True!

Yup

I’m the best thing that ever happened to the x 😃 took me 8& half years but I did it.. now he’s the one chasing… thank you amazing coach Blac 🙏 appreciation & respect always 🦋💫

That’s fear. That no future partner will be as good as you.

I feel a correction is needed here on many people's behalf you mean the person they pursued before they dumped you

Facts!!!

That's a good one!

I was just about to put this in there also , 2 great mindz think alike ! And its true , ive had 3 of my ex partners literally even go as far as to cry N say how stupid it was of them to screw over a good woman for the sake of a 5 min fling that meant nothing at all to them , and will u pls give me another chance i promise you this / that it'll never happen again you have my word , i said yes N so did you the day i gave it to you and here we are 12 yrs together with one N wanted me to go back to NZ to live with him ( due to the fact he was deported and screwed up any chance of returning to australia ) so a double whammy actually 3 lol , including the fact he slept with a bitch .

Absolutely!

Yep 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

💯💯💯

On point you can't srub a leopard to remove the dorts

Do they change ppl for the good or for the bad?

Is it me or are narcissist psychopaths?? Or very similar!!!

​@@changeoffocus1074 very similar..a few diff characteristics but for the most part same. A psycopath is harder to spot than a narco.

It really does Sis

I hear that!! It really does hurt in ways that only we know. My soul feels sick. Why would I want to subject myself to more of this. If they ran from you once they will do it again and most likely the ONLY reason they come back is because they ran to someone else and blew up in their face.

and the issue is if you stay reserved it takes a toll on the relationship you literally cant win

Pain teaches us so much, and we always can learn more about ourselves through the people who have taught us. We can always heal 😊

@@eternallyellese I agree. Pain has taught me a lot about who I really am.

You have the best comment on here…the realize they left for a 20

​@@lanac7974 Yeah that part

Yep, left for some loose booty, low hanging fruit. Some off brand btch, as Coach Warren Mcfadden likes to say 🤣

Yep not to nasty drug addict

Boss

Facts!!!

Did u dump her or did she let you go?!

@@Lboogs7 I dumped her

​@@dyankee16 ego talk...you lying 😆

@@aqua6613 don’t need to do that my guy. I just don’t tolerate disrespect. I respect my time too much

In the same boat. Stay strong and remember your worth. Keep moving forward ❤️

@@jordanh.5182 Good morning. 🙏❤️

Same. I chose myself 💯‼️

Also chose myself

What are you doing? I do great for a few months and then I end up texting him again but then I find out. It’s sad all over again. Is it just an addiction because you know the person so well I keep doubting it and saying what if?

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Louder🗣️ for🗣️ the 🗣️cheap🗣️ seats🗣️ in 🗣️the 🗣️back!!!🗣️

Yeah like 10 years down the road though

@@SabrinaDacostamine came back a week ago after blocking me on everything imaginable. We were just two broken individuals that needed time away from each other to really realize we couldn’t live without each other

Depends on the issue, some things can only be forgiven but not forgotten

@@alphablaqog You got lucky. Everyone is different. I had one ex come back after one month and *HE* and *I* were abusive to each other. This last one, oh Lord, is acting like I killed his pet!

Women or men may not be bad people....... but experts on neuroscience explain that negative emotions and thoughts are very addictive for the brain and neuron network, therefore people come back to experience wrong thoughts emotions and habits because their brain is addicted to the chemicals of brain........ Every thought and emotion creates a chemical in the brain... the stronger the emotion the greater the chemical addiction it creates in your brain, so your body and subconscious mind are craving these habits and experiences...... These people just need therapy or change their habits within a few months. and also it's very helpful to practice meditation and metacognition...practicing love empathy and gratitude helps you to feel more energy in your body and mind and creates values with people.......People may not be bad, but they have a lack of knowledge. Knowledge affects your motivation and creates beliefs and values.

Narcissism rears its ugly head

I experienced this 3 years ago. Destroyed my life. But lesson learnt.

I don't get why people like to hurt people they're supposed to love.

yessssss

​@@Gods_Got_My_Six because they never loved you in the first place.

Fear is stronger than love. - Tupac

Exactly..

Its not true for everybody :)

Hate that saying. Shut up pls. X are x for a reason is BS. You loved or love them at a point in time, a mistake happened or you fell out of love. Doesnt mean you cannot love them again. Just unfortunately after the fact people put too high a wall up, 🧱 , let ego or pride not want them to message you or they become disrespectful. Play stupid games win stupid prices. If you were dumped (dumpee) best to try move on let them make and effort. If you were dumper, you message make an effort if you want them back. Simple

Not always!

BAM

This is true sadly

U talking about one example. It doesnt mean everybody is the same. Your ex was a narcissist 90%

Not everyone leave you for someone else and I have proof of that.

Mainly because they got one over on you the first time around, and figure you can be used again.

What if you never find anyone better?

@@1984Akeem It’s all in your head! Get more self esteem!

What does it mean when you get rid and they pursue you 30 year's later?

​@@susanplatt5331 I think it means she's single and desperate.

@@1984Akeem you’re putting your ex on a pedestal. They aren’t as perfect as you are creating in your mind. There’s always someone better!

Or man.

He’s on Facebook page..

Amen 🙏🏼

🙏🏾

Exactly

Never let the same snake bite you twice

I always stuck to the motto of ‘dont back track’ lol

i appreciate this comment!

I Cant thank #Divinelovespell02 for bringing back my partner after 2years of separating. this is a miracle;;

But the thing is: how do you *TRUST* someone who broke that TRUST again?! They said that past behavior is the best indicator of current one. I don't always agree, but there IS that thing still in the back of my mind. How do I know they have truly learned to appreciate me, value me and not take me for granted and do things right this time??!

​@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858When a lion is hungry it hunts and doesn't stop until it finds food or starves to death, it doesn't begin eating grass. You'll know.

Once a cheater always a cheater​@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

Facts

I Cant thank #Divinelovespell02 for bringing back my partner after 2years of separating. this is a miracle.{}{}

Even then, some exes egos will NEVER let that happen. I don't think at least it would apply to my last ex.

Yes girl we don't have time and energy for that shitt. 👏

You have answer in your question. If he is shitty then yeah why chasing?

Much better use of energy 😂

Can I just say that I can relate! My partner and I have been together 9 years in November. The first four years were a bit rocky and like your relationship, early on we split 3 times as well. it does depend on the issues, traumas or whatever obstacles are attached to a specific relarionship, to know whether to fight or leave. I too am blessed to have this relationship in my life. We are not married but I don’t believe you have to be married in order to have commitment. Our commitment is being shown every day! Anyway, I enjoyed reading your post.

@@beachysmeachy_ thank you, that's really great you've got a solid relationship. It takes a long time...Most of us are hurt a few times before finding something real.

Aww I'm glad you got lucky... at least someone did! I never wanted to be treated like an enemy but my ex...

It’s encouraging to read your message because I was married for 28 yrs and divorced now for 13 yrs. I REALLY have NEVER LOVED ANYONE AS much as my EX HUSBAND! I have dated very little since the divorce and thought that I had moved forward and I have until recently I THINK OF MY EX DAILY! We have 2 adult son’s and we do talk sometimes about our son’s but NEVER about US! I’ve dreamed of him and DAILY THINK ABOUT HIM! He and I were the BEST OF FRIENDS! I MISS THE FRIENDSHIP AND MARRIAGE!

Both of U give me hope, my ex & I are H.S. sweethearts '86, on & off for yrs., crazy thing is we've never broken up we just walk away it used to hurt but not anymore​ I just enjoy the good times when we're together ... In this day & age I don't even wanna meet anyone new, ppl now are crazy, I know his crazy 😜 @@beachysmeachy_

Ignore it don’t let him come back or talk his was back at ALL

Block him and thank me in a few weeks time.

Do what's best for you! Don't listen to these comments! They don't know the WHOLE story! Only you do.

remember WHY you left it. he wasn’t good enough/he betrayed you or cheated on you/he lied to you/ he was mistreating or abusing you. men are b1tches to women they love. remember that.

Update?

They absolutely damn don't! I can be crying from the flood gates of heaven and still no change!

People don’t change. Only circumstances and age change but people remain the same

𝑰 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖

On Facebook page

On Facebook page

Did that. Fucking woman called me from her friend’s number talking bout “why’d you block me” even tho she blocked me first and when I confronted her about it via social media dm, she blocked me there too. Like tf?? Why wouldn’t I block you, you clearly showing me that you have no interest in making things work and would rather find your already perfect man instead of appreciating the one you had and helping build him up. Last time I put my worth into another human being. From now on, I come first in my life and it’s time for me to be selfish

Yep same here

Lol...had my daughters father come back knocking on my door telling me he made a mistake letting me go over 20 years ago. Asking me if I'd consider being with him again bc I'm "the best person he knows." Mind you this man is married. 😂

@@jennag3226 obviously this guy was a poor choice on both of you behalf. You dropped him for his red flags and now his wife needs to do the same. I’m not seeing the correlation here.

Just kidding I was called everything from controlling to being a narcissist all because I run my house like a well oiled machine. If you don’t want to be successful you don’t get on this ride.

@@jennag3226 that's not funny, it's insulting that he even approached you

Same

Have you ever hurt one of your exes and realised you messed up

@Jamilyn Brown damn sorry to hear that...take that as a challenge and try becoming a better person overall....work on your loyalty n present the best version of yourself in the next relationship

@@Afk225 No, I never hurt any of my exes. The only time I came close was dropped them and never returned. They said I was cold, none feeling, and unforgiving. I raised in a house 🏠 with real men. My grandfather, father and 2 uncle's. They didn't lie, cheat or bring distress to their wives or family. We lived in a multi generational apt in the 60s and 70s.

I had to go by their place let me tell you Crack house glad to rid of that uneducated users pos

@phim8407This brings me delight and hope. My ex was such a loving and caring person. Oh how I miss him. I PRAY that GOD sends him back to me. 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽♥️

exactly

Exactly. Shows their true commitment level and how they valued you and the relationship. Talk about giving someone abandonment issues.

sadly true and I must remember this

@ageofprogressive2248 nah this one is nasty drug addict

@ageofprogressive2248 at a nasty drug house maybe so but he is the nasty person

@ageofprogressive2248 All the more of a reason NOT to go back to that don't you think?

On Facebook page

Why can’t you give him a chance?

​​@@johndesante9124 bcz he did too much and caused too much hurt

yeah and I bet you're sleeping with a new guy every week at least ever since

men never ceases to amaze you? everything must amaze you in this world, because how tf did were you dating a married man for FIVE years!! 5 f’ng years. I swear to god it literally takes most people a few minutes of internet searching to dig up all info there is to know about a person, household info, socials, employment history. You have to be trolling, or else there is no hope for you in the modern age, technology is your friend use it

​@@gotchamochayou simp 😂

​@@devrajkashyap8620 how tf is he a simp? He's 100% correct. If a woman was getting cheated on for 5 years by a MARRIED MAN?!? She's stupid af

How can men never cease to amaze you....when YOU were the gullible, naive child? Dating a married man for 5 years and had NO CLUE?!?! Wtf?

​@@KingGogh She had a few dudes in the DMs and the DL is how... wasn't naive. Just convenient to blame the dude

And when a man is done , he is done. She has lost him.

Same with men too

@@Eddybo22 He probably wasn’t much to lose

@@judyperri9496 nor was she. Many a women have lost great men doing the exact same thing. I am just saying it goes both ways.

​@@Eddybo22 I can tell that anyone who lost you actually won.

Good for you👏🏾 wish yall nothing but happiness & success!!

He’s on Facebook page

#Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony..

💯💯

Damn, this shit hit hard. I just broke up with my ex who i dated for 6 months, loved her to death. She simply tried to convince me to leave with her as she’s transferring to another college because the one she’s currently in doesn’t feel as accomplishing so she says. It’s also the fact that everyone knows that the college she’s transferring to is known as a party school and she wants more fun during her youth. She’s 19 and i’m 25 with a bachelors degree and a secure job in engineering. I felt like i had it all, but then she asked me to go with her 5 hours away to that school. Like, how tf would that even work, when bills gotta be paid & i’m currently the only breadwinner. So we weren’t on the same page and both of us lost interest, especially me. I started to sometimes ignore her calls when i’d hang with the boys & tbh that was asshole of me. But she wasn’t perfect either, i used to happily cook everything when she stayed with me in my apartment, breakfast lunch and dinner no problem..But then when she switched to a new apartment with roomates, i stayed with her since it was nicer.. and it rubbed me wrong when she would complain about me wanting to cook at her new place since she had roomates who were all used to doordashing and uber eating.. There would be mornings that i’d starve and ask if i could make an egg, and she’d just roll her eyes and say “fine i’ll do it”. I literally had to BEG this woman to make me anything and if it wasn’t for me being in her apartment i’d fucking cook my own food. I know this isn’t the 1920’s , but some reciprocated energy was lacking bad. Things went sour, i went to my parents to cool off (7hours away) and was just cold to her. I came back a week later and she said we’re just not in the same page & said maybe when she’s done with college we could be together unless she meets someone new over there. So fuck me right.

@gman955 yeah it seems like the two of you were not on the same page and were in different stages of life and how you view relationships.

When they cheat on their bf with you then end up going back to the same bitch bf who still stays 😂. No animosity but you cheat on your bf with me and say you've never been dumped before. Tf you expect. I liked spending time with her but dummy much 😂.

Life is for enjoying. Wasting it thinking about something else is never a good idea. If you have to put too much effort into anyone it's not worth it. Apparently I wasn't affectionate enough. Like what. I love myself more than you deal with it. I ain't obsessing over someone else. It's the other way round or nothing.

@@comparecards5688 I Cant thank #Divinelovespell02 for bringing back my partner after 2years of separating. this is a miracle.

Same with men really.

Life is for enjoying. Relationships are often such a drain. You have to do a cost benefit analysis.

Most won't because most men will not be better. A good man is hard to find.

So they are only with you once the money has rolled in? Okay.? 🙄

@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858Or, more positively, your ex really loved you but you had unhealthy/immature traits that hurt them too much to be able to stay in the relationship. Then, you learned from that experience (and maybe others) and changed into a healthier individual, to your ex’s great joy.

​@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858yes😢😢😂😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..30 yrs. Lord HAVE Mercy

30 years are they having a laugh lol.?

Wow lol. Are you 60? Like damn.

Since when are second chances actually given or happen? Remember it takes two. Like I said, you guys got lucky. Some people NEVER look back.

If she really loved you then completely cut contact and she’ll realize what she’s missing. Don’t talk “business” that’ll make you seem boring, you need to seem attractive and boring isn’t so. When you talk let her initiate and try and build attraction but don’t get emotional. Then when you meet in person dress nice have eye-contact and focus on how you can build attraction back.

I Cant thank #Divinelovespell02 for bringing back my partner after 2years of separating. this is a miracle;;

Mine left me and made me feel quality for not pursuing here. “ I waited so we could get back together and you never showed up “

@@XCVi_MAC I hear u I know it hurts and think about the good times u guys had but time heals all wounds and best thing to do is focus on u and lovr will come and when it comes trust as time goes on u won’t even b thinking about him cause u b thinking ur relationship with ur partner

@@yaasy77smart1 I’m slowly healing , but god himself has a bigger plan

@@XCVi_MAC u will find love keep urself busy go on trips vacations meet new people be careful though but once u meet the right one ex whoooo😂😂😂😂

I Cant thank #Divinelovespell02 for bringing back my partner after 2years of separating. this is a miracle.{}{}

True , and it happened.

Yes indeed

#Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony..

I Cant thank #Divinelovespell02 for bringing back my partner after 2years of separating. this is a miracle.

Was she waiting for you to propose but you never did?

No offense. ..... If you don't see your life with anyone else, WHYYYY after 5 years was she still your gf??? Unless mutual, she gave you plenty of time to decide. ...... While your healing will get better and easier, make sure you're not just healing from the pain of her loss. Heal from the selfishness you displayed by keeping her as a place holder vs wife for 5 years. Good luck !

men too

@@winecrimesfoodandtime7119 Yes haha sorry to offend you 😜

Men as well.

He’s on Facebook…

He’s on Facebook page….

Yep! What a DISRESPECTFUL thing to do!

Exactly same now I'm confused on my ex true intentions frfr 😂

He’s on Facebook..

Great attitude and comment. All you can do.

This is it. No animosity. I did the same thing.