Soooo…everyone has control issues|Why did I get married too? 2010 Movie recap commentary

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Not perfect Patty being a black widow.....
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@forthenostalgia 6 ай бұрын

I meant to say 'Soul Food' - Bird from Soul food- I don't know why I said Waiting to Exhale 🫠 But ya'll know what I meant 😂

@rebeccasaterfield0710 6 ай бұрын

Mistakes happen

@VeeDizzle83 6 ай бұрын

I didn't even notice lol

@teachmehowtostewie 6 ай бұрын

I.knw exactly what you meant 😂

@Muffinga 6 ай бұрын

Can you please review Madea´s family reunion? I'm obsessed with your reviews and commentary and when I found your channel I watched all of your content within a week. I'm starving for more lol

@shavonneholmes5203 6 ай бұрын

I’m glad you caught that 😂

@angelgregory9445 6 ай бұрын

Not so fun fact: Michael Jackson passed during the filming of this movie so Janet's pain and anger in that confrontation scene was all real.

@Legrandmachincalme 6 ай бұрын

I didn’t know this fact. Makes the movie and her acting even more enjoyable.

@Ms9mmBeretta 6 ай бұрын

I didn't know that. But I could tell that it was coming from a real place inside her.

@PhocusUntil 6 ай бұрын

Yeah they postponed a lot due to his passing. Tyler Perry told Janet to let loose on the set and boy did she ever !

@KimandKamJam 6 ай бұрын

I was gonna comment that too. This movie was filmed during a really hard time for Janet 😢

@vikkidonn 6 ай бұрын

Yeah so when they girls show concern that was also real. Which is partially why at the end when she starts hitting herself in the head and it’s almost too shocking for everyone to react immediately I’ve always wondered exactly when it was filmed as she’s in a heightened state of emotion there as well. Idk there’s a lot especially with the phrases she says during both scenes and the self deprivation of it all

@lionelluva 6 ай бұрын

I’ve always felt Sheila and Troy moved too fast. Sheila was still healing and Troy may have been lonely and the “rescuer”. They should’ve taken more time to date before marriage.

@angelanassiira 6 ай бұрын

I think it has a lot to do with Christian sentiments of not dating but courting with intention of marrying so as to avoid ‘living in sin’. So yeah Sheila definitely needed more time to heal but at the end of the day, the religion which they both participate in required them to be official before they could properly explore their relationship.

@lionelluva 6 ай бұрын

I don’t think it’s all about faith. Yes, some Christians marry after a few months; others marry after years. For Sheila and Troy, I think they moved too fast after trauma bonding.

@bubbles4897 6 ай бұрын

@@lionelluva nahhhh I think it’s Tyler Perry’s Christian ass thinking everyone needs to get married after laying on eyes on each other

@JECZ23 6 ай бұрын

@@lionelluva💯👍🏾 I always believed they got married too quick & connected thru trauma bonding.

@gabrielleduplessis7388 6 ай бұрын

I agree with that.

@liljay3006 6 ай бұрын

I will say Patricia was dead wrong for randomly saying they getting a divorce if they didn't even discuss it

@devantejackson5085 6 ай бұрын

And for showing up to Gavin's job especially with a "Drag Queen" 👑 🤣🤣

@yageshabazz3456 6 ай бұрын

He was wrong for draining all the money from the accounts and burning the baby pictures. And dousing her with alcohol if I’m remembering the scene correctly

@_haitian_barbie_ 6 ай бұрын

@@yageshabazz3456omg! You’re so right! I forgot about all of that

@blackrabbit1580 6 ай бұрын

@@yageshabazz3456I agree he was wrong as well, however he acted that way in response to her actions. I never been married but I can’t imagine having that kind of betrayal by Patricia. Gavin wasn’t perfect but he stuck by her through thick and thin, and enabled her facade of a perfect couple. Meanwhile, Patricia didn’t wanna discuss their problems but avoid them, thus divorce was her way of “starting anew”. Essentially, she was saying that Gavin and the marriage were holding her back from happiness which was cold and wrong

@hsg57 6 ай бұрын

@@blackrabbit1580 i know you’re not condoning his actions. But in my opinion, I truly think that’s small in comparison to what he did. Divorce is devastating I get it, but burning the last memories they had of their baby? I mean come on. She was running away from it, but to go that far is irredeemable.

@garfieldclarkjr2483 6 ай бұрын

“Troy: I need a job” Because Tyler Perry doesn’t know how law enforcement agency transfers work

@1_star_reviews 6 ай бұрын

And what happened to his general store??

@naesajefferson2460 6 ай бұрын

@@1_star_reviews I believe he sold it.

@VeeDizzle83 6 ай бұрын

😂

@garfieldclarkjr2483 6 ай бұрын

@@1_star_reviews You know what , I kinda forgot that too , He did run a general store in his town , I guess Tyler forgot about that too lol

@aprilthomas5485 5 ай бұрын

But Mike does that's what sucks 😑😎😎

@SomethingNewAMBW 6 ай бұрын

they made angela even more insecure and combative ugh hate TP constantly riding this trope

@marissawilson4644 6 ай бұрын

I know right! I wanted to see some growth. They undid all of her progress.

@therealmarlonbellamy 6 ай бұрын

Tasha Smith is typecasted as the ghetto loudmouth woman.

@chocha4438 6 ай бұрын

That's life. Sometimes people revert instead of moving forward 🤷🏽‍♀️

@CashUnlimited8 6 ай бұрын

@@chocha4438Facts!! 💯

@purplebanana6420 6 ай бұрын

I mean when Marcus was cheating and she was right it just instinctive for her to think he's cheating

@angelaabron3080 6 ай бұрын

Patricia was wrong for announcing a divorce and not tell Gavin before hand.

@craigwapples4200 6 ай бұрын

So wrong

@_haitian_barbie_ 6 ай бұрын

💯💯

@kailamobley1798 5 ай бұрын

I always saw it as Gavin knew they were going down that road but didn’t think sue was gonna announce it there

@angelaabron3080 5 ай бұрын

@@kailamobley1798 I agree. He was more hopeful for their marriage to be fixed. But Patricia was done

@ereka333 6 ай бұрын

Janet acted her ass off in this one. And I love her hair in this film. It had me rocking deep curly hair on the regular lol

@purplebanana6420 6 ай бұрын

Lowkey I noticed that after her emotions unraveled her hair was always down where when she was hiding them her hair was up

@Ghostgal7 6 ай бұрын

If I remember correctly, I think Janet's brother passed away while she was filming. They had to stop production so she could go to Michael's funeral and check on his kids. I wouldn't be surprised if she channeled some of her grief into her acting.

@princesschanel469 6 ай бұрын

@@Ghostgal7Janet’s brother? Michael Jackson had a name

@Ghostgal7 6 ай бұрын

@@princesschanel469 You’re right, my bad!

@geekjanet 6 ай бұрын

@@princesschanel469 Girl bye, you knew what they were saying. Everyone knows Michael is the only sibling that passed in the Jackson family during this time. They even said his name in the original post. Please calm down.

@leylahedwards365 6 ай бұрын

Notice how Diane was like “I’m just glad he has ‘his’ son.” I’m like ma’am that’s your son too! She did not want that family!

@yageshabazz3456 6 ай бұрын

I think she wanted to be married, but didn’t want children. Throughout both movies, I’ve gotten a sense that Terry was heavily pressuring her to have kids, which she clearly didn’t want but he couldn’t take no for an answer

@ashleyrogers1930 6 ай бұрын

@@yageshabazz3456I think she wanted kids but not at that time. She wanted to build her career first.

@DestinysChild-vn5hm 6 ай бұрын

He pressured her so much that she got her tubes tied in the first then he was so mad at her that she felt that getting them untied and getting pregnant would make it up to him

@chaosspy6723 6 ай бұрын

Who's child did they kidnap because it had only been a year? No way in hell is that kid theirs.

@HinataUchiha_22 6 ай бұрын

@@chaosspy6723I think it’s annual and not yearly because how did Marcus go from doing hair to being on tv when he wasn’t a super well known ex athlete

@melanino 6 ай бұрын

Tyler Perry made Angela go overly crazy. In the first one you at least got the sense she had a reason to be angry and she showed that she was a good friend and was real with people. In this one he flanderized her and now she's plain psycothic.

@brickztheproducer6931 6 ай бұрын

Agreed

@antg2183 6 ай бұрын

Was she overly crazy in this one? In the first movie Angela also cheated on Marcus, gave him an STD, verbally abused him all the time about not having a job despite his money being part of the reason she has her salon and hair care line etc etc. I think she was just as overly crazy the only difference being Marcus actually WAS doing wrong in the first movie but in this movie, he doesn’t actually do anything and could even be considered a better man while Angela is still the same.

@joshuamcdowell9745 5 ай бұрын

Angela was even more crazier in For Better or For Worse.

@marissawilson4644 4 ай бұрын

@@antg2183 not to defend Angela but she did that as revenge for him cheating with Keisha.

@SensationallySilky Ай бұрын

It's accurate tho, because once you decide to stay with someone who lies and cheats, you can't believe anything they say and they'll make you DOUBLE crazy... I've seen it play out

@LoveliestSunflower95 6 ай бұрын

They made Angela 10x worse.

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

😂it was good for comedy though

@antg2183 6 ай бұрын

Tbh I don’t think they made her any worse than she was in the first movie, I just think that Marcus actually WAS doing wrong in the first movie so we understand her a bit but in this second movie Angela remains the same while Marcus doesn’t do anything wrong. I personally think she’s acting the same.

@blackhearted_af 3 ай бұрын

Yet, their dysfunctional marriage was apparently so entertaining, it ended up having its own show

@MrBeautiful2908 6 ай бұрын

The first film was more than enough.

@rayrayrayray2001 6 ай бұрын

facts

@Tttttttttttttttt484 6 ай бұрын

Naw I like part too .. Janet Jackson’s acting was impeccable ❤

@Chani-uk4wf 5 ай бұрын

The first film concludes with everyone reconciling by talking and reflecting on the rights and wrongs. Second film concludes with "FIX IT!!!"

@AliFrankTheTank 4 ай бұрын

Dinner scene all that film had lol

@linkzone3797 3 ай бұрын

Facts

@donyasigalesin1087 6 ай бұрын

Sheila left a toxic relationship and should’ve been by herself for a while before getting married again especially so soon. Tyler perry wanted to portray that troy had insecurities but depicted that sheila just didn’t know how to be a good wife, not that it’s entirely her fault. However, sometimes troy’s “insecurities” made sense, for example, why the hell would you tell the group knowing mike was there that yall are having financial problems.

@kaylamorgan266 6 ай бұрын

So true. Especially since Troy had compromised with her by uprooting his store and job so that she could be closer to friends and family.

@ShockToYoSystem 4 ай бұрын

T: Dammit shelia GIVE ME SOME SPACE🤬 S: DONT YOU EVA TALK TO ME LIKE THAT AGAIN😡

@michealarends4855 2 ай бұрын

Random critic to Sheila: Why!!.. you're his wife, not his mother.

@marissawilson4644 6 ай бұрын

Everyone needed therapy, especially the therapist Patty 😂😂😂😂

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

she needed the most! 😂😂😂

@marissawilson4644 6 ай бұрын

Sheila asked the messiest person for help. She could have literally asked Diane.

@Tttttttttttttttt484 6 ай бұрын

Sheila and Troy will definitely work things out, but Troy's yelling and standoffish behavior triggered her., Troy and Shelia might be good for each other, but therapy is essential. Troy's pride in handling financial struggles hindered them so much. Moving in with a friend temporarily or seeking assistance could have been options. Their relationship issues, while typical, could be worked out. Other couples might need a divorce, Janet Jackson's character needs introspection, having unintentionally caused harm to two people

@Butterflies515 5 ай бұрын

It reminds me when Bird ask her ex for help with a job it’s messy

@Chani-uk4wf 5 ай бұрын

@@Butterflies515 let me do a copy and paste of Soulfood here 🤣

@IsaiahSays-tw4th 5 ай бұрын

@@Tttttttttttttttt484Are you a parrot or just a repeating bot

@Mrs.buildingblackwealth 5 ай бұрын

Right

@EyERuNiT 6 ай бұрын

The scene when Patricia started destorying everything was Janet's real emotions coming out as she was still grieving Michael's passing. The hurt from losing him was still very fresh and Tyler told her to just let it out and that she did.

@ooostarb3rryooo 6 ай бұрын

I’m glad she was able to do that. ❤

@phillinsogood 6 ай бұрын

@@ooostarb3rryooosame wow I didn’t know this at all. You can really tell that she was super hurt in that scene.

@DreamingEdmond 5 ай бұрын

I always commend her for giving us a look into the rawness of her pain. Like that was PERSONAL. That’s why I felt like it was messed up for TP to write her character losing her husband so tragically …. Like she just lost her brother and you want to use her trauma to make the scenes real by digging it up? I mean.. Maybe it was helpful. I don’t know…

@joshuamcdowell9745 5 ай бұрын

She broke four golf clubs while filming that scene

@Isthisjoebiden 5 ай бұрын

@@joshuamcdowell9745 Omg...

@angie2452 6 ай бұрын

My thoughts 1. Who the hell moves to another state with NO job? Sheila and Troy must've had over a million saved up. 2. I'm really shocked that Terry and Diane didn't divorce. After all, he was ready to in the first movie when she was working too much. Yet, her almost cheating with another man didn't do anything?

@gjjijji 6 ай бұрын

They probably did get a divorce but Tyler ended the movie that we never get closure for the other characters

@Tttttttttttttttt484 6 ай бұрын

Sheila and Troy will definitely work things out, but Troy's yelling and standoffish behavior triggered her. Asking Mike for a job referral wasn't wrong, especially considering his willingness, given his remorseful state. However, her continued communication with him is puzzling. When he had joined the trip, she would've left immediately, Troy and Shelia might be good for each other, but therapy is essential. Troy's pride in handling financial struggles hindered them so much. Moving in with a friend temporarily or seeking assistance could have been options. Their relationship issues, while typical, could be worked out. Other couples might need a divorce, Janet Jackson's character needs introspection, having unintentionally caused harm to two people.

@Tttttttttttttttt484 6 ай бұрын

@@gjjijjiI assume they divorced 😭😭

@acivilright 6 ай бұрын

After you basically predicate the marriage continuing on the wife having a kid... divorce is imminent. Of course she acting out smh. They need a divorce 100 percent.

@OoooshetriesSs 6 ай бұрын

Terry as a character/husband pisses me off SOOO badly.

@Kingdom9909 6 ай бұрын

I am so happy that you pointed out how the men never called Mike out for his BULLSHXT. Also, I hollered when you told Diane “Girl, Ima need you to lie better than that. 😂😂😂😂

@onnie.6815 6 ай бұрын

Literallyyyyy, they never said ANYTHING

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

i feel like the message was that men just let things play out like they knew karma was coming for him

@dimensionzone8048 4 ай бұрын

@@adjoahossou454agreed

@Drewski217 6 ай бұрын

This movie makes a perfect case as to why not every successful film needs a sequel. I mean, LORDY

@ninicherefe1075 5 ай бұрын

NO LITERALLY

@AliFrankTheTank 4 ай бұрын

better than part 1 lol

@therealmarlonbellamy 6 ай бұрын

Tyler Perry always play the perfect husband with a problematic wife who’s either a drug addict or workaholic. Terry showed his narcissistic ways, Diane was having an emotional affair, Gavin & Patty were no longer able to keep up their facade, Patty should have never showed up to Gavin’s job humiliating him. Marcus had a study job & Angela couldn’t handle the attention that came with it, the reason why Troy didn’t want the group in their business was because he had a front row seat to how messy they were in the first movie & where was Trina when Mike was going through treatment? Sheila pulled a Bird from Soul Food & didn’t learn not to go behind your husband’s back to out of all people your ex to get your husband a job. I noticed that a lot of Tyler Perry’s movies are inspired by Waiting To Exhale & Soul Food. Next week’s review is Dreamgirls.

@naimahal-azeez1728 6 ай бұрын

Not in "A Family That Preys." His wife was neither of those things.

@therealmarlonbellamy 6 ай бұрын

@@naimahal-azeez1728 That’s right.

@JaTariusJarrett 6 ай бұрын

You know…. I agree!

@orionb5217 5 ай бұрын

This is so on point 😂

@NaetheNatural 4 ай бұрын

Gavin literally drained out her bank account & she going through a mental episode. Yall can go to heeeeeel with that dense thought 😂😂😂

@taraiji 6 ай бұрын

that scene with janet and her husband made me so sick 😭

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

she basically indirectly caused her own entire family’s death!

@jordanscott9988 6 ай бұрын

It felt like like once Pat and Gavin's child died their marriage did as well.I understand why Troy acted the way he did cause he is a prideful man.Angela is a person who means well but is also controlling.Terry and Diane's marriage is missing something.

@leylahedwards365 6 ай бұрын

It’s missing chemistry, Diane is not attracted to Terry. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@E01234 6 ай бұрын

@@leylahedwards365absolutely, I was thinking the same thing

@jordanscott9988 6 ай бұрын

That makes sense or she never wanted to be married

@vikkidonn 6 ай бұрын

@@jordanscott9988or want kids….. they difference in treatment between the kids was always so blatant to me and weird it and many other things weren’t addressed within the various dynamics of these couples.

@Tttttttttttttttt484 6 ай бұрын

Sheila and Troy will definitely work things out, but Troy's yelling and standoffish behavior triggered her. Asking Mike for a job referral wasn't wrong, especially considering his willingness, given his remorseful state. However, her continued communication with him is puzzling. When he had joined the trip, she would've left immediately, despite not doing anything with him. Troy and Shelia might be good for each other, but therapy is essential. Troy's pride in handling financial struggles hindered them so much. Moving in with a friend temporarily or seeking assistance could have been options. Their relationship issues, while typical, could be worked out. Other couples might need a divorce, Janet Jackson's character needs introspection, having unintentionally caused harm to two people.

@groovy_kid3958 6 ай бұрын

“ nurse ya lil fruit juice” is one of my favorite lines from that movie cuz ik thats right

@RasheedaParker-qn9ec 6 ай бұрын

I hated how Tory’s character did a full 180 with him being a prideful jerk 😡

@lstarsabb 6 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly like the video said i get him being uncomfortable talking about this financial struggle in front of Shila's friend, but he was doing to much and i can see why Shila was feeling insecure. I can't deal with a prideful man get mad at me for his insecurity, he should have made sure he was his money was right before agree to go on vacation if he was going to whine about it the whole trip and Sheila should have not pressured him into agreeing to it.

@tagz3924 6 ай бұрын

Mike hitting Sheila was indication of Tyler Perry bad writing. It was no hint in the first movie that Mike was physically abusive. Tyler Perry just being Tyler Perry as usual making dark skin black men the super villain in his movie

@KAMROXX2K11 6 ай бұрын

And keeping bw being angry or abused. 🙃

@chocha4438 6 ай бұрын

🙄🙄🙄

@JunAlex86 6 ай бұрын

This makes me speculate about the friend group too. If they had known about that physical abusive on top of the insults & infidelity, it makes look so much worse. But I imagine the physical abuse was just inserted by Tyler Perry just to make Mike more horrible.

@Shaunie03 6 ай бұрын

Exactly. I was like, where did that come from?

@tagz3924 6 ай бұрын

@@JunAlex86 yeah these people was like in there early 40’s in the first movie. So you telling me Mike was beating her for 20 years and nobody said nothing

@Shaunie03 6 ай бұрын

Am I the only one that noticed Troy was a Wall Street genius who turned sheriff in the first movie. He was able to donate a million dollars, but then in the second movie, he is broke. I guess TP forgot he showed us that part. Did I see that wrong?

@Hains22 6 ай бұрын

The most anticlimactic sequel ever. Angela’s annoyance level was cranked up to a 1,000, and don’t even get me started on the ending 😡😂

@onnie.6815 6 ай бұрын

The ending is why I can’t watch the movie, after the first watch, it was enough

@EWUBB 6 ай бұрын

y’all not fw the usual light skin savior TP do in most of his movies

@princesskristan 6 ай бұрын

The scene where Patricia was breaking everything in the house made me sad knowing the backstory for it. I know that had to be therapeutic for Janet

@FunFactswithAmani 3 ай бұрын

What’s the backstory for it?

@princesskristan 3 ай бұрын

@@FunFactswithAmani Right around Janet was filming this movie, Michael passed away. So when it came time to film this scene, Tyler told Janet to use all of the anger/pain she had over losing her brother when she smashed everything in the house

@garfieldclarkjr2483 6 ай бұрын

Angela and Marcus are still two people who clearly shouldn’t be together but yet they are because Tyler knows his toxic audience and decides to give them both a SITCOM???? WTF??

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂baby mama drama at it’s best!!

@spiritrain1685 4 ай бұрын

Like an actual sitcom? Oh lawd

@garfieldclarkjr2483 4 ай бұрын

Yeah . Apparently a series was made for BET (and later Syndication) called Tyler Perry’s For Better Or Worse . And it’s centered around Marcus and Angela . And there’s a reason why it was cancelled

@thatoneweirdkidthatyoudisl6723 3 ай бұрын

It ran for 6 seasons which is surprising

@Las645 2 ай бұрын

Why are you calling his audience “toxic?” These are fictional characters, and yes I love drama. I don’t watch movies or tv shows that don’t have drama because that’s not entertaining to me. People are able to keep entertainment and real life separated.

@irimaoluchi4847 5 ай бұрын

why is no one talking about how Gavin became physically abusive lol

@amyadams9970 6 ай бұрын

I remember Janet going into an interview and the interviewer brought up Micheal's death and asked if the emotions of his passing was what she used to do those scenes. As a kid, I didn't think much of it, as an adult, I have to question that interviewer. Also, I feel like Tyler didn't have any idea on what to do with Angela’, because being mad over something that was fixed makes no sense to me. I think he just wanted her to be the angry black woman

@csmith2484 3 ай бұрын

Tyler should've watched The Best Man and taken notes.

@BabyRho 6 ай бұрын

I jumped when she popped up behind them “ Is this the game you want to play?” 🙀

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

😂 it turned horror movie at that point

@misspapo3444 6 ай бұрын

I love how Patricia gets to unalive her husband and meets up with the Rock 1 yr later and we are suppose to cheer for this???

@j.t.7671 4 ай бұрын

I don't see where how she took him out. He's the one who didn't look before driving into the intersection. No matter how angry people can make you, you're still responsible for your own actions.

@devilovesdevil 4 ай бұрын

@j.t.7671 agreed putting that on her is wrong, she shouldn't have done what she did but him not paying attention isn't her fault

@Sn_da_1st 3 ай бұрын

@@devilovesdevil Well put it like this Gavin was angry and angry ppl aren’t fully aware of their surroundings fully when driving and he was trying to get away from the cause of the anger (Pat) but she refused so… she does hold a heavy responsibility in his death.

@djidjine5082 2 ай бұрын

@@j.t.7671He was angry. When you angry you don’t think straight. But she was the one antagonizing him. She came to his job with a drag queen pissing him off

@matxalenc8410 Ай бұрын

@@Sn_da_1st Yes. They tell you in driving school not to drive while emotional! I definitely can't blame him for that accident.

@marissawilson4644 6 ай бұрын

It's wild that Tyler Perry's trope of having the hurt ex wife taking care of her evil ex husband finally backfired.

@Jessica.Shawnte 6 ай бұрын

If I was Troy I would’ve told her No to leaving Colorado where he had a job & a house. He could’ve just moved her mom up there. Another thing forget her fake friends!!! well Angela can get yearly visits

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

Angela was a real one😂😂😂😂😂

@mobreezy2184 6 ай бұрын

I don't like how Tyler retconned Gavin and Mike. Mike was evil enough without being physically abusive. Tyler over-did it and it hurt the story. Shelia woulda told her friends if Mike was beating her. Gavin was over-the-top cruel. I don't buy him burning their baby's pictures. That's too much. I think they agreed to divorce but he didn't want her to tell everyone right then and there

@NaetheNatural 4 ай бұрын

Thankyou !!!! But you have a bunch of women giving Gavin a pass in the comment section. Yeah let’s hold Patrica accountable and see her faults but that makes it okay what Gavin did to her ? Hit her , burn the baby books , forced himself on her and drained the bank account…… he got his karma . It wasn’t Patrica .

@mobreezy2184 4 ай бұрын

I agree, but I think it was bad writing by Tyler to make Gavin soooo evil out of nowhere. I don't think in real life he could have burned those baby pictures, and acting "rapey", that's not who he is/was.But Tyler needed him to be a monster to "further" Patricia's character. Same with Mike--he was already an asshole, but now we're told he was beating Shelia too?!? The same Shelia who walloped him with a wine bottle like it was nothin? Just bad, inconsistent writing in vol. 2.@@NaetheNatural

@celestial.guardian 6 ай бұрын

Terry and Diane are giving Will and Jada vibes. They should had been divorced since the first movie

@angelaabron3080 6 ай бұрын

When the ashes hit Angela in the face 😂😂😂😂😂

@najihafelder2592 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@phillinsogood 6 ай бұрын

I screamed that was the funniest part of the film

@Alexgrl99 6 ай бұрын

Honestly I would not read any book by Patricia or seek her advice.

@Shaunie03 6 ай бұрын

Me either, that's a quick way to ruin your marriage.

@hereiam1041 6 ай бұрын

Who really should have taken Mike to chemo were Marcus, Gavin, or Terry. Those are supposed to be his friends. With friends like them who need enemies 🙄. Great video, btw.

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

if men could count on their make friends they wouldn’t need women so much

@tnygant6648 4 ай бұрын

@adjoahossou454 we dont like to ask for help makes us stronger but makes us weak catch 22

@raveengarrett8255 4 ай бұрын

But he didn’t tell them he had cancer so they couldn’t offer to do something they didn’t know about. I think he just wanted to be babied by Shelia and prove that she would still be open to taking care of him. That was a power play that she fell right into.

@mkdadon2245 2 ай бұрын

Did he tell them he had cancer in the first place, no. So what were they supposed to do

@brandonbates9259 5 күн бұрын

What's crazy is how many people liked this comment 😂😂 just agreeing for the sake of agreeing...Like the other comments said,they knew nothing abt his cancer

@juelsxoxo 6 ай бұрын

i just feel like diane was never into terry like that 😭😭 19:25

@HorrorMovieQueen 11 күн бұрын

I felt that too.

@onnie.6815 6 ай бұрын

21:00 “you so damn evil” will get me everytime 😭😭😭

@ddavis8988 6 ай бұрын

It's weird how Tyler Perry defaults to Madea even when he's not pkaying her, lol.

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

he can’t play anything else

@GrapeTeaNews 6 ай бұрын

This movie toxic af 😂

@Chitownhomestead 2 ай бұрын

All TP movies are toxic af

@NoName-jc9yc Ай бұрын

RIP to Lou Gossett Jr. And Cicely Tyson.

@shaylah2725 6 ай бұрын

' hows the job search? ' 😂😂😂😂 Mike is so ignorant I swear LOL

@phillinsogood 6 ай бұрын

The way I screamt lmao

@daijamiller3694 5 ай бұрын

He ate that one tho

@sourpatchque 5 ай бұрын

I hate how they made Troy’s character do a whole 360. Shelia could’ve stayed single tbh.

@packnetadaija 6 ай бұрын

I had the movie on DVD because our blockbuster was closing down and the scene where Gavin died my mouth was agape because it seemed like out of the blue 😂😂

@starcherry6814 5 ай бұрын

It really did tho... I was low-key like was the accident that bad? 😅

@Dee52790 6 ай бұрын

Did you notice that Gavin’s attorney’s name was Phil 🌚

@Caramelpop86 5 ай бұрын

😮😮

@dahliaherrod4301 5 ай бұрын

Btw highly unethical. Gavin was getting done dirty

@starcherry6814 6 ай бұрын

I just rewatched it. 22:12 I got really uncomfortable watching Gavin attack Patricia. He infuriated me. He burned their only baby pictures... didn't even act remorseful or apologize or nothing.

@Pepprcurn Ай бұрын

I understand but I think there was more behind him doing that. As in there have been things going on behind the scenes for a while that they’ve kept hidden from their friends. The fact that Patricia was a therapist and refused to deal with her emotions and he husband’s most definitely put a strain on their relationship. Gavin was willing to work things out, he wanted to. But she did not because she was consumed by guilt. In turn that caused Gavin to drink and when you’re drunk you can act out of character fueled on emotions and alcohol. Him putting his hands on her wasn’t right at all, but I think the emotional abuse Patricia put him through isn’t recognized enough. She was emotionally manipulative to him, and she knew she was doing that because she is a therapist. She knows how emotions work and how to get a certain emotional response from people.

@tashibalampkin8555 6 ай бұрын

That alcohol throwing scene while Galvin saying "I love you. I love you" always hurts my heart. The emtions.

@salacioussummers 6 ай бұрын

That "Sir, you need to run!" with Janet's freeze frame was too much for me! I cackled too hard! 😹 😹 😹

@jadac9678 3 ай бұрын

It’s crazy how both Cecily and Lou have passed now 🥺

@angelicaaddison716 6 ай бұрын

I hate that Angela never got called out for embarrassing Marcus on national TV, after the misunderstanding. Marcus should have divorced after that behavior. Totally unacceptable. And if the roles were reversed, Marcus would be abusive and called out for it.

@HinataUchiha_22 6 ай бұрын

She probably never got called out by Marcus because it was probably really good for ratings I know I would be watching after that

@angelicaaddison716 6 ай бұрын

@@HinataUchiha_22 I hear your point about ratings, Hinata. Their relationship was just beyond toxic. Made me keep wondering, why are they still married?! And the double standards often seen between dysfunctional men and dysfunctional women in relationships. Females can be just as destructive as males. And I'm saying this as a female. With Tasha, it's all played for laughs, but it wouldn't be for Marcus. Do you get what I mean? It's one of those pop culture tropes/cliches that annoy me or I hate.

@KB-nz6bv 6 ай бұрын

Angela should have divorced him after the first movie. Marcus isn’t as loud but he’s literally a cheater.

@amarismiller3905 5 ай бұрын

The yt man did in the scene where Sheila, her, and Diane met up at the restaurant to have lunch 😭😭😭

@AnonymousC-lm6tc Ай бұрын

The roles were reversed. Mike was physically and emotionally abusive yet was never called out for it by his friends, so that negates your theory.

@jhiaka9888 6 ай бұрын

Everybody (but Terry ofc) looked bad in this movie…Mike is Mike but Sheila taking care of him is hilarious considering how he did her. Marcus actually wasn’t bad but Angela stays with the drama but I get they both cheated before so trust issues there. Diane was a cheater but honestly putting up with terrys mess I don’t blame her. Gavin was poorly written and 180d from the first movie, Patricia made sense since signs of her holding too much in was showing in the first movie and she just finally cracked here . Also they did Troy dirty with the writing too.

@gjjijji 6 ай бұрын

Putting up with what terry mess?

@PaperChaserLa 6 ай бұрын

That’s funny how y’all just excuse women cheating lol all because she had to “ deal w terrys shit” 😂😂 smh

@jessinthecomments 6 ай бұрын

I think having Shelia help him kind of goes back to the play version. I think in the play version Shelia went back to Mike. I know in the play version of Diary of a Mad Black Woman she took her husband back.

@LilyandJasper 6 ай бұрын

@@PaperChaserLaHer cheating on Terry isn’t justified, but they sure as hell need a divorce

@krazykaye8843 6 ай бұрын

@@gjjijjihim pressuring her into having kids she didn't want.

@ooostarb3rryooo 6 ай бұрын

Idk what the deal is with TP having ex wives “help” their abusive ex husband, but this is exactly the “forgiveness” trope we need to let go. Mike clearly ain’t ish so bad not even his family wants to help him. Sheila has successful friends, none of them were able to give a good word out for Troy? I know they trying do it on their own but c‘mon. Angela doubling-down and amping up her behavior is toxic and ruined any character progression she had in the previous movie. I agree they mind as well divorce, they’re never happy unless having sex. Nutty buddies. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Diane and TP’s relationship always felt hollow to me. If their marriage is at a point where emotionally cheating is happening, that means there’s something deeper lacking. Either way, I agree they needed to be divorce. I think Diane was supposed to symbolize “the career-driven” women who prioritizes their career over creating a larger family. At the end of the day, you can’t force a baby onto somebody and get a good outcome. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Parents who loose their children due to death tend to divorce one another. TP could’ve done a lot better with that storyline and topic.

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

for some reason i feel uncomfortable seeing type perry play a herero guy in a hereto relationship now after the whole made a character lol😂

@Las645 2 ай бұрын

You’re right?! I hated the end of that one movie when the daughter forgave her mom for practically letting her get raped as a child. Like Tyler in what world would that happen? 😂 the mother did nothing to earn her forgiveness and she should’ve been in jail tbh.

@Chitownhomestead 2 ай бұрын

I agree w you 100%

@happygolucky8869 6 ай бұрын

What always got me about WDIGM is how Sheila always seems to reference how a trip can help her marriage. She said that in the first movie when really she needed to realize Mike was a terrible person and no trip was gonna help. Maybe counseling or not spending money she and Troy don't have (their last) would help. Troy is upset by not having a source of income yet she thinks they need to spend money? I also want to know what Diane's career is like now after giving Terry what he wanted, their son. I also wonder if she had the child by choice or request. How did she go from being top in her firm and defending teens against capital murder to being a divorce attorney for Pat while Gavin is being defended by Phil (her alleged side boo)? Also, did no one get money from Pat for being subjects in her book? Those trips should be free at this point. The movie also showed me how trash the friends still are, especially the men gossiping about Troy not talking to Mike.

@Jessica.Shawnte 6 ай бұрын

A Lawyer can do both fields

@happygolucky8869 6 ай бұрын

@@Jessica.Shawnte I was mostly wondering if maybe being a divorce lawyer was less demanding for her to spend more time with family.

@Tttttttttttttttt484 6 ай бұрын

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

everyone knows me can’t keep secrets and are the biggest gossips 😂

@curlyhairedlvrd9730 Ай бұрын

Fun Fact: Gavin’s lawyer is Phil….the man Diane was about to risk it for 😂😂😂

@D415h4n34 Ай бұрын

Oh he was fine af😂

@curlyhairedlvrd9730 Ай бұрын

@@D415h4n34 😂 fr I see why she was going nuts about him

@BIGwillTHEGAME 6 ай бұрын

I love Janet’s performance in this film.

@jessinthecomments 6 ай бұрын

Shelia and Troy absolutely got married too fast but I think that goes along with the Christian undertone Tyler’s adapted plays have.

@peachysoul8286 5 ай бұрын

I’ll tell you what… if gavin poured liquor on my face like that he woulda been on a tshirt by the end of the week!

@ShonnysLab1995 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@blackalisondilaurentis1996 6 ай бұрын

EVERYBODY in this movie pissed me off. Patricia and JC from New York Undercover (idk gavin ☠️) both were the messiest ones in this movie. Sheila probably should’ve gotten help and Mike should’ve DIED. Ter-madea reaped what he sowed (that joke with the twins karma came back around) and Angela was a complete dummy in this movie. rip to 07 angela bob (she was a real one).

@dahliaherrod4301 5 ай бұрын

OMG I miss her bob so much! It had so much body and shine. Just sheer perfection!

@Ciaobellaaa 6 ай бұрын

You could’ve bought Shelia for a dollar when she opened them double doors & saw Troy standing there. Genuine terror right there all she could do was start crying. I love how real Jill Scott made it feel 😂💞.

@kpopislife1622 Ай бұрын

Can we PLEASE give Janet her flowers for this movie because the pain she feels during the break in scene & the stairs scene was 1000% real due to our king's passing. She found out while she was filming & she was no longer acting. I cry right along with her every single time i see this movie & i can't imagine working under that tragedy. And her breaking those golf clubs along with the guys expressions was 100% real. She broke four of them y'all... four iron rods! Then she had to perform 'Scream' at the 09 VMA's with an image of him on the screen after this... Hunny, She will forever have my admiration as an actress. Thank you Janet, i love you. 🩵💯

@lenab2237 6 ай бұрын

I watched this movie again as an adult and I found out phill ( the guy Diane was seeing ) it was Gavin attorney . He was telling Gavin about the hidden account Patrica had..

@najihafelder2592 6 ай бұрын

Foreal? I missed that part all these years wow

@Pearleta100 5 ай бұрын

We should be asking who told Phil and when?

@jaywiththeslayy 25 күн бұрын

Yep I finally peeped that a few years ago

@ericaj4494 25 күн бұрын

Oop the lawyer was playing her for inside info???? 👀 Maybe you should be a better lawyer boo

@thefilmcritic3409 6 ай бұрын

I always hated this sequel. It’s like TP can never let Black couples be happy and secure in healthy relationships. Like you made Troy, of all the men, insecure and not understanding over that man??

@quietking24 6 ай бұрын

Lol I was just re-watching this movie today! The ending scene where Patricia goes up to Gavin's job is hilariously outstanding! 🤣

@medeucaa 6 ай бұрын

The scene where janet ripped that house up, she had just found out michael passed and they let het go bonkers to release the pain. That changed the way i saw that scene forever

@taylynhopkins 6 ай бұрын

When you asked “do you think she resents him?” It absolutely sent me. She did not want that baby

@scorpionqueen11 5 ай бұрын

Hold the phone. I know Mike was verbally ab*sive (and that's horrible) but I didn't recall him being physically ab*sive, too. If that's the case and his boys knew about it and STILL let him come around and disrupt Sheila's peace? Jail and hell, all of them. 😐

@riritheedon8967 6 ай бұрын

This movie was just too much for me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@PaperChaserLa 6 ай бұрын

Let’s not excuse Diane being an unfaithful person, regardless of how terry was, had it been the man, ya wouldn’t look for excuses for why he cheated lol

@kaybethune2157 3 ай бұрын

just like u found a way to disagree with Diane’s emotional affair, there’s gonna be someone to defend Terry had it been the other way around. It’s all about perspective. I hate when y’all act like things are so black & white

@isalisa909 6 ай бұрын

Dwayne “the rock” Johnson looked good back in the day.

@yugen8195 6 ай бұрын

he looks the same 😭

@dahliaherrod4301 5 ай бұрын

Damn good. Then added a thousand muscles and fell off for me

@Chitownhomestead 2 ай бұрын

Wwwwaaaayyyy back in the day

@VCBeatsNTV 6 ай бұрын

Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty got one of the most undeserved happy ending in cinema history

@lindseypoindexter 6 ай бұрын

Facts! I was mad when Rock popped up on that screen. 😂

@MichellaneousMe 6 ай бұрын

It’s funny how Terry was the only one who didn’t have any problems, but everyone else did. I also liked your commentary about the end because I said “run” at the rock when I first saw this movie too 😂

@sisiasian8781 3 ай бұрын

Terry finds out Diane is cheating with a guy named Phil, also Terry learns that Diane had her tubes tide and he also had to do a paternity test on his son as he wasn't sure if the child was really his. I would say Terry is the one with really BIG problems, because he is in a BAD marriage with a woman who cheats and lies and unhappy with him clearly. They should be the ones divorcing. Terry is a passive ignorant man.

@djidjine5082 2 ай бұрын

I think he did have a problem. He seems really controlling. I would say Gavin is the one without. Pat announcing the divorce started everything

@MistyMaize 5 ай бұрын

They all should've divorced in the first movie

@MsNotzi 6 ай бұрын

I don't hate this movie, but I loved the first "Why Did I Get Married" 10 times more than the sequel. I hated how they changed Troy and Gavin's characters, and it always irked me that this installment is supposed to take place about a year or two (three at the most) after the first movie, but yet Terry and Diane's son appears to be about four or five years old! What? The best things about this movie were Marcus and Angela (still toxic as all hell, but still hilarious), Janet's killer performance, and Rock's cameo at the end (I love me some Rock...I just wish they showed that coffee date). Either way, your commentary was fire, as usual. Great job. ❤

@TheShredtube 2 ай бұрын

It was five years apart in the movie

@Irose_YTBE 6 ай бұрын

I think what always rubs me wrong is this movie just lets Mike get away with EVERYTHING. As if him not getting called out for what he did at the dinner scene wasnt bad enough, the movie makes it a point to make him worse than we knew him to be in the first one by saying he was also physically abusive to Sheila. To have her "take care of him" cuz he's sick be her arc is so disrespectful to actual victims of domestic violence watching this movie and it just completely sucks

@SomethingNewAMBW 6 ай бұрын

bird was definitely from Soul Food, not waiting to exhale lol

@forthenostalgia 6 ай бұрын

I know, I said it by mistake 😂

@lyricaldali 6 ай бұрын

The Troy and Sheila storyline always bugged me. Like why he switch up?

@jaredcoleworld3650 6 ай бұрын

The fact that all this was around Micheal’s passing

@BassSetH0und 6 ай бұрын

I'm cofused didn't marcus have a history of cheating? And that why Angela was doing the most?

@lindseypoindexter 6 ай бұрын

Yup

@DC4L1991 5 ай бұрын

He was cheating and she gave him VD from cheating as well….

@Wavylikedaviee 6 ай бұрын

Fun fact: the scene where Janet was tearing up the house when they filmed that scene it was right after she found out about her brothers death those were her actual emotions apparently this is what I heard production let her tear the house up to cope with her brothers death

@phillinsogood 6 ай бұрын

Janet was aaaaaaacting in this film. She should’ve definitely won or been nominated for some major awards

@_jordanslyric 5 ай бұрын

Right?? Because she won an NAACP award for the first film but it was the second one that she truly shined in!

@griffinjenn85 6 ай бұрын

Yeah, this movie series was really good. I agree with you, only sheila & Troy should stay together. The rest need to sign the papers & move on. Just toxic. However, Janet did the damn thang with the acting in this movie!! 🤩🤩 I was all emotional & ish with Patricia and Gavin’s divorce, that was A LOT! 🥺 But I chuckled when you put in the Supa cent “Louis” snippet. That took me out! 😂😂😂😂 Thank you for another great review! ❤❤❤

@cadijahlett22 6 ай бұрын

Girl I love how you narrated this 😂❤ you always say what everybody thinking them couples were a mess smh lol

@MrBeautiful2908 6 ай бұрын

This movie was so full of drama it didn’t make any sense. Lord have mercy on my soul.

@GiaBre 6 ай бұрын

I hollered at “Sir, you need to run” 💀💀💀💀💀

@AndSoWeLaughed 6 ай бұрын

I don’t understand why they made Patricia this way. I mean I do… because she needed flaws and to be humbled slightly but was this the way? Her to not strap her son in, him die and the guilt eat her alive. Then to descend into drinking and depression until the confrontation for nothing, and him end up dying the exact same fate - a car crash. The fact she was even able to recover from that was wild. Her husband had to die for her to heal? But also she had to go through all that?

@reedviii 6 ай бұрын

Janet acted DOWN with her realistic emotions of her brother…….when you uploaded a new video, it finna be good………..

@gabrielleduplessis7388 6 ай бұрын

Is it wrong for me to wish Patricia did not get the Dwayne the rock johnson happy ending? I understand her and her husband not working out, but if it weren’t for her provoking him and following him to the point he felt unsafe, he wouldn’t have drove off and wound up in an accident. Also, never drive angrily. I don’t want her to suffer, but her ending felt like the dude didn’t die and she didn’t grieve, so to speak.

@AnonymousC-lm6tc Ай бұрын

She didn’t “provoke” him. He was the one who chose to drive and didn’t look both ways before speeding off. His death is his fault.

@AnonymousC-lm6tc Ай бұрын

She didn’t “provoke” him. He was the one who chose to drive and didn’t look both ways before speeding off. His death is his fault. She only did that after he tried to take all of her money in the divorce and physically assaulted her while drunk.

@AnonymousC-lm6tc Ай бұрын

@patriciabusch4599 3 ай бұрын

I know that scene was supposed to be really serious and sad, but Patricia walking up behind Terry and Marcus and scaring the literal soul out of them was freaking harous!

@wonderbutterfly3 4 ай бұрын

The way the men (excluding Troy) don’t really check Mike is wild. However, what I’ve gathered is this group of men are, as a unit, not that great anyway so it tracks they just laugh and keep kicking it with him.

@Keepdapocket 2 ай бұрын

BINGO. That the very first thing I said the FIRST movie. Yeah,. I know it’s a lovie, but if my homeboy started telling all my business I told him in good faith where my wife can here it, I’m too old to just throw hands over that, but he would have gotten no words. And, depending on what I told him, old or not, I might have had to throw hands. In the second movie, sure, Mike can show up if he wants to, but I can tell you I wouldn’t have said a word to him. And if my other homies were going to be chuckling it up with him, I guess my wife and I would just be doing our own thing the whole time.

@angelvasquez1592 6 ай бұрын

You should do Save the last dance

@niabelizaire3596 6 ай бұрын

Oooh! Yes 🙌🏾

@NoHandlzz 6 ай бұрын

The Angela and Marcus spinoff show was actually pretty good and not so toxic

@eshaepperson5945 5 ай бұрын

One interesting perspective I have about Sheila going to her ex is that imagine how much her pride was affected during that moment? Troy’s pride isn’t the only one that’s impacted here. This man has physically and verbally abused her and here she is asking him for help. She probably thought that she’d never even speak to this man again. So if she’s willing to go that low just to bring her husband back up high, she is super dedicated. Still a risky move though

@acivilright 6 ай бұрын

Sheila seems slow to me... driving that dude to chemo behind her husband's back was prime example number one.

@adjoahossou454 6 ай бұрын

abuse victim syndrome 😢

@justmanda._ 6 ай бұрын

It was soul food not waiting to exhale 😭 also there could be a possibility that Troy doesn’t trust how they’ll act especially being that one of his first impressions from them was MESSY ASSFFF