Signs and Types of Physical Abuse

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Physical abuse often occurs in cycles, and alongside other forms of abuse and coercion. This video outlines some common forms of physical abuse and some hidden signs of it.
Other Types of Abuse:
Emotional Abuse kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b7GZhciFuMm1qIE.html
Psychological Abuse kzfaq.info/get/bejne/q7mXYM2FlcjSZKM.html
Financial Abuse kzfaq.info/get/bejne/f8eae8943MXOhKM.html
Spiritual Abuse kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fMV5g8he0tyUl4E.html
Affects of Abuse: Self Gaslighting kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nap5l7yZ38qcZ2Q.html
Reactive Abuse kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Zt2nptqjta3IgGQ.html
Triangulation kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m56ioK2TsqnYnqM.html
How Narcissists Threaten kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iLWbpZt6mc2tdmw.html
How Covert Narcissists Manipulate kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i7p0nMakmq_JdKc.html
If you need support for being abused there are some helpful links below.
mensallianceni.co.uk/
belfastwomensaid.org.uk/
www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help
www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/
www.thehotline.org/
au.reachout.com/articles/domestic-violence-support
Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section.
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@DarrenFMagee Жыл бұрын

Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos

@bonnielee316 Жыл бұрын

What’s going on in the child bully’s mind that he/she teases and physically beats her younger sibling chronically? And, yes, the antisocial mother didn’t care. She probably secretly enjoyed it.

@bonnielee316 Жыл бұрын

There are adoptive parents ( foster kids ) that starve the children. What’s up with that? Also the case of the West boy’s in California City, California, those adoptive parents had the bigger kids beat the littler ones. They got murdered. So what’s up with that? I know sadism causes sexual stimulation and humor, laughing but what’s this torture and cruelty? Like people who beat dogs, it’s not for sex or laughing so what are they doing? Power and control? But like how, what does that mean? It’s not like they want the victim to do something specific. It almost seems as if, like an autistic child thumping its head repeatedly on a wall or swinging his bangs in his face for stimulation. How does it do something for them but it wouldn’t do something for a normal person? What is wrong with them?

@amac2573 Жыл бұрын

I still have the on going fear of getting into trouble or being in trouble. The residues of growing up with domestic violence.

@sisugirl1702 Жыл бұрын

Another kind of physical abuse: My ex had multiple sex partners, outside of our supposedly committed relationship, without protection. He put my life and health at risk with his behavior, then, of course, got offended when I went for STD testing. When the tests were negative, it was proof that I had over-reacted.

@izawaniek2568 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Darren. Abuse is evil and we have to try to do everything we can to escspe from evil people and places.

@thorn-rc9lz Жыл бұрын

If you haven't already, I would be super interested in a video about how isolation is utilized in different ways to abuse. I currently deal with N parents who refuse to let my siblings talk to me over the phone without supervision, and only really let my siblings be alone with me when they want to go on vacation every year. Not to mention, they homeschool - but thats another can of worms in the big stew of keeping the abuse quiet.

@c.t.8856 Жыл бұрын

Reckless driving happened all the time in my relationship. Especially when i had a newborn. I would frantically try to quiet my babies so that he wouldn't hurt us. I soon learned that his behavior necessitated my driving unless it was unavoidable. It worked for him though. As I think about it, that really typified my relationship with him. He was totally inept when it came to anything that wasn't of personal value to him. I guess that included the safety of his family.

@peculiarstar4261 Жыл бұрын

Yes, mine would drive reckless too. It was scary. We're divorced now tho.

@icaropratti9527 Ай бұрын

It is so, so precise. I have been through EVERY SINGLE one of those. EVERY SINGLE one.

@ladycampion Жыл бұрын

Hmm... I didn't know some of these things counted as physical abuse... Thank you!

@genm303 Жыл бұрын

I believe I was drugged...specifically on three occasions when one time I had physical evidence of something happening to me but on asking what had happened he denied it. Another time when I have no memory of what had occurred but he told me and grinned and said I had appeared drunk and people were watching. Another time I had slept for 14 hours...something I never do. All puzzling at the time but I believe done to humiliate and degrade me, possibly using the date rape drug. Only when I went no contact and educated myself after discovering I had been with a Narcissist did I find out it was typical of their methods of degrading and punishing victims. Physical abuse is not always violent.

@anothercat9600 2 ай бұрын

Some just block hallways when they talk, and slam doors/cupboards. But it's still physical violence. There is no such thing as only mental violence. There is always some physical subtle threat too. Like walking very near unexpectadly, very sudden moves near your face, etc etc.

@NopeNotTodaySatan Ай бұрын

I can’t believe everything you wrote & then some is what I experienced. It absolutely escalated to ripping things off the walls, punching holes in doors, RIPPING the door off the hinges… I’m just now realizing everything 😕

@ALTheFreeMan 24 күн бұрын

This is good information, but, I’d like to hear more about the physical abuse of children. Having been abused myself, I think there’s a slight difference between a grown person who chooses to stay in a toxic relationship, versus a child who has no choice but to endure a toxic parent.

@MI6-W 4 ай бұрын

“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth; I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and one’s foes will be members of one’s own household” (Matthew 10:34-36).

@Pushing_peace23 Жыл бұрын

No weapon formed against me shall prosper ! 🙏🏾😢

@MI6-W 4 ай бұрын

Amen ❤

@janethopkins8947 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. This is excellent. I went "no contact" with my sister a few years ago, due in part to these behaviors toward me and others.

@godzillamanstreb524 Жыл бұрын

Working on that now

@Pushing_peace23 Жыл бұрын

Do unto others as you want done to you

@godzillamanstreb524 Жыл бұрын

Abusers don’t abide by this

@kathleenbristol6747 Жыл бұрын

Thankyou Darren for this video! husband narc.did all that,but hit,he has threatened to hurt me though! I want to call the woman's resource center,but it's really hard when he Hoover's over me. He's on disability,and I'm retired.

@user-pr9qm7uf3i 11 ай бұрын

Why nobody believe the victim when telling their story? Why the victim go through so much meanwhile the prosecutor is free?

@NopeNotTodaySatan Ай бұрын

Trigger warning: I realized that my now ex boyfriend would have sexual intercourse with me while I was completely asleep. I take melatonin & a muscle relaxer for TMD so I’m totally out. I woke up to him on top of me (don’t think I need to explain the rest) I was frozen. Couldn’t speak or move. I’m so ashamed & embarrassed for allowing this loser to do all the things he did. Things that were hard to prove. Locking me in the car only to scream & berate me. Push me into the hallway walls, tripping me, pinching me, jolting me out of my sleep & screaming in my face. There is so much more I’m trying to process. My heart & spirit are broken.

@c.mareeharris4615 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@deb2319 6 ай бұрын

the narc. broke my hand when i had one month to finish my yoga certificate-permanent damage i feel. Evil-jealous and monsters.

@NopeNotTodaySatan Ай бұрын

Oh my goodness, I am so so so sorry!!!! That’s something they absolutely would do bc they love to sabotage others. Wow.

@annejohannesson9555 Жыл бұрын

my fear is for being subjected to mind game

@robertmessam103 Жыл бұрын

It's another piece of the Narcissist enigma. But by bit regaining control and taking back power that is rightfully the victims' when we fully can understand the Narcissist then we have triumphed.

@fairygurl9269 Жыл бұрын

Feel Safe 💞

@arpitaparmar3568 7 ай бұрын

Pushing partner or shake arms by asking in anger is consider in abuse ?

@juul6633 5 ай бұрын

Yes

@NopeNotTodaySatan Ай бұрын

Yes it is. I have handprints from my ex doing that.

@MooseTracker100 Жыл бұрын

Wonder if it’s also abuse if totally by accident drop break a wine glass and wife goes bonkers threatening to break ur favorite cup along with verbal rear down of you being disrespectful, unloving, un caring etc. Or same issue, but from an accidental bump.

@seun-tariah 10 ай бұрын

That's emotional abuse if it happens repeatedly

@NatashaWarden 5 ай бұрын

That's emotional abuse for sure !