SHOULD YOU DATE YOUR BEST FRIEND? || Answering Your Questions || Soila and Curtis with Friends

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Soila and Curtis

Soila and Curtis

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@carolmutua5266
@carolmutua5266 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to hear that there are other people who told God that the next person I date has to be my spouse and it worked for them cause i'm in that season right now. I told God the same after my last heartbreak and i'm allowing Him to work on all my flaws and weaknesses so I can be ready for a Godly marriage. Been single for 4 years and still patiently waiting.
@mruthgathoni9899
@mruthgathoni9899 Жыл бұрын
"With every obedience there is more revelation of the purpose"
@thedarkroomkenya2021
@thedarkroomkenya2021 Жыл бұрын
What a mature, calm and introspective group. Keep up the good work.
@gilbert.mogere
@gilbert.mogere Жыл бұрын
I pray God to help me develop like them. They are extremely important and valuable to us
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind sentiments darkroom.
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
@@gilbert.mogere Amen to that!
@LizzAbade
@LizzAbade Жыл бұрын
Might consider having a discussion on this last topic. All of you had a lot to say on it but time may have been limited. Kadzo's husband's take on purpose was very profound Thank you for such an insightful installment And Rhemani.. my oh my! Such cuteness. You are highly blessed Soila and Curtis
@gracegift7994
@gracegift7994 Жыл бұрын
With every obedience, there's a new Revelation 👏❤
@sashaachieng8254
@sashaachieng8254 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 this is for Rhemani ... what a cute bond he has with mommy Soila
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Hahahah. Momma's boy.
@mercymumtelvin986
@mercymumtelvin986 Жыл бұрын
Loving the wholesome conversations💞💞keep them coming 🙏🏾
@Maweu
@Maweu Жыл бұрын
Here for the consistently wholesome content.. Feedback, keep this going in addition to the great content you're still churning out.. It has a personal touch..
@carolynemuthoni4580
@carolynemuthoni4580 Жыл бұрын
Self esteem is an issue for her. There is also trauma that needs to be dealt with. Sometimes people go so that God can work on you before the right person comes.
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@muriukialex
@muriukialex 11 ай бұрын
I'm glad I found this channel. I think Voddie Baucham does a great work explaining what love is, esp. In Marriage
@gracemumbi6219
@gracemumbi6219 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥! Wow, you did it again! As always Rhemani was the icing on the cake! Looking forward to the next one... I'm reminded of the 4 C's - Commitment, Conviction, Compatibility & Chemistry when "choosing" a life partner. If they pass that threshold, it's easier to work on anything else.
@MyLittleSteps_
@MyLittleSteps_ Жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes! ..... My type of group🎉🎉❤..a dose of good vibes and deep convos👏
@annnguyo960
@annnguyo960 10 ай бұрын
This is really amazing guys love your talks and the flow that comes out soo naturally
@annunziatakinya
@annunziatakinya Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed these sitdowns!❤‍🔥
@sistersgossip_mushene
@sistersgossip_mushene 10 ай бұрын
I already love the kid. You've taught him love, he is sooo adorable
@isitgodly3059
@isitgodly3059 Жыл бұрын
I love love love this conversation...This is one of the best born again couple we are remaining with...Wengine they have a form of godliness but denying it's power .
@gilbert.mogere
@gilbert.mogere Жыл бұрын
I second you
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Glory to God. continue to pray for us. It's by grace. 🙂
@NKATHAMEMEnm
@NKATHAMEMEnm Жыл бұрын
I just discovered the page and am loving it and having a lot of fun looking forward for more great conversations
@indiatsiwilliams793
@indiatsiwilliams793 Жыл бұрын
My first time here and am loving it😊
@isitgodly3059
@isitgodly3059 Жыл бұрын
I am dating now and I remember my partner telling me...God made Him understand that Purpose comes like the rising of the sun...
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Uuuuff. That's deep!
@eunicemwangi4065
@eunicemwangi4065 Жыл бұрын
Deep
@njerumillicent8657
@njerumillicent8657 11 ай бұрын
I am really in love with these types of session if you can give us more of these with the three of you it so learning i just love the interaction
@mercyngure2759
@mercyngure2759 Жыл бұрын
Kindly be dropping this kama doze😂prescribed by the doctor ,,I love it,,,,God bless you and keep you🙌
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Hahahah. Noted. 😂
@dorahmalemba3228
@dorahmalemba3228 Жыл бұрын
Soila you have really spoken to me today. I will not be very specific about what exactly it is that you have helped me through but THANK YOU.
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dorah. Blessings to you.
@EngBMashanga
@EngBMashanga Жыл бұрын
With every obedience, there is a new revelation... Embracing some really wise prospects of life from you guys.. Great job, keep them coming..
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mashanga. Glad you are enjoying the content.
@At1eno
@At1eno Жыл бұрын
You guys have a lot in similar ❤😂, how you talk and reason together is just amazing💯 ooh, and the in between humor😂❤. This channel is unique 🎉
@RayzShi
@RayzShi Жыл бұрын
This is a great one😊❤❤🎉
@sylavialamunu4769
@sylavialamunu4769 10 ай бұрын
I am hearing the things my ears have been waiting for.
@withnjoki2300
@withnjoki2300 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I love this❤
@genevieveedwards6303
@genevieveedwards6303 11 ай бұрын
I love this kind of talks Very mature
@ivanmusebe5165
@ivanmusebe5165 11 ай бұрын
Eddy Waruimbo never knew you a fluent revelational speaker. You have explained love and purpose ver well.
@lilywhite8029
@lilywhite8029 Жыл бұрын
The lady in the green sweater Meen! Her eyes are something weee
@Arty-hands
@Arty-hands Жыл бұрын
PLEASE DO MORE OF THIS❤
@taniagaithuma2493
@taniagaithuma2493 Жыл бұрын
Good content for some of us that are in the long term journey plans....it's the kid for me God bless you more.
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tania. Blessings to you too.
@taniagaithuma2493
@taniagaithuma2493 Жыл бұрын
@@SoilaandCurtis Asante jus pray we find the right guy y'all look happy irregadless of small challenges I am still young hoping I'm on the right path kindly talk about Christian dating and how to avoid some things Mike toxicity at 20's.
@tolbert_ke
@tolbert_ke Жыл бұрын
Hahaaa quality survey got me.
@njokikangasha1840
@njokikangasha1840 11 ай бұрын
This is awesome ❤❤pls bring more .
@maureenkoech9427
@maureenkoech9427 Жыл бұрын
Here for the commercial breaks courtesy of Rhemani😊
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Hahaha. He never disappoints.
@monicawanjikumwaura6689
@monicawanjikumwaura6689 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha the few ads I would never want to skip
@sandrakaranja1838
@sandrakaranja1838 11 ай бұрын
Great content..give us more since I'm learning a lot.
@ivykirera287
@ivykirera287 Жыл бұрын
Love is what will drive you in your purpose. Christ having seen the end endured to the end goal. When you get the end goal of the process of marriage, love will keep you going but not love in the sense of attraction (beauty is fleeting charm is deceptive) love in the sense of long suffering, no envy, no jealousy etc. About purpose before marriage, you will know during the dating stage or that stage before you date (The sampling state that the hurds were talking about.) Ed is right about the identity aspect when you know who you are and wherever you are heading, will inform the purpose that speaks to the relationship will get into otherwise you could end up as part of the statistics of people who split later
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
You can say that again! Well spoken Ivy. Thank you.
@mruthgathoni9899
@mruthgathoni9899 Жыл бұрын
"Isn't sacrifice Love ? " "A diminished view of Love." " Purpose is a baton to be passed on from generation to generation. " 🔥 The conversations are very eye opening. Thank you guys.
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thanl you for watching Ruth.
@mruthgathoni9899
@mruthgathoni9899 Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for sharing these nuggets of wisdom.
@blossom9168
@blossom9168 Жыл бұрын
First time commenting and you guys are awesome❤
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thanks Blossom. Hoping to see more of your comments soon.
@Vivian_Otieno
@Vivian_Otieno Жыл бұрын
Oh Rhemani, isnt he the sweetest and the cutest❤such a sweet boy.
@monicamwangi3122
@monicamwangi3122 Жыл бұрын
Keep up the whole team doing great work ...
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thank you Monica.
@shphmn07
@shphmn07 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree with Soila, it's best to let the men make the first move. The Bible even says, "He who FINDS a wife, FINDS a good thing." The man has to do the finding (and by proxy, the choosing)
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
You can say that again!
@tabulousdivine7951
@tabulousdivine7951 Жыл бұрын
Amazing amazing sharing. Profound and powerful
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Glad you are enjoying the content Tabulous.
@nenkokuailekiyieyio35
@nenkokuailekiyieyio35 10 ай бұрын
Awesome content. I love. ❤
@elizabethtaabu262
@elizabethtaabu262 Жыл бұрын
Great conversations people
@flourishingflo
@flourishingflo Жыл бұрын
I have really enjoyed and learnt watching this ❤️
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching Flo.
@winycynthia1094
@winycynthia1094 Жыл бұрын
I am glad subscribed to your channel today I have learnt a lot and written so much. when it comes to intimacy (how far is too far): 1 the Law of God 2. Don't get close to the fire and expect not to be burned Intimacy is not just about sex, it's also about deep conversations, doing something you both like, like hobbies. Asking in a relationship is very important 1. Ask if holding hands is okay 2. Ask if a kiss on the cheek or forehead is okay a relationship without boundaries is an open field that leads to a battlefield. Boundaries are very important in every relationship.
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Glad you have learned a lot Cynthia. Welcome aboard and feel free to binge.
@christinemurugi4634
@christinemurugi4634 11 ай бұрын
Its the end for me "love covers a multitude of sin❤"
@Ashusheme
@Ashusheme 10 ай бұрын
Amazing conversation 👌
@joanmugure2864
@joanmugure2864 Жыл бұрын
Learnt alot awesome couples do more of this😊
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thank you Joan. More coming soon.
@Serah3433
@Serah3433 9 ай бұрын
Kadzo from mother's by grace podcast,,yeeey😂🥰😍🥰
@shery553
@shery553 7 ай бұрын
more of these couple trio pliz🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MissyLaurianna
@MissyLaurianna Жыл бұрын
Wow the talk is really nice and helpful 🤗
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it Missy.
@salaneisoittara1343
@salaneisoittara1343 11 ай бұрын
❤❤Amaizing
@victoriamuriuki6316
@victoriamuriuki6316 Жыл бұрын
This conversation was epic
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Shukran. ☺
@rahabkimani2583
@rahabkimani2583 Жыл бұрын
Waiting
@africanqueenmo
@africanqueenmo 11 ай бұрын
Well to be honest I believe women should not sit and wait for their destiny or life partner to be decided by a man . Im more liberal minded and so a woman can show interest in a man first. Thats called flirting or identifying your preference. However once the message has been communicated the lady needs to let the man know she prefers him to take the lead if hes interested in moving forward and ready. This gives women more choice and control over her life. She has a right to also show her interest because she has a heart and a mind too. Some men are very shy and have a hard time approaching a woman even if hes ready or interested. There is no formula. Mutual respect wins the day unless the man is conservative of course. Hey loved the discussion keep it up! 🎉
@simplywairimu4552
@simplywairimu4552 11 ай бұрын
We come from the same school of thought. As a woman you ought to put yourself out and there is actually nothing wrong with showing interest.
@basemathchepkirui9997
@basemathchepkirui9997 Жыл бұрын
This👌💯💯
@Relaxwithpeter254
@Relaxwithpeter254 Жыл бұрын
dated for two weeks, and moved in together, the vibe was vibing😍😍
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
How are you guys doing now?
@paullemayian4928
@paullemayian4928 11 ай бұрын
Onto the question of purpose vs love, the actual purpose of marriage is Love and submission as prescribed in the Bible. Husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, Wives should submit to the husband. That is simply to embed Godly order in marriage. While as individual there is a purpose God has ordained for and in us, knowing your partner's purpose shouldn't be the basis for the marriage as Love is the basis for marriage and it is unconditional. Knowing your partner's purpose is a PLUS in a relationship as it will help align your conversations, vision, focus and future plans as you put down plan and work to achieve the God given purpose. But Love is the greatest of them All.
@PaulineKitoto
@PaulineKitoto Жыл бұрын
Rhemani!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@melanieakinyi8992
@melanieakinyi8992 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is about purpose in the context of God's initial intention for the institution...and that is to bring forth a Godly generation/offspring through the institution... marriage is a gift from God to us... incase we need to understand it's purpose we need to understand why it was given to us in the first place..love as the fruit of the Holy Spirit is a tool used to reflect the presence of the Holy Spirit in a relationship..hence the reason why we have to choose daily to Love our partners through the help of the Holy Spirit .
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeesssss!!!
@bryanmwendwa4730
@bryanmwendwa4730 11 ай бұрын
Super work
@PoliticalRaven
@PoliticalRaven Жыл бұрын
Ati of course I want to go 😂 😂
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@Moratage_phyllis
@Moratage_phyllis Жыл бұрын
This is amazing...kindly nipitie pia plz
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
hahaha.
@jomokenyattauniversityjour9992
@jomokenyattauniversityjour9992 Жыл бұрын
Hey Curtis, what does it mean to discern a marriage/relationship and purpose in a relationship.help me understand this please
@damam2941
@damam2941 Жыл бұрын
I need more of this
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
More on the way.
@jenifferjonah3391
@jenifferjonah3391 Жыл бұрын
I'm in my early 23 and i really love watching this couple 🙏🙏🙏🙏 big up
@hellenirungu3059
@hellenirungu3059 Жыл бұрын
This is informative
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it.
@JoyceWaititu-fr4gi
@JoyceWaititu-fr4gi Жыл бұрын
I would like to comment on the question whether a girl should ask a man out Honestly I think its a masculine thing and there needs to be balance in the relationship because once you as the lady start giving masculine energy the man will give feminine energy in return and you find yourself always doing those manly thongs in the relationship so let the men do it sis
@mosangwane7777
@mosangwane7777 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@beverlyrose7646
@beverlyrose7646 11 ай бұрын
Aahh Remani😂😂😂❤
@vickyakinyi773
@vickyakinyi773 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@TevinMalowa-hc7oj
@TevinMalowa-hc7oj 11 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Bosires_fam
@Bosires_fam Жыл бұрын
Premier gang kama kawaida
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Pewa flowers. 😂
@isitgodly3059
@isitgodly3059 Жыл бұрын
You make Godly marriage look so deep
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
It is. 🙂
@LizzAbade
@LizzAbade Жыл бұрын
Because it is deep...lol😅
@camillamish2096
@camillamish2096 Жыл бұрын
Another one please
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Coming right up. Stay tuned. 😊
@user-ym2zp3lz5t
@user-ym2zp3lz5t 11 ай бұрын
WUEEEEE I HAVE TO HAVE MUM......i see dad in that statement
@BKibetKiprop
@BKibetKiprop Жыл бұрын
Such Content is Lit ... do more
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kibet. more coming up.
@Ellena13
@Ellena13 Жыл бұрын
Ethan and Curtis kinda look alike and Soila and makena look like sisters
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Hahaha. Siblings from another mother.
@mercylinenyairabu3289
@mercylinenyairabu3289 11 ай бұрын
My mind as a nurse when l hear compatibility 😂 genotype
@Jenesm
@Jenesm Жыл бұрын
Have come to love you!
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Much love back at you too Jenes.
@njerumillicent8657
@njerumillicent8657 11 ай бұрын
Alafu how can one be able to contact you???
@mildredochieng6303
@mildredochieng6303 11 ай бұрын
Aki Rhemani
@nimehifadhiwa....1867
@nimehifadhiwa....1867 Жыл бұрын
Dating is collecting data.
@salaneisoittara1343
@salaneisoittara1343 11 ай бұрын
NO
@marthaayebare2378
@marthaayebare2378 Жыл бұрын
So you guys dated for 4 years and there was no sex,???
@SoilaandCurtis
@SoilaandCurtis Жыл бұрын
Yes. Temptations were plenty but we had a good system of accountability to keep us from indulging.
@marthaayebare2378
@marthaayebare2378 Жыл бұрын
I have just watched your abstainance story, it's amazing
@EngBMashanga
@EngBMashanga Жыл бұрын
Amen... So it is very possible..
@MissJackie254
@MissJackie254 Жыл бұрын
@njerumillicent8657
@njerumillicent8657 11 ай бұрын
I am really in love with these types of session if you can give us more of these with the three of you it so learning i just love the interaction
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