Build a strong foundation. Go to a meeting every day. Focus on going 90 days sober. Alcoholics will often point to someone who drinks "worse" than them in order to convince themselves that they are not alcoholics. Everyone is different. For you, where is the bottom? The bottom is where you decide to stop digging. Its your decision. Don't worry about what someone else does or how much someone else drinks. Do not go into bars thinking you will drink club soda. Stay away from them, and stay away from the people who you normally drink with. Take a vacation from the whole scene and focus on yourself, your loved ones, your work, your future. All the best. 15 years sober in NYC.
@deniseharris523328 күн бұрын
Fellow Tasmanian here , going through the same battle. Just came across your site . 😊
@waxandwayneАй бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts and progress. You mentioned the worst part about alcohol addiction..... it feels like you just have a bad habit when it's really a drug. All of us "avid" drinkers think we can quit and when we successfully abstain for a period the habit just comes right back. I like how you said its a symptom and not a disease. We drink because of depression or stress when we really need to deal with the root cause first. But you can't drink in moderation and deal with the roots because alcohol blurs your true emotional state. You're not alone! Much success to you and I'll be checking for your next posts!!!
@WW-sj7zkАй бұрын
Everyone who admits they have a problem and doesn’t do anything about it have a lifetime of problems ahead. Those that face it head on only wish they had of done it sooner and opportunities gradually present themselves.
@jerryhoare8198Ай бұрын
A heavy drinker, I was diagnosed with a fatty liver 11 years ago. I quit drinking cold turkey. It was not easy (no AA). I'm sober and my liver healed itself. YOU CAN DO IT !
@ivanristic5512Ай бұрын
Man, if you find alternatives for the root cause of your drinking, like meditation, playing sport or reading you will be unstoppable, best of luck and greetings from Serbia🇷🇸
@TasdazDownunderАй бұрын
Keep at it mate. I went over 8 months and fell back off the wagon. The difference was amazing and now I need to join you and stop again
@thekingspanttree8495Ай бұрын
8 months is still a decent clean out though.
@GodbreadGilfredBiagoАй бұрын
3 years and 7 months sober here, no AA
@bray01239Ай бұрын
You are god do not forget it
@radilАй бұрын
glad to see you made the most important day, this one is the second most important. Remember, the first 3 months suck, but not everyday will be like that See you tomorrow mate!
@XerrandАй бұрын
You're doing great, I know how hard it is. Be kind to yourself and keep going brother.
@markhauxwell1230Ай бұрын
I’m doing the same man
@rocknepoovey4381Ай бұрын
Keep it going, remember it only works if you work it!
@SuperMegaWoofer3000Ай бұрын
Keep at it. Rooting for ya.
@garethvb8830Ай бұрын
Good work, keep going.
@epicgamer785Ай бұрын
on ya man i'm rooting for you
@stanleyboomer9274Ай бұрын
Yes mate 🏆
@samshambles391Ай бұрын
Ask your sponsor about the importance of anonymity.
@naomipurdy7045Ай бұрын
🌻
@user-gl9ku4ee6mАй бұрын
why is it you are going sober? if you truly want alcohol out of your life i recommend trying kava, i dont know if you have it in your country but it is the best thing i have found to stave off those "ahhh fuck it.. i need a drink" days Me personally alcohol brings out the real me, when im sober i am not myself, if kava was cheaper i would drink it every day.
@banzairunner7860Ай бұрын
What’s kava?
@epicgamer785Ай бұрын
@@banzairunner7860 It's a drug that feels similar to alcohol. It's popular in the Pacific islands. This dude sounds like he is addicted to it
@banzairunner7860Ай бұрын
@@epicgamer785 is it legal here?
@epicgamer785Ай бұрын
@@banzairunner7860 where is here? I'm from Australia and its illegal here but google says its legal in us and uk
@banzairunner7860Ай бұрын
@@epicgamer785 USA
@ELFBOYMUSICАй бұрын
Have a drink to celebrate
@secondarymachine7521Ай бұрын
You should show some respect for the program that has the potential to save your ass before making content like this. Revealing your anonymity has the potential to harm the program as a whole, which is the point in the anonymity to begin with.
@thekingspanttree8495Ай бұрын
The first thing AA does is make you state your name... That's hardly being anonymous.
@secondarymachine7521Ай бұрын
@@thekingspanttree8495 Anonymity at the public level, jackass.