Stop Being INVISIBLE (How To STAND OUT As A Man)

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0:00 - Stop Being INVISIBLE (How To STAND OUT As A Man)
1:10 - Be self aware
3:14 - Be a man of honor
4:12 - Be committed
5:24 - Develop courage
7:03 - Practical tip #1
10:48 - Practical tips #2 & 3
12:11 - Practical tip #4
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@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

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@SmokeRingsPipeDreams 11 ай бұрын

I'm personally offended that you just assume that I'm not a fish. ;)

@ceeze9923 11 ай бұрын

The man that ages backwards.

@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121 11 ай бұрын

I once attended an event wearing what I think of as my best looking non-formal outfit. Dark denim, brown chelsea boots, black turtleneck and grey sport jacket with white pocket square. Someone there said I was looking like GQ. I was easily the best dressed person there. It felt pretty awesome 😅

@renaldograyson9233 11 ай бұрын

Amen brother.

@timsmith8506 5 ай бұрын

I went to see Kenny G live with a similar look except suit pants instead of denim. There were a handful of people dressed similarly, but we stood out against so many in tee shirts!

@Youtuber-ly6tx 11 ай бұрын

So much value in this video that I needed to see right now in my life. I was in a bicycle accident last week and can't exercise for about a month. Makes me really appreciate a normal life and the OPPORTUNITY that most men have to exercise! Don't waste the opportunity everyday to exercise! Push-ups are FAST! Less than a minute and you're done for the day! I went from 10 to 50 in 3 months! Time goes by quickly! Take charge of yourself! I really do need to measure my values and goals again...I've actually completely pivoted what I'm doing...

@rse1113 11 ай бұрын

Well said. Hope your recovery goes well and you’re back at it in no time.

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Love this! Solid point.

@acornsucks2111 11 ай бұрын

You got it going on. get well soon.

@artb.2260 9 ай бұрын

Love the quote, " Make one day, day 1." 👍

@aaronarguelles8322 11 ай бұрын

Honor is a man’s gift to himself!! Love it

@alwayspooh1588 11 ай бұрын

Great video! A man who knows himself and has a value hierarchy with himself at the top can change the world and do anything! Having a value hierarchy is fundamental

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Agreed! Solid comment here.

@georgelush1998 11 ай бұрын

“Instead of one day, it’s Day One.” I’m gonna use that.

@chrisblanc663 11 ай бұрын

I like the idea of starting micro-conversations with strangers. I’m gonna try that next time I’m in line or something.

@tunebeat3809 11 ай бұрын

Just interact with people that you can trust.

@naytrain_actual 11 ай бұрын

Something my high school principal told my class that's actually stuck with me throughout the years is, "All you have to do is give 1% a day to something. Before you know it, 100 days go by and you've given 100% to that thing. Now imagine if you did 2% a day." It's really helped me with incremental motivation and staying consistent with myself.

@Theo-ul8qm 6 ай бұрын

I take it the principal wasn't a math teacher 😅

@bohba13 11 ай бұрын

That lack of self-awareness is a problem that effects more being invisible. It can make one vulnerable to persuasion and thus manipulation. If you do not have or know your own values, others can make your values their values. As someone who is AuDHD*, I have an innate social disadvantage, and made the assesment that trying to make others like me and masking more than I have to would be unhealthy. I ended up becoming sonewhat popular because I was honest both to myself and to those around me. *ADHD Autism comirbidity. Both have innate social disadvantages.

@1970HondaCL100 11 ай бұрын

This was one of your very best videos to date.

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I appreciate you watching this.

@manoftomorrow5987 11 ай бұрын

That chicken and bacon analogy was funny as hell though 😂

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Hahaha!

@vickomen3697 11 ай бұрын

Ever since I discovered your channel, I have never been dissapointed. This one just touched me. I realized I need to actually go for what I want, what my passion is and my dreams. Thanks a lot Sir.

@hudsonkrupa4204 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for the advice guys love your stuff!

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

@RajGheevarghese 11 ай бұрын

Loved your description of commitment Antonio. Good stuff.

@markg.4246 11 ай бұрын

"What are your values"? Bingo! That is a great starting point, and can construct a solid foundation for who we are. Integrity is a product of not wavering when it comes to basic decency and kindness towards others. One other trait or skill that will help us stand out, is being aware of our speech patterns, which I believe are greatly overlooked. I am retired now from the commercial aviation business, but the corporate world in general is sickeningly overloaded with cliche"s, acronyms, and disingenuous nonsense. Some of my least favorite are,..."Reaching out, on point, going forward, deep dive, having your back, and game changer. Most people (employees) can see right through that. By expanding our vocabulary, we can avoid sounding like "everybody else". Here's an example, "Oftentimes" is just not a good word. Instead, I say "Very often", or "Frequently", or "Routinely", or "In many cases". As always, best wishes Antonio!...Mark

@Antzus81 11 ай бұрын

Well said. It's all too easy to come across as a soul-less bimbo if you're all look, no grace in communication. I find that going back to the classics - classic literature - is a great way to "get real" again on my communication. Stepping back from industry clichés and reconnecting with beautiful and interesting literature. I'm sure it nourishes my brain more than the feeds from content creators or the latest non-fiction best-sellers

@robertcervantes9649 9 ай бұрын

Excellent, timely video Antonio! Nice brown sport coat

@JDGERSHBEIN 11 ай бұрын

Terrific vid, Antonio. Self-awareness is at the forefront of any conversation about standing out (see what I did there?) and the key driver of style. From there, you provided a comprehensive and sweeping overview of how to court individuality -- not an easy thing to do. Well played!

@jayedwards7768 11 ай бұрын

Happy to see this video wasn't about 'standing out' by wearing unusual clothing or accessories but rather by cultivating substantive personal characteristics. Unfortunately, you pushed your necklace video at the end but overall this video has value. I

@CowboyCourier 11 ай бұрын

On matters of fashion, swim with the current. On matters of principle, stand like a stone. - Thomas Jefferson

@chrialivest 11 ай бұрын

Great video. I really appreciate the content. 🙏

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@davidrupprecht2339 11 ай бұрын

Really good definitions of honor and courage, two of the most important characteristics of a man.

@adamg393 11 ай бұрын

Excellent advice

@imralav 11 ай бұрын

Huge emphasis on gym being first thing in the morning. I can clearly tell how my approach to life, how my day goes, is different, much better, when I start the day with a gym session. No need to have a full fledged workout either. If you don't feel like it just be there, do a few sets, you might accidentaly get a pump, and when you repeat that enough times, you might get your gains.

@moemanm1202 11 ай бұрын

this was a really good video. very inspirational with alot of good tips

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@johnyoung1630 11 ай бұрын

Excellent suggestion to put in the reps when it comes to conversation. I would addd that in puritanical societies (like the US) where cold starts to conversation are frowned upon, rejection--even from the 65+ year old woman, man, whoever--is something that a man had better get comfortable with. For every four puritans, a man will have a solid conversation with one. Love the channel, keep up the great content!

@fmfdocfmf 10 ай бұрын

Know yourself and seek self improvement. Honor, Courage, Commitment. PT. Uniform appearance. Set the example. 🫡

@kletts42 11 ай бұрын

Well said and too right! Courage and honor are great qualities in men. (For the record, I did 4.5 miles this morning before I started work) (Also, you mentioned the necklace video, but I saw the link to the shoes video. It's a good video, just not about necklaces. :) )

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

The necklace video is there now.

@Pizzatime42008 5 ай бұрын

I was asked some advice once and I caught myself wanting to say just be yourself. Instead I stopped myself and asked I asked him “who are you? Figure out who you are first. And then be that person. Live life. Make mistakes, learn from them, make more mistakes learning from those mistakes.”

@ericsonhazeltine5064 11 ай бұрын

The nail that stands out is the one that gets hammered down.

@MogMan763 3 ай бұрын

That is if you stand out in a bad way.

@bobhill4582 11 ай бұрын

That was slick Antonio, slipping in unless you are in the room 😊 Awesome shirt!

@justaddlight 11 ай бұрын

Yes indeed, gourmands layer exceptionally well with coffee fragrances. 😉☕ Interesting tip: Match the scent with the colours in your outfit! There's a video idea!

@traylandhart9612 11 ай бұрын

Holy cow, this is a good video... had great style advice, life advice, man advice. Looking into the depth in his eyes while he talks is entrancing (no homo). He really cares about mens fashion and helping viewers.

@bsh1967 11 ай бұрын

Not going all Curly Fragrance 😂

@durandus676 9 ай бұрын

11:20 I’ve gotten interviewers to talk for an hour straight in a 20 minute interview. I didn’t catch the time because I was so interested.

@user-ic1mx4hj5d 11 ай бұрын

4:23 - The Pig is not committed. He is killed and consumed. That is actually what commitment means.

@pedropaccollazo2039 11 ай бұрын

Great recommendation on The movie"Rob Roy." Excellent feel good movie.

@christianchauhan23 11 ай бұрын

❤🤍💙 all your videos mate👍

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Appreciate it, mate!

@thashepard210 11 ай бұрын

I don’t know if this happened to anyone else but when you point at the video talking about necklaces, the video that was showing for me was your shoe collection video 😂. So you may need to go back in and change it to the necklace video you did a couple weeks ago.

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Yes - fixed it!

@Joe-xj2tb 11 ай бұрын

I used to try to be invisible yet somehow i was always in the spotlight- So i started dressing to be the spotlight!!!!

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Awesome!

@krissk77 11 ай бұрын

wow ,,, that shirt is nice, hmmmm , i like that shirt -parsley prints.. the colour is nice too..

@jonathanwhistler9081 11 ай бұрын

I was wondering where you got that shirt? I am currently trying to expand my wardrobe outside of solid colors.

@williamvanutrecht2684 11 ай бұрын

I love your page and I even started following some of your suggestions but I'm having a problem with one of the affiliates you suggested Bruno marc I recently bought a pair of boots from them I loved the look so I went for it. When I got the shoe they were a full size too big Im in the process of sending them back now there saying they won't refund do to size which is not something they explained on their site. I'm hoping they make it right so I can come back and tell everyone that this is a company worth dealing with.

@SlimDavenport 11 ай бұрын

What jacket you wearing Antonio?

@kerryhowarth4195 11 ай бұрын

Antonio have done a session on the best way to roll up long sleeves, if that's even a thing that should be done? I wear long sleeve shirts to work, inside, every day even in the summertime, but sometimes roll them up....i've seen guys roll them so they're like 3/4 sleeves, and have seen them be rolled up above the elbows....is there a right way to do it for inside work, outdoor work, etc? Thanks!

@stephanazor8898 11 ай бұрын

Honor Courage Commitment. Why does that sound so Familiar 🤔

@Joe-xj2tb 11 ай бұрын

I been there its beautiful

@renemontenegro6143 11 ай бұрын

HEY ANTONIÓ

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

@farhadbatur5203 11 ай бұрын

Stole your haircut today. Lookin' sharp!

@user-nq2zg2jo8y 11 ай бұрын

DEAR ANTONIO I LOVE YOU.

@davedove67 11 ай бұрын

If honor is acting in alignment with one's principles, it would follow that without principles, one cannot have honor.

@Matthew-xe1kf 11 ай бұрын

Pretty much the Navy, Code of Ethos

@thecasualfront7432 7 ай бұрын

7:30 lmao what is that guy doing?

@kHRIStu4 11 ай бұрын

How does this work for the “gray man” “CIA” operative or undercover agent? 😉 joking aside, dressing well and being clean at the right time will always gain respect!

@johnsinclair2672 11 ай бұрын

Best dressed doesn’t wear a sweater beneath a formal jacket or suit jacket at a formal meeting.

@Gunslinger_Disciple 11 ай бұрын

I dress nice, pearl snap button up western shirts and tuck in, unlike many today. Iron my Wranglers and all...and still invisible whwn i di go out.

@mustafakocaman2233 11 ай бұрын

you are talking about american life style.. if all your youtube members from usa you are right.. many countries have many different rules and life styles..

@edgarjacc796 11 ай бұрын

Well he is American.

@Theo-ul8qm 6 ай бұрын

I'm going to leave this video playing in front of my aquarium, just to bring up the number of fish viewers 🌚

@sebastiaanstok 10 ай бұрын

Spoiler, that machine in the back of the gym that k*lled two or three people? Its a chair.

@TradingTheta89 11 ай бұрын

Unfortunately none of this matters when you're short. You won't be noticed regardless of what you do. The "short" guy standing next to you is still inches taller. There's clearly no value in a guy who has values, takes care of himself, but happens to be short for no fault of his own. Gym has been a life long thing for me and literally has ZERO affect on what women think of you.

@andresz6714 11 ай бұрын

Have you tried being the best dressed man? How tall are you?

@BlaineDEEJEE1 11 ай бұрын

I’m very short. But the way I carry myself (67), I stand 6’. (5’4”). It’s really weird. I like having integrity too.

@TradingTheta89 11 ай бұрын

@andresz6714 I love wearing my suit. I have custom fit shirts and pants as well. I always look good stepping out of the house. I'm 5'5, 140ish lbs, 34 yo. Drive a brand new truck, take care of my appearance, I work on being present and interesting. It's constant rejection though if I approach a woman. I don't even get nervous, they just don't look at me and create a story. But it is what it is. Some people win, others don't

@Squish_that_cat 11 ай бұрын

Carry a gun with you wherever you go No one will ever ignore you after that

@SpamMouse 11 ай бұрын

.38 or 50 cal? Depends on the hood?

@MogMan763 3 ай бұрын

Or just be respectful to people, and dont go this scetchy areas😂

@Squish_that_cat 3 ай бұрын

@@SpamMouse I prefer a middle path 0.32 pistol

@meganotofthisworld 11 ай бұрын

But I WANT to be invisible!

@roshanranjan8701 11 ай бұрын

Can u do a video abt rules of a classy sophiscated lady and man. And also essentials needed for a man at home.

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

Absolutely! Added this to a list.

@lelandgrubson2736 11 ай бұрын

"Yes" - you know who

@James222SD 11 ай бұрын

Do not look to the world for approval seek Christ for the world will disappoint you. You either serve the world or serve God and trust in his word when he says. Romans 12:2 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will.

@Sourcream23 11 ай бұрын

You linked the wrong video brother

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

It's there. 😁

@PALIKERO-SD43 11 ай бұрын

I like to be invisible

@RealMenRealStyle 11 ай бұрын

It all comes down to one's preference!

@NigelHyphenJones 11 ай бұрын

The guy in the thumbnail….. wearing a red jacket will get you noticed….. not always for the right reasons 🤔

@bobbobbington3615 2 ай бұрын

Never try to stand out. Women try to stand out.

@acornsucks2111 11 ай бұрын

You weren't starving.

@Bredddi 11 ай бұрын

Be a sigma. That is the main way. Don’t EVER chase women. Define your style using old money clothing and walk with confidence. Class dismissed.

@cityhawk 11 ай бұрын

To add, have respect for others, but don't put them on a pedestal.

@user-ki2tg3qf4j 6 ай бұрын

Nobody is invisible because Christ sees everyone and cares for everyone

@awalton9024 11 ай бұрын

Be yourself is the worst advice ever. You aren't special and neither am I, and lets face it a lot of us kind of suck. Be the best you can be even if you have to fake it sometimes.