Signs You're Wasting Time Sa Kanya

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@saguittarius6392 2 жыл бұрын

Number 1 reason I did hold on for long because of that “nanghihinayang sa pinagsamahan” where we were actually happy together even with all those challenges we faced. Pero ngayon na nagkaLDR kami, I realized na I was always looking up on him and I forgot to give myself time that’s why I felt he was pulling away bacause I became toxic na I always see his mistakes that causes our misunderstanding. I got tired of overthinking and anxiety that I can’t control my mind thinking things negatively so I decided to broke up with him. He said, I am plastic and I was the one who let go of our LDR relationship that hurts me even more. Breaking up with him is the hardest thing I ever did but hearing him say those words makes it even more painful.. I just wanted to love myself and feel my self-worth..

@jhaz0425 2 жыл бұрын

I feel you poh but still holding up to this situation while I'm obviously tied down,,were in ldr also,,and even when we met, he's still the same seeing the worst of worst in him and even when we're apart now,there nothing changed,,I'm always the one who pursued and keep this relationship going everytime we had arguments hoping that maybe someday he will change,,I can't totally broke up with him even his very toxic cause everytime I do so,,it's always bounce back to me as if I cheated him and i only used him which is not true,,but it's how he define me when I want to be free from his toxicity,,and right now,I'm still holding on but I can't imagine my future to be with him,,full of fear as of now,,

@domdom7578 2 жыл бұрын

@@jhaz0425 mine was I was the one being toxic and I care for him so much so I chose to go away because I can't control my mind at that time. Now it's almost 5 months since I broke up with him. I am still feeling guilty a little because I still love him when I broke up with him up until now. But what I can say at this point, there's no more pain and tears. No more overthinking. But I still think of him every now and then. I know you can do that also. Don't let yourself getting hurt.. At first you'll cry like theres no more tommorow but after a while, your body will get tired of crying. If you really want to set youself free do it and don't think of what he's going to say. Just let him say whatever he wants because that's what he feels. But before that, tell him what you feel. Ask him why he never pursue you. Ask him everything you want to ask because only him can answer what's in your mind.

@jhaz0425 2 жыл бұрын

@@domdom7578 yah,,I already talk to him when the situation is cold,,but after that,,it's always the same,,there are times when he used to point out that I cheated him whenever I can't answer his call right away,,I was in surveillance video call everyday,,and everytime I ask him that we should talk only once,he gaslight that maybe I'm talking to someone,, that's how toxic this relationship is but still,I always on the hold to pursue just so he couldn't put a blame on me,,I just waited for him to stopped by that I am not the one to blamed if this relationship fails,,,I can't go anywhere without his approval,even all my friends,I can't visit because he always think that I will meet with the guys,,all I can do is isolate myself from my social circles and I follow him cause I don't want to have argument,I want a Peaceful relationship but I can't broke up with him,,,

@domdom7578 2 жыл бұрын

@@jhaz0425 well, he doesn't trust you. It's up to you if you want stay and take the consequences of staying. If you are not happy with that I think that's bad for you. You only know what you really want so weigh what's the best thing to do and choose what's best for you. Don't think of what others may say about you, you know yourself and if you do that, that's what you call self worth. Tell him na nasasakal ka na and you feel Not worthy of his trust at nasasaktan ka dahil doon. Sa nakikita ko, mas nagmamatter yong sasabihin or iisipin nya sayo kesa sa nararamdaman mo. Sis, mas pahalagahan mo yong sarili mo. If he doesn't see your worth then atleast you do. We only live once so choose to be happy. If kayo talaga, kahit magkahiwalay pa kayo, there will come a time, if you really meant for each other, you will be together. Or you are meant to someone much better.

@patriciaisabel7216 Жыл бұрын

Same as what happened to me,, naghold ako kahit binaba ko peide ko jautbto save the relationship inaccept ko na nagkaroon ng 3rd party i was expecting na hihiwlaayn nya un kasi ako nauna ako kasama at nagaw ako gusto nya,, but when we get ldr ako nalang pala nagholdon kasi mas pinili nya un and he told me to let him go..

@jee7931 Жыл бұрын

🥺 yung feeling na ako nalang ang kuma kapit , kahit na ffeel at nkikita ko na lahat ng sign, binigay n lahat ni universe lahat ng sign para itigil ko na, cheating na paulit2 nalang 😢 sobrang sakit, for 8 yrs of relationship napagod at napuno na ako. ☹️ Sobrang sakit then Wala kang mapag sabihan ng nararamdaman mo. Sobrang hirap

@maryantonettetaytayon5289 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks kuya darbs..the last one hit me hard..hahahahaha..yung ako na lang pala ung nagwowork and lumalaban para sa relationship namin at sya prente lang..napakawala nyang kwenta talaga..kakalungkot..i wasted my time sa maling tao talaga..

@eleonorsantos242 Жыл бұрын

Very inspiring...made me realize so many things... Thank you and more vlogs like this... A kind of vlog like this shouldn't be missed...😍

@montejojhonjhonOfficial 2 жыл бұрын

After ako ibreak ng boyfriend ko. Tuluyan ko ng pinalaya ang pinakamamahal kung bf😭. Ayaw ko ng masaktang muli. 1year and 5months na kami. Pero habang tumatagal, sinasaktan na niya ako physically, emotionally, minumura. Pero Kahit na mahirap makisama sa kaniya eh hindi ko nagawang iwan siya. Pero siya na itong napagod at iniwan na niya ako. 😭😭 ayaw ko na maghanap ng iba eh😭 I chose him but the god rejected. this year is very emotional pagdating sa mga relasyon. Maraming naghihiwalay at isa na sina moira and jason😭. Sana makahanap ng peace of mine. Ipagkaloob kay jesus ang lahat para makalaya at makalimot sa nasugutang puso😭😭

@jelraagas7489 2 жыл бұрын

Wow 😣 nakakarelate Ako salamat Kuya Darbs your so genius about into relationship situations and how to handle it

@arlenesuay1763 Жыл бұрын

continue on what you are doing because you are a blessing to a lot of us. Thank you! More power and God bless!

@laughingman_confused Жыл бұрын

Sign (for me): Pagod na pagod ka sa trabaho. Gusto mong magpahinga, gusto mong matulog pero ayaw mong umuwi kasi siya ang uuwian mo.

@normarosales2880 Жыл бұрын

Ang galing naman ng mga advice mo...TAMA naman ang mga sinasabi mo...Congrats marami ang magigising sa katotohanan.More power to your vlog..😌🙂💓👏👏👏

@johnpatrickarnoco6457 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you kuya Darbs. More power po sa inyu. This really helps me get back to my senses. ☺️

@darlenealfaro4640 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks kuya darbs. It came to my realizations. dami ko natutunan po sau kuya darbs❤️

@mikeelilingcardenas8425 2 жыл бұрын

Damn!!! Accurate! Thank you! Very helpful to. Balik ako kapag okay na ako. 😅

@mhelan6313 2 жыл бұрын

Ito na po yata yun sign.. after ko makipag hiwalay... napanuod ko to. nakaka relate tlga ako dahil lhat po ng sinbi nyo na dahilan. yun din lhat ng dahilan ko. Ang hirap lng kasi yun kung kelan nakaka move on nako ska nya gus2ng bumalik. sna marealize na nya na mas ok nako ngayon kesa nun kami pa.

@ezekielvaldez7222 8 ай бұрын

A few young marriages got through kasi alam na nila yung purpose nila sa buhay. (P.S. Single po ako, and I tell this batay sa mga naoobserbahan ko.)

@alyssayuson2042 Жыл бұрын

I had to go back here because I had a relationship before when my ex-bf asks to marry me, not proposal pero asking me to have the civil wedding para daw mas mabilis. But I told him I have to think of it pa. 1 year pa lang kami nun. Aside sa may ugali talaga sya, I really have the feeling na this is not the type of husband I want to be with. We stayed together for 4 years but ended the relationship after because guess what, toxic na. Good thing I made up a best decision not to marry early because what if nagpakasal talaga ako and seeing all those behavior and attitude. I just can't.

@betheullaran3670 2 жыл бұрын

parang ako yata to gnawa ko na ang lahat full support para lng ma high morale xa pero waley pa run hirap tlga ang LDR yong snbi nia na “BKA PAGOD KANA”yon pala xa yong NAPAPAGOD..ang msakit yong sinaksak ka patalikod na indi mo alam kong maganfti kba o natuloyan kana .💔💔💔Yong proud na proud ka kc snbi nia sa mga ksamahan nua na asawa ka tpos unknowingly may iba na pala 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 #LDRRELATIONSHIP

@anadynazana9247 2 жыл бұрын

Number 3,relate po ako kuya Darbs.Super galing mo naman talaga👍

@roseannpugales03 2 жыл бұрын

Blessed evening po sir Darbs.

@jay6981 2 жыл бұрын

Ahhhhhhh eto ung *realizations* that she's talking about. Sad thing is she didn't gave me a chance to prove to her that i can change.

@cg2323 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Kuya Darbs.

@gloriacalica4729 Жыл бұрын

kapag realtalk mo talaga kuya darbs ang dami ko natututunan

@haydeecastillo6662 Жыл бұрын

learning a lot of things from you..thank you❤

@saudiana9702 2 жыл бұрын

Now I know Tama Pala desicion ko. May mga times kc if naiisip ko yUng big decision ko.mejo nagiguilty ako.pero while watching this nalilinawagan ako n Wala Pala akOng dpt pagsisihan kc lht ng 5 signs n ito eh nakikita ko dti sa taOng pinili ko👎👎👎khit sa maikling panahOn lng lht ng 5 signs na ito eh pinakita nya.buti n lng habang maaga pa eehh kusa akOng lumayo.hahhahahahah

@igssamson5509 Жыл бұрын

Kuya darbs, is it worth it to continue on a relationship if you’re not happy but you know you still love the person? Is it a sign of being weak if you give up on that kind of relationship?

@ninaCyaRenzFabEli 2 жыл бұрын

@RealTalkDarbs Kuya darbssssssss!!!! Thank you, thank you para sa mga ganitong videos mo..... I've been always excited to watch your uploads... And it never fail me.. Your videos are always giving a wake-up call para sa mga taong may pinagdadaanan.... Pawer lods☝️

@andrewnoro9304 2 жыл бұрын

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@liezeldagatan6618 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kuya Darbs.🥺♥️

@SHMcovers 2 жыл бұрын

I agree sa sinabi ng divorce lawyer. 30s alam mo na ang mga bagay na gusto mo talaga at hindi :) most of the time kilala mo na ang sarili mo sa edad na ito

@yuzu3746 2 жыл бұрын

Namiss kita kuya darbs. Ingat palagi ❤❤

@RedRepublicanArmy Жыл бұрын

"ANG MALI AY MALI KAHIT GAANO PA NATIN ITO IPAGTANGGOL SA SARILI NATING OPINYON..." Ang tao ngayon ay nakatuon nalang sa bagay na nagdudulot ng pagiging makasarili at pagka-inggit dahil sa pagmamahal sa mga bagay ng di naman magtatagal. Dahil dito ang tao ay nakakalimot sa DIYOS at dahil din dito nagkakaroon ng stress at mga depression ang mga tao sa mga bagay na wala sila at pilit na nagsisik ap o minsan gumagawa na ng mali para makuha ito. Pinupuri ang ibang tao kahit na yung pinapakita di na kaaya-aya at pagmamahal nalang sa sarili imbis na sa DIYOS at sa Kapwa. Minsan sisisihin pa ang DIYOS sa mga nangyayari sa buhay o sa paligid niya. Ito ang nakakalungkot na katotohananan ngayon at tanda na malapit ng pagbabalik ni Hesus kung saan ang tao ay nagiging makasarili at pagmamahal sa kamunduan at kasamaan, sa sanlibutan at kadilimang ginawa ni Satanas upang dayain at iligaw ang mga tao patungo sa kapahamakan sa impyerno. Pagkakaisa, kapayapaan, pagbabago at pag-unlad... #Disiplina sa daan at pangangalaga sa kalikasan. #JESUS SAVES! BAPTIST PH. #Human rights and climate change. #Smoking cigar and alcoholic beverages kills. #End corruption and crimes.

@psalms_inspired751 2 жыл бұрын

Very well-said ❤️❤️❤️ I love this content kuya Dharbs🥰🥰.

@enitx Жыл бұрын

Dapat may session na kmi sau rate per hr ang galing mo lalo na sa nag move on at no label res issue.gumawa ka na ng vcall session theraphy po

@emersonplangca5019 2 жыл бұрын

gusto ko ung #4..relate aq

@globaytuna535 2 жыл бұрын

What if personality ko na na negative yung mas nakikita ko? Siguro, ako yung not meant for the relationship diba? HAHAHAH.

@marivicmanalo8183 Жыл бұрын

i luv u real talk darbs sobra gumaaan ang feeling ko sobra😭😢

@marjharo6731 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you kuya Darb's

@alabngpuso4835 2 жыл бұрын

What if your partner is something very slow in terms of IQ so there's a huge effect in decision making,planning our married life,i always feel broke with him im not happy anymore. what to do...can you pls enlighten me...

@kaeayah9218 2 жыл бұрын

mahal ka naman pero parang hindi ka masyado priority 🥺 hirap na hirap ako bitawan kasi mahal ko na talaga 🥺 natatakot ako na baka magfail nanaman ako 🥺

@gellycrazy5117 Жыл бұрын

To be honest... Alam ko. Kase his a foreigner with different culture.. Dapat local din ang mapapangasawa nya.. Atsaka he cannot live here lse nandun ang source of income nya.. Sa 7 years. Sinupportahan nya ako financially, mapalaki o maliit man.... He change a lot. Gusto ko. Ng magmove on.. Kaso, for 2 years wala akong mahanap na gaya nya.. Not comparing.. But his the man i want in my life coz his a productive, disciplined and goal getter person. He always push me to my limit and help me to become a better person. Alam ko wala ako mapapala pero wala talaga preho nya.. 😭

@ojg6168 2 жыл бұрын

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@leearcangel3727 2 жыл бұрын

What if kung mahal n mahal po talaga ang partner mo but paulit ulit niyang cnasabe sau n hindi ikaw ang priority niya kahit matagal n yung relasyon nio. Need n bang bumitaw kahit mahirap

@yohan433 2 жыл бұрын

bitaw na iyan. dapat balanse pa din sa career at sa love. if walang time talaga, sabi nga nila kung mahal ka, bbigyan ka ng time and siya ang mgsset niyan..

@mariaversoza9115 2 жыл бұрын

Try to speak to your partner kung bakit nya paulit ulit na sinasabi. Baka kasi sinabi lng sayo na hindi ka priority when in fact may mas malalim pa palang rason.

@Nayn-ow4vr 2 жыл бұрын

Kuya darbs paano po if inieencourage m syang mag grow as individual especially sa career pero ayw nya. Need p bng ituloy? Please i need ur advice

@jeannaslycabotaje5360 2 жыл бұрын

Kuya darbs😭 iba ka talaga🥺

@kiaheart09 2 жыл бұрын

Hi po pa advice nmn sbe ng longtime bf ko tht we should be ready if ever na mag break kme. For me kse I don't want to be ready because for me I know na di na tlga kme mag break up for me sya na tlga

@avley1997 2 жыл бұрын

it takes two to freaking tango 😊

@janetnacalaban2258 Жыл бұрын

I Love you Darbs ❤️🙏

@raffaellabernardez5657 2 жыл бұрын

tama ka kuya Darbssss

@divinalazaro5919 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@aubreyamor5491 2 жыл бұрын

Lahat sapul na sapul hahhhaaahha thanks kuya darbs muklat na mata ko hahaha

@josephinepelegrino570 2 жыл бұрын

#3 it’s make me lose to full inlove him again 😢😢😢kn kailan May tatlo na kamin anak 😭😭😭

@willow859 2 жыл бұрын

Relate much 😢😢😢

@Trollianna 2 жыл бұрын

Gwapo ni Koya dito. Light colors suit him.

@renato7stars278 2 жыл бұрын

Ganyan d2 s italia. 30+ bgo mg kasalan

@angelgracepalma2938 2 жыл бұрын

Can relate really...

@simplygi3031 Жыл бұрын

Kuya bards pwde po mag request pwde po palagyan ng English subtitles hehe Kasi gusto ko share vids mo sa Afam ko na jowa hahaha Dali na po. Thanks 🙏 love your vids kasi

@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 Жыл бұрын

Ito talaga yun eh.. kaya pala hindi nagwowork yung marriage namin. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@innaperalta4579 Жыл бұрын

sir baka pde naman ang Option and priority ang topic😊

@francismiguelmagdusa2407 2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY🙂👍

@geraldinecabagtong9456 2 жыл бұрын

😂🤣Nakakatuwa nman to c kuya darbs 😂

@RealTalkDarbs 2 жыл бұрын

tingin nga ng mukhang natuwa!

@MatsuJah 2 жыл бұрын

Sh*********T ang accuraaaaaate. Been moving on for 2 months na from an 8 year relationship.

@user-tr6ty1pj6n 2 жыл бұрын

Bakit ang sakit ng number 3? Haha. Perfect score yata ako dito, di ko pa tapos panuorin. 😅

@marrymetv263 2 жыл бұрын

Lol I thought naiyak kona lahat. Parang tinarakan Lalo ng kutsilyo puso ko 💔

@erlindarobis5958 2 жыл бұрын

hello kuya darbs 😁

@pcperalta2367 Ай бұрын

5:37 😔

@filbrit3785 2 жыл бұрын

Lahat yan nararanasan ko ngayon

@annepaloma Жыл бұрын

😢

@Quotesoftheday0912 Жыл бұрын

😔😔

@jakejec1723 2 жыл бұрын

So I completely wasting my time. But we are married and have 3 kids . What should I do 😭

@singkit4242 2 жыл бұрын

😍

@akoTophixTV 2 жыл бұрын

OMG. 🥺🥺🥺

@josephinetadlip3734 2 жыл бұрын

😢💔

@me-anngeruela2919 Жыл бұрын

💯

@clashofclanbetatest625 Жыл бұрын

Pano po yung nagpapakamarter ka sa isang babae na halos ipagtabuyan kana nya pero ako andun padin sa tabi nya

@leniesocajil8969 2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

@MY-if2uq 2 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺💔💔

@skavira37 2 жыл бұрын

Can a 'pocketing' relationship also counts as a reason not to stay? Been in it for 3 years, giving him benefit of the doubt cause he is a very private and conservative type of person. But it just.. tires me out.

@jeffersonwilliams2717 2 жыл бұрын

i mean if they really love us why is it so hard for them to be open right? why would they make us doubt everytime. It is very tiring na they won't voice out what's on their mind

@skavira37 2 жыл бұрын

Yes and I'm not even asking to be flexed all the time. All I want is assurance. That's all.

@cassandralouisedelosreyes6511 2 жыл бұрын

3 yrs?? tsk... let go na sis.. 😔

@bemaytaperla1240 2 жыл бұрын

10 years with 2 kids, hindi p huli ang lhat sau sis, know ur worth..

@flecelallauigan6243 2 жыл бұрын

Maaga pa ba? Mag 4 years na kami 😮‍💨

@vhonreyes513 Жыл бұрын

Sapul agad s #1 😅😅😅

@alabngpuso4835 2 жыл бұрын

Its very clear im doing the tango alone,ako lahat ng plans,financial obligation,problems etc parang may asawa na wala because of his situation.very slow (IQ) What should i do? Ako lng ata ang may ganitong asawa😔

@sphinx9554 2 жыл бұрын

move on po... kung wala syang pakialam sayo,maybe your in a toxic relationship. kaya nyu po ba makara ganyang klaseng tao, dont assume na he/she will be good if you get married. baka jan po kayo ma depress lalo.advicing as a friend.

@ninaCyaRenzFabEli 2 жыл бұрын

@alab ng puso... Be strong... Lakasan mo Lang loob mo. And don't ever think na ikaw Lang ang nasa ganyang sitwasyon. Meron ding iba na ganyan ang sitwasyon, yung iba nga may anak pa sila Ng ganyang partner niya.. 🙂 basta seek God before you make a step in all of your decisions 🙂

@alabngpuso4835 2 жыл бұрын

Sphinx we're already married for years na and still im doing the tango alone,it seems im someone that is a special child,i feel so depressed which cause me to be unproductive in everyday life,supposedly he can help me and lift me up but it's not...he pull me down sa halip na umusad kami being a partner we end up stagnant at walang accomplishment sa paglipas ng nga panahon nakakalungkot.How can i get out from this kind of life with him.😔😔😥😢

@haroldv8768 2 жыл бұрын

Try to communicate first mam talk to him. About sa problem niyo or mo sa kanya baka hindi siya aware try niyo rin po mag unwind ng mga memories niyo before nung bago pa kayo baka sobrang burned out niyo na po talaga mag usap po kayo pag mahinahon na kayo at clear na ang iyong mind.

@alabngpuso4835 2 жыл бұрын

Harold V natry na po namin lahat but it doesn't work di na sya timatanggap ng kahit anong salita ko pinagbigyan ko na sya but the main problem is he is just like a special child who doesnt mind everything para na nga ako nanay nya,so what more can i expect to him as a man wala! Now after election i need to move out di ko na kaya pati ako natatanga being with him.

@mjyumul-qp9ht 11 ай бұрын

balik ako kapag wala na

@mariatheresaguzman6410 Жыл бұрын

M a politicized woman with political belief so I just wasted my time sa mga apolitical men or men with different political belief with me.

@user-xm3gm8by7m 2 жыл бұрын

🙂 _🖤

@rafaelandrada1867 2 жыл бұрын

r u single? ur so wise

@lizacalamojoy2990 2 жыл бұрын

be the first to click the like button 😂

@jemmestoesta2908 Жыл бұрын

Pov: andito ka kahit wala kang jowa.

@alracnaejairamangeles5442 2 жыл бұрын

14 yrs wasting my time

@wlceunice1648 2 жыл бұрын

@hazelannvillacorta7458 2 жыл бұрын

❤️🥰

@mariatheresaguzman6410 2 жыл бұрын

You are not improving. Pumapanget at tumataba ka. 😁

@denzbarzs7150 2 жыл бұрын

In the first place bilang lalaki hindi ka naman dapat mag aksaya ng oras sa babae.boring cila masyado wlang kwenta mga ideya nila.piliin mo nlang yun babae na gagawin lhat para sayo hyaan mo sya humabol sau.pero NEVER ka magpakasal big mistake.freedom is ur priority should be.

@RedRepublicanArmy Жыл бұрын