beta vibes.

"I've never dated anyone" dude I felt that

I legit had no idea that there were actually guys like this in the world. I always thought my standards were unrealistic but these men fit those standards I’ve been looking for. This gives me hope

“Know who you are before you get into a relationship with someone else.” Facts.

Honestly… as a 27 year old woman who has a healthy Christ centered marriage, I am VERY impressed with these guys answers. Christian girls, there is hope!! 🙌🏼

"There's nothing wrong with being honest and clear with your intentions" . Man, it's crazy how many problems could we avoid just being clear.

this really changed my perspective, these aren’t “christian boys” these are “men of God,” and i want a man like this in my life. and it’s having me re-evaluate the guy who i like right now

As a 23 year old Christan woman who has never dated, this was very refreshing.

I’m so glad they all said ‘No’ right away when she asked if they would marry a non-Christian. God needs to be number one in a relationship and you can’t have that when your partner doesn’t believe that.

“whenever you’re down BAD is when that prayer comes” HAHAH TRUE

I had no idea guys like this existed lol 😂 I was literally shocked 😳 to hear them talk the way they did, such wisdom. May God bless you guys for putting Him first above all else. Sofia this was an amazing video 👏👏👏🎉 Can’t wait for part two!!

the microphone policy has me CRYING

How does she know this many Christian males .... I can’t find a single one 💀💀💀💀💀

They are so wise and I can tell how they want to honor God above all else before a relationship. It makes me happy that there still men like this in the world because it so rare in todays world find godly men that honor God, I can't wait for part 2! ☺️❤️

This video brought me to tears. Going to a private Christian College has really opened my eyes to see that some may claim they are Christian but don’t have morals and values that line up, and I have been let down by many “Christian” Guys and these men brought a bit of hope and light to my life❤️

I'm married and pregnant - I'm already praying my daughters will be pursued and loved by such godly men like these young men ☺

I feel safe with this group of men wow. They're all so emotionally mature.

8:48 "why are you speaking to me? You wanna marry me? We're gonna get married?" felt that.

I think Andy is the type of guy who will know instantly when it’s his wife and he’ll just be obsessed with her (in a good way)

Her:Do you pray for your future wife? Him: I pray she exist Me: 🤣 why is this me

I felt that 2:23 "I never dated anyone" As a 27 yr old Christian woman, I'm over here like lord help

I just shared this with my teenage daughter to show her the kind of young men that are out there and can lead well. So proud of them and you and thankful for you sharing!! ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼

I was really struggling lately with feeling pressured by the people around me to give in to sexual sin now that I'm in college and the Lord really answered my prayers with this video. I was starting to feel like the only way for the guys around me to be willing to take me seriously and to date me is if I'm willing to give my body to them which is something I just don't want to do! This video made me feel reassured and I'm really happy I found it!

It’s really refreshing to see such humble, genuine Jesus loving individuals. Warms my heart :-)

“If he doesn’t love God, who is perfect, how could he love you, who is imperfect?” And vise versa.

Homeboy in the corner was just learning and observing 🤣

I’ve had these conversations before with a couple people, but it’s refreshing to see like 6 dudes all talking

Daniel put your Rolex away

I would fill out the GF application lol but that would be me making the first move 😂😌😂

Literally every man thats spoken to me has just tried to get with me for sex and its so disappointing and Ive genuinely lost hope. But seeing this video was such a surprise that men like this actually exist

I love how these guys actually answered the questions but went in depth too

I love this so much! It’s so nice to see guys who are serious about honoring God. I feel like it’s easy to assume that girls are more serious about purity and pursuing a godly relationship but it’s refreshing to see that there are guys out there doing the same. I loved their honesty and their personalities lol Thanks for doing this Sophia ❤️ God bless you all!

This is great-as Christians we need to start more conversations like this! I think it’d be cool to do one on one interview style too! 🙌🏼

Andy: let’s talk about that. But not me 😂

That’s so cool to hear that they are praying for their future wives. You guys give us girls hope. Thank you for sharing.

Follow-up Question: How do guys define "THE FIRST MOVE?" Cause some say it's asking someone out but some say it's literally just starting a conversation. 🤔🤔🤔

I’m not even Christian but I love they hold their own! They’re so devoted to their religion and they’re honest about themselves. So cute, bless you guys. Thanks for sharing.

Lol I like how he rephrased the question: have u dated a non Christian. It doesn’t work

Honestly, I think all of them said the right things and I appreciate their opinion. Like most of the people in comments, full hearted christian guys who are devoted to their faith are hard to find, so I give props to the guys in this video as well as others for being yourselves and not distracted by worldly things. I'm still praying to find a guy who is dedicated to his faith and a someone who I can trust and love that I can one day call my husband. I haven't been good with the dating thing because before I would simply date someone who I had a strong attraction to, but like the bible says feelings can be deceiving, and I realize that's wrong, so I appreciate you talking about it to help others like you just helped me : ) Thank you and God bless

This felt like 2 minutes - I enjoyed it SO much 😭! As a 24 year old daughter of God, these gentlemen give me so much hope and I’m encouraged by my generation which (truthfully) isn’t always easy/possible. May the Lord continue to bless and keep them all as well as you, Sofia! Thank you so much for the convo 🙏🏾💙

🥺🥺🥺 it makes my heart so happy that they were so honest and you can tell they truly want to honor God!! Love this video, can’t wait for part 2!!!

As an almost 38 year old woman, married almost 19 years, this is SO refreshing to hear these young men talk like this. I’ve 6 children, my two eldest are teen girls and they have guy friends like this as well and it’s just honestly so SO nice to know that there are more. Your older siblings in Christ are praying for you young people! Pray, hope and don’t worry!

My favorite video yet ☺ praying I find a group of guy friends like these 🙏🏻

These are the types of Christian men I’ve been praying for 😭

THIS WAS SO SO GOOD! SO honest and helpful!! thank you for sharing your wisdom so freely! Makes me so hopeful that there are good and godly men out there.

This gives me so much hope! I don’t know any christian guys at my age and it is just amazing to see that these people actually exist! this mindset and thinking is what I pray for when I am thinking about my future husband. You guys are really sweet.

As a Puerto Rican woman the first thing that caught my eye was the Puerto Rican flag on the wall and that just touched my heart and as Christian these where really somethings I needed answers to so thank you

Where do I find godly guys like this 😭 all of them are so pure hearted with good intentions! God bless Y'all for that!

I looooooved this conversation SO MUCH. Thank you for this! God bless you, guys.

SOFIA. queen. Thank you so much for this. Was so invested and absolutely LOVED how honest and open and unapologetically themselves the guys were. So glad they shared all this wisdom and how they pointed everything back to God! Praise be 🙌 yall are absolutely wonderful and will pray for yall :)) so excited for p.2

Love this so much! It’s so nice to hear genuine Christian guys’ perspectives on relationships.

haven’t even fully gotten into this yet, but your friends seem AWESOME!!! love how they gave the caveat to view their perspectives through the lens of scripture. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

So glad you made a part 2! I was expecting to get some juicy intent but this honestly felt like godly relationship advice and I could see God glorified in each of these men. Thank you for sharing!

This is so raw and refreshing honestly! Well done guys for doing this it takes guts to be open and to share 🙏

Andy defending and validating Daniel at 10:00 was so sweet 🥲

Emotional boundaries aka situationships come from giving away too much too soon and also always looking for something in the opposite sex instead of finding all that in our everyday relationships with family and friends). Make as many friends as you can, genuinely and when the time is right, you know when and who to intentionally get close to. Thank you guys for this

I’m very thankful you posted this video Sofia as I have a 17 yr old son…who is a Christian. it’s good for him to see this…so encouraging to him.

I appreciate this video so much! My best friend and I pray for our future spouse daily and it’s so nice to hear all these nuggets of wisdom and advice from a guy’s perspective!😭🧡 - I’m so glad you made this!!

Honestly the way they speak makes them all attractive. Such conviction and wisdom and above all putting God first.

Literally taking notes over here... So much wisdom in this video that I've been really needing to hear lately

I just wish I've met someone like these guys they are really honest and speaking out of their heart's... you guys are really blessed

Wow this whole conversation was so wholesome! These guys were giving deep and really good answers. May they find the right women that God had prepared for them. God bless!

I am so proud of Sofia's growth!!!! The conte family is a blessing

All of you guys are so mature and so happy to see not just Christians but believers and how much your thoughts are aligned towards the bible and God Much love and prayers to all the believers around the world.. Stay strong in faith!

Honestly, it’s so hard meeting guys who think in this way. It’s different being Christian with being Godly. Especially since being part of a ministry and many guys run away knowing a girl has a strong relationship with God. It’s honestly a challenge and i feel like many just want to be loved and forget that with God, we are already loved. Also, many guys just want to be intimate and just have “fun”. That’s also a challenge and temptation is always going to be there, and that’s why having a strong relationship with the Lord is so important and I feel like having someone in the same mindset as you is so important. That doesn’t stop temptation but having the Holy Spirit guide us is honestly so important to me. We all have a goal in the Lords path. It’s hard but not impossible.

So heartwarming and such a blessing to hear these from young Christian men 💗💗💗💗 Keep giving God the glory!

“Know yourself before getting into any relationship with someone” felt that…a lot of us get into relationships without dealing with our personal traumas or understanding why we do certain things and that ends up ruining something beautiful because we fail to take time to ourselves and work on ourselves individually.

I love the touch on boundaries. It is so so important to treat all your female and male friendships the same because if there is not any boundaries, emotional chastity is very important!!

Omgosh yes!!!! "Guys there's nothing wrong with being honest and clear with intentions." I love this

Listening to this all the way from Kenya. This is very encouraging that truly there are remnants out there.Im encouraged to continue waiting!

These guys are so encouraging! I loved watching this video. Nice to know there are godly men out there🥺

I appreciated this video! I share the same convictions that these guys mentioned and it really can feel at points like so few guys share my beliefs. I also appreciated Daniel's honesty about getting close to "the line" without straight up discussing feelings with a girl, because I've had that happen and it's definitely not the best to be on the receiving end. Excited for Part 2 :)

This was so beautiful! Virtuous men are rare, but they exist! I'm excited for part 2!!

Thank you guys so much for your feedback. Honestly, other than at a few youth group meetings at my church where there are very few guys, I have never heard Christian young men discuss any of these topics. It's really refreshing and I hope and pray that there are a lot more young men such as yourselves out there because from where I'm standing it looks pretty dim.

Pleaseee make a video of them asking you questions!!! I watched this videos back in December, and I rewatched today! ✨ This is so fun to watch haha

this is incredibly refreshing to listen to. ladies, they’re still out there!!💓

Loving this 😭😭. Honestly needed this video 🥺🤍

This makes me happy! So encouraging that there are Godly guys with this kind of wisdom. Thanks for sharing!

This video is so so good! The way these guys live to honour God and share His truth is amazing! Cannot wait for part 2

These guys are so wise and such amazing children of God. After being messed around and hurt in the past this is so reassuring. ** jokingly puts a girlfriend application in the mix **

These men give me hope! So glad to see some young people think and act this way. I wish where I lived there could be a space like this where young adults talk about these subjects and potentially find a good christian husband/ wife.

Please do more of these with these guys on such topics. So enlightened

This is beautiful. I’m so impressed with the heart posture of all of these guys

This is such a beautiful conversation...something we need to hear more in the body of Christ 🙏🏾❤️❤️

This is such an encouraging video! Amazing to see guys like these that still exist! Praise God!

I love this! Thank you so much for sharing! It’s encourages me to continue …patiently waiting for the one God has for me. God bless these men.

Thank you Brothers! This was very refreshing to hear out of young men in this day and age.

I’m so glad you made this video I always watch these videos and there’s not many with a Christian POV, good job!

These guys are so wise and spoke such wisdom 🙌🏾

I really love this video @sofiaconte! Thanks for bringing your male friends to share their perspectives and for being vulnerable. I look forward to a part 2😁😁.

At 27 years old I truly respect this! My church doesn't have that many consistent guys who attend or have these values! Thanks for being vulnerable and reminding us that there are still men out there chasing after Christ!

Wow what Daniel said around 12:00 hit me like a box of bricks. Watch how you treat up ur girl friends so when you like a girl you clearly treat her different than all your girl friends. I feel like I’ve come to an age where you know I’m not smothering every guy who is my friend in hugs and attention and quality time because having been in a more serious relationship before, I’ve learned how special a deep, intimate, unique relationship is. You know, if the only difference between your boyfriend and your guy friends is that you kiss and cuddle a boyfriend but all other levels of your relationships with guy friends are the same as with a boyfriend, it takes away from that depth and intimacy you want cultivated in a romantic relationship. I’m so glad I can see that now and understand it so much more hearing those words put to it. I’m loving this video series; it’s so encouraging and helpful hearing from other believers who might be more serious or mature in their faiths than people you’re used to encountering and hearing from in your day to day life💙

These guys probably watch a lot of Paul Washer sermons because Paul speaks about relationships/friendships between men and women. There are boundaries. But it’s good to know there are Godly men who are praying for their wife, sometimes it feels like my standards are ridiculous but hearing what they want in a partner and how it’s what I want, it makes me realize this work is not in vain.

I'm so impressed that these guys can be so open with each other

This video has popped up on my feed so many times since you made it and I’m only watching it now! I REALLY NEEDED THIS!!!😭🧡

this is the reassurance I needed, thank youuu

It’s honestly amazing to see young men actually have standards and know what they want in a woman I feel like you really don’t see that the only standards they have is on a woman’s appearance and it’s really just comforting to see that not everyone is like that👏🏽 God Bless you all

This video really caught my interest and I’m glad I watched it and I truly agree with all the things they said. It’s really amazing there’s still guys like them 🥰

I love it , thanks for speaking on behalf of millions of us out here.

Wow this was the sweetest video 🥺 These guys are so wholesome and truly on fire for the Lord. Love how it's their heart to put the Lord above everything, especially relationships , you don't see that everyday, so when you do it's like wowwwwwie!