Exactly ❤️

What if it isn't? What if everyone around finds it, like a sudden rainstorm, somewhat annoying, but just part of living in the world? And certainly not an event that anyone should be embarrassed about? Weather happens. Children exist, and make noise. Often that noise is a pleasure to hear... sometimes not. And that's not a failing on the part of parents. And 99% of people know that, and the ones that don't... they're the ones who ought to feel embarrassed, not you.

It totally can feel embarrassing! And I've found that most of that comes from the thoughts / beliefs you have about it. Especially depending on how you grew up. If your subconscious believes tantrum = you can't control your kid = you're a bad mom... it's easy to feel uncomfortable! I think one of the most powerful things is to dig into why you feel that way and if it's really true ❤️