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@loveslife114 ай бұрын
I love derrek jaxn😊
@darlingdarlow64154 ай бұрын
👏
@user-zk3fj3wy3e4 ай бұрын
Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!
@glam0r0us3 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick 🙏🏽
@solyball28733 ай бұрын
Hey D ! How do we get the real book? I don’t really like ebooks. I’d much rather have the real book.
@LonjeMarie73 ай бұрын
To any woman that’s reading this if you are the ‘ball’ that he fumbled. It’s HIS LOSS, keep rolling!
@acheeksgaming48493 ай бұрын
I'm so feeling the fumble right now. He went back to his baby mom. I'm in my feelings, but I don't want to be his option if it doesn't work.
@melissacross47693 ай бұрын
Thank u...... ❤❤❤
@ednablessed10962 ай бұрын
Going thru it now 😢💔
@sailorPinata3 ай бұрын
now imagine the pain of being the fumbled woman...
@Indelibleone3 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@kellileaneriley42633 ай бұрын
It sucks tbh
@tatianaj71083 ай бұрын
Exactly the healing she has to go through can be very challenging. And then to attempt to date again 😔
@melissacross47693 ай бұрын
Right.......
@donitabrown81003 ай бұрын
Been there..... for sure!!
@tedthajohnson60774 ай бұрын
It’s the energy that some women embody. It can’t be replaced.
@Love2Love9273 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@melissacross47693 ай бұрын
@@Love2Love927🥰 Micheal 😘
@BeautifullyAwakened833 ай бұрын
Especially when you “Fumble” a “Real Life Natural Born Chosen One”😬✂️💯
@freshmanjeans3 ай бұрын
That part
@Chosenshines3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 ❣️
@janherlihy83013 ай бұрын
Ooooooo you said it
@melissacross47693 ай бұрын
It's a wrap.......... Period..... Blessing in disguise ❤❤❤
@naturallaw83772 ай бұрын
‼️‼️‼️‼️
@empressdawnsomerville11013 ай бұрын
If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.
@sonyea013 ай бұрын
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
@kelisawhite92943 ай бұрын
Facts.
@theejuicygoldengoose2713 ай бұрын
💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯
@JemLifeMinistries3 ай бұрын
Yep. What she supplies
@navimarlow3 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@victoriabrand27774 ай бұрын
Exactly, there are some levels of disrespect that can never be forgiven or forgotten
@melissacross47693 ай бұрын
Yes Michael facts
@msjaneausten48317 күн бұрын
Oooo that part 🙌💯 I can forgive but there are certain levels of disrespect... It's like ✌️✌️✌️
@alogan95024 ай бұрын
Yes I sometimes wonder if he feels heavily convicted in his heart for the hurt he caused when the world is quiet & hes alone with his own thoughts 😌
@Emerald-12263 ай бұрын
😢
@shiz12463 ай бұрын
He only regrets it because he can no longer use her.
@StarS33d33 ай бұрын
I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾♀️
@user-yd2mp7wp3k3 ай бұрын
Me too
@navimarlow3 ай бұрын
No. Men don’t love and feel like us
@nltinc.48643 ай бұрын
He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!
@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha3 ай бұрын
Why not divorce him??
@JemLifeMinistries3 ай бұрын
Mine did too before I fully got away.
@sarahmicro3 ай бұрын
@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha : because most of these women stay even if there are not happy. Just to avoid being alone....
@theSlamDude1Ай бұрын
Exactly, at that point, you're wasting both of y'all time @@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
@monamellj25 күн бұрын
Been there. I can relate.
@gloriathompson66064 ай бұрын
After 19 years and some change, my ex husband has STILL not moved on. At 69 he is stuck in the past not only with me, but our children.
@Jeffreyway3 ай бұрын
It Ain't Just with A Good Woman Derrick... It's Losing A REAL 1 PERIOD!!!!
@melissacross47693 ай бұрын
Aww thanks ..... ❤❤❤
@catspyjamas79444 ай бұрын
You can see this one hits him different.
@SarahGraceL4 ай бұрын
I agree. He's speaking of a cautionary tale of his own.
@queenb30884 ай бұрын
Yeah... this is very personal.
@shiz12463 ай бұрын
Regret is not remorse. They (you) regret losing the utility of your appliance, but you don’t feel bad for doing what you did
@navimarlow3 ай бұрын
Exactly!! 💯💯💯💯
@TianaThompson90s2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🎉🎉🎉
@robynhawthorne31604 ай бұрын
U tell'em Derrick, BEWARE !! 😮 Like RKelly said wen a woman fed-up, ain't nothing u can do about it
@Mllascelles14 ай бұрын
Self imposed trauma by self sabatoge is tragic.
@sonjacox48744 ай бұрын
Yup! Such a coincidence how my ex has woman after woman but can't find a "good one" after I left
@hindwidad27233 ай бұрын
Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back
@sajor184714 күн бұрын
You described my marriage of 24 years that I lost myself in. 5 years and I'm beginning to find the me that I lost while loving someone that wasn't loveable. He fumbled me and drank himself to death. I was the best he was ever going to get. I put myself aside and now I'm finding myself again and for that I will be grateful every day for the rest of my life.
@rhondaharris4604 ай бұрын
That's true, and we're all different in our unique way, no one can be you❤😊
@childadvocate83744 ай бұрын
Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤
@user-gm9kl9do3s4 ай бұрын
God is using him. He's preaching from personal knowledge ❤
@childadvocate83743 ай бұрын
@@user-gm9kl9do3sI agree.
@user-GodIsGood7774 ай бұрын
You are so full of wisdom. Thank you for this message today. I am so glad i found you online. 🙏
@ellawilliams28364 ай бұрын
I agree
@kristengarcia34774 ай бұрын
I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.
@TheHighPriestess1113 ай бұрын
I’m only here to say.. I told you so!!! 🤭🤭
@user-nt6ow2wj2u4 ай бұрын
This message deserves Gold Thanks
@JenniferSimonis4 ай бұрын
It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.
@jazziewilliams38343 ай бұрын
U won’t miss her until she’s gone 😥
@iwantcrystals20 күн бұрын
BOOM
@saharastarot68863 ай бұрын
I like this derrick, his energy is very genuine.
@TheGreyArea_LuLaKye4 ай бұрын
Blessings KING for ur wisdom and being transparent 🫡🎱🙌🏽
@lydiahaynes49744 күн бұрын
When you tell him you have lost yourself and you are in pain and all he can say is "that’s your problem" or "don't be so negative" or "I'm sick of you being negative" when all you are trying to do is open up and pour your heart out choking on tears. He laughs in your face repeatedly and feels more empowered to scream when he sees you upset. Nothing hurts more.
@lynnanderson68313 ай бұрын
It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤
@ford6321noone4 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!
@GiM-ef7ky4 ай бұрын
This is why he is able to give a dialogue on this subject. 🎉
@christineribone93513 ай бұрын
THE GREATEST COMEBACK EVER!!
@ShainaLuckey11 күн бұрын
Amen. I am patiently waiting for my day.
@gr8hndz4u4 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking the truth.
@TnL-nt2kd4 ай бұрын
You damn sure preaching the truth❤
@reginatabb40684 ай бұрын
KARMA IS REAL❤
@gregbuze91433 ай бұрын
That part !! 💯 💯 💯
@here.comes.tiffany3 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship … Thanks for keeping it real❤
@kashmoney869715 күн бұрын
My ex boyfriend recently passed away (he was married also) but I was told by mutual friends and family that he was still talking about me saying how he regrets losing me 🎯💯 goes to show he did have regrets …didn’t realize it till it was too late though
@starchildsol4 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick! 🙏🫶😊
@thefruitfulones3 ай бұрын
This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh
@loisendiritu65753 ай бұрын
This doesn't apply only for marital relationship, it applies also to any other relationship with a human being.
@kimberlyhamilton86373 ай бұрын
This is So Very True 👍 and Absolute Facts
@ljubicapopovic88114 ай бұрын
Derrick, good as always! Thank you for telling things so honestly, 💝!
@danielle22474 ай бұрын
I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things
@belindaking13624 ай бұрын
Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊
@spirituallyfreewithree4 ай бұрын
Dealing with this now with my husband. I want out. It's exhausting.
@iRockwthMJ3 ай бұрын
This is DEEP! Thank you for breaking this down. This is healing information. ❤️❤️❤️
@Harry-o6g4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@kaymoody396Ай бұрын
UR AWESOME U HELP ME IN SO MANY WAYS THANK YOU ❤❤😊
@SR-hf3hx3 ай бұрын
I fumbled a great woman...and everyday pray i can find a partner half as suitable as she was. And she wouldn't even let me apologize
@user-su3rg4ll8j3 ай бұрын
Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.
@brigettecannonssorandomsho59184 ай бұрын
STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!
@SleepyPariah3 ай бұрын
Regular men grieve. But what about narcissistic, users, abusive men? Do THEY grieve?
@mrslady903 ай бұрын
ironically grief actually plays a part in that narcissistic characteristic that they have. They can’t cope with whatever happened to them.
@LonjeMarie73 ай бұрын
No they don’t. They deny gaslight deflect responsibility, and then they replace ,and then it’s rinse, wash and repeat.
@kiarisby24713 ай бұрын
Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).
@DeeDee-zd9ni4 ай бұрын
Your videos has heal me….💥👏🏿
@HeyokaGirlSpeaksАй бұрын
My ex-husband ignored my saying I'm with you because I want to be not because I have to be. Keep fukng with me and I will walk away. He called my bluff and lost big time. I won myself and he lost everything. 😊❤
@simpleliving42053 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick !!
@user-op6de9nn2g3 ай бұрын
Wow! A Great woman is still out there...
@triamoore29313 ай бұрын
Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅
@katricepittman82093 ай бұрын
Brother Derek tha thank you for the great message that you are saying to all men and women tell me the truth 100 I am
@LonnieCook-cd9kg3 ай бұрын
You are speaking the God's honest truth.
@latashahumphrey7694 ай бұрын
You have an amazing topic very amazing
@janherlihy83013 ай бұрын
Brotha You STILL have so much more to learn
@nadiaconseillant86164 ай бұрын
My body perceives it as a reality. I see no future in the burning bed
@sweetie9324 ай бұрын
Question, for this very reason; is it best to unfollow or not have any ex on social media? 💕great video 👍🏾
@debranathan42754 ай бұрын
How can you keep moving from woman to woman, and not heal.thats what men and women have to do first, Mind Body and Soul. Finding yourself is worth everything because you can't see nothing until you heal yourself. Know your Worthhhhhhhh
@sybilamuta64173 ай бұрын
BLESSINGS to you!!!God bless you.
@MsTrevia20103 ай бұрын
Yes, OMG, yes!! Please take heed!
@madelinemaldonado27174 ай бұрын
I feel so hurt and lost 😞
@browneyes95073 ай бұрын
It gets better hold on
@devinwilliams53343 ай бұрын
Good Message! 💯
@MrY3PАй бұрын
Awesome information and so true
@Cecille_the_one3 ай бұрын
Great message ❤️ Thank You
@user-pc2ts5yr6h3 ай бұрын
My friend studies kaballah, I am Christian. I was baptized born again 43 yrs ago, he's studied kaballah 38. He told ne he'd study Christianity for 6 mo if I'd study kaballah. I agreed, but he never set the computer up foe me to study, and I'd ask him to read the Bible from pg 1 to the end, asking God to Open it, to unfold the code to you. No one can tell you what's in the Bible but God. After you know what is, you share it, and those who hear are of like mind.
@ImbueU884 ай бұрын
Yes, you better speak from experience!! Thank u
@user-jm7fw4gd9u3 ай бұрын
Is this why my ex kept coming back for years, because of guilt or just because I kept taking him back? Was he just using me when he had no one else?
@Angel-lm6cj4 ай бұрын
Do narsaccist men have a conscience?
@jozejeaux396210 күн бұрын
My ex husband is a perfect example. I've never known him to drink and he's now an alcoholic. He looks terrible and this is after I divorced him in 2009. He looks much older now with a pot belly...ew
@ms.tj_love4 ай бұрын
Let me find out you intuitive too!🤔
@lifecoachtenirabyrd59763 ай бұрын
A vision board woman..❤ yesss 🔥🙏👑
@darlenerush53894 ай бұрын
Thank You Derrick ❤❤❤
@SophiaParker-mc3kg4 ай бұрын
That’s me 🤚🤚 don’t recognize me at all!😢
@christineribone93514 ай бұрын
6 ft 5" !!!
@cindyvazquez43333 ай бұрын
Wow you know peoples pain in their emotions🙏🙏❤
@brimoore19823 ай бұрын
Thank you. 💜
@user-mq6zn9pc8o4 ай бұрын
Real Talk 🙏
@YazminM22223 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@dwilliams57004 ай бұрын
Amen Derrick ... Amen 🙏🏼❤
@sheilablanton48944 ай бұрын
Ty for this message 👍
@KatieForsythe-rl1xp3 ай бұрын
Thank you ….. just thankyou ❤
@darlenerush53894 ай бұрын
Love You Derrick 💓💓💓
@Keana432 ай бұрын
Tell'em D❤
@candacewilson68073 ай бұрын
He broke me when I was very young and wouldn’t speak to me or looked at me since. So I never was told why. The last thing he said to me was cruel. After attempting to stop my pain, I repressed the memories. 43 years later, it all came back, including the pain. I reached out again, to ask why, and he blocked me. Still, no answer. So, I wrote a book about the experience.
@daniellehalo69233 ай бұрын
So sorry you went through that.
@candacewilson68073 ай бұрын
@@daniellehalo6923 -Thank you for your words. I am still going through the healing of it, since I repressed it for so long, I never allowed myself to grieve from it until now. So imagine healing from a break up that happened when you were 16, when you are 60!
@ahmedlago66513 ай бұрын
Yes u are correct, I lived it
@SharonShepard-sf3th3 ай бұрын
Continue to do the good work.
@feeldevine96413 ай бұрын
Love this ❤
@tammyfitzgerald53363 ай бұрын
Why single the new thang 2024
@s.d.crockett4863 ай бұрын
Very insightful
@StrengthNLove3 ай бұрын
Woman love you first
@Soulhearts4ever3 ай бұрын
talk is Cheap anyone can afford it....
@sheilak28353 ай бұрын
✅ Absolutely right!
@teresastocker99384 ай бұрын
I was a Good Woman to my Ex partner hee went back to his Baby Mama I guess she was better or I was a placeholder until she took him back not sure I brought future, love honestly compassion showing bring loyalty softness