Stop Being So Loyal | Trent Shelton
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3 жыл бұрынStop being so loyal. Remember this! Stop being loyal to the things that aren’t loyal to you in your life. Nothing can continue hurting you without your permission “what you tolerate is what you deserve.” Make sure to share this with someone that needs to hear this message.
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Trent Shelton is a former NFL wide receiver and author of The Greatest You: Face Reality, Release Negativity, and Live Your Purpose. Trent has collaborated with powerful voices over the years including Tony Robbins, Rachel Hollis, Tom Bilyeu, Gerard Adams, and many more.
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@juliabaling8888 3 жыл бұрын
Loyal to the LORD and we will never regret anything till the end of our life❤
@erinevers27 3 жыл бұрын
Ooooooo I like your style girl!!!! Naaaailed it!!! 😊😊😊😊
@808jumpman7 3 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@1766584 3 жыл бұрын
In Jesus mighty name👏🏼🙏🏼
@Garandmasthumb 3 жыл бұрын
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@1766584 3 жыл бұрын
@Vads Thompson 💯TMH don’t even won’t us calling each other fools, so u know He don’t want us acting like one neither.
@stayreal5083 3 жыл бұрын
The loyal people are the ones who watched this video.
@tarajohn1188 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@melligean8318 3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@bellamichelle6248 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️. Why it so hard to say “no” or leave BC you feel bad for someone else(who doesn’t appreciate you) ?
@stayreal5083 3 жыл бұрын
@@bellamichelle6248 because you are a Loyal person.
@xfairy3800 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so numb
@perfectlovenofear8060 3 жыл бұрын
Never BE an option...Never BE a doormat...Never BE abandoned a second time.
@toniechantelh9615 3 жыл бұрын
Amen...its a process
@SexiPlaygirl1983 3 жыл бұрын
Girl....yesss
@reginaalmaraz7561 3 жыл бұрын
100%
@symone2179 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾
@nakalandacaroline2575 3 жыл бұрын
Gud tr🤝,man I hv learnt alot 4rm yhue.Maybe yhuo heaven sent
@Reallyct 3 жыл бұрын
"some of you are so concerned about other people feelings that could care less about yours" I needed to hear this
@patriciamena2097 3 жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen to that brother in Christ Jesus ❣️
@chelseaspringer982 3 жыл бұрын
PERIOD, True!!
@edithhewitt9372 3 жыл бұрын
At this point in my life I needed to hear it too. I got told at my job to get over PTSD wth
@Reallyct 3 жыл бұрын
@@edithhewitt9372 smdh I can’t believe they said that to you.
@bobbycalderon4071 2 жыл бұрын
That’s me
@Nickkinicole 3 жыл бұрын
I almost committed suicide November 16th 2020. I'm 34. I lost my first child, my horrible ex left me and took everything, my nail business failed, have no job/income, my family left my side and I no longer wanted to be here. I've been loyal to everyone and everything that had crossed my path.. I got depressed and definitely lost myself. I had to admit to myself that I allowed myself to get here.. that and this pandemic made me lose everything 💔I forced myself to get out of bed and even struggled to wash myself. Now that my vision is more clear, I choose me. I'm going to give my loyalty to myself. I'm going to lose weight for myself. And then I ran across this video.. I didn't know that others felt like me or even when through what I do. I definitely needed this Trent. Thank you.
@Nickkinicole 3 жыл бұрын
@z237Az217 thank you ❤
@nessauk2786 3 жыл бұрын
Sweetheart stay blessed x beautiful lady
@spencerw.4877 3 жыл бұрын
Happy you changed your mind Sis. The world is awaiting your sunshine. Shine bright in this dark world by His grace. Blessings to you!! Stay prayed up.
@QueenOfPrinciple 3 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful and blessed. You have blessed with so much, and even when you loose you can still be blessed. As long as you have life you have more hands to experience the fruits of your labor, better life and God will ensure you get back what you need. And the lessons you've picked up are priceless. I'm so happy to see your presence on here. Know that you are too valuable to end your own being in this world. We are gifts from God due to our gifts. Our existence blesses others. Love ya!!!
@strawberriesblueberries2258 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry about that. I’m glad you survived. All you need is God.
@bestill2456 3 жыл бұрын
“I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to your disrespect.” 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@squirrelchaser4life521 2 жыл бұрын
HELLZ YEAH!!!
@gempath5533 2 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@msann4890 2 жыл бұрын
Bea Still, hour comment is so true.
@adrieanaleary4875 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!🙏
@Whisper2069 2 жыл бұрын
I am totaly stealing this quote, its Perfect!
@ladyann7001 3 жыл бұрын
"I would rather adjust my life to your absence than adjust my boundaries to your disrespect." That's fn brilliant. Thank you.
@Lilly-ev7ll 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 🙌
@jessicavalley7469 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@railyellis610 3 жыл бұрын
Deep deep
@wtfwho975 3 жыл бұрын
Well said. Ill take that note.
@leandradaniels4796 3 жыл бұрын
Heck yes i thank you nd u was speaking to me nd i appreciate ur message nd thats real!!
@CareBlair222 Жыл бұрын
I am being loyal to my workouts. I am being loyal to my health. I am being loyal to my education. I am being loyal to empowering my kids. I am being loyal to my peace. I am being loyal to my dog. I am being loyal to nature. I am being loyal to my TRUTH. I am being loyal to my positive affirmations. 😌 thank you trent. You are amazing 👏
@CatherineSTodd 3 жыл бұрын
8:00 "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, then adjust my boundaries to your disrespect."
@CatherineSTodd 3 ай бұрын
Here I am back again, 3 years later. I have begun taking baby steps and now am tryng to take the BIG ONE. Get rid of ALL OF THEM that hurt me and show disrespect and never GIVE BACK. It's all up to ME. "Just say NO" and MAKE THIS CHANGE!
@wogbornagain 3 жыл бұрын
Quick heads up, NEVER be LOYAL to DISLOYAL INDIVIDUALS💯💯💯
@marysbite 3 жыл бұрын
But how u wil know
@33ladyRAM 3 жыл бұрын
@@marysbite - pay attention to their actions...listen to what they say but a person actions will always show you their character.
@marysbite 3 жыл бұрын
@@33ladyRAM thanks dear
@bellabella4943 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I learn the hard way!
@wogbornagain 3 жыл бұрын
@@bellabella4943 We all did but NO MORE💯 I always thought that by me showing loyalty that I would receive loyalty back but the COLD FACT is that MOST PEEP don't even know how to be loyal because they have ALWAYS been DISLOYAL their ENTIRE LIFE🤔
@Billy-vn4vd 3 жыл бұрын
You got to stop being loyal to the things that aren’t doing anything for your life
@trenettamcdonald9714 3 жыл бұрын
HELLO!! I refused to be a doormat.
@tamarag9981 3 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@bbjr2374 3 жыл бұрын
Does that mean I have to stop smoking cigarettes it is unhappy and unhealthy! Any feedback?
@miamiairgaf 3 жыл бұрын
PRREEEACH!
@mistafire9264 3 жыл бұрын
@@bbjr2374 that's exactly what it means.
@southernsoul152 3 жыл бұрын
Can we just take a minute and lift this man up in prayer! 🙏🏽 How blessed are we to have him preaching all this wisdom!! 💕 Bless you, brother
@TrentSheltonVideos 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@lbrown4662 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you Trent..Peace n Blessings from Toronto Canada!!!
@tracymoffitt 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!🙏🙌❤
@rachelbeal8475 3 жыл бұрын
Being loyal has destroyed me. I blame myself! I thought that’s how you showed love! I was loyal to everyone but myself. At 48 years I see how this was a disservice to me. Family,friends,jobs! I pray God gives me the strength to rebuild myself and move forward !
@yasmeenmohammed9044 2 жыл бұрын
I was the same
@micasasucasa3829 2 жыл бұрын
you will !!!! God bless you. I am 49 and I am coming out of there.
@carolorber6009 2 жыл бұрын
No blaming, no shaming ; we can only move on when we are strong enough.
@healthreviewsplus 2 жыл бұрын
It shows love, I believe that. But it's hard to tell who deserves it or if it'll go sideways (yes, pray). Move on, don't regret b/c Romans 8:28 AND 29, James 1:3,4 trials can do good 'work.' Jesus knew when to walk away from people... Hebrews 12:3 Peace.
@ericwalker6546 3 жыл бұрын
People’s hearts have gone cold for one another. Narcissism is the order of the day.
@barbaralynch3015 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree - it's so blatant.
@brandibeerbower1553 3 жыл бұрын
That's a fact.
@Lilly-ev7ll 3 жыл бұрын
Truth 😞
@ericwalker6546 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lilly-ev7ll Revolutions tells us how cold it’s going to get before the wrath.
@amberlatham7005 3 жыл бұрын
Our system allows it
@luckyme7611 3 жыл бұрын
I’m always loyal to the wrong person or thing🥺 it hurts a lot
@sidneywilder6675 3 жыл бұрын
So true 👍
@kelvin9nicejohnson235 3 жыл бұрын
We're one of a kind dear. Let’s stop ok
@luckyme7611 3 жыл бұрын
@@kelvin9nicejohnson235 I’ll try
@drginawalker2260 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way
@PaulO-we1lt 3 жыл бұрын
Listen Sweetheart, you are the most important in life and none else. You and only you. You have to be happy. Purge people in your circle and make new acquaintances with new people. Guard your happiness. Keep few friends, but have acquaintances. Keep faith!
@OliviasRomanticHome 3 жыл бұрын
Preach 🙌 Just so you know you’re helping me get through the toughest time of my life thank you for these videos
@micasasucasa3829 2 жыл бұрын
Same here Olivia. I would pray for you.
@victoriae9837 2 жыл бұрын
He is saving my life.
@lorrainefisher7361 3 жыл бұрын
You can’t heal from a toxic relationship while you are still in it. Too many people are so afraid of being on their own that they stay even when they know they shouldn’t. This young man has it down pat.
@megand.3951 3 жыл бұрын
In this moment, I needed this. If anyone is a believer on here, please pray for me. My husband no longer wants to be with me and I’m hurting. Update he is now dating my married sister
@reginalbayardjeudy7039 3 жыл бұрын
Wao
@firstladyofyoutube2249 3 жыл бұрын
🙏❤
@brokenperson4208 3 жыл бұрын
I love ya for who ever you are and I pray I anyone who needs it I got your back and idc if no one has mine it's fine
@quickmaz 3 жыл бұрын
You have my prayers Megan. I know it hurts, but with time, you'll be good.
@MainGirl-dl6oh 3 жыл бұрын
So many men, so many People, don't realize how good they have it. He will regret losing you! No one will ever be able to take your place! Isk you but I bet you are a great person, Amazing person and there will never be another YOU, use this time to do you and what makes YOU happy, he will one day realize the grass isn't greener on the other side, he will realize his biggest mistake was to ever take you for granted and I hope and pray when that time comes you will be so happy and healthy you can say, im good!❤
@jenniferbemo7038 3 жыл бұрын
I lost my son to suicide 2 years ag. it is refreshing to hear someone speaking out on these things. Thank u so much
@veronicaatkins4417 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss😥
@alaskancourtney6500 3 жыл бұрын
“That’s not loyalty. That’s stupidity.” Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
@nitajordan6201 3 жыл бұрын
You better say that again “ when you’re at your rock bottom and loyal to wrong individuals , those people will not be at rock bottom with you “!!!
@Lilly-ev7ll 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true 😭 I'm at absolute rock bottom and the only person I had left in my life that I thought would be there isn't. It's the hardest thing to accept when you literally have no one else so have no choice but to face it all alone 😞
@nitajordan6201 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lilly-ev7ll You are never alone, this is the time to allow God to come in and show you true love. He is a healer, deliver and most of all faithful! I was in a place all by myself and that’s when I saw God first hand and I love him more than anything in this world!!Words can’t begin to acknowledge his grace and mercy in my life even when I don’t and didn’t deserve it!! Try God truly try God!!
@Lilly-ev7ll 3 жыл бұрын
@@nitajordan6201 thankyou, I'm trying to allow God to fully take over in my life now. It's hard! Thanks for your kind words ❤️
@zackzettler4425 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lilly-ev7ll kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gbl3h9KQ0cfJc6c.html
@Lilly-ev7ll 3 жыл бұрын
@@zackzettler4425 thankyou, the words are very true 🙏
@cjaedaveigh 3 жыл бұрын
I’m watching this on my birthday . In tears . Sitting in my car in the rain . After eating dinner by myself after being stood up . This was meant for me to come across . I’ve been hurting for quite sometime and now it’s unbearable
@melligean8318 3 жыл бұрын
If no one else told you today let me remind you, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, SMART, FUNNY ENOUGH!!!! YOU ARE A WINNER!!!! YOU CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS YOU!!! Inwill pray for you to be delivered from your pain. Please remember, You are a priceless child of God!!!!
@nitajordan6201 3 жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthday 🎂 . Thank God you saw another one!! You have so much to be thankful for, that might have been a blessing in disguise for you to enjoy the one who gave you life!! Be blessed life is a blessing and so are you!!
@anthonyjmorris2501 3 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday
@tashigee8664 3 жыл бұрын
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!! BRIGHT STAR!!
@olivianichole288 3 жыл бұрын
Hey I know it's late but....Happy Birthday❤
@billyrowe0064 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been a people pleaser. I’ve been way too loyal. I am going to listen to this everyday many times a day. This is what I needed today. Very much. Thank you. From the bottom of my heart.
@DJBenito304 3 жыл бұрын
Totals
@MaralinThomas 3 жыл бұрын
This is so me!!! I’m so loyal to my husband and he’s definitely killing me emotionally and mentally!! I lost myself in my marriage! 😔
@dezzydisaster2113 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@p6207 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been loyal to long.......to people who don’t appreciate it and don’t respect it. Thank you I need it to here it aloud!
@erinevers27 3 жыл бұрын
Get it girl!!!!!!! 💪💪💪💪💪😘😘😘😘😘😘🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@agathagilbert9077 3 жыл бұрын
Amen Lord please help me this is needed in this perilous wicked world 🙏🙏 hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah and amen in Jesus mighty name amen ♥️ Pamela God bless you and your family have a wonderful day 🌄🌄🌄😊🌈🌈🧡🧡💛😍😍😇😇🤲🌅🤲
@jamescrocker4253 3 жыл бұрын
I have got my pride now and don't want to get loyalty
@jamescrocker4253 3 жыл бұрын
I have one
@taherajones3693 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@priyankasharma9902 3 жыл бұрын
i removed te cancer and i have never been healthier and happier ... loyalty to the wrong people is disloyalty to yourself!
@markwhittaker6866 3 жыл бұрын
PREACH! Stay strong and stay blessed.
@donnagreen4966 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in a long distance relationship and, I've been completely loyal with him.I have men who would love to be with me.In the beginning everything was great.Now he barely give me any time.He give me mixed messages hearing,just what your saying.Im at my end ready to walk away.
@legenddamenace9279 2 жыл бұрын
Sis as women we know intuitively or subconsciously from the jump that it's not a good fit but we tend to try and force things . I'm guilty of this too but wen I let go of that illusion I met my best friend/ lover / fiance everything isn't always perfect but in my heart I know he's perfect for me and I for him . It would have not been possible if I hadn't stepped out my comfort zone❤️ and released the illusion of love and found real true love 😳
@amandadickinson4794 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. I have an addiction to a person that im too loyal to that isnt loyal to me. Staying down for a person thats bringing you down isnt loyalty its stupidity
@tinawelch2259 3 жыл бұрын
I left a toxic relationship 2days ago. .He straight dogged me to the point where I felt so stupid and frozen to where I wanted to die.. My faith and knowing that God didn't make any mistakes I am a child of God 🙏 changed my mind. I got in my car with my Bible, clothes and coffee kurig😂 and integrity to freedom and God's promises.. I don't have a place to live or a job yet, but I have Jesus Christ in my ❤️ and there is no one more loving and trustworthy that will ever come close. Thank you Jesus Christ for leading me to this video message. Godbless Trent.
@lovelyroses2314 3 жыл бұрын
I need your courage!😊
@melligean8318 3 жыл бұрын
@@lovelyroses2314 ask God for strength and courage. Courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to continue INSPITE of fear. You can do ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST, WHO STRENGTHENS YOU
@christhomas6199 3 жыл бұрын
The Lord will restore your life,. keep moving forward and don't look back. Don't take them back!
@justmeblessedup 3 жыл бұрын
Now this just made me cry ! Tears dropping as I am typing! I am praying for more strength!! Because this loyalty I have with my girlfriend has been having me feel the same way! I lost almost everything now except my apartment and Imac. Almost myself. But now I am doing my youtube channel and I am trying to focus on myself! I wont be hindering myself no more ! I pray I pray I pray ! I PRAY FOR ALL OF US !! Listen to one of my youtube videos kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bc2niq2r3Muvdpc.html
@yeriposadas8549 3 жыл бұрын
You got a PayPal or something?
@iolanisjourney4828 3 жыл бұрын
"That's not loyalty, that's stupidity" oh that truth cuts deep! 💔
@brendanewsome66 2 жыл бұрын
You’re right, I’m stupid when it comes to my kids, but I’m done. Thank you Trent
@JeffJarstad 3 ай бұрын
I understand going through it myself but God is good
@meljolly1213 3 жыл бұрын
When people show you who they are, believe them. Time reveals everything. I am a walking testimony that you should NEVER mask your own pain to protect anyone else because you will come out losing in the end. We ALL are a work in progress. In life, we must ellevate mentally spiritually and emotionally. You cannot lean onto your own understanding and you should be connected to the main source in order to get that clarity that Trenton was mentioning. I was born and raised in a high poverty area and I have three college degrees but those things became distinct once the Lord gave me the discernment that I was missing in my life. We all deserve FRUITFUL workplaces, education, relationships, friendships and even family members. Let's not forget about them no good relatives that we ALL have. Stay true to God and yourself. Cali Luv...
@jaleesa00 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@SexiPlaygirl1983 3 жыл бұрын
A whole word sis. We all deserve FRUITFULNESS.
@2envymelucci681 3 жыл бұрын
Your awesome and encouraging.. God bless
@hermanlucaslucas846 3 жыл бұрын
Jajaja girl you are funny...those no good relatives dont we all have them unfortunately 🤔🤛
@mistyjordan7147 3 жыл бұрын
Not today, Devil. I released mine before he went to work. Put that chain and lock back around my heart to him. I'm loyal to my Father in Heaven, loyal to myself, and my daughter. I've noticed, the more I love mysrlf, the more I glow. The more I grow and escalate the more he congradulate me with with hate and envy. The problem is, I don't know how to be disloyal. People just don't know how to be loyal to me. I refuse to loose myself to someone that doesn't deserve my loyality. Thank you for confirming to me what I need to do. God bless you. 🥰💜💯🙏😇
@dawnnicolas7617 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I left my ex fiance, narcissist, drug addict. I was loyal to a fault and all this did was hurt me in so many ways. Thankfully God helped me break my ties with him. I allowed him to use, abuse, cheat, lie, manipulate and I am now free. I pray for him daily, but I had to learn self love and self respect.
@hermanlucaslucas846 3 жыл бұрын
We can pray all day but it's up to them to want to make a change been praying for this person for 20 years and they still are on a destructive path
@dawnnicolas7617 3 жыл бұрын
@@hermanlucaslucas846 This is true, however, I will continue to pray because its the BEST thing I can do for him.
@iambaileypaige 3 жыл бұрын
@@dawnnicolas7617 and it helps you heal. 🙏
@tylaminabrown3765 2 жыл бұрын
Let's get it!! It's rehab time!! Amen!! Hello Trent and Trent followers!!❤️
@melluques8475 3 жыл бұрын
Cant believe I’m learning at my age from this young man. 🙌🏻🙌🏻
@zoeiiseda246 2 жыл бұрын
Me too, and I'm 57.
@kristenmarie9248 2 жыл бұрын
@@zoeiiseda246 Me too. ❤
@legenddamenace9279 2 жыл бұрын
We are here to learn the cycle is never ending ! My 7 yr old son schools me everyday ( I'm 44 yr old) 🥰
@tracycaldwell1736 3 жыл бұрын
We don't control what people think about us, ever; however, we do control what we think of ourselves.
@teggypooh 3 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@isaiah4123 3 жыл бұрын
Your destiny isn’t tied to the person who left, they’re just a part of your history 🤝
@rhondagraves5983 2 жыл бұрын
Or the person who left you
@rhondagraves5983 2 жыл бұрын
When you loved them more than anything
@moniquejohnson2465 4 ай бұрын
Truth
@nakiabarber2846 3 жыл бұрын
Six years ago I found myself and it feels great. I was loyal to the wrong person. I'm doing me mow.
@maryjanesmiley1446 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this so much. Thank you so much. Blessings your way
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
I have no solid family unfortunately never did!!
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
@Torrean Spencer thanks so much for the love ❤
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
@Torrean Spencer its going to be hard to communicate on here
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
@Torrean Spencer didn't get it
@libertyordeath1789 3 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel and I'm sorry you gotta feel that way
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
@@libertyordeath1789 thanks been going through since 9 its just getting worse
@SheezFubar 3 жыл бұрын
I've been suffocating myself mentally and emotionally hiding behind a smile trying to make others happy and comforted. I'm desperate for the courage to gain that strength to disconnect. I want to be ok with being me on my own without needing someone else's approval. Thank you Trent. I needed this
@kendraheard8240 Жыл бұрын
You can do it...I believe in you and trust me you will have the greatest peace...God Bless you!
@SheezFubar Жыл бұрын
@@kendraheard8240 Thank You for your kind words.
@bre7360 Жыл бұрын
just give it to god and he will handle the rest god be with you and praying he heals you amen❤
@SheezFubar Жыл бұрын
@@bre7360 I really needed to see this. Thank you for reminding me.
@user-xd5cb1tg7o 17 күн бұрын
"I refuse to give my loyalty to a place that does not appreciate it."
@zovuyocele2554 3 жыл бұрын
Listening to this whilst laying on a hospital bed in for treatment. I must say, me being loyal to the wrong person has landed me in this situation. Never again and thank you for the affirmation 🙏🏽
@Dd-po2ij 3 жыл бұрын
Believe me I'm done it's ok to be alone. And at peace. Bless everyone I'm going to be loyal to me I'm going to be my own friend. ♥️
@anitafreeman6181 3 жыл бұрын
So True, I have been loyal to the wrong man for 28 years...
@Garandmasthumb 3 жыл бұрын
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@mmommo-hx4dx 3 жыл бұрын
37 years (watch Tony Gaskins too)
@WhatisLifeAbout 3 жыл бұрын
8 years... I need out for my babies.
@swilliams9598 3 жыл бұрын
Amen to everything you said brother... I feel everything you were talking about!!! Thanks
@sayusayme7729 3 жыл бұрын
Grateful for this message, been giving away my light for far too long. Thank you 🦋
@soniasohi5013 3 жыл бұрын
I literally said that yesterday to myself. Loyal to the wrong ones and ignoring right ones 💯 We choose to suffer 💯
@sharonadams4424 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is we be Loyal to the wrong one because for one Deception...No one is going to show there a## on the way in the door..but many will show it on the way out....
@danielamoah6953 3 жыл бұрын
You're right for using that word "stupidity" No need to apologise It's called the "Truth" Be blessed Bro
@roryaltongentry6716 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this that’s one thing in life I’m very loyal and I always get my heart broke
@lavernebrown1331 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you this was for me and me only!!! GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏾
@HD-xb9mj 3 жыл бұрын
STOP BREAKING YOUR OWN HEART❤
@HD-xb9mj 3 жыл бұрын
I know it!! First step?
@cartesiajones1598 3 жыл бұрын
That's so true( especially women) cause we always give men or young men " the benefit of the doubt " giving them chances after chances but have we ever thought if they would do the same for us? We as women need to learn our self worth and love our selves more than we love a man or young man.
@andrewcampbell-young8426 3 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts but when you giving over 110% in a loveless relationship its so hard to walk away after 21yrs i was at my lowest but this is a great support to touch soul.
@erinevers27 3 жыл бұрын
Self love!!!! I swear by this! When I did the work, put the time in, stayed single after the last heart break....took a journey if you will. I focused on figuring how to truly love myself....I stood up for her. She deserved soooo much more. The things I allowed and accepted....I also apologized to myself. For allowing that all to happen. Always settling for less. Those were choices. I kept making choices to accept that. Not consciously, but just the same. I have more love happiness and peace today, than ever before!!!!
@andrewcampbell-young8426 3 жыл бұрын
@@erinevers27 god bless you 🙏
@erinevers27 3 жыл бұрын
@@andrewcampbell-young8426 RIGHT. BACK. AT. YA!!!!! Wish you whatever sets your heart on fire!!!! 😊😊😊😊
@andrewcampbell-young8426 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings to all you 🙏
@saram4934 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly ❤️
@markragan120 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Trent. This was yet another confirmation of my thoughts I battle in my mind on regards to my own loyalty.
@carlosmontez8593 3 жыл бұрын
This was my confirmation... thank you brotha I needed to hear this.
@quickmaz 3 жыл бұрын
I was in that boat like Trent says, depression, low self esteem, suicidal thoughts.... All the bad stuff. My world was very dark, but i know there's a light at the end of the tunnel. I have friends that having the same situation that i was in, and they're still there, having a bad life, but for some reason, they're taking it everyday knowing that it's wrong. Loyalty to the wrong person is very bad. Why would you still stick around to a person that no longer wants you and shows you in your face that they don't want you??? If they don't want you, time to get on!!
@KatSNAILS 3 жыл бұрын
This was for me. I’m so lost I don’t even know what I really want anymore.
@Dd-po2ij 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you so much You are going to make it through this process. Take time with yourself If you're not sure about something Just say no until you are sure.♥️
@Garandmasthumb 3 жыл бұрын
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@gloriacasey9947 3 жыл бұрын
Me to sooo depresed getting old alone nothing to live for really dont no what to do no strength left
@gloriacasey9947 3 жыл бұрын
Me to soo depresed dont no what to do anymore disabeled
@gloriacasey9947 3 жыл бұрын
Feal like I'm dieing a slow death
@sallylara1102 Жыл бұрын
This guy speaks through my soul 💯🙏🏽
@GodsChildTM 2 жыл бұрын
That hit right where I needed it!!! Thank you!!! God bless!❤
@Feber2001 3 жыл бұрын
I'm too loyal for the wrong people. I hate myself for it. I don't know how to move on and realize my self-worth
@Sweetness8338 3 жыл бұрын
You just have to rip the bandage off. It may hurt initially, but it will heal in time.
@unbroken96 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sweetness8338 bro plz can u explain in simple words.
@alid6060 3 жыл бұрын
You have to start by repeating this phrase, '"I am good enough. I am worthy." It replaces a weakened self worth with confidence. It really helped me.
@angelagholson4988 3 жыл бұрын
At 46 years old 2019. I gain the power within to say no more. Oh and believe you me it will start with those thats the closest. Children ,Mate ,Parents, Sibling.
@cakessoosweet6131 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much! I will watch this daily for strength…. Thank you! 🙏🏽
@sharonghoston8050 3 жыл бұрын
Amen this really hit me cause it's me,this message is really what I needed to hear.Thanks Trent❤
@RoZaye007 3 жыл бұрын
Loyal brings you to death at times
@xxLyriqsxxx 3 жыл бұрын
It's like he was talking to me directly and I know I'm not alone. He's right, this needs to be shared.
@drummerboy91productions63 3 жыл бұрын
This was needed man! I’ve been so loyal but it’s time to make an end to some things
@treweharas9224 2 жыл бұрын
Gob Bless You Trent I Needed This Right Now!!! You Rock Yo 🤍🤍🤍🤍
@libertyordeath1789 3 жыл бұрын
I use to be the type person to help people even though I am in need of help myself until so many people have done me wrong but now I have 3 beautiful daughters to keep me going
@patriciawatkins8248 3 жыл бұрын
I want to breakdown and cry, but l am standing outside waiting for the bus!!!
@OnyxRain4 3 жыл бұрын
Absolute truth! Thank you!
@rashedaanderson5455 3 жыл бұрын
i needed to hear this thank you i finally learn it was the hard way but at least i learn
@theprimebrandontaylorradio8045 3 жыл бұрын
Found this at the right time, I’ve been way too nice...
@edchavez6101 3 жыл бұрын
Loyalty is earned,must be nurtured and when abused revoked! I've got over 5 decades in this life and no matter how bad things get remember there is a tommorow.
@kaythompson2772 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this..u are absolutely amazing.. please don’t stop doing what you doing we need u out here!!
@deliciahudson1529 3 жыл бұрын
I've seen your videos before but I definitely needed to hear this one..... 💯💯
@WisdomStartsInside 3 жыл бұрын
I learned the hard way by being loyal to the wrong people and jobs in the past. I’m thankful for the experiences because they have helped me learn and grow.
@TheStylefanic 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I am with someone who didn’t even know my middle name, he tried to convince me I told him Marie. That’s not my name, after 12 years I deserve someone who knows my name. Total wake up call. Thanks for this video. 💕
@nefretiraleflore9734 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! Blessings and prosperity
@Lifeslessons81 3 жыл бұрын
This video found me at the exact moment I needed to hear it. Thank you 🥰
@creamsoda1005 3 жыл бұрын
Wish i could have heard this when i was with my ex, i could barely go an hour with having suicidal thoughts after my toxic relationship ended
@cartesiajones1598 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you woke up and discovered a new life for yourself, I'm praying god keeps you on the right path of loving God first and then taking time to love on yourself God bless you sister
@ceebd8554 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I thought I could actually die of grief after my cruel bully moved out. I now get help from the domestic violence center near me. Choosing me is my life long goal and journey now. I feel safe and hopeful.
@shawnsallee5626 3 жыл бұрын
💪💪💪💪💪👐🙌 IM 50. YRS OLD NO MORE PAIN REFUSE TO STAY IN TOXINS WORD TRENT LISTEN TO OUR BROTHER
@Soul-Touch1111 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message. I so needed to hear this today, been really down and out.. And I wont give up, I will get up
@Akonaddict 2 жыл бұрын
Thbx Trent, bro you feelin me, sending big thank you from Kingston , Jamaica.
@bloyal1513 3 жыл бұрын
My name is B Loyal...this was 100% accurate. I always believed in loyalty with everything you do but hearing you speak I have a clearer perspective, thank you. I'm a strong women but yet so weak-I know ultimately it is my choice, no excuses. My Lord is my salvation. Trent, you are my angel that reassures. Amen 🙏🦋💙
@erinevers27 3 жыл бұрын
Not weak!!!! You love!!! You love hard! That is beautiful!!!! You don't need to change that! Set the bar higher!!!!! That's what you deserve!!!! Who will love you the way you love? That's what you deserve mama! 😘😘😘😘
@Garandmasthumb 3 жыл бұрын
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@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
No one will be there at your rock bottom!!! Trust me at it now!! Depression kills. It is killing me slowly honestly!!!
@healthyandrew5294 3 жыл бұрын
I would or someone else would be there for you. Problem is good people aren't there for each other. We are loyal to the wrong people ❤️
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
@@healthyandrew5294thanks ❤ that's the problem I have a huge heart. But I'm the only one in my huge family that gets mistreated use to it since I was 9 but it's getting worse
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
@anelle Wiley thanks 😊
@SamanthaARoach 3 жыл бұрын
I speak healing over your life, I went thru this too but the Holy Spirit is healing me and let me tell you if it were not for Jesus I don’t know where I’d be. He saved me and I will forever live my life for God! I am doing so much better In Jesus Name!
@angelinadefina5102 3 жыл бұрын
@@SamanthaARoach he saved me plenty of times. Through my darkness times. This time I'm about to throw the towel in. I lived my life
@lorietrahan4845 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much and I definitely needed to hear this
@mariangelysanchez2779 3 жыл бұрын
You just opened my eyes thank you you have such a beautiful gift to reach out and touch people's life
@soniafoster3117 3 жыл бұрын
This hit home so deep. I am currently in that situation between work and my friends and relationship.
@timahawk3220 3 жыл бұрын
U not alone sis. Don’t be discouraged
@karmaleona9398 3 жыл бұрын
Finally free😭❤I needed that Trent❤ It's high time I stop taking bullets for people who won't even take a punch for me 🥀
@tashigee8664 3 жыл бұрын
FACTS!!
@CherryBlossomBlyue 3 жыл бұрын
This!!!!
@2envymelucci681 3 жыл бұрын
True Story sis❤️
@glitterrose1810 3 жыл бұрын
I love your delivery you put it so clearly that I got it instantly! I am no longer self-sacrificing it comes to an end today..!
@bellalisette 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you -I cried watching this video. You hit it to the T..Amen!!
@gioiaferrante 3 жыл бұрын
I had to do it with my own son. It was the hardest thing I ever did. Four years later sure I miss him, but if I don't put up with it with anyone else or it's not good for another it sure wasn't for my own. I was raised loyalty respect honor.... game over exactly what Trent is saying. One to many chances. Your right about concerned about other's I always get hurt. Game over with everything and everyone.
@michelleevans5622 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome! This is why being connected to people rather than attached is so healthy. If you know people are disrespecting you walk away and wish them well. Karma has a way of dealing with people and their bad behaviors.
@ANGELINA3382 2 жыл бұрын
SOO NEEDED THIS! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! God bless !
@mercedee12 3 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful to have been blessed with your words and encouragement. Thank you for the wisdom God has blessed you with. You are reaching so many people and the world needs more people like you.
@toddsellars4694 3 жыл бұрын
100% Facts. Always.
@pennywarren2357 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always giving tough love! I’ve given away my peace for other people so long that I made myself physically ill. I have 2 autoimmune diseases because our bodies were never meant to live in constant turmoil. I remind myself often now that I don’t ever have to set myself on fire to keep others warm. Thank you for your passion in trying to save those for whom it’s not too late. 💔
@DJRenee 3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@jessicarink7793 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this.
@angelmoonbabydivineguidanc3119 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I needed this right now!! God Bless!! ❤🙏🏻❤🙏🏻❤
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