Our prayer for everyone who comes across this video is that you would discover and embrace the VALUE in your singleness… may God be your strength and may you fall in love with the pursuit of Him & who He has created you to be. Matthew 6:33 - seek first the kingdom and His righteousness and ALL things will be added unto you… May you seek Him first and everything that is FOR you come to you as a result. IJN 🙏🏼💚

Bro i needed that “If God didnt tell me your the one, you’re my brother in Christ” just changed my whole perspective on looking at everyone as “the one”

The part where Isaiah was saying don’t destroy friendships because you want to end your single season and where he said he won’t waste someone time or hurt them shows God’s love is in him. This is exactly what I needed. Listening to it on repeat, so much wisdom. ❤

Being a widow of going in 3 years at the age of 29 it definitely gets difficult especially when I don’t have the same community of single Christians to help me on those struggle days and nights. Please pray for me in my wiery times🙏🏽 I’m waiting on God to restore me but knowing this single season I’m all his for the growth of my next season

I am 59 years old and watching this video, and I have been so blessed. I wish I would of heard this message when I was in my twenties.

Totally relate to what Teya said about letting God into that space of hurt. I felt God poking at me to have hope when all i wanted to do was push the disappointment away and pretend i did not care.

I was married 30 years to a man I thought hung the moon until he didn't and we've been separated for 3 years and I have had time to heal and I still love him through all the flaws and sometimes I feel like a fool. I need prayers for my heart and my marriage. Please

I can't tell you how much I needed this 😭😭😭. I thank GOD for all of you.

I wish I could’ve seen this years ago bc I definitely struggled with romanticizing relationships with men instead of waiting to hear what God thought about the relationship. SOOOO many gems in this podcast, keep up the awesome talks🤍🤍🤍

Valentine's Day was a struggle for me. I've held on so many emotions and it all hit me with a tons of bricks. This video helps, but I need God's presence to keep me focus on his plans. If I have to wait, I need God to remove this desire and let me be patient and content while I'm single. I'm not into the dating streets. I want to meet the Kingdom Husband that God has for me.

“See him as your brother in Christ🙌🏽”The podcast spoke to me from beginning to end. So much wisdom from all of you and I’ll be putting into practice what you guys shared… all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤

This really blessed me and gave me a new perspective on wholeness in singleness. Whole does not equal perfect, it is a posture of reliance or complete trust in God for our shortcomings. In this context wholeness is our life's journey: to be more and more like Jesus. What an encouragment!

Thank you for this episode as a single person in SA walking out my journey with Christ..it is not easy but I have jotted down gold nuggets from this episode 🙏🇿🇦☺️

2 mins and 36 seconds in and he ateee that lil quote “a man that is single worries about the cares of the lord”

Paul spoke about singleness and also so it was his opinion it was not a command but he felt he was speaking from the spirit 🙏🏽

Love this! Thank you!! Thank you for showing that WE ALL ARE CONNECTED! 25-seconds to add sunshine to someone else’s life. RIP Robert🙏🏽 And Buddy, I pray Peace and abundant Blessings on you and your family. And I pray this is the start of a movement: 25-seconds for Robert ~ may he smile on everyone who chooses to grace others with just 25-seconds of their time

This is beautiful I’ve watched a lot of discussions and talks on singleness and this is one of the best! And this is literally helping me out right now! Blessings❤

Baby!!! This just blessed me! Y’all changed the way I see my singleness! Thank you guys for being soo transparent. I needed this real bad! I appreciate and love you guys whew. ❤

When you mentioned “He restores the years the locusts have taken” I broke down. God had given me that verse last year when I had been feeling like I had so much taken away from me and I had wasted time on the wrong things. I’ve been struggling with singleness since my boyfriend and I broke up a month ago and it’s been really hard trusting God for when the next guy comes along. I truly could use prayer about where God wants my attention right now and that He gives me a new purpose in this season

Jalen sounds like a Preacher. I admire his spiritual maturity on singleness as spending time with God and getting closer to God. Thank you Jalen for the golden nuggets.

This was an amazing discussion, thank you for sharing. One of the things that I have learnt in the my season of singleness is that God will strip you of everything that you identify with, idolize and place your value in.

Excellent point about being whole before meeting someone. It is often made out like we should have everything absolutely perfect before we can meet ready to meet someone. Appreciate that you put the emphasis instead on being 'malleable'!

I've literally been waiting for this podcast

I’ve learned so much in my singleness. My favorite part is drawing near to God in solitude. I asked him so many questions during this season. He always answers. The answers become clearer. Reminder: A purpose partner is the goal. Reminder: Many singles are not alone in their feelings. It’s very common. Reminder: God never goes back on his promises. Reminder: Delay is not denial. Reminder: Every one’s journey is different so never compare Reminder: You are loved no matter what Reminder: You don’t have to be whole meaning perfect to be married.

I just needed to hear all of these 💎 Gems. Thank you!!!

I LOVED THIS! KEEP THEM COMING 💚

This realllly came in clutch made me rethink sizing every female up that I meet some people come to be friends

I identify with Taya so much. Also, that orange is definitely her color!

Wonderful video, immediate follow. I really needed this video so thank you

Thank you for a great discussion and encouragement. It is so much needed.

Such a great listen. Thank you, I needed this😊

Amaaaaaaaaazing podcast! Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Thank you Fam🏁💚

This podcast is just everything. I love everything they said.

What they mean being single as adults... because of the right one comes around and your not ready you lose...u miss out

What Isaiah said at the end, should be the next topic on the relationship series. Because that is so true and many of us need freedom from that. By the way love this series ❤️❤️❤️ thanks to all the wisdom shared here.

This episode was full of gems. I want to share with all my friends and family lol.

I love your conversations. I hope you do this more often or longer sessions. Its amazing and so relatable. ❤

Love this💛 you guys unpacked so much!

Such a good word 🙌🏼 thank you 🔥

Edifyingggg! 🙌

This episode was definitely needed. In my life of singleness

wow I must say that was powerful and spirit led!

I needed this refresher! Excellent

That was really good ❤ Thanks you guys

This podcast is powerful. This podcast is important

This is good, I really needed this 🙌

We need this!

Thank you!

How lovely it is to hear such beautiful Godly people speak. Praise the LORD. As I'm listening to this discussion I began to imagine a game of dodgeball or basketball where people stand and choose from a crowd one by one to join their team. Those waiting to get picked are instantly relieved to have been chosen. Those still standing are beginning to feel the fear and shame of not being chosen. They begin to look at themselves negatively and believing that they lack the attributes needed to be chosen. We can forget about being joyfully chosen. And alas, the teams are made and you and one another person are standing there to walk away. That whole experience was so focused on SELF. Now imagine the same scenario but this time Jesus is standing and he's welcoming anyone who wants to join HIS team. On HIS team you are exactly what HE wants. Jesus has given you an exit. He's giving hope, purpose and joy. And instead of sulking and feeling upset like that young girl mentioned wedding dress shopping with her sister. I'm 33 I had two opportunities to get married. Neither were the team I would have been able to grow and last in. I believe every single woman needs to go and try on that wedding dress. Try it on. Look at yourself and admire the beauty that God created. Then after you're done trying on all the dresses you've always wanted to try, you go on with your day. It's a built up expectation in every woman's head and it's time we just see it for what it is, a dress. And when the time comes that dress will have a purpose. But for now just enjoy the dress. I realize that I may be single for another year, 5 years, or until I die. In the mean time I'm hanging out with Jesus. And another piece of advice. Those full body pregnancy pillows, not only are they great for supporting your back and knees, they also make a great cuddle pillow. Lol 😂

Singleness has been very hard. I come from a culture and maybe doctrine which relates singleness to non-deliverance from shackles, curses and all that. Like I love God so much and I know according to 2 Cor 5:17 that as I came to Christ, I am a new creation.. All things passed and behold all thing are new... But even the church treats us as if we are still bound. You have people approaching you always to tell you that they are praying for you to be married. Don't get me wrong, they mean well and may not be anything wrong with that, but it's almost as if you have become your church's sorry case. So thank you for this podcast, it soothed my heart.

Loved this! In the same vein you could put a guy in friend zone that God might be calling you to be with but because they don't look like how you pictured in your mind you can dismiss God's blessing of a potential relationship.

This was so good and much needed because I currently feel like I will not be whole without a man.

This changed my life

Can't wait💃

With Isaiah's managing friendships gem, an important caveat should be to distinguish if that friend is actually a friend or someone who God may bring to you to date. Best to not let a possible slip if they are showing indicators of interest in you

This is good ❤️

This was so good

What Isaiah said towards the end😭😭Yoh. I can relate because wow😭😭

Appreciating my singleness ❤

Yeah, do not let the world/church dictate your life or future. We can make our plans, but God's will for our lives shall prevail. Stay encouraged.

I’m married now this was definitely good on so many levels.

aim and win 🎯

I truly remember praying for God to take away the desire for marriage since I was over forty and single and in an area with no visible prospects. But in order to shut down that desire, I literally had to shut down all my desires. It became, fine, I don't need a home. No, I don't need this and that. Whatever God wants to do, He will do, so it didn't matter what I wanted or desire. But God truly stepped in and reminded me of how much He cared and that He cared about what I desired. Even if He didn't grant it, He still cares about it.

Is this is good!!!

DEEPLY PROFOUND🤲🤲🤲🤲⚓⚓⚓

Some people who are single were not physically attractive, so they had no choice, but to be single. That’s like saying you can’t have a good thing unless you married than single person be like I’m not good enough for a good thing that’s dangerous

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Where is Part 1? I see parts 2 and 3 listed but can't seem to find part 1. If anyone got a link PLEASE drop it here cause I need to know where this conversation started. 👏🏾

Isaiah just gave me language 🙌👋 When it comes to different gender friendships in church. Can you guys talk about it in depth? From my experience anytime I have tried to be friends with brothers in Christ in church for some reason they feel the need to 'guard their hearts' which begs the question, are they incapable of relating with the opposite gender as purely sisters in Christ?

EDIFYING!!

I was really enjoying this podcast but I found it difficult to continue listening after hearing the word LIKE being over used.

Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?

Why delete comment with real questions?? Smh

So the people giving advise on singleness are actually not single . How ironic

Im sorry but i dont agree with this narrative that those who are single are focused on the Lord, whereas those who are married are focused on worldy things. That makes no sense because with this logic, one could argue then that marriage is not Godly but worldly and we all know thats not true. I believe a Godly marriage focuses on Godly things because ultimately, its a representation of Jesus and his bride, so how is that worldly? Further, as a single, we also worry about bills and making ends meet etc and are those not seen as worldly things by the same argument put forth? so again, this argument makes absolutely no sense. From what God has been teaching me about a Godly marriage, is that everything in that marriage is meant to glorify him. So again i dont think i subscribe to that argument and way of reasoning

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