Not Monet saying she hates interacting with people's pets while expecting Bob to like Colleen

It’s weird to see Bob be so passionate about being “excluded” but just a month ago he had a different opinion when monet was upset that he didn’t tell him about going to the award show

Omg, that woman with the man who was gardening?! Ugh! I heard something recently that has stuck with me: "learn to be comfortable with other people's discomfort." Makes sense. It's not your job to make someone else feel better. It's your job to take care of yourself. If someone feels embarrassed about making an insensitive, racist comment, then good! They should feel uncomfortable.

I honestly think more people should talk to kids 'like they're adults.' Being treated like your own person and being taken seriously as a kid really is better for your confidence and communication skills in the long run.

Not monet and bob taking that last question personally lmao

Monet and Bob arguing for over 15 min about that time Monet hanged out w/ Naomi and Kim again Jacob the entire time:👁 👄 👁

Bob, the new Black Lady Sketch Show segment was even more iconic than the first, and that didn’t seem possible. The hilarity.

Bob just casually over here in HD looking like a beautiful doll making us all look like trash cans ❤️‍🔥

The last caller while Bob and monet argue for 27 mins and 43 seconds: 😐

It has been 0 days since the girls have fought

So, what you're saying is if we need serious medical advice we need to go to The Reverend Doctor Silky Nutmeg Ganache? Okay, got it. Thanks

Bob’s right: I always appreciated it when adults talked to me normally when I was a kid.

They answered one question and turned the second question into an argument about them 😂😂 fitting

man it seems like WE need to give them some advice 😭

No shade to Monét but im fully with Bob on not the being invited thingy. I’m like Monét when it comes to remembering to invite other people, I just don’t remember to invite others when I make plans with somebody. So’ I get that inviting Bob doesn’t come naturally to Monét. But, if my best friend told me that they wanted to get invited to stuff, I would just try my best to make them feel included immediately. It’s so uncomfortable to be the person that’s like “I wanna be invited” and after a while when you finally start to get invited, i feel like it would feel shitty to go. It’s like, yeah, I’m finally invited but if it took me asking like 5 times, it’s not worth going anymore.

As a vet tech, I have to confirm that white people love food names for their pets. Some of my favorite patient food names from over the years are Pancake, Kiwi, Ravioli, Waffle, and Chicken (she was a senior cat).

Bob's response to herpes was 100% correct. We need to stop the stigma behind this non lethal viral infection that btw most people already have! I get so annoyed in my dental hygiene clinic because one of the adjuncts likes to scare the students about disease transmission so she'll yell out "oh you didn't take off your bib you're spreading herpes! You walked across the clinic with your gloves on you're spreading aids!" When she explains it she says that she likes to scare us by calling out "gross diseases" and it is so damn unprofessional.

Y'all should have known that this is entertainment when Monet told that woman to find someone with an ugly person fetish. 💀💀💀🤭 Come on y'all.

I've been mistaken for an employee three times in my life: 1. Was because I was cosplaying so I thought it was funny 2. I was digging through clothes at an Old Navy and folded them back up so I give that person a pass because it looked like I was just folding the clothes 3. I was just looking at makeup in a target.... Not wearing red or anything and this white woman asked me where something is and I definitely caught an attitude with her

This thing of associating gentials, erogenous zones or sexual preferences with disgust is so prevalent in the world, and needs to be addressed whatever group it happens in. I remember growing up as a gay man with mostly straight female friends, that they used to talk about they could not date a bisexual guy because he had had anal sex, making ew sounds when talking about guys taking it up the ass etcetera. It made me feel so unconfortable. Especially the not dating a bi guy because they did not like that he had been bottoming for a man (and thus seeming more "female") says a lot about how homophobia and misogyni work. And I have heard so many cis straight females talk about this even today.

I was at a CVS in all black with a mask on a couple weeks ago when some lady with a dog came up to me asking for the Ensure. I said "Ma'am I don't work here" and she goes "oh...well i thought since you were wearing a mask...". I just stared at her confused while she awkwardly talked herself thru it.

Okay but they didn't touch on the fact the last caller was allegedly told by their friends, as a response to why they don't hang out, that they're ''too much''.

Bob and Monét are so authentic. Bob singing Tevin Campbell makes me feel like we grew up together. Real family lol and Monét being Saint Lucian; I’m Trinidadian 🇹🇹 and Brooklyn born and raised lol

Bob: White people will give their dog a food name. Me: Shit... my dog's name sure is Hashbrown. 🤣

Monet with the evaporated condensed milk knees got the most authentic belly laugh from me. She spoke clearly, intentionally, and quickly, when I think of a legit read, bitch that’s a read

Roberta and Monica you are tew mech!!! Never have I ever heard advice against taking advice on an advice segment 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Why did bob take that whole question and make it about how he feels against Monet 😂😅

I think maybe Bob is one of those people that has a vibe that doesn't gel well with certain settings/activities so his friends will leave him out of certain things. There was an earlier pod where Monet alluded to not inviting Bob to certain get togthers because he doesn't drink and get high. I get it but it does kinda suck for Bob.

You talked about so many points that hurt me in Brazil! It's crazy how racism is brutal in every space...

sooooooooooo basically Sibling Rivalry's patreon is like untucked? if you're not subscribed you're only getting half the story? I may need to finally make a patreon account lol ps. bobs lip is giving me life! I want that nude peach color!

48:57 not Bob making the question about Bob without offering the person any advice 😂 I am with Monet on this one. Monet has already explained that Bob was not intentionally excluded but Bob keeps bringing it up as though Bob was intentionally excluded and expecting people to empathize with their mindset before Bob found out that Bob was not excluded. Also, it's weird that Bob expects for their invite to involve a whole extra step of calling Bob to invite them when everybody else just gets a text (that was probably copied and pasted). Bob is so busy that they probably can't answer the phone when they're working, which might lead to a game of phone tag, just to invite Bob to plans that the rest of the group already texted back and agreed to.

BOB AND AJA ON LEGENDARY !!!!

In the words of Azealia Banks “ THE GIRLZ ARE FIGHTINGGG WHATS THE TEAAAAA?!!!!”

Bob if you didn't want anything to change why even bring it up in the first place? If anything you could make an effort to hang out with the people YOU want to see instead making it to be this targeted attack against Monet. Saying your feelings out loud is one thing but playing the victim in a situation where it's literally partly your fault, by not answering your texts, is another.

Both have valid points but I’m gonna have to go with Monet on this one. If your friends prefer texting to phone calls and you’re the only odd one out, then you should make more of an effort to respond. Especially if a group chat was started to plan hangouts (I’m assuming that’s what happened). Just my opinion

Didn’t Bob say to Monet that he doesn’t owe it to her or anyone to let them know where he’s at and that’s why he didn’t tell Monet he was going to the Queerties? Lol Also it’s 2022 Bob no one got time to call. Answer the texts or be left out 😆

I love how often y’all mention Megan. She’s part of the cast at this point. Put her name in the credits lol.

Bob; I am a white male and fan of the podcast. My dog's name is Fry, and I will not rupaulogize for it.

This came out on my birthday today! Thank y'all 🥰

Please dont say 2017 was five years ago…. Its triggering. It wasn’t, it was only last year.

I used to have people come up to me at the store all the time . But maybe because it was how I dressed ? Also Monet said something about W Indian people naming their dogs after humans . One time my number was apart of a group text to a family of the person that had the phone number before me. They always texted and I frequently told them that I wasn't their uncle. One day they texted and said "we're so sorry that Kelly died." I was like damn who is Kelly and I kept checking for context clues only to find out that Kelly was a dog

Me and my dog cookie did not need to be called out like that… nor did my list of cat names lmao

Given their disclaimer. I know there's some tea for sure.

Bob came looking fierce 😍🔥️🔥️🔥

Omg Bob's face is SITTING!!!! #stunthechildren

Im also thankful to be alive in Mariah's Prime. Honestly, also Whitney and other great vocalists.

I’ve been thinking about the whole argument a lot and I can finally say I’m on Bob’s side but the fact that us (strangers) are witnessing y’all talking about it it’s kinda funny

My cat Biscuit is currently sitting with me on my desk as I listen to this. My other cat is named Sardine. I name my pets after food, or other animals. Yes I am white.

not bob and monet giving advice for entertaintment purposes only but still giving their honest advice purrrr!

I get Bob and that’s why I get why some people don’t like mixing their friends group

14:04 not Monet being toxic toward a baby 🤣

I love hearing your podcasts so much!

I worked at a school district for 7 years (granted as an IT guy, not a teacher) and if I was in a classroom fixing something kids always wanted to chat cuz they want to be distracted. Assuming lessons weren't going on I'd chat back but always talked to them like they were equals. Teachers I'd got to know enough would usually tell me their class liked me and would even ask how I got their respect so fast. It's just because I didn't put on a goofy voice and use small words, or tell them they wouldn't understand and all the crap people do to kids. I guess I learned that though from helping adults that are not tech literate with their IT problems.

They didn't talk about the fact that when that caller asked about not being invited, the friends said that they "always want the attention". Yeah sorry but after that day I may just not have friends anymore. People will show you how they really feel about you, pay attention to that.

19:14 Bob you should try saying ‘like’ more times you don’t do it enough 😂🥴

So basically Monet doesn’t like kids, pets and other people in general DAMN

Not the Gregory Isaacs version of "Can We Talk."

Bob and Monet missed the part where the caller said he DID confront his friends before about not inviting him out. The friends outright said they didn't invite the caller because he always wants to be the centre of attention. It sounds like there is more to the situation than the caller was letting on and that his (ex?) besties don't like being around him anymore. Quite different to Kim/Monet accidentally not inviting Bob to a gathering of mutual friends.

As a daycare teacher, Bob is right, children need to be talked to like Adults, they like it and it gives them better social skills! 🥹 thanks for normalizing that Bob!

Monet gives advice like secretly record your friends and throw it back in their face later

PLEASE I HAVE MET SO MANY WHITE PEOPLE WITH A LAB NAMED HERSHEY!!! Bob is so right like they stay naming pets after food.

Thank uuuu😂! Bob! I have children and I appreciate u more talking/acknowledging kids/children/young people as people tooo🎉🎉🎉🎉

im gonna have to unstan monet after she said she doesnt like dogs, im team jinkx now

I really love listening to you guys. Just had to say that

Bob..don't tell me not to ask for real help when your entire look says to me..come tell me your problems and I will eradicate the issue..lol..don't tell me you can't help when you have the hat of justice on damn it..🤣😂😂jk i love y'all lol

OMG this caller opened Pandora’s box

I adore Avery 😭😭😭 and monet right, can we talk sung by him is on repeat in my house

I’ve never been mistaken for an employee at a store. Not because I’m white, but because im always naked from the waist down

13:08 is my reaction to my manager when im ready to quit my job 😂

some problems are just so unnecessary. sometimes the solution just getting rid of them. you don't need a therapy

Didn't Bob get "voice surgery"? Has anybody done a time comparison clip or something cuz it does NOT sound like anything has changed overall. Sounds back to the gravelly Bob we knew and love. No shade, just 🍵

Had a lady at Target ask me where the cups were. I was wearing black pants and a green sweater 🙃

Sibling Remindery that its Advicery

I don’t trust people who say they hate pets, it’s one thing to be allergic but to say you hate all pets is a no go.

I get confused for an employee at stores multiple times, I just assume it’s because I’m always wearing head to toe black tho 💀 lol

I can't believe this but Bob is being the gaslight queen... bob noone said invite forever everytime you took that angle AND YOU DO WANT CHANGE. If not not being invited at all wouldn't be a problem. You had me at the first half the you started feeling some way now monet cant understand you welp love you both done seen it all now

Called out. In my very white family, we've had.. 1/4 that wasn't food. Penny was it. Otherwise, it's been Oreo, Rolo, and Toby (toblerone)

I’m sorry Bob but if my friend stops replying to my message, imma stop messaging them periodt. It’s rude not to reply to messages

I know what bob was saying so well being the second choice really hurts and it’s not from the first time or the second time it’s how consistent you see them prefer someone over you or don’t even think of including you it makes me really sad to the point of not wanting to talk to them

Mama looking fierce as always

bob ur makeup looks so pretty!!!!!!

I helped name my friend's dogs, Pickles and Biscuit 😊

Not Bob whistleblowing Monets exploding foot…

18:27. Hahaha, my pets are Fatman and Roscoe. Lol. So true.

In response to the first question - firstly, I couldn't even imagine how frustrating that is, I barely like being acknowledged, let alone spoken to in public. However, I would try to disregard their blatent assumptions, and then move the conversation to claiming responsibility for your hard work, and clearly impressive gardening skills! I completely agree with Bob, that you don't have to explain yourself, or comfort their behaviour, it is WRONG to assume anything, about anyone. I'm just hearing you're one talented gardener, give yourself a pat on the back!

please not my sister's dog being named BISCUIT

My dog Burger Mayonnaise is sitting next to me rn

Bob, you just look LOVELY!

Okay but… Potato is a GOOD ass name for a dog 😂

🤣🤣🤣Bob I'm a black woman with a 12 year old Maltipoo named Biscuit and I ❤ his name!!!

What's disgusting about the Megan situation is that other artists (Drake, Rihanna, Nikki Minaj etc) are unfollowing her and the industry is trying to ice her out. While Tory Lanez is getting support.

“Bitch! I barely like my Cat!” Same, girl, same. I feel the same about children. Lol. If it ain’t my own child, I. Can’t. Do. It! Lmao!

It’s selfish to wanna be included in others plans …. Point blank , if they wanted you there you would’ve been Invited and it shouldn’t be taken in a negative way stop being stuck up and selfish .

bob masterclass in reading

Not bob being hella dramatic and also claiming not to care the phone goes both ways boo text them back if you want to be included they shouldn’t have to put all this effort into communication that doesn’t go both ways but I’m not her phone so idk just my opinion anywho love this podcast and both these baddies 💕💕💕

Hahaha our cats name was Pickles 😅😅😅 And we had Dill. Now we have Ham. Lmfao I'm dead. Yt ppl

Bob's lip color is beautiful!

I Love you Both, Such A VIBE

The religious commentary was truly right on. My family is like that.

Imma still take the advice and apply it to my life