able to let her go at any moment. Also important to always let your door open to her. Dont block her number or something. If she really had a good and drama-free time with you chances are high that she will catch up to you some later time.
@Dingledong-kb5ne 6 ай бұрын
Bro same thing happened to me. Met a girl talked for 3 weeks had An amazing date told me she had told her family about me and everything. She had just gotten out of 6 year relationship and a couple days before our next scheduled date became very cold and distant. She says she is interested still but needs to heal and if I’m single she will reach out. I guess we will see what happens
@savking6188 6 ай бұрын
@@Dingledong-kb5ne She's not healing, she has gone back to her ex
@Dingledong-kb5ne 6 ай бұрын
@@savking6188I thought the same but her ex has a girlfriend
@elkhaddariachraf6772 6 ай бұрын
@@Dingledong-kb5ne I guess she was with you as a rebound. I am confident she got back with her ex. Just move on
@ruddthebest 6 ай бұрын
Don’t focus only on one girl until one of the one you are seeing actually wants to commit with you for something serious.. until then you have to play the game and enjoy your own life. You are the prize and you should be focusing on yourself and your own purpose. Women come and go; they are weak by nature, they all want to settle down and have a family at some point… don’t force the process let them be the one to ask for a relationship, ask to move in together ask for having a family etc…. Throughout my years I always made the mistake ( especially in Early-mid 20s) that every woman I was going out with was the “one “… so I was projecting a future together etc and everytime those girls felt like i was trying too hard so they eventually move on.. and i was always down because i thought i lost my one.. but in reality the next girl that came along was better and better etc.. now that i just turned 30 i am strictly focused on my career/purpose, dating multiple girls, and i am confident the right one is gonna come for me to settle.
@marcd2743 6 ай бұрын
Be careful though, if you want to find a "true" woman you must first be able to be true yourself. This shit cuts both ways mate.
@starseed855 6 ай бұрын
A women need space and time to wonder about you. That is the moment that the attraction begins to grow
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
True. In this case, I think it was because he told her to contact him when she got back, but he didn't wait.
@starseed855 6 ай бұрын
@@craig8304 Yes exactly 👍🏼 i have a little bit the same situation now but i will wait until she contact me first
@projectjwoo 6 ай бұрын
The guy was talkn to this girl for 3 weeks. So many guys think they are etitled to anything with the people they talk to, They can stop talking to you instantly and you just gotta eat it and look for another.. Infact you shoulda been talking to other girls so its no biggy.. Its a light stage of getting to know some one.. lvl up homie! The Coach got your back
@hrpickinstuff 6 ай бұрын
Don't expect much when you're the backbord on a rebound. She probably learned she had options. Or she went back to her ex that dude with a massive Hog.
@Nightshadexxxxxxxx 6 ай бұрын
Met a girl 2 weeks ago. She has done probably more than 95% of the initiations so far. I have seen her about every third day in the last 2 weeks… it’s actually overwhelming but I’m loving it. Today was tough… I left her place at 11 and for the first time I felt the need to text her and say some lame ass shit… I held back and as I started watching this video, she hit me with a “hey handsome how’s your day going” …it took her a bit longer than usual.I know for a fact that I cannot allow myself to start reaching out. She has mentioned that I don’t reach out but I play it off and made her understand I will surprise her when the time is right. I’m aware that she will draw back at some point and it’s to be expected, I’ll be ready. I also understand that it’s only been 2 weeks and that I cannot start day dreaming about a relationship. She has already mentioned that her sister was asking her if she’s going to “date” me, and I just played it cool and winked at her about it. Shits exciting… stick to the book boys, stay centred and let her come to you at her pace.
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
Careful. Although you are doing a good job of not over pursuing, it seems like you are struggling internally, and it's only been 2 weeks! Because of this, you may end up doing or saying subtle things while you are with her in person that could put "relationship pressure" onto her without you even realising, so just be aware of that.
@Nightshadexxxxxxxx 6 ай бұрын
@@craig8304 100%. But I have stated twice already that I prefer to take things slow and that relationships take time to build for me… that I prefer to not jump into things… she then expressed that she understands. So yeah I have played it cool regarding relationship vibes. She has also mentioned yesterday that she hopes I understand that she is looking for a relationship and reminded me that she made it clear to me from the start… so if anything it’s her leaning towards it where as I’m completely trying to avoid the topic as it’s so early.
@Nightshadexxxxxxxx 6 ай бұрын
@@michaelmich00 it’s currently a holiday Period in my country. So I’m done with work and she knows that. I have also declined 2 dates due to being busy. I also always tell her the certain times I can see her due to having my gym routine, and other commitments. I have had to cancel 2 dates already. It wasn’t exactly every second day but the total time spent in the two weeks are pretty much 7 out of the last 15 which is ALLOT. I am going away this week and she knows this and today was the last day I could see her in the next 10 days… so there will be massive break now. I get your point though but coach also encourages us that if the girl is pushing to see you more than once a week, that we can do so IF it is her idea. I only planned the first date, and then one other date… the rest was her asking me to come over and I only did so when I had free time after making it clear I had to do other things first.
@ElUnicoPapiNegrito 6 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with texting a little in between dates. Just don't over do it
@Nightshadexxxxxxxx 6 ай бұрын
@@SirenaSpades I have not initiated one text yet. Only time I ever first texted was when I said “on the way” every time we text I have only been responding to her text in a timely manner. Are you suggesting that I ignore her when she texts me things like “hey handsome, how’s your day going”? What do you mean no texting? Also, she’s been asking me on dates and to come over, I have only initiated 2 dates in the 2 weeks, are you suggesting that I shut her down when she asks me to come over and it’s been more than once a week? I feel like that’s not in the book lady. Book says that if it is HER idea, then we can see her more than once a week, the once a week rule only applies to us men when we’re initiating the dates or it’s always the fallback when the girl isn’t responding as well as we hoped, coach also said that in time she will want to see you more and more and that she will text more and more and I just feel like things are going as the book and coach says to expect it to go
@paulogorris18 6 ай бұрын
the robot keeps getting better and better
@provost5752 6 ай бұрын
She'll be back if he'll just leave it alone cause the other guy will fk it up almost like clockwork
@liverfailure1597 6 ай бұрын
Or, she won't. That's always a possibility you'll never hear from the girl again, and it's a false expectation for a dude to believe otherwise
@brandonsaunders7515 6 ай бұрын
Homie didn't let the cake bake..and now it's raw
@MortalisPT 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for all the knowledge Coach, my life is a 1000x better than it was 2 years ago 💪
@brianhegarty3247 6 ай бұрын
Corey.. the best robot ever was the “I dealt her the numero uno “… newsletter, had me in tears.. fantastic
@Dsmiffb 6 ай бұрын
It’s funny when you read the comments a lot of us have gone through similar struggles it’s like we can complete each others sentences and or already have an idea what is going to happen in the video. lol. Only new women in 2024 🙏
@Chad_Max 6 ай бұрын
Never underestimate how much a woman will use your time, attention, wealth, and resources if you let her. You should protect all 4 to the highest degree....
@user-um1zh9np2k 6 ай бұрын
You're doing the lords work coach
@ianerickson2210 6 ай бұрын
This is important. Not that long ago I scheduled a date with someone and they cancelled semi-last minute. I shot back that “I’m not interested anymore, because I deserve someone who respects my time”, but realistically I wasn’t being truthful. I had bits of neediness and was not grounded in myself, and thought my message would be a tactic, to have them cling back to me. After obviously we stopped talking and a few months go by, I reach out again. Once again, completely not in my own integrity. It’s important to gauge where you are in the other person’s interest. And if you are not high in their priorities, to give them the room and space to allow those feelings to grow.
@bodyemcal 6 ай бұрын
She probably liked the other guy she was seeing more and had to ghost the email guy.
@johnwatson9518 6 ай бұрын
Have the attitude, I can walk away from her and it won't affect me one way or another. Her loss. Next.
@gonzapacini5668 6 ай бұрын
The robot always cracks me up bc it reminds me that I should be natural with Corey's teachings
@FujiboHeavy 6 ай бұрын
The robot is GOLD! lol. Appreciate your work coach!
@MansaMusa-ms3ne 4 ай бұрын
People at the gym always give me pleasant look when I'm listening to Cory in the gym, because I'm always laughing my ass off and I can tell even some of the hottest girls are looking at me like what is he laughing at lol
@mustangs7 6 ай бұрын
Hope you had a Merry Christmas Corey. Keep up the great work.
@pablogiorgio7479 6 ай бұрын
Looking forward for the Robot compilation! 😂
@HRHooChicken 6 ай бұрын
Just from the title my guess is that she found someone else, or got serious with someone she was dating alongside him. Happens to us all lol. Lets see if I'm right
@marcosperales7349 6 ай бұрын
Reading is better than listening to the book. It forces you to engage.
@charlesr8115 6 ай бұрын
I love it when coach brings out robo-corey
@kispumel 6 ай бұрын
Whenever its happened to me, someone else was in the picture. They all came back though a few years later.
@kispumel 6 ай бұрын
@@RarelyCheck I did not. Except in one case I turned that into fwb, but thats it. By that time I have already moved on with my life, and had far better options, always. But that was not my point. Point is, they all wanted to come back.
@kvs7876 6 ай бұрын
Coach I almost pissed my pants you doing the robot !
@stephenrose9157 6 ай бұрын
Love the robot!
@charleswhite758 6 ай бұрын
Hey Cory, haven't checked in with you for a few months, enjoying the new robot character🤣
@thebreathing_pen1853 5 ай бұрын
With time u realise that today’s relationships are matters of the brain rather than heart….the moment you show honest and act organic, you are doomed…relationships are meant for our peace and happiness not just another chess game where we have to calculate moves of each other
@stanbe1974 6 ай бұрын
Always love the robot!!!😂
@stevensaleh6955 6 ай бұрын
14:53 we need a compilation of these moments too. 😂
@canuck81 6 ай бұрын
Coach Corey, ruthless 😅
@MikeMike-x6i 23 күн бұрын
The robot impression is classic
@garden6300 6 ай бұрын
When they love bomb you like this gal did, its not easy sticking with the book, especially if its his first time going through something like that.
@alhigh9856 6 ай бұрын
Exact same thing happened to me. Met a girl was textbook then she went away got back and immediately cold so I moved on.
@liverfailure1597 6 ай бұрын
That's always a possibility. You're only as good as how a girl *feels* about you at any given moment.
@ianbrown1016 6 ай бұрын
You should do a full episode of girl voice and robot.. spoil us! 🤣 don't let us down Corey ha ha
@MarkaNgamer 6 ай бұрын
First time? meme is really appropriate here. Join the club mate.
@chrisfreund1524 6 ай бұрын
Your robot imitation is funny I like it lol 😂 but it probably doesn’t feel so good to the guy being roasted so what do I know??
@gemjoneschannel 6 ай бұрын
Aye the robot part had me crying 😭😭😭
@simonthepukkapieman1387 6 ай бұрын
I think these vacations/holidays women go on are a great opportunity for women to test the strength of a man who they have been showing high interest to in the early stages. She wants to go away and feel free and any sign from the guy that he's missing her or is wondering too much about her is going to make her pull back heavily. I would wish her a great time on the trip the last time I see her and if she messages me while she's away say "I hope you have a great time, get in touch when you get back so we can arrange to meet up and you can tell me all about it" That way she's higly likely to be wondering what your up to and message you as soon as she gets back.
@VoiceOfThe 6 ай бұрын
You’d think that contacting her and being decisive in this action would be the right thing to do, as men are all about taking the initiative, taking action, solving problems, breaking through barriers. It’s what comes natural to us.
@puppy969 6 ай бұрын
He asked her to get in touch when she got back. Then he contacted her after she had returned & not reached out to him. That displays disinterest on her part & desperation on his part. Why would you reach out to someone who is disinterested?
@mwloos1 6 ай бұрын
The one thing you can count on is any new guy or ex usually hasn’t studied any relationship advice. Which means the chance of them getting dopey and screwing up even worse than you is pretty high. It would seem everyone knows about Corey but it’s still a small group comparatively speaking (still a big addressable market for you, CW!)
@Greenpeace465 6 ай бұрын
I laughed my fuckin ass off when you went into the robot ....
@ricciwilliamsjr3212 6 ай бұрын
This happened to me, but she was more into me than I was into her. We went on a trip and afterwards, she started being distant and was like yup, she gone. She had told me allll about her previous relationships and just got out of one. There was no commitment and that was fine, we texted for a little bit, and now I’m just letting her decide what she wants. And if she never comes back, next. Simple as that. Stay strong Kings.
@RJENNS12 3 ай бұрын
legendary robot
@GoldenbanjoDJ 6 ай бұрын
been watching this guy for like 10 years and he just doesnt fucking age
@themisfitsman77 6 ай бұрын
Coach what to we do if we listen to it everyday but just in our hearts not ready to apply it. I love the playful banter and flirting but as far as dating I’m just not ready. My last relationship really did me over and I don’t feel ready. Is banter and flirting considered applying it or does the triple H necessary.
@scamlikely1442 6 ай бұрын
HOLDUP....ROBOT COMPILATION????? My life will be complete 😂😂😂
@delpow 6 ай бұрын
there was this girl i was seeing for almost a year. she went on this one group trip at the end of the year and then she went distant she did most of the pursuing so I waited a couple of weeks.. nothing. I sent her a message, she didn't reply then a couple months later she got into a relationship with this guy that was on the group trip the way she went about it though was fucking ruthless so with women bro, you can always expect some shit happening out of the blue
@toshiromifune5118 6 ай бұрын
More robot please 🤣🤣
@grazman44 6 ай бұрын
The ex was probably on this trip. Add fun with booze. Eitherway let her be. If she comes back cool. I'd question if she's a type that's loyal. But this was only 3 weeks so keep ur options open
@notafriendofyours4475 6 ай бұрын
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHUAHAHAHAHAHAHAUUAUAUAUUAHAHAHHAHA.... BEST COREY ROBOT EVER.. I WATCHED IT AT 0.5 SPEED AND ALMOST DIED
@nmitrading 2 ай бұрын
We need a complication of you cracking up 😂
@bobross1829 6 ай бұрын
Usually when this happens, she thought you were very high value and met all her criteria, but then you did something to blow it. Usually coming on too strong, asking for a relationship (she needs to do that), talking about the future, or doing something unchallenging like texting her everyday or looking needy. Then she realizes you were not cool like she originally thought, but are the typical "nice guy". It can even be external like she thought you had money (and learned you don't). but that is rarer as not all women are like that. If not that, then it is usually her, and she was love bombing and then got over it quick or met someone even better, than she love bombs that guy too.
@mrsmokingskittles148 6 ай бұрын
This 100000%
@liverfailure1597 6 ай бұрын
She asked for a relationship, and he was non-committal. Probably because she asked at about the three-week mark, and he thought that was too early because he misread the book or cherry-picked.
@TheHappynot 6 ай бұрын
Getting ditched by a girl sucks, but as time goes on, you don't even care about the girl.
@tonykoz 6 ай бұрын
“what’s happening is a woman’s emotions are kind of like the weather, they just kind of change. Women are much more intuitive and empathetic and much more in tune with their emotions and intuition than us guys are. And so, that’s why one minute they’re really excited to be around you, and the next minute they act like they’re totally bored, just like a cat does.”
@gabrielmontilva7853 6 ай бұрын
Corey : "all good". Maybe "alles klar" would"ve been better
@Megatron986100 6 ай бұрын
Honestly, there’s nothing wrong with reaching out! Especially after you have given it a few days after she’s returned. If you are into someone, just be direct and go for it. No games!! What’s the alternative, wait for her to reach out 4 weeks later?! The lukewarm response after you reached out is already a sign. You got some more information to move on. Bottom line, find someone who also is interested in you and treats you like a priority. There is no “blueprint”. There are general guidelines, but the truth is, what women respond to varies woman to woman. There are some women who would have been flattered you reached out and indicated interest. “She will reach out when the other guy screws up”. sure, make a date with someone who literally didn’t want you and wanted to see how things went with someone else first!! Keep your head up, and keep moving forward….the goal isn’t to get someone, it’s to build a high quality relationship.
@RogueHero 6 ай бұрын
Facts
@jasoncanon7311 6 ай бұрын
She was most likely rebounding with him and needed a hole temporarily filled.
@user-lo1uy9wr7m 6 ай бұрын
Hi guys, this girl I have been dating for 3 months. Everything was great and I had never lost masculine frame and was centred all the time. After I found out she lied about something, I became so damn reactive and act like a girl and get angry and now all we do is argue. Also out of fear I became so damn available and for hours we would call, bcoz of long distance. We meet every second week. She loves me so much but now I noticed she is kinda detached and doesn’t care that much. I don’t know what to do now, I have a strong gut feeling that she doesn’t respect me anymore as I lost frame and acting needy. Rather than just letting her deal with her emotions when she is angry I always tell her to stay on the call even when she tells me she needs to deal with it. These days I became so damn needy that she is the one who says I need to sleep, I don’t know what to do
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
Just back off and let her come to you.
@user-lo1uy9wr7m 6 ай бұрын
@@RarelyCheck She lied that she never sleeps with anyone on the first date yet she did with her last guy she was dating and said she never goes to anyone’s place but she did. Now she accepted that saying “yes I went there but we only made out”. This thing made me so insecure and I ended up asking questions about her past. Her past haunts me. She loves me but now I can’t trust her much
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
Lol. Before i watched the full video, when he said, "i told her to contact me when she gets back.... i messaged her a few days later." I instantly knew he screwed up. Just doing that alone could've lowered her interest a lot. Maybe she held out on purpose to see if he would be congruent with his words. He read the book 15 times? I'm not sure about that. If he did, then he obviously hasn't dated enough women and applied it much because his internal strength isn't too good. The times when a woman backs off or goes cold during the dating phase are the times that it is most important to do the right thing.
@DEEJAY_R 6 ай бұрын
You have to put the book into practice and you should be talking to multiple women
@epycedits 6 ай бұрын
Some broad tried to pull that on me and immediately reached back once she saw me going out on more dates with equally or more attractive women 😂😂💀. Went back, smashed again and now I'm just taking it easy spinning these plates. I'm too busy working on myself to settle down any time soon 💪🏻
@2rogarcia1989 6 ай бұрын
Mines lasted about 6 weeks,she was coming hot after a first date...then she backed off around the 5th week after an ex called her,a day after we had sex(she was begging for it) then backed off and i gave her space,we saw each other in the gym a couple days later which she always pursued me there and then set up a date while we talked in her car...had the date a couple days later and had sex then a day later she offered me the friendzone because she was starting to see a psychologist and she adviced her to heal first so i rejected it and walked away....that was in November, a day after that happened she pursued me the gym and i kept it short,then a week later she texted me asking why i didnt say hi in the gym and thought i was mad at her i replied (not at all just didnt see you)I also responded to that text the next morning, so after that she disappeared from the gym for about a month and came back last week Tuesday, i could tell she wad looking for me so i saw her from a distance and she smiled really hard and waved so i smiled back and winked at her and she didnt know how to react(it looked like she didnt expect it) and wanted to approach me but kept walking and left and i went back to working out,I forgot to mention days before it was over she was asking if I was seeing other women...
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
You blew her a kiss? Lol
@2rogarcia1989 6 ай бұрын
@craig8304 yeah bro,I usually do that with women in the gym in a playful way,they always blush when I do it and blow me one back like a wink.
@puppy969 6 ай бұрын
Lol. You should have asked her if she was seeing her ex.
@craig8304 6 ай бұрын
@2rogarcia1989 - You seem like you know the book, so if you weren't making mistakes, then she sounds like a fruit loop from what you wrote. Or it could be that the ex is still in the picture, so she is hot and cold.
@louio Ай бұрын
Definitely didn't read the book 10-15 times. 😂
@BobbyBrown-rm8xz 6 ай бұрын
More than anything I think this guys core problem was that he didn't set a date. Don't say "get back to me" when she's reached out to you and you don't already have plans. As Corey says if she's reaching out you should assume it means she wants to see you so make a definite date where the two of you hang and she can tell you about the trip.
@highresopenings4610 6 ай бұрын
He probably hurt her little feelings when he told her to call him when shes back , seems like. She wanted to stay in contact throughout the vacation
@JimmieABES 6 ай бұрын
Definitely another guy in the picture
@lidiagizaw3828 6 ай бұрын
yall act like women cant leave coz they stopped liking u lol.
@JimmieABES 6 ай бұрын
@@lidiagizaw3828 I never implied that, just my guess
@graememccormack-reamer3635 6 ай бұрын
You did imply that lol. Reread your comment.@@JimmieABES
@JimmieABES 6 ай бұрын
@@graememccormack-reamer3635 Maybe you should reread mine. Nowhere did I say or imply it.
@charlesthomas3367 6 ай бұрын
Or another woman.
@whawha8043 6 ай бұрын
I still get confused about the “you don’t seem interested in me” text, despite making dates once a week(or reaching out in general) sometimes I can only make a date every other week(cause life), and then that person cancels, or does flaky behavior. But yet it’s my fault, she is the one getting mixed signals. Pretty sure it’s a test, to see if you’ll comply. Any thoughts or anyone experienced this?
@savking6188 6 ай бұрын
Yup, it's a manipulation tactic. She is fully aware of what she did... she just wants to toil with your head and see if you are wrapped around her finger.
@richardmcgowan460 6 ай бұрын
It's a test just keep doing what the book says women fall in love slowly overtime 👍
@WLJ1287 6 ай бұрын
This guy didn’t read the book 15 times, that or he’s not a serious student. The lack of focus and not intimidating an opportunity to get together tells me all I need to know.
@hufficag 6 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me actually, warm and loving for 4 weeks, then goes on a trip and it's been downhill since then. I didn't realize anything changed, so I ended up getting blocked. On that note, why hang out and hook up? Why is casual sex outside a relationship so acceptable? What about those innocent girls in Indonesia, China, Vietnam etc who get attached and clingy because they don't do casual dating. They pretty much fall in love and get married. Isn't casual sex in Western culture debauchery? It's seeping into China and India now in the big cities. You never know if the girl you meet in Asia follows Western dating rules or the small town Asian rules of staying away from boys and then getting married. And then in Asia you have prostitution and stuff, and Western people call that debauchery. I mean that's kind of hypocritical.
@oggsyunwin9000 6 ай бұрын
So wait, a couple of days ago in your video you said that if you tell her to get in touch you contact her after a week if not having heard from her
@aaronburgess4442 5 ай бұрын
She might not have been that into him. He was projecting
@handsomebarber424 6 ай бұрын
They never date just one dude
@fabolous86 6 ай бұрын
I disagree about him messaging her a few days after she got back being needy. Something could of happen to her, if everything was a he said, then he should be concerned that she hasn't messaged him after she got back.
@rodeovin 6 ай бұрын
She found someone who has a boat and a lot more money.
@dizzzzzzler 6 ай бұрын
Girl I was seeing for about a month became inspired by my faith, she started going to church and then was baptized. Doesn’t feel comfortable having sex with me anymore. Her spiritual journey is more important than my sexual gratification and I’m proud of her.
@o_vroboros 6 ай бұрын
8:53
@jameswillard-brown6697 6 ай бұрын
Because I saw her unscrupulousness and it turned me off. That’s why.
@Synthminator 6 ай бұрын
Bc she's an avoidant
@georgepay 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@trrealestatenycrealestate200 6 ай бұрын
3 weeks , hahhaha come on man
@raulyaeger 6 ай бұрын
There another guy. Next question
@aarono3548 6 ай бұрын
She sounds like hard work. Find a new girl to date.
@Dan0rioN 6 ай бұрын
Sounds like he let their connection get distant by not talking to her..
@mattnelson9987 6 ай бұрын
She's likely an avoidant. Read up.
@liverfailure1597 6 ай бұрын
The emailer also mentioned that the girl alluded to exclusivity with him at around the three-week mark, to which he replied "let's just see where this goes." This was another robotic, *beep boop beep boop* moment for the emailer, who'd always heard 6-7 weeks. My guess is this girl went on a trip, talked about this with another girlfriend, who told her this guy just wanted pussy, not a LTR, at which point the girl got turned off of the emailer. He took the book too literally when it comes to the mention of 6-7 weeks. That's just a rule of thumb, some women warm up sooner, and he should have been more receptive to exclusivity. IMO, *that* is where he blew it
@yeahdude7184 6 ай бұрын
I am currently the ex bf out of a 5 year relationship. We are still in the same household together and have a son. I will be moving out in another 2 months or so. She has been extremely cold towards me for the most part and has slept with several men already and has had 2 boyfriends that she goes and stays the night with. We have only be separated for 3 months. It's wild seeing how excited she is to go see these other men, basically right in front of my face. In my situation, I think the chance of us getting back together or just sleeping together is honestly 0% I think she REALLY hates me lol. It hurt at first and now it just stings a bit, but overall I'm content. I still get to see my son everyday as of now and I don't have to tend to such a bored, cold woman. I will say that I don't think I will ever put effort into another woman. I want to focus on raising son, my hobby and making true friendships.
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