"I don't know if I can live with you... but I know I can't live without you" 🥲

Lovely. And still choked him up after all these years. She’s a very lucky woman!

This whole thing was darling! I just loved it.

me too. It lead to an interesting ☎ conversation w/ my 88-year-old mum, a widow for 3yrs. @@LisaHouserman

The way he's suddenly back on that bench with her darling girl, all those years ago. My dad does the same thing talking about how he met my mom in 1990. :')

I bet he had affairs too😂,but still,he acted qiite right.

The fact his other kids knew because it’s exactly why he would be extra specially kind, that level of trust in his character.

Touching? To me it’s absolutely disgusting. See how this works? Any and everything that benefits women touches you. Why? Simply because you are a woman. Can we get any more primal and basic than this?

@@huntingfashiondolls3307 lmao and the family somehow only knew about the mom's one?

What a great attitude!!!❤❤

That title would make so much more sense than the one this vesion is posted with 🤦🏽‍♀️

Yes it was made in 2012 ...but constructed around great archive film footage of these interviews and wonderful weddings and family photos ❤

Over 15,,000 nuclear weapons on a trashed planet- what documentary 100 years from now? Thank God this age has an end.

Which one? The greatest generation or the baby boomer generation? I agree that a documentary on what could be called some day as beiing only the 20th century generation for sure would be pretty wild. Instead of only say getting bored to death while having to sit through any movie made in Hollywood during that century being for example called, "Heidi" (starring Shirlety Temple).

Situationships 😂😂

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"And so everyone was just fucking..."

Absolutely. Life is beautiful 🥹.

Yeah but it's too bad that it seems nobody is really wiling to work things out together anymore and even when considering dating you get slapped with these very unlikely to happen stigma's of "you should at least earn 6 figures" or "you should be above 6 foot"

Many people had happy lives hun… we are taught in school that people were miserable so we will not respect their knowledge or follow what their example looks like………..

Women needed those 15 kis, just to ensure 8 will make it to adulthood, and the sons were mandated t take care of the aged parents. Life was not as easy as 21st century back in the day.

It is certainly hard to afford I am one of 11 children and although it’s a struggle your family becomes the most amazing part of your life and there is so much warmth and love surrounding you it’s so beautiful and i just know my parents are going to have us all there when they are on their deathbed

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I knew one family with 15 kids-yeah it was tough and she was starved looking and said maybe we had too many-but they loved eachother and their family and were happy

No, MEN needed those 15 children. Not the woman.​@@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115

Rare, but nice. My parents, grandparents, great-grandparents all had long marriages and as far as I know they were faithful. I could see that none of them were blissfully happy though. I certainly heard many fights of my parents. I could see that my grandparents may be having a fight later but the only thing I ever saw myself was some disrespect and some tension and snapping at each other but I didn't live with them. My sister is married but I can't say happy is the word for that marriage. My brother is fairly newly married so seems happy but he certainly does not wear the pants in that marriage. I believe it should be more equal to be happy but if he's happy and that works for him that is his choice. Whatever as long as he is happy.

I worked in a retirement community and there were two married couples, one of whom made it 70 years before the husband passed. They always came down for dinner together and it was just so lovely seeing them consult the menu together. After he passed I overheard her tell another resident "it's too bad we couldn't go together." 💔 The other couple were lovely in a different way. The wife was bedridden but the husband still came down for every meal and ordered hers to bring up with him. He was VERY precise in his order and knew exactly how she would want everything. You'd bring him the food and put it on his walker and he'd take it up after thoroughly inspecting it for quality.

@@once.upon.a.time. Exactly. So many commenters have skewed views of marriage and love because they can only see what they themselves experienced. They can’t see how happy people can live together faithfully for 3/4 of a century. True love isn’t about being together only while everyone is young, strong and mobile.

My parents had a 62 year long love affair that only ended with my father’s passing. I heard them disagree occasionally, but never scream or yell at each other. My Dad treated my Mom as his Queen, and my Mom dearly loved my Dad … they were great role models for us kids, and we’re all smart enough to know that we had fabulous parents.

@@Trapper_Creek_2024 That’s awesome. We were blessed, and we know it.

I would say its easy not to believe in divorce when a marriage is a good marriage. I would also say 99.9% of people don't believe in divorce either when they are about to enter into marriage. But when one spouse relentlessly cheats on their partner during the entire marriage, or is abusive to their spouse and/or the children necessitating a divorce, at that point "not believing in divorce" goes out the window as survival instincts enter the equation.

​@@LadyOrion2012Agreed... Just don't say the vows of "For better or worse, till death do us part" unless you absolutely mean it and intend to follow through on what you promised before God.

@@dariusx4829what does god have to do with a man made concept such as marriage?

​@@aivlysplathOn the contrary, a true sacramental marriage is the metaphysical joining of one man with one woman. There are, of course, many counterfeits. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder.

​@@LadyOrion2012Through thick and thin. I imagine after 30-40 years of marriage, they have been through trials and tribulations. If someone says they don't believe in divorce, regardless of the shape of their marriage, then they don't believe in divorce. They fought through the bad times to get to the good times. Hopefully OP has never experienced infidelity or abuse at the hands of their spouse, but who knows. We can't discount those that do not believe in divorce.

So I thought too

This is the same time frame my husband and I met- In high-school, Became friends , later dated then married.

This is the same time frame my husband and I met. In 98, became friends, Later dated and then married. We are still married 1 child.

44 married 22 years . Together 24

28 years with my wife , yet i am only 43 she is 44

@@zone_Magazine_reporter We are 41 and 42!

It’s actually really odd and seems indicative of psychosis. And I’m not sex negative! There’s just such a huge difference between being a “player” and going out and flirting and matching with people and seeing who find most attractive and who you have sparks with the beat, then taking them home….. and this supremely bizarre new thing you’re describing. Why are men expecting sex……. Before even meeting? It’s literally like ordering a call girl….. except the women doesn’t even get paid! And she also didn’t know she was a call girl. What’s going on.

@@nataliaalfonso2662 I said the same thing. Some of these men seem a little possessed by their sexual urges tbh. It’s kinda scary 👀…

Exactly what is going on in these dating apps!

And many in their 20’s…between porn and hookups… are totally dead inside and cannot get erections.

That's why you don't have it. It's a good test. Plus they won't respect you if you sleep with them immediately

In those days girls and women were not allowed near breeding stock. So it is quite possible that women had no clue about sex. Both my mother and I grew up this way.

You would think not, but my husband was raised on a farm and was clueless.

I've listened to stories from people in strict Amish like groups on the KZfaq channel cults to consciousness. There are several cases I've heard so far where boys knew of course how animals reproduced but were shocked and disgusted when they found out (usually close to their wedding) that human beings reproduced in the same way.

Maybe , nothing went “ wrong “. Maybe they were realistic , commuted and chose to be faithful?

@@kellyTaylor-uv3co oh in my generation too much is wrong!! But thanks for your input!

There are no unwanted children. There are numerous husbands/wives who have been trying to adopt for years. Our extended family includes many children who were adopted; and more couples are on the list to adopt.

some parents can’t handle to many kids…they werent able to not have them so they were mean mofos . alkies.

@@situzen185 there are unwanted children. Millions of them. And tons of unwanted BIRTHS. You actually aren’t entitled to children at the expense of another person’s bodily autonomy. Women are not your automaton broodmare slaves for you to use for your dream of tons of kids (which you clearly can’t raise to be intellectually sound humans.) You know how you can’t just take out my kidney even if you need one desperately to live if I don’t consent? I mean…. You could. But that would be considered evil and ghoulish and a disgusting crime? Yeah that’s the same as feeling entitled to the use of a woman’s body for a pregnancy she doesn’t want to suffer all to make sure you have too many kids, none of which you can teach basic logic to. Maybe investigate why you think women’s bodies are up for use despite their lack of consent. If sexual assault and abuse are bad…… think of how much worse forced birth is. YOU ARE NOT OWED CHILDREN. You are not owed children at the expense of a person’s bodily autonomy. The idea of being okay with children being on earth at the expense of their mothers bodily autonomy is INSANE. How evil can you be? Do you not understand epigenetic trauma? Do you not understand the effects of maternal pre-natal stress on brain development? You are not owed babies at the expense of other people’s bodies and well being! Ghoul!

​@situzen185 not every child gets adopted. My grandfather was a victim of this in the 40s

lol yea that did look funny. Highly recommended though! Bailey Sarien’s dark history episode on pigeons, apparently they’re quite domesticated

Exactly. When my grandmother talked about her only way of lashing out at my grandfather was to go to the shops and run up a huge bill because he legally had to pay it... yeah it was not a happy marriage.

And when a woman was abandoned, which did sometimes happen back then, she and any kids often ended in poverty and were treated horribly and shamed. I know this from stuff that happened in my family. When you lucked into a respectful partner, it worked, as it would now. But many people were stuck in abusive situations without the alternatives they would have today.

Aww 🫂 welcome. So much to learn from these. It's disheartening to see so many of the same mistakes made in society simply because we never looked at and learned from the past.

For better or worse, but... If this person divorced you, you could do better. Hang in there.

@@Subfightr Thanks! I'm trying.🙂

@@shannonharrison7711I’m sorry. I’m sure you’ll find love again soon.

Yes, it certainly is! It's nice to know that some men are still decent. I haven't really ever dated a man that wanted to be a husband and father! Save for one when I was 18-25 but he was a drunk and I caught him cheating. Sadly, it has only been downhill from there when I thought it would be uphill. I was so very wrong!

Your pain will still be raw yet in time you will realize that there is something better in store for you, someone better for you. I wish you much joy

Since the video was released only a few days ago, I guess the other parts are still under construction

Purity is the ENEMY - for my lack of a better word -, _per Christian religion_ , of Satan. Has it today (so) many defenders? And why it *should* be?

Me too! My aged parents passed away earlier this year, shortly after their 75th anniversary. They always looked happy, always smiling and giving each other little presents.

Agreed me to ❤

You were born in exactly the season God had planned for you. Take a stand!

Yes, it sure would be nice to never have the displeasure of men sending you dick pics and expecting sex from you immediately! Dating while still more than this obviously, was less awful for me in high school and college than it has been as an adult. I was in a relationship that was love at first sight for us both from 18-25. We planned on getting married and the only problem we had was his drinking. That eventually ruined it. The new dating scene at 25/26 was rather shocking to me and it has only continued to get worse! I knew I'd hate online dating and I was not wrong! Ugh. I was trying to explain it to my 92 year old grandfather and he said he understood. That he could tell that men were not like they used to be and many were "greaseballs". I laughed and said yes, that it putting it mildly! He made me promise to not marry a greaseball lol. I agreed and told that is exactly why I'm not married yet!

No such thing. Enjoy your time here and make the of it as you'd like to, being very kind to yourself and others!