sorry guys but dowry in itself is extortion..GOD already decided that 2 pple should be together...would GOD demand for a dowry payment.
@martinwarui8 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂Aty fashion
@AnnaLisa-ts2mp15 күн бұрын
Hey.... Where will I watch the full video please
@samsonkariuki1979Ай бұрын
I just discovered this channel. Seems like it's one of those 'hidden gems', let me see what's up.
@rickmathew3222Ай бұрын
Please bring them again
@rickmathew3222Ай бұрын
Please bring them against 😊
@adiatv6298Ай бұрын
Mimi sijai ona hiyo mini fan😂😂😂😂😂😂
@rennishmboya9840Ай бұрын
Eish!!!! Wisdom … prerequisite for marriage is purpose.
@dorahmulinge3800Ай бұрын
Good teaching right there❤
@catherinendoti3477Ай бұрын
This conversation makes a lot of sense.
@christineanyango739Ай бұрын
This has been so insightful. Offlate i have bn feeling lonely and think that i need marriage to be fulfilled.. Wueh point No. 4 has challenged me. Keep praying for us to need God more even when we feel lonely... And to get the right partners in the Process.
@maryann5666Ай бұрын
Love the conversation🎉
@lisakibathi6434Ай бұрын
This was a fantastic discussion that we had 🔥
@morinekui6462Ай бұрын
Sorry sir, but your wrong. You should have a relationship with God to have a good marriage.God initiated marriage.I think our defination of what we call success differs.
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
Hello Morine. I used to think so too. Until I met unbelievers who were not even interested in God but had a level of success in their marriage. This does not mean their marriages are perfect. Some of the best books on marriage and premarital counselors are not believers. Yet their advice works because they are biblical principles. You can live by biblical principles without necessarily having a relationship with God and the principles will still give you a level of success. A Kingdom marriage, however, gives you much higher success and satisfaction than a good marriage because for a Kingdom marriage, you do need a relationship with God. I kindly advise that you watch the full video on our website so that you can have a more holistic perspective because there are other things we have discussed that have not been included in these first 15 minutes. Using your laptop/desktop, NOT mobile phone, head on to www.soilaandcurtis.com to watch the full video. There is also a comment section there where you can give your thoughts after watching.
@lisakuhunya2055Ай бұрын
@@SoilaandCurtisI am keen on this question as well. I haven’t got to the longer video yet, but I wanted to ask - is a marriage really successful if it is not spurring the parties to righteousness? I think defining success in marriage based on relational KPIs could be misleading. I think success in marriage is firstly and very importantly defined by whether that relationship is pointing you back to Christ because that’s why He made it.
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
@@lisakuhunya2055 I hear you. If we use 1 specific criteria then we should be able to disqualify every other outcome if it is not based on that criteria. However, Matthew says that God makes it rain and shine on the righteous as well as the wicked. In other words, God has made his grace or goodness available to both believers and non-believers. This means that while non-believers may not experience the full effect of Godly success, there is a level of success that they are able to attain to as a result of God's grace. When non-believers apply Godly principles to their marriages and their marriages work, they are inadvertently proving that God's ways bring success even though they are not actively pointing people towards God.
@fionawambui6587Ай бұрын
Heeh... let me tell you, this is just fresh understanding and fresh revelation. Thank you guys for sharing what you've learnt and for educating generations to come.
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@josephnderitu6437Ай бұрын
next please 50 mins
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@mercyamiani7153Ай бұрын
❤❤ Great!
@Dorine_MjawaYesuАй бұрын
Mmmhhhh! That's all I can say. The wisdom!!!
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@loiseosebe542Ай бұрын
Beautiful teachings
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@zipporahsimiyu1158Ай бұрын
Great insight of the Bible
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@robertmuthomi370Ай бұрын
It is profound. We are following...
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@robertmuthomi370Ай бұрын
Hapo sawa. Thank you brother.
@janewaititu7110Ай бұрын
This is beautiful....wisdom is from God.
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
Exactly!
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@carolinenjoroge1195Ай бұрын
Where was this held i missed. Can you talk about this situation. A couple got married both were non believers or Luke warm Christians then along the way one surrender their life to christ and one is has not and actually things keep going from bad to worse...how can you advise someone going through that?
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
This is often a tough scenario. I would advise that the one who is now a believer consult with their pastor. Mostly because the pastor would understand their context better than us. But Biblically speaking, if the unbelieving spouse does not want a divorce, the believing one should not divorce but ought to continue trusting God for the salvation of the other while also ensuring that they play their part in being a good spouse and a good example of Christ's love.
@carolinenjoroge1195Ай бұрын
@@SoilaandCurtis okay thank you
@lynkariuki926Ай бұрын
I love love this❤❤. Curtis is a good teacher of the Word.
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@paulakenАй бұрын
Sooooo gooood!!!
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@BamphilАй бұрын
This was a good one to be sincere. Principles of marriage. And what is Soila chewing? Destruction.
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
😁
@joysunguti5855Ай бұрын
I love this😊 The prerequisite to engaging marriage is purpose❤
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@michellemawa3284Ай бұрын
I love it Curtis and soila. please make it long
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@asalawyer1560Ай бұрын
Deeeep✌️
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@CallMeM254Ай бұрын
Wueh 👏👏👏
@SoilaandCurtisАй бұрын
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@fionawambui6587Ай бұрын
Yaani mpaka Soila had to remove her lash 😂 that's how heated the conversation was. This was a really interesting conversation. The wife must have had enough of previous incidences untill she was fed up when he decided to buy the mum a car. I feel like that alone can't cause her to want a divorce there's definitely so much more that has happened before.
@missrachel16052 ай бұрын
In Kenya the children act changed, in fact if a woman works she is expected to chip in...and the court ensures the man has also taken care of his badi needs too
@jeremymakokha47972 ай бұрын
Guys you don't how we wait for notification,kindly post something this week .
@Ijusthavequestions2 ай бұрын
All a man needs is 3 min to change the course of life of a woman from the moment of conception. Tuanzie morning sickness which is a monster, all the early sickening symptoms of carrying a child all the way till birth. Then after birth kuna recovery. If you had twins or a cs or complications or even a normal birth, lazima mwili ipone. You need to recover. Then infant feeds every 2 hours for 6 months and you are not working so no proper food. Mtoto anyonye hewa? Breast feeding can rake you out if you not eating. Plus no sleep because infants can have colic, no money, ujipate no home. Allllaaaa. Mlale chini ya bypass? Curtis in your next life you might be a woman. Chunga. 😂Sijamaliza, alafu, mtoto agonjeke, mama can't work na sahii tu ndio amepata ka kazi. Fired. Weh. Wacha mchezo. Support is for both. If there's clear evidence ya kutumiwa vibaya kama your name sake Curtis hapa then you have a case. Do something about it. Enda court kama 50 and any sane judge will see your point and make ammends. I come in peace.
@user-xe2uj7qv1f2 ай бұрын
si mko wisee👏👏the level of discernment ...👏
@lilianmukisa32912 ай бұрын
It was a wrong timing. I believe a lady being pregnant, one of the closest friends and shoulder to lean on is your husband. Purchasing a car for your mum ( less vulnerable compared to your pregnant wife) YET you who need it most don't have 🤔🤔🤔. He would have bought it a year after the wife giving birth 😂 I hope this man wasn't looking for attention from both women.
@jeremymakokha47972 ай бұрын
Prof Curtis...you are on point .
@jeremymakokha47972 ай бұрын
Its evident that most of people don't know what neglect can do especially emotionally
@jeremymakokha47972 ай бұрын
Why do you need an expert opinion ?Curtis is a super expert.
@aileenkirui88722 ай бұрын
How about we buy a car for both parents mother for husbandsand mother for wife..how will that be.. In as much as we all need to honour our parents should it be equal love 😍???
@felishaandende40402 ай бұрын
Curtis can sing🎉😂
@SoilaandCurtis2 ай бұрын
Hahaha. He tries.
@bilhahnjeri64272 ай бұрын
Curtis can sing wow at least she was getting support coz for some men to support their child is like u have to bembeleza them n pls bring friends edition it's been long
@SoilaandCurtis2 ай бұрын
Friends will be back soon. Wako busy kidogo kwa sasa.
@briank00222 ай бұрын
Nkiwainvite kuku mtakuja😂
@SoilaandCurtis2 ай бұрын
Kama ni kienyeji lazima. 😂
@briank00222 ай бұрын
Soila you love to debate sana😂
@SoilaandCurtis2 ай бұрын
Kabisa! 😂
@dorcaschepkirui97672 ай бұрын
I'm from Chepchikoni and I'm already loving you..New subscriber❤
@user-yt7ei6qf2h2 ай бұрын
This guy ought to be president. Very insightful
@simonjoshua71452 ай бұрын
Hi wonderful people For me I 100% agree with Curtis. Your main duty as the man is the child. If by any chance there was no child them there would have been no need to care for the baby mama.
@SoilaandCurtis2 ай бұрын
Yeeeees!
@Ijusthavequestions2 ай бұрын
No. You as a man baki na infant tukuone. Or 2 under 2. Let's see you.
@debrairungu5062 ай бұрын
Soila apewe 🎤...she is speaking truth and I agree with her ten thousand!! The man is likely to have been neglecting his responsibilities at home..maybe the man is so focused on pleasing his mom and being the kid who made it...of course sharing your success is something to be proud of doing...BUT...that man must be neglecting his home..period!
@Linnfinity2 ай бұрын
Mmmmh Curtis! When your mishandle your spouse, parent or your kid(s) you are mishandling GOD! Put that on billboards.