This is just my opinion ah, and based on my experience my husband did not proposed to me, when I turned 29 and i felt like im not getting any younger na and since we are already 4 years together, i did not wait na mag proposed sya. Out of the blue I asked him, do you think this is the best time to get married when he said yes the following year we got married na agad agad ahahaha,,, for the ring naman he gave me a promised ring thAt looks like engagement ring nung 1 year kami kaya di na nag buy, after we got married he bought me a diamond ring, hahaha. Syempre di rin naman ako papayag, hehehe. What I am trying to say is even if you’re a girl you can ask if he decline then it’s fine meaning his not yet ready, we girls as you mentioned may timeline like ako gusto ko makasal before 30. Ahahaha,,, so technically ako nag proposed and it’s fine it’s not that wala akong class or respect sa self ko it’s my choice and hellooo we are already in the 2022, ahahaha ayun lang just sharing may story malay mo may maka relate mag propose din…Hahaha

Tama si Slater. While girls have biological clock, guys naman have “financial clock”. Kailangan lahat ready muna at stable na ang income bago mag-asawa. Hindi naman lahat ng girls gusto i-asa sa husband lahat ng gastos but the way our society is kasi, ang laki ng pressure for the guys to be the sole provider sa household. Sana lang marinig ng bf ni letter sender ‘tong advice ni Slater because it’s the truth. You will never be ready but God always provides naman as long as you work for it.

Its really nice to listen to this whole new perspective from a matured guy and matured couple about getting married. Thanks Skyfam.

I listen to the full podcast on spotify, this conversation makes my heart tear and eyes cry. I am on a 7 yr relationship and i am having the same dilemma with the letter sender :(

Just propose to the guy. Best part pa eh you get to decide when it happens. Kapag nag-no, eh ‘di hiwalayan mo. Tagal na ng 11 yrs na wala siyang plano for the both of you.

Wish I could experience this type of relationship.

a very relatable ep again?! i want to take their advice and just talk through it with my partner but at the same time wishing for him to randomly stumble on this podcast lol i love you skyfam! 💛 another amazing ep

one of the best episodes! What I like about Kryz and Slater is that they’re respectful, not judgmental and try to understand the people involved and situation of the sender in all angles. And when they give advice, they really take it seriously (look at Kryz face here, intense😆). You can really feel their sincereness when they give advice na based from what they know and experience. Hindi basta-basta lang and nagpapaka-know it all. Keep it up Skyfam!

Big factor sa guys ang financial stability before getting married. I'm in a long term relationship and he proposed to me when we're on our 5th yr. But just as we thought we're ready, his finances plummet due to student loans so we postponed the marriage and fiance visa going to the US. It's difficult there in the US to start over. I was ready to let him go na and I was about to give up na because we're already in a very long engagement 8 yrs but I can see his efforts to turn his life around for the better. By the way we both take good care of our elderly parents. His Mom died recently. Reason why I stayed is that i see and feel his sincerity even though circumstances has been very hard the past years. We're both getting older but we chose to be optimistic. I can't see myself being married with another man na eh. So many colleagues of mine commenting na di daw ako pakakasalan ng fiance ko and promise ring lang daw engagement ring ko. But I don't care what they think. We just both know that what we have is real. So many married couples are separating because they weren't as connected and committed..

I really love this ep ❤️ I agree hehe we were 6years together nang husband ko when I decided to make paramdam to him like “are we taking this to the next level or we are just staying as is” “nakikita moba ako sa future mo” ganong conversations hahaha 😂 when I did not saw any move or motives that we are getting somewhere , I proposed a break-up ng malala kase naisip ko baka sinasayang ko nalang ang time ko sa relationship na ito hehe I can feel his scared as well on the future (financial aspect I think as a major) buttt dang! He proposed months later saying, di niya daw kaya kami mag break and now we are nearing our 2nd year wedding anniv. with our 3month old baby ❤️ Truly, it takes two to tango to work things out, I don’t let him carry all the burden when I can also help him, I work as well as he is and we also help our first family kahit pa onti onti

I guess i was lucky, i met my now fiance on Bumble last year and proposed to me 2 weeks ago. Communication is key❤

I really felt so happy watching and hearing this. I love skyfam!

Relationship should be a teamwork. 💯💯💯

I really admire this couple.. I love you sky fam❤❤❤ first time to comment 😊 Ang galing nyo mgtackle ng topic 👏

Being 26, almost 10yrs in relationship. In first 8 yes feels soooooooo slow pacing. I've learned to speak for myself. It's okay to your whats, when, why's. Turns out he has his own timeline/plan but so different to mine. Now, he hasn't propose yet but at least we had compromise on OUR timeline already.

nindota imo ge sturya about being ready sa marriage dong uy, different perspective about it 🥺❤️

Love skyfam!

Eye-opener.

Naiiyak ako hahaha relate talaga .. 🥲

I love how honest your answers are. I hope soon. I’m still stubborn pa kase 😅

I’m 22, Single, Studying but I enjoy watching this 😂

Nka focus lang talaga aku sa mukha ni kryz the whole time ang pretty eh ☺️

A guy might not propose yet, for whatever reason, but then he would show some evident signs that he has found the one. He would make it very clear that he wanted to marry his girl in the future through his actions and words. And so if the girl is confused or was "made confused" by her guy then look for someone else, she has no future with that person. End of story.

I was with my ex for 10 years and she never wanted to get married or have kids. I did. I always wanted a wife and kids. There wasn't much intimacy but things weren't bad. It felt like we were more like roommates than a couple after 10 years. Something clicked in my head at 36 and I just couldn't prolong the talk any longer. I decided to end it and found the love of my life 12 months later. 18 months in and the difference is night and day. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. Cheers.

Relationship goals ❤️ love you Skyfam

Gents I understand that some of you doesn't want to get married, but at least be open enough to talk about this with your partner sa una pa lang. Be it Church or Civil, Women deserves to be asked to get married. Money will come later when you work together.

This is an interesting podcast. Where's the link to the full episode?

In the Philippines, 4-,10 yrs engagement is normal. You do not have to say it, it's expected.

Subscribed! :)

Communication is key .. so you know where you stand. Cliche as it may sound, but communication is more that talking but processing information and accepting opinions, and most esp. meeting in between

My bestfriend and her boyfriend has been in a relationship for more than 4 yrs, fights are very normal in a relationship but what bothers me is that they've been having "Cool off" twice already. was is already a sign to give up the relationship or fight for it? because honestly i, myself is also in a relationship for 5 years and getting married this November but never had cool off even once (because i dont belive that anyway) should i tell her to give up their repationship completely or i should really silent and stay out of it? thank you for the advice. 😊

Wishing this type of relationship waaaaahhh

Inspiring

Thank you po. Kayo ang. Nagpaliwanag kay gf

For me lang, 11 years is an ample time; a long time ma nga eh para makapag ipon siya to try to get married kahit may maitabi lang ng konti within 11 years and if wala talaga pwede naman civil wedding muna mas mura lang kasi yung civil wedding tapos pag nka ipon pwede naman sa church after nalang. Ika nga pag gusto may paraan pag ayaw may dahilan. She's right hindi naman kayo tumatandang paatras. Cause if a guy sees you in his future he'll do anything to keep you in his life. Some people say papel lang yan but it's not you're locking it in making it superrrr official like law official yung relationship ninyo. I once knew someone like that na they've been together for 7 years pero the guy has not proposed and meron na silang anak. Masakit din sa part ng babae yan eh kasi para mong sinabi sa kanya na least sa priority mo yung pakasalan siya I think guys just have to be honest to their partners kung gusto ba nilang pakasalan yung girl o hindi wag na paabotin ng 11 yrs. I think people think din na when you get married that you have to have kids. D nman ganum yun pwede ka namang ikasal ng wala pa sa plano ninyo magkaanak. Kaya takot mga tap ngayon magpakasal dahil sa stigma ng society na dapat may anak agad pagkatapos mg kasal. D naman ganun yun. Have kids when you're ready financially , physically, and emotionally.

grabe… i can really relate to this.

First 💛, yung situation sa sender parang sa kuya at ate ko hahahaha baka sila yan 🤣

Relate much. 10yrs+ na sa relationship. Nagparamdam na din ako. Pero ayaw niya dahil "DI PA AKO FINANCIALLY STABLE". sad* 😢

Antay lang, 12 yrs kami bago ma siya magpropose 🤗 also, pray to God po.

yeyyyy another one

I suggest po to indicate here sa youtube title yung podcast title sa spofity

Done sa spotify twice at yt naman 😜

Nakilala ko partner ko 2021 nabuntis ako same year hehe chill lang muna kame ayaw ko syang ma preassure. were both happy naman no issue sa pera.

So relate 😢

Because us men need to work and be financially stable Sana maintindihan nyo😣

Naka relate po ako dito. Pinguuspn pa nga nmn ng kasal pero in the end he fall out of love..

i can't find this episode in spotify, can you tell me the name in the thumbnail sa spotify ani?

Please share the Spotify link to this episode po. I can’t find it 😢

This is nice to hear, very mature idea in life perspective however, I think you guys failed to focus on your sender's concern? Did you actually answer directly the question? Sounded like you talked about yours most of the entire video. Well just a thought.

marriage and proposal must be discussed in a relationship, to be clear if alam mo if nasa same path ba kayo or not. bat ka mahihiya magtanong sa plans niya eh kung oras mo naman yung nasasayang, di ba?

This is so true.

It's okay....

Sobra kong nakaka relate 😢 naiyak ako shems

Want to mention him.

Thank you po, papanuod ko 'to sa boyfriend ko. Hahahaha

Sana ma realize nya to 😊

Relate! 😅 I broke up with him 😂

AAAAHHHH one of the firstssss!

Men is logical Women is emotional That’s why sometime relationship have conflicts. But the end of the day if you find true love. It is not about the time you spent with it. Is about how you survive all the struggles inside in your relationship.

Relate😔

Wait what?? if Slater proposed to Kryz at 34 then the birthdate year in Wikipedia written as 1987 is NOT CORRECT. HAHAHA :D i mean that was few years ago na when he proposed

Paano ba mag email... Parang ako na ang lalaki na hinintay mong mag message sir slater haha

I was also in a relationship for 14 years before we get married. I understand that it may be an exception not the rule. But a man has to grow up, especially if you want a traditional man. He would love to have to power to support not just himself, but you and however many kids you want. That's why until he's in that headspace he won't do it. That's why most girl prefer older men like 5-7 years older than them on average 🤷

Please dont hate me: If society gives the same benefits(easy buying a home, finance, adoption) for an unmarried couple, I will not get married. People & feelings changed, but you have to stay in an unhappy marriage or society will judge you.

💯💯💯

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For the sake of argument ladies are more on complaining that men.

I hope my boyfriend can watch this 😂

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Sana manotice

My husband proposed after 19 years of being bf/gf 😉 so it's not true that because it's been too long it will not happen 😍

Is the girl had bad breath ...he keeps wiping his nose that's why.

Sorry off topic pero wipe ako ng wipe sa screen ko kaso dun ko lang nalaman na mole pala yun ni kryzz fjbskchdbsigjds😭

OmG

KIMXI? LOL…. 😅🤣😝

omgggg

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Communication

hot mama ka krizza

its always the girs writing because men are always clueless.

natawa ko sa bakit puro babae ang nagsusulat HAHAHAHAHA

OMG! We're on the same page! 🥲 11 years waiting ang thinks like bakit wala pa 😫😩

Came here to listen to there advice but ended up getting jealous on how Slater stares ay Kryz 🥹