What happened?

​@@TheJose17374 he unfortunately exploded into pieces😪 RIP our bro Well always remember you

@@user-ee4ou1lq5blmao

That’s good bro you finally grabbed you’re balls and did it keep pushing yourself outside of you’re comfort zone that is the only way

Now he’s in prison for the next 20 years 😔

Same

If a girl was to betray and discard you like a broken tool(huge red flag shes a narcissists who views other people as objects) it say's nothing about you and everything about her. If anything be grateful she's out of your life and no more time is wasted on such a person. It will hurt at first but you will get over it and recover and come out of the experience stronger and wiser. The type of situations are the biggest learning curves in life and help you grow as a person immensely. What you need to build is self love and self worth and to break negative and fear based thinking patterns. You define you worth and value no one else. Self esteem is what you think about yourself, not what others think of you. When someone does something hurtful to us, we are hurt not because of the other person's actions, per se, but because of what we believe their actions mean - about ourselves and in general. This is not about whether our beliefs are right or wrong in and of themselves; that is really up to us to decide. Nothing about this diminishes someone's responsibility for their actions. For example, If our partner is unfaithful, the fact that our own beliefs about their actions hurt us does not mean their behavior was OK. It's still wrong. They are still responsible for doing it and absolutely nothing changes that. If we believe a partner's faithfulness is a reflection of our worth, the expectation is that a partner will be faithful as long as we are good enough. If a partner is unfaithful, the conclusion based on this belief is that we are not good enough and this actually caused the infidelity. This actually makes no sense, realistically speaking, because a person's actions are not controlled or determined by other people in any way. If infidelity happens in this situation, there are a few solutions that present themselves according to the ego's belief structure that created the expectation: the infidelity can be denied or ignored, it can be explained by blaming an "other" (such as the person the partner was unfaithful with), or the person can attempt to control the situation by changing themselves to be perceived as "better" so that the infidelity will stop or not happen again. Nowhere in any of this is there room for the idea that the partner was unfaithful for their own reasons, and this often does not even occur to people. Why would it? Their partner's fidelity is based on their worth and they are therefore controlling their partner through their perceived value. There is no other explanation. Because of that, all of the ego's proposed solutions here attempt to resolve the wrong problem and reinforce a person's belief that their partner's fidelity is contingent upon their own worth. Making yourself different will not make someone faithful. Nothing will make someone faithful if they choose not to be. Even the best-looking, smartest, kindest and richest people have been cheated on. It's not about anyone else but the person choosing to be unfaithful. It's really important to accept that this has nothing to do with us and stop trying to control, change or fix things we have no control over. When we don't have expectations designed to reinforce beliefs about ourselves and our worth, it's a lot easier to see people's behavior for what it actually is and not to personalize it. We can see abuse, infidelity, dishonesty, disrespect and everything else others do as what it really is: the reflection and sole responsibility of the person engaging in these actions - and that's it. Those who are unable to validate themselves can be destroyed by a relationship with a narcissist because they have put the responsibility for their self-worth into the hands of a person who values nothing. They can become obsessed with trying to prove their worth to the narcissist in a desperate attempt to convince the narcissist and themselves that they have value. But the narcissist values nothing. They recognize nothing. They appreciate nothing. It has nothing to do with the other person at all. This is often the pattern being played out in these relationships and we can often trace it back to how someone was socialized by their caregivers. When someone has an unaddressed wound in their history, they often find themselves playing out the same kind of relationships over and over again trying to address them. For example, if someone has a history of feeling unimportant, rejected, abandoned, invisible, of being neglected, of being abused, of needing to perform for love, then when the validating attention they craved from the narcissist is taken away, this triggers that conditioning to take over and they work as hard as they can to get it back, incorrectly assuming (or believing when they are told) that the narcissist's behavior is about them, that they have somehow caused the other person to take the good things away. We often find that this is linked to an old, unarticulated and usually unacknowledged wound attached to the idea that if someone's caregivers do not consider them or their feelings important or valuable, they have no importance or value. It then becomes disproportionately important to the person to convince the narcissist to see them as valuable. Indeed, to see them at all. The person is unconsciously trying to work out this unaddressed wound. Whether it's done through appeasement, indulgence, fixing, caretaking or anything else, the unarticulated idea is always the same: "When I prove my worth to this abusive or neglectful person, they will recognize it and stop abusing or neglecting me. I will then have proven my value to them, which will prove it to me." It is a symbolic healing or undoing of the relationship with a caregiver that functioned the same way: "I must convince this abusive, neglectful person that I have value so they will stop abusing and neglecting me." This desire to prove and the resulting behavior is all predicated on the idea that the abuse is being caused by the victim, that something about them is inviting or creating the abuse. For a child, there is no understanding that this is a choice the abusive or neglectful caregiver is making for their own reasons. As an adult in a consensual relationship, it becomes a situation where the victim feels that they need to convince the abuser of their value so that the abuser will reflect their value to them in return. When this fails to happen, the person feels worse about themselves than ever, unable to understand why they are not valuable enough for the abuser to treat them well. Even as adults, it often still doesn't occur to people that the abuse has nothing to do with them at all and is the result of the abuser's problems, not theirs. If it does occur to them, they often don't believe it because it runs contrary to what they've believed or been told their entire lives. This is similar to the way pathologically narcissistic people function. This is the way a dysfunctional ego behaves. The people we call narcissists are blinded by this - and to it - and unable to change because their personality structure is so rigid and defensive that they cannot learn anything of value about themselves or others. They generally cannot engage in the self-reflection and analysis that is necessary to grow in this way, and their perception may be so affected that it is rendered completely unreliable. They trust no one and nothing, including themselves, so they cannot believe anything anyone says to or about them. Their affected perception causes them to believe they are seeing proof that they should not trust or believe anyone. This epistemic mistrust is profound and it is all-encompassing. They cannot have that lightbulb moment and even if they do, their denial is just too entrenched for it to matter. This is why they can have so-called epiphanies about the same thing over and over again with it ending up meaning nothing at all in the way of changed behavior or perceptions. They will always eventually convince themselves that they are not the problem or that the ends justify the means. Always, because they are too afraid and too limited by their own rigidity to be grow. Existence of any other kind does not seem possible for them and even if it were, they do not seem interested in pursuing it. Probably because they are too afraid. Validating yourself is about trusting yourself. It's about believing your experiences and knowing you can trust yourself to show up for you the way you show up for others. It's knowing you can trust yourself not to betray yourself. One of the big reasons people don't trust others not to betray them is because they can't trust themselves in that way. When another adult breaks your trust, it hurts and it's disappointing. But it is only devastating if too much of our self-worth and identity was wrapped up in this other person. Trusting others is only scary if we are relying on them to do for us what we should be doing for ourselves. If you can trust yourself and are validating your own self-worth, it's painful when someone breaks your trust but it isn't the end of the world because you know that regardless, you will be all right. You don't need this person for those things. You can have healthy relationships where people are in your life because you genuinely want them to be, not because you are dependent on them. Most importantly, when you can do these things for yourself, you realize that you aren't responsible for doing them for others. This helps you avoid toxic relationships where that is required.

Almost all of them will go straight somewhere along the line

Trust me she isnt lesbian lmbo

Ur so lucky porn ruin my life

It’s never your only chance bro

dont settle bro youre chilling

@@ziggy8805thanks for the words of encouragement

@@kriss5081 Of course how old are you no matter what age you have plenty of time, my "friends" encouraged me to settle and i didnt and i dont regret it at all

bruh wtf

🤣🤣

Do you want an oil up video because I can for sure do that for you

what the sigma

You gotta change that mindset man. Change that belief.

@@maximeboulanger8685 I meant nobody likes me so far and I think I have to approach 1000 girls to find at least one person who likes me .

Haha this guy gets it

Dont do it

@@Mike-gi6ef I still have 9 years. Things might change