If someone doesn't want to allow her wife to do a job then marry the girl who doesn't want to pursue her career. Simple as that.

You should start a big bro guide for boys, I see many teenage boys are learning it the hard way. Maybe your experience help them navigate.

Always waiting for ask Ganjiswag❤

I vividly remember the Khalida Riasaat’s play. It was sad yet very insightful.

For 1st email: my opionion to keep you wife at her parent house and tell her to find a job (assuming she will take 4/5 months to find a good job). In that 4/5 months save good amount for advance and after this go for rent home and then you along with your partner can earn enough to afford rent and daily household (obviously you would face some financial issues during this period). Do this for atleast a year and your mother might realize that it was at her fault. Rejoin your mother with a condition that she will not stop your wife to continue her job (obviously her stance k haath se nikal jayegi would be clear as your wife would already doing job for 6 months). Please note that this is my personal opinion as i found it the only way to not to loose any from your wife and mother and your mother may realize her mistake. May Allah help you 🙏

Another great video, thank you!

The video quality is epic Junaid bhai from 1 Mobile to now a proper studio

Congratulations ❤❤❤ 150th therapy session for us 🎉

Excellent answers Junaid Bhai.

19:40 "The young people think the old people are fools - but the old people know the young people are fools." - Agatha Christie

Congratulations for 150th episode

32:53 Such mature way to say it, without saying it. RESPECT.

20 is not too young. Rather it’s the age when people have the maximum number of flings/relationships etc. it’s easy to fall in love due to raging hormones. So please do not discard or brush aside any such queries/emails by saying oh you’re too young to be in a relationship. It’s the time when people need guidance the most

Only Pakistani KZfaqr i watch Best of luck dude

Some parts you said na Junaid bhai, I felt like you were talking directly about me. Thank you for the valuable talks.

Junaid Bhai excellent work, I personally know many people who are in their late 30’s or in their early 40’s but they haven’t matured yet I’m sure majority of of people are like that so they need this kinda podcast where they can learn about different aspects of life

Suggestion: A mega episode 2 or maybe 4 hours will be Absolutely fun ! Best of luck ✌️

This background looks more beautiful..Please don't change it

Joint family is the reason for half the unhappiness in the subcontinent

Case#1 is an ideal situation for this couple to settle abroad, in places like the UAE or GCC in general. Work on a plan with a clear timeline in mind and just leave. Mom is mature enough to take good care of herself as she has someone to care for her plus the experience of a lifetime at her side, get out of the 'emotional blackmailing' scene ASAP.

35:11 To the girl who’s stuck between ex & next: Bhen! Find the purpose of your life first & chase some motive with skills then chasing guys.

These podcasts should be available on Spotify

Hello.. for alarm issue you tell us. You can save a note with the alarm so you can see why you set it. I hope it will help you. God bless

Listening to your podcasts is kinda therapeutic for me...

Alarm wala masla mere sath bhi horha hy lately. Also, ma alarm jis time ka bhi lagata hun, ussy 2 mint pehle khudi uth jata hun lol idk how

Good job 👏

00:06 The evolution of the Ask Ganji Swag series in Pakistan. 02:24 Pakistani citizens facing challenges abroad 06:43 Conflict arising due to dowry demands before wedding 08:50 Struggles in marriage and financial issues 13:13 Mothers' influence on men's relationships 15:04 Learn to stand up for your rights and take decisions for your own life 18:56 Honor code among Gutka and cigarette users 20:43 Discussion on conservative family and freedom 24:31 The struggle for freedom and identity 26:32 Struggle for financial independence and career decisions 30:04 Dilemma of staying in a relationship and societal expectations 31:56 Maintaining a long-distance relationship is challenging 35:40 Focus on achieving financial independence and career development. 37:38 Focus on personal and professional growth before marriage 41:38 Failure is an experience, not a setback 43:51 Discussion on cultural differences and societal attitudes in Pakistan and other countries 47:58 Dealing with societal pressure regarding marriage 49:54 Marriage is just a part of sorting out 53:50 Conflict between leaving or staying in Pakistan 56:08 Debating whether to stay in Pakistan 1:00:01 Nostalgia for simpler times and longing for natural light 1:02:12 Struggles of a woman facing poverty and loneliness 1:06:05 Challenges of living in Dubai 1:08:01 Women face challenges and exploitation in society

Anyone who lives in UK know that it's danger here In UK then Pakistan.

I like the attitude of Ganjiswag.. Love from India.. Khalli Balli❤❤

Love you junaid bai Plz do show with a doctor regarding cousin marriage risks , and Thalesemia awareness amongst ppl

Man that thing of yours "waking up and just dismissing the alarm for not realizing what I set the alarm for is so relatable to me" 😂😂😂😂

In Q 3 when you mentioned that we are not career driven - that's totally correct - and its not about sard illaqay - Indians are so focused and career driven compared to Pakistanis (men or women) - I work for one of the top 5 banks in the world - and I'll honestly say I stumbled upon the career I have, I never got to go in the field I wanted to, not because I couldn't get into it - only because I was a girl and building a career is not a major goal for a Pakistani girl. I have a colleague who has an Indian origin. Honestly, where she is was totally planned for her from the beginning, like she is living her goal and she has also planned for further goals and moving towards them. I, on the other hand, cant plan if I can go for my next exam this year or not cz I have to cater for my family first. I am lucky to have career at this point.

48:55 best line MashaAllah

Ganji swag breaking limits 👊

55:30 I think, Pakistan me her banda apna kaam chorh kr dusre kam is lye krta hai kunke ke bachpan me apne interest ke mutabiq usko career choose nahi kerne diya jata, phir jab wo barha hota hai aur daikhta hai us ke pass capital hai aur system me koe accountibility nei hai to vo resources ko use kr ke apne mannpasand domain ki exective power le leta hai but kunke us ki professional education nei hoi hoti, is waja se us department ka berha garak kr deta hai lekin system me jawabdahi na hone ki waja se adamant rehta hai.

just name your alarm. like when it rings at 3pm it appears as groceries alarm

Its quite surprising that the things Islam prioritises and give guidelines for, Junaid Akram is going completely against that For Junaid Akram - “Getting ILM” is free mixing with boys, making money etc. It is completely justified for a guy that his wife is not following and / or randomly messaging other guys on instagram

FOR GANJI BHAI : For special episode plz do live podcast where you take calls from people and they tell u the problem

55:30 😀😀😀 Rizwan & Tariq masood be like-- mujhe kyu tora

I came to this podcast after 6 months. The questions and advice are still the same. Only names have changed.

how can I ask question?

31:36 the twist😂

I would rather live as a 3rd tier resident in a well built infrastructural environment, good domestic policies and life full of social practices than live in Pakistan. I can't seem to wrap my head around that "my country" "apna mulk to apna hota hay", Allah didn't stamp your ass with a NADRA stamp. This whole world is for humans.

You have meta quest 2 in the background.

Let's dive into the conversation about leaving Pakistan for a better life. If you're seeking a brighter future, go ahead and pursue it. But before you make that decision, take a moment to reflect on the ongoing struggles between Palestine and the Zionist movement. They're fighting fiercely for a land to preserve their identity. Imagine if Pakistan were no more tomorrow, and you found yourself living a comfortable life in the West. What you'd lose isn't just a geographical location, but your identity and a voice in any society about your beliefs. You'd have to conform to the norms of your new home. Yes, we acknowledge that politicians, the army, and bureaucrats have their flaws. However, the real root of Pakistan's challenges lies within the general public. It's time for us to take small steps and work collectively to fix our own house. Avoid earning money through unethical means, look out for your neighbors and society, refrain from stealing electricity or using unauthorized gas compressors. Spread positivity and actively prevent negativity around you. By doing this, you alone can contribute to the positive transformation of Pakistan. This is a remarkable nation, and all it needs is for each of us to play our part. Instead of solely blaming politicians, the army, or bureaucrats, let's take responsibility and work towards a solution. I've listened to countless podcasts highlighting our problems, but it's rare to find someone stepping up with a solution. Let's embark on a journey to restart our country with a fresh mindset. Together, InShaAllah, we can make a difference.

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Junaid Akram - While I was eatling! Me who was listening to the podcast, pausing my work to see "bhai kia kha rehe they"? 😅

17:30 true

Zaberdast maza aa gya, examples main 😂

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whats the name of the play

I also face this 60% and I am not take any Single dowry Its haram .. But I Support my Ife or tmhn hi Step lyna ha bhai Bivi ha support krO Yhi rishta Long Tream chalyga MAA Baap apni jaga unki Izat apni jaga .. Balance ka m n AB Alhamdulillah sb Aman hai

Ham parhtay parhtay aur suntay huy thak gy lekin ye society in ghatiyaan cheezon sy na nikal saaki toh junaid bhai aap bhi na thakna bs kaam jaari rakho

23:30 thats wrong family is best friend so teach your child either biy or girl that do what ever they like hut in halal boundry and with family.

Are you wearing an Orient Bambino watch?

@Junaid Bhai, I want you to have a podcast with Julie. I hope you recognize her

1:06:45 wrong. I am lahori and left long time back due to same problems you mentioned. Threat to life

What you said about inheriting the business happened to me. Unfortunately, I was kicked out by my mean father, as he did not value me, even though "he" was the useless person and I increased the family business 3x. It has to do with his "akkad". To be honest, my father was an illiterate mean person. People thought I was his stepson, as I have a friendly personality. I see many people work, but don't calculate actual earnings, after expense or cost of work. I would suggest a young person to pursue a career, which is of interest to you and is in demand internationally. No use taking courses and having no job in the end. I understand recession and economy is not in our control, but taking software engineering, petroleum/power engineering, trades (electrician, plumbing, welding), medical studies and accounting are a few fields with good prospects. I have a degree, but am facing gender bias in my field. Ishq per zor nahin. "Pyar koshish se nahin milta, zamane mein kabhie, aap hi aap koi dil mein utter aata hain." Work-life-balance should be sustained in one's life.

Isliye me ye nhii karra par thumbnail bhii lagaliya😅

In second question the girl who have a confusion in relationship might catch up with me I think we have a same thought about our career and life partner.

First case sounds like Mannat Murad drama.

Everyone who sees this: You’re beautiful, and never give up your dreams, you are on this world for a reason!💝

How to email him?

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I'm 28 years old, even I have watched this play featuring the billboard. I was sharing the story with my siblings a few weeks ago. Crazy storyline! My whole life, I couldn't look at portions/people living above commercial shops without thinking of this play.

PLEASE VERY IMPORTANT! ASK NUMBER 136 MOST FRAGRANT SEGMENT, ASK LADY WHO EMAILED TO GIVE MORE INFO ON MEN DRESSING PLEASE!!!

1. Rizwan kee tabligh se kia masala hai patah nahin. It should only be a problem if he was not doing his cricket properly. 2. Molvi na ghoomein? ya kerlia bayan toh may be Japanese Muslims want him to do it. What is the problem in that. Sometimes it seems you have a clear bias against religious personalities. I recommend you sitting down and talking with them if you haven't done that already.

I have the same situation... beter to keep your mom separate.. You should keep your wife..ignore your mom if she is wrong...

Special with Dr Solangi

The self development guy sounds like a male version of me-and yes I am pakistani.

In the intro, you mentioned the Pakistani guy ready for fake sham gay marriage just to move abroad. It is so sad. I get people are depressed in the country, but these fake asylum cases will mean that in the future, Pakistanis will face even more restrictions on travel.

Commenting for episode 151 Listening to you junaid i seriously determine k ab sy time ki pabandi laazmi krni hai Today i hold a small business on which i try to organize everything including my time But back in university i remember i was the almost most late student but why ? This is imp junaida bhai Why ? Because hmari class hoti th consecutive 9-2 jismy sy 9-12 teacher had to be with us and then assignment alot kr k she'll do some other stuff like paper checking n all. But there teachers only came at 9 took attendence and move at 10:30 .to pickup their children or get some coffee or hangout with coullegues . And they only shared assignment related youtub tutorial nd we had to follow this just . Now being the person who hate sirf attendence k lie ana . I wanted to gain some spark lekin wahan hota nhi th kuch . I also hate being teacher her only responsibility was sharing yiutube tutprial for relevant assignment and so after an year i choose to wake up at 9 go uni at 11 , get some lunch and do my assignment formally ans submit it with an excuse of traffic because it was purposeless to get up for that teacher i felt. And i spend my night timming to rn my daraz store wich has turned now into a tote bag brand (small business ) but alhamdulillah am glad it my own thing . But in terms of time value i did not learnt anything and sometimes i hve to suffer with this . Because in business its all about right timmings. Please share youropinion in any ask episode. I'll follow for sure .

As an educated Indian bro u love your country I know but India sab ke range ke bahar hay.

Ganji bhaiya kin kamo mai time waste kr rhy hain Nibba nibiyon ko bata rhy hain dono mai se kis ko choose krna hai. You are the person who reminds us that we have bigger purpose in Real life than all this bullshit

Question 1: Real life manat muraad drama

Put an alarm on your phone and write a note to you in the app explaining what the alarm is for. 😊 Secondly, dowry should not be demanded from the girl's parents. Follow the example of Hazrat Fatimah (AS), who was the daughter of our beloved prophet Mohammad (PBUH) !!!

Sorry for being late. To the Developer guy on 1st email. Please send me your CV. I'll help you find a job here in Dubai

It's not safe in Europe either now a days. In London we can't walk outside because of stabbing and robbery. It's more danger here in Uk then Pakistan.

Second Caller - The Girl itself is a big RED FLAG 🚩

Reality is gonna hit that 20yo girl hard when she realizes that if her demands go drastically against cultural and religious norms then the man that will be with her will also have a similar mindset. To say she enjoys the loyalty, security, and the religiousness of the person she's currently with WHILE she's cheating on him and straightening things up with her ex before leaving the current one so she doesnt have a 'non-relationship gap' period is outrageously insane. The boy isnt a fan of feminism because this skewed version of feminism that made it to Pakistan has rightfully earned the bad reputation through young girls like these who have platforms to televise THEIR idea of feminism, which they learnt from bits and pieces picked up from social media, lacking the understanding of what the whole package of this noble cause was about. Pakistan needs some intellectual professionals that go around in different universities holding sessions that educate people about what the actual idea of feminism is and how to gradually implement and integrate that idea into our society, and not something picked up from a 19yo girl on social media.

No electricity, no fast internet, logu k gilay shikway, mazhabi fasadat, protests, roads ka band hona, mobile snatching, chori dakaiti, you feel unsafe when you go outside, dirty sorroundings, mulk ka koi Roshan mustaqbil nae, tow phr Kya jawaz banta hai Islami Jamhoriya Fojistan mai rehnay ka????

Mannat Murad starting from 10 minutes lol

Its on couple what they want If she wants a job Then live with a job If husband cannot compromise he must left her for his mental peace And if she dont want to leave her job theb kindly leave her husband for her mental peace Period Chikh chikh has no room in persons life

Junaid I can sit there and from 150 episodes the amount you swear. I've never heard you say anything about drinking alcohol but swearing yes

Shadi k sawal anay do!

Big fan of Bill Burr and his style! Great shout out!

Jai shri ram junaid bhai love from Bharat🇮🇳🙏🏼

so sad to hear your comment on mufti tariq masood vlogs in Japan. I think everyone has a right to live like they do whether it is mufti or a common person.

And then Pakistan banta hai =D literally nailed it

Junaid bhai Assalamu elaikum

More difficult times should lead to more evolved humour. Ye kya thoda time kharab hua to show ka agenda hi badal diya 🙃

The girl is trying to settle down on her terms with a back up boyfriend, she is the wrong choice.

150th episode and it's all related to shadi/relationships.... sums up this channel perfectly doesn't it?

Kindly stop normalizing it by saying him Bechara! @Junaid Akram

For the second question. Bro you yourself are a red flag not the guy😂

I love you and Pakistanis based on you but Bhai sorry...

"idhar meri call agayi" 😂

Would strongly disagree on Mufti Tariq Masood's part. He is doing his job, spreading dawa to other nations. Vlogs are source of income as well as source of knowledge which would influence his opinions on different matters that he discusses in his bayaan. He speaks different than other conventional mutfis and thats why many youngster's listen to him. Had he not gained any foreign exposure he would be talking without knowing reality. Finally using vlogs, it becomes easy to get visa on Pakistani passport thanks to its reputation that you have to use other means just to get visa.

Khaaton ke red flags bhi unko bata den Sirf larke ki burayan

Maulana sahab japan main tableeq ker rahe hain jahan na bemaini hai na chori chakari , na berozgari , na ghibat unko islam sekha rhe hain jo hum se ziada musalmaan hain 😢