How can they be couple before marriage?

God bless your heart Chioma. Truly, even as Christians, we still have the urge for sex. It's innate and God put it there. But what we do with it is what differentiates us from others. As a guy, I too struggle with the urge especially at night BUT I have vowed to wait to have it with my wife. I will not backslide into the former lifestyle of promiscuity I led in the past in Jesus name! May God sustain you as you wait in Jesus name!

AMEN. Thank you@@obasmichael7876 . God sustain you too.

@@obasmichael7876 God bless you Michael

@@chiomakalu4494 Amen!!

You are generalising.

This is God’s word! He is the author of marriage! He knows what he is talking about! No sex before marriage means no sex before marriage. Think about the emotional turmoil women especially have to go through when they go from one relationship to another...this is not God’s plan for us!

Thank you.

Iam not from you all circle, but iam from a Hebrewic black heritage . The traditional marriage is from the days of old. It's base on Torah and the prophets. The people that now calling them selves Christians in afrika were not originally from that religion. The people of Nigeria , Ghana and other west Afrikan lands are mostly of A ancient Hebrew heritage. They were converted by the Europeans bringing their corruption and their religion to Afrika. You have a choice to believe what you want. But you all belong to the house of Yesreal. The problem of what we all as black Afrikan people of faith is experiencing now in this world of sex education problems are because we are following theories and not what the Torah teaches and the prophets. Afrika changed when the white Europeans came with their sicknesses and convence the leaders in the villages that their abrahamic teachings were inferia to his new white christiondom believe . So they introduce their teachings with skill and inforcement. These teschings were also taken to the slave plantations where ever the Hebrew Afrikan slaves were carried. Much of the same views that you now have and are experiencing all came in because of disobeying the Torah life of Eloah Yahuah which was given by Him. It is written in the scriptures that if a young male forces a maiden to have sex and she became defiled or pregnant he must pay the bride price and defilment cost at the parents request. In addition she is his for life he can not put her away.. fornication was not tolerated in the Hebrew culture of old, in Afrika's Hebrew kigdoms my sister's and brothers. We have adapted much of the European culture and teachings,and have cast away what heaven have given to us as a people under the sun. But many of you will not believe these words, but time will tell the truth of all things from above. The teaching of Christendom is from abstract thought where as Hebrewic messianic teachings is from concrete thought, example : Hebrew lingua is a concrete language but Greek is of abstract expressionism. The subject of discussion has much to do with what is accepted as cultural norms now; with scriptural adherence to the teaching of The most high ordinances and status given to his Hebrew children from times pass. Hope these words was not offensive to the closed minded.ones in Yahuah holy name.

The standard of God does not change,as God is not a respecter of person.How I wish I have Morayo's contact I would have love to share my own views.

A great educative and informative topic. More grease to your elbow. Keep it up. Your husband is a great man and you are a woman with good and Godly mind. God bless your home in Jesus name.

And that is same as females too. So no saints among all humans.

U are right 💯💯💯💯💯

Volume ooooo

One was telling me that I should do it so that he can test my capabilities because he doesn't want to cheat after marriage.Hahahahaha. I blocked him straight up.

I'm sure if you hadn't "made those countless mistakes with women in the past", you wouldn't accept being branded a "terrorist". It was in making those "mistakes" that you learned some Wisdom for yourself.

@@YRTEverything No sir. Even in my immoral state at that time, I frowned at men who sought to impregnate women just to confirm their fertility before marriage! I believe It's highly manipulative hence my branding such men as 'terrorists'. Even a sinner should have some 'values'!

@@obasmichael7876 The problem here is the manipulation which I'm totally against under any guise. Both parties need to agree on whatever they choose to do and neither of them should be blackmailed.

@@estherodanga4238 Supported! Block him everywhere! 'Test which capabilities'? As a guy, I cringe at what many guys do to ladies just to manipulate them to bed.

I don't get u. Do u mean. They can never have happy home if thy Av sex before marriage?

@@akinsolajoseph5391 No. I mean having sex before marriage does not necessarily mean the marriage will be unhappy or fail.

i dont mean to be offtopic but does anybody know of a method to get back into an instagram account? I somehow forgot the account password. I would appreciate any tips you can give me.

@Theo Sergio instablaster ;)

@Zion Alberto Thanks for your reply. I got to the site through google and I'm in the hacking process now. Looks like it's gonna take a while so I will get back to you later with my results.

@Zion Alberto it did the trick and I now got access to my account again. I am so happy! Thank you so much, you really help me out !

@Theo Sergio you are welcome =)

My thought as well

Deliberate act

@@toksakinyemi7350 noops it was an error which she apologized for upon her realization

I have heard a lady said she was a virgin and would marry a virgin. And if she later meet a virgin guy and get married to him for that reason, then divorce is sure why because marriage can't be figured with sentiments. Another cause of both virgin couple of course I have to call them virgin because both were virgins before they got married is that they never were friends. Relationship and marriage without friendship first leads to "hard I know it's going to be like this I shouldn't have got married to him or her." If both were friends, that's enough time to blend with each other's view and understanding as long as friendship is on the go, not jumping into relationship and marriage. And by the grace of God, you don't need a prophet to tell you someone you're made of. If a friend can't keep the energy of sharing things in common both in steady communication and commitment as you guys are in the journey to achieve this marriage and the future blessings, it's a sign that the marriage is not guaranteed.

I'm incredibly sorry to hear this. God console you.

May God comfort you sir