Stop telling people what you're up to!

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Privacy is not just a setting on your social media profiles - it is very much a way of life and in this video, we'll look at all the reasons why you should consider living a more private life. And no we're not doing this because the governments are spying on us. Actually, watch the video to know why we're doing this. And stick around till the end to see my opinion on the things we should keep private.
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Intro style inspired by the lovely Kelly Stamps
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Here are the timestamps:
00:00 Re-enacting an office incident
00:19 Why privacy is power
00:59 Avoid judgment
01:42 Storytime
01:57 You can choose not to tell
02:52 The urge for validation
03:38 Storytime
05:00 Haters are real
05:45 Storytime
06:16 You're not safe
07:23 Ok! you can tell some people
08:03 4 things you should keep private
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@AdeteDahiya Жыл бұрын

What things do you think we should keep private?

@darkphoenix29 Жыл бұрын

opinions.

@rakhisultana3056 9 ай бұрын

Relationship issues

@khushikoushik01 Ай бұрын

Family problems

@pratikshajogdand5557 Ай бұрын

Love life , goals , family issues, your happiness, your weak points, about your best friends

@sanegamer1990 Ай бұрын

Current location

@khushikashyap699 7 ай бұрын

1. Privacy is extremely important 2. Make mistakes learn grow without being judged avoid judgement 3. You're entitled to your privacy 4. The urge of validation 5. Not everyone wants to see you win 6. You're not safe it can get dangerous 7. You can tell some people 8. Keep your relationships, dreams , goals , other people secrets , mental health private

@user-ln2vf8oe2l 4 ай бұрын

Thanku ❤

@madhumaddy3179 9 ай бұрын

i recently found this channel through random suggestion ....my immediate reaction was hell !!!!! this channel and you keeping my things on track...i recently turn 20 ...and i'm a NEET ASPIRANT because of this i was struggling with depression and i feel very low these days so thought i have to restart my routine and started my selfcare by including yoga ,meditation thankfully this works and you help me a lot by giving me a vision of my bright future and thought me a valuable things...i hope that this channel grew up by helping the people like me and thank you for existing ❤

@SachinSingh-be4ds Ай бұрын

Same😅

@tukunayak2803 Ай бұрын

If you are 20 and still a neet aspirant then you might be a failure in academics cus mostly students crack jee on neet in 1 or 2 attempts So dont waste your time on social media this year and crack neet and go to aiims delhi You might think who am I to tell all these to you Well i am doing b teck from NIT Surathkal and I myself cracked JEE in first attempt If you dont crack NEET this year then you might not be cut out for the exam Try doing something else Dont take another drop please it will ruin your life And if you hate me for telling you the harsh reality so be it Mera kya ja raha hai mai toh agle saal degree bhi le lunga Agar NEET nhi hua toh nuksaan tera hoga mera nhi Acept the reality and move forward

@Oogshsjsiwijnxhsj 3 ай бұрын

I recently said a girl about my goals she isn't toxic but now am feeling i made a huge mistake even after knowing that i should keep it a secret 😅

@Harshaa03 Ай бұрын

Why tho

@mansisinha4560 Ай бұрын

sAMEE YAAR

@AnushkaJadhav-iq2np Ай бұрын

Damn the thumbnail ! She is so underrated ! Quality >>>>>>

@shyhilshah Ай бұрын

The flow of your video is cohesive. Hats off to the editor. Also, I am pretty damn sure you have wrote/journaled very intensely about privacy and all other topics related to it, for you to be compelling and very clear. Thanks for making this video.

@tilaksatra9913 Жыл бұрын

Your content with examples just makes it perfect and rich! Thank you for existing!

@asthatiwari2648 Ай бұрын

I am the kind of person who likes to tell everybody about everything I go through, where I was last night or who are my good friend is,who are not,what is my mental state at the time of speaking and how was it in the past day,you name t and everyone one will know about it, this is a kind of video I needed and a reminded that not everybody wants to know my life,I always feel like telling people everything is so much easier than keeping things private or secret, it is just so much effort to all of this and I feel like keeping things light, but ig now is the time I start making an effort. Great video, thanks!

@sattirajurnssaisatwik Ай бұрын

Watching this for ten minutes today taught me something new. Thanks!!

@irtamalik1778 Ай бұрын

You are so eloquent. Ive been watching and following foreign content creators. But you seem so relatable for us. ❤️❤️❤️

@shwetakaur7610 22 күн бұрын

Thank you so much ❤ this was much needed

@monaaveer Ай бұрын

First of all, you spoke like an OG is this aspect. You really explained well. I wanna take a moment to appreciate you for that 👏🏻 Secondly I want you to make video on how flawlessly you apply that eyeliner correctly on both the eyes. Please share it on shorts or make a reel about it. But pls remember we should be able to revisit or download it.

@pallavinm1175 Жыл бұрын

You always inspire dee...lots of love and just love❤

@yuktaaawhy 2 ай бұрын

You're like the elder sister I've always wanted! Keep up the good work adete! You're One of the few KZfaq channels I actually find value investing my time in.

@Grace_369_ 4 ай бұрын

I’m grateful for your content to help me focus on life.

@Life_Be-U-tiful 6 ай бұрын

Your channel oh my god...teaches the real way to live life

@shradhaoza Ай бұрын

So relatable and complete agree and gonna apply them in life. Great piece of advice🥺

@udayaaasritha9053 Жыл бұрын

Thank you adete, been following ur page since few days and i feel more confident abt myself and very happy thank you again, love always ❤️

@AdeteDahiya Жыл бұрын

Super glad about this :)

@AkkkashPatra Жыл бұрын

have been applying all these methods you shared. and I'm happy that no one knows much about me rather than my bestfriend. as no one knows much about me then they can't easily comment on me or can gossip about me.

@AdeteDahiya Жыл бұрын

Kudos man. Similar situation here

@thrishashree4097 Ай бұрын

Helped me alot sis❤ ur new subscriber from Tamilnadu ❤

@magoshak592 Ай бұрын

I think I'm gonna cry. You have no idea. I've been struggling with these exact things. And i needed this video so much. Thank you so much❤ may God bless you.

@AdeteDahiya Ай бұрын

Sending you virtual hugs 🤗 ❤️

@Bhattacharyyya Ай бұрын

When I finally learned to confidently say no to people, people started getting physically violent with me.

@AdeteDahiya Ай бұрын

Oh my god! Are you okay? What did you do in that situation?

@snehalsinghsumansingh4236 21 күн бұрын

Mam you are fabulous!!!! Thankyou so much ❤

@priyankavasam8769 6 ай бұрын

Very helpful video. Please make more videos on this topic, how to handle questions from people who try to intrude our privacy, how to respond to people appropriately without revealing much about us..

@parisazehra8332 Ай бұрын

Omg i just needed it!! I am an emotional girl who just shares everything with others who aren't even my close friends 😭 Thankyou so much didi You are a mentor to me Love you 😭💗

@AnkitKumar-kk3iw Ай бұрын

Koii ni yrr.....hota hai

@zubisstar508 Ай бұрын

Your communication skills are impeccable ❣️❣️👍

@12_pushpachoudhary79 Жыл бұрын

Insightful and good vibes ❤️

@Hokage982 Ай бұрын

This is me😂😂 i am very very private...people can talk to me for hours and still know my name only

@MysteryBlogger-hb9qw Ай бұрын

How do you do that ?

@_liza7 Ай бұрын

SAME DUDE 🤝🏻

@decodingneet Ай бұрын

That's bad

@AnkitKumar-kk3iw Ай бұрын

Same 😂

@copybuff3880 Жыл бұрын

its true, kuch bhi phele se batao kam kharab ho jata hai

@riyasharma7299 Ай бұрын

Wowww❤.... You are absolutely right mam ... It's happens with me many a times 👀... Now I am very private person... By the way thanks a lot for this lovely and outstanding video ❤️😇🫶

@user-ln2vf8oe2l 4 ай бұрын

Thanks a lotttt..much love❤

@jinathosain9751 Ай бұрын

woww your channel deserve atleast 2 million. you can do it let's gooo💗💗

@AdeteDahiya Ай бұрын

Yay let’s gooo

@nbdevisree2106 Ай бұрын

you are awesome! Great content👏

@AnushkaJadhav-iq2np Ай бұрын

Not even halfway through the video and already subscribed! Keep it up Adete/Aishwarya di 😄❤️

@AdeteDahiya Ай бұрын

Hahaha welcome to the club ❤️

@subhashreerout2019 11 ай бұрын

Woowww didi.. Thank u so much... U showed the real u.. Without evn oversharing❤❤

@ananya9249 Ай бұрын

I'm totally wrong person for this. I don't even share and that's the problem!

@MRafay-jf5fk Ай бұрын

Subscribed you because videos like this should be recommended to any person on this planet! specially in 2024 and Gen z and milleneals generation.

@avanshikathakur1567 Ай бұрын

I'm addicted to her videos..

@lakshmimanasamvs7833 10 ай бұрын

Awesome 💯

@prakruthiprakashgowda9078 7 ай бұрын

Fabulous content 🙌

@pieceofpeace1111 10 ай бұрын

Your videos = Perfection!💫

@AdeteDahiya 10 ай бұрын

You're the best!

@aatika.x Ай бұрын

ahhh i really neeened to ssee this i am an open book and i don't have any boundries that's something i think i should work on from now

@Education-oc7lx 10 ай бұрын

You are so knowledgeable

@wng18 Ай бұрын

great this video is for me, i understand!! 🙂😏

@theonlymaster9374 2 ай бұрын

2:00 you didn't reveal their names, but what if the other person ask who they are, you just can't escape from saying they were my x-roomies

@abhinavshrivastava4538 Жыл бұрын

Impressive, your views and subs are under-deserved. You deserve more

@AdeteDahiya Жыл бұрын

Working hard, will get there 🙏😊

@VaaniStudy 27 күн бұрын

Thanks but now i am regretting some of the things. But imma surely improve myself from now onwards thankss

@lilonesgrowingup Ай бұрын

Awesome content. I love the topics that you choose. But just a small request. Can you please work on the pauses when you talk? It becomes extremely difficult to understand the entire sentence if there are too many pauses and in places where it is not required. I had to stop and replay the video in many places to understand what you are saying

@spacedream2964 Жыл бұрын

This is a very interesting video. You're a good speaker Adete. You really kept me engaged throughout the video. Can you make a video about what things we should keep private from our parents, especially as a female. Coming from a controlling family, I'm struggling to get out of it, but subconsciously find myself "reporting" my life to them even though I'm away from home. People around me have different things they are hiding, which do and don't impress me. I need a rational viewpoint for it.

@AdeteDahiya Жыл бұрын

Hey! I can totally understand your pov because similar family situation. Let me see how this can be put in a video :)

@spacedream2964 Жыл бұрын

@@AdeteDahiya Cool, thanks!

@ManishaSharma-yj2lq 2 ай бұрын

@@AdeteDahiya please do as coming from a conservative family wedo feel guilty about hiding certain things from our parents so what should be the thought process to it

@AkkkashPatra Жыл бұрын

idk if thus happens to me but Adete dee I always get confused in one thing. i sometimes think like a 20s, 30s person but after a while i feel like I should do some bakch0di maja and all with friends (typical jese teenage ladke karte hai) fir essa feel hota hai ki rehn do. isme kya hai. rehn dete hai. normally bhi kaam jo sakta hai. sometimes i feel like doing everything calmly and quietly not zyada masti majak with friends. can you share you opinion and suggestions for me? btw I'm just 17 years old.

@AdeteDahiya Жыл бұрын

It's completely alright Akash. Hum poore time ek jaise nahi reh sakte na...toh jab serious kaam karna tab serious raho, baaki time bakchodi karne mein no burai...life is meant to be lived :D

@sanegamer1990 Ай бұрын

3.4k introverts liked this video

@bhavanarathore6203 Ай бұрын

Apki videos bhot informative hoti h khaskr glowup wali but sad thing ye ki puri videos english me h thoda dificult h puri video smjna plz ap hindi me bhi video bnaya kro its request .hindi sbko ati h bt english sbke liy smjna mushkil h

@notshaurmal 25 күн бұрын

love the nazar emoji, very south delhi lol

@AdeteDahiya 22 күн бұрын

hahaha

@shivaprasadpansare5197 Ай бұрын

I am a private person what if your online activity is hacked and then ppl tell you how are you oversharing?

@stylewithvani943 2 ай бұрын

Hii Aditi , I also start my you tube and I am so much interested in learning and help people . Can you please from where do you reasearch because it is on the point and I also want to do the same. Kindly help