An Autistic Wife with Down Syndrome and Her Husband

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Charlotte is an autistic person who has Down syndrome. Her husband, Riley, is also autistic. The two plan to one day have a child. They are currently in college so that they can provide their future children with a safe and stable home. Charlotte and Riley describe love as "a feeling of connection even when you are not together, you just feel it in your heart".
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@AUNZAnon Жыл бұрын

""Because I'm married to the woman who's right for me and I have a good life", said with a wholesome grin and from the heart. God bless them both.

@rachmunshine9474 Жыл бұрын

This that and also that she is her normal and just their joy ❤

@gratefulgrace8023 Жыл бұрын

Pure, innocent, unconditional love. What a beautiful couple.

@MrsKyleAbbott Жыл бұрын

May we all be so blessed to love and live this simply and completely.

@TashiTV813E Жыл бұрын

I know

@chericandream Жыл бұрын

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@Jasminzzs Жыл бұрын

I’m autistic but only 13, I was really sad because I thought no one would ever like me. This gives me hope that everyone’s the same even if we have Autism or anything else. Thanks so much everyone you’re all so kind! Yes I’m 13, I have had my account since 2014s it used to be my fathers.

@MountainJohn Жыл бұрын

I have autism and my wife has autism. We both work, we both have our own apartment, we both have friends and have our own hobbies, both 23. We plan on having our own kid within the coming year. Don't let autism stop you from being you!

@topcat5233 Жыл бұрын

thats exactly why i love this channel so much

@shivakrishnarama Жыл бұрын

You're young, you could RETRAIN your mind to the point where people might not notice you have Autism.

@briannenurse4640 Жыл бұрын

You are infinitely likeable and you will find the people who will see you and celebrate you exactly as you are. It may take some time, but please don't give up on yourself. You'll get there.

@808bboarder Жыл бұрын

There’s definitely someone out there who will love, appreciate, and respect you. Take care and enjoy the journey of life! 💛

@danielclemence3689 4 ай бұрын

Imagine how pleasant planet Earth would be if everyone was as nice as them. Lovely.

@YoMomma80 3 ай бұрын

Keep dreaming bud.

@Hongkongnyc Ай бұрын

Well said Daniel!

@Scram673 Ай бұрын

No work would get done

@alexjacksong9276 Ай бұрын

"Normal people" are the problem

@MmntoMorrisson 23 күн бұрын

@@Scram673ok why don't you get up off your greasy chair and do something more than the bare minimum your family is surviving on

@homebound-g3o 5 ай бұрын

They understand marriage and relationship on a level far greater than those without their disabilites. God bless them and keep them.

@AneXineohp 4 ай бұрын

Indeed, what a sweet point. Yes, because they're not trying so hard to abstract its purpose and what such a dynamic does to their overall emotions. They mentally are better off in that way, to not have such a need to mindlessly abstract and make a song and dance about marriage and relationship as if it requires some artistic or poetic interpretation or overachieving, Olympian nature. This is why this channel is so great, it showcases how beautiful, curious, and/or livable life can be with varying perspectives of how it works.

@Nunya7211 2 ай бұрын

What a great point. The way they can explain their decisions is amazing. Its a better understanding than the average person has. They traded some common abilities for some very uncommon ones. They are just different. Even his understanding of the benefits of being tall was so wise hahaha

@ahhwe-any7434 Ай бұрын

@@AneXineohpright. But their also down to the basics of her: "but he still needs to learn." In what way? "He needs to learn how to pick up after himself" hahahaha

@autofocus4556 Ай бұрын

Dumb generalization.

@Elvis386 17 күн бұрын

This is just beautiful ❤

@adamv4951 10 ай бұрын

These two are more normal than most others in today's crazy world. Gorgeous couple.

@travis6221984 9 ай бұрын

Agreed!!

@oneofmany1087 9 ай бұрын

unlike the cocaine flop white house!

@yourfriendlyneighborhoodghost. 9 ай бұрын

Stop the cap

@grantv2313 9 ай бұрын

Was thinking the same. They’re happier than the rest of us who are deemed normal.

@suzs3770 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💜 beautiful couple

@kanio7720 Жыл бұрын

My respects to the parents who raised these wonderful human beings

@oGrasshoppero Жыл бұрын

Oh that is such a true statement. The parents did an absolutely amazing job!

@melissalungu1637 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! As a parent, it’s our responsibility to ensure we give our children the tools they need to survive and cope in a world regardless of any disability they have. My eldest is autistic and although not diagnosed, hardly anyone would know he is on the spectrum because we’ve taught him how to speak to strangers, how to hold a conversation, what people expect in social situations, and he can cope now. He used to get so anxious but that is now just a memory for him, not his actuality now. It’s all about highlighting their strengths and giving them tools to cope with the areas they are weaker in. I love these guys because they compliment each other so well!

@morbidmanmusic Жыл бұрын

do you know that they had parents>?

@SoulSisters862 Жыл бұрын

@@morbidmanmusic Let's quit reading comments based on our own perspective but rather, based on the situation that obtains.

@karensamilow4409 Жыл бұрын

@beaverboykrunkprojecting quite a bit there corpulent sad troll. Get over your envy.

@Whitekasl 4 ай бұрын

I have a son who’s 6 weeks tomorrow! He has Down’s syndrome. I worry about him finding love every day but after seeing this I feel soo much better we will help him find the love my wife and I have

@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations from Charlotte & Riley

@Tia-gw1sm 3 ай бұрын

He will

@VividYouth 3 ай бұрын

❤he will

@tomorrocat 2 ай бұрын

I grew up with a Down's syndrome uncle, for which I have always felt very grateful and fortunate, and I want to say that you are too ❤. My uncle was not high functioning enough to live independently (though many are of course!), but was always a joy to be around, for everyone who knew him, and had a very happy life! I have always gravitated toward Downs people since then, volunteering at the local special needs agency just to get to hang out with them . May you and your family have as fun and rewarding an experience with your new blessing as my family did with ours ❤️

@s.e.e455 Ай бұрын

Yes, there is always hope. And even if he doesn’t find someone that’s right for him, he will still have friends and family who shower him with love and affection. ❤

@EshBBX 15 күн бұрын

These wonderful people are more well spoken than 80% of the human population. More than that, they clearly understand what's TRULY important in life. Wish them all the best

@Kamille-lb7jo Күн бұрын

And which 80% is that????

@cassandra5516 11 ай бұрын

"After I met her I felt like I had someone to be successful for." 😢 oh my goodness.. what a great husband ❤

@johnconnor7958 9 ай бұрын

that is the goal of every husband, it comes natural for us, even if the wold hates men nowadays.

@cassandra5516 9 ай бұрын

@@johnconnor7958 I believe you! It's certainly true for my husband, he works hard for our family 😊

@Nikki_with_the_blikki 7 ай бұрын

So pure ❤

@MonochromaticBlues 4 ай бұрын

They’re great for each other

@Yggdrasill8 3 ай бұрын

@@johnconnor7958 That's if they manage to get the motivation for that goal. Unfortunately less and less people are losing faith in current politics and economics.

@thelullinthestorm Жыл бұрын

“When I met her I felt like I had someone to be successful for “ That’s it ❤

@me77ki Жыл бұрын

That's how my husband got sober. He found me, and said he finally had a reason to get sober. That was 17 years ago, still going strong

@lucinejhal7413 11 ай бұрын

What a nice video ! I wish you all the best. Je vous souhaite tout le bonheur du monde....❤

@ruthwells2447 11 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@Threemore650 11 ай бұрын

My heart just swooned at those words. He’s done some really deep thinking about the world and himself. His joy in no longer being lonely is palpable.

@devotae 11 ай бұрын

A loving wife that trusts, supports, and encourages her husband to the best of his abilities.❣ Something many modern woman struggle with and wonder why they are still single. 😂

@Nunya7211 2 ай бұрын

They are cooler and smarter than 99% of people I have ever met. They are different, but not "messed up" in any way.

@lisonlaverdiere4473 Ай бұрын

Right ✅️

@rnsteve2265 29 күн бұрын

We're all different.

@dloesch 15 күн бұрын

I was grinning the whole way through! 😊

@31topor 5 ай бұрын

“I don’t like being tailgated. I don’t like people zipping by too fast.” You and me both.

@HP66856 Жыл бұрын

They sounds like they have a marriage most other couples would be jealous of. Such pure hearts 💕

@babytv0523 Жыл бұрын

@zedrickgo4519why? They are perfectly happy and very much in love with each other.

@walbaum1813 Жыл бұрын

@DrivableNote kranke Menschen haben es sowieso nicht leicht, und dann will sie noch ein Baby?

@PrisTvv Жыл бұрын

nice

@paupa007 Жыл бұрын

its a little sad, cause if they have kids their kids have a high chance of also having down syndrome/autism

@lexdocampbell970 11 ай бұрын

@@catcradle2532I agree

@hannahbanana7834 Жыл бұрын

"I'm married to the woman who is right for me and I have a good life. I didn't always, but I do now." I don't know why this was so touching to me, I wish these two the best

@Pluviophile73 3 ай бұрын

It was lovely to hear 🥹

@John3.16- 5 ай бұрын

I can see Riley has that 'astounded with delight' feeling about Charlotte every moment of every day.

@DKTrickster 6 ай бұрын

Can't believe how adorable they are. They are truly good-looking people. It's not even a "good-looking compared to having diagnosis". Just a beautiful couple. So sweet. If everyone were as innocent and pure as these two, heaven would be on Earth.

@vampirejett 5 ай бұрын

seriously charlotte looks like a doll with mohair (goats hair,it’s ideal for dolls since it’s very beautiful and soft) and riley could be a model

@vampirejett 5 ай бұрын

@@Jayess-c we are??

@vampirejett 5 ай бұрын

@@Jayess-c either way they’re being nice? why are you so mad at them being nice? they said they’re a beautiful couple and they are!! would you rather someone be mean?? i mean i understand being babied is annoying and treating disabled people like they’re “less than” is bad but this comment wasn’t meant that way?

@vampirejett 5 ай бұрын

@@Jayess-c if they were my friends i would’ve said the same thing,that they were a cute and adorable couple.

@vampirejett 5 ай бұрын

@@Jayess-c and in fact i would love to be their friends,they seem like amazing and inspiring people

@misspapo3444 Жыл бұрын

Charlotte loves her tall, super attentive husband. That’s how it should be, love it. He’s just straight smitten by her drive and intelligence, their love is so pure.

@Wooplot Жыл бұрын

emphasis on tall

@robo6118 Жыл бұрын

❤

@ingesexton811 Жыл бұрын

I love how he said, I can reach the top cabinets and thr top of the refrigerator THATS what love is! Find someone that reaches the top of your refrigerator ❤

@annebritraaen2237 Жыл бұрын

@@Wooplot Because he can reach the top of the shelves, something I can totally relate to. I went with the first one with a dish-washer. We have been married for almost forty years.

@jaxthedisintegrator8096 Жыл бұрын

Okay, those answers are actually Funny 😂

@CarbonI4 11 ай бұрын

I am quite horribly cynical about the world but these two melt my heart, what a gorgeous pair of people.

@celestialknight2339 11 ай бұрын

Seriously! 🤍

@simonapetrov8885 11 ай бұрын

same here!

@funkmasternaste2733 11 ай бұрын

True

@SheerMagnetismDarling007 11 ай бұрын

Love it 😍 💕

@Italianmami209 10 ай бұрын

This ❤️

@SummerHayes888 2 ай бұрын

These two seem to have a better sense of love and caring a lot better than others without disabilities

@jimothy2250 4 ай бұрын

he plays six instruments dude is awesome :)

@Haplo2006 Жыл бұрын

Find yourself someone that looks at you the way these two look at each other.

@mad7138 Жыл бұрын

It will be wonderful, it's a love that not everyone has it.

@redblueeboy7559 Жыл бұрын

Facts!!

@2gurlsmama1 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely ❤

@rhondadavis1483 Жыл бұрын

Yes 💯 And the way they talk about each other, how they motivate each other, inspire each other. They are an amazing couple and I pray God’s blessings over them and their marriage! What sweet sweet people🥰

@RobVespa Жыл бұрын

That would be nice

@julievanderleest Жыл бұрын

Your channel has broken the stigma of people who have disabilities, facial disorders, etc… they are just as important as everyone else in the world and they are people too who have real feelings, hopes and dreams.

@Stringz Жыл бұрын

Well it would be stupid to think anything otherwise. I don’t know where people would think in terms of that stigma you suggested in the first place. Why would a disability make someone not have feelings or hopes or dreams? Why would that make them any less important than anyone else???? That makes no sense.

@aliengreeter Жыл бұрын

You are so right, wonderfully put.

@sarap5015 Жыл бұрын

I feel like this channel helps people understand disabilities that they might not have experienced life. I know I feel more confident talking to someone with a disability after watching them. Before I would worry that I could annoy them by introducing myself or asking if they need help. Now I understand as long as I'm respectful most people are happy to have a conversation.

@bicylindrico Жыл бұрын

If people will just watch, it will help them to keep their own lives in proper perspective. I share these with my children too.

@Samahra01 Жыл бұрын

@@Stringz take it easy...they are being kind:) Despite the fact that you understand this and I understand it, the world sometimes does not! It's okay to admit this. It doesn't discount the fact that we know the truth...we are all different and equally unique and beautiful souls. It's good to show people GRACE and not think that the worst of what people do and say but to think the best. God Bless🙏❤️

@H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI 6 ай бұрын

He's EXTREMELY handsome. AND they're SOOOOOO sweet together. They're compatible and you can tell that they truly ADORE AND LOVE EACH OTHER! THEYRE SO HAPPY TOGETHER

@danielpacker6750 5 ай бұрын

Extremely handsome?😂😂😂😂😂

@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879 5 ай бұрын

@@danielpacker6750envious overweight troll eh?

@loganeggleston9744 5 ай бұрын

@@danielpacker6750bold comment for someone without a pfp

@Jxlsc 5 ай бұрын

@@danielpacker6750nein aber nlch 100000x als sie und er hat immerhin keine Behinderung 😂

@nabiladalilla380 5 ай бұрын

🎉@@danielpacker6750 he has a lovely smile

@TheBeefSlayer 6 ай бұрын

I love this man right away. I feel People would be lucky to have a friend like this guy. I bet he’s never done anyone wrong on purpose in his entire life. He seems like someone with a pure heart of gold. Prayers.

@mistybailey 6 ай бұрын

They have more sense than normal couples

@tracy9157 5 ай бұрын

@@mistybaileythey are a normal couple.

@maric820 Ай бұрын

Nope. They're not. That's the whole point of the interview, duh.

@emmasdad5426 Жыл бұрын

I have a high functioning daughter with Down syndrome. This is beautiful and I hope one day she finds someone like this man.

@dollypalacios3087 11 ай бұрын

I have a 27 year old son with Down Syndrome who I have the same dream for.

@emmasdad5426 11 ай бұрын

@@dollypalacios3087 this is a wonderful couple. A perfect match. Hope your son finds someone like this.

@Cherryyfairryy 11 ай бұрын

I volunteer with Best Buddies and my buddy is 34 with down syndrome and has a boyfriend she’s been dating for years. You should see if there’s a Best Buddies for adults in your area! All the buddies are in relationships with people they met in the program, it’s really sweet

@RED_RUBY_DA_SLEEZE 11 ай бұрын

@@Cherryyfairryy 👁👁 AWWW.. THAT SOUNDS REALLY SWEET💯💯

@kawaii_cat750 11 ай бұрын

I've actually got autism and adhd

@MkUltraViolet Жыл бұрын

I LOVE how Chris gave VERY specific directions for telling the story of their meeting “in chronological order and assuming the person listening has never heard it before”. So so helpful for many neurodivergent folks and he is just so tuned in.

@PalinaZ Жыл бұрын

Yes,i LOVED that too. He knows his stuff

@whimsywee71 Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly!

@t.n.9720 Жыл бұрын

He’s really good with working with people with different differences and know how to ask and be respectful, and let people shine and tell their stories

@hannahwitts1339 Жыл бұрын

I'm curious, why he gave this specific instruction. Could somebody explain the reason for this?

@harmony6643 Жыл бұрын

@@hannahwitts1339 Because a lot of times it can help people, especially with autism, to have very specificly phrased questions or else it can cause confusion or overload be ause many autistic people tend to think about things very much in detail and deeply and thoroughly. For example: A teacher at school sets the assignment "imagine you're on a holiday and write a card home". A neurotypical person might just write some shallow things and use some typical postcard phrases in them without much meaning, a neurodivergent person might be irritated by that task because, of course, what you write in a postcard and how you phrase it depends on who exactly at home you are writing to (grandparent, parent, young sibling, best friend, etc.) and also where you are on your vacation (snow, sea, woods, mountains, city) and how long you are staying there (just for a weekend, a week, several weeks) and for what purpose you came there (have an adventure, relax, meet with a friend who loves away, etc.). Another example: Someone asking "what colour is an elephant" would typically get the response "grey" from a neurotypical person because grey is what elephants are usually portrayed as. An autistic person, however, might think about an elephant in india vs. in africa (where they have different shades of skin colour) or about an elephant covered in mud or even their blue toy elephant and might be confused whether to answer "grey" or "brownish" or "blue" or whatever. Giving specific instructions (i. e. asking "what colour does an elephant have who was born in india and has clean skin) can clear up these multiple options and make it easier to not have misunderstandings when communicating.

@AA-cw7ql 4 ай бұрын

I am mentally ill and wish I could find a good husband. I am happy for this couple.

@andreeacosma6843 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤be strong!

@JuliaMop-hn6lq 25 күн бұрын

When I Met my now husband, I was so deep into Depression and other Problems, I thought I never could get better. But He stayed by my Side, it's 15 years now. You will find Love !

@JC-sm4mp Ай бұрын

It was refreshing to see her confidence!!! They are so cute and good for eachother!! She seems so well spoken and they really seem perfect for eachother, like they build eachother up:)

@Kamille-lb7jo Күн бұрын

Backhanded compliment. What is confident about her. She should feel timid for what reason

@pliskind Жыл бұрын

A perfect marriage is just two „imperfect“ people who refuse to give up on each other and support each other.

@SimplyElisa79 Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@EZ-IZZY1995 Жыл бұрын

Lol who says they're imperfect? I know you meant well and didnt mean any harm, but honestly society could learn to adopt their mindsets on life.

@benjaminfrancisgonzales8431 Жыл бұрын

@@EZ-IZZY1995 Nothing imperfect about this two wonderful people. They should be perfect model for every couples out there.

@fortcrafterbossbehold9027 Жыл бұрын

@@EZ-IZZY1995 Imperfection is not referring to their syndromes, it's referring to their personalities and traits which thankfully applies to ALL of us. Most average people have ridiculously high expectations of complete perfection from themselves, their partners, or their whole relationship which is just not how real relationships work. You may have weak spot in the way you act after a tiring day of work, or your partner may take jokes more seriously than you anticipate. No one has a perfect personality, and those who expect one are only going to draw a fat blank.

@aliengreeter Жыл бұрын

True, my ex was the epitome of imperfection. And I hope she rots in hell, by her own choosing of course. I personally don't care what she does; I only imagine she'd want to rot in hell because it's where her mother and friends will be.

@billybee9659 Жыл бұрын

“We’ll, Down syndrome and autism is actually a normal thing I have.” This was such a lovely answer. I’m glad she sees her circumstances as just regular. It’s just who she is. ☺️

@Skatejock21 Жыл бұрын

usually they do. I have met a few with down syndrome and one of my friends has downs. They dont think like we do. Its not that she sees her circumstances as regular. They dont know any different. They do not compare like we would. That is the difference. To them, that is how it is.

@user-qt2kd9cy8b Жыл бұрын

😊out

@Rod732 Жыл бұрын

yes but when she was asked what she would say to kids with autism she did not understand the question - they must be respected but they can't look after a baby what the heck

@karensamilow4409 Жыл бұрын

@@Rod732 Actually cretinous troll, Charlotte was asked what advice she would give people with Down syndrome.

@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879 Жыл бұрын

@@Rod732Yes WE CAN BE QUIET TROLL

@mandymawson9121 5 ай бұрын

“When I didn’t have a girlfriend, it was because I had to find myself before I met her.” 👏👏👏👏 Go Riley! These two are so sweet! It was so brave of Charli to move to the US. I hope they have a wonderful life together. ❤

@heiditaylor6206 2 ай бұрын

100%

@riverlandrandy 6 ай бұрын

I can't believe how well spoken he is, shes a little darling

@natrod8073 4 ай бұрын

He has a high functinal autism, as she. That's whats Asperger is. For Down syndr. I don't see the usual facial characteristics, so, 😮she is high functional, also. They project good parenting during development. Best wishes, keep your life private.

@musingfoodie1041 4 ай бұрын

Many Aspergers are very well spoken and even hyperlexic. Many learn to read before they can even walk.

@Deetroiter Жыл бұрын

Am I the only person who couldn't stop smiling the whole time listening to these two amazing people give their story?

@lauraswann5543 11 ай бұрын

No. I was smiling too.💖

@sharinmythoughts2510 11 ай бұрын

Nope, my heart felt so happy that they love each other and are confident. It was so beautiful to watch! If every relationship could be this beautiful when people found their mate, what a wonderful place this would be ❤❤❤

@Threemore650 11 ай бұрын

Throw in some weeping and I’m with you.😂

@iitickle6510 11 ай бұрын

I caught myself smiling big when they spoke, especially about each other.

@BrassyBrunette 11 ай бұрын

My face got tired from grinning so wide

@astrohitter1791 Жыл бұрын

They have a better relationship than most people

@helenfong3339 Жыл бұрын

My first thought!

@veronicagonzales4781 Жыл бұрын

❤

@dianaphillips5631 Жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly 💯.

@elizabethhall2354 Жыл бұрын

100%! This is true love ❤

@mr_mack_indenver7807 Жыл бұрын

A nice, happy couple! Hope they have a long happy life together.

@peri3818 Ай бұрын

People without their syndromes don’t have such a loving and kind relationship. They are the lucky ones.

@AfianySnow29802 16 күн бұрын

Kinda rude, but okay, lol.

@bumbabees 15 күн бұрын

i mean, not all of them, but anybody is capable of finding their person. disabled or not. it doesnt really help to try and seperate us, whether its in the other direction or not.

@Missathena918 3 ай бұрын

The way he smiles at her 😢

@MarianR1111 Жыл бұрын

Charlotte is right! Riley is amazing! Handsome, kind, articulate. What a great couple. They really demonstrated that autism is irrelevant in regards to love and friendship.

@1766584 Жыл бұрын

And don’t forget tall.

@user-zq1ki5fb2i Жыл бұрын

@@1766584 thats the most important😂

@whatever3145 Жыл бұрын

@@user-zq1ki5fb2i yall need to calm down

@1766584 Жыл бұрын

@@user-zq1ki5fb2i yes! 🤣

@user-zq1ki5fb2i Жыл бұрын

@@whatever3145 Nuh, I mean it's actually cute and sweet of her:) Every girl want their man to be tall, isn't it?

@tonylin9639 9 ай бұрын

I love them two, as a dad of autistic child, I hope my son turns out just like him.

@SilverCreekHomestead 9 ай бұрын

yes!

@Taniapin43 9 ай бұрын

Same here❤

@tonylin9639 9 ай бұрын

They just so innocent, not a bad though in the world. So straight forward living everyday fully. Beautiful couple.@@Taniapin43

@aquafina2u 9 ай бұрын

I worked with a young man with Asperger’s Syndrome. His mind was brilliant.

@nicoleymacaroni 9 ай бұрын

Autism is from heavy metals and parasites do a cleanse , google it.

@pennyp7382 12 күн бұрын

I have severe PTSD and when he described when and where to share that helped me immensely today. ❤

@user-cg6ko1zt1k 4 ай бұрын

I can't believe how unbeliavably sweet they both are. When she said "I always love Riley, mostly like every day" that was amazing. Funny, sweet, innocent. Hope they have an amazing life together.

@imdoneplus Жыл бұрын

My girlfriend and I are both disabled. She’s a stroke survivor with aphasia and an auditory processing issue with oral speech, and I have PTSD, HPPD, anxiety, chronic depression and suspected adhd/autism. Our issues are very different but often that’s what makes us good for one another. I mention this because I think a lot of people think life is over with a disability, it’s not. There is someone out there who will love you for you.

@RiccardoLifeCoach Жыл бұрын

I think there is. But I also live in Italy😅

@jarkachalmovianska7812 Жыл бұрын

Love it guys, great mindset and yes its true, that mostly there is somebody for everybody, we just need to be openminded and openhearted, no prejudice❤

@luchirimoya Жыл бұрын

My partner and I are also both disabled! He is partially blind and I have several chronic illnesses. Life is different for us, but it just goes to show that disability can present itself in many different ways, and disabilities are not all the same!

@idid138 Жыл бұрын

@Derpie McDerpenstein I agree 👍 great name! Ha!

@imdoneplus Жыл бұрын

@@luchirimoya exactly! People often think I’m “normal” and sometimes people see my girlfriend and think the same. Many disabilities are invisible, and disability can happen at any age. It’s important for the public to understand the disabled folks come in all shapes, sizes, ages, etc. I’m so very happy to hear that you and your partner have found a good fit. It’s important to celebrate positives but especially in love! ❤️

@posarandposer Жыл бұрын

I’m expecting my first child and she has Down syndrome, I keep thinking to name her Charlotte and call her Charlie. I loved when Charlie said, “having Down syndrome and autism is a normal thing.” This is a wonderful interview, I like this couple very much 💕 they make me happy.

@pegs1659 Жыл бұрын

I think Charlotte/Charlie is a beautiful name. God is giving you a wonderful gift. I know you already know that. Stay blessed.

@CurdBros Жыл бұрын

Congrats on your first child! Charlie is a beautiful name.

@andrewjames2617 Жыл бұрын

I agree with the other comment. Charlotte/Charlie are both beautiful and sweet. Blessings to you and your little one

@RobVespa Жыл бұрын

Congrats!

@sarahmorton1699 Жыл бұрын

There is a beautiful book out there called Chosen for Charlie by Jen Forsthoff. It really helped me out when my baby was diagnosed with DiGeorge Syndrome ❤️

@swilliams1759 8 күн бұрын

My aunt had Down's Syndrome and she lived to be 61. I wish that she could have had a life like this, of her own. She was well loved, though. Riley and Charlotte are inspiring with their kindness.

@leeasmr3857 8 күн бұрын

Me too my aunt died around same age …. Poor thing wasn’t allowed to go to school….she loved writing but she didn’t know how but she had a lot of journals of her “writing “

@gwine9087 3 ай бұрын

My grandson is Asperger's and the challenges are many. I so admire this young lady with a double "challenge". She is an inspiration.

@QueenStarNova Жыл бұрын

As someone with multiple disabilities who wants to be married, this makes me incredibly happy.

@AsTheWheelsTurn Жыл бұрын

you will find someone! there is someone for everyone!

@justanothermortal1373 Жыл бұрын

I hope you find that special someone

@YochevedDesigns Жыл бұрын

SAME. I often feel like I'm too broken for anyone to want me, and I'd just be a burden.

@goodmorning2386 Жыл бұрын

you will find love!! There's someone there for everyone

@bluelight8664 Жыл бұрын

@@YochevedDesignsoh i hope u can heal .many of us feel broken in a way but we are still worthy of love

@DulcetNuance 11 ай бұрын

I love how Riley had a smile plastered on his face the entire time. Both of them being so happy was quite contagious to watch.

@PenelopeHighet 5 ай бұрын

I met her and had someone to be successful for. Wow what a wonderful husband

@MorningDove 3 ай бұрын

Why is it that the divorce rate is so high all over the world, yet this beautiful couple stay true, loving, kind, loyal and respectful to the one they love? This happiness is what love is meant to be 💙

@astrocartomanciacienciaanc5308 11 күн бұрын

Pure hearts ❤

@gillianjohnson876 Жыл бұрын

They are wise, self-aware and so sweet. I pray Riley and Charlotte have a long happy life together.

@brahdleessr Жыл бұрын

Me too

@kaskahea1274 Жыл бұрын

👌🏽 right! a prosperous life!

@lilchewoodarkoblivion9314 5 ай бұрын

@@kaskahea1274судя по красивой и благоприятной обстановке их дома, их жизнь очень благополучная.

@rozalina531 3 ай бұрын

Amen 💕 🙏🏻 💕

@ysvleis Жыл бұрын

“I had to get to know myself before I could find her” - yes sir. What an absolutely beautiful couple.

@PEACEinYESHUA-oj7vc1pk7w Жыл бұрын

I loved that too❤

@bella-bee Жыл бұрын

Such a mature and sensible understanding

@thecarspins 13 күн бұрын

This is a beautiful story. I'm so happy they found each other. They're an incredible couple. ❤

@ProveAllThings1Th-5-21 4 ай бұрын

One word sums this up. PRECIOUS. I pray they have a long life together.

@soup6646 Жыл бұрын

Riley is so sweet, well-spoken, intelligent, and stoic. What a wonderful husband to have.

@FabulousSquidward Жыл бұрын

His smile while tells the story of how they met melts my heart

@lucystoner Жыл бұрын

He seems to love her very much.

@Am3lia77 Жыл бұрын

I don’t think he’s stoic tbh but he does seem like a wonderful husband

@samanthalena3917 Жыл бұрын

He’s very intelligent! He also carries a conversation well!

@Rainxiety Жыл бұрын

@@Am3lia77 I'm reading a book on stoicism. It's very interesting. Anyway, I think he's closer to being stoic than most people

@odalissk Жыл бұрын

Charlotte's speech to the UN was so amazing I am glad she found a tall man who can reach for the stars with her. Congrats you two

@kupiters Жыл бұрын

this is so beautifully said!!!

@user-gh6gc5kb8y Ай бұрын

That made me laugh but also tear up at the same time!

@edjo487 13 күн бұрын

❤Wonderful people who deserve happiness. All the best!

@mandieeleaver3321 15 күн бұрын

This is sweet. It’s nice they found each other.

@Deauxp._ Жыл бұрын

Riley’s definition of love is so perfect! “It means being connected; it’s something you don’t just see, you feel from the heart” What a genuinely beautiful couple 🥰

@batacumba Жыл бұрын

I’m really impressed by how driven and independent Charlotte is. She must have lovely parents who are really proud of her. Riley is a delight too, they both seem like such sweet people. I’m so glad they found each other.

@emmalouie1663 Жыл бұрын

imagine if she had terrible parents though... where would she be I wonder

@jarkachalmovianska7812 Жыл бұрын

@@emmalouie1663 in mental institution probably completely cut from real life and pleasure and all good things

@batacumba Жыл бұрын

@@emmalouie1663 you don’t have to wonder, there are already plenty of news stories you could peruse about the awful things that happen to disabled kids who don’t have good parents. Not sure why you’d even need to posit such a question, we already know just how terrible the world can be. Why not just be happy for this instance where a lovely young lady has clearly come from a great home with great parents?

@Katrinaantonius Жыл бұрын

Right?! She's amazing!

@emmalouie1663 Жыл бұрын

@@batacumba Oh, so you mena KZfaq only shows the ideal stories about the most fortunate.

@musingfoodie1041 4 ай бұрын

How wonderful the way she describes him… Sweet, kind, generous and a great sense of humor!

@Elizabeth-tg7jo 27 күн бұрын

You can’t fabricate the light in their eyes. Beautiful.

@eforester8891 Жыл бұрын

The world is a better place with Charlotte and Riley in it. All the best to them

@m.scottreeder Жыл бұрын

Are you kidding me? Whenever I encounter folks like these two, I am grateful God has given me the chance to interact with a different kind of angel. What I mean is, I see an innocence in these people, even though they could be capable of doing questionable things. Highly unlikely, but that’s my point. These people are just as human as anyone else, but they deserve 24/7 love and patience. I’ve got their back.

@danicadjukic4377 Жыл бұрын

Arrangement ! Sorry for any misspelled words as I I am texting this while I am tired ! PLEASE PAS S ON THE CHAIN OF CHANGE THROUGH LOVE & ACCEPTANCE ,TOLERANCE & DOING EACH OTHER RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS WHETHER IT BE TO DEVOTING TIME OUT TO HELPING SOMEONE IN NEED ,IN A CRISIS , DOING A KIND DEED , THROUGH KIND WORDS ETC . ❤DANICA

@jeannieab5218 Жыл бұрын

What a cute couple! Many blessings you two!!!

@lordhallibel3604 Жыл бұрын

@@m.scottreeder no

@neytiriavatar140 Жыл бұрын

These two beautiful people are far more well adjusted and respectful to each other than millions of couples without down or Asperger. They must have great parents

@cindycardoza4717 Жыл бұрын

I cannot agree with you more your absolutely correct on this I love it❤️❤️

@katofuntato466 Жыл бұрын

💯

@Carmen-.- Жыл бұрын

Yes! They have true genuine authentic love for each other! What a blessing these two are to one another and to everyone around them!

@artsylady1747 11 күн бұрын

I love hearing his answer about why his happiness is at a 10. I'm glad to see this couple happy ❤️

@brendanmccabe2933 14 күн бұрын

Beautiful couple, so nice to see how happy you both are. You are both amazing!

@dacrib5350 Жыл бұрын

Riley looks genuinely happy and the line " I have a good life, I didn't always ,but I do now." really hit. The guy plays 6 instruments! And I love how simple his interests are, I love making pasta too, man, so good hobby to have! Charlotte seems like a sweetheart too. What a nice couple.

@nancyminui9108 Жыл бұрын

Not to mention they're both college educated and have high goals for themselves and each other! They are both remarkable individually and together.

@carolecochrane8173 Жыл бұрын

They are a really lovely astute couple, very best wishes to them 😀

@robinw.8083 Жыл бұрын

As someone who currently does not have a good life, it's nice to hear someone say what he did.

@PrisTvv Жыл бұрын

Yea

@rosiewhitfield123 Жыл бұрын

The make an amazing couple. They’re both very lovely people and suit another. I’m friends with several people who have different issues and they deserve to be respected no matter what the issues are.

@DS-bg9fl Жыл бұрын

As a Mama of a daughter with autism, this gives me great hope. Blessings on these two people!

@joeb134 Жыл бұрын

My cousin lives in my household and has autism. At first I was kinda mad because I didn't know this has autism too. Thought he was taking advantage. This is wholesome

@Ane127 Жыл бұрын

Get a homeopath.

@family-peace-love Жыл бұрын

@@Ane127 would you be able to explain this comment please ?

@Thatricanrose81 Жыл бұрын

Same my 16 year old has autism and just knowing that he can go out into the world and find someone to love and that loves him back and he can have a great life being married, is all I’ve ever wanted for my son to be OK in the world. ❤

@meljohnson2852 Жыл бұрын

My 21 year old son is high functioning autistic. He has the most beautiful relationship with his girl friend, who is fully able bodied and a graduate of an Ivy League college. She loves everything about him and vice versa. I strongly believe when we are able to see the beauty in our children’s differences, others will as well. 🫶🏻

@carriefrn 14 күн бұрын

I just loved watching this video about a wonderful couple - they show what a good marriage is ❤

@debraescano2744 18 күн бұрын

They are a beautiful couple!! It’s nice to see there not holding either one of them back from enjoying life!

@melissamcdaniel3659 Жыл бұрын

I’m a 51 year old autistic middle School teacher. I also have an autistic son and mother. Our lives are full and happy. I am so happy for you both.

@Ane127 Жыл бұрын

Get a homeopath.

@Jaggerbush Жыл бұрын

You're super cute. If you're single HMU 😊

@SirSelby Жыл бұрын

@@Ane127 Why would you say that? What does psuedoscientific “medicine” have to do with anything this person said?

@awp-erator4525 8 ай бұрын

you're allowed to teach with autism? how does that work 😂

@laur_lauryn 8 ай бұрын

@@awp-erator4525the same way any teacher is hired

@sherb1750 Жыл бұрын

Someday I want a love like this! And SBSK has further affirmed my belief that I, as a disabled person, can and will find that for myself someday.

@skulliomax Жыл бұрын

You're worthy of love!

@bri5155 Жыл бұрын

You will! Your perfect person just hasn’t been put in your path yet! I have chronic health issues and ADHD, and I found my soulmate. I can be ALOT, so if I can Find my person you will too. But it’s true what they say, it does happen when you very least expect it. You are deserving of kindness and love! You’ve got this!

@lulumoon6942 Жыл бұрын

You truly can, be your best person every day you feel up to it!

@kawaRCC Жыл бұрын

I feel exactly the same

@hannahpirozzoli6203 Жыл бұрын

As the daughter of a disabled person, I became a nurse. My disabled parent was my super hero and I wanted to help people due to this. My non-disabled parent loves my disabled parent so much. This was also a very good model of love growing up. I hope you find the one for you some day. It look my disabled parent 43 years to find his love (my mom).

@mitskiluvr420 2 ай бұрын

their enthusiasm for their relationship and pride for each other just exudes from them both. i wish them both the best, such a sweet couple

@kotovodkotov6868 3 ай бұрын

That's so wonderful that there is place on Earth where people with disabilities and medical conditions can live in happiness and safety, without oppression, persecution, humiliations from the side of agressive toxic society.

@Smoshy16 Жыл бұрын

I have no idea how or why this came up in my feed. I'm a 50 year old recently single man and this made me cry with happiness. These two have such beautiful souls and I can only wish them the best together.

@karenlittleton6073 Жыл бұрын

Smosh same here tears of joy beautiful souls.Wish I met my soulmate.God bless

@sweetest-of-memes Жыл бұрын

It came up because you were meant to see it and be reminded of what love can be, I wish you all the best on your journey into this new chapter of your life!

@grateful7420 Жыл бұрын

Same. I’m a 54 yr old single woman. These two inspire me to live and live with gratitude

@RobinFlysHigh Жыл бұрын

And wishing the best for you in your newly single life. The fact that this brought you to tears shows your own compassion and humanity I think

@beautyonabarnbudget 9 ай бұрын

I had an elderly down syndrome patient who was at the end of her life. She was a mother and grandmother. She was a GREAT mother and grandmother! She opened my eyes sooo much, and i would absolutely never question parenthood for anyone with a disability. Edit: This was 17 years ago at the beginning of my career. When I 1st read her chart, I thought it was mistaken. I wrongfully had preconceived notions and judgment. It was ALL erased immediately when I saw her interact with her children and grandchildren! She taught me some very valuable lessons. I'm so glad I got to witness her love and care for her family first hand!

@nevadadan4113 8 ай бұрын

We would all like to know of some examples as to what made the biggest impact on you by meeting her... thank you in advance. :)

@darkworlddenizen 6 ай бұрын

How was she a mother? People with down syndrome are infertile.

@user-uq2gc4ms3g 5 ай бұрын

Разве у людей с синдром Дауна могут быть дети? Возможно вы имеете ввиду приемных детей?

@a.lissan 5 ай бұрын

@@user-uq2gc4ms3gвполне могут. Гораздо чаще у женщин с СД. Мужчины практически всегда бесплодны

@SamsungGalaxy-nm5qt 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for this! I had thought that downs people didn't live long enough to become elderly.

@charlottevantomme6441 Ай бұрын

That's love in the purest form 💕

@woodanemone9758 4 ай бұрын

Representation is so important, I am glad they agreed to this interview.

@glenmckenzie3243 Жыл бұрын

Riley is so eloquent now, it is so hard to believe that he ever felt inadequate socially. It is lovely to see two people who are so in tune together.

@mary-janereallynotsarah684 Жыл бұрын

Nah I can see it. He's pretty awkward and anxious which is normal. Being on camera probably makes him more anxious. Also it's edited. I feel like he talked about the lighthouses a lot but they edited it lol. That's just my guess but I really wanted to hear about the lighthouses. It's not my special interest but I am fascinated by them and have always wanted to live in one.

@kathleen5296 Жыл бұрын

@@mary-janereallynotsarah684I’ve always wanted to live in a lighthouse, too! We have a lot in my state (Michigan), so it’s nice to visit them.

@zilness Жыл бұрын

I’m most happy about how in love they seem. You can really the kindness in their eyes for each other.

@patb9463 Жыл бұрын

@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ REPENT YOURSELF AND GIVE IT A RESR!

@Witchezcat Жыл бұрын

@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ No 😊

@ix8750 Жыл бұрын

Dude Riley is so lucky, they both are but hearing him say "she brought the motivation out of me." Im so happy for you dude.

@cabelas777 4 ай бұрын

My goodness, what a wholesome and honest couple. Loved watching this.

@parawomenradio 4 ай бұрын

What a goldmine of human kindness and growth, this channel is! I've been watching many videos and feel so much love and hope right now. Thank you!

@eXcludeyStarling Жыл бұрын

This is hands down the most adorable couple I’ve ever seen. May we all be so lucky to find such a pure love.

@queenrules1747 Жыл бұрын

Adorable...very blessed to have one another

@AngstG Жыл бұрын

they are an inspiration to many I'm certain..

@GinasWorld_ Жыл бұрын

My son is autistic. Sharing this means the world to me. Gives me hope. Thank you so much xx

@PEACEinYESHUA-oj7vc1pk7w Жыл бұрын

❤

@pidu4588 Жыл бұрын

Women are less desperate. They wouldn't want to date an autist.

@yyg4632 11 ай бұрын

beautiful i hope he finds love as well!

@MostBlackmalesaredownlow 11 ай бұрын

@@dualismdeeperlaws2430only to the unworthy who know they will self destruct and ruin the marriage

@shredd5845 11 ай бұрын

you son is not female. So he never find girlfriend

@royfr8136 4 ай бұрын

I've always hated the idea of marriage - And now I know why = These are the happiest and most genuinely happy couple I have ever witnessed.If I had witnessed more married people like them, I would have got married years ago...

@Nunya7211 2 ай бұрын

That is how I saw it too. I hated marriage for a lot of my life until I saw some good marriages. It put all the bad ones in perspective too

@freetobeme6013 25 күн бұрын

The thing I love about many autistic people is the way they see things so simply and HONESTLY, it seems most of us lost these traits over time. I hope they have a wonderful life together. 😊

@queenofswords6463 Жыл бұрын

Charlotte and Riley are the epitome of how a healthy relationship should be.

@tinkerbella4605 Жыл бұрын

Give me a break.

@mindflowmotivations6575 Жыл бұрын

Definately

@ThaMobstarr Жыл бұрын

@@tinkerbella4605bitter

@nataliealice05 Жыл бұрын

Healthy? When one person has genetic disorder and mental disability? Absolutely not healthy.

@theskyisfallingtom Жыл бұрын

@@tinkerbella4605 what does that mean, "give me a break?"

@yaladdin86 Жыл бұрын

They are happier than many couples out there. You can feel their love for each other. It's so sweet!

@nicoledickerson9516 Жыл бұрын

@@sneksteppy so when did feelings become scientific 😂

@user-cq8fs7yr6w Жыл бұрын

@@sneksteppyдовольные,пока не родили.. риск

@evanselvis-nzerogu6176 Жыл бұрын

To people who are normal, you could really feel the love between them!

@kellygomez4029 Жыл бұрын

well there is a reason to it and its pretty explanatory, if they did not have these disabilities they would deff be a different couple and have problems. god bless them

@JenArch 5 ай бұрын

His description of love is so spot on and well said! So happy they found that kind of once in a lifetime love!

@captainshiner42 5 ай бұрын

They're super cute together. You can tell they have wonderful, caring people in their lives as well. I wish them nothing but the best.

@julieleonardo7560 8 ай бұрын

I've spoken with Charlie. She's a spitfire! She told me stories that made me realize that we have been underestimating people with DS completely. She is intelligent, sarcastic, a go-getter and defeats all of those stereotypes of DS.

@phoenixxam5812 8 ай бұрын

You mean Charlotte?

@leahmae172 8 ай бұрын

@@phoenixxam5812she goes by both names :))

@phoenixxam5812 8 ай бұрын

@@leahmae172 ah ok

@SL-es5kb 8 ай бұрын

Part of that is they often lived with parents or nursing homes and were infantilized and did not mature to no fault of their own. My mom was a community worker for people living independently and just like “normal” people mom said it was how much the parents supportively encouraged rather than tried to control everything that seemed to determine maturity and competence.

@charlotteheleneakacharlief8879 8 ай бұрын

@@SL-es5kbMy parents were quite old when they had me. They didn't want me to be dependent on them or my 4 brothers. They raised me to be independent and able to look after myself when they are gone.

@BDog54 Жыл бұрын

The way Charlotte smiled when Riley said she was beautiful was so sweet!

@annehersey9895 5 ай бұрын

What an amazing couple! I just adore them! You can see how they complement each other. Just holding her hand calms his anxiety and sh😢intuitively knows when he needs her. I just love this series!

@JanetPerrenod 14 күн бұрын

God bless you both always!

@Pippi-Longstocking Жыл бұрын

“What is it like to be married?” “Wonderful”. “Amazing”. I love these two wonderful people!

@hannahpirozzoli6203 Жыл бұрын

My dad has untreatable paranoid schizophrenia and my mom is a Korean immigrant. They didn't speak the same language, but they fell in love with each other. My dad is non-verbal now due to several strokes from complications with his medications. My mom and dad have loved and stood by each other for almost 30 years. I have witnessed the meaning of love as connection, empathy, sympathy, joy, and respect. Now I'm a psychiatric nurse and I have my own son.

@enlightenedbeliever5610 7 күн бұрын

That's an amazing story 👏 I'm so happy for your family. It's nice to share stories like this. It gives people hope. Disabilities are not a life sentence to loneliness ❤

@Kamille-lb7jo Күн бұрын

Why are you saying Korean immigrant like its a bad thing. Sound like a self hater. Becky wannabe

@Ones2Cents 5 ай бұрын

This has got to be the most innocent and sweet couple on the internet. Blessings and Happiness to them both, and great Fortune!

@valeriegorham4396 18 күн бұрын

What a sweet couple! Love their authenticity and genuine love for each other! May they be blessed with many many years of happiness!🙏🏻❤️❤️

@lilithempire1975 Жыл бұрын

We should deeply understand how precious people with disabilities are to our society. Their emotional intelligence is much much higher!!

@mudhutonthemoon Жыл бұрын

How can their “emotional intelligence” be higher if “emotional intelligence” does not exist?

@alexeykryuk3560 Жыл бұрын

And what makes them precious ?

@famprima Жыл бұрын

We need to understand that the people with Down we see on video and television are the exception. Most of them live very difficult and depending lives which ask great sacrifices of their families.

@Kn_Bk Жыл бұрын

@@alexeykryuk3560 (re)watch the video. Try to get a sense:grasp of how effortlessly genuine they are. Without pretention. That’s precious

@Kn_Bk Жыл бұрын

@@famprima it’s a spectrum… No one is being discounted

@jrizzledrizzle4697 Жыл бұрын

That guy described love so much better than I’ve ever heard anyone explain it in my whole life. You can just feel the purity of his heart ❤️

@RobinFlysHigh Жыл бұрын

@tlee2119 Жыл бұрын

It can be a tall man who can reach the high shelves.

@courtneyko1466 15 күн бұрын

This is refreshing. Two beautiful souls finding each other.

@DidoTlm-c5h 6 күн бұрын

Salut ❤❤

@vilyar122 Жыл бұрын

Charlotte and Riley are such sweet and kind people! I hope a lot of people watch this video and realize that people with austism, asperger's, and down syndrome are normal people too.