@JaxnVideos 4 ай бұрын
NEW BOOK: From Heartache to Happiness(E-Book & Audio Book Bundle) www.derricksvip.com/offers/Y9uxoLoR
@loveslife11 4 ай бұрын
I love derrek jaxn😊
@darlingdarlow6415 4 ай бұрын
👏
@user-zk3fj3wy3e 4 ай бұрын
Derrick talk about men who fumble a good woman but dates women who empties their pockets!!! women who only wanted them for a bag...they spin the block express pain and all a sudden they want a good woman back!! TALK ABOUT WOMEN WHO BREAK MEN...WE LOVE U DERRICK!!! 🤎🫵🏾👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾💅🏾💋aka a fitandfabulous BW...LETS GO 2024!!
@glam0r0us 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick 🙏🏽
@solyball2873 3 ай бұрын
Hey D ! How do we get the real book? I don’t really like ebooks. I’d much rather have the real book.
@LonjeMarie7 3 ай бұрын
To any woman that’s reading this if you are the ‘ball’ that he fumbled. It’s HIS LOSS, keep rolling!
@acheeksgaming4849 3 ай бұрын
I'm so feeling the fumble right now. He went back to his baby mom. I'm in my feelings, but I don't want to be his option if it doesn't work.
@melissacross4769 3 ай бұрын
Thank u...... ❤❤❤
@ednablessed1096 2 ай бұрын
Going thru it now 😢💔
@sailorPinata 3 ай бұрын
now imagine the pain of being the fumbled woman...
@Indelibleone 3 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@kellileaneriley4263 3 ай бұрын
It sucks tbh
@tatianaj7108 3 ай бұрын
Exactly the healing she has to go through can be very challenging. And then to attempt to date again 😔
@melissacross4769 3 ай бұрын
Right.......
@donitabrown8100 3 ай бұрын
Been there..... for sure!!
@tedthajohnson6077 4 ай бұрын
It’s the energy that some women embody. It can’t be replaced.
@Love2Love927 3 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@melissacross4769 3 ай бұрын
@@Love2Love927🥰 Micheal 😘
@BeautifullyAwakened83 3 ай бұрын
Especially when you “Fumble” a “Real Life Natural Born Chosen One”😬✂️💯
@freshmanjeans 3 ай бұрын
That part
@Chosenshines 3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 ❣️
@janherlihy8301 3 ай бұрын
Ooooooo you said it
@melissacross4769 3 ай бұрын
It's a wrap.......... Period..... Blessing in disguise ❤❤❤
@naturallaw8377 2 ай бұрын
‼️‼️‼️‼️
@empressdawnsomerville1101 3 ай бұрын
If he’s narcissistic he doesn’t care about messing the relationship up with that woman because he misses HER..Her presence. He cares because he misses what he was getting from that woman…Her presents.
@sonyea01 3 ай бұрын
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
@kelisawhite9294 3 ай бұрын
Facts.
@theejuicygoldengoose271 3 ай бұрын
💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯
@JemLifeMinistries 3 ай бұрын
Yep. What she supplies
@navimarlow 3 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@victoriabrand2777 4 ай бұрын
Exactly, there are some levels of disrespect that can never be forgiven or forgotten
@melissacross4769 3 ай бұрын
Yes Michael facts
@msjaneausten483 17 күн бұрын
Oooo that part 🙌💯 I can forgive but there are certain levels of disrespect... It's like ✌️✌️✌️
@alogan9502 4 ай бұрын
Yes I sometimes wonder if he feels heavily convicted in his heart for the hurt he caused when the world is quiet & hes alone with his own thoughts 😌
@Emerald-1226 3 ай бұрын
😢
@shiz1246 3 ай бұрын
He only regrets it because he can no longer use her.
@StarS33d3 3 ай бұрын
I feel he’s receiving what he put out now n it hurts baaaaad..That physical mental beating he gave her does NOT compare to the SPIRITUAL AS WHIPPING he’s receiving now🧘🏾♀️
@user-yd2mp7wp3k 3 ай бұрын
Me too
@navimarlow 3 ай бұрын
No. Men don’t love and feel like us
@nltinc.4864 3 ай бұрын
He is 100% correct! My husband lost the best version of me and now I can never be that affectionate, sexually available, loving and flirtatious woman with him again. Ever!
@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha 3 ай бұрын
Why not divorce him??
@JemLifeMinistries 3 ай бұрын
Mine did too before I fully got away.
@sarahmicro 3 ай бұрын
@@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha : because most of these women stay even if there are not happy. Just to avoid being alone....
@theSlamDude1 Ай бұрын
Exactly, at that point, you're wasting both of y'all time @@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
@monamellj 25 күн бұрын
Been there. I can relate.
@gloriathompson6606 4 ай бұрын
After 19 years and some change, my ex husband has STILL not moved on. At 69 he is stuck in the past not only with me, but our children.
@Jeffreyway 3 ай бұрын
It Ain't Just with A Good Woman Derrick... It's Losing A REAL 1 PERIOD!!!!
@melissacross4769 3 ай бұрын
Aww thanks ..... ❤❤❤
@catspyjamas7944 4 ай бұрын
You can see this one hits him different.
@SarahGraceL 4 ай бұрын
I agree. He's speaking of a cautionary tale of his own.
@queenb3088 4 ай бұрын
Yeah... this is very personal.
@shiz1246 3 ай бұрын
Regret is not remorse. They (you) regret losing the utility of your appliance, but you don’t feel bad for doing what you did
@navimarlow 3 ай бұрын
Exactly!! 💯💯💯💯
@TianaThompson90s 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🎉🎉🎉
@robynhawthorne3160 4 ай бұрын
U tell'em Derrick, BEWARE !! 😮 Like RKelly said wen a woman fed-up, ain't nothing u can do about it
@Mllascelles1 4 ай бұрын
Self imposed trauma by self sabatoge is tragic.
@sonjacox4874 4 ай бұрын
Yup! Such a coincidence how my ex has woman after woman but can't find a "good one" after I left
@hindwidad2723 3 ай бұрын
Most men think that women are replaceable till they find out the hard way. There aren’t many good people left and they don’t realize that till it’s too late to get you back
@sajor1847 14 күн бұрын
You described my marriage of 24 years that I lost myself in. 5 years and I'm beginning to find the me that I lost while loving someone that wasn't loveable. He fumbled me and drank himself to death. I was the best he was ever going to get. I put myself aside and now I'm finding myself again and for that I will be grateful every day for the rest of my life.
@rhondaharris460 4 ай бұрын
That's true, and we're all different in our unique way, no one can be you❤😊
@childadvocate8374 4 ай бұрын
Appreciate yr honesty and admitting yr own challenges with dealing with loss of a good woman. That doesn't take away the pain you caused but at least you can heal yourself. But the truth is you're not responsible for her healing, she is. God bless you both❤
@user-gm9kl9do3s 4 ай бұрын
God is using him. He's preaching from personal knowledge ❤
@childadvocate8374 3 ай бұрын
@@user-gm9kl9do3sI agree.
@user-GodIsGood777 4 ай бұрын
You are so full of wisdom. Thank you for this message today. I am so glad i found you online. 🙏
@ellawilliams2836 4 ай бұрын
I agree
@kristengarcia3477 4 ай бұрын
I hope my ex heals, he can’t ever comeback to me but he needs to be a good example to our baby. He’s too busy chasing a bust down who competes with my baby for his attention(usually she wins) he thinks if karma hasn’t hit him yet it’s not gonna come back around for what they did to me.
@TheHighPriestess111 3 ай бұрын
I’m only here to say.. I told you so!!! 🤭🤭
@user-nt6ow2wj2u 4 ай бұрын
This message deserves Gold Thanks
@JenniferSimonis 4 ай бұрын
It’s beyond mental illness. Ownership. Humility. Many years of therapy. I pray for eyes to see and ears to hear constantly. We share children but we are not together.
@jazziewilliams3834 3 ай бұрын
U won’t miss her until she’s gone 😥
@iwantcrystals 20 күн бұрын
BOOM
@saharastarot6886 3 ай бұрын
I like this derrick, his energy is very genuine.
@TheGreyArea_LuLaKye 4 ай бұрын
Blessings KING for ur wisdom and being transparent 🫡🎱🙌🏽
@lydiahaynes4974 4 күн бұрын
When you tell him you have lost yourself and you are in pain and all he can say is "that’s your problem" or "don't be so negative" or "I'm sick of you being negative" when all you are trying to do is open up and pour your heart out choking on tears. He laughs in your face repeatedly and feels more empowered to scream when he sees you upset. Nothing hurts more.
@lynnanderson6831 3 ай бұрын
It’s interesting to hear this. The relationships I’ve had have been so damaging I’m forever changed. I’ve often wondered if they even think about me and wonder how I am. We are damaged, but hearing this, it’s damaging for some men too. Thank you for sharing. I think women just want men who have harmed to become aware of their actions and try to work on themselves and become better people. We hope someday that they could just say I am so sorry for hurting you that way. That would be healing for both parties. ❤
@ford6321noone 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!
@GiM-ef7ky 4 ай бұрын
This is why he is able to give a dialogue on this subject. 🎉
@christineribone9351 3 ай бұрын
THE GREATEST COMEBACK EVER!!
@ShainaLuckey 11 күн бұрын
Amen. I am patiently waiting for my day.
@gr8hndz4u 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking the truth.
@TnL-nt2kd 4 ай бұрын
You damn sure preaching the truth❤
@reginatabb4068 4 ай бұрын
KARMA IS REAL❤
@gregbuze9143 3 ай бұрын
That part !! 💯 💯 💯
@here.comes.tiffany 3 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤ i have been watching and listening to you for a while.. dropping love, videos like yours NEED to blow up. You have great messages..went through this in a 14 yr relationship … Thanks for keeping it real❤
@kashmoney8697 15 күн бұрын
My ex boyfriend recently passed away (he was married also) but I was told by mutual friends and family that he was still talking about me saying how he regrets losing me 🎯💯 goes to show he did have regrets …didn’t realize it till it was too late though
@starchildsol 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick! 🙏🫶😊
@thefruitfulones 3 ай бұрын
This is soooooo “spot on”. He is sick about it. Cant seem to find true love. Or find it but fearful she’ll never be enough. Wow!!! The meal analogy was ‘perfection’!!oh, lastly… the chemistry is so strong when the two happen upon each other. It’s so intense and you both walk away pretending not to have sensed that chemistry. Smh
@loisendiritu6575 3 ай бұрын
This doesn't apply only for marital relationship, it applies also to any other relationship with a human being.
@kimberlyhamilton8637 3 ай бұрын
This is So Very True 👍 and Absolute Facts
@ljubicapopovic8811 4 ай бұрын
Derrick, good as always! Thank you for telling things so honestly, 💝!
@danielle2247 4 ай бұрын
I am here listening to this because I'm the good girl and I think he fumbled me and I can legit see him struggling with it and I was wondering if I was just seeing things
@belindaking1362 4 ай бұрын
Yes i was working hard, studying for a degree and all he did was complain at me.. The relationship was a joke with him, all he did was make me cry. 😊😊😊😊
@spirituallyfreewithree 4 ай бұрын
Dealing with this now with my husband. I want out. It's exhausting.
@iRockwthMJ 3 ай бұрын
This is DEEP! Thank you for breaking this down. This is healing information. ❤️❤️❤️
@Harry-o6g 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@kaymoody396 Ай бұрын
UR AWESOME U HELP ME IN SO MANY WAYS THANK YOU ❤❤😊
@SR-hf3hx 3 ай бұрын
I fumbled a great woman...and everyday pray i can find a partner half as suitable as she was. And she wouldn't even let me apologize
@user-su3rg4ll8j 3 ай бұрын
Oh well, it's good to know that guys will always remember so they don't rake for granted what was given with love. May the Lord our God heal our broken hearts and give us the strength to seek for his presence and let go.
@brigettecannonssorandomsho5918 4 ай бұрын
STRAIGHT FACTS!!!!
@SleepyPariah 3 ай бұрын
Regular men grieve. But what about narcissistic, users, abusive men? Do THEY grieve?
@mrslady90 3 ай бұрын
ironically grief actually plays a part in that narcissistic characteristic that they have. They can’t cope with whatever happened to them.
@LonjeMarie7 3 ай бұрын
No they don’t. They deny gaslight deflect responsibility, and then they replace ,and then it’s rinse, wash and repeat.
@kiarisby2471 3 ай бұрын
Yes, but their grief is different. They grieve the benefit of the good woman. They don’t grieve the fact that they hurt and damaged you. The grieve the access they had and the benefits (love, service, status etc.).
@DeeDee-zd9ni 4 ай бұрын
Your videos has heal me….💥👏🏿
@HeyokaGirlSpeaks Ай бұрын
My ex-husband ignored my saying I'm with you because I want to be not because I have to be. Keep fukng with me and I will walk away. He called my bluff and lost big time. I won myself and he lost everything. 😊❤
@simpleliving4205 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick !!
@user-op6de9nn2g 3 ай бұрын
Wow! A Great woman is still out there...
@triamoore2931 3 ай бұрын
Gives me manipulation vibes knowing what people want to hear, saying it and playing a different angle speaking from a experienced place portrayed changed behavior and ego a real good talker 😅
@katricepittman8209 3 ай бұрын
Brother Derek tha thank you for the great message that you are saying to all men and women tell me the truth 100 I am
@LonnieCook-cd9kg 3 ай бұрын
You are speaking the God's honest truth.
@latashahumphrey769 4 ай бұрын
You have an amazing topic very amazing
@janherlihy8301 3 ай бұрын
Brotha You STILL have so much more to learn
@nadiaconseillant8616 4 ай бұрын
My body perceives it as a reality. I see no future in the burning bed
@sweetie932 4 ай бұрын
Question, for this very reason; is it best to unfollow or not have any ex on social media? 💕great video 👍🏾
@debranathan4275 4 ай бұрын
How can you keep moving from woman to woman, and not heal.thats what men and women have to do first, Mind Body and Soul. Finding yourself is worth everything because you can't see nothing until you heal yourself. Know your Worthhhhhhhh
@sybilamuta6417 3 ай бұрын
BLESSINGS to you!!!God bless you.
@MsTrevia2010 3 ай бұрын
Yes, OMG, yes!! Please take heed!
@madelinemaldonado2717 4 ай бұрын
I feel so hurt and lost 😞
@browneyes9507 3 ай бұрын
It gets better hold on
@devinwilliams5334 3 ай бұрын
Good Message! 💯
@MrY3P Ай бұрын
Awesome information and so true
@Cecille_the_one 3 ай бұрын
Great message ❤️ Thank You
@user-pc2ts5yr6h 3 ай бұрын
My friend studies kaballah, I am Christian. I was baptized born again 43 yrs ago, he's studied kaballah 38. He told ne he'd study Christianity for 6 mo if I'd study kaballah. I agreed, but he never set the computer up foe me to study, and I'd ask him to read the Bible from pg 1 to the end, asking God to Open it, to unfold the code to you. No one can tell you what's in the Bible but God. After you know what is, you share it, and those who hear are of like mind.
@ImbueU88 4 ай бұрын
Yes, you better speak from experience!! Thank u
@user-jm7fw4gd9u 3 ай бұрын
Is this why my ex kept coming back for years, because of guilt or just because I kept taking him back? Was he just using me when he had no one else?
@Angel-lm6cj 4 ай бұрын
Do narsaccist men have a conscience?
@jozejeaux3962 10 күн бұрын
My ex husband is a perfect example. I've never known him to drink and he's now an alcoholic. He looks terrible and this is after I divorced him in 2009. He looks much older now with a pot belly...ew
@ms.tj_love 4 ай бұрын
Let me find out you intuitive too!🤔
@lifecoachtenirabyrd5976 3 ай бұрын
A vision board woman..❤ yesss 🔥🙏👑
@darlenerush5389 4 ай бұрын
Thank You Derrick ❤❤❤
@SophiaParker-mc3kg 4 ай бұрын
That’s me 🤚🤚 don’t recognize me at all!😢
@christineribone9351 4 ай бұрын
6 ft 5" !!!
@cindyvazquez4333 3 ай бұрын
Wow you know peoples pain in their emotions🙏🙏❤
@brimoore1982 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. 💜
@user-mq6zn9pc8o 4 ай бұрын
Real Talk 🙏
@YazminM2222 3 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@dwilliams5700 4 ай бұрын
Amen Derrick ... Amen 🙏🏼❤
@sheilablanton4894 4 ай бұрын
Ty for this message 👍
@KatieForsythe-rl1xp 3 ай бұрын
Thank you ….. just thankyou ❤
@darlenerush5389 4 ай бұрын
Love You Derrick 💓💓💓
@Keana43 2 ай бұрын
Tell'em D❤
@candacewilson6807 3 ай бұрын
He broke me when I was very young and wouldn’t speak to me or looked at me since. So I never was told why. The last thing he said to me was cruel. After attempting to stop my pain, I repressed the memories. 43 years later, it all came back, including the pain. I reached out again, to ask why, and he blocked me. Still, no answer. So, I wrote a book about the experience.
@daniellehalo6923 3 ай бұрын
So sorry you went through that.
@candacewilson6807 3 ай бұрын
@@daniellehalo6923 -Thank you for your words. I am still going through the healing of it, since I repressed it for so long, I never allowed myself to grieve from it until now. So imagine healing from a break up that happened when you were 16, when you are 60!
@ahmedlago6651 3 ай бұрын
Yes u are correct, I lived it
@SharonShepard-sf3th 3 ай бұрын
Continue to do the good work.
@feeldevine9641 3 ай бұрын
Love this ❤
@tammyfitzgerald5336 3 ай бұрын
Why single the new thang 2024
@s.d.crockett486 3 ай бұрын
Very insightful
@StrengthNLove 3 ай бұрын
Woman love you first
@Soulhearts4ever 3 ай бұрын
talk is Cheap anyone can afford it....
@sheilak2835 3 ай бұрын
✅ Absolutely right!
@teresastocker9938 4 ай бұрын
I was a Good Woman to my Ex partner hee went back to his Baby Mama I guess she was better or I was a placeholder until she took him back not sure I brought future, love honestly compassion showing bring loyalty softness
@ChocolateLover4365 4 ай бұрын
Same!
@tonyarogers8887 Ай бұрын
Not if he narcissistic
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