I like the one in the middle too

Agreed. But the service work he intends to do doesn't give the partner any time to relax. There's nothing wrong with that....He'll find the right partner. But Mark seemed like the right balance, IMO.

Agreed

His looks are fine to me

👍

I agree with the looks part. Ted was the most handsome and to be honest, Mark was the most compassionate to me out of the three. It boiled down to the fact that Ted can take her places AND the kids if he so desires to do so. One of the important points on her list was travel. Ted has influence and rubs shoulders with A-listers from time to time and I knew that she wasn't going to pass up on that. Depending on who's watching, one could call her shallow or just going for what she wants based on what he "says" he can offer, because he definitely sold her and would have sold just about any other woman with his introduction. His job is a big flashing light that screams status...so that, plus good looks had him sold out the gate. Mark I think will work better long term. Not sure if Ted can keep the flame burning with the whole blended family. Mark would have been my logical choice. I think Ted was a surface level and an emotional choice.

short n simple introduction ♥️

I agree!!!

Couldn’t agree more

As a stud I agree, I state that because I operate in a masculine energy sometimes & am able to get a good sense of a good man, all 3 were great choices but your thought process is mine exact. Mark could have adapted to the family dynamic over time. She’s going to enjoy Ted but for the woman she is stability is needed I hope he is ready & able to water the flower & her family 💯❕

I was feeling Mark too. He seemed like a great fit for the long run.

I agree with you dear.l would have chosen Mark.I think Ted might be a player

@Whatsap±1937𝟩𝟣𝟫𝟤𝟨𝟧𝟩 Steve TV Showhi

Seems like a player and an older man that’s still immature

Yes yea

He's handsome though 😘😘

@@VerahMwamburi5569 Different strokes for different folks. 😆

I picked Rayce too

I picked Royce. Ted was definitely a smooth talker.

He is still single, probably, maybe you ll make a good match.😉❤️. I wonder what happens to the other 2 men. Their match could be among the audience or single ladies watching from home. I would have picked Rayce, too. I like men who care about others and help. He seems to have a good heart and puts God first.

Not all smooth talkers are bad. My husband was a smooth talker when we met and he’s a great person💯❤️

I agree with you. I was shocked they picked him.

Very true

Agreed!

This!!!!

That is normally how it works. A little look and a slick tongue. Get em every time no matter the age.

Thank you I was thinking the same thing, he has none of the qualities she said she wanted😂I thought she was gonna pick the guy In the middle Rayce, he looks more faithful and god-fearing man..

I totally agree, I hope this family does not get hurt

I think Mark suits her stature, lifestyle & his future suits hers, striving for "FIRE" Financial Independence to Retire Early! He said he's almost there! Plus he's in church & look at how he sits, it matches her position!

😞I'd have gone with Mark. For her sake though, I pray they find happiness together.

I AGREE

Your profile is impressive, It has to be tough for you on here to meet a "good Man". I hear all kinds of stories so I hope it's not the experience you're having. You seem genuine and approachable, but I'll bet that some of the men are just throwing themselves at you. So sad they become that desperate at this age. Women who are independent thinkers are exactly where they're supposed to be in life, but the guys just don't get it. I've always believed that quality connections begin with an intellectual and spiritual component in order to achieve something of greater meaning. I see it as a learning experience for both to explore where we've been and we are headed My Name..Jack Dan

🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲❤️💕😘😍

amen

Amen Amen Amen Amen!!!!!!!!

Amen ❤

Amen

So true

why is it a red flag? that's just how we've been conditioned lol.

Facts! People like to use their profession as a way to get a woman or man and once you are impressed by that, they think they have won you over

@@realtalk293 then we have to uncondition ourselves because that's a toxic trait.

thats really interesting how would you introduce yourself give us an example

I liked how Mr. Mark didn't lead with his job/what he does. His main thing was showing her how he is a southern gentleman.

I wanted mark for her… he seems to have more depth

@@Mystyjoy hello

Me too. I think Mark is more of a. Man while Ted looked like woman's type of a man

I am sorry you don't know me I was browsing through my suggestion list when I came across your eye catching profile and thought of knowing more about you,I hope you are not mad?

Definitely agree .Ted comes out like a player

Thought the same thing. I think the pull was him saying he would take the entire family on a trip to Ecuador. He was all about flashing his money

@@audreysuite he had the words! I hope it worked out for them

My thoughts exactly. Her son will be looking out for her for sure.

Definitely.

Right?! better come correct!

Definitely. They are ALL A CLASS ACT.

Then why is she single

@@talknheadz because men are intimidated by a confident woman. Plus I'm sure she has her reasons, like they stated maybe she's hesitant to start a new relationship because she had a very bad experience with her last one.

@@louisprieto8997 thats not a valid reason that men are intimidated. Men today arent intimidated by women. Women out number men 20:1, and more women are single today more than ever. Shes single because she makes poor decisions. Dont let her looks and demeanor fool you. Her choice skills are so bad and desperate that she had to resort to a talk show to find a man. Which also proves her poor choices and desperation. If shes so intimidating and secure then why does she need help? Intimidating women usually means theyre a good catch. Theres obviously something wrong here. Otherwise shed still be with the last man or men.

"Real man"🤣🤣🤣

Of course he did.

Agree! 👍❤️

Equador...thats what its about...the rest of the show was talking and time filling

I am 63 looking for an amazing person as well

They all are

Ted won from the jump... trip for 2 or 5 says alot... And they will grow old together...

Am scared about his schedule though

He is single. Go for it.

Mark was the best, a man, father figure, symbol of protection.and not to mention a strong life experience

Mark 💯,,, Mark ,,Ted is too good to be true I go for Mark

Exactly

That was my first choice for her too but knew they would pick Ted ❤

Same for me

Rayce was my first choice but interviews switched me over to Mark.

Very pretty

Oh yes he is

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@wells martin I’m from Amarillo Texas and you?

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An old school player... too.

Once Ted Talk about scooba for 2 or five ? question should be asked where are their dad , if she was ever married and for how long ? Ted look good for her for a date not relationship .hope they make it

Those kids trying to travel 🤣

I see your statement. And I agree. Also Tedd has a crush on her because he took what her family said to grant them their desires. Tedd is a great listener and have the time to learn them...

@SHAWANA RHODES Honestly it seems set up to be ted as the pick because when do you ever introduce the person sitting last 1st,you normally introduce the first second and 3rd... Steve has a sneaky way of trying to sway the woman to the guy he favors like he did cinthyia bailey,he said it himself that he told cinthyia Mike was the better pick when she really wanted another guy... plus Ted is a smooth talker and competitive so of course he would do good in a situation like this plus he looks good with her physically...if I were her kid knowing what I know now I wouldn't pick for looks cause trust and believe his looks played a part in them picking him..The first guy never said what he did for a living I don't think but depending on what he does I might choose him.and the other guy seems like he's really busy and about his business so I think at his age getting a package might not be the thing he needs. He needs a pretty young wife that's smart and can follow him around and be intelligent eye candy at his functions he talk about..not a women still raising children...

Exactly.. i hoped too he is not just playing the game of be sure to get the kids approval to wine the mom.. especially it was the kids who approached Mr. Harvey to find a suitable man for their beloved Mom.

Hello dear ❤️❤️❤️

@@luggerphilippe8409 he said he ran a film studio and made documentaries

Very pretty.

Then why did the father of her kids left them?

@@harrybalzahkthat’s his fault ? Why are you blaming the kids and the mother

@@harrybalzahkwhat does that have to do with her ?

Exactly my African bro. I was saying to myself this guy had his sales pitch down pat. The other guys were less rehearsed and more natural

Ted is a bad smooth guy, he knows what he wants, got the raps and the rapour, planned heavily for the game so he got it. Right from when he came in, his gaiting was titillating, his gaze on her was captivating getting Monica was his conviction so in his heart he believes that this is mine so he didn't waste any bit of time not using the right words and smiles. Smart guy, I hope he takes good care of Monica and her which apparently are his. Congratulations to them 👏 ❤ 🙌.

For sure

Hello Sharon

Totally agree!

Hello dear ❤️❤️❤️

@@nelsonblackman320 hello

So ypu judge wpmen on hpw they sit

You're very right, all speaks it all, she is a well behaved Queen.👍

Your profile is impressive, It has to be tough for you on here to meet a "good Man". I hear all kinds of stories so I hope it's not the experience you're having. You seem genuine and approachable, but I'll bet that some of the men are just throwing themselves at you. So sad they become that desperate at this age. Women who are independent thinkers are exactly where they're supposed to be in life, but the guys just don't get it. I've always believed that quality connections begin with an intellectual and spiritual component in order to achieve something of greater meaning. I see it as a learning experience for both to explore where we've been and we are headed My Name..Jack Dan

​@@emmanuelchinedu3627aka Emanuel chinedu

You are spot on. Definitely Rayce was the best choice.

Brilliant observation! 💯 agree. Personally I would have chosen Rayce from the beginning. Ted tried too much to impress.

Yea Rayce is a great man as well , n you’re right he may have been a better choice and would’ve make wonderful memories together, I was just a little unsettled about all the time he put God in every thing they ask him. He needs to be more himself.

@@tricialewin6972 good point, maybe for Monica, Rayce was too religious and she wanted to travel with Ted and have fun rather than spending time with Rayce in church and at charity events.

I agree completely with your comments. Good discernment.

I’m 42 as well so your comment hit me hard! I really pray that God send you the man you deserve! I pray he’s your hearts desires and nothing less! A great family man that you & ur daughter deserves! Never settle! Congratulations in advance! Best wishes Angel from New Orleans

Amen

@angel miller, Amen.

Amen

Unfortunately lady these hookups rarely capture the essence of relationships. It's more like buying n selling.... and true relationships are more like planting a seed and watering.

_Carried away_ no pun intended

me too felt the samw

same here, I thought the same.

Mark would have been the best choice no doubt not Ted.

The new Black Family... no mention of the Father.

Truly.

Ted is sweet talker this woman is too charming to get hurt.But for my perception I don't think Ted is the right man for that beautiful lady.

That's so true the meddle man was the choice looks is not all it's your heart ❤️😇🇹🇹 they'll regret I saw right through Ted sorry to say but that's the truth 🤟

@@fredericklacroix7734 TRUE WHEN KIDS HEARD ABOUT THE SOCIAL POSITION AND ECONOMIC AS A DIRECTOR AND STUF THE BALANCE WEIGHT GOES FOR HIM ALMOST PPL KNEWS THEY RE LL CHOSE TED😂😂

Idk, I seen it as a playa move. Especially when he said he worked for a production company, and he divorced his wife due to irreconcilable differences… all seem playboy to me.

Your profile is impressive, It has to be tough for you on here to meet a "good Man". I hear all kinds of stories so I hope it's not the experience you're having. You seem genuine and approachable, but I'll bet that some of the men are just throwing themselves at you. So sad they become that desperate at this age. Women who are independent thinkers are exactly where they're supposed to be in life, but the guys just don't get it. I've always believed that quality connections begin with an intellectual and spiritual component in order to achieve something of greater meaning. I see it as a learning experience for both to explore where we've been and we are headed My Name..Jack Dan

@@emmanuelchinedu3627 You are one desperate man

@@FF-fd4tm Divorce due to irreconcilable differences is a good enough reason AND keeps folks out of your business.

TED You are welcome

Wher y’all Dady at

@@officialtriggadkins2360 They Daddy or mine?

He had to, doesn’t mean he cares a bit.

Ted knows how to sell. Notice he said "may" include a trip for five. He will throw that back in their faces if the relationship ever gets to the Ecuador trip point.

What is amazing about her kids

@@craigmillington1258 Exactly.

Kids are a reflection of the parent so she must be a kind and respectful person to be able to model those traits.

@@craigmillington1258 they presented themselves very well on this show and they seem to love and respect each other a lot. A united black family is very refreshing to see.

I also picked Ted, even when the curtain opened, it was smthing about him. I wish them the absolute best❤️💛

Would have pick Mark for sure, Ted is a great guy and everything, but Seem more of a player that has to look and know how to pick the right words for ladies. Hope they made the right decision thou. Happy for the family

You like a player?

@@johngregory8851 everyone don’t fit the same mode. Plus, the proof is in the relationship that come out of the arrangement.

But see, that is indeed the problem. You cant like anyone for anyone that quickly. Most of these choices were usually made just due to appearances. People latch on to the sexier pick.

@Whatsap±1937𝟩𝟣𝟫𝟤𝟨𝟧𝟩 Steve TV Show update please

🤣🤣 me too I could tell Ted was the one from the moment he walked out

Do you know by chance if there was a happy end?

Ok so what happened since its so old. Did they make it?

Yea you are true

This is what wisdom is all about

Hello dear ❤️❤️❤️

Yes TED is a smooth talker won't last he will get bored soonest the mother and kids got carried away with the travel proposition they just want a trip

@@osasosasco2615 also do not forget handsome the kids said so as well at the beginning

Yes n yes 👍

Yes

Yes, he won the family by saying that. He knows what to say. I don’t think he’s the best choice.

She went for Ted because of his good looks and smile

Yeah. I wasn’t feeling Ted either & this was me just *LISTENING* to the show in the background. I hadn’t visually seen anyone on the panel. After they made the selection ~ I went back & watched again to see “why” Ted.

@@binaryinvestment112 Mark was handsome as well.

@@ecaldwell9 Hello Caldwell, Do you mind becoming friends with me, i have been trying to figure how to put it to you

Yup she chose him for his money. He seemed wealthier than the others.

I thought Mark too..never Rayce..too boring for that family. Ted fits with their style, but he might be a player that gets played...and told see ya..after all the daughters a beautiful! The son will be a tough one to deal with & I guarantee you he will be watching Ted to see how he is around his sister's..where does his eyes roam!

@@true6766 Yes! Ted maybe a player, but I hope it worked out🙂

I chose Mark too

Hey jefff..

How do you know? You know how many attractive women come with disgusting personalities after the rose petals settle?

@@allexfenty and? She has a lovely personality. Yours? Who knows... I like to see the good in people and hope for the best. May or may not work out. No need to be ugly. We have enough of that in the world.

@@nosebleedseats3788 Okay fair answer. I second your last two sentences and endorse them too.

@@allexfenty Nice and thoughtful answer. If only more people in the world were, it might be a kinder place. Thanks! :)

Her kids will break him apart.

True 🤷‍♀️ He gonna take them all for a ride. Lol

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