Should we give in laws money?
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@dilligafmofoker 4 жыл бұрын
Dave’s right. No money if you wished me dead. Ever.
@leviwilliams9601 4 жыл бұрын
If any one told my wife they wish she were dead, I would cut all contact.... Period....
@yazeedgh3812 3 жыл бұрын
Even if it was your own mother?
@Minte123 3 жыл бұрын
@@yazeedgh3812 its a tuff one
@mrcool76789 3 жыл бұрын
sounds like a cold lady
@ajoyforlife1 3 жыл бұрын
Good man.
@radolfkalis4041 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@dgmetaxa 5 жыл бұрын
"They don't have a plan." If you give them money, they never will.
@tmeadowsdegil2014 2 жыл бұрын
Opoo
@robertspencer5219 7 жыл бұрын
I seem to remember something in the Bible, that if any would not work, neither should he eat.
@curseoffrankblack6663 7 жыл бұрын
2 Thessalonians 3:10
@marymcewen6888 5 жыл бұрын
Mike drop
@jameshudkins2210 3 жыл бұрын
@@curseoffrankblack6663 Wow! I never heard this quote from the Bible. I'm often surprised what good stuff is in the Bible. Why did in my years of Sunday School did they not tell us this? There is so much that I stumbled upon years later. They wasted my time and feelings with taunts about Original Sin and almost nothing which offered Hope and Direction.
@ajoyforlife1 3 жыл бұрын
10-13 Don’t you remember the rule we had when we lived with you? “If you don’t work, you don’t eat.” And now we’re getting reports that a bunch of lazy good-for-nothings are taking advantage of you. This must not be tolerated. We command them to get to work immediately-no excuses, no arguments-and earn their own keep. Friends, don’t slack off in doing your duty. - The Message
@alexeivoncarstein8286 5 жыл бұрын
That woman is far more calm than I would’ve been.
@astridferrera8742 3 жыл бұрын
As a mother I don't think people should feel entitled to their children money. An emergency is one thing but to just feel entitled is nonsense. They need to get back to work and take care of themselves.
@martinmusokem5765 9 ай бұрын
True❤
@TheRoadprincess 3 ай бұрын
As a 70 yo mom, I approve of this message.
@pontiachotshot 10 жыл бұрын
They are adults let them fail.
@markpolice3585 9 жыл бұрын
Adults have to work. I believe in helping family but these two just ain't gonna do anything.I work two full time jobs so I have no sympathy whatsoever for them.
@ineedhoez 4 жыл бұрын
The husband needs to be dragged. If my parent ever said something like that to my spouse oh, I would sever all communication and we would never speak to them again.
@michemash8860 4 жыл бұрын
...okay. Appreciated... but...your profile name 🤦🏻♀️🤣
@MrBoredom123 7 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my sister in-law who said her parents have ruined her life by not taking 25,000 out of their retirement to pay off her student loans....... for a degree she never got... bums.
@lindaleelaw5277 5 жыл бұрын
And that philosophy class ? or debate ? lol.
@dcavic6157 2 жыл бұрын
My mother said I was dead to her when I joined the army 10 years ago. I still see her when I see my old man but other then that she doesn't exist in my life. It sucks but I'm much happier this way.
@goolqui 3 ай бұрын
Sorry
@nikkineal6431 6 жыл бұрын
It's amazing to me how many engineers are amazing with numbers but terrible with money.
@rfengr00 6 жыл бұрын
Nikki Neal industrial engineers aren’t exactly known for their math skills.
@kengy1991 3 жыл бұрын
“People who wish I die don’t get money from me.” BOOM.
@radolfkalis4041 3 жыл бұрын
My father used to say "I don't care if you get a job shoveling sh*t for $1/hour, take the first thing you are offered, and LOOK FOR SOMETHING BETTER."
@margaretsnewtoylynnparks5336 6 жыл бұрын
You are more concerned than THEM. They need to be WORRIED. Let them save themselves. She can get a JOB, JUST GET ANY JOB FAST!!!!!
@leatharay3565 2 жыл бұрын
Wow I have no words Poor lady her husband needs to put a stop to this
@Jebidee 5 жыл бұрын
omg i feel so bad for this woman...what a monster in law
@grappler240 3 жыл бұрын
Laziness will cause you pain.
@eloise7600 3 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to her. I’ve had a close family member (blood related) tell me that as well and it hurts to the core. It’s like folks get angry with you because you made the wise decision to save and spend your money wisely. This small segment has me very emotional because that same person who said that to me is receiving help from us due to the pandemic. Just wished people would be careful of what they say to one another.🙏🏾🥰💞
@smallville334 6 жыл бұрын
Dave triggered at the end
@quantumfoam140 5 жыл бұрын
Juan De La Cruz He had to go splash cold water on his face after the video ended.
@castrosmith1125 4 жыл бұрын
Looool
@nicole4779 4 жыл бұрын
Sure was
@fhuber7507 3 жыл бұрын
In-laws deserve to stay in the poverty they have created for themselves. . OMG the vileness of the MIL.
@grappler240 3 жыл бұрын
"We make too much money for THEM to be homeless"... WHAT?!...... HOW is anyone entitled the money/labors of any other human??? Asplain it please!
@jennerbug27 3 ай бұрын
Dave nailed it! That 1 comment overwhelmingly pushed the scale against them. No money!
@artemiszero2153 4 жыл бұрын
Their too good to deliver pizza or work in a Target store. You make to much money, for them to be homeless? It's not your job to look after your in laws. They need to get off their butts and find work, any work to make money. Then learn how to handle money. Give them no money, at all. Well said Mr. Ramsey.
@Ces999919822 4 жыл бұрын
If he’s just “kind of waiting” for a job, then I’d say they can just “kind of wait” in their cars 🚙 as homeless people.
@georgewagner7787 2 жыл бұрын
He doesn't settle for a job at target but no qualms about taking the unemployed dole
@darkparallax8459 4 жыл бұрын
There’s a word I wanna use to describe the mom, but I don’t wanna be censored.
@marcipalin9917 6 жыл бұрын
That's right Dave! Anyone that wishes she would die so she can have her son back gets no money. The wife did change him. To a normal man that doesn't freeload!
@autohelix 6 жыл бұрын
Lazy as could be, would not help them at all.
@slomo1562 5 жыл бұрын
The mother-in-law is partially disabled? So what! Either she gets a Social Security check for it or she needs to go find something to do to make money.
@mrcool76789 3 жыл бұрын
"disabled"
@LittleHatori 5 жыл бұрын
"NO MONEY. DEAL WITH IT. U DONT WISH I DIE. AND THEN ASK FOR MY MONEH"
@Carib6855 9 ай бұрын
Trouble is it likely her son's money. That's why she feels that why.
@marlynel2335 2 жыл бұрын
If my Mother in law told me I should die best believe I would tell her get out of my house or matter of fact I would give her a few pennies and put it in a bag and give it to her and tell her here’s some change to get a new place .not in my house will I be threatened nor disrespected
@thomaspiercejr4483 7 жыл бұрын
Heck yeah!! You don't wish I die then me give you money!! That's the end of that!!!
@MrBoredom123 7 жыл бұрын
Thomas Pierce jr You haven't met my sister in-law.
@SafariDushime 7 ай бұрын
It’s the ending for me. “No Money”😂😂😂 people can be so dumb . How dare you wish me dead yet still ask me money😂
@steve41557 6 жыл бұрын
Love Ramsey's Advice! Bullsh*t entitlement attitude!
@zeal4god402 4 жыл бұрын
Too many people are too dependent on the government to bail them out. Find a service and work!
@derekgalbraith1508 3 жыл бұрын
If he doesn't care enough about being homeless to "lower himself" to delivering pizzas or working at Walmart then nobody else should care all that much either.
@knpstrr 8 жыл бұрын
The incentives to not work!
@DustinZucca 10 жыл бұрын
I LOVE DAVE RAMSEY.
@javaskull88 Жыл бұрын
I’m absolutely willing to help and even house an adult who can’t work due to disability (in fact, right now I am housing and helping support an adult relative who is disabled); but I’m not willing to carry someone who simply won’t work. That’s insane.
@lovethemflowers 6 жыл бұрын
Doesn't want to get a job because it could hurt his chance to reapply for unemployment benefits. Man! My answer to Dad-in-law is, if his unemployment benefit is that important, he's on his own for figuring how to pay rent. Might just be the thing to motivate him to find more income, knowing he can't rely on the young couple. Couple makes too much for parents to be homeless. What gall. Wonder how the parents would take that statement coming from the couple if the parents were the ones with the larger income.
@johnadams3418 5 жыл бұрын
If your plan for old age is for your children to take care of you, you are a scumbag. They did not ask to be born, so you deciding to have them and rear them does not obligate they be your care givers when you are older. I'm all for helping out, but I'm against parents not planning to be self sufficient in their old age and actually planning on kicking that responsibility to their kids. The best thing you can do for your children, better than presents or vacations, is do what you can to be sure they do not have the financial burden of caring for you. 3 kids with no debt and no obligation to aging parents, that's an inheritance your kids can build on. Instead too many have this cycle of caring for irresponsible parents and just set up their children for the same fate by not sacrificing the now for the future.
@LoriFoster 4 жыл бұрын
Their plan is to have the kids take care of the situation for them.
@jillgott6567 10 ай бұрын
My rule ,if, someone is not helping themselves then they most likely do not need my help. I have been down on my luck. But, if I was asking for help I made sure I was doing all I could for myself.
@strawberryrhubarbpie 6 жыл бұрын
They (the lady that called and her husband) should read the book Boundaries. I'm surprised Dave didn't bring it up.
@willowbrook6909 5 жыл бұрын
Jennifer V I agree but I think he was just caught off guard with how dysfunctional and entitled the parents were. I was sure he would bring it up at the end too!
@georgewagner7787 2 жыл бұрын
You make too much money for you to be homeless not them
@nancy8269 5 ай бұрын
Telling someone THEY make too much money for YOU to be homeless is wild!!! Maybe try getting a job!
@lettmario 8 жыл бұрын
get that uber
@outdoorsnevada4138 6 жыл бұрын
you help those that help you. if your in laws have loaned you money and helped you out or your husband then help them. if they have not, then don't feel obligated. I have family I will never give $. I have others I would give $1,000 if they asked (but they rarely need it). Know yourself and your limitations.
@steve41557 6 жыл бұрын
In-law Mom said "hope you die so I get my son back" - NO MONEY FOR YOU!
@cathyl7944 5 жыл бұрын
Depends on how you define “help.” Putting people further into debt isn’t terribly helpful. I like Dave’s strategy of gifting money (once you yourself are out of debt) but requiring changes in behavior first.
@connorjohnson8032 3 жыл бұрын
“WUDDUP!”
@BB-gd5pk Жыл бұрын
Yo yo yo welcome to the Ramsey show
@davidfoulk3078 3 жыл бұрын
If you want a divorce in your life then go ahead and give your in-laws financial security via your income.I know, I’ve been there and it only ends one way...divorce!
@bundelz19 4 жыл бұрын
Ended on a strange note 😂
@oldschool1silver 7 жыл бұрын
I love this guy!!
@jillroberts6506 7 жыл бұрын
Go Dave!
@menumlor9365 3 ай бұрын
My love and kindness was once taken advantage by my sister and brother in law. A year later I found my sister was enabling her husband to use meth. Immediately I cut them off financially because I thought I was helping them for their kids.
@hollyb6885 5 жыл бұрын
Luckily I’ve never been on unemployment but, if you get unemployment based on $100,000 salary, then take a $15,000 a year job at Target, do you LOSE all of your unemployment check? No wonder people on unemployment don’t want to work these low paying jobs. I think it’s more a financial decision rather than the jobs are beneath them.
@rahuliyer7456 Ай бұрын
20 years ago I married and 'left' my parents. We are financially independent My father and I are on good terms and we have a relationship. He even likes my wife. My mother...she likes that I am married. She is okay with my wife. It is still a love/hate relationship. She has never gotten over the fact that her son, her elder child, 'left' home. She still thinks she 'lost' her son. I keep in contact with her. However, she is passive aggressive. She does guilt trip my wife and I. We don't fall into that trap. I guess the major things she is still not at peace with are 1) I left home 2) I am an adult 3) I have my own life 4) I am financially stable and independent 5) My wife and I live a 2.5 hours plane ride away from her Mainly my mother guilt trips me for following my dreams and my career, which required my wife and I to move. My wife's career also brought her with me. We left Illinois for Arizona. My mother has traveled to Arizona, but she hates it.... namely because my younger sister guilt trips Mom in returning/staying in Illinois. My wife and I do travel to Illinois to meet them periodically.
@erichemmelgarn4623 4 жыл бұрын
In laws are the enemy most of the time
@David53D 3 жыл бұрын
Why even get involved at all?
@adrienneadetti7777 4 жыл бұрын
Give them a one way ticket to Afghanistan
@drleo6409 10 ай бұрын
culture is a BIG Wall of communication . One family can firmly believe they are right in being irresponsible and the other family can believe they are right in expecting everyone to be responsible .
@jilljohnson251 2 ай бұрын
Also, her mother-in-law is "partially disabled", so not completely disabled, meaning she could certainly do SOMETHING to support herself. There are lots of part time, side hustle, work from home jobs. And the father-in-law? Guess what? Working at Target will give you income to bridge the gap between potential homelessness and that better job he is currently interviewing for.
@lastpme 3 ай бұрын
Wow...if my in-laws told me to my face that they wished me dead, that relationship would be over...and borrowing money would not be an option.
@jimroscovius 3 жыл бұрын
Don't "help" deadbeats.
@jilljohnson251 2 ай бұрын
Ohhhh how badly I would like a follow up on this call....
@jilljohnson251 2 ай бұрын
They haven't worked in a year and cannot pay their rent. Imagine that. No freakin' kidding.
@annadagmarapl 6 жыл бұрын
moochers///
@raustadt 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome, No money for my parent !
@KB-wl4ip 5 жыл бұрын
What if it's a mother-in-law in her 70s, getting Social Security, living with her 40 plus year old son who has a full-time job. Their home was a gift from her mother and totally paid off. They are asking us for money all the time because they know that we make a good income. At this point I'm sending $200 - $500 every time they ask and frankly I'm a bit tired of doing it. I think it's weakening them but I don't know how to stop it. I'm thinking about sending them The Total Money Makeover book. Because I really think that they need to budget their money more carefully.
@dilligafmofoker 4 жыл бұрын
K Black you’re a sucker. You’re also blowing your retirement on a couple of freeloaders. Stop or wish you had. No matter how much $$ you give, the instant you stop-they’ll hate you forever. So just stop it.
@dilligafmofoker 4 жыл бұрын
K Black you’re a sucker. You’re also blowing your retirement on a couple of freeloaders. Stop or wish you had. No matter how much $$ you give, the instant you stop-they’ll hate you forever. So just stop it.
@maxcadey9223 6 жыл бұрын
If push came to shovd i would give them 1 month of rent, but tell them that is it. No more
@lisabaltzer3163 6 жыл бұрын
max cadey That makes good sense.
@steve41557 6 жыл бұрын
Did you hear the part at the end where In-law Mom said "I hope you DIE so I get my son back" ? NOPE!
@Longjohnsilver58 Жыл бұрын
No
@nancy8269 5 ай бұрын
The MIL wished DIL would DIE bc MIL is too much of a leech to work. WOW!! DIL has a lot of patience to still consider helping them.
@pammadrid7804 4 жыл бұрын
Can text them...money for the phone or whatever.?..geez...
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 5 жыл бұрын
Hey! What’s wrong with Oprah reruns?
@taniagarrison6216 3 ай бұрын
Nope dont do it. Until they can make their own plan and take steps to fight for their lives they need to figure it out
@rightpa 5 жыл бұрын
0:07 What up!?
@conservativelatinausa9005 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂enjoy the homeless shelter💅
@clement2780 7 жыл бұрын
When is it honouring their parents, vs leaving them all out to dry
@kurokamei 7 жыл бұрын
Clement Ng theres helping people in need, and theres getting ripped off. They just feel entitled, and had the face to ask them for money when cursed the wife to diem
@lindaleelaw5277 5 жыл бұрын
Why Day Labor places exist !!!!
@lindaleelaw5277 5 жыл бұрын
WORK ETHNIC .
@MsLucky443 3 жыл бұрын
In-laws and money handouts, and toxicity.....nightmere🤡 self absorbed and entitled. This lady is a lot nicer than me.
@paulsalvaterra Ай бұрын
How old are these 'parents'?
@nowandthennn 5 жыл бұрын
If the wife is 44 , then her parents has to be in their 60 or 70 's . They always pay back so that tells me they got behind for some reason and by the time they pay the $500 back they are short again by the end of the month . So give then the $500 and tell them not to pay back and let them do catch up .
@amymedlyn5090 6 жыл бұрын
in-laws. Punctuation makes all the difference.
@hnkabraham 4 жыл бұрын
Dave shouldn’t believe and react to what ever a caller is telling him. This caller is definitely not telling everything and basically complaining about her husbands parents with many assumptions which she herself is saying “i dont know”
@karenhardie1132 6 жыл бұрын
You can make more money not working. Free health care, food stamps, disability money, income subsidies, unemployment money, the list goes on and on to not work, energy assistance.
@lisabaltzer3163 6 жыл бұрын
Karen Hardie Unfortunately, That is true.
@darrylott302 4 жыл бұрын
Like my oldest daughter. She learned from friends how to work the system
@karenhardie1132 4 жыл бұрын
@@darrylott302 A social worker told a friend of mine to have a baby. If you are not married you will get more money not working. Rent, food, health care- all subsidized by the government.
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