Single dad making $13/hr... how do I get ahead?

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@ladynottingham89
@ladynottingham89 10 жыл бұрын
With so many men neglecting his children, this man i a hero, i pray God helps him and blesses him with a decent job.
@LDT7Y
@LDT7Y 7 жыл бұрын
I agree. He's doing a great job and will be an excellent role model to his kids. They may not understand the situation now, but they will appreciate the sacrifices he made when they are older. I also pray the mother actually puts her hand in her own pocket and contributes some money! Some women just make me embarrassed to be a female!
@UltimateReaperStudio
@UltimateReaperStudio 7 жыл бұрын
With so many women not paying child support equally it makes it hard for men like him.
@therealMelB
@therealMelB 7 жыл бұрын
kwg2005 I think women have caught on that if he's a rotten husband doesn't mean he's a bad dad. They have stopped withholding the kids now to another extreme.... Many women were subjected to single mom stigma & poverty for half their lives while Dads just ran off & procreated another family. it was a national travesity throughout the 60 & 70's. Now the tables have turned & frankly I think the kids may be better off! if she's the type to abandon her kids thank god their father stepped up!
@MrThinkEncourager
@MrThinkEncourager 6 жыл бұрын
I think it would be good to switch it around as long as the father is not abusive because so many men don't see or get to experience the other side of it, especially the expenses and being single. Also no help from another woman or grandparents either.
@chinsafer1
@chinsafer1 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, when a man raises his children by himself, he's a superhero. When a woman does the same thing - well, she's just is one of many, has to do it, no big deal
@2411Mal
@2411Mal 8 жыл бұрын
Why in the world is his baby momma not paying child support? THAT'S NOT FAIR TO HIM
@rbellamy804
@rbellamy804 8 жыл бұрын
sad truth
@dthaysjr
@dthaysjr 8 жыл бұрын
Nobody should pay child support. Its a bad system. A divorce or breakup is chosen, they gotta deal with it.
@dthaysjr
@dthaysjr 7 жыл бұрын
Jesus Jimenez Courts favor the moms to the point of crippling the dads - the dads then end up paying for the mom and baby. Its a bad system ripe with abuse and misuse, and needs to be dissolved - ask around, for every good thing the system does, it does 5 bad.
@jettisone
@jettisone 7 жыл бұрын
Courts almost NEVER rule in favor of the non-child bearing spouse, even if he gets custody or is poorer.
@caseyj5597
@caseyj5597 6 жыл бұрын
2411Mal more importantly, it's not fair to the children.
@JuanDiegoVilllla
@JuanDiegoVilllla 4 жыл бұрын
Whose watching this in 2020?! WE NEED A MARCELL UPDATE
@oilinmylamp
@oilinmylamp 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@mhillwhite21
@mhillwhite21 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This really hit home. Been going through this struggle for 4 years now. I hope Marcell and his boys are on top the 🌎 . All the men ( women) who share this journey, I wish you the best!💪🏽
@Burke396
@Burke396 4 жыл бұрын
Meee!! Lol. I'm in the exact same boat as him except I make 15 an hour. Hope he is doing well.
@emmanuelzanders1746
@emmanuelzanders1746 4 жыл бұрын
Burke396 are u in any debt? I have no debt but I’m making $15/hr without a vision. I need to find my “purpose” .
@Burke396
@Burke396 4 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelzanders1746 sounds just like me. Lol. No debt just working a entry level job.
@indman101
@indman101 8 жыл бұрын
The mother should be paying child support and or held accountable for not doing so,we have a double standard in America men should receive support as well.
@keyroncampbell
@keyroncampbell 8 жыл бұрын
yep
@ladydaybreak7463
@ladydaybreak7463 8 жыл бұрын
Women are also required to, but it takes a really long time and if they don't have a job then there is no way of getting it. I know people who just flat out stop working because they don't want to pay. In addition to that some people need or want to cut all ties for safety reasons. You can never really rely on child support.
@keyroncampbell
@keyroncampbell 8 жыл бұрын
Dawna Walker such a double standard... the child support laws are horrible
@ladydaybreak7463
@ladydaybreak7463 8 жыл бұрын
I meant in general, it takes a long time to get anyone to pay it if they don't have a job etc. That's a serious issue, I am a mother who does not and will never receive it, but that's because I choose not to pursue because I don't want any ties with my ex. I hope my comment didn't come off as me trying to make excuses as I only meant that women ARE also required to pay, but the act of getting a deadbeat to pay...well they will probably somehow end up getting out of it. It's not an issue of mothers not being held accountable it's actually an issue of a lot of people not being held accountable. Having said that I also think there are people that are charged way too much for child support, the entire system is messed up. Hope that makes more sense.
@creamcandy25
@creamcandy25 8 жыл бұрын
It's the same here in Norway. The rules are biased! My stepson lives with us and my husband has custody.but when my husband applied for child support from the biological mother, it was unfortunately disapproved due to her income. Problem is, the system says she doesn't have enough money but she buys the latest gadgets and rents big houses which costs alot here! 😡
@1800bth
@1800bth 3 жыл бұрын
You could hear the hope in Marcell's voice. It's been six years now, and I'd be willing to wager he is in a much better place financially.
@MrMpwood12
@MrMpwood12 2 жыл бұрын
I would think so. Hopefully he’s acquired some knowledge to help him earn a better living. Also, hopefully these children’s mother is now contributing financially to supporting the children she laid down and had.
@pattimartin859
@pattimartin859 Жыл бұрын
The child support laws need to be rewritten. They are not effective now days. There are too many escapes for the non paying parent. I am a believer that the non paying parent goes to jail. Too many walk away. The system does not enforce. But I do understand parents that do not pursue payment if their safety is in question.
@neyssa5034
@neyssa5034 8 жыл бұрын
Any chance there's an update on him? I always think of him.
@jomontanee
@jomontanee 8 жыл бұрын
ํYour heart is so kind.
@christinelewin654
@christinelewin654 8 жыл бұрын
Me too. I've seen dozens of these videos but this is the one I keep thinking of. They need to update us!
@lilylanoue
@lilylanoue 7 жыл бұрын
Neyssa please update ,hope this good man and his young sons are doing well!
@francescoakajoker
@francescoakajoker 6 жыл бұрын
Same, I want to know what books he's reading
@Jazzie816
@Jazzie816 5 жыл бұрын
hes at mcdonalds working now..
@RMalai
@RMalai 5 жыл бұрын
I was almost in tears when Dave was giving that dearly nearly thoughtful meaningful advice like a father would do for his son. Dave Ramsey may be a millionaire or make millions but when he tries to makes the life of other people better, I dont mind even if he becomes a billionaire. Growing together is no sin. Its the right thing.
@wanefelicia8779
@wanefelicia8779 4 жыл бұрын
I would like to hear any follower of Christ try to justify billions in the bank 😏🤣
@jerseynurse6878
@jerseynurse6878 4 жыл бұрын
Wane felicia - so we cant have money and believe in Christ ?
@uiniallen
@uiniallen 4 жыл бұрын
"Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime." Mathew 4:19.
@jerseynurse6878
@jerseynurse6878 4 жыл бұрын
Rich - if he doesn’t exist to you, what difference does it make if he gave him money or not ? Dave donates to those in need, but why should he give money to those who have money but do dumb things with it ? Sit down.
@tonybelleo1895
@tonybelleo1895 4 жыл бұрын
Yes.. Dave ❤....
@regul8or71
@regul8or71 9 жыл бұрын
Maybe my fav Ramsey call. Mutual respect, encouragement, Dave challenges him and suggests ways to get ahead and improve his life. This is what it's all about.
@PattieM
@PattieM 10 жыл бұрын
Love it! Build this man up. Pump him up to get motivated. Awesome Dave.
@blastdave
@blastdave 9 жыл бұрын
Pattie M Well said.
@blastdave
@blastdave 9 жыл бұрын
Services cost money.
@nicksteve5392
@nicksteve5392 7 жыл бұрын
Zac Jones actually.... Dave never suggested him a degree at all. When did he say that? It's great marketing by these universities when someone says "read a book" and "get an education" in the context he said and we got people interpreting him as saying that in reference to a degree
@Rm-ks8gg
@Rm-ks8gg 6 жыл бұрын
Wonderful
@Rm-ks8gg
@Rm-ks8gg 6 жыл бұрын
I wish they would emphasize that more in schools. So many children do not have the means or just don't want to go to college. Then they get to the real world and can't manage. They need a skill set.
@Jersey601
@Jersey601 8 жыл бұрын
I feel this caller's pain. I was in his shoes just a couple years ago before finishing my degree. Thank goodness for sticking with a plan.
@oilinmylamp
@oilinmylamp 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. Congrats 🎉
@joanparker8152
@joanparker8152 2 жыл бұрын
@@oilinmylamp Heather!!!!!!
@curiouscat3384
@curiouscat3384 Жыл бұрын
Bravo! Now you can be a mentor to someone else :)
@IZionDawta
@IZionDawta 5 жыл бұрын
I cried listening to this because I was here before. You can do this, man!
@Trailblazers323
@Trailblazers323 5 жыл бұрын
BlissCulture Yup but when it’s a single dad the sympathy pours in and women struggle with kids from deadbeats all the time
@Izzywizzy74
@Izzywizzy74 5 жыл бұрын
I'm still here.......
@Aalmost
@Aalmost 5 жыл бұрын
@@Trailblazers323 Single moms get child support
@mgomez8109
@mgomez8109 4 жыл бұрын
Mitch Levesque Lol not all of us 😂
@ZigySpACe
@ZigySpACe 4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa what do you mean single mothers don’t get any sympathy LOL
@logansgamingworld8137
@logansgamingworld8137 6 жыл бұрын
I really wish Dave would have a caller update segment. I'm so curious about what happened to some of these callers, especially Marcell.
@latinamisfit2477
@latinamisfit2477 6 жыл бұрын
Michelle M yes!!!
@billkindig137
@billkindig137 6 жыл бұрын
Just seems like a nice, respectful, caring guy who's taking care of his kids and wanting to better the life of his family. I like this guy.
@rminitials
@rminitials 5 жыл бұрын
One of my best friends whom I met in the gym is a single father. When we met back in 2014 he was struggling hard trying to make ends meet for him and his child. He went to school to become an airplane mechanic but couldn't find anything for the longest time. The gym was really all he had. He didn't have a car, didn't spend on anything, couldn't even if he wanted to. Went through years and years of legal battles to keep his child as the mother literally just took off. The courts made it extremely difficult for him to gain legal custody, despite the mother not making a single court appearance. He was finally blessed with a job working for Delta. He went from making nothing to over 4.5k a month starting. He's since moved to Florida where I assume he's making even more now as the years have gone by. He's one of the greatest people I've ever met. The love for his child was unlike anything I'd seen. He could have left his son but instead went through it all to gain custody and eventually build a great life for the two of them.
@haikat4
@haikat4 5 жыл бұрын
Inspiring. Dedicated single fathers are some of the toughest guys on Earth.
@Trailblazers323
@Trailblazers323 5 жыл бұрын
Women do it all the time
@a.k.4085
@a.k.4085 4 жыл бұрын
@@Trailblazers323 Because of divorce or the father abandons. And most of the time, Mothers get custody so glad this man has stepped up to do what 2 people should do together.
@randomfemaleopinion3167
@randomfemaleopinion3167 3 жыл бұрын
@@Trailblazers323 Ye because its extremely easy and convenient. Women have a 90% something chance of getting custody, even without trying. They get money to support her and the children and the government helps as well. Fathers have an uphill battle and most dont have the money to fight a losing battle. Why would you try with such high stakes that could leave you homeless ?
@OCDTraci
@OCDTraci 7 жыл бұрын
As a single mom with overwhelming student loans and a part time job, I feel this guy's pain.
@mspixiedust100
@mspixiedust100 7 жыл бұрын
single grandma, part time here too
@sketchboi1
@sketchboi1 10 жыл бұрын
i make $13.90 1 kid baby on the way house note $960 no credit card debt light water is on me as well and cable brought the cable bill down from 160 to 58 dave ramsey inspired me to go to school with this post
@bradleymaravalli2851
@bradleymaravalli2851 7 жыл бұрын
You can do it man! And once you are out of school, read the most popular books on Amazon's Business & Money section, Self-Improvement section, and others. I swear I've learned more by reading these books than I ever learned in college. Any updates from your side? How's it all going?
@GalbertKun
@GalbertKun 7 жыл бұрын
sketchboi1 how are you doing hermano
@PetePuebla
@PetePuebla 7 жыл бұрын
sketchboi1 God bless you man. Keep hustlin'.
@henrynguyen8994
@henrynguyen8994 6 жыл бұрын
Jamie Dimon mistakes happen...at least he’s working hard to reach his goals and support his kid
@miguelrobb5719
@miguelrobb5719 6 жыл бұрын
Henry Nguyen he is just telling it like it is
@CallmeDaBreeze1971
@CallmeDaBreeze1971 8 жыл бұрын
I have a suggestion for Marcell. Find the local FedEx or UPS facility and get a part time job there.
@thepostfk
@thepostfk 8 жыл бұрын
I've done this and I have no kids, student loans, or massive debt. I just want money
@AndreaLKL72
@AndreaLKL72 8 жыл бұрын
I know someone who's been driving for FedEx for 15 years now and makes $23 bucks an hour and works overtime every week at time & a half! Overall 45/50 a year.
@PhotoLabMP
@PhotoLabMP 8 жыл бұрын
+Mike Nelson Uncle Sam gets his share of your OT check once you pass 40 hours in a week.
@ashlee120386
@ashlee120386 8 жыл бұрын
+Andrea Lodden 15 years and only making $23/HR??? I don't think that's significant.
@mauricegeorge4320
@mauricegeorge4320 7 жыл бұрын
in where? In Southern Texas, 45/50 is very good..In NYC, 45 is nothing.
@jois1779
@jois1779 7 жыл бұрын
Dave can you please get an update on Marcel
@alit5563
@alit5563 5 жыл бұрын
Joi S can I follow you on Instagram?
@crackpipejoe3508
@crackpipejoe3508 5 жыл бұрын
He's black so he's doin 20 to life!!!
@marlanekelly170
@marlanekelly170 5 жыл бұрын
BEN DOVER how miserable are you? Lol
@greenearthblueskies8556
@greenearthblueskies8556 4 жыл бұрын
JD123483 This is a white guy who creates fake accounts to perpetuate his racism aka TROLL
@thebranclan4826
@thebranclan4826 4 жыл бұрын
SLICK WILLIE dude what.
@CC-ke2bn
@CC-ke2bn 10 жыл бұрын
Respect to you, Marcell!! Things are going to turn around for you. Just stay motivated and work hard. God loves you and your boys and He's there for you. Have faith and persevere! Once again, great advice, Dave!
@LukeReed627
@LukeReed627 10 жыл бұрын
This is good advice from Dave Ramsey, I wish Marcel and his boys well.
@TheSelf_EmployedBudget
@TheSelf_EmployedBudget Жыл бұрын
A real father and man. This was a great call with great advice for him 🙏🏾
@davidlane8811
@davidlane8811 8 жыл бұрын
This was two years ago, I wish Marcell would update us. I really hope he is in a better position now.
@arlenwiley4287
@arlenwiley4287 5 жыл бұрын
My goodness!!! The reading part was gold. This is so motivational making financial freedom seem reachable not “easy” but reachable!
@ariellebelizaire8365
@ariellebelizaire8365 2 жыл бұрын
My favorite call ever! We need more dads like you ❤️
@kimjungdrump1946
@kimjungdrump1946 5 жыл бұрын
This is the call I needed to hear Dave take. Thanks, Marcell for being a Great Man, he’s definitely worth more $$$! And thanks Dave for giving him the advice I too needed to hear as well. This made my day.
@XxEtHaN39xX
@XxEtHaN39xX 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful :) This is something that I have also struggled with as well. God bless this man for what he is doing for his family, for his kids, and for himself! It is amazing! Such an inspiration!
@iguesi
@iguesi 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the HOPE, Dave. What a great a call and a great plan. God bless you Marcell.
@SilkyGardens
@SilkyGardens 9 жыл бұрын
If anyone is wondering what books Dave recommends, here is a short list: The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People - Stephen R. Covey Good To Great - by Jim Collins The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership - by John C. Maxwell The Legend of the Monk and the Merchant - by Terry Felber QBQ - The Question Behind the Question - By John G. Miller Rhinoceros Success - by Scott Alexander Boundaries - by Dr. Henry Cloud The Go Getter - by Peter B. Kyne Tribes - by Seth Godin Thou Shall Prosper - by Rabbi Daniel Lapin Quitter - by Jon Acuff Start - by Jon Acuff
@michaellock239
@michaellock239 8 жыл бұрын
do you have the full list anywhere?
@SilkyGardens
@SilkyGardens 8 жыл бұрын
+Michael Lock Just go to daveramsey.com and look at the book store online. you'll find all of the recommendations there.
@michaellock239
@michaellock239 8 жыл бұрын
Ben Brinker thank you
@JasonfromMinnesota
@JasonfromMinnesota 8 жыл бұрын
+Ben Brinker thankyou !!
@bradknobloch2823
@bradknobloch2823 6 жыл бұрын
Can't Dave just read these to us?
@ColoradoLady36
@ColoradoLady36 8 жыл бұрын
God bless him. He's a single dad and he's doing a good job. I wonder how he's doing now. I hope he's doing well as he raises his babies.
@joeivo911
@joeivo911 6 жыл бұрын
Dave this one made me tear up. I’m on this journey also and I feel you’re shows help me. Thank you!
@enjoy578
@enjoy578 5 жыл бұрын
This is the greatest show... literally. I feel blessed to have found this channel.
@johntucket9221
@johntucket9221 5 жыл бұрын
Dave, what an amazing call. How well you are doing - it's EXACTLY as much as you deserve.
@jardenkt2763
@jardenkt2763 4 жыл бұрын
I got so fired up for this guy. 👏🏽 You’re gonna kill it man! Probably already has. Just realized this video is 6 years old. 😂
@CarlosValentino
@CarlosValentino 7 жыл бұрын
Whatever happen to Marcel? Dave, the way you loved on Marcel was sooo awesome!!!!
@AvelardoLopez
@AvelardoLopez 10 жыл бұрын
It so motivates me to hear you talk, but even more to hear you help all of the people that you help daily.
@jonathanmuamba3514
@jonathanmuamba3514 6 жыл бұрын
Can’t get enough of the encouraging msg. Keep it up Dave!!
@mhillwhite21
@mhillwhite21 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This really hit home. Been going through this struggle for 4 years now. I hope Marcell and his boys are on top the 🌎 . All the men ( women) who share this journey, I wish you the best!💪🏽
@sjoh104041
@sjoh104041 6 жыл бұрын
Became a single dad with three small children. 20 months, 4, and 6 years old at the time I received custody. That was 28 years ago. They are adults now. All with college degrees and good, decent people. There were times I look back on, and cannot believe we made it through. Without getting into a long winded story. My philosophy was, to get up every morning, put my feet on the floor, and proceed with my day. And save what I could, no matter our financial situation. If one cannot live on 400.00 a week. One cannot live on 380.00 a week either. It took time at first. Knowing that money was there, but only touched it when I absolutely had no choice. Such as my vehicle breaking down. My first thousand I saved, my truck broke down and it cost me 800.00 to fix it. But realization that I had the money to fix it. Only disciplined me to save more, to have that sense of security in a tough monetary situation. Thank you Mr. Ramesy for giving this young man such good advice.
@luvyatubers
@luvyatubers 2 жыл бұрын
He told him to work more. I bet the kids would like to throw a ball w Dad but he's tired from 40 hours and mowing lawns. I bet u like this too you will own nothing and be happy
@DrGoldieMD
@DrGoldieMD 6 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite Dave Ramsey call. He really gives great advice and encouragement.
@billiebillie678
@billiebillie678 7 жыл бұрын
God bless you Dave! That is extremely kind of you to have sent Marcell those books. They will change his life for the better. I really hope that his life has gotten better since this call.
@arachelylo
@arachelylo 7 жыл бұрын
My husband was terminated late may this year and I quit my job (yes stupid decision but couldn't take it anymore) and we are both home he is getting unemployment and thank got that helps with rent and all bills and we have about 6months saved for leaving, but this videos are helping a lot, can't wait to get back on track and follow Dave Ramsey's plan and 7 baby steps!!!Thanks keep them coming!!
@jomontanee
@jomontanee 8 жыл бұрын
I love Dave's advice on reading a book a week. And he was sending a case of books to Marcell!!!
@mmp495
@mmp495 2 жыл бұрын
Good fatherly advice. Kudos to you Marcell for reaching out for help to make changes in your life and your children's ❤❤❤
@jovandraganescu1406
@jovandraganescu1406 5 жыл бұрын
I like how he handled this caller, definitely opened up his thought process! Best of luck to him
@copenhagenhigh597
@copenhagenhigh597 4 жыл бұрын
"I got a friend that reads two books because he wants to be a 2 millionaire" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@reganwolf4405
@reganwolf4405 4 жыл бұрын
😅🤣 let me try that too🤪
@carmellabrown3335
@carmellabrown3335 9 жыл бұрын
Good luck to him, he should put the mother of his children on child support!
@cjzanders5430
@cjzanders5430 9 жыл бұрын
I'm guessing he would seak custody. Mothers aren't known for paying child support anywhere near as well as fathers statistically and thanks to the sexism of our judicial system, it proably will continue. I'm sure the reason he has the children is because she's not a competent mother, and obtaining support from her may just make things worse.
@avetterification
@avetterification 6 жыл бұрын
Ramsey is a badass. I love the kindness with realness that knows how hard life is. Freaking inspirational!!!!
@sunriseplumbingtexas
@sunriseplumbingtexas 6 жыл бұрын
That’s great Dave. Handled that situation with such class and love. Case of books!
@brentbanks8314
@brentbanks8314 10 жыл бұрын
Marcell, Dave mentioned cutting grass on the weekend. I mow lawns part-time and it's true you can earn some good money on the side. I earn 16.50 at my full time job, and earn roughly $50-60/hour while I am out mowing. I can whip out a lawn in 25-30 minutes and charge them $30 per week. If you really are willing to do what you have to do you can improve your lifestyle. In the Summer I put in 60 hour back breaking weeks, but I also earn an extra 3-5k per month during the mowing season too. Whatever you decide to do it will be work, but you can do it.
@brentbanks8314
@brentbanks8314 10 жыл бұрын
DENNISLOPEZINC I can do 12-15 lawns in 1 day before it starts feeling like a really long tiring day. After 6-7 hours you tend to be pretty warn out and ready to be done. 90% of my lawns request to be mowed weekly. The other 10% I do every other week and charge 40% more than the weekly clients per cut.
@Izzywizzy74
@Izzywizzy74 5 жыл бұрын
But he has to have time with his children.... there is no time...
@oilinmylamp
@oilinmylamp 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice and encouragement!
@autismwalk6855
@autismwalk6855 4 жыл бұрын
Keep on that grind, Marcel! Read those books Dave sent to you, and keep growing and improving. Keep things moving and things will get better each year. You can do it, mayne!
@crystalparris4012
@crystalparris4012 5 жыл бұрын
Strength and guidance to this single father, keep trying and things will change for the better. I love how the host dealt with it. He gave him sound advice, while pointing out the facts. The power of being a human being: helping another human being to be better.
@LaDeeDah
@LaDeeDah 6 жыл бұрын
I love Dave! He was so awesome with this caller!!! 💗💗💗
@chrisrefaei
@chrisrefaei 5 жыл бұрын
This man is a real father. The hope Dave put in him. You can really tell Marcel needed this peptalk.
@paulstandaert2042
@paulstandaert2042 7 жыл бұрын
Here is a guy who does really good with what he has to work with.
@fucanaoasis2000
@fucanaoasis2000 4 жыл бұрын
Dave is such a remarkably compassionate person. God bless.
@JohnsWoodshop1958
@JohnsWoodshop1958 10 жыл бұрын
Dave, That was WONDERFUL how you helped that young man! I have a deep respect for you! John
@yamaris827
@yamaris827 3 жыл бұрын
I hope he has a local food pantry he can go to and sets up a meal plan to reduce his shopping needs! It can go a long way.
@umbutubangbang1308
@umbutubangbang1308 10 жыл бұрын
***** Can you post an update about where Marell is in his life since the show,I would love to know how far he has gotten since then...
@graysonchapman6010
@graysonchapman6010 4 жыл бұрын
Dave, I listen to this some time back. Please, give us a update for this young man! God bless him and his babies!
@maloperverso8118
@maloperverso8118 7 жыл бұрын
The Dude on this Call was "Worse than He Deserved"!
@lovedavis9572
@lovedavis9572 4 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😭
@devonike
@devonike 10 жыл бұрын
That guy should demand his ex-wife pay child support.
@Vydio
@Vydio 9 жыл бұрын
He should be getting some. Can he get support enforcement to go after her?
@barryhampton6270
@barryhampton6270 5 жыл бұрын
They probably was NEVER married. Lets be honest. Im single dad as well in the same boat ⛵
@janelle9990
@janelle9990 5 жыл бұрын
It’s a good idea but the average deadbeat parent pays a couple bucks a month just to keep themselves out of jail.
@jordyndeming3266
@jordyndeming3266 5 жыл бұрын
You can't demand they pay support. You can request it and they can fire back with a request to have some custody. I have seen some awful custody battles and the neglectful parent winning more in the end.
@nikki27ish
@nikki27ish 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@NATHAN-uz8un
@NATHAN-uz8un 6 жыл бұрын
Same situation as me I'm just a single mom of two little boys. Love Dave because this is exactly what I needed to hear.
@theninja376
@theninja376 6 жыл бұрын
I like the way dave speaks to the person on the phone straight up how they need to hear what he saying to them first video i watch on dave and i subscribed quick because this and all his other videos is what i need to hear and follow thanks dave!
@majesticbyelg6398
@majesticbyelg6398 5 жыл бұрын
This made me so emotional. God really used dave ramsey.praise god to glory be his name.
@CarimboHanky
@CarimboHanky 5 жыл бұрын
1:08 "does she pay child support" OF COURSE SHE DOESNT!
@Kapalua606
@Kapalua606 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dave. Your shows are inspiring! Blessings to you and your family.
@ingridromero8007
@ingridromero8007 8 жыл бұрын
I must have heard this case about 10 times. So inspiring. Im going back to school just because of this story. Very motivating!
@oxsus6757
@oxsus6757 5 жыл бұрын
Man it would be awesome to see how he’s doing now. It’s been 5 years since this video was uploaded 😲
@bloomwithjessika4960
@bloomwithjessika4960 10 жыл бұрын
Good luck Marcell! You can do it!
@Joni257Fox
@Joni257Fox 10 жыл бұрын
Sound, solid advice. I wish you and your boys well, Marcel. God Bless you above and beyond.....
@LEYVA1107
@LEYVA1107 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video, strong motivational talk and great understanding on his circumstance.
@33superjenna
@33superjenna 8 жыл бұрын
Dave what were the books you wanted him to read? I feel like I can relate to his story exactly and everything you said makes sense for me too! I'd really love to know which books they were please.
@tomjacques6051
@tomjacques6051 5 жыл бұрын
I do weekend cleaning for a school for xtra 💰. $18.00 per hr
@echobean5222
@echobean5222 5 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite segment I’ve ever listened to. I hope this man is doing well.
@dublajustasi
@dublajustasi 3 жыл бұрын
I have much respect for every word you just said Mr. Dave, God bless.
@jolantakanya
@jolantakanya 6 жыл бұрын
Did his financial situation improve? does anyone know? you don't find men willing and able to raise kids on their own and also seeking self improvement...
@jpmonin7429
@jpmonin7429 6 жыл бұрын
smurfette Kanya there's more then you'd think but I agree it's not common.
@TechConsumption
@TechConsumption 5 жыл бұрын
@Helen Hines Thank you!
@shshdhd9363
@shshdhd9363 5 жыл бұрын
No because he listens to Dave Ramsey
@mariezforbes
@mariezforbes 6 жыл бұрын
Big ups to Marcell, not too many men like him anymore! He will go far I know ❤️
@jenniferj6580
@jenniferj6580 4 жыл бұрын
Dec 2019 Dave Ramsey, I appreciate the common sense and knowledge you share. God bless you.
@provokestyle2980
@provokestyle2980 7 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite clips. I Learned alot. Good luck Marcell
@crazylaredoan
@crazylaredoan 10 жыл бұрын
Awesome call to the show! It would be great to get a list of the books that Dave recommended to the caller so that we may read them too. Thanks!
@MonkeyPelt
@MonkeyPelt 10 жыл бұрын
I'd love to see the list as well. There are several books Dave endorses on the show as well as a decent selection of books he didn't write you can buy off his website under "Dave's Library." I've read a few of them and have a few more headed my way in the mail. The ones I've read are SOLID!
@MonkeyPelt
@MonkeyPelt 8 жыл бұрын
Text books would help? Not sure how understanding anaerobic cellular mechanisms would help put food on the table next week and more importantly build HOPE today. Ramsey absolutely IS NOT against education in general, he's against education without a purpose or a goal. The books he recommends help you to find a direction and a goal you want to reach for, then suggest education to reach them. Not education for education's sake like you're recommending. If you're so avid about recommending textbooks then what three text books would you recommend?
@MonkeyPelt
@MonkeyPelt 8 жыл бұрын
I still don't see what that has to do with reading a text book. The fact that you spent so much time on a KZfaq comment and still didn't answer the one question I asked, what text books I should check out, proves you're just blowing smoke and can't find security anywhere else. Good luck in your methods! I hope they'll turn out better than mine, but I doubt they will :)
@JPROP-vb7sv
@JPROP-vb7sv 2 жыл бұрын
Dave is the bomb
@uhuh30
@uhuh30 6 жыл бұрын
This conversation is beautiful and I’m glad I started watching Dave Ramsey.
@adfmo2195
@adfmo2195 4 жыл бұрын
Props to this young single father taking good care of his children. Reaching out for help to better himself and better the life for his family. Bravo sir 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@bandito906
@bandito906 4 жыл бұрын
If the situation was flipped, Marcell would be paying at least 800 a month for child support, but the mother doesn’t have to pay anything in this situation.
@nw8000
@nw8000 6 жыл бұрын
Why didnt I get this advice when I was 16 instead of 50??
@TheFactsofLife237
@TheFactsofLife237 5 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@Downtime-Remy
@Downtime-Remy 5 жыл бұрын
Because you wouldn't have listened anyways.
@ModernPlague
@ModernPlague 5 жыл бұрын
@@floop7624 - Was the internet around when he was 16?
@jimmyolsenblues
@jimmyolsenblues 5 жыл бұрын
I am also 50. I think we are just stupid until we get to 50.
@sverma101
@sverma101 4 жыл бұрын
jimmyolsenblues no thats just you.
@oki1985
@oki1985 5 жыл бұрын
This dad is amazing!!!! and honestly Dave is like that grandpa advice, just his tone of voice and his optimizism is all you need to get on the right path.
@dudleywins
@dudleywins 5 ай бұрын
This truly is Dave at his very best. How compassionate, truly moving. Hope the caller is doing better now!
@kirapoodle
@kirapoodle Жыл бұрын
He sounds like a good man. I hope he is doing well.
@JohnDoe-ly6bt
@JohnDoe-ly6bt Жыл бұрын
He does. but two things. 40 hours a week wont cut it. and 13.50 an hour doesnt cut it either. and not to be mean, theirs literally no reason why anyone should be working 13.50 an hour. you can literally call the bank right now, and work customer service from home for starting at 20$ an hour, and they have a bunnnnnnch of overtime.
@MrFrankEast
@MrFrankEast 11 ай бұрын
@@JohnDoe-ly6bt Doesnt mean they will hire them. The general public that isn't job searching are VERY ignorant to the "labor shortage" that we have right now
@JohnDoe-ly6bt
@JohnDoe-ly6bt 11 ай бұрын
@@MrFrankEast they wont know if they will get hired if they don't try.
@GalbertKun
@GalbertKun 8 жыл бұрын
Marcell, how have you been doing?
@Magerquark
@Magerquark 5 жыл бұрын
Some of the best advice I have ever heard I will start reading more for sure
@roadtofreedom848
@roadtofreedom848 6 жыл бұрын
This one touched me deeply. Dave nailed the reading portion, Marcell demonstrated verbally his conviction and morales. It seemed all he was missing was his ability to effectively communicate. Knowledge saves lives.
@kellyyork3898
@kellyyork3898 4 жыл бұрын
His “ex” needs to help
@8574944ggayle
@8574944ggayle 5 жыл бұрын
Take her to court for child support, she would. I wonder how's he's doing now.
@warrenf5821
@warrenf5821 3 жыл бұрын
These are the kind of calls that I really appreciate on the Dave Ramsey Show. This guy sounds like he is trying his absolute best. Something about a situation like this feels so much more "real" than some of Dave's callers who appear to call just to flex their income on everybody.
@May-zl8bf
@May-zl8bf 5 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to this struggling father. I hope life turns around for his family for the better and he finds a job and career that fulfils and supports their lifestyle.
@GoProBiscuit
@GoProBiscuit 10 жыл бұрын
if it was a women calling and the dad didnt pay support Dave would have told her to go after him...why not the opposite i wonder...
@Vydio
@Vydio 9 жыл бұрын
I wonder if there is an existing support order? There's got to be an order deadbeat Mom isn't paying before a court does much.
@CerronPritchett
@CerronPritchett 6 жыл бұрын
It's a feminist society...
@belladarling4256
@belladarling4256 6 жыл бұрын
Josh Porter if it was a woman, you would have bashed her for being a single parent in the first place
@chevelle1
@chevelle1 6 жыл бұрын
Dave is gynocentric generally speaking.
@michaelweyenberg6238
@michaelweyenberg6238 5 жыл бұрын
Can't get money out of someone who doesn't make any.
@shannonwitherow852
@shannonwitherow852 6 жыл бұрын
I would love to know where this young man is now in his journey
@gadsdenkidz8606
@gadsdenkidz8606 4 жыл бұрын
I SALUTE DAVE FOR ENCOURAGING THIS MAN TO STAY ON THE RIGHT PATH TO TACKLE HIS FINANCIAL ISSUE AND I SALUTE THIS MAN FOR MAKING AN ATTEMPT TO DO THE RIGHT THINGS FOR HIS KIDS AND HIMSELF. KEEP GOING I AM CHEERING YOU ON ALL THE WAY FROM SC!!!!!!!
@TheRamseyShow
@TheRamseyShow 8 жыл бұрын
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@Lemons19902010
@Lemons19902010 8 жыл бұрын
I feel like I can relate to this video the most. I'm a single mom of one child who receives monthly SSI because he's disabled (autism). I just graduated from college and have $14k in student loans. I'm working part time, about 20 hours a week, making $8.25 an hour. I'm now applying (and interviewing!) for state jobs with salaries of $25-$30k a year. I'm slowly working my way through Dave Ramsey's baby steps and am tackling some old accounts that I have in collections while simultaneously saving $1k for my emergency fund. This video was very inspiring. I want to eventually get my Master's degree in Counseling and work as a mental health counselor. The salary for counselors in my state is about $50k. Now I know what to work towards.
@dthaysjr
@dthaysjr 8 жыл бұрын
Who cares? He is not there, so he is not involved.
@rossjohnson5137
@rossjohnson5137 7 жыл бұрын
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