What Does Alpha Widowed Mean?

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Stirling Cooper

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@StirlingCooper
@StirlingCooper Жыл бұрын
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@simonl4657
@simonl4657 Жыл бұрын
Alpha widow is real. I had a girl who left me to get back with her ex. She mentioned him a couple of times during our relationship. Afterward she left i checked him out and It pains me to say that the ex was indeed the better man. I can only work on myself to be better so this doesn't happen to me again. Be careful guys, if your girl ever compares you to a previous guy just know that the relationship likely won't last. You have the choice to work on yourself to be the best version of yourself and that takes time, time which you won't have if the girl is comparing you to her ex
@hansgrueber518
@hansgrueber518 Жыл бұрын
Bro the way i see it she cucked him hahaha if He took back a girl that was already dating you thats kinda low
@victorlinge92
@victorlinge92 Жыл бұрын
You have a good mindset man.
@brent4073
@brent4073 Жыл бұрын
My ex wife occasionally brought up her professional baker ex bf. I really shouldve became a better baker..
@Chriss-ez7xk
@Chriss-ez7xk Жыл бұрын
what made him a better man?
@thomasjefferson6334
@thomasjefferson6334 Жыл бұрын
​@@Chriss-ez7xk I'd like to know this too. taller, more handsome,more money doesn't really intimidate me tbh. better sex does though
@bigcong7845
@bigcong7845 Жыл бұрын
"When dealing with oysters,The first guy gets the pearl, the second guy gets the shell"
@pan0568
@pan0568 Жыл бұрын
What a creepy remark.
@wyattthacker3679
@wyattthacker3679 Жыл бұрын
​@Pan 0 it's not creepy, it's the truth
@Natediaaz209
@Natediaaz209 Жыл бұрын
​@@pan0568 OK beta male
@pan0568
@pan0568 Жыл бұрын
@@Natediaaz209 The whole alpha/beta distinction has be debunked, apart from in the world of social media, where male influencers are making a lot of money on the back of it. Be who you are, and forget about trying to fit into a category.
@Natediaaz209
@Natediaaz209 Жыл бұрын
@@pan0568 this is the biggest copism. When 2 men enter the room and one is more noticed, is it because everybody knows he's successful, or is it the body language which determines who's the alpha and the beta. Furthermore, the alpha beta rules apply in all the animal kingdom, from gorillas, to lions to wolves to even herbivores who fight for mating rights. To be an alpha is to be the man of highest standing and such men exist but are very few and far between
@liamnissanS2K
@liamnissanS2K Жыл бұрын
Fellas, listen to me. Find a woman that doesn't drink alcohol.
@zarokovoy
@zarokovoy Жыл бұрын
Valid point. But they can be promiscuous even sober.
@Gnomesmusher
@Gnomesmusher Жыл бұрын
I found a women who didn't drink because she didn't like it. But was still pretty promiscuous. But yeah you're right, in general women who don't drink are more likely to not be a slut
@callanc3925
@callanc3925 Жыл бұрын
@@zarokovoy Yeah but the chances are lower. *Most* promiscuous girls like drunken one night stands. If she doesnt drink, and isnt super confident around men when shes sober then theres very little chance shes promiscuous
@Antares-vj7su
@Antares-vj7su Жыл бұрын
A woman that don't drink? Easier to colonize Mars
@matthewscott4629
@matthewscott4629 Жыл бұрын
Do those in AA count?
@Heritagepostfarms
@Heritagepostfarms Жыл бұрын
If she mentions her ex without being asked, RUN! No such thing as bad press. She mentions him because he is on her mind! Learned this the hard way
@k-slay4407
@k-slay4407 Жыл бұрын
Yup. Another one is if she mentions a male co worker a lot. That's a dead giveaway.
@dwewe8913
@dwewe8913 Жыл бұрын
So true, I was catching feelings for a girl I’ve been seeing and out of the blue she adds me on snap chat and her score was like a million, so I made a joke out of it and she flipped out and said I sound like her ex, never talked to her again after that one
@annaslawinska1445
@annaslawinska1445 Жыл бұрын
Oscar Wilde Quotes. Men always want to be women's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
@CeezAboutIt
@CeezAboutIt Жыл бұрын
It’s actually best romance not last
@annaslawinska1445
@annaslawinska1445 Жыл бұрын
@Cesar Ramirez the last shall be first, and the first last
@Icecat21
@Icecat21 Жыл бұрын
This is 100% true. That’s why trying to find a grown woman who is not an alpha widow is just about impossible. It takes extreme hubris to think that you are the best ever. And she will never forget that guy…the one that got away.
@theItalianshamrock
@theItalianshamrock Жыл бұрын
100% correct. My ex told me 7 at the start. Then 15. Then 30... she first said guys she dated, then guys she liked, then guys with 1 night stands... and yes girls will "forget" about sleeping with guys to make themselves feel good
@misternevermiss12
@misternevermiss12 Жыл бұрын
You’re weird for continually asking bra 🤦🏽‍♂️
@dwewe8913
@dwewe8913 Жыл бұрын
@@misternevermiss12 this is true, don’t even ask, if you up on game you know she won’t be around forever…….asking her is just gonna make her see you as insecure and she won’t put out anymore…
@nakazatojl
@nakazatojl Жыл бұрын
​@@dwewe8913 depends on how you ask, if you do it in playful way faking interest and not reacting defensively that is the best way to know a woman's worst
@Letsgo-sg4cy
@Letsgo-sg4cy Жыл бұрын
That's why she is your ex. They are all 304 now. Don't seriously date them. Just do casual stuff.
@matthewscott4629
@matthewscott4629 Жыл бұрын
Truth is probably closer to 100
@penderyn8794
@penderyn8794 Жыл бұрын
Remember when humans used to pair up for life
@brent4073
@brent4073 Жыл бұрын
Why would you need to do that? Not like you are going to hopefully have kids that will be around for the rest of your life... o wait..
@thomasjefferson6334
@thomasjefferson6334 Жыл бұрын
​@@brent4073 I can guarantee you you'll never find a meaningful relationship.....deep love. Even if you think youre in it right now. You've lost your ability to truly bond with someone.
@SandManSadiq
@SandManSadiq Жыл бұрын
That rarely ever happened. Most of human history was polygamy.
@UnknownUser-nu8ny
@UnknownUser-nu8ny Жыл бұрын
That only happened for a brief part of human history. For the most part humans had multiple monogamous relationships in there life time (we’re quickly trending back to that). Life time monogamy has only been apart of human history for 6-8 generations at most
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546 Жыл бұрын
No, that's not true. Men aren't naturally monogamous. Since the beginning of time the men at the top have had multiple women.
@ted6580
@ted6580 Жыл бұрын
The funny thing is the alpha in these alpha widow stories can’t even compare to himself lol. The girl I alpha widowed the hardest messaged me on Facebook 10 years later after she had gotten married and had a kid. Her profile picture was literally her son. She messaged me multiple times wanting to reminisce before finally asking to meet up. I didn’t have the patience for it so I asked directly if she was trying to smash. She said no so I ended it there. The funny thing is for the few months we dated (we were never even exclusive) most of the time she would run out of my place mad at me over something stupid. Even when she was with me she seemed perpetually unhappy about something. Most of these girls are reminiscing about fantasies that never existed because in reality they can never be happy.
@Anw4rr10r
@Anw4rr10r Жыл бұрын
The sad truth
@thecatswillplay86
@thecatswillplay86 Жыл бұрын
Of course she wanted to smash it's just that women don't want to be made to feel like a HO which is what your question did. She was also always running out of your place because most women love drama over being comfortable/bored. She needed to do that for her own excitement. Women are crazy and you're right they can never be happy.
@Ex-P.F.C_Wintergreen
@Ex-P.F.C_Wintergreen Жыл бұрын
Ding ding ding, this comment is on the money
@sparingpickle4918
@sparingpickle4918 Жыл бұрын
Bruh you can’t be an alpha and screwing up smashing when girls are obvious af about it 😂😂
@troigcyusa
@troigcyusa 2 ай бұрын
Why didn't you inform her husband? Her son and husband deserve to know about her intentions and character. She is literally betraying them
@johnmitchell2269
@johnmitchell2269 Жыл бұрын
Any women watching this might now understand why older guys tend to go for younger women. Younger meaning lower body count, less chance of being mentally damaged, less chance of being a boss babe, less chance of being alpha widowed, less chance of having masucline traits, less chance of being dishonest and so on.
@matthewscott4629
@matthewscott4629 Жыл бұрын
It's actually a combination of the funniest guy ever, the richest guy ever, the toughest guy, the best lover, ad infinitum...you have to compete with all of those best memories...therefore...the more men, the more ghosts against you...good luck guys
@catsncookies5861
@catsncookies5861 Жыл бұрын
this hurts. i am an “alpha widow”, sounds kinda weird to say but it’s true. i’m a homely girl and 2 years ago got dumped by a man miles out of my league. i can’t bring myself to date anyone else because it’s very difficult to accept i peaked in the past. i’ve adopted one cat and plan to adopt more. i’ve lost all hope of marrying a man i am as attracted to as my first. for the record, i don’t drink or party, so don’t think only those types of girls become alpha widows. i think attractive men need to be less selfish about getting their sexual needs met through flings because the end result is sometimes alpha widowship.
@GrymeJr
@GrymeJr Ай бұрын
Guys, I'm sorry to say can fuq down, meaning if hes a 10, he can have sex with a 3 just cause he's horny🤷🏾‍♂️ theres a story that John Cena (google if need be) was having sex with a woman that was almost 300lbs, for him it was just I was horny, but he may have messed her up for every dude she'll try to be with in the future... that they'll never compare to a 10 she had that 1 time
@victorsoto4821
@victorsoto4821 Жыл бұрын
This man always speaks facts, that's why it's always wise if you can get a women that's still hasn't been damaged and hasn't been around that many guys, but good luck with that in this day and age.
@Mojavestalker
@Mojavestalker Жыл бұрын
0 subconscious, she 1000% consciously compares you to her exes
@joeyjojoshabadoo889
@joeyjojoshabadoo889 Жыл бұрын
She's going to recall the guy she bonded with while she still had oxytocin bonding capability.
@user-jd9sj1mq2b
@user-jd9sj1mq2b Жыл бұрын
To expand a little bit on what he said. Yes, you will be compared to that other dude. But not only that, she will resent you for it. She will think that it's your fault that you are not measuring up to Mr Alpha.
@peterthethird7132
@peterthethird7132 Жыл бұрын
Sounds about right
@ligafftheindifferent3495
@ligafftheindifferent3495 Жыл бұрын
I am fully aware of the alpha widow concept and I am sure it is real. However, nobody talks about the alpha widower. I think it never comes up because it is is so rare. Men might have a fling with a great woman that gets away, but instead of comparing all women to her and rejecting them when they fall short, most men just cherish the memory and get on with life. This is a mature reaction to the ebb and flow of life. Alpha widows are entitled little children.
@thorneto2742
@thorneto2742 Жыл бұрын
Best thing I ever did was find a partner early enough that I wouldn’t have to worry about this. We’ve been together since we were 15 so I’ve never had to worry about being compared to some ex. Unfortunately that’s not an option for most people lol
@cedricmiller4370
@cedricmiller4370 Жыл бұрын
man you got lucky you better stay with her for the rest of your life because your right most have had so many partners that no other man can out due the imprints that have been put on them from past partners
@thorneto2742
@thorneto2742 Жыл бұрын
@@cedricmiller4370 I definitely got lucky but I also worked really hard and stayed through some tough times to make this happen. I knew even at that age that my best option was to forge a strong relationship early.
@misternevermiss12
@misternevermiss12 Жыл бұрын
You don’t want to sleep with anyone else?
@thorneto2742
@thorneto2742 Жыл бұрын
@@misternevermiss12 Not at the expense of the bond I have with my wife. Plus never having been with anybody else means I don’t know what I’m missing. Sex with my wife is awesome, I’m completely satisfied and comfortable with her. Also sex is a pretty small part of a relationship, most of my time with her is spent doing chores or just having conversations and I’ve never met a woman I would rather do that with. Maybe that’s cope but we are happy and from what I’ve heard that’s pretty rare.
@misternevermiss12
@misternevermiss12 Жыл бұрын
@@thorneto2742 true. That’s good bro
@KillBodies26
@KillBodies26 Жыл бұрын
This is why I’ve always said, “bro, you were never her first choice” and this is precisely why no matter how great or cool you think your girl is, never put her on a pedestal. Ever.
@89jmills
@89jmills Жыл бұрын
This is 100% facts. Whether people in the comments want to try and justify or not, high body count always comes with emotional baggage. Either it was there before, so they sought validation, or the high body count itself gave the baggage, either way, avoid the high body count.
@xv.luc1d
@xv.luc1d Жыл бұрын
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@joannamonique707
@joannamonique707 Жыл бұрын
It's not really about the sex. It's about the first time she was in love. My homegirls first love was a man who couldn't please her sexually for months. And she STILL talks about him. She will admit their first SEVERAL times were trash. Women are not men. Yall still dont get it. It's about the first time she shared herself with someone who she felt was very special. It's about the intimacy, not the phsyical pleasure.
@chadwellington2524
@chadwellington2524 Жыл бұрын
Lmao you guys r little nerds and virgins studying
@loveoverhate7503
@loveoverhate7503 Жыл бұрын
​@@joannamonique707 your right but so is the other people. More than one point about a subject can be valid.
@Thleta
@Thleta Жыл бұрын
When they already know how make themselves squirt and have had it in every hole there is litttle that excites them anymore. The only thing that does it is violent sex and then it's just rough sex until that gets boring for them. They can't even make love anymore.
@zzospreyzz55
@zzospreyzz55 Жыл бұрын
She twice blew the entire college football team for good luck before a playoff game. That doesn't count though.
@hisato1998
@hisato1998 Жыл бұрын
This is real shit or you just wanna be funny ?
@matthewscott4629
@matthewscott4629 Жыл бұрын
It was just a dare...oh and it wasn't her, it was her alter ego
@antongonist8294
@antongonist8294 Жыл бұрын
​@@matthewscott4629 And she didn't swallow.
@grayghost7216
@grayghost7216 Жыл бұрын
No hymen no diamond.
@AlexBurns5
@AlexBurns5 Жыл бұрын
Goal in life: Be that fucking dude
@giosal2005
@giosal2005 Жыл бұрын
5 or more 100% pair bond damaged. Don’t invest your time energy or happiness on a broken woman. You can fix broken.
@karidust1
@karidust1 Жыл бұрын
I can agree with this 💯 my ex was the best. Smart, talented, strong, funny, and a great lover. Too bad he had an addictive disorder/disease that ruined our marriage. He’s clean and sober now for eight years. We are still friends but no one holds a candle to the guy I loved from the start
@musayibghani3986
@musayibghani3986 Жыл бұрын
Has he recovered?
@karidust1
@karidust1 Жыл бұрын
@@musayibghani3986 yes
@genohero6139
@genohero6139 Жыл бұрын
I do honey. I'm 10 and a half inches and I would. He could not come close to what I could do to you in the bed room. I'm only 5'8. I don't care what his height is but you would have a trembling one if you know what I mean. If you want my number I'll give it to you later. But I need to know your body count for us
@mandyk4988
@mandyk4988 Жыл бұрын
It’s so true there’s always that one guy that you still think about and were secretly heartbroken when you hear down the track that he chose and married someone else
@xmo552
@xmo552 Жыл бұрын
I'm that guy they never forget 😂 It's not a pleasant thing.
@TheDalinkwent
@TheDalinkwent Жыл бұрын
This is most women before they leave college. Dudes are fed up because 90% of the women they date have the same baggage and problems.
@dracon501
@dracon501 Жыл бұрын
Let's go deeper. She will compare you to individual men who displayed to her the highest quantity of any one quality. The gym guy who has a Greek god physique will be who she now goes after in looks even if he was dumb as a box of rocks. She will compare you to the rich guy even if he was old and sickly. This is goes on and on for caring, funny, intelligence, leadership, artistic abilities, selflessness, bedroom performance.... So this leads to the simple math equation that the more men she has been with the greater value she wants in every positive trait. Even if the man had several negative traits used to elevate that positive trait sky high. It becomes impossible for a man she meets to be the strongest, funniest, richest, best dressed, intelligent man in the room. Now no man matches her chimeric ideal of a man.
@againstthestones
@againstthestones Жыл бұрын
What's most funny, the desired traits are often mutually contradicting. For example, she dated a kind and caring guy, and she liked the comfort that he brought. But then she dated an aggressive abuser, and the beatings she gave her turned her on and led to an awesome sex. No she wants both and is not fully satisfied whichever guy you occur to be.
@ponderingponderer3010
@ponderingponderer3010 Жыл бұрын
What about a woman who talks about all her exes to every guy she meets?
@jh1keener
@jh1keener Жыл бұрын
Truth, this is why my wife has never dated anyone but me. Sure the 304 may be hotter looking, but mine is mine and it keeps getting better.
@CrociatoAzzurro
@CrociatoAzzurro Жыл бұрын
From my observation, they will say their number is usually 5. Yeah, right.
@ponderbot34
@ponderbot34 Жыл бұрын
Just be first. Just be tall. Just be handsome. Just be well-endowed. Just be rich. JUsT bE yOuRSeLf bRO
@jonkonchar188
@jonkonchar188 Жыл бұрын
Rollo ‘SAY MY NAME’
@elmatasesues3630
@elmatasesues3630 Жыл бұрын
💯
@favouritede9706
@favouritede9706 Жыл бұрын
You can sense she been around from her behaviour
@brucewayne8322
@brucewayne8322 Жыл бұрын
Happens to guys as well you compare girls to your ex
@zarokovoy
@zarokovoy Жыл бұрын
Well, at certain point you come to understanding that you are not comparing your actual partner to your ex, but rather missing on that feeling of being under the influence of romantic narrative. Basically, you are missing on being stupid(naive)
@flux9433
@flux9433 Жыл бұрын
BATMAN
@AlIegory
@AlIegory Жыл бұрын
I never ask because I don't want to be lied to
@Ex-P.F.C_Wintergreen
@Ex-P.F.C_Wintergreen Жыл бұрын
On average, every girl when I ask what their body count is has said either 8 OR 15. I am of the opinion that a girl will always lie when asked this question and will make up an answer that sounds psychologically good. "Not too high, not too low" sort of thing, or "not too close to 20." I stopped asking the question anyway because they always ask my number straight afterwards and Im embarrassed to say its over 50 now
@paradise9151
@paradise9151 Жыл бұрын
8 is already too high bro tf. 8 people? Imagine 8 separate people with different names, families, looks, hobbies.... jeez..
@ponderbot34
@ponderbot34 Жыл бұрын
Hear that woman moaning in agreement? She's probably thinking about all the studs she's been with
@wildkitty4eva
@wildkitty4eva Жыл бұрын
I will always be truth about my Boyd count, for women who lie about there, ruined for us women who are truthful
@CJ-cz3hv
@CJ-cz3hv Жыл бұрын
As a woman i recommend for girls to find a guy who has a job in their town at the age of like 21 and just stick with him for a while and grow together, find a guy who had a long term relationship before you etc
@kdkdkdbdkddn3
@kdkdkdbdkddn3 Жыл бұрын
Nobody cares about your opinion
@wrnowown
@wrnowown Жыл бұрын
It’s much worst it’s even if she was a one night to a rapper a celeb etc she will be comparing Fam
@jordangill2710
@jordangill2710 Жыл бұрын
They also don’t tend to count things that aren’t full intercourse
@thecatswillplay86
@thecatswillplay86 Жыл бұрын
If that were the case they'd all be in the triple digits.
@nikitaw1982
@nikitaw1982 Жыл бұрын
If shes over 22 shes been around.
@sofiaalvarez8370
@sofiaalvarez8370 Жыл бұрын
I’ve done this until I realised my ex wasn’t as great as I remembered and gif will give me a better replacement
@geeksquad1110
@geeksquad1110 Жыл бұрын
Hit it right on the nail again. Some women do this obsessively.
@osmosisbless
@osmosisbless Жыл бұрын
Can't say I been with an alpha widow but I can certainly admit I have heard these stories before
@xv.luc1d
@xv.luc1d Жыл бұрын
Most dudes are lazy af. So don't be scared of this "imprinting" / "alpha widow" stuff with girls you see in your every day life. You just need to CHOOSE to be the G, and then, unless you try to date a celebrity or a thot, you'll have no issues making her obsess over You instead.
@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS
@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS Жыл бұрын
Facts brother ! Put in the work and stop tripping if she stays or not. We don’t control them, we should practice Buddhism and not be attached to women
@ApolloTheLeader
@ApolloTheLeader Жыл бұрын
Ehhhhh
@jonnybarron1518
@jonnybarron1518 Жыл бұрын
EMPHASIS ON : * unless you choose to date a celebrity or a thot *
@ybuburxyutcertyffyyneyb2680
@ybuburxyutcertyffyyneyb2680 Жыл бұрын
​@@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS its not about controlling them its about not having your girl knocked up by another dude and you take care of his kids. Its not about being attached to women its about not being disrespected and not being used.
@Antares-vj7su
@Antares-vj7su Жыл бұрын
true but in the long run there is always a Chad that she texts time to time. All-fcking-always
@hallio111
@hallio111 Жыл бұрын
answer is simple when somebody asks you this question it is a reason to get out of there. because you simply don'T ask shit like that on a date.
@noinfofoyou2452
@noinfofoyou2452 Жыл бұрын
I worry about how much I impacted my ex, I was mentally ill when we were together and she stayed for three years.
@jinlin8641
@jinlin8641 Жыл бұрын
Idk about that. I always left and never turned back. I look at them now and I don't find them attractive at all. They're good guys, I guess I changed a lot.
@thatonekidinblue
@thatonekidinblue Жыл бұрын
I am that niggah who left her like that 😈
@dboy6579
@dboy6579 Жыл бұрын
Real 😈
@Rmalikk
@Rmalikk Жыл бұрын
What did you do? Nigha
@thomasjefferson6334
@thomasjefferson6334 Жыл бұрын
pos.....
@thomasjefferson6334
@thomasjefferson6334 Жыл бұрын
not cool....
@LavaDude
@LavaDude Жыл бұрын
Oof. That’s why even when they have kids and a husband I still get tagged in dumb ass love songs…..
@bobdole3251
@bobdole3251 Жыл бұрын
😂
@barrelwatch4533
@barrelwatch4533 Жыл бұрын
She was with the TOPG
@joiningjal2145
@joiningjal2145 Жыл бұрын
If a girl is sub 20 body count, you shouldn’t have that big of an issue being “the best guy” she’s ever been with. Once they start getting to 30 plus, there’s a good chance she’s been with a better or just as good guy.
@BurriedTruth
@BurriedTruth Жыл бұрын
Sub 20???? I know women who barely slept with one guy and they got dumped after losing their virginity to them and they are so madly into them years later
@bobdole3251
@bobdole3251 Жыл бұрын
It’s a roll of the die 😢
@steveh5307
@steveh5307 Жыл бұрын
As with anything, the probability increases with each try
@gedoplanet
@gedoplanet Жыл бұрын
It’s a real thing. Very controversial but very real.
@littlewifelora2182
@littlewifelora2182 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely real. My high school boyfriend alfa widowed me though we never slept together. No other guy compared. We reconnected at 25 and got married ♡
@hiramrodriguez4323
@hiramrodriguez4323 Жыл бұрын
Lame.
@TigerWoods707
@TigerWoods707 Жыл бұрын
​@@hiramrodriguez4323 don't be a loser
@hiramrodriguez4323
@hiramrodriguez4323 Жыл бұрын
@@TigerWoods707 I learned it from you.
@ethan.wroblewski
@ethan.wroblewski Жыл бұрын
What would the opposite be called? I’ve had some women that have just blew my mind, and I couldn’t forget about them definitely because of how good it was.
@Gnomesmusher
@Gnomesmusher Жыл бұрын
Pussy whipped? Haha But I get it. I've been with a couple of women that I just can't forget. The Manosphere loves to say that you won't get attached if you have lots of options. While it does help dampen the feelings a bit, we're still human beings with feelings and sometimes there's that one or two people that really made an impression on you.
@lawlessx9
@lawlessx9 Жыл бұрын
She's been imprinted..and its a big reason why men seek women that haven't had many sexual partners.
@grayghost7216
@grayghost7216 Жыл бұрын
I alpha widowed two women in my life. I would hate to be the guy ten years down the road who tries to make it work with either of them. It is going to be a mess for any such men. Far better to be the one who alpha widows her than the one trying to make it work with another man's used up alpha widow.
@sonnenblume8917
@sonnenblume8917 Жыл бұрын
Being proud of something like that is insane
@__-bz7wh
@__-bz7wh Жыл бұрын
Youre exes influence your preferences for both men and women. So if she's mostly or only dated guys who she cries about complains about or calls toxic that's your sign to steer clear.
@flux9433
@flux9433 Жыл бұрын
If she says her ex was abusive, you ask her how long the relationship lasted(how long she was fine with him being abusive) you will understand her better and you don't need to judge ppl just for your ego don't do it i know that ego dopamine its very addictive!
@antoineb9040
@antoineb9040 Жыл бұрын
That's why you need to be a beast in bed, they always come back
@cedricmiller4370
@cedricmiller4370 Жыл бұрын
you got that right because if you don't have dominate blood and know how to work her out like a beast then it's over for you just a matter of time at that point before she bends over for another man
@Daniel-ug4pu
@Daniel-ug4pu Жыл бұрын
Its a shame we have to explain this to wemon after all the civilization of the wrolds we never been confused till now lmafo
@mr.hardtruth8026
@mr.hardtruth8026 Жыл бұрын
Stop asking the number. Enjoy as it lasts, simply build relationships that you can go out of without issues
@dogsandyoga1743
@dogsandyoga1743 Жыл бұрын
These RP guys constantly break down men's self esteem 🤣 First convince a man that he'll never be enough, then you will be able to sell him anything...
@DezTheStar2
@DezTheStar2 Жыл бұрын
Be the guy that leaves in imprint on her.
@enemyofthestatewearein7945
@enemyofthestatewearein7945 Жыл бұрын
Happens to men too.
@zeekthegeek8200
@zeekthegeek8200 Жыл бұрын
Damn that's a good short, think I like it because I'm at almost or better then her exes
@Contentious_Point_
@Contentious_Point_ Жыл бұрын
...I don't think near any girl ever found a man who ticked ALL the boxes by himself, wasn't it more like "she's been with a guy who ticked every box" - one with money, one with game, one who's super fit, etc.?
@tookikawana6146
@tookikawana6146 Жыл бұрын
Yeah there's also a saying for us boys lone wolf or alpha without a pack
@4truths127
@4truths127 Жыл бұрын
Incel fits better
@blueromeo1974
@blueromeo1974 Жыл бұрын
nah, maybe Sigma
@ebadurrahman7848
@ebadurrahman7848 Жыл бұрын
​@@4truths127 incel are the feminist women who can't find or keep a man lol!
@peterthompson5785
@peterthompson5785 Жыл бұрын
This shit is literally astrology for men
@ArmorofValor
@ArmorofValor Жыл бұрын
I realize though I have had a hard life, I have been blessed in many ways. Body count:1
@lyndseyd
@lyndseyd Жыл бұрын
I don't have one of those dudes lol I have yet to meet my alpha I guess 😂
@Bossmanewyche
@Bossmanewyche Жыл бұрын
Is always multiple by 5
@HaveASenseOfMorals
@HaveASenseOfMorals Жыл бұрын
Sounds like Jessica Hyde
@bloodprince113
@bloodprince113 Жыл бұрын
The universal number women give is 3 lol
@SmooveTV718
@SmooveTV718 Жыл бұрын
7*
@myronsforeheadvain
@myronsforeheadvain Жыл бұрын
Facts
@abemartinez9623
@abemartinez9623 Жыл бұрын
I never ask the number . Bc I know I’ll get pissed lmao. But yeah I do research on the men she was with that’ll tell u what u wanna know
@caezium.133
@caezium.133 Жыл бұрын
Men do this as well, I assure you!
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, beta males.
@maximusachilles2416
@maximusachilles2416 Жыл бұрын
No
@NORMZS8
@NORMZS8 Жыл бұрын
I also want to know do guys do this thing
@christiel4302
@christiel4302 Жыл бұрын
Lol Idk why guys always have this idea about women - that we’re always comparing them to some man from our past 😆 Just because that’s what you experienced, Stirling, it doesn’t mean it’s true for all women. Not every woman has had sex with multiple men. Maybe it’s just me and the majority of my friends, but there’s no “best guy I’ve ever been with that checked off all the boxes.” 😆 There is a reason we’re not with someone anymore. Personally I’ve only had one real relationship (I was a virgin before I met him) and I ended it and he’s not some monster but he’s definitely NOT the “ideal man” for me - we just weren’t meant to be.
@flux9433
@flux9433 Жыл бұрын
probably its just you i wouldn't know for sure if what you saying is true, you the one who knows like i said it might be true however speaking for my self I've been in long term relationship where at the end of our relationship she started mentioning her ex alot afterwards when i recall memories i have seen it happening way before but i was blinded somehow or just not paying attention enough to some of the details she presented however thats life no need to blame nobody once you get over it and you just have to be smart to don't trap yourself again!
@the3dotsguy...610
@the3dotsguy...610 Жыл бұрын
Shit im an alfa widow but the male version of that then :D
@ricardoalves2804
@ricardoalves2804 Жыл бұрын
Men do this too.
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546 Жыл бұрын
Beta males do.
@trigcat3107
@trigcat3107 Жыл бұрын
That's simps
@truetvlee
@truetvlee Жыл бұрын
It's really quite fun breaking thier hearts and knowing they will never be happy again 😂with anyone else 😂😂 its choice. They where never gonna be anygood for anyone anyways
@NORMZS8
@NORMZS8 Жыл бұрын
In last interview he just said women are the first ones to get over the break up because of jeans and now he’s saying the opposite
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546
@societyisscaredofmasculine8546 Жыл бұрын
The break up with every guy except this one guy. The main alpha. Women get over average men very easily..
@mslele2113
@mslele2113 Жыл бұрын
Men are really stressing over women loollllllllll
@albertodeulofeu5277
@albertodeulofeu5277 Жыл бұрын
I’m a guy. And I’ve been alpha widowed lmfaooo more like “favorite girl widowed” but whatever
@ebadurrahman7848
@ebadurrahman7848 Жыл бұрын
brother move on. she is nothing. she doesn't care for you why should you? how about you do something for you? hit the gym, you could do some deep research about religions. do something for the world. overall focus on yourself.
@albertodeulofeu5277
@albertodeulofeu5277 Жыл бұрын
@@ebadurrahman7848 Na it’s been like… 4 years. It was a long time ago. I’ve dated a ton of chicks since. But that’s the one that I still compare shit to.
@KAOA5488
@KAOA5488 Жыл бұрын
Now for the streets...recreational use only folks
@missjammehvishishdoll5907
@missjammehvishishdoll5907 Жыл бұрын
😶
@lopez0785
@lopez0785 Жыл бұрын
That dude is me🤣🤣🤣🤣 and I'm happy about it ☺️
@kdkdkdbdkddn3
@kdkdkdbdkddn3 Жыл бұрын
Damn, you've been cucked?
@sojourndrummond2764
@sojourndrummond2764 Жыл бұрын
I've never had sex
@Levi_LS
@Levi_LS Жыл бұрын
if its over one she aint the one
@ericpowell4350
@ericpowell4350 Жыл бұрын
Scary
@CanadianCorydorasCatfish
@CanadianCorydorasCatfish Жыл бұрын
37 lolol
@christoffer3719
@christoffer3719 Жыл бұрын
Be alpha yourself ol
@joannamonique707
@joannamonique707 Жыл бұрын
They said it was about the number. They also said it wasn't about insecurity. Now he's saying it's not really about the number it's about the tyoe of guys. And it def sounds like it's about the man fearing he can't measure up to the other dude. It's almost as if yall dont know what insecure means. Men are denied so much empathy and compassion in everyday life that they put all of their hope for love onto the woman they're with. She becomes his only source of affection and when she's gone their entire fucking world falls apart. Now that I'm starting to understand how hard the world is for men I can understand this, but this is not healthy and somehow as a society we need to change this. People always get caught up in lust and euphoria and call it live and 9ts usually over in 6 months. We need to give men more options for live and affection outside of relationships with women because no one woman can carry that much weight and we find it exhausting that were expected to. I also think this is part of the reason women go for men who aren't so interested. Because the pressure to be his EVERYTHING isn't nearly as strong. Women be hating that shit for real.
@flux9433
@flux9433 Жыл бұрын
Once in awhile i find this type of videos sometime they can be very educational about relationships but sometimes they are really about gender oppression and i hate it maybe its just me viewing it like this but the things he said about the subject are the same that happened to me and am glad i took all my time to get over it as you mentioned in your comment some man find it hard after beark ups but sometimes they are needed so for us to grow sadly but true!
@user-pt6ug5ug3m
@user-pt6ug5ug3m Жыл бұрын
What is this obsession with women? This is the same with men.
@yanajohnson5776
@yanajohnson5776 Жыл бұрын
What if none of that is true...but only the story in his head.. what I'm noone ever rejected her and she never found " the one"...what if she never had drunk nights and in fact doesn't drink?? What a load of BS
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