STOP! NEVER Do THIS! 5 Things You're STILL Doing That Turn Women OFF!

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STOP! NEVER Do THIS! Things You're STILL Doing That Turn Women OFF! … In this dating advice video, I will be explaining to you the things that turn women off that you should never do. You might turn women off without knowing and it can be on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips for men and be sure to watch the entire video.
It would help if you didn't continue doing the things that turn women off that many men are still doing to date. I want you to understand women better, and in this dating advice for men, I will help you to avoid being a turn-off to women. Embrace this dating advice to stop turning women off and be able to leave them wanting more.
I want you to know the things that you should never do to a woman that may ultimately turn her off and make her take you for granted. When you know what turns women off, you can then avoid those dating turn-offs for women, and you will be able to enjoy your dating and relationships.
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@worshipwhilewewait 2 жыл бұрын

Avids fans and watch everything but this one hit something strong. This was just released a few hrs ago and We've had a number of conversations about this webisode already. The logic thing - absolutely! The "too nice" thing - absolutely absolutely! You really are that "decoder" - THANKS! We'll be listening and She'll say "SHE RIGHT!!!" and I'm wondering "WHAT?!?!?" but after She explains WHY You're right (using Our examples), it does make sense. We're at the point where We're trying to be completely honest with each other and trying to understand each other and communicate to each other Our own 'feelings' and thoughts without thinking any less of each other or acting out in some kind of retaliation (if that makes sense) and these videos REALLY help, mainly in just starting those certain 'conversations'. Both of Us LOVE the humor and the way things come across - THANKS! An added plus - reading the comments. Those bring up a LOT of conversations. SO glad We subscribed long ago. Peace! 💖👍

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

This comment makes me so happy! Your lady is open and wants to make your relationship work. So far, sounds like she's a keeper. Thank you both for watching! (Share any videos you think other couples can benefit from watching together.) #mademyday

@DELTA_77805 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam What has happened to todays society.

@djbabbotstown 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam Girl. Your doing great. But I really think you could step it up. More of the what to do. Than don’t. A lot of guys are struggling with the taking control bit. And asking isn’t it. Am i communicating it well?

@freddiestranger9783 Жыл бұрын

GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW

@QuiDocetDiscit Жыл бұрын

@Freddie Stranger you are extremely irritating sir. You make Christians look like brainwashed idiots. This is NOT the proper forum for such a beautiful message. Learn some emotional intelligence and decorum instead of presenting as a bombastic propagandist.

@mreverybody1150 2 жыл бұрын

There are 2 things that make a woman unhappy: 1) Getting what she wants. 2) Not getting what she wants. If after realising this, you still want to proceed. Then don't say you weren't sufficiently warned!

@clintjones9848 2 жыл бұрын

Omg lol

@ilikepancakes2368 Жыл бұрын

How do some people even maintain long term relationships then? Is it even possible?

@mreverybody1150 Жыл бұрын

@@ilikepancakes2368 Many people maintain dysfunctional long term relationships. But I think to have healthy ones the only way is to do so where the ego is not in the driving seat (first step is learning to have no thoughts). It would have to be one where it's focused on God, mutual spiritual ascension, truth, and scripture.

@yeudsiegal5285 Жыл бұрын

@@mreverybody1150 scriptures?

@mreverybody1150 Жыл бұрын

@@yeudsiegal5285 Biblical scriptures, Proverbs and Psalms. They contain a lot of wisdom and lessons.

@maletalkingpoints6548 2 жыл бұрын

Like my grandfather once told me: "if you want unconditional love get yourself a dog."

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

A dog will love you unconditionally and right away. A woman takes a long time to warm up to that level of emotional safety. Can she love you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/abNhd6eeudu0on0.html

@artryan5330 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think Women love a man , it’s what we can offer them at that certain time, there are like chameleons like Night and day💯

@TheRumpelstinskin 2 жыл бұрын

@@artryan5330 Women love is conditional.

@snoopybalkaniero8495 Жыл бұрын

Yep

@snoopybalkaniero8495 Жыл бұрын

@@artryan5330 more like a 1001% 😂

@kicksalot9943 2 жыл бұрын

“You will never be right for the wrong person” just be yourself or the best version of yourself and if they don’t like that, move on it will never last in a long term relationship, save yourself the time.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Start with a solid foundation of compatible beliefs, values and long term goals and build on that :)

@UnexpectedWonder 2 жыл бұрын

Truly!

@UnexpectedWonder 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam Absolutely! 🙏🙏👊👊👏👏

@robaldridge6505 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam +++ morals and friendship

@Chazopia 2 жыл бұрын

(from a guy) Hey Ladies, I have an idea...how about just being a normal human being. Don't be neurotic, depressed, sad, desperate, overly needy, self-hating, overbearing, and aggressive as a normal way of being for you on a daily basis. Wow, what a concept, right?

@chipjohnson9283 2 жыл бұрын

How to turn a woman off. Saying "Hi!" Usually does the trick. 😂

@Lonstermash 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds about right (even for us high value men)

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

So what I hear you saying is you would like a video on flirting ;)

@Lonstermash 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam OR a video for women that teaches them to appreciate sincere men who don't play games, lol

@christopherevans6428 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah right and get me too’d 😄

@Tandrew 2 жыл бұрын

Amen to this bro

@ricardogalindo8794 2 жыл бұрын

"You can not make a woman attracted to you, if there is no chance whatsoever. " very important! Just progress in your life and make yourselves better every day. Most women are very shallow and superficial anyways. Why even worry about it? The correct woman could come...?.but what if they don't? Just enjoy life.

@fargeeks 2 жыл бұрын

I had a lady (who was taken) became very attracted to me And it sucked

@nickrapitis4896 2 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right my friend.

@freddiestranger9783 Жыл бұрын

OKAY GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW

@electricsnake-i8125 Жыл бұрын

I agree, let it go its not worth it. Although I have to say something about the women being shallow part, and they are, but so are men. I think Men and women alike get confused with this sentiment because most of us think about potential mates, like how we would think, and it doesn't make sense especially when your younger. Basically yes women are shallow for the same reasons men are, but its a different shallowness. When I was younger and slightly more stupid than I am today I would think like this... man I want to have sex so bad, don't women want to do this to? And y aren't they, at least w me at the time, like I'm thinking it's a win win for both of us, until I wised up, slightly. The nice guy aproach is actually the most shallow, and why women don't respect it, because like she said they know what we want, and any amount of fawning, and simping, and all that crap doesn't work because we're ultimately hiding are true intentions, and its weak. We're not really nice guys, even if we think we are, I mean maybe on the surface, but its all for ya know ... women realize this very early In life, before most boys even know whats going on, so there ahead of the curve so to speak. Women seem shallow when they're vetting us, and thst can be frustrating for men, but when we simp to try and get some booty we're just as shallow, we're thinking I do everything for her but no bootay, because she knows that's yoir game and she'll let u play it out in vein.. oh well. Now the nice guy thing sometimes makes guys think they should be an asshole. Not the right move, there's a difference between a "nice guy" and a guys who's nice. Don't think you have to be an asshole, u don't, you have to be more direct with your intent if your at that point, like she says create tension. Nice guys don't do that, they simp in hopes that she'll "come to her senses" she won't. Like I said u don't have to be an asshole, u can be nice, but set boundaries for yourself, and let it be known u think of her as more than a friend. Trust me she already knows, and acting like you see her as this virtuous person with no intent on being physically intimate, is basically you just lying to her. And she'll let you play it out for as long as u can't stand it in the dreaded friend zone.

@x-man5056 Жыл бұрын

@@electricsnake-i8125 Women want to have sex at varying degrees just like men do, but they have more consequences to consider.

@josephregalado2397 2 жыл бұрын

“Women speak a thousand shades of ‘hint’.” What a clever turn of phrase- I’m stealing that!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@tjbohmier46 2 жыл бұрын

I have always had a "I could care less" vibe toward women, which has always kept my plate overflowing. If you make the mistake of putting any woman on a "pedestal"...be prepared for things to become rough. I have done it a couple of times. You give good tips.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Yes, if you put her on a pedestal she will look down on you!

@fargeeks 2 жыл бұрын

I was pursued by a taken babymomma

@KpxUrz5745 Жыл бұрын

I had a "I could care less" vibe, and guess what? So did all the women.

@user-yk4gd1fl4z 10 ай бұрын

“I couldn’t care less”… Don’t put her off with your piss poor use of English phrasing. Your welcome.

@MrGianeta 10 ай бұрын

well, yeah. It's a lot of pressure for a woman. Also it's not "safe". Today he puts you on a pedestal, tomorrow he'll be trampling you into mud with sadistic pleasure, 'cause people are just people even the best ones and pedestals don't last. So, yeah. Of course, you'd keep away from smb who's doing the pedestal thing. They have to deal with their own insecurities first.

@joelshrin4331 2 жыл бұрын

The “too nice” is absolutely true! I was WAY too accommodating in a 5 year relationship. Got dumped, with a thinner wallet. I won’t blame the next girl because I previously was a chump, but it was a lesson well learned. Moderation!!! Nice guys really do finish last.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

The blessing is that you learned your lesson and you’ll be better off for it 😊

@raularmas317 Жыл бұрын

I realized that if I started the relationship off by 'gifting her' or spending money 💰 on her too quickly then it began to feel like I was trying to buy her loyalty...Now I think that's never a good way to find out her level of investment in the relationship. I think authentic guys finish first whether or not they get the girl because the authentic or genuine ones never have to question how they are coming across.

@kevinjohn9905 Жыл бұрын

Really I'm a ring fighter a really nice guy to and I always get the girls to 💪 I'm out of here adios amigos

@MIKEWHOSCO Жыл бұрын

@@kevinjohn9905 yeah right that's why you're watching, you also failed the bragging point (even though you are pretending)

@MrTripleXXX 11 ай бұрын

I was the opposite of this, the rebellious bad boy with the soft heart but still struggled with some women. I had the issue of attracting some really toxic types and they hurt me big time. Possibly my own fauly because I had a weakness for the bad girls, the good girls were not what I wanted.

@scottmurray5600 2 жыл бұрын

NEVER, EVER, EVEN CONSIDER being nice to a woman. She will look at you like you offered her hot steaming shit on a platter. ANY sign of weakness/lack of confidence will mean the familiar look of disappointment and disgust. Instead, get a dog. Treat the dog with the utmost care, love, respect and spend plenty of time playing. No regrets. The end.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Never be too nice to a woman: check! ;)

@scottmurray5600 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam I can never understand that if you give a woman a heart felt compliment she tries to rip off your face. If you mildly.....mildly, insult her, you get the giggles in reply and the most beautiful smile. I have to admit to loving women very deeply all my life. Women have nursed, encouraged, guided, protected, consoled and offered me the the greatest happiness. I owe women EVERYTHING. I still don't understand them. Instead I'm a hobby beekeeper....and beekeeping isn't about bees. It is about securing as best a future for the colony. At last I got a glimse into hormone city!

@DonaldGerbino 2 жыл бұрын

I'm always nice im just not weak ,gotta talk with humor and confidence, if she gets my humor great if not oh well on to the next ,being nice dosent mean being a doormat ,I don't tolerate any disrespect and if I'm not a priority I move on

@captbrad6329 2 жыл бұрын

Being a nice caring empathic man, not a macho alpha or weak beta, Sygma I guess So I gotta not be myself, A nice caring person, Be a persona Or I'm percieved as weak and worthless? SO Where have all the GOOD MEN GONE? rejected . Had a wonderful wife Passed away Loved me passionately. Now I'm a simp? Double standard much. No wonder they alone

@LexRuger718 2 жыл бұрын

@@DonaldGerbino Telling women there beautiful is a turn off now, it's not as cut and dry as being a doormat. I was perceived as weak just for liking a woman but I will snap any mans neck for nothing. The world is backwards now

@sasbttrr 2 жыл бұрын

My simple tip is: Do as you like (not physical intimacy without consent), be a man, respect her and don't care much about her. Don't get attached too early. Value Yourself and stay comitted to your goals. Even if the girl you like doesn't reciprocate the one who will, will be of much higher value than her granted that you stay comitted to your goals and self development.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@williamsherman1089 Жыл бұрын

Well said!

@marguskiis7711 Жыл бұрын

And you stay single. Cheers!

@tommygun5038 8 ай бұрын

Don't get attached period. You'll set yourself up for a lot of pain.

@simontmn Жыл бұрын

"I don't expect you to be logical, but I'm really impressed when/that you are" is a frame that seem to work for me.

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@deepwater9215 2 жыл бұрын

Ladies, stop doing these 3 things that turn guys off! 1. Getting older 2. Gaining weight 3. Talking

@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier Жыл бұрын

4. Not getting in the mood

@mrnice7570 Ай бұрын

5. Monkey branching and optimization of hypergamy

@tjf5148 7 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@jstaffretirement6783 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever I see a video like this I find it tragic. Twice in my life I met a woman who I thought is the perfect partner and I loved them for exactly what they are. I tried my best to get each one at their turn to marry me, but they disrespected me. They went after men who did not care for them nearly as much as I did and ended up alone. I finally married a third woman who appriciated me without me resorting to all kind of tactics. All too often men court women to satisfy their needs. But sometimes the love of a man to a woman can be as pure as a flame. Women do not seem to appriciate the difference. It is sad that men have to resort to all kind of tactics to get a woman they really care for rather than simply being themselves.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on finding the right one for you! I wasn't the Designer, I'm just the Decoder, trying to help guys from choosing poorly or turning off a keeper. I agree, it would certainly be easier if we were all built the same! Thank you for your input!

@kingarthurusatenniscoach1415 2 жыл бұрын

well done, mate , playing tactics to win a women is not going to work in the long run as it will break down,

@PizzaTime1983 18 күн бұрын

Wat do u mean by men that didn't care much for them???

@Invisibility397 2 жыл бұрын

I'm learning how to use these tools and skills so that I can live in solitude without being bothered by them and so I can start out with neutral emotions and escalate to positive energy

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Love this! Thanks for being here!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Things you're still doing that turn women off. #nonookyforyou *If you want women to understand men, share this!* wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/ Also watch: Saying "this" turns on 99% of all women: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ott6jbOox72ahpc.html ☎️ Need one-on-one coaching or counselling? Use Online.Therapy and get an automatic 20% discount with this link: www.online-therapy.com/?ref=271492 💪🏼Get Your Testosterone Checked! wingmam.com/blog/2020/02/10/fellas-do-you-have-low-testosterone/ (Use code: Anna30. If you use the link & code you get a 30% discount.) HINT: Healthy testosterone levels can contribute to improved mood, confidence, and assertiveness!

@easygrs8745 2 жыл бұрын

I really want to know and see how this plays out thank you Anna happiness love peace joy powerful wisdom health

@AngelicWarmheartedNinja 2 жыл бұрын

As I was saying, how do I stop being too nice? What do I suppose to do? Be mean to her to be a real alpha male?

@AllenSymonds 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe you could help me? I seemed to have lost my Congressional Medal of Honor.. around here someplace?

@AngelicWarmheartedNinja 2 жыл бұрын

@Steve A Thanks, Steve

@DeCurtaRican 2 жыл бұрын

Why should anyone listen to you? Do you even have a man? What’s YOUR status?

@tackleberry2928 Жыл бұрын

Be in shape. Have money. You still won't be able to keep her, you'll just get your turn.

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@martinphilip8998 19 күн бұрын

In 1946 my father proposed telling my mother “You will never need an eraser because I don’t make mistakes and you won’t need a dictionary because I know all the words!” It worked! He was the only marriage aged white man in Nome, Alaska. I’m one of their 9 children. Though he died at age 45, he put all of us through college.

@YourWingmam 19 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@calebz5890 6 ай бұрын

I've always been too nice, and I never liked that phase "happy wife, happy life". thank you

@YourWingmam 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@arturosalazar4890 Жыл бұрын

Great video. I've been guilty of using logic and being too nice with my gf. We've been having a lot of trouble with intimacy, but it's getting better. Open communication about our needs has helped massively. Also, I've realized that I do much better when I can better make myself relax. If I'm really high strung, talking fast, not showing calm, not enjoying the moment enough, showing my worried about things too much etc, then it's a big turn off for her

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@actmyage2149 2 жыл бұрын

Using logic on a woman: learned that was futile early on. My wife said she was attracted to my high sense of logic -- regardless, logic was rarely the way to get into her head. Solid video. Your energy was highly pronounced today, so I'm hoping that reflects a general positive feeling of well-being. And the fairly simple outfit with the high color contrast worked marvelously well. Praying for you. Russ P PS/ PJ the Piddler and Tyson send you their snoring best tonight. Hope Stealthy Stuffy is well hanging out in the kitchen,

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I'm on some new meds that are helping! Yay!! And yes, women do appreciate logic *at certain times.* But more than anything, we need it! Thank you for the compliment and continued prayers... pups: check; cat: check! God bless you, Russ!

@Fallen-Saint 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam good luck sensei

@mariaalmasaniroyalhouse9214 2 жыл бұрын

I am a logical person and that is what I respond to best but then again I have aspergers. When my husband appeals to logic I respond. When he appeals to emotion I feel more attached to him but completely forgot what he said.

@josephharmon9787 Жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam I don’t know about your situation but I hope you’re well. 🙏

@olanrewajubello5881 2 жыл бұрын

Like to mention I do appreciate the thoughtfulness, practicality and balance; and also engaging humourous style you bring; I feel the hard work and wit. It's being impacting, since I came across your channel. And this choice of classic simple outfit with the commanding buttons is a knock out. Many more impacts Anna. Cheers.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! And so glad my videos are helping!

@paultravis3249 2 жыл бұрын

Teaching about how to flirt and examples would be a HUGE interest to learn more of what women want to receive

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Noted! :)

@Martin-ej6tc 25 күн бұрын

Your ability to translate women's subtlety into concrete practicality and logical procedure is highly appreciated! I get frustrated with all this subtlety tbh, but I'm fairly used to it. But the reminders are super useful, and especially in this overt vernacular.

@YourWingmam 25 күн бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you!

@tedhenry7879 2 жыл бұрын

I've been married for 30 years and I could have used this advice both before and during my marriage. Lucky for me, enough times I did the right action without specifically knowing it was the right action. I now understand why some women suddenly "turned off" when I was pursuing them...back in the day. I'll definitely apply this to my marriage as you really must continue to court your spouse....if you want a happy marriage. I love your videos, you are a joy to listen to, easy on the eyes, and your advice is right on.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

@stephenmoxley3004 2 жыл бұрын

Great video, Anna. Lots of good advice here. I probably fall in to the category of being too nice. But, I'm learning to be more middle of the road. Keep up the great work.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you got something out of it! If you want some more tips and examples on not being too nice, check out some of the videos in my nice guy playlist; kzfaq.info/sun/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkVTxGbz0VK9p_bySymr3XW

@commerce-usa 2 жыл бұрын

Another great one. Logic can be very reassuring if it gets dressed up as common sense. It builds a level of confidence and trust, both being emotions to which women tend to respond really well. Patience is often a friend too. Understatement and setting expectations down a notch where one can deliver up a notch also helps when delivered in a teasing way. Thanks for covering this. Have run into the blue bird scenario before, but found it less than satisfying. For me, the need for connection takes some time to evaluate if it's even worth proceeding.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for a well thought out comment! Women do need logic :)

@stevenbest6470 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for amazing content. Happy New Year ! God Bless PS- love your sense of humor-thanks again.

@petewangen-groovedrummer8083 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for the outstanding advice WingMAM.

@wojtekm9604 2 жыл бұрын

Being emphatic....how ever she feels I feel the same way...especially depression anxiety and things like that

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I understand being an empath! That's a tough gig, gotta prep yourself so you don't lose yourself in others darkness :)

@parajacks4 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anna, your advice is always welcome, especially as I’m about to start dating again after 30 years with the same women (married for 25 of those years) Time to seek new horizons.

@fredo5540 2 жыл бұрын

How old are you now?

@parajacks4 2 жыл бұрын

@@fredo5540 I’m 53

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that and thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

@Sam62254 8 ай бұрын

Anna, you are so smart and insightful, yet so real and down-to-Earth. You come off as a truly a genuine person, which I'm certain you are. Your little giggles when you make a mistake or say something off the cuff or suggestive are heart-warming and adorable. Thank you for being there to help decode women for us sometimes clueless, but well-intentioned men. I don't know why you don't already have five million subscribers. Keep doing what you do. Some day you will, I'm certain. Sam

@YourWingmam 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, Sam! 💕

@scottvandenhemel6327 Жыл бұрын

Good advice, I have 3 of these faults for sure. You have a great channel, keep up the good work!

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@garybankston9319 2 жыл бұрын

I would like to see how you look with your hair combed back. I think your channel is the best of it's kind out there. Anything that can help people understand each other is what this world sorely needs.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for my favourite kind of compliment! :))

@creyetivemedia 2 жыл бұрын

You're so good at explaining and using humor thank you!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

@9w96b6 2 жыл бұрын

@Your Wingmam your advice and beauty grow with every video! Respect!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely compliment, thank you!

@rudeawakening3833 Жыл бұрын

Spot ON ! Probably the most informative and straightforward video for men I’ve seen in 12 years dating . And , THANK YOU 🙏 “ Wingmam “

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

@rudeawakening3833 Жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam Love your “ delivery “ !!! Lmao ! You are a hoot !

@DeCurtaRican 2 жыл бұрын

The best way to attract women is not to care whether or not they like you. The more aloof I am, and the less attention I pay to them, the more attention they give me. Women like men who truly do not want or need them, and I am definitely one of those. I am too busy trying to make money and trying to improve various things in my life. I can live without them. I will always be kind and behave as a gentleman, but I let them ask ME out!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I've mentioned all of this in several videos. Though, I will say, you and other men like you would still be able to ask a woman out and be successful. Some HVW women simply won't take that step. (Though they may hint in the hopes you'll do the official ask.) Thanks for watching and commenting!

@mikeyfreckles17 2 жыл бұрын

You've got it right buddy the less you care paradoxically the more attractive you get it's shit but true.

@distantstorm3808 2 ай бұрын

That's not true. The woman has to be attracted to you to begin with. A woman couldn't give a shit less about an unattractive man "not caring". It's not going to suddenly make him desirable.

@alkaed5416 2 жыл бұрын

Anna, this video shows you at your finest - such charm you have shown to deliver yet another insightful presentation for us men. I haven't seen most of your videos but have found them entertaining and enlightening. I haven't been in a relationship for a long time but your insights have led to my thinking about searching again. But I see something else here. Just looking at the sidebar I see thumbnails of your videos that have titles like "7 Principles...", "5 Desperate Tricks...", "9 Tiny Habits..." that are intended to help a guy get the gal. But getting the gal isn't enough - we have to keep up with these attentions to keep her. What comes to mind is a common performance in old variety shows in the days of black and white TV - a performer with a table on the stage, long vertical sticks attached to the edges of the table and a stack of dinner plates. The performer starts out spinning one plate on the top end of the stick to the point where it is stable, then proceeds to do the same with additional plates. Eventually he has quite a few plates spinning but those spun first are slowing down and begin to wobble. To keep these going and not smashing on the floor he runs to them and spins them back up. So I see this problem with the list of things needed to keep the gal happy. It's just not possible to have the energy to do these things without stopping and its just not possible to have any other life than "spinning the plates" with this commitment. I guess I'm permanently closing the door on future relationships. But I will still enjoy watching your videos when I can. Thanks, Anna.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

There's no question, relationships are work (for both sides). It still befuddles me as to how much energy a man or woman is willing to invest to *get* the object of their desire but once they get them they don't want to have to continue the effort. I appreciate you watching my videos, they'll help you better understand women in any area of your life even if you choose to stay single. :)

@grand73am 2 жыл бұрын

That was really good Anna! Thanks, Steve

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it, Steve! :))

@bachaplegic 2 жыл бұрын

Your tips are eye opening, thank you for making these videos.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

@andrewm.8841 2 жыл бұрын

I don't know that I've ever given a woman a genuine, heart-felt, compliment, but I will say. I like your style. Your authoritative approach to stuff is the confidence that I admire in a woman. It isn't nagging, or bossy. It just so happens that the rules of the game are complicated for men.

@metalmike570 2 жыл бұрын

I don't want my balls in her purse!! I won't be too damn nice!!

@andrewm.8841 2 жыл бұрын

@@metalmike570 Don't worry, I don't have feelings for her. She just pulled off something that I had never experienced before. I'm pretty cold hearted, because women are so needy. She appears to be less so, and I respect that.

@metalmike570 2 жыл бұрын

@@andrewm.8841 I read your top statement again and it's full of confidence and gives a strong assessment of her video in that - "It isn't nagging, or bossy. It just so happens that the rules of the game are complicated for men." If she read it she'd enjoy the compliment that she is not needy at all. My comment was in left field but it was because I got a kick out it when she said it - don't put your balls in her purse!

@andrewm.8841 2 жыл бұрын

@@metalmike570 She gets that men enjoy that kind of stuff, and it sticks the idea in our heads. I noticed how her material is framed in a way that guys can understand. I wish more women took the time to understand us and reciprocate the energy we put into them. Rare Woman indeed.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for a wonderful and classy compliment! And thanks for watching, much appreciated!

@charlesbutler4646 2 жыл бұрын

Everything you said in this video is exactly right. Excellent advice delivered in a very fun and entertaining way. You do a wonderful job and are very enjoyable to watch. We men are very interesting creatures. At our core we are very simple to figure out if you use the right analytical tools. The problem with most women is that they want to figure us out but they're using the wrong tools. I think you have definitely figure this out that makes you I'm very effective coach. I would love to see you do a series where you explain men to women. A woman who understand men as well as you do is a very rare treasure indeed.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

What a wonderful compliment! Thank you so much! My channel is for men and it would confuse the algorithm if I switched over to women *but* you might enjoy this (very long and comprehensive) manifest I wrote for women (share it if you think it might help some ladies understand men better!): wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/

@stupadasso8093 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Your content is very informative. The 3 T's is an awesome explanation on flirting. I wish I had learned that 20 years ago. If you could do a video on just the tension part of flirting, it would be great.

@ankuragrawal2297 2 жыл бұрын

Love your videos and the way you present and explain ❤️😊

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

@tomcaldwell5750 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Anna for the great advice! I struggle with being to nice. I feel good when I am serving others ( Is this what is called a servent's heart?) So. I tend to be to nice for my own good. But. I am working on correcting this situation when it comes to women that's I am dating.

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

@UnexpectedWonder 2 жыл бұрын

While I appreciate, Respect, and have lived through a lot of this, some of this comes off as batshit Crazy to me and explains why some things didn't work out and sometimes the childish nature of some Females. There's nothing wrong with thinking Emotionally, but Logic is essential as you mentioned. I guess it takes a certain type of Woman to appreciate and Love Romantically certain types of Men.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Indeed. Step 1: avoid the damaged ones! Red flags: kzfaq.info/sun/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ

@SaveYourselfGents Жыл бұрын

Correct @ UnexpectedWonder

@gilbertsilva6850 2 жыл бұрын

Love the insights! Thanks for sharing. I am learning to understand women a lot better though your videos! You make make a lot of sense.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that! Thanks so much for watching!

@sakhiramezani8726 2 жыл бұрын

Happy with these 🙌

@radar0412 2 жыл бұрын

These videos are exactly what's wrong with women. Women constantly telling you what's wrong with YOU, so that THEY don't have to look at themselves, and ask themselves what THEY have to do in order to be a more Loving, Tolerant women.

@jamesp8459 2 жыл бұрын

Her videos are about helping guys understand how women think, not to put men down. You should watch a few. Apparently this one is going to be about what turns women off, I'm sure certain things turn you off, by your logic should you just stop being turned off by them and date women you don't like?

@radar0412 2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesp8459 My comment is to make women understand Men. And that Men only want to see women Grow into more Tolerant, loving human beings. Nothing wrong with hearing the flip side of a story.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Well, my channel is an advice for men channel. :) But you may want to share this article I wrote for women: wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/

@64maxpower 2 жыл бұрын

@@jamesp8459 I feel it can only help your end game knowing how many women think. Doesn't mean I need to alter my thinking.

@radar0412 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam I really appreciate your channel. Keep the uploads coming, and don't be offended if I present another viewpoint. Cheers! 😊

@jmad627 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so grateful to have never been married. Before really watching I’m sure I’ll see myself in many if not all the things you list. Love your channel Anna.

@SergeLabelle 2 жыл бұрын

Best decision of my life too!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@banksofbarcelona3893 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice as always!

@anongidko3622 2 жыл бұрын

Wow decodingly great refresher. Great Key Points! Thanks!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

@mikemesser7377 2 жыл бұрын

You are so dang cute, smart and informative! I lost my wife of 45 years 8 years ago and navigating these waters since has been very disappointing. Your videos have been inspiring and helpful for this old romantic.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

My condolences! Losing a partner after that long is like losing part of yourself. :( Did you watch my Lost Love video? kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o7x6pploq8_Ug5c.html I recently had a comment from a man who's 70 who's now getting married. Have hope, have "faith!*

@mikemesser7377 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam Thank you dear! I was a wreck after she was gone and somehow thought finding another woman would ease the pain. Big mistake, I was too vulnerable and needy. I’ll watch your video. Thank you!! 🙏

@videowilliams 2 жыл бұрын

11:40 "Women mirror your feelings about you." Ooh there's a lot in that whole mirroring concept generally- the whole idea this is an energy exchange. I've noticed when interviewing people then watching it back that if I'm hesitant and nervous, they'll get hesitant and nervous. If I'm lighthearted they're lighthearted. There's no escape from being the man she wants to find and giving out the energy she wants to feel. All very "Zen and the art of attraction" or something like that. 19:39 Oh you did 30 points on your blog for women on how to be more feminine and beautiful? How did I miss that since I always read your newsletter? It'd be nice to have a checklist to apply to her for a change. Shall take a look now 8-)

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! If a man wants a woman to feel a certain way about him, he's got to lead her there not dissuade her. Also, the 30 point *very long* blog for women is on my women's site. That newsletter doesn't go out to men. You'd be all like, "whaaat?" Share it! wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/ Maybe I'll compile it into a video for what to watch for in a keeper. :)

@fargeeks 2 жыл бұрын

So why do people tell you to leave them alone when they Mean it??

@jimmyvonesh3188 2 жыл бұрын

Good video. Thanks for posting.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

And thank *you* for watching!

@petewangen-groovedrummer8083 Жыл бұрын

Excellent work, thank you so much. Yes, I was doing some of these things, but no more.

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@bpb210 2 жыл бұрын

I'd love a video on how to flirt if you are very nervous/uncomfortable around women. Teasing and tension do NOT come easy to me. I avoid tension at all costs because I'm always tense (anxiety disorder). Needless to say I've spent 90% of my life single.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

On the docket! Stick with me and you'll be able to change your relationship status (but you'll have to be brave and get out of your comfort zone). I used to be cripplingly shy and suffered from anxiety attacks in the past. Not kidding! (The anxiety was stress-related, however, and is mostly gone now.) Here's my first 1 min video where I mention my shyness: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b8ddgqp3sq7PoqM.html In fact, that's the reason I started my channel and created my WakeUP2Luv program (to help shy guys)! If curious about the program, here's the link...members.wingmam.com/get-women/ Also, you might want to check out Huberman Lab podcast, some good tips for dealing with anxiety. Notably, to reduce anxiety if you feel it coming, take longer exhales than inhales! We always thought deep breaths meant inhaling but it's actually the opposite. You got this!

@salharo8925 8 ай бұрын

Great content, keep it comin!

@harveymushman2219 2 жыл бұрын

Another great info video...Thanks AJ

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you watching and commenting! :)

@alanfox4914 2 жыл бұрын

I'm definitely too nice. I have watched the video you recommended and I'm trying to do something about it. I do like to tell the ladies about my big Mercedes. It doesn't seem to impress them, especially when I tell them it's a Sprinter delivery van. I think I'm alright with the rest. I'm still work in progress👍😁

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Progress not perfection! :)

@Drgluee 2 жыл бұрын

You are doing a good job! And you are 100% right! I believe a lot of women need therapy when they think they are 'okay'. They post things like " I don't need someone who sees the good in me. I need someone who sees the bad in me and still wants me.". Well men do that, and then they push those men away.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

So true! And while we all have character flaws, younger females take that statement the wrong way and think they can be as damaged as they want and still get a high value (less damaged) man. #wrong

@truthdisseminator 2 жыл бұрын

So amusing and such a pleasure to watch you speak, Anna - love your giggles! One subtle contrast you glossed over that you could probably write a thesis, or make a video on, is a woman relenting vs choosing. There are merits in letting either happen initially, I think.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks! I've mentioned it in a few other videos.:) Also, worth watching is Chasing vs Pursuing: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hZyPpJuHrKzWpHk.html

@truthdisseminator 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam yes, (Wing)mam.

@happyhappylover Жыл бұрын

I read this book (No More Mr nice guy) . It hits a lot of your points and good guy gaslighting. Love your shows and your playbook 📖. Keep it up. My wife should like the changes. I'll keep watching your vids more .

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@Nyarlathotep_Flagg 2 жыл бұрын

My personal faults(not that I am in the game, but you know hypothetically), are probably criticism, a high standard for giving out any compliments, ever(People needing to actually earn it). And finally, expecting ppl to operate withing the bounds of reason(logic). My friend is a fool who tries to keep his wife happy, and always eventually gives in to her demands. I've told him countless times to stick up for himself, because she may be happy in the moment, but him giving in is not helping their relationship. And standing up for himself is essential. I'm expecting his relationship to go to hell any day now. I've stopped trying, because he just does not listen. And I can't keep pushing for him to stand up for himself, when he basically always folds.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

That must be so frustrating! And you're right, trying to get him to do something different is futile. He'll have to learn the hard way. Either when she leaves him or through a life of misery. :(

@eternalsoul3862 2 жыл бұрын

Just do this. From the start, put her in the friend zone. Show no interest sexually or other. Just act like you don't care either way. Sexual joking now n then in a playful but respectful way to keep her on her toes. This will also relax things. Gives you time to get to know her for real without the awkward state. Other factors come in as well but if done right, she will seek you out and maybe alittle aggressive. The short version in a nutshell

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I've talked about doing this in one of my friend zone videos. Can't remember which one, but here's the list: kzfaq.info/sun/PLQ8Q-8-X18dlOU9NfaIYnbG0zUveivHjs

@oscarrobinson5169 5 ай бұрын

I just have to say that your hair color is very attractive, you also have such great info for all the guys! Thanks so much and keep up the great work!

@onewithnature8435 Жыл бұрын

Yup, I've tried to use logic and that back fired on me every time. I did give my ex some push back on several topics, and she threw a fit every time, and would go silent on me, not very mature of her. Your sense of humor and laugh is cute! Thanks for helping us guys out.

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

@thebob6385 2 жыл бұрын

There is a quote that I was told during the Basic Non-Commisioned Officer Course that I feel goes to the heart of a lot of your points in this video. "If you have to constantly tell everyone that you are in charge, you're not really in charge." In the context of this video, "If you have to constantly tell everyone how valuable you are, what you're really telling everyone is that you are insecure about how valuable you are." It's a very rare woman that finds insecurity sexy, interesting or romantic. Of course, there is a time to bare your soul including all of your imperfections and insecurities to your partner, but that's definitely not during flirting or courting. I don't know which of these I am most guilty of. None of them stand out to me as something I identify with in particular. Perhaps that's a self-awareness issue though and one or more of the women I've been with would say.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Brilliant statements! #truth

@todddorfman3736 2 жыл бұрын

being too nice is tricky, chicks dig a Southern upper class dude who was taught chivalry, especially the younger chicks because chivalry ain't too common in the younger generations. So go ahead and open the doors for her, don't let her spend $$ on little things, don't let her spend money at all, but make all the date decisions like where to eat, what movie to see, what time to pick her up. If she doesn't like sushi but you do, well she can eat the seaweed soup while she watches you eat tako and unakyu

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@jrtplus1038 2 жыл бұрын

Great content Anna .. 😊 Joy listening to ya👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

@stevefogle6027 2 жыл бұрын

I am so thankful for you, because I see how clueless I am about women at times. Thanks! ❤️

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

None of us learned this stuff in school! And you're welcome!

@jraulc 2 жыл бұрын

As a programmer you must develop a very strong sense of logic and practical solution for things and then you become a very skilled person to find the best solution for daily problems, and there is no blurred lines between right and wrong, 1's and 0's, but then is very annoying to deal with the feminine "logic' most the times...

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Women, simplified: highly emotional, need to feel safe, need stimuli. :)

@commerce-usa 2 жыл бұрын

Fuzzy logic. 🤣

@UnexpectedWonder 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam Hmm... 🤔🤔🤨🤨

@davdin2 2 жыл бұрын

This is so true. But it is why men have such a headache.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I know, I feel for ya! Hug

@srsr8037 3 ай бұрын

Nice job, Anna. You conveyed all good points. And for that you are granted one: atta-boy.

@bryanmccallum4614 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your information it's very helpful!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@lenardosbornsjustice5948 2 жыл бұрын

Out all all the coaches on KZfaq, you have the CLEANEST set up! I can’t help but notice how spotless that floor is!!! My goodness! Now that’s attractive! Not to mention the red vase, matched with the red planter on the dining room table. The white chairs matched with the white glass vase. You remind me of my sister, she’s that good as well. Well done wingmam’.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Keen eye and lovely compliment! 🙏

@davidshoyt1979 2 жыл бұрын

simp. seriously this is just getting sad fellas. stop already.

@lenardosbornsjustice5948 2 жыл бұрын

@@davidshoyt1979 Be positive David. Spread positivity. Instead of trying to pull others down to your level, lift yourself up, and bring everyone with you. I hope your life gets better. Honestly, I mean that.

@DeCurtaRican 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam : In other words, he committed error #6 - overt, excessive flattery meant to be charming - which means HE AIN’T GETTIN NONE! 😆 Tell the truth. I like listening to these videos, not for education but to see how other people view these issues. Most of what you said in this video should be common sense for men. The best rule is, just focus on being the best “you” that you can be. Don’t chase women. Let accidents happen. Dating isn’t hard.

@lenardosbornsjustice5948 2 жыл бұрын

@@DeCurtaRican I want to offer a sincere apology to… ABSOLUTELY NOBODY! Haha We’re fortunate to have her giving everyone and anyone solid advice done in such a fashionable form. Carry on gentleman!

@64maxpower 2 жыл бұрын

In my opinion the effort you make to read and respond to comments I feel is another part of your channel growing. And that you're nice when a comment might be silly or mean. Why can't you say something like shit or Hell when I hear it from other videos all over KZfaq?

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I've made some changes to other areas of my business so I can reply to more (short) public comments here on KZfaq! If you want to hear my potty mouth, view some of my early videos (several got de-monitized due to swears) 😳

@64maxpower 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmammy bad, I hadn't realized a gutter mouth can get you demonotized.

@64maxpower 2 жыл бұрын

@HUB GOBLIN have you read her memoir? Don't let her fool you. She is a shoe snob.

@Larry.Roberton 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam I don't watch potty mouth videos from any channel. It distracts from the content.

@robert4you Жыл бұрын

Greetings from Sweden, Anna. Your videos are gold. Keep up the good work.

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@jammergreg Жыл бұрын

Love your posts!🫶🏽

@FFE-js2zp 2 жыл бұрын

If a women is attracted to you, you can do no wrong. Its a waste of time to pursue a women, if shes not pursuing you, you can only be beta support while she keeps looking. No.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@jeremycranford2732 Жыл бұрын

I couldn’t disagree with you more. I love when everything is easy with my woman and provides me with with everything I want. I feel content and loved. She has my respect and don’t ever feel the urge to go looking. I’m completely happy with her.

@mrsherwood2599 8 ай бұрын

I hate you 😅

@KevvoLightswift 5 ай бұрын

I think she was referring to the fact women don't want things too easy. We guys actually would love that (as you've demonstrated), but this channel is about explaining women, not men.

@petewangen-groovedrummer8083 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Anna, you're amazing. This is Pete the drummer from Minnesota.

@YourWingmam 5 ай бұрын

I appreciate that 🙏

@peterc.3810 2 жыл бұрын

Good video. Your point at the end finished your video nicely.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching the whole thing! Much appreciated!!

@kingarthurusatenniscoach1415 2 жыл бұрын

I see many unhappy married men give their wives everything and say yes for a quiet life

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

It definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@GVvoltaire 2 жыл бұрын

The mind is connected to all aspects of the woman’s body. Grab the mind and body will follow. Keep the mind stimulated with curiosity. I march to the rhythm that we produce and try not to get out of step. My biggest asset is I am a character with respect. My commanding officer once told me, “I be dam* dig***, you know how to tell me to go to hell and get away with it.” I’m a widower. Love you channel

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

First, my condolences for you loss. :( And yes, so true, women need the whole meal deal to be read for intimacy. Thank you for watching my channel! :) I don't know how long she's been gone, but this might help (if you haven't seen it; forgive me if you have and commented there, I answer lots of comments and sometimes forget): kzfaq.info/get/bejne/o7x6pploq8_Ug5c.html

@alfaalfa9488 Жыл бұрын

Your humor is just outta this world. Yet so well grounded 😃

@johnmartinez-valentin5427 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the heads up

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and commenting!

@Lonstermash 2 жыл бұрын

Why is it that when a woman says or does these same things that are considered turn offs to them, we men don't get turned off, assuming we think she looks hot and has at least a decent personality, lol? I agree it's not cool to do certain things like bragging about the size of your junk, but it shouldn't be this complicated. For example, if a woman asks me what my interests are, and I then tell her that I workout 6 days a week, why is that a turn off and considered bragging? If the shoe was on the other foot, I'd be thinking "awesome!" I guess it boils down to the illogical thinking patterns of women. I guess I've been viewed as a Chad by the many women who like me, though, because I don't do any game playing

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Men and women are different. If you tell a woman you work out and you are obviously fit she will figure out you work out a lot. Having to say six days a week isn’t required. But if you’re a Chad and it’s working for you don’t worry about it. :)

@Lonstermash 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam it's even crazier than that. Years ago, I was having a first phone conversation with someone who mentioned something about her "apartment." I later made the mistake of referring to my home as my "condo," so she decided not to meet me, even though she had seen pictures from our good mutual friend and thought I looked hot, as she now felt I was one upping her by using that term, when all I was doing was being matter of fact. Talk about insecure just because she was in her mid 30s and still renting, which I couldn't care less about, as most people in LA are still renting in our mid 30s. But you'd be surprised regarding the working out. Many people are ignorant and think I can look this way only training 3 days a week, not to mention, my online photos show I'm in shape but not nearly as cut as I actually am without my shirt on, so they, again, might not realize how big a part of my life my fitness routine actually is unless I tell them specifically. It works with a lot of women, but I imagine a good number are judgmental and perceived it as bragging, when, again, I was simply being matter of fact. Oh well

@Lonstermash 2 жыл бұрын

@@jwdsax key words...... "most are"

@whatsmyname.7768 2 жыл бұрын

Yea! Great! This is understandably great advice, but ultimately bs to deal with in dealing with wahman! Better to just not give a F!and concentrate on your own happiness!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

I've said that in *many* videos! lol Thanks for watching! :))

@meandmysellefrancaishorsel2585 10 ай бұрын

cliff longlands ,another good one thanks XX

@matthughesrocks 2 жыл бұрын

Great video, thank you!

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

@warrenheppler7624 3 ай бұрын

Love your channel! 😀 And I have used a couple of things I watched you said. And you we're bang on!! I know you've probably heard this one lots lol but I wonder what would dating be like with a dating Coach I would love to see a episode with you on that one. Lol. Looking good and love your KZfaq Anna!

@YourWingmam 3 ай бұрын

Glad my advice helped and good for you for taking the chance to try it!

@rickycat8241 Жыл бұрын

Thank you wingmam! Your advice is like a friend's advice! 😉

@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@thesixthhousedagoth9439 2 жыл бұрын

You do very fine work, thank's :)

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for being here!

@farmerfox99 2 жыл бұрын

girl you are so awesome at communication to men.. Im learning alot. Your pulling back video was so smart. I tend to give too much attention

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

@lahitman 2 жыл бұрын

REAL WORDS Anna. I sit here and laugh and learn from you. When I am out on a date I think about your words and I'm golden. Yeah the last female friend unknown to me prepared herself for 5 months for intimacy. She messaged me on duo and I never answered because my duo notification was off and I don't really use the app. LOL I guess it looked like I was hard to catch. Later I saw all the messages she had been sending I missed but the intimacy came it was explosive for that month when we finally got together.

@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын

💥👏 That's awesome possum! So happy for you! Note channel newbies: At first, understanding women is over-f'in-whelming but soon you'll remember the key points when it counts. :)

@lahitman 2 жыл бұрын

@@YourWingmam Yes it is great to know when a woman does or says something that other men often react badly to, I can stay calm and know what to do next. You are the Jedi teacher of knowledge on women and all us men just need to listen.