I tuned 39 last month. I'm unmarried with no children I'm going to start a Masters full-time in a whole new country within the next few months. I'm pivoting in my career to do what I want to do and not what I can bend myself into. You're going to be fine. We're going to be fine because we're living our own lives and not what is deemed as " settling down " by society. Continue to walk bravely!

I am 44 single and planning to move to other country and start my career from scratch. Its difficult but when I saw your video and comments, I realize there are so many like me.

By the time I was 45 I had lived in VT, NH, CT, MA, FL, NC, WI, AZ, NM, and Vegas twice. I'm now 65 and the past five years have lived in Mexico and twice in Europe. I will have another move by the end of this year to a sunnier climate. I've done this alone with only my dog. We go through growth stages every 7-10 years. We are constantly evolving. I meet so many women travelers along the way. I never want to be that person on my death bed thinking I shoulda, coulda, woulda but I was too afraid to try. At 38 you are still learning so much and grasping what is important to you. You have so many wonderful moments ahead. You will be a full powerhouse with each evolution. Try different things and do not consider anything a mistake. You are learning what you like and do not like. That is valuable. I have changed careers. From psychiatric caseworker, fashion industry and now I am working on my first fictional series.Congratulations and safe journey.

I'm much younger, currently 26. At 25 I decided to move across the world and start from scratch. No friends, no connections, just a job I had applied for before moving over. It's been a little under a year now and my life is completely different. I've accomplished so many goals, overcome so many challenges, and have even found love. I feel like moving was what propelled me into this future I have today -- and I am extremely thankful I made that leap of faith. Best of luck in America!

Im 39, and moved from chile to france, to explore life, with a new job, language, and now im quit my job, and continue to explore what are my passions, and what i want to do on life ! It takes courage to do this! Congratulations!

"Starting life from scratch in your late 30s can be daunting, but it's a fresh opportunity to reboot. Ditch the old life, adapt to a new country, and switch to a new career. Focus on investing in your finances, building credit, and creating a secure future. You got this!"

I am 30 years old, a single mom of one son. These days I feel so down and so broke, I feel like I want to give up. But then your video popped up on my KZfaq, and your sentence hit me so hard: "Whatever you're aiming for, keep trying and you'll get there. It's just a matter of time." Thank you for sharing this video with me. I appreciate you and hope you are blessed with joy and love.

I am 36, and I felt lost and stuck too, that scares me. Your channel is a beacon of hope, reminding me that there's so much to look forward to. I have faith in what's next! Good luck with your move, and can't wait for your updates Poppy ❤!

On my 40th birthday in a month, I am moving my whole family to another country to start a new career and a new life! Talk about anxiety! Good luck with your reinvention 😊

Magical year for me 38. Settled and also baby arrived ❤ Life since then turned 180 degrees but I am for sure more happy and fulfilled and finally I have a clear purpose, my own family 🍀🥰🥳

It's so sad that we have boxed ourselves in a perceived category as per society..... go to school-get a degree-get a job-get married-have kids-retire-die. If you are a certain age and don't reach certain goals , then people start badgering you. I wish people practiced the adage - live and let live !!!! No1 ... I repeat , no1 should be made to feel guilty of where they are in life... as long as you are happy and hustling and working hard for your happiness , you do you.

I am 36 and have started my life over once every few years 😂 I hope all those who are watching this truly truly believe my words - 30s is not too old. 40s is not too old. Anyone can start a new page anytime. The ONLY thing that truly stops us from doing what we want is money and opportunity. Society can say you should do this or do that by a certain age, all they want. It’s your life to live not people around you. At 32 I moved from California to New York. Because of a new job opportunity. At 34 I moved to Canada and I’m starting over. Like the wise Natasha Bedingfield once sang, “Today is where your book begins, the rest is still unwritten.”

I am so thankful to have found your channel. I’ve battled my mental health for so many years and feel so lost. I’m 38 soon to be 39 and want to start my journey to recovery and living a life with purpose. I pray each and everyone who comes across your channel find the path that will lead them to a fulfilling career and life x

I don't want to "settle" either. Even when my husband and I finally buy a house and put down roots, I don't want us to "settle" in the way a lot of people do...shutting themselves off to change and growth and new experiences for the sake of maintaining routine appearances.

I’m 37 too and relate so much to your message. My biggest concern is financial and career related. My career is going nowhere and I need to make more money. I feel so stuck in my current situation, and having no money doesn’t help. I would love if you could touch on your career change and how to start. Good luck on your next chapter. I teared up when you cried. It is exciting to start something new, but so very emotional to leave a big part of your life behind. You’ve got this!!

I am a bit older than you, I moved a few times (last one is from Italy to America), had some amazing careers from Public Safety to Artist, and I am about to pivot once more. This is what I have learned: •live a 1000 lives •people who think it’s “irresponsible” is because they are uncomfortable with themselves (you can’t change them) •it’s never too late to reinvent yourself and start over •age is a state of mind not the number of years on your ID •you will find likeminded people and it’s fantastic when you do ❤️ I wish you the world!

I’m 8 yrs older than you. Last 10 yrs I transformed myself - from living in a temple as a nun to the worldly world. I’ve been struggling in life for a big while after that since living so long in the temples. But last 3 yrs I got a new job and I love doing it very much. I can also have time to meditate as I like and freedom as I want. I don’t know what the future lies ahead but I do love what I have today even no husband and no kids. Have a fun journey in the US 😊

Watching this at 24 and feeling like my life is over because I have not figured out yet what I truly want to do in life, this gave me hope and comfort. Thank you.

You’ll be fine. Mel Robert’s started her life over in her forties. Vera Wang started her amazing dress line at 40. Morgan Freeman started his acting career as an older man over forty as well. The guys who made the hit song The Macarena were older men. lol. You can do it. We can all do it. ❤

I think it's really amazing that you are able to start over, I was 27 when I moved to another state from everything I have ever known and am still "establishing" I suppose. In this time since I have started over and moved and changed jobs and everything, so much has come from it - I met my person, I am working to build a life I have always wanted and its like I am rediscovering myself for the first time here again. Never stop starting over from scratch, like code or even art there are many iterations of the best version of you! Which I am still trying to give grace to. Love your content, thank you for motivating me as well. It's easy to become complacent.

Am so grateful that I found your channel, I am currently going throught the transition form my 20s to 30s its hard but am realising and learning at this point is that you can build yourself up in a soft way. I think that everyone is just on the hurry up and make it happen and forgetting to take care of themselves!

I find your progress so relatable and satisfying. Your editing also makes me feel peaceful and reflective. There are so many wonderful changes happening in my life and your videos are reminding me to slow down and handle these shifts with maturity and consistency.

Been moving between countries most of my life and to be honest I've never really wanted to ""settle down", it always felt like I would "limit" myself and my opportunities. I love the freedom and being able to travel and work at the same time (so grateful for this opportunity), yet I have a country I can call home, even though I wasn't born there. Wishing you all the best in US - starting a new chapter in life is always exciting. Love your videos 🤍

I just turned 30 and have been having a hard time accepting it and feeling like it is my too late but when I see you able to live your life the way you want makes me think you are so cool! keep following your dreams girl 💗 you are definitely making me see things differently

Im 29 and feeling unsure or what’s next decade going to be. Happy to stumble upon ur channel!

This resonated with me so deeply! I have done the same, moved from Australia to Europe at 36 this year. Moving out of Australia was my dream for years and I was feeling so stuck and lost. This year I finally took the plunge and left everything I knew. Now thinking of an entirely new career and life here in Europe. I am both scared and optimistic for the future. Thank you so much for sharing. Good luck!

Thank you for this video! I am 37 and I wanna start a new life from scratch too💯💛

Who cares about others' expectations about where you should be at this point in your life. It takes guts to make a change at any point in your life, so good for you. I hope things work out for you in your new career.

I am turning 38 this year and really admire and commend you. I really hope to have your peaceful confidence and courage. I also am a married, dog mom without the ‘conventional’ nuclear family but am so at peace being with my little family. I look at you and I know that it’s possible to be happy. You’re amazing. Hope your fur baby is ok and settled in usa❤

Thank you for making this video, it came up as a suggestion in my notifications, I’m not even subscribed to your channel. I’m sure that this is some kind of message to change my perspective, I’m living in my father's house with comforts and I am afraid to leave because I don't have a job, and what is limiting me right now are material things. When you mentioned that the environment doesn’t allow you to develop as a person, something woke up in me since I don’t have the freedom to do what I’d like. You made me understand that it’s not about material things and comprehend the true importance of changing people and places. Thank you for making this video, it helped me more than you imagine.

This is inspiring. I’m 29 relocating from the US to a Caribbean island all by myself while also making my next career move. I have had to navigate a lot of challenges in the past year and it’s just so overwhelming but this video gave me some reassurance. All the best on your journey!

thank you so much for this video. I don't know you but your video came up randomly. I will be 36 in July and I have struggled to change my career for years. I finally went back to uni a year ago to pursue my passion but I have been totally depressed because I have had no lack in finding any job at all. I left a career were I was stable and had good income(but was so stressed I could not sleep at night) but now am back living with my parents cause I can't find a job. I keep trying but nothing seem to work. For society and many people around me, I am crazy cause I refuse to go back to my previous job and often I question myself too. I hope something will change soon. Changing successfully career at our age is not that easy and what is worse is the way all this is making me feel ashamed and like a big failure. Thanks for your words. They made me feel a bit better.

it takes alot of courage to change careers and to move, you are living your life so well done to you for making changes as you see fit to do. good luck with all your set out to do, you are amazing

so excited about seeing whats next for you! thanks for taking us with you on that journey. love from germany

This is so relatable. Making a big step towards something new is so intimidating but often times its worth the shot. "Failures" build you, an accomplishment towards something greater

This video resonates with me in so many ways. I love how you reflect on the path of life. I recently turned 30 and life has been really scary since because of all the expectations that people throw at me. I am far away from being settled but I am glad that I have the chance to pursue my dreams now. I am still on the way to build up my career towards that goal and I think that it is really important to be kind to yourself while consistently trying your best.

Good luck with all of your endeavors Poppy! Wishing you all the best!

thank you for making this video. as someone going through something similar watching this has been super validating and comforting. ❤

Thank you for sharing this video. And I wish you nothing but the best on your Journey. Just to have so much courage to do this. Man. I felt for you.

I am so glad I found your channel. Your videos are so calming.

I’m 39 and I am starting over again and I am so looking forward to it. I absolutely love your thoughts ❤❤

This video resonated so much with me thank you so much for articulating your feeling so eloquently. I’m currently about to embark on a very scary but exciting adventure and I couldn’t for the life of me put those emotions into words. I wish you all the best on your new adventure!😊❤

Congratulations! You inspire me! Good luck with your new life and goals!

I completely agree with you❤️I’m 39 and now moving to New Zealand with my husband and dog:) All the best💕

You’re really brave - what a huge adventure! I can’t wait to see how it unfolds for you 😍

We are of the same age and the same feeling in life. I cannot thank you enough for posting this because most of the time, I feel alone in this journey, I feel like no one is like me, and then u post this and I feel less alone. ❤ Sending my love from the Philippines.

Congratulations on the leap. I am 40 and will be moving continent myself. Alone! You're brave. I too will share my journey soon.

this is powerful! im in my transitional phase at 31 and i connected to your story so much! thank you!

I am in same situation as you are right now. End of month, we are moving to different city, we will rent a house for a first time in my life. New job, new position that I never had before. The mix of feelings and emotions is so real. When we got this opportunity, I said no. Then I sat on the thought and I think the same. Not always but often is good and better to just do things against the fear we feel. And same as you, I just hope that this is going to work out as it did in a past. Good Luck! 🍀

I just came across your channel and I would like to wish you safe travels to the US and best wishes and congratulation on your new journey. You said something that really stuck with me, which was fighting in my fears. I love that and thank you for sharing.

Wish you well with your new chapter in life Poppy. So grateful that shared about the initial struggling days. When you said what happened in 2009 it literally felt like god talked to me through you. That's where I am at right now.. 💓

Girl as a 37 year old - I deeply relate. Our lives are our own to design. I agree that settling in something just bc other people said so isn't a good enough reason for me.

Hi Poppy! My journey feels so similar to you. I moved on from my job and have been reinventing myself and understanding myself better over the past months. Nothing is as beautiful as defining happiness for oneself rather than running behind the society’s notions of it. I’m Living that happiness now. ❤

I applaud you for having the courage to start over despite uncertainty! 👏🏾 I'll be going on my 1st solo trip overseas to Japan later this fall after years of wishing and talking about it. I'm terrified of all the what ifs, but I'm going to accept the fear and move forward instead of allowing it to keep me from doing what I've wanted to do for so long.

First time watcher and I’ve come at the right time! Look forward to seeing the future ❤

Wanted to give you a hug when you cried. Good luck to you in your new chapter in life.

Beautiful video my friend. I must have said thank you quite a few times on your previous videos, but I won't stop saying thank you for the insight you continue to provide. Might have mentioned I'm 36 myself, trying my best to change my destiny. And your encouraging words have been on my mind for many days since I stumbled upon your channel. Enjoy yourself in the USA Poppy. I wish you all the best, and hope you continue to share the chapters of your life with the universe. I'm sure I speak for a lot of people when I say that you truly are helping people with what you have to say. And the quote you have for a tattoo is just a remarkable statement I'm glad I heard today of all the days. Best regards from Macau, and thank you again :)

Ah so excited to follow along this part of your journey! I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to either settle or explore/go on an adventure. I think it's just a matter of your personality, values, and desires in life. 💛

Currently 32, moving out to a new apartment, finally living alone and getting a dog! I sometimes feel stuck, seeing all my friends have kids and get married. In the Philippines there is also a pressure of being able to settle at this age, this still affects me at times. Thank you for sharing your video!

Thank you so much for this. I’ve had to start over so many times and it’s nice to relate.

You’re so brave, I’m looking forward to following your new journey in the US! Wishing you guys the best ❤

I am a male, single, of the same age as yours and found myself watching this video and relating to each and every word you said. I just moved to Dubai to try to make a living. I had everything in my home country, cars, high rank title, nice office, a lot of friends, etc but early part of this year, I have lost everything... Except for the love of my parents and siblings. I'm trying to regain that confidence and start all over again. I am sure that one day, the Lord God will pave way to the plans He has for me. I am keeping my FAITH. ❤

Beautifully said,I am very happy to see ladies understanding that 38 is not old to start over,we have a whole life ahead of us. Congratulations to your new chapter,wishing you peace and more self discovery

Thanks for this video. It's true what you said about failure. Sometimes things don't work out how we want, but that doesn't mean they are failures. They are great opportunities to learn. And even if it doesn't look like we are making any progress, we are. The process is different for everyone, and we shouldn't judge others or ourselves at any time.

Just found your channel, thanks for the relatable and empowering message and life experiences on failure, goals, and starting over! This video had such inspirational and insightful words! Morgan Harper Nichols has a quote that says " be kind to yourself on this journey, you have already come so far." Thanks for reminding us of this! Great idea about learning new skills, I have been watching Diane in Denmark Friday videos on her KZfaq channel, where she gives four self-care assignments for the week and she mentioned creativity one week. Thank you again, your video along with a video by Cam Does It called finding peace and happiness amongst the mundanity has been really motivational this week!

I love your reasoning in this video. And for those that think that changing career or place is failure, well it's their problem. You are being brave, and I wish you all the best!

Thank you for your video and your words! It was very timely for me! Sometimes we don't know what is the best decision to make. But actually everything happens at the right time. We just need to be patient and keep going🧡

"Absolutely captivating video, I must say, the introspection is simply riveting. It's all about striving to be the best version of oneself, and I couldn't agree more. It's truly remarkable how much a person can transform in just five years. The journey of self-improvement is a lifelong process, and it's wonderful to see people embracing it. Kudos to the creator for sharing such an inspiring message!"

And here I am at 34 thinking is too late 😢… thanks for this video girl. You got this, in fact to ALL ladies out there giving their best, U GOT THIS!!

I’m wishing you nothing but the best for your move

Your story resonates with me. I oddly uprooted myself at the same age as you just a few years ago to pursue my dream to go back to graduate school. It may have seemed irresponsible to others, but despite the challenge of quitting my job and leaving my home, I’ve received so many blessings and met people that have changed my life forever. Thank you for your video and courage to inspire others. 🙏🙏

Yesss! Sending positive vibes your way.☺️

This video came at a great time for me. You are a very motivational person and a strong woman. Much love and peace to you ❤❤

I can relate to all you have been going thru and I cried too when you were sitting down on the floor in your bare house. Currently, I am in the UK but I was previously working in Abudhabi. I went to the same thing and you inspired me. I wish you all the best!

Hi Poppy! I am turning 38 as of tomorrow (in a few hours)! And your video popped up and I believe the universe is also sending me a message with this! Your video really resonated with me. Similar to you, I am Australian born Vietnamese lived in London, Paris, and Dubai, pivoted my career just shy of 2 years and been feel some friction the past month. I know I need to take action. That fear you mention... so REAL and I know it to well! I just have to remind myself to trust the path. Thank you for sharing this and showing your vulnerability. Best wishes and congratulations with your next journey of life! You are deserving! P.S This is my first comment ever on KZfaq, I went against my grain X

Im turning 30 later this year and it's incredibly daunting and scary because I still dont have a clue what i want to do in life in terms of my career. I'm also single and can't see that changing any time soon because of my lack of social life. I think it's comforting to know that others are experiencing the same problems. I don't think I've seen the best version of myself since i was in university. I've wanted to live in another country to push myself out of my comfort zone, but I've been too lazy and procrastinate too much, so it never happened. I hope we can all find that drive and ambition that we need in life

This could not have come at a better time for me. I’m preparing to move across the country, pivot in my career, and start completely over in all aspects of my life in my 30s. I’m equally excited and also so nervous and scared.

27 I feel so lost, work in the NHS its on my heart to move from the UK. Congratulations and blessing for your new journey!

I stumbled across your video and we have so much in common! I’m 38, married no kids. I moved to the US from UK 9 months ago. I have lived in Thailand, UK and now US. I have changed my career this year. Wish you the best of luck na ka.

My very best wishes to you Poppy. What you're doing is great and I'm sure you'll do well. I'm 60+ and have lived / worked in over 20 countries (including Thailand) though 5 careers (more or less 😅). And thinking about moving to Spain next year. Never regretted a single move. Some were worse than others but all a learning experience.

I’m happy for you; and ppl no matter what age should go after their dreams, change their lives at any given moment without judgement; because we all have free will to change our minds; and choose differently in peace; it’s beautiful what you’re doing ❤

Thank you for sharing this, it is helping me a lot in my current situation. I hope everything goes well for you

So proud of you sis!!

goodluck poppy! 🙌

It's so timely. Thank you and appreciate you sharing this video.❤❤❤

So great you created this video! Thank you so much for your example! Definitely there are more and more people who care about themselves and start thinking critically… Who said that settle down brings happiness and wealth - it can bring deep depression which is worth! Wishing you a great journey and lots of success! You are the best! ❤

I change country two years ago and are living in France now. Definitely the most challenging period of my life! Becoming a mom , learning the language, integrating, adapting, accepting the weather 24/7 😅☔️☔️☔️ omg was a lot to pressed but i can say that finally after 3years i start feeling better here. Also i’m 36 years old , and this is something that is coming from the person who traveled the world 🌎. Is not easy but but you need 3 to 5 years to integrate and adapt ( it’s a long process ) but it’s totally worth it! Good luck 💕💕💕

Hi Poppy! Congratulations on your new decision and career! I'm a KZfaq creator from the US. I welcome you! Thank you for putting out great content that I can listen to while I do my costume making business. I consider you one of my go-to podcast type channels. It's nice seeing your views and similar eating style. Keep up the great work!

Good luck on your new journey😊

There has never been any greater joy in my life than to be a father. No job in this planet would have substituted that joy. Being a father gave meaning to my life.

I’m 37 with 3 children. Seriously thinking about relocating. I live in a state no where near family and it’s hard. Videos like yours has been popping up on my timeline so I will take it as a sign.

I am 39 and starting over again with a new career. Cheers to us moving forward with a positive note ❤🎉

Awesome attitude you have, in reality that is all we need in life. Blessings friend. Great video!

Thank you for making this video. You are an inspiration.

Congratulations been thinking about this, just about to turn 30 can’t wait for the next video

You got it queen!

Excited for you! My dream is to move to the north of Thailand and live in the countryside not too far from Chiang Mai. Keep us updated on the career change! Best wishes!!!!

Thank you for doing this. Congrats for getting your work visa and the new job. You will succeed.

I like your channel, looking forward to seeing where your journey takes you.

Beginnings are difficult, unknown life journeys are scary but at least you are not doing it all by yourself… I did that alone and yours to me looks like a piece of cake. Good luck !