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No 1. Making a Top Ten Video without Timestamps. God Bless you KEith!

Good man.

Good for you! Not everyone needs or wants the same things!

What kind of work did you take up? If you don’t mind me asking, that is. I’m 31 and single and still been trying to figure out my future for work and just trying to gain perspectives from different people.

How I see it is that, the biggest mistake someone can make is thinking that having a wife and child will make your life happier. You should NEVER have a wife and kid because they are a necessity towards your happiness, no. That co dependency. You should only have a wife and child to ENRICHEN your life, make it better. Not be the sole purpose of having a family.

At this point, I recommend most people become passport bros.

You are doing the right thing. However this youtuber is wrong. He is preaching soft control which turns you into a weak man in the end incapable of pursuing the right woman once you and her come across each other. This mentality he is preaching is reason why here in Japan birthrates are abysmal and women are sharing "dark horses" with each other, because men here have become weak by following this exact path the the video dude believes.

It's not an African proverb, and the sex or gender is not specified. “If the fires that innately burn inside youths are not intentionally and lovingly added to the hearth of community, they will burn down the structures of culture, just to feel the warmth." - Poet Michael Meade ( Men and the Water of Life, 1993)

I like the proverbial version better

Pfft. I know some women who would do the same thing. 👸🏻 😂🙃😘

@@ArtandGoblins Just because some poet expressed the same sentiment doesn’t make them the original author of it. For all you know it’s much older, and he just rewrote it to make it sound more poetic.

There's a whole criminal Justice system waiting for people who will burn down the village and a lot of people are making tons of money working in that criminal justice system

I am 53 and I am at this stage you are in life 👌🏿👌🏿🤲🏿

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I agree with all of that except having a partner. I'm staying single.

Find Jesus Christ and your life will change for the better

​@@philobailey5627 and live by His moral law.

Love this

The more you give, the more you receive.

@@mullcrumthesage6303 explain this one. If I have $10 and I give away five dollars. Now I have five dollars less than I started with. How do I get more from that?

@@Stovetopcookie You give the $5.00 (amount is irrelevant) to some bloke down on his luck..said bloke sees you one day and remembers what you did for him. He gives you $20 or more and maybe even buys you dinner. That's one way. This is a simplistic answer to your question. I do not have the time to share with you the innermost secrets of this LAW. You shall have to discover that for yourself. Good luck.

Well said.

65 WF so same - very enjoyable presentation and excellent points to apply to my own life!! Thank you! subbed❤

He talks about chasing pu-y over purpose. This applies to you?

Ha!! You're kidding. You have it easy!!

​@iamwhoiam7887 you don't know her! How can you say anyone you don't know has it easy. EVERYONE had struggles you know nothing about.

@@tomfagan7053 LOL sit down s i m p

That's not a double edged sword, those are two extremes. A double edged sword is something that's a benefit and a liability.

@@bigballz4u lol, fine. But the point is still valid: taking money too seriously (fixating on it, etc.) can cause problems just like not taking it seriously enough can.

@@johnalexir7634Well said

I think if you take money too seriously you’ll have about 95 percent less financial problems than someone that doesn’t care at all about money.

@@bigballz4uA double edged sword - something that has both good and bad consequences. So taking money too seriously, the good-you've got a lot of money, the bad-it comes at a cost to your relationships and your health.

You rock my man! Wishing you the best in 2024! 😎

Try mediation. Your disability might actually be an ability.

Youre a rockstar for striving to be a great man. Keep it up. I believe in you and im rooting for you!!!

Everyone just takes

@@richkid5307 exactly! especially ho3s

Something that helped me was finding men’s groups that share my values. They respect my vision and goals, and they support my journey and celebrate my wins. It’s really game changing when you have this.

​@@BchristensenYea even myself as a young man is that all the friends that ihave dont challenge me and i cant learn something valuable from them. So these past few days i feel like as am growing ineed people who can uplift me also.

Birds of a feather flock together. We are most aligned with people who are similar to ourselves. Comparison and challenge is the thief of joy. 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters Safe People by Henry Cloud Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin

Amen to both these call outs brother. I've been running a mens group for a little over a year and these two issues are constantly comming up. Otherwise great video!

Ho BRAVE t be so vulnerable to be so REAL. Wishing you well on your healing journey--check out PATRICK TEAHAN online. Some great talks about healing family dynamics, sobriety etc

I’m 50, used to teach in an international school and quit booze a few months ago. How’s your sobriety going?

POP is my new slogan. Purpose over P.....

@@JuliusTurner-hm6ffwhat?

Dont blame me for who i am The duality of man is something i have yet to understand

I had to take a screenshot of this. Thanks! 😊

Love this

God insights & observatons that need to be made more often.

I disagree. I see way to many impulsive man-children running around.

I surmise you're intelligent and probably think a lot. Here's something to ponder. Nobody can truly reject you until they know you deeply. I'm betting what you're afraid of may not be rejection, but the letdown of the romantic idealism you're building up in your head, no? Let them show you what they are first and decide if you want to love that. ❤️

@@TheBigdog868 I agree

That’s awesome but stay away from young girls… you had your chance don’t going around ruining them… That’s why the world and relationships between men and women jack up now….

Stay away from the dating sites. Toxic as hell even to good looking guys.

Read "Men Are From Mars, Women are From Venus". This year will make 27 years of marriage and I absolutely love it.

I’m 70 thinking it’s too late, yet isn’t is?

May I ask, how is the impulse control related to your marriage being a challenge? I’m here to learn! I appreciate it if you’re able to share your insights.

That is a big one. I'm 28 and I have fucked my finances bad. Now things are better, but it took a lot of hard work when I could have been building instead...

​@@geo865833 don't be so hard on yourself - some lessons just have to be learnt through experience. In my twenties I learnt the hard way to avoid bad debt and be very careful with so-called "good debt" (banks are skilled at seducing people into borrowing more than is necessary or wise).

Im 34 and fucked up my finances bad.. youll be good brother. I traveled from 20-28 then built. Now, its much more difficult. Build a network and maintain a good attitude with those people. ​@geo865833

As a man that follows this type of content a lot, I agree wholeheartedly and it’s scary how easy it is to fall into a rabbit hole of that more hateful content

It's easy to learn to hate women from the internet when we were really on looking for advice on how to love them more.

To destroy society, destroy the family. To destroy the family, destroy marriage. To destroy marriage, destroy chastity. To destroy chastity, promote & reward promiscuity while demoting & punishing monogamy. Politics is downstream from culture. Whoever controls the past controls the future. Whoever controls the present controls the past. Whoever controls the politic controls the present. Whoever controls the culture controls the politic (politics=downstream from culture) Whoever controls the p*ssy controls the culture. Blue Pill- The belief that both genders, possessing equal natures, will on average possess equal proclivities to be moral & responsible given equal qualities & quantities of invested nurture. Red Pill- The awareness that men & women, having different natures, will on average possess different proclivities to be moral & responsible given equal qualities & quantities of invested nurture, & how this effects societies, micro & macro. Masculine republics give way to feminine democracies, and feminine democracies give way to tyranny. -Aristotle The micro cycle(80 years): Hard times create strong men Strong men create good times Good times create baby boomers Baby boomers create hard times... The macro cycle(800-1200 years): Hard times create patriarchy(where rights are dependent on responsibilities, since men usually take more responsibilities than women this system is described as patriarchy) Patriarchy creates good times Good times creates feminism(equal rights independent of responsibilities) Feminism burns everything down, creating hard times... To Adam God said, "Because YOU LISTENED TO YOUR WIFE & ate from the tree about which I commanded you not to: Cursed is the ground because of you, through painful toil you will eat of it, all the days of your life." -Genesis 3:17 Man's hiearchy of needs: 1 Safety 2 Food & Water 3 Shelter & Sleep 4 Social & Sexual needs 5 Communal & self esteem needs 6 Self Actualization In every category of need in men's need hierarchy, the average women's needs are met better in society, yet every election women vote to take more from men and give more to themselves?! Women's hiearchy of needs: 1 Equality of Opportunity 2 Equality of Outcome 3 Equality of Authority 4 Equal Authority with no Responsibility 5 All the Authority with no Responsibility for the women, with all the Responsibilities & no Authority for the man or men(especially sexual Responsibilities & Authorities). A tyrant has 100% authority with 0% responsibility. A slave has 100% responsibility with 0% authority. Today marriage, as redefined by the female democratic majority and family court system, makes the man a slave to a tyrant wife, who can divorce him at will, stealing his children, his wealth, and his human dignity. All womens natural unregulated desire is to have sex with high status bad bad boys & get innocent men to pay for the responsibility consequences(abortions, kids ect.). That's why women, no matter how meritocratic, should never vote. Women want equal rights authority to make all the decisions in their own life when the bad boy sexual opportunity is there. Its when accountability & responsibility slowly begin to fall on them that women want to shift responsibility back over to innocent men. This process of forcing innocent men to pay for the bad sexual choices of most women & and a few extraordinary men is the foundation of left wing politics. Women want to sit at the poker table of the socio-sexual market place & make bets & authorize promises in the hundreds of thousands in reproductive costs when they can only actually back up a few pennies worth of responsibility. If women CAN'T take responsibility for a authorization, then they CAN'T have equal authority/rights as the guy who can. Show me a man who takes by force what he wants from women and I'll show you 100 women who vote to take by force what they want from men. Show me a grave created by patriarchy and Ill show you an entire graveyard created by feminism/communism. "Any society that negates the role of the father in the voluntarily marriage contract from decent civilization building men and replaces it with a involuntary centralized welfare state will not remain civilized for long."

You are watching the wrong channels. There are plenty of decent people on here. But also, Making money? Absolutely vital....to men. Women, also need to seriously up your game. You can sex up, but cant keep men, MEN around.

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Glad to hear. Thanks for tuning in

Glad to hear. Ya that one was a big one for me

Agree, I have been watching some material from Crappy Childhood Fairy, and I also found connections with the video here. I think the impulse control that he talks about is how to develop one's emotional intelligence.

Carppy Childhood Fairy is really good! Another wonderful online therapist is PATRICK TEAHAN: he shares his own struggles and what he did to heal as well as insightful analysis, journal prompts for change. Just really good!

There are hundreds of thousands of night security jobs where you can sit at a desk, look at your phone, talk to nobody, and make money. Just because you can't hustle doesn't mean you can't work and neither does having limits. The entire damn world is being slowed and dumbed down to help people who can't keep up and you still claim you can't work. Coming from a similar background as you and not working full time until 29, I'm not buying the idea you can't work.

How true, my marriage would be on a better path if my husband actually thought about what he says to me. So many hurtful words, breaking me down bit by bit. Then he recounts and tries to say this doesnt matter.

Wow, truly a gem of a comment.

I can seriously relate. Sometimes something will shock it deeply sadden me and I laugh hysterically. I'm not being frivolous or joking. I honestly don't know why this happens.😮

THIS. has kicked me in the a$$ more times than I care to admit. Social media use is an invitation to waste one's time and possibly give someone ammo to try and wreck your life over something you did or said whether it's deserved or not.

You're off by about 60 years. The feminist movement started in the 1960s. It was originally called "womens lib." Perhaps it had come to full realization 10 years ago.

No wonder y’all keep breaking y’all’s loneliness statistics every month

@@lacijohnson400 you misspelled happiness.

@@lacijohnson400 women have the higher rates of medication, unhappiness, and depression.

@@johngalt6838 these are recorded because women express and seek help for these conditions, men instead just unalive themselves ☹️

@@lacijohnson400 not...the suicide rates for either are extremely low. They don't match the medication and depression rates of women.

Get brave and start educating yourself about money. Avoid the folks who tell you they can help you get rich quick or show you how to game the system. Managing (or preferably avoiding) debt and budgeting for emergencies and the future are the important things to learn. Learn about bad debt vs "good debt" and understand that good debt can still get you into big trouble and take care no matter how much cash the bank wants to stuff into your pockets in order to buy your future earnings.

Thanks! I've got a budget now and am working towards something. The car I've been wanting to buy (and don't need) can wait.

Once a month, sit down for a few hours and manage your finances. When you get it together you'll actually enjoy managing your finances.

@@zenwarrior3603Thanks for that advice, I've started with trying to notice where I'm leaking money - whether it's interest payments that I don't need to make or a way to better offset taxes by saving a little bit more.

Outstanding, glad to hear. Thanks for the sub and let me know what other videos / topics you want me to dive into.

Keep searching Sean, it sure as hell ain't easy but I hope you'll find some purpose soon 🙏

@@TGGWarehousethank you I appreciate that

it sounds like you internalise rejection, that sounds awful and demoralising

Start with a prayer and then hit the gym. It will teach you how to break the egg shell cause of minute conversations, then it will transcend to discipline and consistency. If you are able to have physical pain the brain reciprocates with mental strength. Gain new beneficial habits even if they suck, it’s just for a short time . Carve it into you and watch your circle. Grind it out alone till you find good friends. Lastly end with a prayer and bible indicators about anything that is challenging during your journey . Chase it and have a prosperous new year .

​@@galaxygamer247 what are your interests? Is there no purpose there? Rejection is difficult but try to build a mindset that it's their loss more than yours. Avoid the idea that a person or a job is the one and only - become the chooser, not the one hoping to be chosen.

I would recommend Dr. Phil, Self Matters. I hear Life Code by him is also good. Any other book for adult children of alcoholics, if that applies in your case.

12 Rules for life.

@@Deific1 A few solid ideas, but overall so hostile and political. Complains that “liberals are turning boys into girlies with their namby-pamby ways”. Sexist homophobe. Only for people who like Trump and deSantis and who think science is a socialist conspiracy to take over the world. A pretty twisted hard right misinterpretation of Christianity may be the worst of Peterson’s problems.

@@Deific1 Peterson is very angry and political.

Read No More Mr Nice Guy. It gets better, much better. Divorce process sucks. Peace.

My formula is to imagine 3 bubbles around me. The fartherest one is the circle of respect. Seeing and being seen with respect. After observation for awhile they can come into the circle of trust. After that the inner circle is called the love.

Every human being is the mirror of the 5 closets people to them.. Facts.

Naw.

cool story bra, almost like someone said the same thing like 1000 times over but you, you are an original thinker... way to go outside your comfort zone there, really pushing the limits.. people are such pussies these days..jfc.

@@kennedyhair8434 Howling , can stell you are Scottish

Stop making stories up

@@ZelenoJabko the truth either hurts or it will set you free

Your comment is right on. I’ve been the poster child of lifestyle creep. I have things I never could have imagined 20 years ago but life seems tougher. If I could lose one or two bills I’d be rich .

...let the man talk. Because nothing you said here improved on his video in any way.

@kermusic If you prefer long-windedness. For the rest of us who prefer concise speech, Much improved

TikTok brain

​@@raulsanches3619simplified version: men need to be like, really good Don't waste your time reading a lot watching anything but my comment, fellas

@@RynoGotIt It's called: not having time to waste.

As for your first statement: I don't think you're actually meant to do all this in one day, just maintain things one day at a time. Divide the tasks you need to complete into daily chunks and it's a lot easier to think about AND get done at the same time. Life has definitely changed the name of the game. You don't necessarily need close friends to survive in a survival sense, but socially speaking, it is very helpful. People have given me job offers just because they liked me and my friendliness while working at my current job, and while I sometimes turn them down on it, I still like to build the connection so the door is always open. The last part is a little harder to deal with depending on your station in life and honestly, I don't really have what I would consider a sufficient answer to how to deal with a disconnect in fun factor in life.

It does.....but if you aware you can refuse to be the victim.

Men do it to themselves/each other