Women won't date a man who lives with his mother, but they'll happily date a high value man that lives with his wife.

I just thought of what I think is a great analogy: Imagine that there's a running back who had a great college career. He does well in the nfl, and after his rookie contract is over, he decides to sign one year deals, in order to keep his freedom.... A few good teams want to sign this running back, who's in the prime of his career, to a max contract. But he would rather bounce around the league, choosing teams based on the weather in that city, the night life, business opportunities etc. He scoffs at the idea of commiting to a long term deal, because he's having fun... Along the way the running back picks up some injuries. He gets older, he's picked up some bad habits from being on losing teams. He's still a solid player, but the abilities that made him an exciting player are diminishing... Now this running back is pushing 30. He realizes that teams are calling his agent less and less. Concerned about his future, he now only wants to sign with a team who will offer a long term, max contract. He believes that his stats from early in his career makes his injuries and bad losing habits irrelevant. But teams aren't really interested in giving him the contract that he thinks he deserves. There are younger players who are more athletic, more exciting, that these teams would rather spend their money on. Now some bad and average teams ARE offering this guy contacts, but he only wants to play for a team that is a championship contender, for the maximum amount of money. So he sits out an entire session as a free agent. He won't settle for what the market is offering, because he's knows his value... Even though the offers he gets are from teams that that he doesn't want to play for, he looks at the attention that these teams are giving him, thinking that it's a sign that he is still high value. So the player starts to become bitter towards the championship level teams. Starts complaining in the media about one team or another, and how they don't REALLY want to win because they won't sign this 30yr old running back to a max contract... That's how women are.

Why people discredit this guy is beyond me. He speaks logically and his purpose is clear.

Her wanting to transform a plumber to a franchise owner or something is scary.

She actually summed it up perfectly. Spent her 20's designing her life for independence as a "strong black woman"...now she 38 and realizing ooooh shiiit, I may actually need a companion :(

You can't set standards higher than your baby daddy, damn that's a word 🙌🏿

This was funny :-) As a divorced man I can see this scenario before me... I remarried with a woman with two daughters - 9 and 11 - and what Samuels says is 100% correct. It's a minefield and looking back I was stupid to get involved. It all worked out, but it could so easily have gone south.

I been with my husband 26 years he’s a manager at a truck wash and makes over 70 thousand a year. And he worked his way up

I’ve dated women that made more than me but I’ve always HAD more money than them because I manage better. Income doesn’t tell the whole story.

I hate the way people just throw, "I'm a entrepreneur ". You can be a entrepreneur and be dead broke.

i have never been more proud of myself for being married at 19 years old. i had no one to teach me all the rights and wrongs of womanhood, so im blessed to have met a man who had a good heart and head. hes so smart and knows what he wants, its nice knowing he chose me

She doesn't realize that a man who competes all day out there on the job doesn't want to come home and then have to compete with his woman. A man wants to come home to a safe place where he can peel off the armor, put the sword and shield in the corner, and relax. That's not an easy to thing to find or build these days..

She's patient, listen to the other's opinion, and explaining herself and not arguing, this is constructive

This is so true what Kevin said about men accepting step children. My mother was widowed with 5 of us at home from ages 4-16 yrs old. There was no finer man in the WORLD but the man who became my daddy for my life. 🙏🏻 The Lord took him home at 91 yrs old. I will ALWAYS be grateful for what this man gave us kids and particularly my mom 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

High value is not a man who is rich , it’s a man who keeps his word and is kind . a protective man. A responsible man .

This woman is a breath of fresh air compared to many of his other callers

She was so receptive. You could actually see her thinking about what he said before she answered. I'm not used to seeing that, lol.

Those damn Red Bulls 🤬🤬. RIP

The first woman on this channel that had me smiling ear to ear. She seems cool n laid-back,with a lovely personality. 😍 Kid or no kid she will make someone very very happy!!!!

She looks good for her age but that MASCULINE ENERGY is a major turn off women always wanna mold men but want men to TAKE THEM AS THEY ARE

As a white, English man in his 50’s, I have been both astonished and amazed in the couple of weeks of watching content from this channel. The cultural difference between women I encounter in England and black American women are in many areas vast! However, the grossly inflated sense of worth, appearance and value are amazingly aligned. An unemployed, poorly educated, uncultured and uncouth 4/10 lady here with 3 children under 16 will still dismiss anything she deems to be less than an 8/10 or higher man with a sneer and an eye roll. Of course, once in a blue moon, one of these men will stay a night before fleeing in horror at what the dawn and sobriety reveals! Anyway, I digress. I feel moved to say after viewing maybe 50 of these interactions, this lady was a class above. I for one would actually place a value on the cultural aspects she speaks of as well as her whole persona being so refreshingly different to the norm on this channel. Thank you for reading 🙏🏻.

I can appreciate her as a person. She definitely seemed receptive to what Kevin was saying, even if she had a little resistance at times. I hope she can really sit down and analyze her requirements for a man.

SOOO much knowledge and insight being shared even after his passing.. damn man we need more of this. Rest In Power!

In the Caribbean one thing my father taught me, when a woman purchase or construct a house 🏠 on her own, then finds a husband. She always say it's her house. Even if the house was constructed by both parties together, all women still states it's their house.. If the house was constructed and built by the man alone before he met the woman.. She then states it's our house. Lol

Man: "I want to live comfortably and enjoy my hobbies in peace." Woman: "You need to bust your butt , make a big business , and not do your hobbies so that you can build US a life I can brag to my friends about! Now get to work so we can buy stuff we don't need to impress people I don't like!"

This dude has really opened my eyes

Now I know why Mr. Samuels had a heart attack. I see him drinking a lot of red bulls. Those damn things are bad for a person , especially the heart. He is someone that was ahead of his time, brilliant and engaging. Sir, you are missed.

Kevin served her reality on a silver plate! RIP Kevin. You are sorely missed.

She’s actually really pleasant. I think she’ll be fine if she dates older men who already have children.

She's attractive, intelligent and actually has a brain. Already doing better than 90% of women right there. She just needs a reality check.

Massive respect to all the step-dads out there. I'm so greatful to my step-dad of 16 years. Just because they aren't your biological children doesn't mean you can't change their life for the better and have a great relationship.

ill be coming back to these videos for YEARS TO COME!!

I respect the maturity and lack of ego on this one. She wasn't defensive, even in the face of being, seemingly, uncomfortable.

My wife picked up our house bills when I decided to start a business that didn't start to earn steady income for 2 years. (I didn't plan it that way but were limited with covid ) We have had some stress tests but she stuck around when no one else would have, that's why she's my wife and that's what I call a high valued woman.

She’s the best one ever, I genuinely like her, sweet genuine girl, hope she makes it

The last time a woman told me "I prefer someone cultured and who reads books", I asked her what was the last book she read and she actually said "The bus schedule". I laughed all the way out of the coffee shop and left her there by herself. 😂🤣

She was the most mature interviewee I've seen so far!

I don’t think she wants a mate, she want an investment partner

When I was single, anytime a woman say they got kids, i was out like a thief of the night

whenever girls are respectful, kevin basically becomes their dad and helps them more than anyone.

Seriously need to give our men credit, accept him where he is and make him feel like a man everyday & he will treat you like a Queen !

she seems like a nice person

She seems like a really good person. I liked the way she conversed with him without getting defensive. I wish her the best in finding her mate.

There he goes right at the beginning, sipping on those red bulls. That's probably what did him in. You're definitely going to be missed Kevin. Godspeed to you.

Kevin gave this woman the upmost respect, and she definitely earned it

She's very down to earth...and is willing to listen. She'll be alright

To everyone reading this, Jesus loves you.

This is a woman I would consider, she is patient, she understands her position and she is willing to adapt, she understands she has baggage and she is willing to make it up in other ways. The thing is that we all make mistakes in life, but most women don’t learn, they still feel entitled and the older they get, the more demanding they get.

The 25yr. Daughter and the 45yr. Mother is competing for the same Man in today’s world.

I must admit, this woman is possibly the most agreeable and understanding. Hopes she finds a good man

Every time this woman takes his criticism and correction, absorbs it with a good attitude and has resolve to change, her value goes up.

This the best one here! We’re rooting for you sis!!

She may be the most levelheaded woman I've seen on this show. She seems like she is very kind and just wants to be better. She's going to be fine.

Hard for women to split their money but they have no problem taking his.

This man was amazing, understood by many. RIP 🙏

I've never seen Kevin have a guest so respectful and willing to listen, comparatively. She's on the right track, at least.

Single mother = friend zone. Woman with no children = end zone.

Basically what I see Kevin trying to do especially with a lot of Black American Women is teach them "Humility". Humility also coincides with Femininity. A humble woman is a feminine woman. Having unrealistic standards and you're a baby mama is not being humble or realistic. Men can smell a arrogant, hard to deal with woman a mile away. If these women would humble themselves and date men that they are actually compatible with, they'd have a much easier time, and could find a man that actually wants to be with them and marry them. Meaning stop thinking you deserve some 6 or 7 figure mythical baller millionaire, and get you a nice 5 figure man that actually likes you.

One of the best KS conversations I've watched. Fly high my brother 🕊

That pawn shop analogy 😂

He is an entrepreneur he does well for himself but he has a lifestyle that isnt in line with my daughter, translation: drug dealer

I like this woman, she isn't so argumentative she actually listens and accepts reality. Props to her, i reckon there might be hope for her.

Want you want and what you can have is very different. I was widowed in my 40's with a six year old son. He is grown now and I am still unmarried. What I wanted and what I could have didn't match so I have focused on my family and career. It's not settling to make realistic choices. I made more than my late husband but he was an amazing man and father. I chose to focus on what I was given and blessed with then and now. Look at what you have not what you haven't got.

Great video! Gonna miss these.

She’s not only super pretty but she isn’t trying to justify and downplay. Massive respect

The fact the she’s willing to LISTEN and hear the advice says a lot about her. She’ll be alright

This was probably one of the best calls I have ever seen so far. She needs to come down on some expectations but overall seems far more well adjusted than any other I have yet to see. Props there!

This was one of the best videos, I've watched of him WHOM I LOVE! He hit the nail on the head explaining his logic! I really wish I was up on his videos before he passed! RIP Frfr!

"that man will be putting into your baby daddy's legacy." heavy

My wife made 3x what I made. She was a traditional wife but I had to keep the kids and give up my job to create a business I could take the kids to. We worked it out just fine. Honestly with her advise, encouragement and support i have 3 businesses that will allow her to retire now that our kids are grown. We married after 3 months and its a wonderful life for 25 years. I insisted from the start that we go to church and give 10%, don't go to bars or clubs, don't get into debt and to save. We've traveled to 45 states and God has blessed us. We give Jesus all the credit and he is who our focus is on.

Thank you very much Allen ( I believe that's your name. Kevin's best friend) for keeping this content at the forefront of social media. We need this to remain front and center.

This is the first listener I have seen on this channel so far, so composed and attentive. Not the usual yelling!

A woman only gains value with age and time to her husband. The man she is already with, he gains the benefits of her maturity as a woman, wife, and mother.

if she's always around top earners, why isn't she getting chosen to be wifed up.. The answer is always staring at them, they just choose to ignore it

Great content, also I definitely like this woman's attitude. She was not argumentative, negative or trying to fight back. She accepted the advice in a positive manner. Thanks because not all of us have an attitude when the truth is told. You will find a great man.

Kevin you give me hope. Thank You Sir.

He went in Deep, and I respect the fact that She was receptive. To each their own

I’m a criminal defense lawyer. Everything Kevin says is true.

This conversation was refreshing and nice. He actually used humor and she listened. She is very smart.

So appreciative to have come across this content. Rest in power Mr. Samuels and thank you.

This woman is having this conversation about 10 years too late. She definitely should've been married. She'd make a man very happy. I hope she finds someone

What he is saying is so spot on! I was a dumb young person. I had no role models as a kid. I ended up pregnant at 19. I had a daughter. I realized right away my situation. I never thought anyone owed me anything. My husband came along and he is a good man and he wanted me and my daughter too. I felt lucky and thankful. I realized he was giving me so much. A beautiful gift to me and my daughter. So when my cousins who are women and single and think I need to run his life I say no. He is a grown man I don’t run his life. That’s not how our relationship works. Appreciate your men ladies.

KS was so raw and honest

Great talk this time, from both of them, yes very constructive.

No way I'd date a single mother. Not raising another man's kid or having to deal with some kid telling me "You're not my daddy"! Also not dealing with another guy coming to my house to pick the kid up. I don't need to see anyone's ex coming around.

I'm a HENRY at 29. There is NOOOO WAYYY IN HACKY SACK, I'm becoming a ready-made father. I've been wrapping it up to AVOID children! Why would I marry a single mother?

Miss my guy man 🙏🏿

The young Lady is polite, listens, doesn't talk back, and wants to learn, not challenge. She is a breath of fresh air.

Sorry, but dating a single mother isn’t worth it. Actually, I’m not sorry. Don’t date single mothers.

Compared to some of these other calls Kevin has had she seems alright

She stuck to conversation and tried very hard… bravo 👏👏👏👏👏 I honestly believe she learned a lot, rather she applies it in her life- will be up to her. God bless the caller and peace to Kevin’s soul 🙏

I really enjoyed watching this dialogue between Kevin and the caller. They both spoke equally with little to no talking over each other and the called took all comments well as opposed to others who are quick to catch an attitude as soon as Kevin says something to them they don't want to hear. This was a mature two way convo.

The step-father thing really hit home for me, I married a woman with two boys. Even though I started seeing her when they were 6 and 4 and spent 6 years feeding and clothing them when their father wouldn't when she and I divorced within a year I had little to no contact with them, especially once their mother started dating again. I had all the responsibilities of fatherhood but only the benefits as long as I was married to their mother and footing the bills. I loved those boys like they were my own, still do, but out of sight out of mind goes most step parents.

She is the most rational woman I've seen Kevin dialogue with. This is refreshing.

She is very poised. I love the dialogue. They aren’t agreeing on everything, however it was an extremely adult conversation. I wish all the women that come on Mr. Samuels show were this intellectually honest and poised.

She’s got a lot going for her. I hope she finds what she wants. It’s simple with Kevin: show respect - get respect. This was a very informative video - class act all around.

She’s arguably the best “single” mother this platform has scene. If she just gets in tune with her feminine energy she will find her HVM eventually

I think this lady is a keeper. She's miles ahead of the others that Kevin has interviewed.

Bro 😂 the pawn shop analogy was spot on

This was a pleasant interaction. Miss you Kevin!