I was the first caller and appreciate the conversation I had with Kevin. It may be too late but I’ll never make the same mistake again. I will get my butt in therapy although I feel I’ve healed. But I will do better next time!

Met my wife at 23 she was 22, asked her after 5 months to marry me. We lasted 11 years before I lost her to cancer. Waited 2 years to get life in order, met a new woman and was married in 6 months, been married for 9 years. Men that want to married act on it first, no playing around, no games. I am 44 now and I am already teaching my 13 year old son how it is supposed to work with women and most importantly family legacy, continuing the family name.

He Chastises like a real father. To the point where confused ppl who never had a father FIGURE of any kind in their life think this is toxic masculinity but it’s not.

He's telling the truth! My husband proposed within 60 days and we were married 7 months after meeting. Just celebrated 17 years together :)

Kevin is honestly a father to all these women. They all need to be grateful for him. You could really feel the love from the second caller.

Girl:My dad passed away Kevin:I'm gonna be ya daddy for 20 minutes Kevin is the G.O.A.T. He is so passionate about what he does and has a wealth of knowledge.

The Nigerian Woman, is obviously very respectful and humble, I wish her well.

"Does money matter?" "Are you fucking kidding me?" Lmao

“Ok let me talk to you, lean in a little bit” Slap slap, slap slap, slap slap I’m dead 😂😂

The Nigerian woman was severely sheltered throughout her life. She seems extremely respectful, feminine and cute. She definitely needs guidance. I wish her well.

The young caller became her mom's roommate after her father died. They're both needing each other to survive. Sad. 😩

The second caller is terrified smh she has no clue about life.

As a nigerian, I can sympathize with the girl. Damn it sucks she just needs a strong guidance and leadership.

I'm a married man and I have to disagree with the proposal time line. There are too many risks involved to make a decision that quickly. I always advise guys to get married on YOUR time line, not hers.

That second caller definitely needs a father. My heart goes out to her.

Bro this cut deep for me 🙁 I'm 25 and I have a miserable job paying me $10 an hour and still living with mom. No college. This is a wake up call for me too cause I really feel like I don't have anything to offer yet and I never realized that I really am running out of time. I know its no excuse but it's hard to get out of the poor zone but I need to really push myself this year. I know I can do it...

Women give their best years to men they know isn't good for them; then expect a high value or high earning man to save them.. GTFOH!!

Kevin had to go full dad mode for the Nigerian girl. I love how she took what he said in and wasnt all combative about it. She really was sheltered.

When I first meet a woman. I tell her straight up. I'm not looking to get married. It's not my thing. It saves a lot of headaches.

People say he’s negative... I heard nothing negative in what he said. He gave sound advice.

Daaaaamn I can't stand how they keep telling him everything but the answer to his questions. This man is light years ahead of his time

Awww I have to admit when I saw the second caller in a sad state, I have to admit I felt a bit sad for her; but I am glad Kevin spoke to her the way he did. She needs to someone to tell her that life is not fair and it spares not the weak. She has to be strong as possible and not feel sorry for herself. Just keep on praying sis, but also do your best to remain strong in all circumstances,

He really had a father-daughter type of discussion with her and it really struck home! She needed that! Very naive and inexperienced for her age. Hopefully she'll take his advice and grow up. She's not ready for a man, she needs to work on her first

I was crying listening to the Nigerian girl! I definitely understand where she is coming from. A lot of young women with African parents have crippled dating lives - it may sound like an excuse but it’s a real thing! Young girls not being allowed to date and then are thrown into the dating world at 24 with zero skills! I wanted to cry just listening to her. Kevin is honestly the father some of us need!

The second caller is very relatable - I waited to date until I was 25 because I also grew up very sheltered. It was not important to me - my intuition told me to focus on my career, friends, and family. Now that I’m dating I’m learning A LOT very quickly.

What I can confirm on today my 11th Anniversary is that Kevin is 100% correct. For an ADULT male 6 to 9 months to proposal is all thats needed. I engaged my wife with the little money we had 9 months in to our relationship. Would have been 6 if I had the money at 6 months. 2 Kids, 2 Great Careers, and a whole lot of traveling and love later we look forward to more life together in the future.

After becoming a Muslim, there was no dating; I met my husband, we talk, and less than a week, we were married. People act like that’s crazy, well after twelve years and four children, I’d say otherwise. However, I was a HORRIBLE wife until I found Mr. Samuel’s video. Having the things told like a punch in the face helped me wake up. It's a Western woman thing. Unfortunately, it is creeping over to the East. The devil is out to reverse the roles of men & women, and this is why we see women acting as we do.

His reaction to the second caller telling him that she was an actress: hilarious

I knew that I was going to marry my wife when we were on our first date. A man definitely knows.

The second lady is possibly suffering from major depression, she really needs to do counseling. If her issue is psychiatric, this situation might be out of Kevin's scope.

Of all the things he tell women, the proposing in 6 months be the ONLY thing they hear and comprehend.

27 yr old FEMALE asks "Does money matter?" Kevin - "ARE YOU FUCKIN' KIDDING ME!"

I absolutely applaud Kevin for advocating for therapy, it is so needed. I got therapy and my husband got therapy for himself and it was such a blessing.

The Nigerian girl is a cutie. Damn our women are hurting but they can hide it better because the world allows them to comfortably do it.

I feel so bad for the Nigerian woman, she seems like a very timid child. Glad he's able to talk truth into her world.

"Christians get it in".... Even Kevin had to laugh😂😂😂

2 years should be the minimum time frame for a marriage proposal in today’s dating market. She can’t pretend to be a good woman for that long if she really isn’t 💯🥦💯

I got really sad when I actually saw the 2nd caller's face, I could see the sadness in her eyes. She's trying to make it, she got grilled by Mr. Samuels. I pray she finds her way and gets her life together sooner than later.

I'm a Nigerian and I can relate to that lady Many nigerian parents are notorious for sheltering their children and being extremely controlling in their children's lives...They tell their girl child to stay away from boys until she's done with uni..I literally have to hide my relationships from my parents...i think her parents wanted to bring her up like that even while in the states...They've captured her mind, she can't even think for herself...has no experience at all..I hope she doesn't end up with someone shitty in the future

The second caller was coddled her entire life. Sad.

🤣🤣😂🤣Kevin: “No one is going to save you”!!!! “It’s time to grow up”!! “You need a job”! “You’re not good at this”!!!! Damn!

Why can't women ever answer a direct question?

The second caller , You can tell she has to find herself and what she wants in life before she can even think about dating . Those who don’t know/love themselves , tend to either ruin the life of another or they let that person come in and use/ abuse them mentally. I pray for her and that she surrounds herself with individuals that will aid in her growth in a positive way. Kevin definitely gave her the talk that she needed . let’s hope that fuels her to do/want better out of life. ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

The 26 year old's parents did her a disservice.

Divorce laws are probably why a lot of men don't want to marry. I usually agree with him.

When I hear these stories it makes you realize that life is not that bad after all.

If the divorce rate is 50/50 and women initiate 70 percent of divorce, how will they be satisfied with a man they known for 6 months?

He needs a button that says "Bruh" a lot of "Bruh" moments during this call

People call Kevin mean but someone needs to tell people like this 27 year old actress the truth. Her family and friends let her go through life like this.

I can see why that 2nd caller got into dating relatively late. Trust me some parents from certain parts of the world put too much “fear of God” in their daughters and they end up at 27+ with no dating experience. But she definitely needs to buckle up and get her life going. Brave of her to call and be open with her situation on the air, tbh. So, good on her!

"Christians get it in" that should be a short 😂

I'll say this. I LOVE MY WIFE. I proposed at about the 8mo mark. We're still married (approaching 5 years in) and pushing this loaded cart forward. DON'T DO IT THAT WAY lol. Build the relationship in a way that fits the growth trajectory of BOTH individuals. The biggest and scariest commitment of love that two people could EVER make to each other, aside from having a family together, is to GO TO COUNSELING TOGETHER. Fellas, if you're SERIOUSLY looking for a wife and think you've found a woman that checks the initial boxes, invite her to a therapy session. If she's reluctant, and not excited, MOVE HER ASS AROUND. Ladies, this is something you can encourage too! Either you want to bear your naked truths and grow together or you don't. Anyone that's dating and hasn't creatively or constructively tried to get to know the person deep down within is a person that is eager to crank the jack for a surprise...Over and over again. There is great nourishment in honesty. People don't wanna know the truth about THEMSELVES a lot of times though...So, they fail one another in the end. DON'T FAIL EACH OTHER. Take whatever time is necessary and BE CONSISTENT in your pursuit of health TOGETHER. You'll never fail if you ALWAYS care.

Thank you for this enhanced audio.

I'm a widower but when I met my late wife she was 28 and told me she was looking to get married within 1 year. She said to me that she can not waste time dating for no reason. We agreed dated and got married in about 9 months.

When you said, "you suck at this." She gone cry when you hang up, oh she gone cry when you hang up.🤣🤣🤣😭🤷🏿‍♂️

The father 👨 I never had..All love and respect from South Africa 🇿🇦..salute.

2nd call was hard to listen to

"does money matter?" I literally had to stop what I was doing, pause the video, and drop into the comments section with my jaw hung open. some callers are almost....unbelievable. and Kevin's initial response was just perfect.

I was supposed to join the air force straight out of high school. Did everything. All I had left to do was get on the plane.. However, right before graduation, I met a guy and stayed home. We got married and I have never had to work a day in my life. He really loves me. I got lucky AF. Been together since 2002. One son on his way to college. ITS TIME FOR US TO TRAVEL NOW!! And he has always been an excellent provider. Im grateful and blessed.

Second caller Kevin just basically Raised a whole Teenager 😂😂😂😂

Mr. Samuels, my initial thought of your second caller on this snippet is that she is trapped in her parents' mind control over her. Nigerian parents can be ridiculously strict and controlling. As I continued to listen to her, I found that her information doesn't add up. As controlling as I presumed her parents to be, I can't believe that this Nigerian daughter is not an over achiever. She may not have been telling you the absolute truth about her identity. She may be testing out her acting skills. 😉

caller 2 - she sounds like a good woman, just was clueless. she was raised in a Nigerian manner, but she's american.

With her sweetness I think she’d make good $ waitressing/serving in the high end restaurant industry! It’s a little known secret 🤫 she may even snag a hubby..

I completely agree with his timeline from dating to marriage. Im pretty young right now, 23, and even I would not give a man 2+ years to figure out if he wants to get married. I want to become a wife and mother in my prime, and I dont have a lot of time left to do that.

We all need this type of tough love in life. A diamond starts as a coal then through high pressure and high temperature it becomes a shiny bright diamond everyone loves. Kevin’s techniques are at times high pressure and for good reason. Grateful to have had someone speaking the truth.

The second caller needed that reality check.

Ladies and gentlemen, this whole episode was about Toughlove. I’ve seen many an episode and this is one of his best. This is not hostility or ridiculing… This is a reality check for both guests. The audacity of some women wanting to cancel the show when it gives some of the best advice that anyone could ask for… And it’s for free! Keep on Mr. Samuels!! I may not agree with everything you say, but more people should be thanking you than disparaging you

As a married man for 7 years.... can’t say that I agree with 6 months or less.... females good at keeping that representative as the face. Especially if they going after a man of value

I’m married but it’s no way on earth I would have married my wife in 6 months. Sounds great and makes sense for woman not to waste time as my wife and I discussed while watching vids but that’s faaaar to early. Now after a year of living together this makes sense but who meets a woman and moves them in 6 months later? The earliest I would marry if I was looking would be 2 years. Marriage is huge and life long for me. Getting things right and building our dream home takes longer than 6 months, and that’s just bricks and design. I do agree for woman though. I’d tell my daughter the same. Even though they won’t follow it exactly they shouldn’t be too far off. 7 years is outrageous. She killed her high market value time. Salute

We've been Married for 34 years, My Husband and I met and Married in 3 Months. I was 26 he was 32.....we knew and didn't waste time! Tahoe Wedding, we had 2 kids of our own (2 of his previous) 11 Grandchildren. God Bless you Kevin for speaking the Truth to these young Women! Love your Content, Respect your Classy Persona 🙏🏻God Bless you! You are doing such a great service to Men and Women!

The 2nd caller is, a house wife However, she’s conflicted by black female culture & wanting DIRECTION/HUSBAND.

I like how ks kept pressing the sound byte whipping effects constantly was hilarious

Disagree with Kevin on this one- even if you're born in America, if your parents come from a different country then the likelihood is high that you will grow up between American culture but still heavily influenced by the native culture of your parents as well. It doesn't just melt away because the couple immigrated to the United States and of course that's how they will raise their children as well.

Good video.She was the daughter of a very wealthy family,college educated,drop dead stunner..It was 6 months for me,as soon as she moved in,I soon discovered her secret coke addiction.I found her stuff anf flushed it,gave her the choice of therapy,or continue with her current marriage to her chemical glue and get out.She gave me the engagement ring back,(a 2 karat J quality blue diamond),and got out.It's been a minute since,and today on suit up saturday,I;m wearing a tailored yellow Brioni custom suit,high collar 3 button frrench cuff shirt,neon blue silk tie,and Milano monk straps,looking sharp and antennaes up.Thanks for you inspiration

As a Nigerian I can relate to the second caller. Dating isn't easy for every one, I was very social throughout high school and college and constantly made myself available for dating. Didn't meet my first boyfriend until I was 25 and it was through Tinder! We are now happily married with a child on the way. It's different for everyone

I think women tend to ignore red flags for far too long, thus fault moves toward them too

I’m a shoot shawty from California some bail. As a Nigerian born and raised i am very familiar with Nigerian households even in America. It’s impossible to shake off that cultural influence.

Facts, It doesn’t take long to know if I want to marry someone, & I’m not even married.

How KS was shepparding the first caller’s was so wholesome. Kept calling her sis and really felt like he was putting his arm around her.

I agree with Kevin. I met my husband when I was 21 and he was 30 on 12/08/93. We got married on 02/25/94. We will be celebrating our 27th anniversary next month. My sister met her husband in 09/90 and she married him in 12/90. The just celebrated their 30th anniversary. My parents met in 1969 and they were married a little over a year later. It would have been sooner but my dad got stationed to Korea. All three men knew within a month that we were the one. This is not to rush anyone but these are just examples. I always tell young men, if you are not ready for marriage don’t let anyone force you into marriage but at the same time don’t string a woman along. Kevin is right 7 years is insane but the blame falls on a woman.

You can tell KS feels bad for alot of the younger women he talks to that aren’t really taking their life seriously but THINK they do. Some people would say he’s too harsh, but how he dealt with the second woman that called showed his patience.

He’s the father I’ve always needed 😩🥲😭

He is definitely telling the truth. On our first date we had sex, married 7 weeks later. We now have 3 kids. A marriage minded man IS going to get married very quickly.

I've been with my girlfriend who is non American Filipino country girl after 6 months yes she is one... shes 29 and im 42. And she is the best thing ever for me

6 months lol no wonder you had 2 divorces my brother ...

In the first 1 or 2 months, women should be able to see if the guy is serious about marriage or a committed relationship. She stayed way too long.

6 months & then you propose?? Now wonder men get divorced raped. That's horrible advice lol

She seems depressed... I feel sorry for her but she needs to find some way to motivate herself

This 27 year old 'actress' is a sad story. It's incredible that she's 27 and doesn't know about real life. SMH

Poor lil tink🤦🏾‍♀️ most Nigerians install independence, school, or entrepreneurship into their children! I’m kind of shocked 😳

Some of this women need Kevin because they don't have a real relationship with they father.

I feel sorry for that 2nd caller whose dad died. She really needs a father figure to give her guidance and tough love

Plot Twist: The Nigerian Actor is creating an Auditioning Portfolio. It's all staged.

I personally don't see a point in me getting married in today's society

This episode actually made me fell a little bit better about myself. When my first wife got pregnant after 3 months (although in my mind I already wanted to end it, before that) I proposed, wanting to do the right thing. When this marriage ended, I KNEW what I lost and what I ultimately really wanted and went into the next thing with that in mind. I met my 2nd wife online and we told each other what we wanted, it seemed to be a perfect match and the deal essentially was done before we ever met. Because of my outcomes I always thought, that was stupid and naive and I rushed things, because I never vetted the women properly. Still holds true, I guess - But I knew, what I wanted!

For then second caller... I believe they call that tough love. The people around her had 27 years to tell her what Kevin broke down in 20 mins. I wish her the best

It took my husband , who said he would NEVER get married , 6 months to decide he wanted to marry me. It don't take that long ladies, when a man finds his wife he won't run the risk of letting her go. It sounds cliche, but you will know when you meet the right person.

The second caller is actually sad. She really needs therapy. Her parents really messed her up. She doesn't even need to think about a man right now.

ive been listening to you for 3 years and my wife of 12 has finally decided that i was good enough to not cheat on you truly are a life saver

Sad but true second caller had no idea what her life was doing