Stop Expecting You From Them | Therapy Thursday

Stop Expecting You From Them | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

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Жыл бұрын

It's critical that we gain the necessary wisdom and discernment to ensure that yesterday will no longer rob our today and tomorrow.
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@smithdamards 5 ай бұрын

This is a high level of teaching. You're a therapist, a doctor and a treacher

@TheInfiniteDirection Жыл бұрын

“Exaggerating our place in someone else’s heart always leads to heartbreak.” Such a gem!

@stephy6799 Жыл бұрын

10 years sober today 🎉

@brandonjenkins8731 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🎉🎉 Stay strong and committed ❤️

@marquidamobley1473 Жыл бұрын

🎉🎉🎉Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

@zeal4god402 Жыл бұрын

YAYYYYYYY 🎉🎉🎉

@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🎉 🎊 👏🏾 💐

@jenniferrivera8627 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations..keep going strong

@yahkar Жыл бұрын

Have the Courage to not let those whom you have figured out, let you think your crazy 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@latoyataylor5320 Жыл бұрын

It was actually the other way. They convinced others I was crazy...still to this day.

@yahkar Жыл бұрын

@@latoyataylor5320 A lie never stands, so consider your situation a clean break from people that God knew He had to remove. Baggage isn't baggage until you bring it to the next destination. 🙏🏾

@coached6998 Жыл бұрын

This the one 🙏🏼

@latoyataylor5320 Жыл бұрын

@@yahkar Wow..well said. Thankyou.

@Gorgeous_Royalty Жыл бұрын

I See & I’m glad that you come @Yahkar

@newenglandtoffee9190 Жыл бұрын

@ EVERYBODY IN HERE TONIGHT, I'M SO PROUD OF YOU. 🙏🏽🕊️

@ivillanueva6589 2 ай бұрын

Father give me wisdom and discernment to stop expecting your qualities from the uncommitted and to continue to love the way you love 💕

@Jenya20 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOU QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITED;I’LL DO GOOD UNTO YOU❤️🙏🏽

@shantiwiley6359 Жыл бұрын

Yes Lorddd that was so good! 🙏🏽

@mekaluvshermaker6067 Жыл бұрын

Amen!🙏🏾

@TOPSCRET1 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@Slipz239 Жыл бұрын

My God!!!! A word!!!

@theegiftofgabb Жыл бұрын

Exaggerating our place in someone else’s heart, leads to heart break. Pastor Jerry you are hitting the nail on the head!!!! Whew I just continue to pray for discernment!

@andrearowe4815 Жыл бұрын

Pray for discernment. STOP EXPECTING. .

@Lyssalis09 Жыл бұрын

Glad to be here! Got baptized today!!!!!

@msaverielle Жыл бұрын

Don’t allow yesterday to rob and vandalize and burglarize TODAY and TOMORROW because we expected our SELF from them.

@nataliya6078 Жыл бұрын

"We keep putting our heart in the garden of people who don't water things". Wow

@josannebritto6898 Жыл бұрын

I'm proud of y'all for showing up for your healing in Jesus mighty name. 👏🏿♥

@GodsDaughter137 Жыл бұрын

After this, I just need to wipe my tears and go lay out in front of God's throne and stay there........This spoke so much to my pain!! My God today!!!!

@aishamills5629 Жыл бұрын

Powerful powerful teaching Amen!!! thank you Pastor

@jenniferlove767 Жыл бұрын

Proud of everyone for being here at Therapy Thursday! I am glad to be back!

@multiplywithsherise Жыл бұрын

Proud of you too

@Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom 3 ай бұрын

Am I expecting a healthy response from an individual that traffics in unhealthy routines? A snake sheds its skin, but not its nature. Am I expecting loyalty from an opportunistic heart? They are only loyal to the opportunity. They do not value reciprocity only opportunity. That's soo good!!

@msaverielle Жыл бұрын

We don’t just go to the NEXT level. We HEAL and GROW to the NEXT level.

@Jenya20 Жыл бұрын

I’m glad y’all here for therapy Thursday 🥰

@msyoshi85 Жыл бұрын

Thank God for Therapy Thursdays! This was so needed. This 5 year healing journey and 3 years of singleness have been so tough. But growth will be that. It's not easy. It's work and HONEST WORK AS WELL!!!!! Thank God for waking my heart and mind up. Insane how I was intelligent always to know these red flags, yet I IGNORED FOR YEARS! MIRROR RIGHT IN MY FACE!

@Flauntyourselff 5 ай бұрын

You always speak to my heart Jerry 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@amorassymphony7082 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. I’LL DO IT INTO YOU.

@marquisandrews5616 Жыл бұрын

I am glad to be here. #FirstTimer

@newenglandtoffee9190 Жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE CURRY'S BLESSINGS🙏🏽💐

@msaverielle Жыл бұрын

Give yourself to PRAYER because praying for them is HEALING me.

@latoriarichardson6754 Жыл бұрын

The title alone is powerful!! 🙌 🙏

@tracyherman3642 Жыл бұрын

I needed this I was betrayed by my husband who left me and is living with another woman and we're still married, he lied on me and blamed me for everything , I'm so broken please pray for me, I feel God has turned his back on me😢

@zeal4god402 Жыл бұрын

God didn't turn His back on you. Your hubby made his decision. I know this is relationally tough, I personally know what it's like to be so hurt by the ones closest to me. Let the pain push you to deeper purpose. God never promised tragedy won't strike, but He did promise to be with us in the valley of the shadow of death. We can choose how we respond to the calamities of life and we need to respond maturely. I hope you get a big hug from a friend and cry all the tears you need to cry. Better out than in. Heal up and talk to a pastor/therapist. You will get better and stronger. Day by day abide in God. Be still, let Him be your ultimate peace, mentor and stabilizer through this shaking season in your life

@BrandiBeez Жыл бұрын

Be encouraged l! Praying for your strength

@chocolatechickapparel8615 Жыл бұрын

Tracy I’m glad you’re here, and I’m glad I’m here too!

@spannfamily9281 Жыл бұрын

I also had this problem, I could see myself turning into something I was never supposed to be, petty, bitter, hateful, vengeful but I love the Holy Spirit convicted me and I decided not to be broken in front of my children. I didn’t pray for the marriage or for him to come back most my prayers directed toward building a closer relationship with God asking God to heal my heart. And that’s the prayer my heart wanted and needed. Focus on God during this time and you will hear him. I like to listen to Encourage yourself and Kirk Franklin Give Me

@zeal4god402 Жыл бұрын

@@spannfamily9281 AMEEEEEEEN YAYYYYYYY. Sooooo happy for your emotional healing. Focus on your healing and purpose, not the pain of the storms or you will sink like Peter

@marquidamobley1473 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT

@arankagionetti2098 Жыл бұрын

Amazing! Teaching! Don't expecting you from others !

@AmazingKay30 Жыл бұрын

Father give me the wisdom and discernment to stop expecting your qualities from the uncommitted ill do good as on to you ❤️‍🔥🙏🏾❤️‍🔥

@scottbrewer782 Ай бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITED

@user-hn9cc6rd7q 2 ай бұрын

🗣️”FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM & DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED; I’LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU” Praise you Heavenly Father 🙏🏼Ty Pastor for the word of encouragement 🙌🏼

@lr5637 Жыл бұрын

Just like the enemy sends people, so does God!!! Yes indeed Pastor Flowers. God sends the most beautiful relationships. Satan sends the most destructive and chaotic relationships. Exaggerating our place in someone else's heart always leads to heartbreak. It's not your value, it's their vision. Parasites only see what they can gain from their manipulation. They never see the genuine individual that you are.

@songofsolomon03 Жыл бұрын

🗣The person who needs many can not be loyal to any!!! Can I get an AMEN!!!!

@Lovelovelovelove1 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@TheComposerRell 11 ай бұрын

FATHER I THANK YOU FOR THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED! I’ll do good as done unto You!

@TenaciousB20 Жыл бұрын

Healing is a event! That’s good Pastor!

@ninah608able Жыл бұрын

I already know I will have to listen to this message over and over. Whew!

@newenglandtoffee9190 Жыл бұрын

I'M GLAD TO BE BACK.🙏🏽 I LOOK FORWARD TO IT EVERY WEEK. THANK YOU PASTOR FLOWERS🙏🏽💝

@christinabrown2533 Ай бұрын

Therapy Thursdays has allowed me to gain wisdom and knowledge regarding how God wants me to live the life he’s given to me. It’s also given me better insight to situations and issues I’ve gone through and my reaction brought God’s action. ❤

@amandabailey1876 Жыл бұрын

Congrats to the Curry family!! GOD BLESS!!

@tishatruth4145 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations isaac curry 🎉

@nicolematt633 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to the Curry's! And Good message. Amen. Amen.

@deirdreelliott8668 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVES ME THE WISDOM And DISCERNMENT AND EXPECTING YOU QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED I’LL Do GOOD UNTO YOU

@melissagoodwin2602 Жыл бұрын

Hope deferred make the heart sick. Definitely don't expect you from others, speak it my brother

@glorythehila1423 Жыл бұрын

I am glad to be here!

@marchijan Жыл бұрын

🎉 to godly offspring for the Curry family

@Dakota26987 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DICERMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED

@emilyvazquez5387 Жыл бұрын

🙌🏻🙌🏻yes Jesus and thank you!

@user-jd5fk5ey1u 3 ай бұрын

this is my first time watching thursday therapy...

@brandiejones_ 2 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this message! On time and so good! Thank you Lord 🙌🏻❤

@awilson1569 Жыл бұрын

"I will do good unto You!" WHEW! Not for other's sake, but for You, Jesus!

@chrisparker6249 Жыл бұрын

Wow!!!! This message was so impactful. A lot of times I expected me to show up at the end of a relationship, but I never did. I wanted to be afforded the same love and respect as I had given, but it never came. They were not me❤ God gives grace and I had to forgive in order for him to give me what I deserve🙏🔥👑💪

@cherrellegrace4065 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to the Curry family and Flowers family

@Blue77Blue Жыл бұрын

KEEP CATCHING COLDS FORM PEOPLE YOU TREATING MY MY ONLY FLOWERS BLESS U AND UR FAMILY

@priscillacastro224 2 ай бұрын

Amen! This word is POWERFUL! Thank you Jesus for placing this Pastor to speak directly to the situation I was in and confirming what I was asking you for❤

@iam.surprisesweets6401 8 ай бұрын

We heal for the next level and Grow ! 💖

@antoinettelawrence9800 Жыл бұрын

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE CURRYS

@Me4Life81 5 ай бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU.

@daniellem.3194 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITY FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. I will do good as unto you.

@richakhanna8112 3 ай бұрын

The joy of the Lord is my strength

@riannaHermione Жыл бұрын

"Exaggerating our place in somebody else's heart always leads to heartbreak." Ouch

@slaytherellway 2 ай бұрын

I’m glad to be here 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@teirrareed4613 2 ай бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED; I'LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU

@erinramirez9274 6 ай бұрын

Phenomenal Sermon!! Come to Albany NY!! 🙏❤️❤️✝️✝️❤️❤️🙏

@msvanessa8640 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations To the Curry’s! Yay ❤🎉

@newenglandtoffee9190 Жыл бұрын

FATHER, GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED: I'LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU! 🙏🏽

@sondrabass5942 Жыл бұрын

I pray in agreement as I remain humble receive continual healing, strength, peace, calm, deliverance, protection & strength to continue pushing forward towards the mark predestined by our Creator, The Lord Jesus Christ! I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR THE WORK BEING DONE IN, THROUGH, AROUND, UNDER & OVER ME, Amen. ❤👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾✝️

@renesashalanham7444 Жыл бұрын

Fellow therapy gathers ur doing great keep up the good work

@lanishajones3488 Ай бұрын

I’m glad to be here! ❤

@carolyoung3646 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad to be here for healing 💜

@lashaywright8921 Ай бұрын

Glorrrry hallelujah Jesus Help us holy spirit!

@leslieartis8542 Жыл бұрын

Good evening, sorry GOOD morning. I am NEW to join your family. I have so much to say but that is a long conversation. I have been binge watching your shorts, teahouse series, and now your therapy Thursday. God knows just when to send a msg to his children. I have been married over 30 yrs. And at this time I am struggling with my husband's illness. Many of the topics you have covered are in areas that there are issues. Thank God for the anointing on you and your beautiful marriage. I am grateful for the counsel that comes through your msgs. The Lord is definitely speaking to me thru you. He is also showing me to me. I will without a doubt stop expecting me from them. I have been making a PEACE. Treaty and I am at the table with myself. Continue on in the work of the Lord and may His blessings continue to be upon you and your family and strength for the task you are to accomplish

@hunnycup2008 Жыл бұрын

FATHER, GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU.

@bbuffkin5463 Жыл бұрын

Thank you sooooo much for this! I pray it's an antidote for past hurt and a vaccine for future exposure! 🙌

@carinebelle4356 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful comment ❤

@amandagobert2749 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@jaydetemar 6 ай бұрын

This message was so anointed and right on time! Blessed to receive and hear this. Thank you! Wow

@DJCed-realigious Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being a P.A. system for God's Glory 🙏🏿 #andthatsonbigGod

@nsukumudau5634 Жыл бұрын

FATHER, GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED; ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU!

@michellesescoe8428 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOU QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. ILL DO GOOD BY YOU

@naonur5702 5 ай бұрын

It's my first time here at Therapy Thursday and congrats to the new parents!

@MONICAPGRAY-lo3vu Ай бұрын

Father give me the wisdom and discernment to stop expecting your qualities from the uncommitted I’ll Do Good As Unto You!

@whocares4684 Жыл бұрын

Amen, I just did this last night! I prayed for my man, who has recently gone silent on me. I feel so hurt, but it is God's will be done before mine. I give him and the situation to God.

@daniellem.3194 Жыл бұрын

You are talking! Thanking God for your life.

@janika954 Жыл бұрын

🙌🏽Father give me the wisdom and discernment to stop expecting the qualities of you from the uncommitted I’ll do good unto!❤

@kaykay2679 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love Jerry & Tanisha!! My life has been changed forever! I watch y’all daily! My relationship with God has grown so much! Such an anointed man & woman of God!! Love y’all!! Blessings!!!

@jenniferbaltimore5520 2 ай бұрын

First timer and I'm glad to have found you. I need and welcome healing. As requested I see you (everyone) and congratulate you, Issac.

@lilynama 5 ай бұрын

Whatever I do, I do it like unto the Lord. Hallelujah 🎉

@maricelaramos9251 Жыл бұрын

I’m a first timer! Love this ministry! Thank you!

@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations Isaac Curry and family. Congratulations in advance to the Flowers as well. Blessed families. This was sooo good. God must've seen that I'm tired and over people. Lack of loyalty, disingenuity and no reciprocity was doing my head in. God gave me a big heart that I believed was a set up because I was running into people that saw it as something to take advantage of. Now i know how to deal with it. Thanks Jerry.

@dorothy7382 Жыл бұрын

I'm. Glad I'm here😊

@raiar4095 Жыл бұрын

I think I was screaming throughout this whole video 🤣 such a healing and beautiful word. Thank you God! God Bless you and your family.

@ddupree109 Жыл бұрын

Awesome teaching!! Lesson learned!

@starrguthrie3583 Жыл бұрын

FATHER, GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. I’LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU.

@josiebailey6454 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU!!!!

@vernaybell5456 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DECREMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED I WILL DO GOOD UNTO YOU.

@tracyhall8551 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for using your pain as a testimony. Man.

@lemardrickbrown6440 Жыл бұрын

HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN!!!!

@cherrellegrace4065 Жыл бұрын

FATHER GIVE ME THE WISDOM ABD DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED. ILL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU

@brownettataylor1053 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad to be back

@ronmoses3859 8 ай бұрын

LORD FATHER God, GIVE ME THE WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT TO STOP EXPECTING YOUR QUALITIES FROM THE UNCOMMITTED; I'LL DO GOOD AS UNTO YOU!

@tanyacain8147 Жыл бұрын

Congrats on your beautiful and blessed bundle of joy!!🙏

@ninasky7 Жыл бұрын

Incredible message 👏 🙌🫶

@wdsanders04 Жыл бұрын

I’m proud of you !!!

@marquidamobley1473 Жыл бұрын

First timer and I’m glad to be here!