Single Mom Left Me For a Colleague
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@markkettner9246 5 ай бұрын
She leaving him is the best thing that could have happened for him . I wish men could see this and not let these women get to them
@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын
guys often get stuck on a woman that leave them. Seems its natural to want something we can't have. Even if we could find better eventually.
@RealWorldTainment_ 5 ай бұрын
So true man I was dating a girl for 3 months very hot and single mom. After three months she said she needs a man to take care of her financially after 3 months lol
@gooddogtalks 4 ай бұрын
After my ex left me, I lost 125 lbs. Best thing that ever happened to me.
@OmegaMale92 5 ай бұрын
My ex-wife said I didn't tell her she was beautiful. Objectively, she wasn't. Apparently, she wanted me to lie to her.
@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын
Ouch HAHA My ex often asked me my opinion on clothing she was trying on or thinking of buying and I always told her the truth straight up. Not being an asshole or anything but yeah that dress makes you look fat or doesn't suit your body or whatever. She loved my honesty at the time and didn't trust any of her girlfriends. Now of course I'm likely being called abusive and controlling. Because that's how it works once the relationship is over.
@keithviens3990 5 ай бұрын
You’re hilarious dude 😂
@IvanTheNormal 5 ай бұрын
So basically, do what you were always going to do, and let her be a part of it. Instead of trying to make her life better, make yours the way you want it. She will benefit either way. Its a hard concept for those plugged in. I did the same. I got married young. She was still living with her parents. I helped her get a license, car, and job. She found someone else at that job and felt independent now that she had a car and money. She called me back a year later when things didnt work out 😂
@MrNayo305 5 ай бұрын
😂 typical "strong and independent " women
@IvanTheNormal 5 ай бұрын
@@MrNayo305 I've learned not to keep them lol it didn't have to be this way 🤷♂️
@RealWorldTainment_ 5 ай бұрын
Wow lol yea aren’t they funny creatures
@redgemini9851 5 ай бұрын
Bro, 6 figures, 31 & fit! You should have your pick... Go and get a 20 year old hottie and your ex will magically want you again. 4 years wasted with a single mom, oof
@ChiqueIndustries 5 ай бұрын
For guys like him its always a mental block
@redgemini9851 5 ай бұрын
@@ChiqueIndustries Agreed. Seeing the range of frames is literally insane...
@RealWorldTainment_ 5 ай бұрын
Been there
@FA900 5 ай бұрын
SM are very good at manipulating. They are Jack is survival tactics.
@Girlwithapurse03 21 күн бұрын
I’m telling you right now, personality is everything.. don’t go by the stats (okay I’ll be honest personality and height) everything else is negotiable
@johnadams2630 5 ай бұрын
Single moms… if you’re going to date them…the first time they disrespect you in anyway.. leave them. And don’t ever forget, those kids are not yours. Blessings bros
@RealWorldTainment_ 5 ай бұрын
After three months of dating this girl she told me she needs a man not a child to take care of her financially. I literally have never dated a girl that asks me to support her three months in 😂
@learhaynes1002 5 ай бұрын
Facts
@dont6441 5 ай бұрын
A woman can and will leave a relationship for any reason or no reason at all. And there is NOTHING you can do about it. Think your relationship is different? Good luck with that.
@BrianWaller-qe7gr 5 ай бұрын
Yep gets to the point where you say why bother?
@eQuariuz 5 ай бұрын
You can do a lot about it, just be ready to be arrested, or flee the country and get a new identity.
@davidwald3507 5 ай бұрын
This hit home with me. Thank you for this segment. Married my ex in 2009, after 3 years dating. She had a young kid from a previous relationship. After marriage, bought her a car, the house she wanted and raised her daughter the best I could. I also helped her get through nursing school. As soon as she graduated and after 12 years, she asked for the divorce. Lesson learned
@xavierayayaell546 5 ай бұрын
Stop getting married ffs
@jdsartre9520 5 ай бұрын
beta simp. getting used and played. "never marry an already-mom" is a rule for a reason
@Eric-kn4yn 5 ай бұрын
Guys let their guard down and sucker punched TKO
@ralphemerson497 5 ай бұрын
Why? If you asked yourself, “would that woman want me now is she was younger and without said trophy,” you wouldn’t be in that situation now.
@user-uv1lq4bl4p 5 ай бұрын
She knew she was at a deficit used your niceness and resources to level up.
@BrianWaller-qe7gr 5 ай бұрын
Yet another reason to not date nurses. How many time do we have to hear nurses cheating on their partners?
@professionalpookie 5 ай бұрын
Why are you as a man using the term "partners"?
@BrianWaller-qe7gr 5 ай бұрын
@@professionalpookie who gives a fuck what you think next caller….
@professionalpookie 5 ай бұрын
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr what grown man is running around talking about "partners"?? Rich even mentioned how men should've be saying it. Guys like you shouldn't be in the comment section. You probably dont even get laid
@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын
@professionalpookie because it's easier than saying boyfriend or husband.
@professionalpookie 5 ай бұрын
@@scottverge938 what masculine men are using this term? Words matter. Same way men shouldn't be running around calling people toxic or a narcissist
@TheFimbullord 5 ай бұрын
She sounds like a typical nurse.
@bobvillanueva712 5 ай бұрын
GENTLEMEN, The term is called "SUDDEN GAINS" Once you help guide and support her in feeling more stable about who she really is, she now feels more confident that she can do better and on to the next branch, yea? .........................................................
@FA900 5 ай бұрын
100% true
@22448824 7 күн бұрын
Sudden Games. Never heard of that term and it doesn't seem to fit the situation. Nonetheless it happened to me. Of course, she has gone from relationship to relationship. They think they are something special with their "mahogany framed certificate".
@juddyyoutube 5 ай бұрын
She got him to pay for her school then stopped caring. She was only ever in it for the money
@Merth667 5 ай бұрын
This guy is incredibly lucky.
@Millennialtomb 5 ай бұрын
Yep for many it's much worse when they blow up.
@Drumbeat52 5 ай бұрын
Any woman in a relationship will not accept a relationship that has no progression. They always expect the relationship to go somewhere. The only ones that are different are paid for their services.
@Son-of-Krypton 5 ай бұрын
Honestly he dodged a bullet with that single mom….she wanted the ring too soon to lock him up. Stay smart guys 🙄
@Drumbeat52 5 ай бұрын
@@Son-of-Krypton Yep, same ole playbook used by them all. "Show me the money!" lol
@snipersteve378 5 ай бұрын
Dudes start fresh no single moms. This guy was taken for a ride served his purpose hes lucky she kicked him to the curb!
@drip369 5 ай бұрын
Or, she's free and sent home
@underdoge8338 5 ай бұрын
You dont progress anything with a women like this, this guy is a complete fool. You can tell he just wanted a white women for the sake of having a white women.
@dont6441 5 ай бұрын
Rich drops some cold hard truth bombs in this video.
@spencervanhauter 5 ай бұрын
This guy dodged a huge bullet.
@underdoge8338 5 ай бұрын
Not really, he kinda walked in front a bullet and when it didnt kill him he came to the revelation that walking in front of a bullets is bad idea. Now he's coming on here to tell us something that should have been obvious to any non desperate guy.
@JohnSkyLey 5 ай бұрын
He did waste 5 years with her.
@keithviens3990 5 ай бұрын
With a cheating single mom ug
@FA900 5 ай бұрын
He dodged a Nuke
@rageblademage 5 ай бұрын
Rich's answer to her saying "you didn't call me beautiful enough" is spot on
@Millennialtomb 5 ай бұрын
You're not doing single mothers any favours by giving them a chance. She will not be grateful to you for what you give to her. She will not reward you with long term loyalty. Be careful who you let into your life.
@teflon_da1 5 ай бұрын
Ahhh, the male co-worker she tells you not to worry about.
@22448824 7 күн бұрын
I even had her telling me that she thought her co worker was gay. The inevitable happened
@jimriggs9122 5 ай бұрын
Never marry, no cohabitation, never pay for her education, never support her or her children if she has any. Girlfriends only, and always be on the lookout for the next Girlfriend.
@ianarn 5 ай бұрын
Five years is a long time to stay with a woman without living with her or marrying her if that’s what she wanted! He should have made a break after 18 months and not wasted his own time! Get better at choosing!
@mysterio1570 5 ай бұрын
I love Rich’s evil laugh. I could play that on loop forever while I am cleaning my Condo.
@Willtext 5 ай бұрын
This man just got liberated!
@RedArrow73 5 ай бұрын
Dodged a bullet - let it go.
@MKULTRA_Victim_ 5 ай бұрын
You spit nothing but facts in this clip, kudos. The caller seemed like he had a decent head on his shoulders as well, best of luck to that man.
@hgfw9295 5 ай бұрын
She should have been gone after max 2 years since she was marriage minded. Just leave girl if the man is not proposing. Do not try to force it for years forward. Waste of time for both.
@your_royal_highness 5 ай бұрын
Single mom nurse…..yikes. I’ve done that
@samjon6403 5 ай бұрын
Add nurses and flight attendants to the redflags, Rich!
@josevasquez337 5 ай бұрын
I dated a single mom for 2 years.. she got a job in law enforcement and me being the great guy I am watched her 5 year old at the time while she went to the academy. After she graduated she started acting weird and broke up with me after I left I found out she was dating another cop in her department. Married him and a couple years after divorced. That was her 3rd marriage so I know I dodged a bullet and years later she apologized for doing what she did . I was really close there her daughter and it hurt leaving the relationship.
@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын
I guess at least she had the self awareness to apologize eventually. Was she trying to get you back? LOL
@Jonathan01233 5 ай бұрын
dodged a bullet man.
@josevasquez337 5 ай бұрын
@Scott no she wasn't. She had moved out of state after the divorce I assume it was bad. I didn't ask.
@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын
@@josevasquez337 interesting. I wonder why she reached out then.
@cryptorunner6957 5 ай бұрын
He got some of her best years 25-30. Well played man
@TheBeatenPaths 5 ай бұрын
I was in his exact same shoes, so I can speak from real experience. He actually dodged as a bullet and is lucky af. Mommy's gone, no child support or alimony. Rich was right regarding the heartbreak too, time heals all wounds. Do what I did young man....live your life alone for a good long time. But a 4x4 and start fly fishing. Worked for me!!!!
@MrJujitsu62 5 ай бұрын
This guy should celebrate and buy lottery tickets. He won the lottery by getting rid of her.
@lodersracing 5 ай бұрын
10:04 Financially abusive, meaning she had to stick to a budget LOL!!!!!
@daifeichu 5 ай бұрын
Women around that age will date younger guys because it makes them feel younger.
@michaelregan427 5 ай бұрын
This guy didnt need to call Rich, he already knew exactly what was up. He didnt get her a ring because he did like her but didnt consider her wife material. She stepped out and thats her nature but he gave her reason to look elsewhere he wasnt budging. Ive been in a similar situation, just because youre having some fun dont drag it out. The caller sounded aware and saw the hints she was dropping to not buy a ring. His life can fully takeoff now without her.
@cccollarncuffs 5 ай бұрын
She realized you were using it.
@maxpaws3977 5 ай бұрын
'He was younger'. Unfortunately contrary to popular redpill belief women tend to prefer young men rather than older guys.
@daszieher 5 ай бұрын
Of course! Just like we guys prefer younger women. Let me rephrase that. We prefer women of a certain age range. For most men, who bring the goods and the character stability to the table, this age group happens to be younger. So I have always been hooking up with girls in their late 20's early 30's. That's my "target audience" since I was 18.😂 I'm 50 now. And actually, I'm not a player. I actually wanted to marry and have three children. I just ended up with the wrong women.
@wonderwalls3565 5 ай бұрын
Not sure what the hell he is complaining about. He dodged a bullet.
@topshelfbullys7889 5 ай бұрын
Says she’ll convert to Islam but gets a tattoo Ha Ha Ha
@FA900 5 ай бұрын
Hypocrisy on point to convince the engineer 😂
@gwills9337 5 ай бұрын
Can we all agree bro is going to be fine 💪
@OyVey- 5 ай бұрын
Did you notice, the book review was more important than the guest.
@keithviens3990 5 ай бұрын
Rich always talk over his guests lol
@BC-hmm 5 ай бұрын
OP, you’ll hear from this chick again
@MrJujitsu62 5 ай бұрын
That’s funny. I have news for this guy ; we are all labeled abusive by every X we have. It’s a given.
@learhaynes1002 5 ай бұрын
It amazes me how sprung many men get over women(especially single mothers).
@Dansyoung 5 ай бұрын
My man, take the L focus on the things you enjoy. Life is short, it could have been way worse you didn’t waste your entire life with someone who wasn’t loyal.
@thomasandrewmcgonigal5150 5 ай бұрын
He dodged a bullet.
@stevec3526 5 ай бұрын
A single mother who is a nurse? Guy do better…
@dangermartin69 5 ай бұрын
He should sue her for all the money he spent on her schooling.
@Jonathan01233 5 ай бұрын
3rd baby mama is a major red flag.
@pornupaboum3459 5 ай бұрын
Why do people say they’re religious but then don’t live by the rules of their stupid book? He was clearly having pre-marital sex with her, a terrible sin…
@samstan4462 5 ай бұрын
Im a believer in Jesus Christ but I'm against organized religion and the "rules" that someone has to live by...nowhere in the bible does it say you have to believe everything in it to be saved...people will naturally pick and choose what they feel at peace with..
@kenandrieling5885 5 ай бұрын
@@samstan4462Like being gay and having premarital sex and having female clergy members
@linacreote9833 5 ай бұрын
@@FXPhysics💯💯💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌
@stevehenderson5471 23 күн бұрын
You DON'T HAVE TO PUT A RING ON THEIR FINGER, COMMITMENT IS IN YOUR ACTIONS, don't fall for the BS that a RING will fix everything !!
@stevehenderson5471 23 күн бұрын
LUCKY YOU BUDDY !!! ENJOY YOUR LIFE, SOMEONE WHO NEEDS TO be verbally reassured every 5 minutes is BAGGAGE you don't need !!!
@markotuomas672 5 ай бұрын
Nothing buth truth in this clip. When a woman leaves you, count it as a blessing.
@CarlosMayaOfficial 5 ай бұрын
Guy won the BIG PRIZE! But he hasn't understood yet. God's favorite. Enjoy your life bruh!
@IndependentNewsMedia 5 ай бұрын
God bless.
@Girlwithapurse03 21 күн бұрын
Rich cooper I’m here to bless your feed and tell you the big secret to Woman and I mean it listen up, women are rarely self aware so you won’t find this answer anywhere. Forget all the stats of money and waste and shoulders… it’s all about this Personality and Height Woman want excitement!! She will date a guy that doesn’t make that much, but he knows how to keep her entertained and wanting more.. the height is ufff like that masculine energy in physical form. Yes be more on the fit side … ARMS… is everything not too big not small.. and decent fit body like you have a shape. Men only have to compensate with money when they don’t have that charm, that personality, with some adventure and risk to make us woman feel alive.. that’s also the man she will cheat on her man with. Again Money is what compensate the lack of personality.. and also if she doesn’t really like you like that but you have money and you are interested.. she’ll look at you like financial security.. it’s not real love. So don’t lead with Money.. lead with Personality and Charm..
@alexandreoliveira5712 5 ай бұрын
my ex, after almost 2 years dating long distance, told me she that she met another guy . I always wanted a proper relationship with her. I tryed to convince her that I loved her and wanted her to live with me, I asked her in marriage. Thankfully, she didn't accept. We still few months later get together again, but this time I was very careful in order to avoid getting her preganant and really watching her steps, we had a relationship for more 2 years, then, I break up with her cos I noticed her behavior changing. She was a narcicist. I'm feel so good now that i'm free from her. She used her body and sex to seduce me and made me want and stay with her, but, if there is no trust, I don't think any relationship can work.
@ngocdungtranho683 Ай бұрын
dating 5 years and not making the next move is the reason the woman left him. He seems so egocentric to think an engineer is high social status
@22448824 7 күн бұрын
"Using up her time"? "How long was she to wait"? Presumably you are alluding to getting married. If that is the most important thing to her then he did indeed dodge a bullet.
@TheZooBrooksAB 5 ай бұрын
Gentlemen beware..... Whenever people refer to a woman as "you dodged a bullet and now she's someone else's problem"......don't be that guy. Don't be the the guy who is now "someone else's problem". That's what red flags are all about, and in this case, the red flag was that she was a single mom. There's a reason why she's a single mom. She either let a loser knock her up or she pushed a good man away. And that guy is being told "you dodged a bullet and now she's someone else's problem". Don't be the guy that takes on that burden. Stop trying your hardest to be a beta male.
@toemas8 5 ай бұрын
A lot of the time it’s as simple as attention… You earn the money so you can’t be with them 24/7 … she gets flattered with some young dude giving them attention. Ironically he has nothing going on so can invest time and attention on her…
@ChiqueIndustries 5 ай бұрын
Whats the best contingency against being taken advantage of? Don’t say “don’t get into a relationship”. I know prenup is one, but anything else?
@juddyyoutube 5 ай бұрын
Don't pay for expensive things like her college or a car. Don't let her have free rent.
@okigi-wo5zm 5 ай бұрын
Rip Gonzalo Lira.
@stevehenderson5471 23 күн бұрын
Your lucky she's gone !!! Enjoy your life !!!
@mont7620 5 ай бұрын
NPD, seperation individuation cycle, long grieve disorder. Greatings from Germany.
@dudinho7348 5 ай бұрын
Five years was more than enough time. He shouldn't have ket it go that long. She wanted marriage abd didn't want to wait forever. Why is he crying?
@dudinho7348 5 ай бұрын
@@nealcassady-yn3bh Ouch! 'nuff said.
@mrnike505 5 ай бұрын
If everything he says is true . He shouldn’t be struggling
@FA900 5 ай бұрын
9/10 Men tend to struggle emotionally after breakup or divorce. Even if they are spinning plates and making bags.
@lipinglin1994 5 ай бұрын
Not really. If you keep on dating after a break up, I can grauntee you she is gone within 6 month. You start hooking up with other girls your brain will erase the memories with her. It is our biology so stop making excuse for yourself and start getting up and do the work!~
@CF. 5 ай бұрын
Let me get this straight, they dated for 5 years, she wanted to get married and he didn’t. What else was she supposed to do? I’m not blaming her for this one honestly. She probably wants to get married and have more kids.
@lionmartinez7986 4 ай бұрын
I don’t believe this guy has the frame he’s claiming.
@marklally90 5 ай бұрын
she did u a favor
@cheekymonkeygirl3378 5 ай бұрын
He used her for five years without giving her a ring and complains about how she leaving him. 😢
@22448824 7 күн бұрын
Sounds more like he was "used".
@vinniedeluca2188 5 ай бұрын
Rich I kept my frame, I swear I kept my frame, I truly kept my frame. Sure you did buddy, any guy that is truly a man’s man knows that this guy is no where close, he lacks confidence and is constantly trying to convince others that he is something that he wishes he was but is not currently living. I hope he can come to grips with reality because if he doesn’t he will never improve
@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын
I felt the exact same way. I bet he's also not in the shape he claims nor a 7 in the looks department. There should have been at least one or two flaws he should have been able to point out in himself if he was being completely honest.
@keithviens3990 5 ай бұрын
Rich is pretty harsh on guys and he was actually pretty nice snd consoling to this guy because he felt bad for him
@Thomas46457 11 күн бұрын
If you put your wife through school, it's almost guaranteed that she'll leave after graduation.
@22448824 7 күн бұрын
Agreed. Happened to me. I looked after our children while she trained for a profession. Then she gets an inflated opinion of what she is worth. Our children, all boys, are with me. Without my prompting they have seen through her.
@fauxbro1983 5 ай бұрын
Move on bro
@charlesodonnell2993 5 ай бұрын
Avoid nurses. Always.
@CF. 5 ай бұрын
Kevin Samuels always said that when he was alive. RIP KS
@professionalpookie 5 ай бұрын
This guy is lying
@scottsolar2841 5 ай бұрын
Who cares go spin plates
@Athenaaaa24 5 ай бұрын
Yea, i don't know about this one. 5 yrs of using up what little time she had left aint cool? I don't blame her for bailing; how long was she to wait? For you to roll into your prime, get bored and find a younger replacement? And let's face it, no matter the timing, he was gonna complain about being used because he did stuff for her. so, she would look like the bad guy no matter what.
@henningsouz2833 5 ай бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jdyRbK6hyq6vhY0.html So, you're from "Islam" ?
@JohnnyBushwhacker-yv6bc 5 ай бұрын
This guy reeks of betatization. If you have to think about keeping frame you’re not keeping frame. Probably peaks and valleys keeping and losing frame. Calling the show is losing frame to be honest.
@drip369 5 ай бұрын
No, she's his third child's mother, or, she's the third woman he got pregnant. Saying baby mama and baby daddy is broke people language. Quit using broke people language. It's similar to using the word partner which is plugged-in people language
@aslkdjfzxcv9779 5 ай бұрын
"i've got one that can see!"
@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын
It's so much easier and faster and less confusing to say third baby mama. But I hear ya. I hate those terms as well.
@Candlelight787 5 ай бұрын
Your book sucks Rich!!! I am just kidding, I am sure the book is stelar.❤
@AnyluckProduction 5 ай бұрын
First
@mysterio1570 5 ай бұрын
I guess a man has to do this when it comes to love. Date women that have no kids or have been married, but not under 25, because they are too wishy washy. So thats women between 25/34 or so.
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