Signs You Are Being Pushed Out Of Your Job
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Күн бұрынAre you being pushed out of your job? Being pushed out if your job is one of the worst things that can happen to you at work. If your company doesn’t need you, wouldn’t they just fire you? It’s easier for your boss to make you leave your job, because firing costs the company money, paperwork and a bad work environment. How to know when to leave your job? If your employer is trying to get rid of you these are the most common signs for you to find out.
Your boss suddenly turns into a micromanager, wanting you to quit. And there is no reason for you to wait around to find out if you are right, your best bet is finding another job and quitting. If your journey within the company is coming to an end, it’s time for you to polish your resume and start looking for another role. You will get through this unpleasant situation. People experiencing getting pushed out of their job tend to start blaming themselves. And this is the last thing you need. Don’t be harsh on yourself, because you wouldn’t be successful in this situation no matter how hard you tried. I’ve made more videos on how to deal with a toxic situation at work, check it out:
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Anyone who has worked for a toxic boss knows how they can impact all the aspects of your life! Your confidence, your self-esteem tend to go away. But not when you stop being afraid! Working in a constant state of fear is extremely damaging. Think of the worst which could happen to you at work? Getting fired! Which is nowhere as bad as turning into a walking zombie. Researchers who did studies on more than 3000 people, found out that employees who have managers with toxic traits are 60 percent more likely to suffer a heart attack or other life-threatening condition.
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@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
Have you ever experienced being pushed out of your job? Did you leave or did you get fired?
@vikki8699 2 жыл бұрын
Yep, happened recently and too be honest, I feel so much better being away from that place. Nothing I did was good enough and the micromanagement and bullying was killing me. I am healing now with therapy as I have found the job gaslighted me a lot too. Could you do a video on boss' gaslight you?
@obgfoster 2 жыл бұрын
It's happening to me now. Everything you said. The job market has only just started to reopen in my field, so I've been stuck with a boss who can't find time to read my emails or meet with me, but she finds time to craft the perfectly vaguely worded performance review that resulted in $0.00 raise. When she pauses in our Zoom meetings it's not because she's writing down what she's promised to do for me. It's because she's writing down something I said so she can use it against me. She sends emails that make it clear she's trying to frame everything I do in the worst possible way. I'm documenting everything she says and does, and responding in email to all of this so that her behavior is also being documented (and I'm bcc'ing all of it to a personal email account). At this point, I'm trying to protect my unemployment benefits, since there's no hope of protecting my prospects for a raise, my enjoyment of my job, my ability to do my job (everything has to go through her and she doesn't green light my projects until there's no time to do them, if she pays attention to it at all), and I certainly can't protect my dignity anymore. All attempts to defend myself against unwarranted criticism have been framed as "unwilling to accept supervisory direction." Even tiny mistakes are counted against me in performance reviews, while my boss is extremely careless about her work and always gets really big raises. I have given up the fantasy that the workplace is a fair place, and have resigned myself to just marking time until I can escape. Meanwhile, I'm contributing to my national professional organization and turning my focus to anything that can go onto a website not controlled by my boss. Also, in case my boss has installed a keystroke logger onto my computer: Hey, there, boss! Did you know that I hate you as much as you hate me?
@obgfoster 2 жыл бұрын
p.s. I actually wrote that on my coffee break, but still...
@albertpd4994 2 жыл бұрын
@@obgfoster that's so similar indeed it's scary how such people can make your work life impossible
@vikki8699 2 жыл бұрын
@@obgfoster exactly what I have just gone through. My manager forved me into an emotional break down and in the first time in my career I was off with work related stress. I walked from that job due to management sticking together abd basically held my under duress to resign. So glad I walked away and I hope you can do so soon!
@pame4345 7 ай бұрын
People need to realize that your coworkers are not your friends.
@andres6868 4 ай бұрын
because you spend more hours with them than with your real friends and even than with your family, you think they are friends but they are not, they are actually relishing the prospect of you getting fired if this means more responsabilities for them
@johnpastore7685 4 ай бұрын
Yes, it’s a game call job politics
@Awareness-ob1lg 4 ай бұрын
this is all wrong. It shouldn't be like that. It's an institutional thinking but it strongly make our lives so hard. Have a look ta this world : How about "sharing everything willfully" and I'm not being ideological really but I feel this is a way out. No one should find it hard to live, eat and get a decent sleep in a home. Resources should be enough for everyone and they are. But billionaires are a role model to average people and this is the problem really ! As if people want this bad system. No billionaire can be as such without the agreement by the general public on the scarcity of money, here comes the virtue of "sharing willfully". This isn't initiated by the government btw, everything starts from the people. The bad system will break within days and all suffering shall end everywhere. We have great powers ! This is what no one wants us to believe, especially those in power who would like us to feel fine about being selfish and to be satisfied by any downside perspective or low ambition in life as low as preserving a job, and delude us that the problem is technical somehow and try all means to distract us by leveraging side topics. We can write articles about how bright our future will then be after we start sharing everything willfully. Things are devastating to local citizens only ? no. What happens today in Gaza is a natural byproduct of the arrogance of elites which happened 100 years ago back in Palestine when land was stolen and natives there didn't ever have the chance in self determination. Ever. Forget everything about democracy. All lies. And then resistance against the Z people (who control your government now) emerged and grew ever more and we reached here.
@nickyzwan2122 4 ай бұрын
They're like pet cats. Friendly and warm, but they will feast on your corpse 20 minutes after you die.
@Antoinette617 3 ай бұрын
I never fell into this trap I never trusted or confided in coworkers.
@chriswatson1698 Жыл бұрын
Before they get rid of you, they use you to train your successor.
@TheMwendaa Жыл бұрын
Oh my God!!! The WORST!
@napsec9807 Жыл бұрын
That's what I'm going through, I'm now training a guy to do the job i've been doing and they told me that they will move me to do something that "fits more my profile of worker" aka a shitty job that will make me want to quit.
@adaptercrash Жыл бұрын
They are terrible they'll never be able to do what i can do and their oversize will go down from here someone please close this place down they want one company rep and a bunch of these agency
@marcusa.rivera6377 Жыл бұрын
Just walk 'em
@dennisrobinson8008 Жыл бұрын
@@napsec9807 You must be a high powered work horse in there...
@datalore6187 Жыл бұрын
Do NOT go to human resources, they cannot help you. Also, unions cannot help you. If your boss doesn't like you anymore, the best thing to do it find another job.
@Savvynomad225 Жыл бұрын
Always observe actions and careful with trusting their direct words. Bosses will usually give subtle signs they want you to leave.
@ronc3348 Жыл бұрын
Union will not help you at all. I'm in a union and I was suspended for 3 days and wrote up again a week later. They are trying to make an example of me to everyone else hahaha 😂 I don't even ask for a union rep because they always just side with the company anyways.
@you_only_have_4000_weeks Жыл бұрын
Your boss does not own the company. Never quit your job just because someone is bleeding down there. Do great work, be on time, be a team player and make your money. Leave in your terms
@MannyLoxx2010 11 ай бұрын
Sueing will get them good!!
@JohnFKennedy313 10 ай бұрын
@@ronc3348that just defeats the purpose of a union. Unions were made to help workers initially, but yeah if they basically just a sheep in wolf’s clothing taking sides with the company more than the workers then fuck them.
@heyheyhey40 4 ай бұрын
“If your supervisor doesn’t care anymore, it’s time for you to stop caring too.”
@RocketPipeTV 2 ай бұрын
Don’t kid yourself. They never care, except for themselves.
@bryanbrooks2634 2 ай бұрын
Big facts💯
@4040smokey Жыл бұрын
Hardest part about being pushed out is people think you are crazy when you try to describe what is happening. The harder you try to describe it the crazier you sound. Classic gas lighting. It's brutal to go thru.
@aandyherr817 Жыл бұрын
America has the most guns per people. The least mental healthcare. Let that sink in. Yes. This is a threat. Someone will shoot the damn place up lol best be aware that pushing people out maliciously is a bad idea. Also, companies pushing people out maliciously can cause specific… investigations, by the IRS. Just saying, you can report anonymously to the IRS or OSHA.
@DefinitelyNotMetallourgos Жыл бұрын
some good old character assassination as they say it!
@earlaweese Жыл бұрын
*You have inalienable rights - speak up for yourself when people do this and don’t be afraid to CHARGE in retaliation. Unless you’re deliberately doing something to sabotage (FOR NO REASON EITHER - OTHER THAN YOU KNOWING THAT YOU’RE A SADIST) the business, then you’re 100% innocent and have every right to stand up for yourself.*
@anarki777 Жыл бұрын
Haha, yes. I remember I started cataloguing the ways in which my manager was lying about me. At the same time, I was fully self-aware in the knowledge that to someone who was not paying close attention I might look like I had gone batshit insane.
@iiiii5256 Жыл бұрын
It's brutal, but the good thing is it happened to so many people that it's practically an open secret. People do believe you, even those that don't want to admit it.
@tranger4579 Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as a secure job.
@coldbreeze35 10 ай бұрын
Facts
@kenanaojacob2854 9 ай бұрын
In my country, it is really difficult to get fired from a government job. You work till retirement unless you really screw up , . . . . .
@tonyp9313 9 ай бұрын
@@kenanaojacob2854Yeah this isn't africa or some 3rd World country. Here in North America if they don't like you, you better start looking for another job.
@leotherealosopher6805 7 ай бұрын
Unless you're Good at Kissin butt, might buy you a few more years lol
@nyb_ok 6 ай бұрын
@@tonyp9313yeah, in my country too if you work for govt, you are all set. You don't have to worry about anything.
@SolarSailor1967 3 ай бұрын
Don't quit. Have fun. Get fired.
@CHEWFACE-P Ай бұрын
Absolutely true
@israelruiz8706 Ай бұрын
True. Once you see the writing on the wall that you do not have a future in the companh. My best suggestion I tell everyone is. Just do your work that you are paid to do. No more no less. Stop staying late for them and going out of your way for them. Do that until you either find a job or get terminated so that way you can take an extended vacation with some unemployment
@tjj5337 Ай бұрын
That is what I do…. I will never quit… let them fire me
@cyzhang91 Ай бұрын
But time wasted which are not able to get back 😢
@jacobwinn2765 Ай бұрын
Being fired doesn’t reflect well on your cv. This isn’t a game, so resign, get your reference, and work out the remaining 4 weeks or whatever with less stress. In the meantime, find a new role.
@amtam05 Жыл бұрын
This is happening to me right now. Every tiny little mistake I make is being blown up to epic proportions. The worst thing is that people I thought were my friends suddenly started talking behind my back and actually doing my boss his job of pushing me out. I hate people.
@seupadonald5067 Жыл бұрын
You only have colleagues at the work place not "friends". It takes much to consider someone as a friend.
@wlove3838 Жыл бұрын
Don't lose heart, you are not alone. You will find something better and more suited to you. As for that boss and your former colleagues ...karma can be a beast!
@cl1xor Жыл бұрын
Me too atm, it’s a mental nightmare and i’m constantly stressed. But i believe better things will come. Take care
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
I'm hearing similar / competitive horror stories
@sygad1 Жыл бұрын
take great comfort in malicious compliance, do EXACTLY what they ask and NOTHING more, I have been through this, I used to laugh my ass off knowing they were trying to get rid of me but I was too awkward to let them shit can me. I did eventually leave when something I was interested in appeared but I also enjoyed the pathetic attempt they made.
@Kat-tr2ig Жыл бұрын
They did this to my dad right before he was about to retire. I guess the "reasoning" was that they didn't want to pay for his retirement. Dad, however, is both obstinate and petty, and did everything he could to make sure the boss' life was hell without doing anything that would get him fired. He won, and was able to retire.
@bunnyboo6295 Жыл бұрын
Old gen is tough and can see through BS
@Kat-tr2ig Жыл бұрын
@@bunnyboo6295 it's hilarious the things Dad did, from heating fish in the microwave to not restocking the coffee station to replacing all the chalkboard 's white chalk with pink ones to getting rid of the office candy and putting out fruit instead to moving all of the desks over 2 inches to the left...he got really creative and I applaud him.
@mvnorsel6354 Жыл бұрын
Well done, great for mental health to leave on your own terms.
@natashabaguyo9249 Жыл бұрын
Kudos to ur dad !
@soprano94 Жыл бұрын
@@Kat-tr2ig I'm honestly inspired
@adriandj3141 3 ай бұрын
If they suddenly watch and scrutinize every little thing you do while glossing over obvious wrong doings from other people it’s a sign they want you to quit.
@Incel_81 15 күн бұрын
And that’s a sign for you to fight back and stop being a push over.
@TheGodOfGematria 13 күн бұрын
@@Incel_81 Good luck doing this at clique corporate gigs, u could identify the issues and email a VP at the company and it won't do anything
@Incel_81 13 күн бұрын
@@TheGodOfGematria I’m union. 😂
@Incel_81 13 күн бұрын
@@TheGodOfGematria use a camera. Two wrongs make a right. Remember that.
@TheGodOfGematria 13 күн бұрын
@@Incel_81 after publishing a book on the dangers of wiretapping, I actually do leave wiretaps in my workplace. I like using the DOJ's silly tactics on employers. The amount of toxic gossip I get to tune into is almost more interesting than watching the new Fallout show, which ironically has wiretapping in it so someone learns that unpleasant truth about someone 😂
@fenderek666 11 ай бұрын
Never, EVER go to HR They are usually in the know about the plans…
@dennismclaurin1487 10 ай бұрын
Thanks, for sharing this
@johnpastore7685 15 күн бұрын
You can, I did. I worked out at times. Other times, it did not. When it didn’t, then you look for another job
@dsm2240 6 ай бұрын
The big problem at work is that you just can't do your job. You have to deal with so much interpersonal cow dung.
@deshaabernathy482 5 ай бұрын
Literally my thoughts exactly
@inklingduckling7087 2 ай бұрын
Agreed
@jamesburton7445 2 ай бұрын
Well said 👌
@kelly8107 Ай бұрын
Exactly why I quit the very industry I love. On a high note, I make more money, double, than my old coworkers. They're still in that hell hole!
@smoothiecutie2277 29 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@markstone7219 2 жыл бұрын
When everything is your fault and your boss hates you, magically your colleagues don’t want to hang out with you anymore…
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes one goes hand in hand with another!
@honeyyu5763 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree. Because they will feel that they might experience same way as how your boss treats you. So sadddd.
@natesmith134 Жыл бұрын
but...were all family here
@pandemits Жыл бұрын
Yes. That's actually a lesson for which you should be grateful: no matter how nicely you get along (or not), they are always your colleagues, not your friends.
@SuperKarineka Жыл бұрын
@@pandemits That's so true!!
@nineangels7572 Жыл бұрын
Just remember "Karma" will catch up to the bad boss or supervisor. Nobody needs to be treated badly or singled out, especially when it isn't your work quality, it's a personal grudge or dislike, even jealousy.
@craigsmith9876 Жыл бұрын
Not true sometimes it just never comes around. It's a nice thought but life ain't like that.
@derickmls14 Жыл бұрын
Yup !!!! You’re right !!! I️ got pushed out by my boss and his boss (me and my boss were actually “friends”outside of work so I️ thought.) and apparently the whole office knew but me. They actually tried to have me train my replacement also lol ….not…. But karma came right around a couple of months later. The whole office staff got fired by corporate. Including my boss and his boss. Lmao I️ loved that I️ got to see it (over Facebook) but I still got to see them squirm. Lol What goes around comes around. You’ll always reap what you sow when you treat people that way.
@dianaverano7878 Жыл бұрын
Yup. Something great will happen after "being pushed out" Criticized first then " pushed out" by the small company I was in + used covid as an excuse not to call people to report back, after many months, I was able to find a work in the govt, with laid back type of coworkers + boss. Everyday is a happy day now. My entry to the company was so smooth because I am qualified to what they are looking for (civil service, work experience, etc)
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if Rom.12:19 relates to this
@derickmls14 Жыл бұрын
@@dennismclaurin1487 sure does ! We shouldn’t want God to punish people, pray for mercy on them over all but you WILL. NOT get away with messing with Gods people. He don’t play about that. At All!
@frankali5203 4 ай бұрын
Its called workplace bullying
@bobpage6597 Жыл бұрын
I've been in a similar situation - 10 years ago. The worst thing was, I knew it was coming. I saw the emails going back and forth plotting my 'removal' while they were all smiles to my face. They never quite understood why my attitude towards them changed, and I resigned the day before their plan came to fruition. It was a learning experience. I was 27 at the time, still naive enough. Now I don't really trust anyone I work with - I'll work with people and do the job to the best of my ability, but I don't get chummy with colleagues - because a knife in the back comes from anyone in the work place. I don't attend functions, and I don't go on work nights out. I've completely compartmentalised my work life. Trust no one.
@parker1981xxx Жыл бұрын
Why didn't you wait just one more day to collect your severance payment?
@bobpage6597 Жыл бұрын
@@parker1981xxx Because I got what I needed regardless, I got the same pay as if I worked my notice and I was still paid all my accrued holiday time that I hadn't taken (I'm in the UK btw not the US). They didn't hold me to working my notice and were happy to let me go. In the UK at least, that's normal. Companies want an employee gone quickly if they're departing on 'bad' terms. I resigned though for two reasons: 1. I was taking control of the situation, and denying them the satisfaction of firing me. 2. Its far better at an interview later to say you resigned because the company no longer met your aspirations. Its crippling if you have to admit you were fired. I probably wouldn't have seen it coming if I hadn't been watching their emails (foresight by me as I didn't trust them when things started to go sour) - it was a learning experience how duplicitous people in the workplace can be.
@jaz6382 Жыл бұрын
@@bobpage6597 the last sentence: '....how duplicitous people in the workplace can be...' gets me time and time again, how/why do they do that? I know it is a rat race but how much is it really worth? Are they the people who will say at the end: Hmmm, I stepped on everyone and did not gain much (regret) or I stepped on everyone and now I am rich? Would't want to be either of the types. The sentence: I resigned because the company no longer met my aspirations..... was an eye opener for me 😁but isn't it a bit complaint-ly towards the old company, a bit negative? (the Uk view here as well). I am sure you are doing well 10yrs on and wishing you all the best going forward too! 👍
@bobpage6597 Жыл бұрын
@@jaz6382 Yeah I'm doing fine now - I've never had a problem with saying a company no longer meets my aspirations. Its not impossible for an employee to hit a ceiling and find within an organisation there's nowhere else to go. If they're not giving you any new projects or not looking to promote you......well, you're not going to stay in your cubby hole forever. You can further slant that to be a positive at an interview by clarifying you're looking for new and fresh challenges etc. To be honest, its all BS anyway - you fluff it all up in the hopes they give you the job ha! That said, I'm 38 now and I'm a very different person from how I was 10 years ago. I'm getting my own side gig turned into a business so I'll be self employed in the next six to eight months at most, but hopefully sooner than that :) I've had enough working for someone else - time to do what I want now.
@jaz6382 Жыл бұрын
@@bobpage6597 Yes interviews are funny games, I usually lose interest half way through 😔 Glad to hear you have exciting plans and wishing you lots of success in the future 🍀
@davychan101 Жыл бұрын
If I know a employer hates my guts and wants me to quit,I will stay as long as I can and do even better at my work, it's pure torture for them.
@GibetTheCatFOURTWENTY666XXX69 Жыл бұрын
That's right screw them! Make your money and gtf outta there!
@hongdang4630 Жыл бұрын
I just do my job and ignore them.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, for sharing your comment
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
@@GibetTheCatFOURTWENTY666XXX69 I prefer to be my own boss, as well. That POS I work for doesn't deserve his position. If the world were right, the wicked in charge would be the ones pushed out,and working in lower positions for less pay
@jmgmarcus808 5 ай бұрын
I feel like I'm frozen in that exact position for 25 years now.
@emmsummer7811 9 ай бұрын
When my boss wanted me out my coworkers also ganged up on me, so happy I am over that toxic place and I took my time to build my self esteem back again.
@k.chriscaldwell4141 Жыл бұрын
Colleagues and others act differently and avoid eye contact. Pack your stuff up, you’re the last to know.
@bringingproductstolife 6 ай бұрын
1:00 - Sign #1 - Micromanagement 1:51 - Sign #2 - Passed over for promotions or raises and/or low performance reviews 2:38 - Sign #3 - They now document everything 3:45 - Sign #4 - They take away work with no explanation 4:28 - Sign #5 - You are excluded from meetings, calls and emails 5:40 - Solution #1 - Start looking for new work while employed 6:00 - Solution #2 - Do not blame yourself or be too self critical if you're being pushed out as there is no way to win 6:20 - Solution #3 - Start focusing on your next project, your transition
@user-sb3sn8di1s 5 ай бұрын
I experienced all the five signs: one after the other, it is as though you were in my office.
@ronaldkavehagi2988 4 ай бұрын
Very very true. Solution is to start looking for exit
@IceSk8Princessa12 7 күн бұрын
@@user-sb3sn8di1sRight?! And in that same order for me!
@domesticatedwolverine4152 6 ай бұрын
The silver bullet to this is to become the slowest employee in everything you do.
@prinz89 Жыл бұрын
This is being done to me now. I'm not leaving. I'm fighting these hyenas to the bitter end.
@clinthufkie3242 Жыл бұрын
They'll use all the dirty tricks and you'll get to a point where you cannot fight it, because you're not willing to sacrifice your ethics the way the corporates are.
@devingreenhow2628 Жыл бұрын
I quit after being picked on for months. For your well being and sanity, just quit. Make them feel it by coming in and quitting on the spot no 2 week notice.
@abrahamcisneros1425 4 ай бұрын
I stayed till they fired me then collected unemployment almost immediately got a way better job that paid $7 more and made double my yearly max gross pay that I had at first company 😂 they can suk it 😮
@bluesun2001 4 ай бұрын
Terrarium I call it 😂😂😂 Women are more mean than men, so watch out for those bitches.
@bluesun2001 4 ай бұрын
@@abrahamcisneros1425awesome! Will Florida pay unemployment if they fire me prior an annual review?
@mohammadsaheidmiah8282 2 ай бұрын
Most places and companies have become so poxy that they don't even respect you anymore.
@buicklincoln Жыл бұрын
Here's a first sign: Your boss hires someone (without your knowledge or consultation) and you are told by your boss that this individual was hired to "report" to you and help you.
@the_batman6506 Жыл бұрын
So true
@gloriakovacevic5024 4 ай бұрын
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@caric8133 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been through this. It was miserable. They did everything they could to push me out. Finally I quit because my mental health was worth more. It destroyed my confidence and is not only inhumane but it’s so cruel to do to an employee. The criticism was horrific, excessive and petty. I met impossible deadlines but I wasn’t part of the clique. I put up with this for over a year until I hit my breaking point mentally. It was all horrible and mentally exhausting but I think the most gut wrenching was having my usual assignments taken away. Things I worked hard to master but my boss said I was too slow. This didn’t make sense because I would have everything done by the end of the business day and zero errors. She said I needed tasks done within 2 hours so I could be assigned more and I wasn’t up to standard. Looking back it was insane what I put up with and that level of mental abuse
@SymbolicSplenetic 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you. Been there and put up with it for way too long. Almost made me completely give up on my career.
@najumehra1966 Жыл бұрын
These bosses are known as workplace psychopaths! honestly they should be all behind bars with real psychopaths.
@Plisk001 Жыл бұрын
Your comment shook me to my core. I thought I was the only one going through this. Trying to be optimistic and hoping things will change for the better.
@SymbolicSplenetic Жыл бұрын
@@Plisk001 Generally they'll change when you change jobs. In my experience this kind of shit doesn't change easily within a company/department.
@NostalgiaVibes420 Жыл бұрын
Same thing I just went through! I made the best decision to just quit. It wasn’t worth my self respect and mental health. Best of luck to you as well 🫶🏽
@godscommandmentsaretruthis2837 Жыл бұрын
I've been through this several times. It's absolutely horrific. The modern white-collar world is a horrible place to work, riddled with giant egos and people who do not want you to become greater than they are. Best thing to do is figure out a way to become self-employed. Glad I'm retired now and don't have to deal with all that nonsense.
@bradlong7941 Жыл бұрын
Whoa there, Partner. It is also in the menial, manual blue collar jobs. Many companies think skilled labor is a dime a dozen (especially prior to 2019) and you can be replaced by an untrained blind monkey at 4 pm on Thursday. Being over age 55 is deadly. Does not matter how much formal classroom training you have had, the number of State licences, or how many years experience.
@rememberthesabbathdayexodu1185 Жыл бұрын
@@bradlong7941 Spot on... I couldn't agree more.
@MayraYPerez Жыл бұрын
Yes, highly competitive toxic work environment.
@dennisrobinson8008 Жыл бұрын
Egos for what though? Its just a job.
@l.5832 Жыл бұрын
@@dennisrobinson8008 Not to them. Their entire identity is tied to it. Usually their home life is very dysfunctional. It's all they got.
@theoracle7148 Жыл бұрын
Look for work while you are still there. Always easier to find work while you are still in work. It’s only a job at the end of the day folks, don’t let it affect your mental health or get you down, it isn’t worth it.
@capitolia 2 ай бұрын
It depends. If they have to pay you a lot for firing you, it is sometimes better to wait for that depending on how much $$$ it is. Also it is different when one has invested money and the salary becomes a lesser part of the total income.
@silent_whispers319 8 ай бұрын
100% true! I just left a job that I exceled in for 7 years😢. They wanted me gone! I decided to quit on a Friday. Found a new job on a Monday without references. That's how valuable my new employer wanted me. Plus I'm making $5.00 more an hour.
@jerusalemspeaks 5 ай бұрын
This is a good outcome!
@agnogh1 4 ай бұрын
Great. 👏👏👏
@Haybcde 5 күн бұрын
What job?
@craigsmith9876 Жыл бұрын
Also remember that the HR Manager will not be on your side they will be protecting the company. Trust no one who may be in the circle of your boss if you are in a situation like this.
@hojo70 4 ай бұрын
This is absolutely correct. HR is not there for you, they are there to protect the company and mitigate litigation
@chesapeake09 4 ай бұрын
I totally agree. HR or People & Culture will always side with the company. They are on the payroll.
@andrepedzik2047 9 күн бұрын
The boss's inner circle is everyone that is still employed with him. No one is above getting a bonus or favors for putting you on the hot seat. Even if you feel your fellow employee is your best friend, that will mean nothing when faced with a inquisitive boss and the needs of his family and a steady pay check.
@georgieboy9101 9 ай бұрын
Do not resign. Let them terminate you, they will have to pay severance then.
@kimberleycollins61 2 ай бұрын
That is false. 😂
@JM-kd1mr 4 ай бұрын
Upper management does not care if your boss wants you out. Leave when you see the first red flags. Do not stay any longer where you are not welcomed.
@smoothiecutie2277 29 күн бұрын
Correct. Upper management is usually “in on it” so to speak.
@grease_monkey6078 Жыл бұрын
best way to get back at them is to refuse overtime or cover a shift for another staff member, they think you will do anything to keep your job but just do the bare minimum of helping them, don't quit your job just annoy them when they need you most
@user-vm8ci6of1m 8 ай бұрын
Get fired to receive unemployment
@user-ko5ul7yi1x 7 ай бұрын
For good measure, secretly spread their wussy plans/behavior of pushing you out to other employees so that coworkers would be aware how they aren't really respected. Eventually, production is going to go stagnant or sink, the turnover rate's going to be high for the company and they get a bad rep in glassdoor or something haha
@shawnmendrek3544 6 ай бұрын
oh ok good point.@@user-vm8ci6of1m
@shawnmendrek3544 5 ай бұрын
This is it.@@user-ko5ul7yi1x
@bradenahmet343 3 ай бұрын
That’s what I’m doing right now. I’m not fighting for my job I just stopped caring when the cut my wage. You think I’m going to do overtime after a wage cut ?! Hahaha
@CyranofromBergerac Жыл бұрын
I guess this should be termed quietly firing. I went through it last year. Apparently nobody liked working with me which is why over 20 texted me right after I walked out asking what was wrong. Many ironically claimed the manager wished I would have spoke with him before I left which is a bad idea when he and several supervisors were spreading lies. By walking out without talking with him he no longer controlled the narrative. My new job pays way more and it's much better. Don't beat yourself up if this is happening, just leave. Better things are out there.
@lindiwemlambo9410 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I am currently going through this. I was literally pushed out, I couldn’t take the bullying and emotional abuse anymore so I resigned.
@damienluedtke9276 Жыл бұрын
This is why you just collect the money and don’t care and do nothing because that’s what they want.
@acecala3576 6 ай бұрын
This is what my old parents advice me too when I get too much stressed out at work. But then, how do you grow up the ladded?
@Crazywaffle5150 4 ай бұрын
@acecala3576 Who cares? Keep collecting tell you job hope into something higher paying.
@AlissaSss23 Жыл бұрын
I am being pushed out of my job because I complained against being harassed by a bully. The management is so bad, thry used my disability against me in performance reviews. They can't fire me as I did nothing wrong, but they demand I stop having hearing and focus problems. Im taking them to court
@Imjustaviewforstudies Ай бұрын
Record them , write the date ,time. F em .
@angelasoto4540 Жыл бұрын
I was pushed out of an office job. It was horrible. I will never Good God work in an office again. I am now setting my hopes on becoming a carpenter.
@marks2997 4 ай бұрын
How did it work out for you Angela?
@Tiisiphone 2 жыл бұрын
I once faced 2 of these situations. Slowly buy surely, my projects were reassigned and I ended up with **nothing** to do. I was coming to the office and had strictly nothing to do. All of the sudden my colleagues started avoiding me like I was a tree about to be struck by lightning. Fortunately I was already looking for a new job, found it and left the company. It took me a while to get over this experience: it is psychological violence, and it leaves scars.
@maryfuentes5110 Жыл бұрын
Sooo true is very damaging!
@maryfuentes5110 Жыл бұрын
You should go and complain to human rights. Its awfal how managers misstreat to some employees.
@maryfuentes5110 Жыл бұрын
Blessings and all the best for you!
@Actaeon2nd Жыл бұрын
@@maryfuentes5110 In a toxic company the first thing you learn is that HR (Human Resources) are company stooges whose only job is to protect the company from lawsuits. They are not on your side. They are not your friends. Don't even talk to them.
@terriw919fyi Жыл бұрын
@@maryfuentes5110 Unfortunately, HR typically defends the company and bad bosses. Despite their "alleged" role of supporting employees, in reality, HR only protects the company.
@j96993 2 жыл бұрын
A setback is only a setup for a comeback.
@cindyeisenberg8367 Жыл бұрын
In nursing you get bullied. How they push you out is write ups, criticisms, cruelty, yelling at you, very difficult assignments that are not able to humanely get done, they won’t communicate with you, and working every single holiday or switching you to nights. Then, your colleagues stay away from you. This is very heartbreaking for anyone who goes through it and screws up your mental health. They do this over disabilities, being the wrong religion or anything they deem wrong. You also get mental beaten up. Due to my disability I am leaving the profession and never returning. I am not the only one. Many people are leaving the profession. 👩🏭👎😪
@markjakker2091 Жыл бұрын
Its run by women
@bradlong7941 Жыл бұрын
Burn out rate for nurses is about 6 years. Stay out of hospitals and nursing homes. Very toxic, very political. Look into working at a Doctor's clinic. They are usually lower stress, better hours... Unless the Doctor or office manager has a giant ego.
@Foxy_ladyYTSL Жыл бұрын
Uk RN here. I’m leaving too. It’s a toxic job...
@uzi710 Жыл бұрын
hopefully you'll be able find something better. that was awful
@cindyeisenberg8367 Жыл бұрын
@@uzi710 Thanks. My life is better now that I’m retired. I decided to retire early because of my disability.
@syringaflower1498 Жыл бұрын
This has happened to me countless times. I no longer trust anyone.
@erd675 2 жыл бұрын
This seems worse than them firing you. You work hard for them and one day they want you gone so they make work life hell.
@freedomdude5420 Жыл бұрын
Because the last thing they need is to write I fired him because I don’t like him not only that doesn’t look good in business it makes you look like a little boy or little girl which could lead to getting them fired them selves so that you settle tactics and gas line to get away with that is disgusting but it happens right I don’t think there should be no excuse for it.
@Actaeon2nd Жыл бұрын
They did that to me for more than four years until I finally quit and called it a retirement. It started when I was in my late 50's. Disgusting.
@alexanderfretheim5720 Жыл бұрын
@@freedomdude5420 Yes, which is why Human Resources needs to get more competent at tracking these situations down. REMEMBER: if they do this for a racist, sexist, xenophobic, age-discriminatory or (in some states) homophobic reason, it could lead to a lawsuit that costs the company tens of millions of dollars. The case law clearly says that hostile work environments ARE discrimination, even if they are not intended by the company. One idea we need to be rid of is the "chain of command". Your attitude should be more like an FBI agent trying to get info from the mob. Encourage underlings to rat out destructive, selfish and immature managers so that the company may be cleansed of their filth. You aren't the military, and even the military doesn't interpret that idea like this BS. Maybe we should even institute a quota: a certain percentage of managers have to be fired each year?
@ChickenMcThiccken Жыл бұрын
the place i worked for doesn't do 2 week notices. your gone same day.
@aandyherr817 Жыл бұрын
Make them fire you for not liking you, and make it hell right back. Piss on the rugs and drink everyone’s drink, or throw it away and pretend to not know what’s wrong.
@positivethinking4464 2 жыл бұрын
I've been bullied at work to the point when I just fell into a depression. They fired me and I am still on therapy, I am picking it up working on my self-esteem . Your videos help me!
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@positivethinking4464 2 жыл бұрын
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@Kari_Michele Жыл бұрын
💜🙏🏾
@cunningfox1798 Жыл бұрын
Username checks out. It's been a year. How are you doing?
@RedaReda-vl9ff Жыл бұрын
@@positivethinking4464 i hope for you happinness and health my friend
@BeardnScars 4 ай бұрын
I went thru this. God pulled me out and kept me around long enough just to show the others what was going on with me and the boss. Finally, I went above him and left the place. And now, I give everything to God who saw me thru that place and put me in a better spot.
@CommentingSomeMore 2 ай бұрын
Amen! Nothing is too hard for God. This gives me hope. I’m being pushed out of my job right now. Very stressful. But that’s why I’ll always put my faith in Christ who strengthens me.
@terryhaircastle5702 Ай бұрын
God was a colleague?
@meaneyedcat1248 Жыл бұрын
My last Boss, the CEO, tried this with me. The rudeness, bullying and hostility was daily. Projects were handed to others. Promotion was denied to me. I decided that he would be the one to leave first. It last five long years. Eventually, the Board of Directors fired him. He has another job for now. He created such a mess in our company, I can't begin to describe it. But I am free. My advice is: never give in and always leave from a position of strength.
@ellyturner6125 4 ай бұрын
😅
@user-zr6pl6nb6z Жыл бұрын
Why do people insist on referring to their managers as "boss"? "Boss" implies ownership. No company owns me.
@musicguy9101 Ай бұрын
Amen! I agree with you 💯
@retired69 Ай бұрын
They sure as hell think they own you, especially if you're a nurse.
@audiotechplus1 Ай бұрын
Very true. I do this and correct people all the time. There’s someone who manages the department, but I do not have a manager.
@pointnIaugh Жыл бұрын
My managers are terrified of me.
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😂😂😂❤
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@jdrifter8 Жыл бұрын
This happened to me at a former employer I had, it was a great job but the managers were terrible. I ended leaving and finding success elsewhere. I guess my only advice to anyone who is going through this is: Don’t sink to their level Don’t take that shit home Continue to do your job And the biggest piece of advice aside from getting another job is, every time they tell you something no matter how informal or obsolete it may seem, say these words: “ I want it in writing in an email or statement, everything you just said to me right now” I bet they will start to back off. Because they are the biggest crooks of all
@shawnmendrek3544 6 ай бұрын
Oh nice.
@jaydenp4975 5 ай бұрын
Yeah but even after you say that the email never comes.
@_the_invisible_ 5 ай бұрын
No, they won’t back off. People’s pettiness is at record-high levels nowadays, it’s mind-blowing in the most absurd way.
@tercial 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly how do these managers feel doing things like this smh I wouldn't feel good about myself if I have to do all these things to an employee
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you. This typically is being done at toxic workplaces where an employee isn’t valued.
@tercial 2 жыл бұрын
@@myemmotion yeah I had the recent bad experience of being put on a PIP for a week and a half just to have a reason to remove me, so I'm back looking for another role I was only there for 4 months
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
@@tercial I am really sorry to hear that. PIP with a management that isn’t supportive is a “slow death” at the role. And 4 months is such a short amount of time, they haven’t really given you a chance. Have you applied to other positions?
@tercial 2 жыл бұрын
@@myemmotion yeah true. I've been applying however nothing as of yet.
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
@@tercial Sometime much better will come along very soon! Best of luck and keep me posted!
@tricksgrl2 4 ай бұрын
When every time you go to work your assignments are becoming more difficult… moving the goal post while gaslighting you.
@ReturnOfTheJ.D. Жыл бұрын
One sign is when they kick out your boss - you might be the next target, as you only survived because they had a more annoying person to go after. Now they're gone, you're the next in line!
@Scarlet-Enchantress Жыл бұрын
Just happened where I’m at!
@ReturnOfTheJ.D. Жыл бұрын
@@Scarlet-Enchantress Meaning that the boss was fired and then the next most annoying person? Or just the boss got fired and now they're setting their sights on you or someone you work with?
@Scarlet-Enchantress Жыл бұрын
@@ReturnOfTheJ.D. boss got fired and one person has been told they’re about to be let go, and I actually have a meeting with the people firer today so I may be let go as well. It’s a toxic workplace though, so I don’t even think I’m upset at this point. True colors are being shown
@ReturnOfTheJ.D. Жыл бұрын
@@Scarlet-Enchantress So many Boomers aren't working now that there's vacancies everywhere - is it really a concern for you?
@jeffhenrichs3867 Жыл бұрын
I have found that if you're company is not giving you enough work, even though you have told them that you can take more on and don't have much to do, then that might be a sign too.
@albertom7679 2 жыл бұрын
I think being fired is better than being pushed away.
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, and it's better being fired fast rather than being pushed out for months and then getting fired.
@shutit4024 2 жыл бұрын
Yup you can get unemployment
@shootingbricks8554 Жыл бұрын
If you can handle the stress
@willieboy8798 Жыл бұрын
being fired is hard on your employment record and being a competetive candidate....so set your dainty azz feeling aside!!!
@halfbakedproductions7887 Жыл бұрын
Friend of mine once just resigned when faced with BS disciplinary action. Couldn't be bothered with the process and felt he'd just had enough. He would probably have won his case (because it was garbage and he'd easily have won at tribunal had he been sacked), but that was a culmination of other compounding factors that made the job intolerable and he decided to go on his own terms, rather than risk losing and being fired which would have been a nightmare in terms of getting another gig. The court action would also have been too stressful as well. It was a blessing in disguise because it forced him to wake up and take some real action having stalled forever.
@Sy2023hk Жыл бұрын
This is happening to me right now... I don't understand why they employed me in the first place. I find when you're junior/middleweight level you're safe, but as soon as I became senior level I've had nothing but trouble from supervisors etc. When you show you're capable - supervisors get resentful and nervous. In my experience, Senior level jobs aren't about being productive, it's about staying alive.
@---zg7ex Жыл бұрын
so damn true, more experienced you are, more uncapable boss hates you
@dianaverano7878 Жыл бұрын
It's not about being productive, capable or smart. It's popularity contest like high school all over again.
@---zg7ex Жыл бұрын
@@dianaverano7878 correct me if i am wrong, really depends on the company, there are those firm who really need to produce vs those companies who are saying to produce but underneath have other goals or purpose decided by the management
@dianaverano7878 Жыл бұрын
@@---zg7ex it is true that it depends on the company culture + boss. I experienced favoritism in my first job by the boss micromanaging as part of the system from executive to all employees. The favorite employee is absent for 1 month but our boss signs her DTR form with no remarks = receiving complete salary She was last yr employee of the yr. I went out of the company in 2017, and to this day, my former boss still mentions me as a good employee (my friends who remained tells me the story) That boss made it sure, nobody gets permanent position unless you are a favorite. Everybody else became contractual because of her.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
You just about described my case exactly
@LeeJahn-ih9xu 6 ай бұрын
Human Resources the absolute WORST thing that happened to businesses… when it was personal dept it was wonderful and business owners cared about their employees, greed has taken over the world , such a shame 😢
@onslaughtmp Жыл бұрын
I remember when a boss wanted to push me out of my position for a mistress of his. I had to train someone who wanted to know everything I did for my location even though they were supposed to be training for another. Any small failure was magnified and I noticed a ridiculous paper trail started to be formed to paint me in a negative light. My work ethic is solid... So I went to a job that rewards hard work and merit. I'm super happy!
@Black.Sabbath 2 жыл бұрын
Not sure about micromanaging, but definitely hot and cold. Keeping me out, and then buttering me up when he needs me.
@B0sTonCeltics20534 Жыл бұрын
This happened to me, I said meh and just sat my desk playing video games for 3 months while searching for a new job... they eventually fired me for poor performance but I basically got 3 months of free pay and I had a job lined up right away after they let me.
@bluesun2001 4 ай бұрын
That's exactly my plan 😂 Sit there, send resumes and just do my minimum. There are not enough accountants with a diligence of mine in Florida. Most are spoiled and whiney millennials (no offence, kids) 😂 Wait untill they walk me out haha
@INFJparadox Жыл бұрын
I am currently going thru this. How can they get away with doing this to people? My manager is being petty, lying, and pulling all the tricks you just mentioned. And yes, making my life miserable. You can never defend yourself. And searching for a new job isn't easy, especially if the market does not have many openings. I am a single mom and my job is my only source of income. Plus, I have been in this field for 30 years and yes, get paid nearly $20,000 less than I deserve. They know all of this. Deliberately doing this to people just because they can should be illegal. They are messing with people's livelihoods and get away with everything. This is not right and it also hurts your reputation. I'm a new subscriber--thank you so much!
@earlbaker3996 Жыл бұрын
62 and going through it right now
@dennismclaurin1487 10 ай бұрын
Same Age
@IceSk8Princessa12 7 күн бұрын
Me too! Going to be 60 soon.
@MarcosRodriguez-es4gz 2 жыл бұрын
you make a good point, why do we blame ourselves when it's them that are not being fair to us? I kept feeling this way at my previous job, feeling like a loser
@workoutathomeideas2873 2 жыл бұрын
You are right bro! being self conscious has its disadvantages
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
Because we are being gaslighted into thinking that it's our fault, that we are not good enough and that we should do better.
@Kari_Michele Жыл бұрын
@@myemmotion Yea, that’s exactly what happened to me… 😢
@dennisrobinson8008 Жыл бұрын
You only feel that way if you hang on. If someone was going out their way to make you feel badly why would you care?
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
This is an evil, perverse, biased, adulterous system
@nicholasrosen6342 Жыл бұрын
Based on my past employment and my current employment when your boss doesn't like you trying to push you out they will criticize and talk down to you while a boss who appreciates you more will give you constructive feedback and motivate you to do your work.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
I'm experiencing this now, Nicolas
@melissagreen_ 6 ай бұрын
Yes and that's exactly why we shouldn't blame ourselves because the very act of pushing people out of their jobs verges on criminal incompetence, it's certainly highly unethical and costs companies dearly. It's basically because the 'manager' can't be bothered to manage!
@XxBrittany20xX Жыл бұрын
At Chipotle, it was my first job and I was happy to work. I even offered working late and wouldn't give up. Of course the employees bullied me and cut my hours after a couple of weeks. A month later I came in for work, and they sat me down the moment I entered and said "we are letting you go" I couldn't even work that one last day. I cried walking all the way down the street blocks away trying not to cry and found my family shopping where they said they were going. I hated them for how they treated me and I was so depressed for a year. I couldn't find another job. I then became a caregiver for my state and I'm happy. I'm appreciated and great at my job in the medical field. It's just as well, I wanted to work in the medical field since I was a child. Not fast food. And I make 20 dollars a hour. So I'm happy.
@Charlena-fh7sb 4 ай бұрын
Disgusting the way they treated you but that's their bad karma not yours! You are special and God has something great for you 😊😊
@steffidas4785 5 ай бұрын
It's actually funny when you think about the contemporaries and the management actually focussing on pushing people out rather than getting shit done,it's truly funny lmao🤣🤣
@ronaldomaia 10 ай бұрын
Companies usually like to do passive aggressive attitudes against you, but blame you when you're quiet quitting
@hollywoodmkx Жыл бұрын
“You know…it doesn’t really matter. I don’t like it and…I don’t think I’m going to go anymore.”
@CyberHawk2013 Жыл бұрын
I’ve noticed this at my job. They’re hiring a bunch of new teenagers. They’re the ones getting promoted and taking on more roles and hours. I’m still pretty low in the ranks. All the older employees are the ones still on the bottom. They want to promote the teenagers to they can stay with the company. When honestly, it’s the older ones that are the ones that should be promoted because we’re more likely to stay
@InChargeOFFun Жыл бұрын
Teenagers will not do real work. They are just good at telling others.
@dimitriberozny3729 Жыл бұрын
Many employers like low wage workers nowadays are are laying off workers and replacing them In about six months with students fresh out of college for a dollar an hour above minimum wage!!
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
This is an evil, perverse, biased, adulterous system. The older ones work harder ( and better) than the younger ones, at that workplace I'm at.
@educatedwanderer9293 Жыл бұрын
I worked for five years under a toxic boss that did exactly that type of micromanagement and punishment. I was a new graduate employee and this was my first job. I managed to hang on barely and even learned a great deal becoming one of the best employees over time. This same boss started in with another round of the hypercritical micromanagement after five years so the second time I put in my resignation and found another job making more. I'm still at that second job after 25 years and they have treated me well consistently.
@shawnmendrek3544 6 ай бұрын
Happy to read this. Sometimes life has to go down before it goes up.
@r9153 Жыл бұрын
This is the cruelest...Places of employment with such behavior should be sued or given bad reviews. It's sad that a successful person works hard every day and his livelihood of taking care of his/her bills and family is affected because a toxic boss doesn't like or jealous of you. Yes, it could be those two reasons as well. I believe in walking away, but the effect it could have on a person could actually be life threatening as well as the job getting away with doing it to future employees. Bad behavioron the job should be handled properly so critical fatalities don't erupt. Be bullied and disrespected at work shouldn't be taken lightly. I believe in taking the high road and walking away, but having a moron who pushes you away from a position you worked hard for is beyond wrong and shouldn't be ignored or tolerated.
@kirkharig192 Жыл бұрын
I had this done to me and I went to work for a competitor. Then put my old company out of business. I was put in charge of selling it off peice by peice.
@freddyg8247 Жыл бұрын
A lot of these methods are very true and valid. But often times I feel like it happens if someone or some people want to harass you or bother you for the hell of it. It can be jealousy, retaliation to something insignificant you said or did, they don’t like they way you look or talk, or just plain hate. I’ve noticed that some people are able to get away with things in the workplace, others are simply not if they do or say the same exact thing. You can only put up with it for so long, it may even be years, it’s like being in an abusive relationship. When you appease the abuser you live to see another day without an recourse, but if you try to standup for yourself and demonstrate your higher worth, all of a sudden you’re the problem.
@Riven0x 5 ай бұрын
Exactly. Im at my breaking point with this job.
@kristinab1078 2 ай бұрын
Oh, so true!
@michaelduke4500 Жыл бұрын
Plan and simple, when the mind games start, it's time to start looking elsewhere.
@oversocialized601 4 ай бұрын
They are not mind games. They are childish behavior
@ozzyfur8307 2 жыл бұрын
How do these managers sleep at night? Do they not have a conscience?
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
I won't ever forget my toxic boss telling us at some point: "I could fire any of you right now and I won't have any trouble sleeping at night". So answering your question, they simply don't care, they've kept doing this for as long as they remember.
@dennistrull1475 Жыл бұрын
They don't care. They probably feel power, doing this. It may be the best part of their pitiful lives.
@KarisaKarmali Жыл бұрын
Sociopathy
@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Жыл бұрын
Employers don't about their employees. All they care about is earning a profit and protecting their reputation.
@claireh.7605 Жыл бұрын
I suspect my manager hired because I was a weak employee so she could blame someone and fire me later at some point, basically blaming me for her transgressions. She was a very sociable psychopath and was stealing from the company probably along with others, so even though I was in my position for 4 years, I think my purpose was to either make my manager look good, take the blame when needed, and eventually get fired so my manager had a job of hiring a new person. I ended up reacting badly and reporting my manager which got her fired, but the company sued me too, which I didn't expect, and now I was a court record online. It really sucks, the most traumatic time in my life!
@xtxt9135 Жыл бұрын
Many years of experience has taught me having 2 jobs going at all times is the only doable protection there is. One starts to crash and burn, the other will save you. That and keeping your resume updated and ready at all times.
@andreapoirier5033 Ай бұрын
So true
@justinb.5277 Жыл бұрын
I had this happen once and is happening right now, especially with the pettiness and micromanaging. Im stubborn and petty too and refuse to leave and gonna make them fire me 😂 I know brighter days are ahead and my heart goes out to anyone that knows this struggle. I think they want me gone bc layoffs are harder on them, but idc. They hired me, im their problem 😂😂😂
@trinitaria924 Жыл бұрын
Couldn't have said it better🤣🤌🏾
@user-pf3uw8oh9d 8 ай бұрын
Lol I love it! 😂
@bluesun2001 4 ай бұрын
Love the attitude bro 😂😂😂
@mickanvonfootscraymarket5520 Жыл бұрын
The worst thing that happened to me was getting put on a performance improvement plan. Literally 5 minutes after being given the plan, someone in the company called my desk pretending to be a client, and gave me an impossible issue to resolve. It was a literal set up. I don't think it was fair to fabricate a scenario, and do one where I couldn't perform well. It's been over a year, but I remember exactly how the fake client call went because to me it was so fucked up.
@magamaga1827 Жыл бұрын
Lol. Too funny. I spent 16 years, mostly successful, at a NYC company working in sales. Eventually a lot of mid level mgt changes and suddenly I'm on the outside looking in. But I would not budge. Yep, I also got the PIP. Lol. That was the start. Thankfully I was working from home (this is pre covid days actually) and I never had to deal with the bullshit in person. That woulda gotten ugly. Lol. After about 3 years of nonsense, I was fired over the phone but given a pretty decent severance package which was all I wanted....a nice long vacation. Never looked back. No regrets. P.S. I was grossly underpaid. Had I been making market salary I would have done what was needed to stick around.
@amysimmons805 2 жыл бұрын
This happens to people at toxic companies, I hate how toxic bosses bully you out. It's horrible because it took my company almost 2 years to fire me. I was exhausted, I could do a proper job hunt so getting fired actually made me happy!! You are right about this being one of the worst things at work, you either get out or put up with it. Unfortunately I put up with this for too long.
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
Two years is indeed a long time, it must have been really difficult. I am so glad you've put that behind and that things are getting better!
@shutit4024 2 жыл бұрын
Same happened to me but I put up with it than I got the hell out f££k that place
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
@@shutit4024 That's the best thing you could have done!
@amysimmons805 2 жыл бұрын
@@shutit4024 great you made the most of it
@purplestringsmariamichelac3391 Жыл бұрын
@@myemmotion Hi, Marat! Thanks for the video, it's very insighful. I'd like to ask a question: how do I handle on my CV if I get fired? Or if I leave a job quickly? Never got fired, but I was once pushed to leave (even if when I resigned they tried to persuade me to stay because they were short in staff) and recently I left a job after only two months because my boss was micromanaging me and made my health deteriorate to the point I couldn't stay any longer. I have been advised to leave that experience out and made up some stories to justify my out-of-job gap (like I had to look after my sick parent or stuff like this) or to name the experience "short term assignment" on the CV (basically to lie). What's best? I am based in the UK, I guess it's different in every country according to the country work culture and etiquette? And what should I tell to recruiters and employers if asked? Thank you 🙏
@shawnmendrek3544 6 ай бұрын
I been pushed out once. Not at this job, but it seems like it, but no signs like you showed. I welcome it, I will find a better job. You have no real friends at work, remember that.. I thought me and this guy were cool, the day I was fired, he was distant, I was really mad he could not tell me I was being fired, I learned the hard way. Most people at work are just gossipers with no life anyways.
@gordospeti Жыл бұрын
Actually, getting pushed out of your job happens exactly the way you have described. And it can happen even if you are among the best of the company. Jealousy is often the basis of this phenomenon. If I feel that my workplace is starting to be toxic, I always search for another job and let my former toxic colleagues suffer from one another! At a workplace where workers are being pushed out nobody will feel safe and will suffer.
@puppy969 Жыл бұрын
That is how you win. As soon as you are aware that this is happening, immediately look for another job.
@gordospeti Жыл бұрын
@@puppy969 Yes, that is it!
@4040smokey Жыл бұрын
So true, being pushed out often has anything to do with performance.
@4040smokey Жыл бұрын
@@puppy969 Sure, but for most its extremely challenging to find an equivalent job so they try to ride it out. The "find a new job" is tossed around rather cavalierly in the face of reality for most.
@gordospeti Жыл бұрын
@@4040smokey I know what you are talking about. The reality is that it is very hard to find a new job that you think you will or could like, and there is no guarantee that your new job will be better, especially on the long run. But still! If your job is already toxic, you best get out of that situation, because you simply can not deny yourself the chance of working in a better a job. But it is a lot easier to toss quitting my job around than quitting my job in fact! True!
@drumstickcph870 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I can confirm what you said about the demand from the boss to start documenting everything...I thought it was odd, but he gave some excuse. Earlier this week he then fired me, even though I had done my job to the best of my ablity, and with praise from coworkers. It came like a lightning from a clear sky, and just goes to show no matter what job you got, and how good you are, noone is safe in this cutthroat world. I am not going to blame myself.
@tomsuh1362 5 ай бұрын
This happened to me but on the day he was going to write me up because I was on PiP, in order to fire me,he drop dead of a heart attack at the office in front of everyone and I mangage to keep my job when they hire another boss and I even got promoted.
@mihaeladog7187 Жыл бұрын
Nothing last forever 👍
@olengagallardo8551 4 ай бұрын
HR, the bosses at diff levels, the company nurse/doctor..THEY ARE THE ENEMY!
@pureblood1980x 4 ай бұрын
I work for a famous UK supermarket chain. I can tell you without a doubt the things that we get in retail is the old "you're getting paid X amount an hour now"(manager wanting more work from you) and then actually "given the extra work". If you piss off enough of your workers it'll save on labour hours.
@joegoodman8213 Жыл бұрын
I went through this a few years ago, but the ones doing this ended up leaving, and I got promoted. Even though it eventually worked out for me, I still think I should have quit rather than endure the hell they put me through.
@kyerwhite4177 Жыл бұрын
It happened to me, my boss slowly excluded from projects and meetings. She even hired a new student “because our Dept. Was busy”, however I would not be given any new work. I kept my head down and put up with it, until one day I was invited into the board room and terminated without cause. Haven’t been able to work a job since. My confidence is gone.
@jonahmann Жыл бұрын
Maybe look into unlawful dismission.
@ellengallagher5841 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there. Try to find work and love yourself! All the best of luck. You're as good as anyone.
@darrenhaynes3091 Жыл бұрын
It's a terrible injustice..
@youtubename7819 Жыл бұрын
What I don’t understand about situations like this is, why couldn’t your boss be honest? Why couldn’t she have a meeting with you and say “look, I don’t want to work with you anymore. Please find a new job within sixty days. If you can’t, I’ll fire you at that time. Sorry it didn’t work out.” Isn’t that simpler for everybody?
@skippertheeyechild6621 Жыл бұрын
I highly doubt this is a 'you' issue. More likely it's them being arseholes. Don't be harsh on yourself, and get yourself back out there.
@shguderjan7181 Жыл бұрын
This is happening to me right now. Training a new co-worker and being moved to a secondary position at work as an auditor at a hotel because I had a stroke. Very bad feelings,
@clinthufkie3242 Жыл бұрын
All the best.
@Rich77UK Жыл бұрын
I have just gone through EVERY SINGLE ONE of these points with my boss! He made my life a living hell and when I didn't fall for the traps or drop quality enough he found a legal loophole that gave me no comeback...and fired me (basically the staff are spread out between several legal entities...no more than 9 people per entitiy and a company under 10 staff can fire at will with no legal protection for the employee) I can't say I'm upset at no longer dealing with him...I am upset over the method and lack of reason as I worked so hard to NOT be seen as imposing or with more experience.
@vikki8699 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video and very true! A job did this to me. Its called constructive dissmissal. If a place does this to me again, instead of fighting for my reputation, I am going to go and go where I am valued.
@amysimmons805 2 жыл бұрын
it's horrible when they push you out but they don't fire you
@vikki8699 2 жыл бұрын
@@amysimmons805 I'd rather just be told that I am no longer needed or wanted there and I would just leave then be bullied and harrassed out.
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. The fighting eventually gets exhausting and draining, we end up getting into a more complicated situation which affects our physical and mental health.
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
@@amysimmons805 Those are some of the most painful ways of "getting rid" of an employee.
@myemmotion 2 жыл бұрын
@@vikki8699 I would say mostly really toxic workplaces do this to employees. It isn't ethical, neither human.
@KM-ne1ft Жыл бұрын
I experienced this quite recently and it had become so toxic for my mental health I had no choice but to quit. Luckly I had already found a new job with higher salary and better working conditions so it all worked out well for me.
@user-vz3fh6oj7d 5 ай бұрын
Is sad that human beings are so cruel like this. Literally, messing with someone's livelihood. Not every person will experience this type of harassment. I was definitely a target to many of these jerky people. Now, I've become a recluse and I would only work remotely.
@IceSk8Princessa12 7 күн бұрын
I don't understand why I am frequently a target? It's so upsetting!
@thecuss6817 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Job was eliminated when I had 40.5 years with same company, part of a cost-savings program where 6 R&D folks were released. I was 63.5, and was going to retire at age 65 anyway; and since I got 52 weeks of salary as severance pay (2 weeks per year of service but unfortunately capped at 52 weeks) that took me almost to age 65 anyway. But such tackiness to not allow an employee who'd won their highest achievement award and had 4 decades of service to have no part in their own retirement.
@berniecruz8405 Жыл бұрын
Well, you're problem was that you stayed at a company for 40.5 years! You had this delusional belief that you stay at one company for your entire life and then you get to retire from it. That's where your problem laid. It's too late now for this, BUT the one life lesson you should have learned was to never work for a company longer than 3 years or 4 years if the company gave you stock options. The reason for this is because leaving a company and going to another one, gives you the chance to learn more AND increase you salary higher, than the slow pace salary increase over a 40 year time span. And when you get your salary high enough, quicker, then you're able to take your own finances into your own hands and put money aside quicker so that then you don't have to work for 40 years in the first place. This is what life lesson you failed yourself, to learn.
@carltoncoleman454 Жыл бұрын
@@berniecruz8405 He didn't fail anything because that perspective of our current generation and job market is to bounce around every 3 to 4 years. However, he is from the generation, likely Baby Boomer, that were known to be loyal and stay at jobs when jobs were actually more loyal to employees. The way we do things now is much different because the employer is no longer loyal to their workers in terms of pay increases, promotions, and tenure. I stayed on a job for 7 years and regretted not leaving after the 3 to 5 year mark as I started seeing people hired coming in making more than me with the same job title yet I never reached their salary with only two 1% pay raises in the 7 years I worked there. I will never make that mistake again!
@berniecruz8405 Жыл бұрын
@Carlton Coleman LOL... SMH... First you try to say I'm wrong. But then you go and prove my point! LOL Yes, I know what generation he's from and that's my entire point! Because what happened to him is and was common for his generation to go through AND is the reason why 401k's was created. Because companies would screw people over when it came close to them retiring. And that's ALSO why now, these days, is why my generation and the current generation moves from company to company after 3-4 years. All because of what happens like with this guy. But even at my age (50), I kearn at a very young age, like during my early teens about bouncing from company to company because I seen this happen to my dad as well!
@thecuss6817 Жыл бұрын
@@berniecruz8405 "That's where your problem laid. It's too late now for this, BUT the one life lesson you should have learned was to never work for a company longer than 3 years or 4 years ". Sorry Bernie - maybe I didn't explain thoroughly. I retired as a multi-millionaire after 40.5 years due to my pensions, 401k, and how I handled the family's life; we denied ourselves very little, and the kids all finished college and had zero student debt. We live off the pensions/401k all handled by a financial company because I'm an investment idiot. We own two homes outright, one on 2 acres of land. Did I say that Mrs. Cuss also owns two horses and has a horse trailer? There are multiple paths to get "there" and I chose mine.
@berniecruz8405 Жыл бұрын
@The Cuss ah, if you're a "multi- millionaire," then why would you even care about being let go from your job? Being a multimillionaire would mean that you wouldn't even have to work in the first place! Point being, either you're not a multimillionaire and that's why you posted a rant OR you are a multimillionaire which then means you don't really have any bases to complain about being laid off, in the first place because of the fact, you never really needed to work. As for whether or not you're a multimillionaire and have everything you stated or not, I don't really care. I'm more focused on the rant posted over being laid off from a job you worked at for over 40 years.
@degraham9198 Жыл бұрын
Sucks when the whole company is told before the worker.
@isambarddev4045 Жыл бұрын
Micro management and emails are two signs that happened to a colleague of mine. Fortunately, he was able to secure a project with greater benefits.
@Lala89856 2 ай бұрын
Yes. I experienced it at my previous job. My employer started complaining about every single thing I did. He also threw away my lunch in the fridge. I knew what he was doing, but I let him fire me 😂
@TheBaldMiddleAgedMetalHead Жыл бұрын
As someone who has been managed out of a company many years ago, this is the best advice I've seen. Just move along there's plenty of opportunities in the world and some are amazing. Keep truckin' ☺️
@abmoralesrosado Жыл бұрын
Been there 3 times lol! It’s not the paperwork, it’s the money they don’t want to pay out. I filed grievances with the Dept. of Labor and won all three. As a ¨Dislocated worker” they had to pay UIB including extensions. Had I gone back to school they would’ve had to pony up for 2 years. Know your rights.
@sheridansplace1607 7 ай бұрын
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@TheArchiv-Ist 6 ай бұрын
He is describing what "mobbing" is😂 even though they try to push you around, don't consider quitting your job but wait for them to fire you to get paid for this misconduct
@tjs-_goated7449 Жыл бұрын
If a work boss wants you out the door, they will do whatever they can to stress you out untill you get to a breaking point and quit. And then they wonder why they are always short-staffed and the turnover rate is so high. I dont get it.
@lordshenfan6625 Жыл бұрын
Because they are clearly dumb shits who don't know what they are talking about. I have known people like that in the past who take the piss and make things worse. They make a huge deal out of little details and act like you are horrible about it to.
@freedomdude5420 Жыл бұрын
I like it when the company goes out of business and when they say well, why don’t I have a job anymore? Well it was because you were a bad boss. I’m not your friend, I’m here to work and if you don’t do your job the right way it’s on you.
@tdona77 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more. I am going through this now. The turnover rates are ridiculous and then they want to hire more people and repeat the process again and again.
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