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Honestly i know the degree of courage it takes for a man to admit this reality in front of a camera. So many tears are hidden under our smiles

It’s not embarrassing or cringe. You’re human with completely valid human feelings. I can’t stand that society doesn’t believe in men’s social health

I just wanted to say this video is not cringe or depressing. It's incredibly brave of you to come forward and admit all this out loud. You're not alone at all.

I am a 51 year old retired police officer, never married, and never had kids. My longest relationship was nine years, and it was the worst time of my life. She was a toxic human being. I finally ended that in 2009. Since then, my dating has been sporadic, nothing real serious. Dating is a royal pain in the ass, and women can be cold, self centered, and mean spirited. Believe in yourself and don’t rush into anything. You’ve got a lot of good people in your corner. Stay strong.

"Nobody dies a virgin... Life fucks us all" -Kurt Cobain Stay strong brother. I know exactly how you feel.

You’re not an idiot for not turning the light on, the video started in daylight and the sun gradually set. You’re a good man bro

Hey brodie, be me: a 27 year old that has never had a girlfriend. I did the thing and downloaded tinder, something I feared. Putting myself out there, rejection, etc. I legitimately met the love of my life, that was 2 years ago. We have a life together and are building it everyday. You've gotta take a plunge, and you have to say yes to things that make you uncomfortable. Good luck brother, as it definitely is luck. But I believe in you.

I was still a virgin at 47. Lonely and miserable for most of my life. I was under constant torment. I was a LOT like you are now. Now at 60, I look back and realize that my problem had nothing to do with my looks, just like your problem has nothing to do with your looks. You are not bad looking! Your problem is that you are too focused on yourself. You need to get OUTSIDE of yourself. When I finally learned how to do that things started to change for me. At 47 I met my future wife who was 34 at the time, never married and BEAUTIFUL! Three years later I was married with two awesome kids. I am still happily married today, and am loving every minute of fatherhood. Forget yourself and start taking a genuine interest in others. And remember, desperation is a turn off! So, have NO expectations and things will start to happen for you. Good luck and God’s blessings to you!

You just did something which so many other men in the world are unable or afraid to do…express yourself on camera to the world. You have serious courage man

It honestly saddens me how men's mental health isn't taken as seriously as others. Its almost unprecedented. Us men are bred to be cold, emotionless creatures, slaving away to provide for those who only laugh at our hardships. Times like these, we need a brotherhood. We need to encourage eachother to do better when noone else does. Learn to be happy for who we are. Become financially stable, get into better health. Theres nothing wrong with you. Don't ever allow someone to tell you differently, you got this brother. 💪

41 and never had a girlfriend or dated. At the end of the day your inner peace is the most important thing.

29 Going on 30 pretty soon doesn’t help I am 5’5 and still look like a teenager at 29. Still haven’t got my first kiss, but this video really open my eyes. I thought i I was alone in this, and I realize I’m not the only one. first time in my life I want to improve myself and mental heath health, since I’m tired of being alone. not only from having a GF from having actual friends. I’m not just be bitter and pushing everyone away. I want to live life not just exist.

I am 21, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin myself. I know exactly how you feel. You start asking yourself crazy questions, mentally you start beating yourself up. I’ve already accepted this loneliness. But besides all of this, just know i am here for you. And anyone who’s living in this position.

Also, never regret telling a girl you like her. Much more regret comes from inaction than action, trust me Edit: I should've said "Never regret shooting your shot." I would never actually tell a girl "I like you." I would subtly make her WONDER if I like her, which will increase her interest. And then when you ask her out, she will be excited because you've just validated her wonders, and she'll be more likely to say yes. Pardon my misspeaking. I wrote a book on this and it's what my channel is about, so I should know better lol. But my main point remains: It's better to take action than not.

You're not alone bro ❤ from what I've seen in my 32 years of life is that youll find someone in circles of a passion of yours. Make sure you arent being shallow yourself.

You are a very valuable person and alot of people care about you. Dont feel bad for being alone, happiness comes from inside not ouside. I wish you the best!

You're not a bad looking dude. Work on your social skills, get into meditation, find your purpose, and you'll be fine.

I'm 25, virgin, and I am struggling with severe depression. Ur not the only one who goes through this. Someday you will find the right person in life, 👍 stay strong

I respect you dude. Also I can tell all it’ll take is a couple small physical tweaks and quite a few mindset changes and you’ll be getting women in no time. I help my friend break out his funk with tough love and pure love as well as leading by example

you had the courage to speak for all of us all brother, you have a heart of gold and you are a great man.

I’m 31, turning 32 and never had a gf or been on a date/had a girl tell me she liked me. I feel for you bro. Stay strong ❤️🙏🏼💪👑

My brother was a virgin until he was 26, this shocked me when he told me as my brother is a very good looking and squared away man. Marine, carries himself as a Marine, stands at 6'2 a lean hard 190, and has a face that makes women jealous and men insecure. I asked him when he got married and told me one night we were drinking, I know for a fact he had numerous women chasing him. He never gave any of them the time of the day (which made them want him even more) he waited until he found the right one. She took his virginly after marriage and they have been married for nearly 10 years now and I have no doubt those two will grow old together. Love is out there bro. Stay strong.

I fucking respect you for this. If you would be real and bold like this all the time, there would be girls who would absolutely love you. In this video you absolutely owned who you are like a man!

I’m a 20 year old virgin who’s never had a boyfriend nor a first kiss. I’m as happy as I could ever be.

I'm 27, legally blind and never had a GF, I beleive the reason why I don't have one is because of my disability on top of being socially akward. I've longed to have a GF and it's frustrating that everyone rubs relationships and sex in your face all day while you can't have those things because of your looks, make enough money, aren't abled bodied or have a sparkling personality. I'm very sorry all of that happened to you, no one cares about male loneliness and when we try to speak about it it's treated as a joke, something that we created and it's our job to fix it.

I'm 25 and I don't even think I could even handle a relationship due to social issues , sexual issues, and the emotional devastation of knowing I screwed something up somehow. But my uncle is, for all I know, a lifelong single person, and he lives a fulfilling life and career, so I could look up to him if worse comes to worse.

Just watched both videos for the first time and I wanted to congratulate you on how far you've come and how brave you were to share your most personal and vulnerable thoughts. I wanted to offer another perspective, although I also have diagnosed depression and have gone through a lot of the same situations and thought processes (then again, I'm almost a decade older than you, but when I was your age I pretty much thought the same way). However today I'm either on step 3, gone crazy, woken up, got broken beyond repair or hit my head too hard. In my current mindset, I can't imagine caring what someone else thinks, even though my depression makes it almost impossible to have a good opinion of myself (even though I'm aware it's at least partially skewed, and my entire ability to be what I could be is handicapped, but still, that's what it leaves me with). In fact it makes it almost impossible to love myself or accept that someone might like me. I just laugh at the thought, sabotage any relationships and abandon first in order to not be abandoned, because I don't believe it can end any other way. And that's all standard for what you're going through. But years of this have left me to wonder why I even wanted a relationship. I have no more interest in it. I'm no longer addicted or indoctrinated that this is something I have to do, or even want to do. Sure, it has its moments. I've been in some relationships over the years (not in the last decade though). Some of them actually weren't terrible - though they didn't work out of course. But today I wouldn't pursue, or even accept them (not related to anyone specific and nothing personal). I was so focused on what I thought I wanted, because... Well, everyone does, and the drugs (hormones) make you feel artificially good when you're in love, or having sex, so... It made sense, it was the status quo, why would you ever even question it? Everyone tells you that, your own mind tells you that... Like the famous quote: "so preoccupied with whether or not you could, that you didn't stop to think if you should". But when you start listening to yourself instead of society, and when you get through the withdrawal you realize that what you wanted isn't even worth it. Don't get me wrong - for people less jaded, cynical and realistic than me, it can surely be a great feeling and a worthwhile goal. I'm not gonna tell you how to live your life or whatever. If that's what makes you happy, work on it. Enjoy it, find happiness. All I see is a brain playing tricks to get its next fix of those drugs that get released when you do it. When you strip off the paint, the only thing you get for being "more" than friends, is that high. And it will make you do stupid things to keep it going. You will sacrifice your freedom, you will have to make compromises, worry about keeping the flame alive (and work to do it), it will eat into your free time, your energy, maybe even your finances, and just so monkey can get another banana even though he will be hungry again tomorrow. And so I sat down with myself and realized, that through the years I've always felt something wrong with this feeling, with the yearning for somebody (in general), or with falling for somebody (specific). And I've fallen for dozens, head over heels, and never got with most of them. But I realized that when I got it, it wasn't what I had wanted. I felt attracted and later attached to someone, but it was just the mystery, the challenge, the hunt or my glorification. Sure, love feels good, but I can love a friend, or a pet, I don't need a relationship for that. I miss sex somewhat, but obviously not enough to attempt anything for like a decade. It's really not anything to write home about, and the drugs... Well, they get released just fine in single player (though I do miss kissing, a lot, but not willing to kill the entire pig for a bite of meat). I realized that everything I think and feel at that point is just manipulation; it's just the brain hyping up the prospect for that sweet, sweet hormonal release it would bring. It makes everything you don't have seem so perfect (grass is always greener, right?). It makes you feel bad when you don't get it, and blame yourself until you do (the push for progress; being complacent leads to never improving, while feeling shitty is a motivation to do better in order to feel less shitty). For me though, I can't even believe that illusion anymore even if I wanted to. I wish I was 37 and never had a girlfriend, because the ones I had don't matter (they aren't here anymore), and I wouldn't know what I was theoretically missing (at least my damn brain wouldn't know the candy it COULD be getting; although mythologizing might be worse). None of that benefitted me in any way, my body craves those things today just like it did when I was a virgin, or 10 years ago, or 10 years down the line. However my mind tells me not to play stupid games anymore, because play stupid games, win stupid prizes. It never lives up to the hype. And even if it does, it doesn't last forever. I'm so glad I stopped chasing cars, because honestly, even today I wouldn't know what to do with one even if I caught it. There was always that feeling of "ok, now what?" somewhere in my mind, creeping more and more to the surface as the years went by. Today the whole thing is so alien to me that the whole idea of (cognitively or decisively) wanting, pursuing, or even accepting any kind of intimate arrangement is just laughable. I imagine that's what Neo felt like, looking at those poor dopes still wired to the Matrix and even defending it. That crap is not for me. It doesn't align with my goals. It will try to make me feel like shit, and my depression will crank it up to 11, but through the struggles brother, I can only offer you one piece of advice: don't let anyone but yourself judge your value, or your opinion of yourself. They don't decide how you should or will feel. They don't have to live with the consequences of that judgement - but you do. And you know yourself better than anyone else. Also, most people don't genuinely care either way if you're happy or sad, alive or dead. Feeling bad if someone doesn't like you, unless it's for the purpose of being motivation to improve yourself some way, is fucking crazy. Just because I'm attracted to someone doesn't make them an authority on what's valuable, and it doesn't place importance on their subjective tastes and opinions any more than yours. But you've already figured that out, and congratulations to you for that. You've been through shit, and you're strong. Just don't let life break you like it broke me, and do what truly makes you happy. I used to think getting a girl was so cool and would make me so happy, or whatever. So each time I got disappointed or it went south, I just wrote it off as a fluke, cause next time I would strike gold. Yeah, right. Eventually you realize that what you want and what you've been chasing, doesn't even exist.

This is very brave of you man, and I applaud you big time. I struggled with girls for 20+ years (and still do a bit) but I have made tremendous progress by just improving on the things that I can control. Get your haircut, start working out, buy some good-fitting clothes, find a good community (gym, church, martial arts, barber shop, etc.), learn some skills, and put yourself out there. Another key is forming your own philosophy and living by it. The confidence you'll gain from living by your values and having deep self respect for doing so will do wonders for you. Early on in the dating process, don't get super invested, don't fantasize about marrying the girl and how she might be the one for you just yet. Take it slow and just be in the present. Women want a masculine man that can protect her and provide for her, hence why they often fall into the trap of falling for guys who treat them wrong. These guys often have the traditional masculine traits of confidence, fearlessness, taking risks, wittiness, etc. but are missing the essential ones that truly make them a good man. It has been this way since the beginning of man. Don't give up brother, I can tell you are a great guy with a big heart. We need more guys like you in this world. You are not alone in this struggle, it is not easy to be a man. However, you were created to be just that for a reason. God (a creator or whoever you believe in) saw you fit to be a man when He created you. There is a woman out there for you, but in the meantime, do what you can to become the man that she is looking for. Rather than look for the best potential partner for you, work on becoming the best potential partner for someone else.

I'm a 22-year-old man who deals with high-functioning autism, and I've never slept with anyone. I'm so touch-starved it hurts. Here's hoping the best for you, brother.

i feel so bad for this guy ur not alone bro this world has gotten weird.

Hey man, you are super courageous to share your deepest vulnerability with the world. You're not cringe or weird to never have had a girlfriend or dated. Shit does happen and you are just as human and valuable as partnered people. Don't feel less than. Your timeline isn't the same as others. Comparison is the biggest thief o of your joy and inner peace. Keep putting yourself out there in the dating world and you may get lucky and find yourself the woman of your dreams. I'm rooting for you. You are worthy of happiness.

Thank you for sharing this brother god bless your strong soul and will! You’ll find the one! 💯

Bro i'm 27 and i got no money, no social life, no friends, no gf and makes u feel bad but at the end the only one who can save you is yourself, good luck brother and don't give up.

That woman at the bar is CRAZY. Also dude you're not fucked up, lonliness is a monster.

Hey get this man on the FanVan! But nah respect for the video bro 🤝🏽keep your head up, Takes a lot of courage to do some shii like this props fr I stg.🙏🏽

It’s not easy, it’s difficult for everyone. Stay strong and continue doing the things that you enjoy doing, whatever makes you happy. But keep open minded to meet someone new, it happens when you least expect it

You're not alone, brother. I don't think it's your fault. I have a feeling It's a societal consequence of the digital age separating all of us into bubbles. You're creating. You're adding to this world more than you realize. And you're providing a place for thousands of people to talk about this issue. Thank you for that.

One of my biggest regrets before I had a gf was not having one. After I had one and was engaged then separated, my biggest regret was having a gf. We always want what we don't have and sometimes life gives it to you so you can see how overrated it really was. Regret nothing. Master the art of loving yourself before focusing on loving another.

Living a single life can really teach you to appreciate yourself and develop a solid independent foundation and moral values. Culture likes to make it seem like you need a relationship to be happy, but I believe there’s other things out there that can make you happy and feel fulfilled. Props to you for keeping your chin up my friend

really ... same stories and same pains... You don't look bad bro, as me. Hope your life bounced and gone right. My life is starting going well because i accepted my situation and my being.

This is my absolutely favorite type of videos, no editing, no memes, no obnoxious sound effects, no music, just a random guy like us spitting truth and venting. I don't relate to any sigma or "literally me" character, this is the guy I relate to.

You shouldn't be down on yourself for acting sincerely. I was 29 and my workplace crush actually laughed when I asker her out, not realising I was being serious at first. Her laugh played on a loop in my head for a YEAR. I don't regret it though, there are women in my life who I never asked out and I still have that "I wonder if..." part of my brain with them. Keep your head up, brother.

Keep making more of these, you really lift my spirits up m8

This video popped up on my feed, so I guess it’s meant for me to say something. I’m not gonna say that I’m having the same problems as you but I have my struggles too. When I have these conversations with women, I always bring up the guys in your situation because the men that dont have trouble with women will never acknowledge a guy like you. Women don’t either because they don’t even know you guys exist. The men that women are interested in is the average man to them and I always make sure that I acknowledge that most guys are struggling with women. I say, just keep your head up and work on yourself. I’m glad you’re able to have a space where you can speak your story because the social media world doesnt care about men struggles. Just know that I understand because I pay attention to you guys and not just popular sh!t people talk about everyday. Keep pushing forward man 💯💯

Women will never understand male loneliness brother. Stay strong. Continue to work on yourself. Hit the gym. Work on hobbies. Join a club. Make more friends. Become a more interesting man, gain experiences. You can do this brother.

I don't think this is normal, but I'm happy that I'm not the only dude in this planet who is soon 30 and he has never had any intimacy with the opposite sex.

Just listening to you rant is therapy for us who share your frustrations. Thank you.

Thank you for having the courage to share this online. I've never seen anyone brave enough to just put it all out there . Hang in there Jer.

I'm 23 and in the same camp. I'm physically handicapped and have been insecure about it my whole life. On top of that I have struggled with depression and ideas of suicide since I was 14. The last 3 years, after I left university early I have been sitting on my ass playing video games. I barely see my friends anymore, they don't really feel much like friends at all. Life sucks. Currently I'm looking into going to the gym to atleast grow some feeling of self-worth. Anyway, if this resonates with anyone somewhat, know you are not alone.

No one understands what it’s like to be ugly or weird looking unless they are.

Dont worry about it. You will meet someone when you least expect it. Stay positive bro. 💯

It takes work brother. I dont want to lie, or patronize you (im sure youve had a stomach full of that). Although we dont share the same experience, i was like you.......I reached my lowest point and decided that i had to change.....through hatd work, a lot of failures and restarts things got better. You will fail but dont quit! Seek out the information you need for your direction and goals.....if something doesn't work, reset and try again. Also, keep vocalizing it, it helps to purge the thoughts.......work it out. No one can guarantee you anything so you have to do this for yourself. Good luck brother.

He is speaking for many guys out there. We don't know how many because most are silent about these issues.

I’m 28, about to turn 29… never had a gf either.

Bro, you are an intelligent, handsome young man. Don’t think so lowly of yourself. I believe in you. I believe that things will turn out great for you very soon! You have got your whole life ahead of you. Stay strong!

Hey man you got this I know life can suck but be strong !! God will have something waiting for you

Honestly I wish people didn't find this sort of stuff embarrassing. It's more common than we think for people in their lates 20s, 30s, so on to just not have any form of intimate connection simply because of factors out of their control. Anything from social anxiety, certain disabilities, or just living in a place that doesn't have many people is what often stops others from finding love or connecting with a social circle. This especially seemed to have increased due to Covid and the internet era, where we've been so isolated and don't know what to do. Stay strong man, don't feel ashamed.

this is becoming a norm for many young men to be struggling with this insane dating market, Im a 25 year old virgin, its really tough out here man, i know how you feel. it hurts.

Thank you my brother. Im only 25 but in the same position. Its nice to see that im not the only one. One thing i started to do is reading or anything just to have hobbies. Focus on yourself my brother, im rooting for you!

In my personal life experiences, I've found that putting such emphasis on certain events and situations only worsens the way I feel perpetuating those negative thoughts and feelings. Using these experiences as a stepping stone rather that mulling them over was my best choice moving forward.

Remember guys... "Attractive" = flirting "Ugly" = harrassment

I am already 32. I never experienced the slightest amount of love in my life. Not because I dont want to. In fact I tried several things to find a partner: approach ing women, signing up on dating applications, joining new groups. Nothing worked. Every women rejected me. That a woman once found me attractive, never happend. I am completely alone. I never had a hug, a kiss or something like a realationship. Hell not even a date. Like most humen I crave romantic intimacy. Since I have been so long left without any, I became increasingly sick. I am suffering from insomnia, depression and panic attacks.

You articulate beautifully, and your strength is profound. If you do not date, you need to either discover or create a life where you feel fulfilled. My fiancée lives on the other side of the planet, as I would never date here again.

You are a sweet and beautiful man, don't give up. You have so much value ❤

Even for a guy who's handsome like me, it's an absolute minefield, you say the wrong thing and it's completely over.

What’s crazy is 27 was the worst year of my life. Then things changed for the better because I focused on myself and fought to learn to love myself. Not every journey is a sprint. You got this man! You’re a legend in my eyes just for posting a video like this that many men are also going through.

I really enjoyed your video. I thought it was very insightful on how we as men feel and express ourselves to women and we are not appreciated. I'm good looking and even I get served some bullshit. I've learned to not let women waste my time if they are not "Real." I push on. It is not easy but I use my rational thought to understand if a woman is not interested in me and plays games. When they play games that means they are not very mature. That tells me they are not right for me anyways. I thank you for your sincerity in this video. It is good to meet someone special, but happiness has to come from within. Once you have that you do not need the external validation because that doesn't matter in the 1st place. Excellent video sir!👍🏾 .

I'm really glad I randomly came across this video. Bro, you're not alone. Going on 31 with never holding a single serious relationship. I used to watch 40-year-old virgin as a kid and laugh but shit foreshadowed today's day and age.

I hope you don't delete this video. Use it as a means to measure yourself in the future as a way to see your improvements overtime. I hope things do get better for you.

I stumbled upon this video and listened all the way through. There’s a lot to unpack here, and I applaud you for having the courage to talk about your struggles openly with people. You are not alone. Men, especially, have been conditioned in our culture to “be strong” and to “man up” and hide their emotions. First and foremost, I would highly recommend you get with a therapist to help you navigate these thoughts and feelings. Group therapy can really be helpful too as you’ll often find other individuals going through similar situations. I would recommend you start journaling. It’s another way to release your emotions but in a safer space. The internet isn’t always a safe haven for empathy and understanding. Be careful as you read through the comments because some people are absolutely cruel and will not have your best interest at heart. Not being in a relationship or having a girlfriend is a secondary concern. The first concern is understanding where these ideas came from with regard to the “should” statements. “I should have a girlfriend” or “I shouldn’t be a virgin” are punitive and judgmental statements. Maybe start asking yourself why should you do/be anything? Maybe ask yourself who told you that you should do anything? You are entitled to live life at your own pace and there is no deadline to reach milestones in life. It sounds like there is a lot of self-hate and shame and that’s the first place to start. If one of your best friends came up to you with the same scenario of being alone and single, you wouldn’t shame them or belittle them. It serves no purpose to crucify yourself. If therapy isn’t available or affordable in your area, I would suggest finding a meet up group. Find a group of other individuals who have similar interests. Start meeting people and making new friends. The best partners start off as being friends. Try to focus on one day at a time. It can feel so overwhelming projecting into the future and trying to see “this is when I’m going to have a date” or “have sex” or “get married.” It will happen when the time is right. Just focus on one day at a time. Thinking too far into the future is going to catapult you into a very anxious and depressing mental state. And remember, you’re probably not going to find “the one” in a bar. There’s a good chance a lot of the people you meet in bars are self medicating with alcohol and are dealing with some serious emotions too. And when you look at that scar where you attempted to end it all, I invite you to reframe that scar as not being a symbol of failure, but a symbol that you are worthy of being alive and worthy of happiness and success. If the universe didn’t want you here, you wouldn’t have been born. And while you may still feel like a failure, you probably saved someone’s life who watched your video with the intent of self harm because they saw that there was someone else struggling in life. You are worthy of love and compassion. But it starts from within. Take care and please keep up posted. 🙏🏻

I wish you the best finding your soulmate. I think everyone deserves a chance, I'm your friend and I know how it feels man.

Always remember - rejection is better than regret. This single sentence changed my life forever

I was a virgin until I was 28, and it was to my first girlfriend. You’re not alone, bro.

I wish you well and hope things change for the better for you

I’m currently 26 years old, and I’ve never even been on a date. Your story of getting kicked out of the bar reminds me of the time I asked the cashier out on a date. We chatted a bunch of times. And she seemed really nice, so I just gave her a card I made myself saying “They say there are plenty of fish in the sea, would you be interested in going out on a date to the fisherman’s market with me?” And it had my phone number. I remember I started a conversation with her, we were both going to Las Vegas at almost the same time, I told her I got her a card, and her face completely lit up, she was smiling and blushing. She read it, and just seemed mesmerized by it. She told me she’d text me, and she never did. And the next time I went to the store, she would intentionally avoid me. Like she was ringing people up, and soon as it was my turn, she would yell at her coworkers and say it was her break. This went on 5 times. Then I didn’t even see her at all after that. I hate that they just assume that I’m not gonna take no for an answer and play these stupid ass games with me. I would way rather hear No than sit and wonder when you’re going to respond, then avoid me like I have the emotional regulation skills of an 8 year old. I bet if she asked a guy out, and he said no, he wouldn’t just start avoiding her. It made me so mad. Thanks for sharing that man. There’s a lot more single lonely guys especially after the rise of social media apps. There’s no longer a sense of community, dating apps are horrible, and promote hookup culture. Your brain isn’t fucked up, these are really tough times we live in. We have all the food and resources that our grandparents didn’t have, but we lack the strong communities that they had to keep them fighting. Life has been a real tough journey for me. I’ve experienced a lot of ups and downs, I’ve accomplished a lot of things, but being a part of the community is a huge part of my life that’s missing. No wife, no girlfriend, no family, and no real long term friends. I literally have my parents and siblings and that’s it, after that, I ain’t got no one else.

You don’t call a girl crying. Especially if she isn’t already your girlfriend.

Bro, you look handsome. You are still young. You have a car. You have a YT Channel with 3k Subscribers. You are not overweight. You have no disabilities. You have a decent beart. You are so above average with that. Stay strong. Very good Video. Love from Germany.

I feel you, man. Sometimes, life well not get simple for relationships. For me, I never had relationships in my life (include my school year) which it helps me to stay on track for myself to become better dependent and motivation. I’m always here for you, mate.

Keep grinding bro, we all want you to succeed

Dude you're telling the story of my fucking life

I'm 24 and still a virgin, I had a GF but she gave me true hard times before dumping me for another rich guy to marry. Stay strong brother. If you need a GF, then relationships are not meant for you. You have to 'want' a GF not ' need' her bro. No rush, there is no need to overrate sex and romance. LOVE IS NOT EVERYTHING

Mate you are comedy gold . Natural comedian . You should do stand up !

you are exactly where you are supposed to be man. Dont stress it, ive felt like this before, the feeling of wanting to be loved can make you lose yourself. Its okay. Your not a bad looking guy my friend. Once you learn to just relax and build self confidence, that will reflect on other things especially with women. Just take it easy, we love you brother.

You're a warrior man, you're still alive and we hope that you find a solution to your problems. Keep going!

never harm yourself. it's not worth it bro. you're not alone, many men go through this bullshit.

im in a similar boat as you, and what helped me get back up on my feet is getting closer to God and coming to the Catholic Church. people in life, friends, even family may betray you, but God would never betray you and will always be by your side. Hope you are doing well brotha.

Trust me brother, get yo money up. You ain’t missin out on nothing but potential headaches. The right one will come eventually.

You’ve shown insane amounts of courage even recording this video, there a MILLIONS of men just like you around this planet. Please don’t give up brother, persevere, remember that things don’t happen to you, they happen for you, there’s light at the end of the tunnel, and it takes a courageous person to travel this path. Life will get better, and you will look back at this time of your life and laugh. Much love to you I hope you’re doing well, just know even though you feel alone, you’ve found a community here that understands you ! ❤

I’m 27, never kissed a woman or even held hands with a woman. Obviously, I’m a virgin too. I completely understand your feelings. You’re not alone.

Just know that you're doing the right thing by talking about this. But I feel for you and I hope that you find the right person for you❤❤

Genuinely feel ur pain when u first said let the video go and let the thoughts out the pain leval as in speaking pls reach out if u need a friend ever I feel the sameway

I'm 35, never had a girlfriend, never been kissed and honestly, I'm kind of glad at this point because most people are messed up and I really don't want to get tangled up with the wrong person. Hang in there, friend. Better to build yourself up than to be with or around others who will make you feel worse.

I’m not as introverted as people think. I like being around others company and socializing, I just trained my mind to cope with being lonely and using that to my advantage, which is being independent and not worrying about what other people got going for themselves, or what they think of me. P.s. I’m 23 and the same as this guy, so you’re not alone, there’s a lot of people like us out there than you think.

You look so normal I don't understand why. I hope things are better. Choose being stoic F every thing else

If you’re ever in San Antonio let’s talk my friend. You will meet positive people & you seem like a good dude that many women would love to have a conversation with. Let’s get out there

This is the real KZfaq

You're not alone, man. It's really hard for me to get one because of my autism. So I leave everything in God's hands.

damn bro im only 17 but lowkey life be hittin us tuff bro hope life going well for u now dead don't understand why people judge ppl for they looks instead of who they fr is you'll dead be a good friend to have keep goin fr you'll be ight gotta thug it out !!

I love u so much. You deserve happiness before anything else