Did Their Love Last After the Honeymoon Phase?

Did Their Love Last After the Honeymoon Phase? | In Love or Not

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7 жыл бұрын

Roy and Betsy may or may not still be together. Hear the story of their relationship and decide... do you think they are still in love?
Tell us what your vote is in the comments! Why did you make that choice? Was it body language or a look in their eyes? Or was it something they said and the way they spoke to each other? What clues do they give off?
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@uh3442 7 жыл бұрын

After watching all of these videos, I noticed that the "loving" people seem to be more calm, whereas the "friendship"people seem to be more excited, even a bit flirty. Like there was still some obvious tension between them, not just this hidden sparkle, which is easy to see for loved ones, but not for outsiders. It made me think of this quote: "If you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate’ you’ll feel calm."

@DivyaSharma-ez8ky 7 жыл бұрын

U H hey.. so true

@saraimc8633 7 жыл бұрын

U H is it budha?! ThE quote!!??

@TasnuvaAshrafUm 7 жыл бұрын

U H THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH FOR THIS QUOTE OMFG I'M CRYING.

@Ayeshaparween 7 жыл бұрын

U H what a beautiful quote. It literally made me think of what u wrote and that came out being so true.

@Rooted_Locs 7 жыл бұрын

Be honest...you saw that quote from 9gag didn't u?

@nicolem2413 7 жыл бұрын

There is something about seeing someone say "I'm in love with you" or "I love you" to the person they care about. Gives me chills and you can't help but smile.!

@Participant 7 жыл бұрын

yes yes!

@heathcliffscarlet9999 7 жыл бұрын

I keep getting them right and yet, I can't figure out my own love life. Great

@elliasuna3910 7 жыл бұрын

Heathcliff Scarlet same tho

@pearlyseine8957 7 жыл бұрын

Heathcliff Scarlet same here

@amnajaved6894 7 жыл бұрын

Heathcliff Scarlet you and me both

@Sophigpaz 6 жыл бұрын

im with ya on the love life part😂🤫

@socills 7 жыл бұрын

who is here because of Jackie Aina ?

@racheloshaksmusic 7 жыл бұрын

socills mee!! Jackie and Denis

@scotchbonnie4122 7 жыл бұрын

socills yessss girl 😂

@udemeasian 6 жыл бұрын

socills I am🎉🎉

@mimijravenell5728 6 жыл бұрын

socills me😊

@innamalabu9500 6 жыл бұрын

hell yeah

@dylancohen8049 7 жыл бұрын

You know it's real when her first issue is cleanliness

@caseythesparky3503 5 жыл бұрын

That was the giveaway for me 😂 reminded me of my marriage lol

@Zapoo_alito98 3 жыл бұрын

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@luvmifro1003lovesfamily 7 жыл бұрын

I guessed wrong. They seemed so distant and didn't look at each other much. They tricked me! Lol!!

@vroxxzz 7 жыл бұрын

If that is you in your profile picture, then your hair looks awesome!

@dribblinonedirection 7 жыл бұрын

This is the one series on KZfaq where you shouldn't scroll through comments while watching, it ruins the fun! 😂

@msmaaz19 5 жыл бұрын

ouch.. you caught me 😅 scrolling back up right after this!

@sscrafts4588 7 жыл бұрын

This is the first time i guessed correctly! They seemed like a couple who have grown with each other and have lived with each other's "flaws". They were so calm about it and talked easily about what they didn't like about the other. That's what made me think that they are still together.

@seratonin7004 7 жыл бұрын

Well done! Good points to pick up on 😊

@mallika2653 7 жыл бұрын

Omgg they remind me of Monica and Chandler. Such a sweet couple! 😂😍

@eceokur9864 7 жыл бұрын

Lol yess😂😂

@narimancharkie2633 7 жыл бұрын

I thought they were not in love, then when you see she said... she is in love! I was so happy!!

@fembot521 6 жыл бұрын

NN N thats called being married for 17 years! Lol

@ttwizzlersshay7014 7 жыл бұрын

When they showed the video of them singing and playing together, you could just tell they were so in love and connected to each other.

@Participant 7 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@debbieomi 7 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I was correct about this couple. They really seem invested in each other and as someone else commented, comfortable.

@mehmetm12 7 жыл бұрын

i think youre normal Betsy!!! why DAFUQ would i leave that door unlocked.

@mehmetm12 7 жыл бұрын

was not expecting that result

@ApplesareDopeable 7 жыл бұрын

Wow I keep guessing wrong.. Lol

@susannahrose4431 7 жыл бұрын

Melissa Zeng lol same

@abinmathew7574 7 жыл бұрын

Melissa Zeng same

@ye811 7 жыл бұрын

lol i thought i was the only one

@basavaraj154 6 жыл бұрын

lol yes

@arwai82 6 жыл бұрын

Maybe they're okay with a different kind of love.

@ShamsaShakir 7 жыл бұрын

You can feel the spark, the love just from the beginning donnt even have to watch it all to know they are together x

@saggiteightyfour8367 6 жыл бұрын

Yeah couldn't even be bothered watching past the first 5 seconds when you already know the answer.

@barrygattenhof9903 6 жыл бұрын

Nothing like annoying the hell out of each other to keep it real at times. It is all about making love an issue you work on together that keeps you interested and keeps you interesting to each other.

@tanjush68 5 жыл бұрын

Being still emotional about their ‚mistakes‘ made me think, that they are still together....

@flyy1226 7 жыл бұрын

This couple was definitely a bit trickier to guess, I think since you did see a level of comfort that can be picked up as apathy in ex-couples if you're not careful. But they had an underlying chemistry that you couldn't deny as they remembered the beginning of their relationship

@sophiawhidden 7 жыл бұрын

you could see it in their eyes when they looked at each other.

@nataliagabrielarivera5393 7 жыл бұрын

I guessed it right just cause the seemed annoyed but not mad or bitter at each other, they said things normal couples fight about

@scarlettcooper4705 7 жыл бұрын

body language tells first few seconds. and yes, I lock the doors even on 2nd floor apt patio door

@pawuyah 7 жыл бұрын

After I heard about the cleaning I was like, they are so in love.

@ofdd251991 7 жыл бұрын

haha, this is what sealed the deal for me as well!!!

@BexMcInulty 7 жыл бұрын

pawuyah i knew it before, but yes. i was like : if this is the kind of fights that stick out to you, it's true love. my husband and i get in fights because he keeps the cap off of full waterbottles and the toothpaste. it drives me nuts, but that's about it tbh

@user-hq6gt6wr9k 6 жыл бұрын

lool!

@ga.almu12 7 жыл бұрын

This woman is gorgeous

@erniepianezza8940 5 жыл бұрын

So is HE!! 😀

@Zapoo_alito98 3 жыл бұрын

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@blumountaindew 7 жыл бұрын

I got it right! They bicker and playfully push each other's buttons the way only a couple does.

@Semo_A 7 жыл бұрын

the loving couples talk more spontaneously and they say things about each other without fearing to upset the other person .. tou can sense the trust between them

@reallifejenni 7 жыл бұрын

I think its hard to tell the difference between a couple who have been together that long and ex's. It's almost the same vibe lol

@sarakhudeir6455 6 жыл бұрын

Jenni S. That's honestly scary

@Zapoo_alito98 3 жыл бұрын

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@salomebarreto6773 7 жыл бұрын

I guessed it right! they were so calm and real since the beginning. not trying to force anything just naturally showing happiness, codependency and respenct

@annabelnatalie5175 7 жыл бұрын

i knew they were in love from the way she would smile at him. :)

@heyyitstk 7 жыл бұрын

THIS MAKES ME FEEL SO FUZZY AND WARM INSIDE

@hmwhatsthisabout 7 жыл бұрын

the editing gives it away every single time

@lenay3054 6 жыл бұрын

OMG I'm so happy for them((: this is the perfect example of a true relationship - through the bad and the good they stuck together for 17 years and instead of fighting and divorcing, they overcome their pride and work together to stay together. To have what they have is gold.

@lOvElYsOuL777 7 жыл бұрын

None of these are hard. I've gotten each one of them right. The crew tries too hard to make each couple seem the opposite of what they are. If they're together, they have them sit far apart, and talk about the difficult things in their relationship. If they're broken up, they sit closer in the beginning and talk about the positive things in their past relationship. Keep your eye on the atmosphere and pick the opposite. You can't lose. Also if they talk over each other a lot, it's a dead give away they're a couple.

@vidisharamteke4459 3 жыл бұрын

So insightful and interesting

@Under_theHill 6 жыл бұрын

Guessed right because they seemed calm & accepting about the topics of conversation.

@lilytsuen8647 6 жыл бұрын

Been binge on your channel and this episode actually bring me happy tears 💓

@DomCTBG 6 жыл бұрын

"What are you going to be alone?" It's definitely better to be alone than stick with the wrong person because you don't want to face the truth.

@nope666666 6 жыл бұрын

i knew it OMG , because of the way they talk to each other , they are used to each other , and their face features really matches

@TheElenaNumb 7 жыл бұрын

guessed right, they are calm, and very open about it all, and verb tenses were implying to the future past, and present while they spoke, lovely couple!

@gilberttks 7 жыл бұрын

the way how he look at her, and the time they mention the magical connection when they first see each other. that gave was a good hint indicating that they are inlove .

@nathanrice6931 7 жыл бұрын

Totally look like they have fun and honest relationship.

@KerriCz 7 жыл бұрын

This makes me so happy, they're a beautiful couple. You can definitely see their chemistry.

@TILoyal 7 жыл бұрын

i am obsessed with your channel!!! HOLY EVERY VIDEO HAS AN AWESOME MESSAGE!!! GAHHHH

@xxxRubyx1xx 7 жыл бұрын

I would love to hear more from them! Personally, I feel like I could l could learn a lot from their wisdom!!

@racheloshaksmusic 7 жыл бұрын

Ruby Smith yeh me too!

@mayamorabito1669 7 жыл бұрын

why do I keep watching these soulpancake vídeos and crying like a baby at the end of each one of them? :D

@melaniem5971 5 жыл бұрын

Good for them!! This one was hard to judge!

@trblessed1020 7 жыл бұрын

idk why I feel like tearing up when I look at these videos it's very hopeful. whether they are together or not love it

@mythirdchannel 7 жыл бұрын

I have a sense that this is a lot of very clever editing :) but I'm on to you! I guessed correctly :D

@vyonncee 7 жыл бұрын

oh gosh i was praying they were still in love. that vibe they gave me had so much of it. so when i clicked yes that they are still in love and heard her say she still loved him, i teared up a bit. so happy.

@annekays1 7 жыл бұрын

their body language definitely says it. Their knees pointing into each other give away that feels

@rkhliyanage3917 5 жыл бұрын

I realized they were in love as soon as I saw her singing for his piano play!! wonderful couple!! Best wishes for a long and happy marriage!!

@zainebdaoud8466 7 жыл бұрын

being in love is feeling you're at home safe , and you :) love needs more than passion to keep it alive . you've got to appreciate your partner at first .

@PscofB 7 жыл бұрын

I got it right this time :)) And I'm really glad I was right. They look great together.

@LinhLolly 5 жыл бұрын

Look at the sparks from the start. They look definitely in love!

@aqua-mina 7 жыл бұрын

Got it right, yay! Good for them!

@AJITHPJ18 7 жыл бұрын

I guessed correctly and in the end, they made me cry !!

@racheloshaksmusic 7 жыл бұрын

I guessed it correctly because you can still see the chemistry. Also he made her laugh ☺️ I love how they both have the same interests in music 😍💯 that's goals

@naseerahvj 7 жыл бұрын

yup, the way they laughed when talking about their faults and fights. she was trying so hard to look stern until he talked about his faults then her love showed

@imsorrybut 7 жыл бұрын

I GOT IT RIGHT FROM THE FIRST SECOND I SAW THEM! look at 0:10 you cannot fake the happiness in his eyes

@wildflowerone 5 жыл бұрын

This is a fun series; I'd like to see it be brought back if possible. 🙂

@TheQuietGeneration 7 жыл бұрын

I watched all of these, yall. I guessed no love every time and was sure that I was right. I think that says more about me than these people. Thanks, Soulcakes. I got to do some soul searching.

@MsVPower1 7 жыл бұрын

Awww love this!!

@beatriscabral5770 7 жыл бұрын

😲 I thought they were together at first but them they didn't seem like. I'm so happy to hear this! Beautiful couple

@sheilalucanas 7 жыл бұрын

I have binge watch all these videos from this series this is my fave couple

@sarahboden 7 жыл бұрын

I thought they had zero chemistry but went for they are in love, because I felt it was a bluff. KNEW IT. They are so adorable!

@lovemecom3832 6 жыл бұрын

Roy and Betsy are looking great. As what Betsy says regarding their relationship which she finds a magical connection, I agree to her that there is something with their relationship that I can’t find in other couples. I wish that their relationship will last longer as the years pass by.

@user-wb9un5qx7w 7 жыл бұрын

I kneeeeeeew it! Haha they complained about each other like a long-term married couple and turns out they are. So cute! I wonder if they had any kids, would have been a nice surprise at the end of the video to show them somehow

@Joshow313 2 жыл бұрын

It’s huge when a man recognizes that he has a temper and is judgmental. Many would get defensive and have a hard time admitting so kudos to him.

@respecthewoman 6 жыл бұрын

Yes Roy, I am going to be alone and like it. I enjoy seeing other people in love, but my days are over for looking, trying to change to apease someone who's ungrateful, untrusting, etc. I find making my own happiness and living by the beat of my own drum fulfills me. However, again, I'm happy for those who do make it and are not burnt out from doing the work. Kudos!

@thatgurl8211 7 жыл бұрын

My tears just rolling when she say yes I'm in love with u..

@neebhaa 3 жыл бұрын

When u are in love for so long there this stillness you can feel that

@HRHKamal 6 жыл бұрын

Yup, so comfortable together. Their age shows so theyve clearly been together a while. Shows that love CAN survive a few differences in attitudes

@safsam1 7 жыл бұрын

They knew each other really well and bickered like an old married couple, which is more light than the divorced couple type of arguments

@tiffanykendall6137 7 жыл бұрын

omg. I was right. I thought I was going to be wrong, and almost picked no. but the way they bickered, and she giggled, I assumed they were still together.

@ShushiG2022 6 жыл бұрын

They are in love. Look at their faces..they resemble each other so much.. I read somewhere when u r in love..u start resembling each other as if siblings

@jennyblue42 7 жыл бұрын

It was the body language that determined it for me. They are sitting THE EXACT SAME WAY through most of the video. It's not just mirroring small movements, but really sitting comfortably the same way. And at the beginning, her legs absolutely pointed at him, so that gave it away from the start xD

@hlodell 7 жыл бұрын

I want to hear them sing and play more together!

@OrangeMilkBlossom 7 жыл бұрын

i feel like the in live ones are more brutally honest because they can laugh about it. even so I keep guessing wrong....

@StakeMammon 7 жыл бұрын

This is the first one I got wrong. I'm actually surprised at the end how happy he is with her.

@aminaf6 7 жыл бұрын

I GOT IT CORRECT. I knew the min they narrated their backgrounds and they are both musical. As the video went on I just didnt see why they wouldnt be together

@acintyahapsari7921 7 жыл бұрын

i was correct, i knew it from the very first beginning when she start to sing: they share the same passion.

@AnnA-vg5vx 5 жыл бұрын

Yup, I guess it correctly. I watched their body language - they're sitting almost facing each other from the beginning.

@Laura_Iri-ARTE 7 жыл бұрын

Beautiful!!!!

@callahancovington4278 7 жыл бұрын

so much truth from these guys

@agriope2334 4 жыл бұрын

Their body language threw me off at first but I guessed they were together because they complained about small things. Then when I saw they shared music, yeah it was a fit to who they are and they could be that together. So lovely

@abhijitprasad4740 3 жыл бұрын

"Sometime its not easy to understand that's it your fault and ask sorry first" - really its the important thing to keep the relationship.

@rawanalalshiekh3860 7 жыл бұрын

I didn't guess correclty because I felt they are blaming each others...but now I understand that love doesn't mean to think they same way..not at all.xo

@vasuverma8204 7 жыл бұрын

Urghhh I got the last one right !! And since, I was starting to see myself as a love expert :P

@pixinette730 7 жыл бұрын

I didn't think they were in love but it's nice that they are

@prathyushadasari5832 7 жыл бұрын

I keep guessing right. When you can pick on other person's flaws with tat kind of ease in their presence.. That's when u know u r still in love.

@raf_boy 7 жыл бұрын

That didn't turn out the way I expected.

@chocookat 7 жыл бұрын

I'm so good at this!! I've been guessing right! woohoo haha

@NiharaNao 7 жыл бұрын

They keep talking in present tense so it made me think they are still together. Also they looked comfortable with each other so, I completely guessed right :)

@thriftmau 6 жыл бұрын

Still my favorite couple of this series.

@mdshoiebulhaque5599 3 жыл бұрын

After watching 3-4 episode,now I can predict accurately.

@aliciafortuin8871 7 жыл бұрын

these people are good actors !!

@oceanbluesvlogs5699 7 жыл бұрын

Awhh I didn't expect that 😂😂😭😭 there adorable ❣️❣️

@Fishnetfreud 7 жыл бұрын

I could tell (or my guess was) right away that they were married and in love. Because they bickered the way only people who have been married for a while do. It was like looking in a mirror for me, and I could relate to so much of what they said.

@emmahacker4020 7 жыл бұрын

At first I thought yes but then after that second part I changed my mind.

@tshegimore3587 4 жыл бұрын

I guessed this one right because this is literally my own relationship

@michelleallen6881 5 жыл бұрын

I guessed that they were in love because of how they bickered a bit, it was real, and sassy, not completely cold. You can tell there are real challenges happening at the moment between them, and that they actually care about what the other had to say even if it was light arguing.

@bonteesstory7995 7 жыл бұрын

This is what my boyfriend has been concerned before. I mean, love at the first phase gives you some mixed feelings and confusing signals sometimes. You may have all kinds of feelings, like feeling of spending all the time with that person, of losing him or her, etc. But by the end, when we both decide to make things work, we just try to stay calm, listen to our own concerns and resolve everything together. And I agree, the calmer your mind, the better you are to resolve things.