There is absolutely nothing a man with seven kids can do for me besides remind me to take my birth control.

A man without a job is undatable, not debatable 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

Seven kids, incarcerated and she said OKAY. Chilllleeeee...the bar is set to hell.

Basically since he was honest about having no home, no job, 7 kids, being fresh out of jail and needing someone to pay his child support she said I’ll take it. 🤦🏽‍♂️

She should have turned her dms off after the 7 kids alone. His other pathologies should have made her block him completely.

7 kids no job , what else did you like about him 😂 judge Mathis a trip

His last sentence really has me speechless, most men can just look at a woman and tell if she is gullible or not and they can use them. Just because a man tells you your beautiful, does not mean there a good man. Sometimes just say thank you and leave it there. I really hope she learned her lesson. 😫

Wow as a young black male myself trying to get myself up in the world judge Mathis is truly an inspiration. I know sometimes he goes in tangents but I respect the lessons he teaches.

She paid his child support??? Women gotta stop being that vulnerable, desperate, naive and just not smart!!!!!!

Dude wasn't listening. Damn Judge was giving out Wisdom!

The defendant has ZERO interest in acquiring a job, let alone a skill trade. He didn’t even seem to understand what JM was implying when he made the comment *”You been treating me like I was your son, and your baby”* Talking about *”That’s an understatement”* 🙄 I also cannot imagine a scenario where I would ever catch myself paying some dude’s child support. The plaintiff did this to herself.

He did all of that to her then told her, "maybe you need to get a guy with a job next time". 😶‍🌫️☠️😂

Trust me she wasn’t the only inbox he was in . He was just trying to see who was going to bit . 😊

"He was charming except to the ppl who are hiring" JM😆👊🏾

He was charming with exception of people who hire !! I’m dying !! 😂🤣

And in the end, that’s really who he is and how he felt. That’s a shame.

HE has the nerve to say "next time, I think you need to get a man with a job." Wow! YOU THINK!? Just goes to show, he wants nothing in life but babies that he can't take care of. Smh

He's one of the most trifling people I've ever seen.

I can’t believe the defendant with his sob story like he wants someone to feel sorry for him and I don’t 😂

I never heard JM tell the story like this before he got me in my feelings!

I guess the dating market really is a cess pool. No job, jail and paying somebodies child support 🥴

I cracked up when he said maybe you need to get a guy with a job next time 😂 he knows he’s a bum

Congratulations JM!! What a wonderful testimony!! 🎉💖🎉

When he told her “you probably need a man w/ a job next time”… know that felt like a slap in the face

My 16 yr old son was with me when I turned this episode on and he said “who is that mom, 7 kids, whew, turn it up” and I did. He needed to hear this lesson about taking every opportunity afforded you and making one when needed! I always tell him he can go further than a lot of these kids, cause he done been through some things and from that comes experience …. The other lesson was one I learned some time ago, take the compliment and move on sis! If he can’t add to what I have, in every aspect, keep it moving sir…

Of course he is going be charming, I mean... he already has 7 kids

I can relate...I went to college and begin the process of going through dcsf to get Licensed to obtain my daycare. My juvenile record came up and I fought and did dispositions and all to beat the system and judges to pursue my career and it all worked out🙏🏾 Don't let your past dictate your future

Keep telling them judge Mathis! We need father figures like you in our community that make our men and women take accountability! no excuses! Even for myself I need to get back in school. Thank you for always using even your downfalls as motivation to help others know that we can make it past our failures

7 kids no job and she snatched it up with the quickness docta

"Hey Beautiful" is definitely the opportunists motto😂😂🤣🤣

Just listening to the opening narration I can spot some of the red flags about this guy: first, he has 7 kids. Second he needs someone else to pay for his child support

Judge Mathis kept it so real w/the defendant.

41 years old nothing to show for his life but 7 children, debt, full of excuses...smdh

4 years with no job? Hell nah.

Judge Mathis Story is so inspiring coming from a rough background.

Broke men that make excuses smh. As a black man I'm ashamed 🤦🏾‍♂️

JM is not going to pass up a chance to talk about himself.

Dang JM story is remarkable. He said they held his license for three years but he still didn’t go back to his old lifestyle EASILY but didn’t. Wow

21:29.......The defendant's closing statement let's you know everything you need to know about him as a person. ⚖

“Next time find a man with a job” lmfaoooooo ma’am stop dating

I’m sorry I gotta say one more thing. He had NO JOB, SEVEN KIDS, FRESH OUT THE JOINT, and for some reason, she thought he was going to pay her back for the car. And did she say she felt bad for it getting him a gift for Father’s Day? She was paying his child support there is the gift gtfoh.

I lived in Saint Louis, I went to trade school. I caught three buses and the metro link so I could get a trade. I completed the program and have been gainfully employed since then. I didn’t have my own place and managed to figure it out! He could have figured it out if he wanted to.

He was a premeditated USER when he slipped into her DM. And after what JM said, hope he make a change, but I doubt it. He on to the next.

She seems so sweet. She deserves more in life!!

Is it so rough out there that an unemployed jailbird, with 7 kids is an acceptable mate? Geez.

The judge is so smart & hilarious at the same time I just absolutely love him 😅❤

Paid his child support?! That’s just ridiculous…He’s not even married to her. They only dated for four years smh …. She should have had a female judge to hear her case so that the lady judge could have gotten on her a little bit. JM was so concerned with getting on his case; however, she’s half the problem. She is just as much to blame as he is. Just ridiculous…

That “ come on man on Father’s Day” killed me , he looked at him like man damn

How does she think he's going to pay her this money?

When being lonely goes bad!!!! And thirst for affection and acceptance! Prime example

She was basically a "female John" paying for bedroom adventures...because that's all he has going for him. She could not have reasonably expected of man with seven kids, almost no education, no job, and a criminal record to be anything other than what he turned out to be. Now, she's mad at the "prize" she applied for. I'm not indifferent to the personal and systemic challenges that hindered his progress, but this middle age woman HAD to know what she was getting.

Whoo Chile, she should be embarrassed telling this story. JM need to ask what's wrong with HER.

I had to rewind the very end to make sure what I heard was wtf I heard...this guy is something else 😂😂

did he really just say she needs to get a guy with a job and he has 7 kids?!

He's disrespectful but he told her the truth that you should get a man with a job next time. Never tell the narcissist that they are a narcissist.

Did he just say “I think you need a dude with a job” Wow! What a LOSER!

I love how JM used this as a teachable moment, but can we hold her accountable for trying to be a hero! He couldn’t even go stay with any of his kids mom🤔🤔🤔 that should have said enough! 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

People will only do to you what you allow. No company is better than bad company. Choose wisely❤️

How do men get women without having jobs?? I really want to know 😂

The defendant is an example of why Black men are at the bottom. Black women need to stop being a mother to these grown men. He told her at the end " maybe you need to get a guy with a job next time". Even he know he ain't shit

There’s a lot of levels between high maintenance and zero standards.

Judge Mathis speech need to go on loop for most Blsck men, literally none of them take accountability it’s always someone’s else’s fault. A lot of them don’t want it bad enough to work, the crack era did a number on our people…

Defendant:Maybe u got to get a man with a job next time 🥴🤦🏽‍♂️wth 😂

Judge Mathis' life story is so inspiring. I learn something new EVERY TIME he tells it!

“Maybe you need to get a guy with a job” 💀💀💀 I hope she listened to him and got TF on

I fast forwarded and JM was stillll talking about himself 🙄

You know I really respect judge mathis testimony to that young men cause Even though times may get hard and it looks like it's over you can't give up

She seems to be a beautiful soul and her intentions are pure! I pray that she finds someone who truly loves her❤

Judge Mattis is a representation of “what the enemy meant for evil, God turn it for good”

Damn. At the end he said "maybe you need to get a guy with a job." That's something up right there. And where do we pay someone else's child support who is not your husband? What is wrong with her? She's that desperate to be with a man that she would do something stupid like that? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Judge is a fool. " She didn't bring me no Band Aids". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

While I understand the SOMEBODY ANYBODY PLEASE syndrome, please DON'T do it. STOP saying you were helping, b/c your kind of help means you're signing up to be used, dragged, disrespected, lied too, exploited, cheated on & hurt if you survive. He was gonna FCK up some more stuff if she kept messing with him. Ma'am you'll be left with nothing b/c he doesn't value himself or anything else. If you meet them when they're sorry, let them remain sorry without your input!!

THIS NI- I mean DUDE TOLD HER SHE SHOULDA DATED A DUDE WITH A JOB?!?!? Dafuq!!?

Waw his last statement shows who he really is, I am glad the judge called him out

This is now one of my favorite JM episodes. You are such an inspiration and I admire your strength. I absolutely love how he takes the worse situations and he turns them into a lesson. I wish I could meet him one day. (Haha I'm a super fan) Love JM

Lol😂I was not ready for that last comment lmbo 😂

Look at blue shirt in the back when she say seven kids 🤣🤣🤣

I pray that she has learned a lesson from dating this shell of a person. To be so bold and say, “I think you just need to get a guy with a job next time” is wild. Honestly, his whole last statement made zero sense.

Exactly, her insurance lapse has nothing to do with your having wrecked her car. You still owe her.

Damn “Get a man with a job”😮 did it for me

Plaintiff come on now, this is so embarrassing to watch. So, a man with 7 kids, not working, but you date him because "he's charming" what am I missing here?🤔 She's old enough to know better, and now wants to sue🙄😒

She said she took care of him and paid his child support like she was proud of that 😩🤦🏾‍♀️

"Maybe you just need a guy with a job." And that's not gonna be you, huh? Way to listen to the judge. I feel sorry for every child conceived with this man.

She paid his child support and what now 👀👀👀

Judge Mathis get on with the case!!! We’ve heard your story a million times!!!

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾JM was STATING ALL FACTS... WE Must have/take accountability... He has 7 kids, how in the HELL WOULD HE NOT WANT to get a decent trade in order to care for his children, even if not for his damn self🤦🏽‍♀️

Dude went from job to job Bed to bed!!! 😂

Judge i love when you tell your story, i get more and more inspired every time i watch.(need to at least obtain my Bachelor's )

Police Raid A CrackHouse , Arrest Everyone Inside The CrackHouse . One Occupant Tells The Police “ Officer , I Don’t Know Or Have Anything To Do With What’s Going On Imside This House , Im Stayimg Here So I Can Afford To Go To College “ 😂😂😂 Are The Cops Going To Let You Go ???? Hell No !

he just told her can't nobody ride you unless you are bent over

When she said she paid his child support notice the man behind her nods in agreement while the lady shakes her head 🤣🤣🤣

He didn't hear a WORD JM said because he was "Tooooooo busy Trying to Give his Po Man Story" He will always be the LOW LIFE he is until he change his mindset and as long as he can find women like her he will continue giving his POOR MAN story to any females with Low self esteem. I believe she would take him back if he just apologize for that last statement.

Lol the defendant giving dating advice to the plaintiff at the end was ridiculous

HE IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! She needs a guy with a job! All she's done for his unmotivated, using self and he had the nerve to say... "I wrecked your car, BUT... you should show more compassion..." You should have had a job. She was really good to you and you decided she owed you that. What a busta! He won't ever get it, so I hope she's learned. Lord help!

when the judge asked, "what else did you like about him?" that was a mouthful... lol the lady only mentioned TWO things, incarceration & seven kids 😅😂😂

I love how judge Mathis tells his story it's very inspiring and helps me stay focused on my career goals

Black men please stop with all the excuses for not being productive and successful in the world . Still in this time with the excuses . Judge Mathis runs it down .

Judge Mathis is the only one who cares about the lack of insurance

“I’m like OKAY” no NOT okay! LOL!! Man bye lady! Ugh

Tired of JM making every case about him