Thank you for reminding me that "I am good enough!" 🤗
@JDR03572 жыл бұрын
I get pretty sick of lying to myself and saying I'm good enough but then society constantly reminds me that I'm not. You're a young, attractive and successful girl. You have no idea what it feels like to be discarded and rejected like trash.
@IDidntAskU4 ай бұрын
Good enough is per perspective
@SusanaXpeace2u2 ай бұрын
It is different when you're older, as nobody loves you for your wisdom! , I'm 54, but it is possible to feel more valuable at 50 than at 30. Society values young women but we can value ourselves. I'm single and probably always will be at this point, but I don't view myself through the eyes of men who don't want to be with me. Again, caveat, if there were one particular person who I coukd imagine being with who "chose" a younger woman, it would hurt. We don't have to couple up though. I feel braver and more independent than I would feel if I were in a relationship.
@sandaliabeysinghe49223 жыл бұрын
Someone just told me " I thought you are a better person" when I was being too kind to him than he even deserves.
@theguynextdoor49783 жыл бұрын
Also, one thing to remember. A lot of people are portraying a fake lifestyle online. Many of the things people are envious of does not exist. We don't know what goes on behind the scenes. Some people are delusional, entitled, and have a very narcissistic "the world owes me everything" attitude. And quite honestly, that is not our problem. If we're not good enough, NEXT!
@janninedonnelly3597 Жыл бұрын
I tell myself everyday that I'm amazing!!
@markokircanski91574 жыл бұрын
"Good enough for what, and good enough for who"... You did it again Najwa, and made something remarkable. :) Loved every second of this video, and I cannot even put into words the importance of the message you are sharing in it... Thank you, for everything you do! :)
@jackhebert21403 жыл бұрын
I just have to say, men are not the only ones who act this way. Women can be just as judgmental and cruel towards us for various reasons. The ones I’ve been told are “too skinny, you’re white (enter your race), too weird, too boring, too ugly, size is too small, and, I’m serious, you’re Autistic.” And yes. I’ve been told each of these things so many times by multiple women. So ladies, please don’t think you’re the only ones who ever feel not enough.
@Traumatised3112 жыл бұрын
Yeah But rejection is better than Telling u u don't dsrve one such person
@rampitup12 Жыл бұрын
I know. I have male friends who are being treated badly by their wives. Women are just vocal that's why our story is out there. Hope you know you are enough!
@danbaker7640 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, I wouldn’t be here watching this if it wasn’t true
@jodythi14 ай бұрын
I’m praying for you and anyone that feels this way. I’m God’s eyes we’re more than enough. He has a plan for everyone 😊
@rust7192 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻 I needed this. A coworker of mine gets off putting me down every chance he gets. He's very insecure & attacks me because I feel good about myself & ignore him.
@amirajaana68594 жыл бұрын
Veryyyyy well said I am who I am and no one should tell anyone that they r less of a person and it’s true that if ur not good enough in a relation the person is insecure and they don’t respect n love they way they should
@user-fd6bt8id2xАй бұрын
Always stay true to yourself regardless of what others say or think about you!! Never let others judge your looks, personalities, abilities and beliefs! You have those looks, personalities and abilities because the world needs them! Stand out! Shine! Because if we let others judge us; we loose our true self!
@holliepilet9677 Жыл бұрын
I always connected external beauty with Worth_so I struggled with inadequate and feeling not good enough because I had to be like a doll. I've learned everything that shimmers is not GOLD. I'm learning inner quality, having substance. Morals, values, principle, and having a compass of integrity. I feel so much better as a human being. I can't believe that was my perspective for so long. I have value today, and I matter.💟🌊🍀🌿🌿🌾🌱🌿🍃🏵️🍃🌻
@mavadojones79102 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed that I'm going through depression right now , my and my lady was fighting last night and it's not a good feeling to feel that way .. but thank you for letting me know iam good enough
@h.u.t.96774 жыл бұрын
u are a goddess thank u i needed to hear this to tell my girl she feels so unworthy while she is great
@mahiyanfarin37733 жыл бұрын
Damn, men like you exist ?
@merryla8314 жыл бұрын
Your messages are beyond healing 😌
@travelandfoodbystef4 жыл бұрын
All love to u najwa. Best message ever ❤️😍
@Sam-pl3yd3 ай бұрын
Najwa thankyou 🙏 I appreciate your kind words ❤️
@paolafernandez6961 Жыл бұрын
Najwa, I love listening all this wisdom. Thank you for helping me see life from a much more pleasant perspective. Sometimes we just need to restructure our internal speech to conect and feel that our power and our worth really exist within us.
@BA-pr9io3 жыл бұрын
Such a pure angel with a beautiful soul🪐✨🌷
@rcz20232 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.
@Monica-rv7go3 жыл бұрын
I have felt like this before too. For me what made it hurt was that I slightly believed it, I was young and unsure. It felt like my vulnerable curiosity was shut down by someone else's insecurities. But I realized that if I was unsure, I should face it head on, but no one should have the right to control my feelings.
@siddharth94473 жыл бұрын
Omg I saw someone living lavish and upmarket life and showing her self modern and I got paic attacks that I am not lavish, modern or I don't have a good career although I have the best career I could but she made me believe that, then I saw this and I am feeling so so so releaved you cannot imagine. It's like someone took a huge rock off me, my panic attacks are soothing. Thank you so much 😭 may god bless you genuinely
@jamesszumiloski49863 жыл бұрын
Self approval is the way to help this wound,,walk way from anyone that dumps their shame on you!!!!,its not your wound it is theirs,hand it back to them!!!!,this is a pure projection mechanism at play here,,its a curse line that has been handed down to you,which can be broken by learning your power which does not rely on others approval!!!
@rainbow616 Жыл бұрын
This did help. Thanks so much! Especially that part about constructive critisism in the workplace. 🙏❤
@srushtijoshi16584 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this!!! I so much need it right now 👍👍 it's like, some people had just made me forget I'm lovable regardless of how do I look or what do I achieve. Thank you again!!
@jazz73933 жыл бұрын
“Who makes u feel not good enough “ my parents 😁
@allie.rock9872 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I share this to my doughter.❤
@allie.rock9872 ай бұрын
Its not easy when oure children go true ,,that,, emotional years.. im feel like im not good enought..
@elisamondragon28493 жыл бұрын
He chose another woman over me. I can't sleep, at first I even thought he was a little ugly.
@mateo61342 жыл бұрын
Hope you're doing better now....when you're attracted to somebody, you start to look past the way they look and overtime see them differently. I'm here if you need to talk.
@g8282 Жыл бұрын
Hey Najwa, thanks for the video. I needed this for sure. Got off a team morning call, where there were issues addressed that I know I need to work on myself. I acknowledge that there is a lot of work that needs to be done. However, my colleague was direct and made me feel that I wasn't worth the time, and not good enough. I know its not a matter of what was said, but "how it was said". Feeling discarded is the word for it. I feel that she is just tolerating me, I am part of the team but not included. But thank you for the perspective today, I am good enough, and I am progressing there.
@transformbymetabolix142 жыл бұрын
I adore you Najma. What you say resonates so much with me.
@rahmatcaunhye31084 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. So simple and yet so effective!
@fruitypopwhickle68063 жыл бұрын
Amen girl. I need to listen to this on repeat.
@MissSunshineindoors Жыл бұрын
When I was 17 my biology teacher had a private talk with me to tell me I wasn't good enough to take her advanced higher class. It was before the previous higher grades had been released. I listened to her and dropped out of high school. When my grades came in I had earned a high A but I had already listened to someone elses opinion of me that I wasn't good enough. This pattern has repeated throughout my life in various jobs and with how my family view me and it has effected my self esteem and self worth. Only now with reflection I see I shouldn't have let people dictate to me what I am capable of.
@thedreamnym2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. direct. clear. It's good to be reminded.
@dr.sampadakhair62042 жыл бұрын
Omg this is so powerful ❤️
@ramaparasar30873 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ☺️💕
@Donut.799 ай бұрын
Im 44 in a relationship that is sham. Ive always been the third wheel I remember watching all my friends have girlfriends and how they would get gifts hold hands and I so desperately wanted to feel that. I didn't have any kind of relationship until my 20s and I wanted to be held and have someone to call my girlfriend that allowed myself to be humiliated and cheated on. I have faith ill eventually find happiness my best wishes to everyone out there. I have a beautiful family that loves me. I want to make shorts confessing my experiences because man ive had some kinda a way to vent.
@krisztinasz4503 Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to reach out to you and say I've just started reading The Book of Healing and it is absolutely wonderful as if you were saying those words from my own heart. Thank you!!!!
@lifeisagameofknowingyourro63274 жыл бұрын
I'm good enough nothing can change that.
@soccergalsara Жыл бұрын
if they care about you. yeh exactly. always done something wrong.
@khadijahkhalid30012 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this made me cry 😭
@praveenkhatana13812 жыл бұрын
Every word makes sense , specially on looks part .Be happy who you are
@mara12752 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! 😭😭😭🙏
@cristina-irinatudor59222 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for your advice! You are of great help! I love you for your help in making our lives better! Million thank you! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🤗🤗🤗
@hollyrorienetwork Жыл бұрын
Woot! Woot! Shine on Superstar!
@naturesninja64622 жыл бұрын
I told myself I’m not good enough.
@dhuhakingdom4264 жыл бұрын
I am good enough!
@unionunicorn6776 Жыл бұрын
thank you 😭💔
@silvermoon56784 жыл бұрын
Thank you Najwa 💙
@cananilgu Жыл бұрын
I am a last year medical student. Doctors/ teachers ask lot of questions suddenly to learn if you are studying or not. Mostly I answer correctly and sometimes I don’t remember or I answer incorrectly . That’s okay of course. But this doctor I just met in nephrology rotation, he asked me and my friend questions about some renal disorders, my friend answered all of them correctly but I didn’t able to answer correctly… so he started getting angry with me when I try to say something to answer his questions but I was saying wrong things so he got mad at me and started shouting to me , “ please shut up, don’t talk anymore “ and he also said “ I don’t want to listen when you are talking, please shut up “ and he said “ you are not enough”. Imagine you are a last your student and a doctor called you that. I always feel like I am not enough because medicine is very difficult. But now the thought in my brain was in front of me as a doctor saying to me “you are not enough, you don’t know anything “. Of course , when some doctors asked questions and if we answer wrongly, they just say nothing or say to us “study more” . That’s it . But this doctor literally makes me feel bad. This happened on monday . And today is Wednesday, he did the same thing also . And I came home , I cried. After that , I tried to study but my brain was only repeating his words to me , so I couldn’t concentrate on my studies. I don’t know what to do. I don’t think I will be a good doctor. I will graduate in 2 months from med faculty , I will be a doctor . But after what this doctor said to me , I just don’t have any motivation or believe in myself. I never failed in a test , I always got one of the highest marks in the class during my exams. After what this doctor said to me I don’t believe myself anymore. I don’t want this thing to effect me but it has effected me . I am just hearing his voice in my head over and over again. That I am not enough… everyday I try to motivate myself but he ( the doctor) messed up everything . I just felt the worst.
@rafideenrafideen49874 жыл бұрын
Well said mam! I really need it
@Joy-xz2fx2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful reminder right now thank you and Namaste
@brownricebro56912 жыл бұрын
... what if i just dont feel good enough, not for someone, just not good enough. End, not for someone, not to do anything in particular, just not good enough to exist. How do i stop that? And to be clear this isnt a 24/7 thing, its just burst of depression.
@poonamtomar87962 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️ much needed today
@MorningShotFilms2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. It made me feel more assured about myself
@twinsoultarot473 Жыл бұрын
I am 55 years old and a professional driver and I'm NEVER GOOD ENOUGH FOR THIS OR ANY JOB!!!
@elenikariolemou73634 жыл бұрын
Great message for all of us
@ilyafasyamohdnazar12574 жыл бұрын
my always life saver
@camerons91933 жыл бұрын
Refreshing 👌🏽😊
@Traumatised3112 жыл бұрын
Omg College bullies made me not good enough
@cb3391 Жыл бұрын
Women and ex's are masters of this
@jaimecantu922211 ай бұрын
You are so good. I THINK YOU ARE SO SMART. The smartest woman I have heard . You helped me soooo much. I hope and pray YOU actually get my message. 3:23 THANKS.
@jocelineneves3372 жыл бұрын
IM GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME !!! IM ENOUGH!!
@sejalnansi27573 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing thank you 🙏🏽
@ikaatiqah45814 жыл бұрын
Really need this reminder 💢
@Dnd-Versatility2 жыл бұрын
Someone made me feel not good enough. Hehe. That person was me :)
@kathiereynolds43282 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@sl3670 Жыл бұрын
My study partner keeps telling I m not good enough for her and she cannot continue studying with me any more . And it was hurtful but I stopped expecting anything from her after a while and we stopped studying .
@ainawaheedamohamadcrchkl16582 жыл бұрын
Thank you....I love you❤️
@leeyujeong54622 жыл бұрын
What you said helped me a lot :) thanks a lot❤️
@buzzingbee94993 жыл бұрын
He doesnt say that but doesnt spend time with me but does others and doesnt give a chance to know me and I loved him and he has pretty excuses after chasing me. I slept with him but I've known him for a long time
@saarsh.9043 жыл бұрын
Same with me🙃 he shows number of girls following him
@bhattigaurav37964 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much mam for wonderful message
@tavarez4154 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 😘🙍🏻♀️❤️🎁
@tonyquan3742 жыл бұрын
You’re pretty
@sunilsrivastav73134 жыл бұрын
Thanks a ton ⭐
@katrinaruthministries3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! This a great video!
@davidesponge48093 жыл бұрын
I Love you Najwa!!!!
@majsannorin21293 жыл бұрын
thank you
@Evangelia2024 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow
@officerfarva36663 жыл бұрын
What if it’s from viewing media images of celebrities and people who look stunning physically? When you compare yourself to all of those celebrities and wish you looked attractive like them instead of being stuck with how you look because of your familial genetics? Nobody seems to have an answer to this, Russel Brand got it the closest but nobody else touches on this issue.
@syasyatarmizi4 жыл бұрын
But what if my mom who makes me feel that i'm not good enough, im unworthy, im useless ? Please answer me..
@jolinchua20114 жыл бұрын
syasya tarmizi I feel you too :(
@atufa68414 жыл бұрын
Then its her Problem not yours! Feel happy for every blessing you have! You are loved ❤
@candidcamera93242 жыл бұрын
I love this. How do you deal when this is your Mother in Law? And is it really her or am I just projecting those feelings on myself
@mayatzu54832 жыл бұрын
You know what,you deserved 6 million views or even more than that
@sarah00085 Жыл бұрын
♾️💜♾️
@amitgill87063 жыл бұрын
Loved your video.
@Sakib-lb4ivАй бұрын
We are just your toys 🧸 my sweet girls Cleopatra
@sarah00085 Жыл бұрын
♾️🙏🏻♾️
@mesi7242 жыл бұрын
ya but zy wont leave you
@magnet81852 жыл бұрын
women are pretty good at doing that
@WeirdStuffaaaa2 жыл бұрын
i felt that all of other students are smarter than me
@kunal_99813 жыл бұрын
Someone just told me " you're not good enough to get my respect " i don't know why but I just thinking i don't deserve love from anyone
@mysarah29592 жыл бұрын
Believe me,you deserve love & respect. Just start it with accepting yourself. You're great...
@shanmugapriyamohan64812 жыл бұрын
You deserve to be loved exactly the way you are ❤️. Hurt PPL only hurt PPL. That soul which said like that to you has something going on inside it which we can't see. They need compassion. Their statement was about them. You deserve to be respected and loved without a doubt.
@Astrid_14082 жыл бұрын
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
@kennedygentry57883 жыл бұрын
I'm confident in my looks but I feel like im annoying and stupid and that's why Im not enough for him :(
@sunitapandey23362 жыл бұрын
You are enough believe me, some people are so insecure that they make others feel unworthy just to soothe their insecurities.
@kennedygentry57882 жыл бұрын
@@sunitapandey2336 thank you so much, this comment made my day
@nehaimtiyaz63572 жыл бұрын
For such people every other person who they cannot make theirs or want to leave is annoying and stupid...you are enough and unique in your own way... everyone has ups and downs...we are wise...we don't point out at their true colours... they're stupid... they're ugly...tell them that..and being successful, bro, there were others before you and will be after you too...they are stupid and hopeless... u're beautiful and lovely
@kennedygentry57882 жыл бұрын
@@nehaimtiyaz6357 omg this literally made my day, tysm :')
@electronicjugaad68553 жыл бұрын
Noted👍👍
@geraldinekelly18314 жыл бұрын
So good
@Astrid_14082 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@sabinenasrallah43623 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@sdichampion2 жыл бұрын
Would be easier for people without children.
@kindnessisagreatquality73682 жыл бұрын
Im 45 been married 28 years But im not worth his love,always been compared to others,im not slim,not tall ,got ugly hands and feet, even my kids are ashamed of me , i pray to Allah for death coz they wont miss me and all got Great friends ,Mum and wife is non existant in their lives